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- Question: Why does everything I say to my parents come out wrong now?
- Question: Babysitting a brat...! Parents don't do anything! what should I do?
- Question: Does my mom favor my brother or is it just me?
- Question: I CANT DELETE QUESTIONS?
- Question: My parents really got on my nerves and I don't know what to do about it.?
- Question: I caught my 16 yo daughter masturbating now she won't come out of her room?
- Question: I want to end my life?
- Question: Why can't my parents let go?
- Question: What to do?
- Question: How can i convince my mom into flying to my country alone?
- Question: What's worse: to barely speak to your family, but to be in good terms, OR to see your family often only to be hurtful to each other?
- Question: Am I being abused?
- Question: Boyfriend is bi polar and an alcoholic. dont know what to do.?
- Question: My foster carers biological son sexually harrasses me?
- Question: What should I do about my stepmom?
- Question: My mom never cooks for me so I just never eat.?
- Question: My mom is racist?
- Question: My Parents Hate Me!!!!?
- Question: My mother in law is making me uncomfortable?
- Question: I hate my mom and it sucks?
- Question: Why does my mom accept financial help.?
- Question: My dad was arrested and didn't tell me?
- Question: My mom is being overdramatic?
- Question: Is regret a bad thing? Regret moving out of my brother's?
- Question: How can I forgive my father?
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- Question: Should I tell my dad I did it or lie?
- Question: What does this mean?
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- Question: My mom won't take me shopping?
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- Question: I have a problem with my mum :/?
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- Question: My father makes me feel very angry/sad.?
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- Question: Is It Normal To Fear Your Father?
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| Question: Why does everything I say to my parents come out wrong now? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 01:07 PM PDT I'm 15 and basically I've recently been feeling like I always have a foot in my mouth. I'll get irritated with something they said and when I try to say something back it always comes out wrong and makes them angry. Lately I've felt like I've been Kind of disrespectful. Can someone help me with what's going on |
| Question: Babysitting a brat...! Parents don't do anything! what should I do? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 01:06 PM PDT I'm 15 & I babysit a 7 yr old girl Anna. Anna & her parents are a low SES family. They struggled to find a sitter for the longest time b/c they don't pay much ($4/hr) & I felt bad so I stepped in. At Christmas just to be nice, I gave Anna a present. Every time I'd see her after that, she'd ask where her toy was & I explained that was a gift b/c it was a holiday. At Easter, I couldn't afford a gift so I brought over freshly baked cupcakes for us to decorate. When she saw that it was purple & not pink icing, she whined, complained &demanded to know where her "real present" was. I hate that she's acting like this & worst of all, her parents say nothing & just sit there. I work another job & have to pay my own expenses. Recently, I made a big purchase (Apple laptop) so that's why I didn't have much money. Also, I'm a teen & if I do have leftover spending money, I want to use it to go out with friends, dates with my bf or just save it. I'm this close to dropping the babysitting b/c I feel that I'm under appreciated. I don't expect thank you gifts, but a verbal "thank you" from the parents once in a while would be nice. I notice that the parents try to get out of paying me too. I asked a question like this on here before but I didn't get advice, just rude comments. I feel like if Anna came from a rich family, people would tell me to stop babysitting a spoiled brat but b/c her family is poor, the response is different. So what should I do? thanks! |
| Question: Does my mom favor my brother or is it just me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:54 PM PDT my brother is 18, I'm 17, my sister 7 and my littler sister is 3. 1 boy and 3 girls. From my childhood i remember it was always me getting in trouble. Obvious my other 2 sisters werent born yet. I was always the one getting hit. My brother world just get yelled at. Even now that he's in college and I'm about to graduate hs my mom is still all about my brother. He's the really smart one and i dont have perfect grades but I'm getting through. When he was going to graduate my mom was freaking out about it. She was so excited and now that I'm graduating, she hasnt even asked when the ceremony is. I brought it up once and she said "are you even graduating?" Come on! When my brother comes home is even worse usually theres nothing to eat and the house is a mess. But he's here and she prepares him whatever he wants, takes it to his room pretty much feeds him to his mouth. I have to make my own food for me and my sisters. Is it just me or is it bc he's the only boy? Is there something wrong with me? ive argued with her about it when i was younger like 13 and she would just leave the room. |
| Question: I CANT DELETE QUESTIONS? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:52 PM PDT oh god I can't delete questions if my parents ever saw me on this and saw I'm using these or saw I'm using questions I would be dead can I at least delete my account ?!!!! |
| Question: My parents really got on my nerves and I don't know what to do about it.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:46 PM PDT My Dad is super racist and not christian, he always has something bad to say about other people. He told me not to hang out with back people and I said OK but I hang out with some of them because some of them are super nice , but my dad thinks all of them are bad. My Mom is super religious and she jusy tattletales alot to my Dad. I am also Christian but I am not that strict like my Mom. I walk with my black friend everyone morning and afyer school too, and my mom caught me walking with my black friend and I told her to not tell my Dad and she told my Dad and my Dad kinda yelled at me today and told me to not hang out with Black people and I jusy got really upset because of that, my friend is christian and nice and they don't see that. I don't even want to be in this family, my older brother takes his anger out on me when he is angry and he bullies me. My parents just love ruining my life, I was supposed to get a laptop first but my older brother whined so much that our Dad got him one. I don't want my children to see my parents or my two brothers, my younger brother just annoys me alot. I don't any of them to be in my life anymore, as soon as I am older I wamt discharge papers and I want my name and last name changed. And right now I am going through a hard time and they don't understand, everyone in my family is smart and athletic except for me, I am average and not athletic. I tried to lose weight before and it didnt work out and my two brothers call me fat and ugly. |
| Question: I caught my 16 yo daughter masturbating now she won't come out of her room? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:42 PM PDT I walked in on my daughter masturbating. Now shes locked herself in her room and refused to come out. I know she's embarrassed but I just want to talk to her about it. She was using my dildo. Ive been seeing someone so I didn't even realize it was missing. The only thing I'm mad at her about is that she went into my room and took my things. Id just like to get her her own for sanitary reasons. Im very open about sex because its a very natural thing. She just completely freaked out and I just want her to come out so I can talk to her. |
| Question: I want to end my life? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:27 PM PDT I don't feel like living anymore. I'm 17 years old girl and I'm so shy that I can't talk to people. I feel like an outsider every where. Except with my parents and siblings. I want to end my life so badly but I can't because I don't want to put my family through the whole thing. |
| Question: Why can't my parents let go? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:26 PM PDT I' 18. I have a 4.0 GPA this semester. I'm graduating in less than a month. I'll be entering college in sophomore level classes, and I've made all As in my freshman classes. I try to help around the house. I go to church regularly. I have a driver's license, and I drive well. I try to be respectful. They even admit that I am mature for my age and they express how proud of me they are. Despite all this, they won't let my spread my wings. I'm not dying to move out or anything, but I want to grow up a little. They won't let me date, hang out with my friends, go out, drive, or anything. I understand that they love me and want to protect me, but my grandmother is actually trying to keep me at home until I'm out of college. She says she would literally die if I moved out and that she would never want to see me again. She makes me feel so guilty for trying to grow up. I don't know what to do. Am I overreacting, or are my parents controlling? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:21 PM PDT My mum has bought a dress for my birthday. But, im not sure about whether or not its worh my entire birthday. There is somthing i want alot more, but i dont think they think im serious about it. So do i let my £50 dress be the gift of the year or do i explain its lovley but there is somthing i want more?? I do liike the dress,and it would be a shame to let it go bqck but this other thing will change my life forever |
| Question: How can i convince my mom into flying to my country alone? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:13 PM PDT I will sign up for the unaccompanied minor service so i will get good care of. My mom thinks it'll be to much money but tickets are cheap right now so i need to do this fast. I am 14 and i am able to handle my self and i basically have family in my country meaning my grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins so yeah and i cant find a way to convince my mom i try to bring up the topic but she gets kinda mad. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT I have my mother's family, and my father's family. I hardly ever get to see my cousins and uncles on my mother's side. I only them at weddings and funerals. But there aren't any problems among my family and my cousins and uncles on my mother's side. We just never see each other. My father's family is something else. I've always been close to my father's family. Ever since I was kid, my cousins have always been mean to me. My father's mom has always made my mom's life miserable. I'm always fighting with my cousins. My father has tons of problems with my uncles. YET we see each other all the time. I hardly get to see my mother's family. But when I do, there's no ever any judgmental comments, there are never any hurtful remarks. I have rather bland conversations with them. I see my father's family all time. It's always to hear judgmental comments and hurtful remarks. What's worse: to barely speak to your family, but to be in good terms, OR to see your family often only to be hurtful to each other? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:04 PM PDT Hello, I am 17 years old, live with both my parents and two siblings. I have arduously researched on the subject of parental abuse, and have discovered that many of the symptoms stated apply to my life. However despite of this I still seem to resist admitting what seems to be the truth. As long as I recall my father has perpetually inflicted some sort of conflict onto me. I remember when I was about 8, we went to Mexico for the summer and one day we were at the beach with some relatives. Everything was five until my father began to criticize me for not being as active or outgoing as my Mexican cousin, of the same age was. He then told him to hit me saying I would do nothing, my cousin began to punch me and in order to appease my father I punched my cousin in the stomach, dropping him immediately. At home my father constantly yells at me, and says that I'm good for nothing, that I am lazy and has no hope for me. This hopelessness evoked from someone who is supposed to be the greatest comfort, I believe has caused many social problems in my life as I seem unable to justly communicate with anyone. I have tried to honor my father and gain some sort of appraisal by taking all AP classes and acing the majority of them, joining sports teams and competing vigorously and yet all seems to be worthless. For routinely when I get home criticism awaits me. He has also beaten me by kicking me while studying on the floor and has hit my mother as well. |
| Question: Boyfriend is bi polar and an alcoholic. dont know what to do.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT I can't just leave him. If it were family I wouldn't just write them off completely. I've known him forever. Have known his 8 yr old since she was born. He drinks on average 5 nights a week, at least a pint. Sometimes when he does, he gets soo sad and mad. Talks suicidal and yells personal sex things about me when were around his friends. Sometimes. But either way, the only thing we fight about is drinking. So in any fight he always says "why is everything always MY fault!?" he promised I'd see a drastic change but today he was drinking before noon bc it is a "nice day" (upper 50s and overcast). He's willing to get help but not go to rehab. He has no money but has Medicaid. I love him and this is the only bad thing about him. He lives with his parents, I wish they would show some tough love, but there's no way ill tell them that. |
| Question: My foster carers biological son sexually harrasses me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT I really don t know what to do, his much much younger than me (7 years old) and I m 17, i ignored it at first because he s young, but he comes across as really sexually perverse, like he s always talking about what he wants to do with female body parts e.g. "squeeze/suck up their breast and touch their private" in the most perverted un-jokey manner. The other day he said he wanted to "kiss my private" and he gropes me as i walk past him. Thing is, i tell him its disgusting/wrong/innapropriate but its become a funny game where he tries to get me as wound up as possible by doing this. He ll try and kiss my face and my arms and I always without fail threaten to tell his mum. Because he s so young (but oddly un-child like) and im much older is seems like a waste of time, she could easily chuck me out if she believed i lying. Its gotten worse the more he know he can get away with, like he ll physically try and lick me, its so abnormal. I don t know how to approach this with his mum knowing she has a habit of taking his side. He harrassed the last female foster child who was 16 and his mum ignored it. Is it normal for a 7 year old to be this openly horny and touchy freely? He does know it upsets me, he upset the last foster child and vowed to get her kicked out by upsetting her as much as he could. He also does it more because he believes i'm not really going to tell his mum, he seems to get a thrill out of knowing im too scared to say anything, he literally laughs at me when i threaten to tell, then he gives me what he thinks are bedroom eyes and walks off. |
| Question: What should I do about my stepmom? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:02 PM PDT So my dad has been married to my stepmom for like 12 years now and they just got a new house and my half brother lives there permanently. My dad and I just painted my new bedroom and set everything up and I got a new furniture. I go back and forth from my dads to my moms and I sleepover his house probably 2-3 times a week but I'm trying to come over more because I feel like I barely get to see him. My stepmom, Christine in her down time when she isn't working will redo furniture and she'll put half finished projects in my room for storage and leave them there even when I come over. Since we just moved a few months ago there's some extra stuff around the house and she put three bins of house decorations in my room and says there staying there permanently because I don't go there often. I really don't like her. She's making me feel really unwanted and it's hard for me to come over more often like I want to and my dad won't do anything about it because he's clueless. |
| Question: My mom never cooks for me so I just never eat.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:01 PM PDT Ok so im 15 and I'm never given food ever. Sure my mom buys groceries and some frozen food dishes that I make for myself because thats the only thing I know how to make (aka just pop things in the microwave), but usually there isnt really meal food in the fridge. Whenever i'm hungry for lunch, dinner, etc and there is nothing to eat my mom always tells me to eat cereal or something.. She always prepares food for herself, but never makes anything for me. My dad is always away on business trips and my brother lives in canada so I can't ask them to help me. Occasionally, when my mom knows there is really nothing to eat she won't even let me order food (and screams at me for asking). Sometimes I understand when she's really tired from work and doesn't have energy to make me anything (she is a part time teacher and is off on weekends and is home around 2 pm), but Ive been skipping meals because of it. Im not a picky eater or anything, its not like im difficult so I dont know what I can do. Even my doctor told my mom that i am underweight and dont get the right nutrients, but she still does not care. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:57 AM PDT My mom whenever she sees a black person, she tell me to not get near to them and once I answer her to stop being racist and she almost punished me without pS4 .-. |
| Question: My Parents Hate Me!!!!? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:55 AM PDT My parents are blaming me for everything! Whenever my sister does anything wrong somehow it always comes back on me! They blame me for my behavior ( telling my school counselor I am suicidal, getting angry, and never wanting to leave my room) It can't be all my fault?!?!? I really need advice on what to do! |
| Question: My mother in law is making me uncomfortable? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:52 AM PDT I live with my husband, baby boy of 4 months and mother-in-law. Ever since the baby was born she has been really on top of him, to the point that i believe she thinks she knows way better than me and I'm not completely fit to be a mother. Sometimes I believe I'm being paranoid but other times I feel like she's trying really hard to show off. She would say things like "I definitely know what I'm doing, I raised 3 kids", also abuelita knows how to do this, abuelita does so many things for you (to the baby, she's hispanic). I actually do love my mother in law, and she's generally nice to me, but I feel kind of threatened. I know I'm trying my hardest to be the best mother I could be for him and I exclusively breastfeed, however I get the feel that she thinks she's way better and it makes me really uncomfortable and sometimes sad. It would be nice if she acknowledged the things I do. |
| Question: I hate my mom and it sucks? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:50 AM PDT I'm 17. I'll be 18 in July and I'm moving into my dorm for college in August. I currently live with my dad. When I was born my mom and dad were married. My dad was my best friend. He started cheating on her in the marraige and by the time that I was 8 they were separated. the diviorce wasn't finalized until about 4 years later but my dad was very abset in my life. my mom also moved us to the city so she could get her doctorate degree. so I went from her being home every day to her never being home. I was very mad at her. I also got bullied a lot at this time. flash forward to about 4/5 years later.. I'm now 17 and I was in a lot of trouble ever since we moved to the city. even when we moved back to the suburbs I just wanted attention because I feel my mom didn't give it to me. I know now that my mom gives me everything I need but my thing is: any mistake that I make she dwells on. everybody does but she makes it so overdramatic and it hurts. even though I'm a good person and I have good grades she focuses on the negative. and if I try to tell her my feelings she calls me a brat and doesn't care. I am so tired of it so today I told her never to talk to me again. a part of me wants to let it go but a bigger part of me is really really hurt and I can't take not ever being good enough. I really try and try and try and nobody comments on my progress. what should I do? because this is tearing me apart. |
| Question: Why does my mom accept financial help.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:48 AM PDT I'm 14, and I'm wondering why my mother don't accept financial help. Everytime I tell he I can help she gets furious and says "Your 14, and you don't have any control over this house *****." She won't let me advise or accept any help. Please help me know why she want accept help. If you can help her here's her email: monki1999@yahoo.com |
| Question: My dad was arrested and didn't tell me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:47 AM PDT So my parents just got divorced. I saw in the search history on my family's shared computer my dads name and a local cities name next to it. I click on it and it said he was arrested for drunk driving and speeding a month earlier. I understand he may have been embarrassed, and I talked to my mom after. but why wouldn't he tell me? I'm still part of the family? I'm pretty mad that he didn't tell me he was arrested. that sounds like family business to me. also, he was said to be arrested on a day he went to a party that night and was arrested near one in the morning. I was at his house this day and he came home at 6 not providing any valid reason why he was home so late. also he insisted my grandma (who he lives with) to drive my little brother to his haircut the next day. maybe he got his license taken away short term? why wasn't I in on this? someone please help!! I'm worried about my dad and ever since the divorce he hasn't been acting normal...:((((( HELLPPP |
| Question: My mom is being overdramatic? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:44 AM PDT so im turning 16 in 19 days and im having a sweet 16 party this weekend for me and my best friend, we want to have balloons because its obviously a party, and i asked for a helium tank. my dad said yes but my mom freaked out saying she "knows we're going to suck the helium". everyone invited to my party is 16-18 years old, so we're obviously not going to suck the helium because we're not children. i just want to have a good time with my friends in a cute atmosphere. my dad and i were going to go get the helium tank this weekend but when i asked to go my mom said they had discussed it and theyre not letting me have the helium tank? my mom said we can just blow up balloons and have them on the ground but thats so tacky and theres going to be dancing so i don't want people to step on them. shes being overdramatic and ive tried to convince her that helium balloons arent a toy and that we arent children but she wont hear it. my mom and i usually have a good relationship and she lets me hang out with my guy friends every single weekend and trusts me with them but all of a sudden when it comes to balloons for my birthday party im 10 years old again |
| Question: Is regret a bad thing? Regret moving out of my brother's? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:42 AM PDT Okay so its almost two months since I moved out of my brother's apartment after a little tiff but I made everything okay between us before literally moving out (Which included booking a flight back to California 4 hours after the fight which was scheduled 2 days after making everything better between me and him) Now I'm back in SoCal but I am terribly missing my brother and our little home. He's a nurse and loves his job so he will probably stay in that area for a few more years. I have a degree in a different field and the area wasnt for me that's why he was suggesting for me to move back to California so I can get started with my life. I wasnt up for the plan because I would miss him and I was okay with the life i had but it wasnt okay with him because he was feeling bad for me. I am doing great here in California. Have a large amount of allowance from him to help out while im looking for a job and living with my friend for now. I have decided to join the military too which i think i would never do if i was living with my brother. Planning to start the process by mid-May if i dont get a job yet. But the question really is... Is it okay to regret moving out of our apartment? I terribly miss him and our little home. I miss doing my responsibilities at the house for me to stay there for free. And Im kind of jealous that he let his friend move into my old room.. |
| Question: How can I forgive my father? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:37 AM PDT I have resentment towards my father, and I feel very uneasy and depressed when I visit him. I drive to see him about every two weeks, mainly because he has another young daughter that I want to see. He was not around much when I was young, and when he was he put me down a lot and I dreaded seeing him. He has always put his significant other over me, and I iust never felt important. I once saw him put a gun to his pregnant wife's head. I went to sleep thinking he would kill us both. When I told my mom, she confronted him and he told her I was seeking attention. He made me feel crazy. Sometimes I question it. Everyone feels like they have to walk one eggshells around him and it's awful. If a guy I'm dating even slightly reminds me of my father, I run. I was always so afraid to stick up to him, but that has changed. Just recently I saw him abuse his dog and I absolutely lost it. I was disgusted. He's an alcoholic and treats his current girlfriend like ****. I can never look him in the eye, I just don't feel a connection to him. He doesn't really feel like a dad. I think he is the cause of a lot of my internal problems. How can I learn to forgive him? I am going to continue visiting so I need to learn how to get over all this? Please help. |
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| Question: Should I tell my dad I did it or lie? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT This is kinda a stupid question but plz answer last night I took one of my dad's drinks out the fridge and it was the only one in there but we still had a whole box left but he wants to know who did it and IDK if I should tell the truth or lie bc I'll poly get my butt whooped if I say the truth and if I lie then me and my sisters will get in trouble but my sisters deserve to get in trouble bc they steal way way more drinks then I have in a week I only took one this week they have a lot and my dad wants to know when he gets back so plz help IDK what to do! |
| Question: What does this mean? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:10 AM PDT My fiancé' aunt ask if she can be the god mother and I told her yes and she asked if I could send her pictures of my daughters size so someone can draw her what does she mean by that? |
| Question: Do all parents whoop their children with fishing poles? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:10 AM PDT My father does.. and I just wanna know if it's normal? |
| Question: My mom won't take me shopping? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:02 AM PDT It's spring and my mom refuses to take me shopping I've been asking for three weeks now and I'm going to buy the clothes myself. She says to go with my dad but I need new bras and I don't want to go bra shopping with my dad. Plus it's 70 degrees out and all I have to wear is sweaters. What should I do? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:00 AM PDT If so how and give examples. I'm taking advice from many people about a decision i'm about to make and sometimes it causes more chaos and confusion. |
| Question: I have a problem with my mum :/? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:57 AM PDT I can't stop shouting or talking back to her. I try so hard to just walk away but I just find the urge to talk back to her if she annoys me (like, major annoys me, not just like saying no to something) I love my mum so much, especially since she's a single mum and I'm her only child. She's had to raise me single handedly since i was about 4 i think with some help from grandparents, her sister and a few friends. I hate to shout at her it's awful. We're always arguing and I absolutely love the times we spend together when we're not angry at each other. (Which seems to be getting less and less) When ever we argue, she tends to ring up her sister and moan about me, which I suppose I can understand since it's good to get things off your chest and her sister might help her, but me however, I have no one. All I can do is go up to my room and try to calm my self down. It doesn't really help with the fact I don't really have friends I feel I can just call up and talk to about this, and my low level of anxiety. Btw, sorry for the length. Thank you c: |
| Question: How do I make him stop asking? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:40 AM PDT Ok so in math i am supposed to be getting an A. I have a B. The rest of my class is failing, I'm not kidding. We have a test tomorrow that we were supposed to take on Friday but she postponed it... Anyway my dad is seriously getting on my nerves because he's always telling me to download practice tests or read my textbook but I've asked him multiple times to JUST STOP but he won't. Last weekend he did it and I blew up at him. He said he would stop but nust now he just asked me. I am so FREAKING sick of it, I'm so mad i want to punch him or something. How do i make him STOP? |
| Question: My father makes me feel very angry/sad.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:39 AM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:36 AM PDT i cannot sleep last nignt I'm waiting for my girlfriend well ex girlfriend it theme broke up with me let me know if she pregnant or not she won't answer my messages i only been text her for the last all day & night . I suppose this is my punishment not going with her get the test i wish she put me out misery if i could have gone with her i would have but i grounded not like had choice |
| Question: Is It Normal To Fear Your Father? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:35 AM PDT Is it normal? I'm 15 and I'm so scared of him. I'm always wary of him. I never know when he's going to lash out. Recently, we were cleaning (he has an obsession with it from baseboards and up, not one thing left or he'll whoop us) He's racist and fat. And he has a chest problem. He's been through a lot… Anyway, so we were cleaning and I missed the corner where the lid and toilet meet, the corner of that. He pointed it out so I pointed to it to make sure, he got mad and yanked me by my hair and dragged my face to it… I was shaking and crying when he left. I had to hide and cry because he'd get even angrier, if he saw me cry.. He said every kid was smarter than us and calls us stupid bitches. ***** is his favorite word for us… Anyway is this normal? For parents to be like this? To fear him? He even said he makes us fear him so we won't go against him, do all parents do this? |
| Question: My parents are making my life hell? Please give me advice? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:26 AM PDT They are separated spending money on lawyers and I barely have anything because of it. They make me and my little brothers life horrible because of their fights and what they say to each other, theyve tried for years to try and work things out but they never have I went with m dad this weekend and got closer to him and had a great time, he took me back to my moms house and I went to my room and started catching up on home work after I was done I heard them in my moms rooms together doing "it" and for some reason that disgusted me. I'm sitting here crying, they're such children it honestly disgusts me, they are getting divorced, they've put me through hell, and now they're doing this. Their fights are awful, they hate each other, I don't want them back together it will never work out, this is literally killing me it's so gross. Why are they doing this I know they heard me run to my room and they probably can hear me cry. This absolutely disgusted me I honestly feel like I'm about to puke, and this really hurt me. Please someone tell me what to do |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:20 AM PDT My aunt and uncle are fraternal twins (my moms brother and sister) so I was wondering if I would have twins or my cousin will |
| Question: I have parent problems? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:19 AM PDT I'm a son of a dad and mom still together. A sister too. There's been problems over the years that caused me confusion and pain emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. It has not left. I believe in God and He's the only one I really want to trust in. Literally. My Dad has more of an impact on my life than anyone else and I just don't want to be around him anymore. No more. Its just a truth about me. I'm still scared to talk to my Dad about things because he just might shut me down and not believe in me much like I felt he treated me back in the day. I can bare being alone but it hurts me. It hurts me to just be myself. I don't talk about much to anybody and all anybody reacts is judgemental, or treating me unfair. I work so hard and still feel like i get nowhere. I try harder no to explode in different types of emotions so I just try and keep quiet. My job currently stresses me out and my Dad helping me work on my car but he just blows it off and when I think about if I could have more of a say, I would have been done and on the road by now. I know what I can do, how much potential I have but no one else knows how I really am. Through God I can do all things. Its hard mentally to keep going through all how people just seem to not care. Every time I leave the house my mom goes out of her way to say Love You!,but I feel pain from her telling me that. Why is this? Why is it people tell me I'm wrong when I'm not trying to be wrong? I just want to be me and live a life that I like |
| Question: What should I make for my mom for Mother's Day? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:17 AM PDT I'm 17 but I don't have a job so I can't buy anything. My mom doesn't really like blingy things. I have some experience with 3D modling so I was thinking of doing a 3D print of something but I don't know what. I know this isn't your mom but I just want a little help. Thanks in advance!! :) :D :P |
| Question: How do you ask someone why they hate another person? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 10:15 AM PDT my brother absolutely hates my dad for no reason. i want to ask him why, but i don't know how to approach it without making him mad. they fight a lot, and i can't live with it anymore. any ideas? |
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| Question: I'm 13, and my mom threatened me to ship me off to the Philippines? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:58 AM PDT Okay, so we were supposed to go to the Philippines around a week ago, when my renewed passport came in. My mom thinks it's SO important for me to go on this trip, and for a long time I've been thinking it's because she wants to ship me off. She's always threatened me that she's going to, but I don't even get why. I'm a decent student, I'm not the best or the smartest but I get decent grades. A's and B's, and I've never gotten in trouble in school, not even detention. My record is completely clean. So my mom shipped my little brother to the Philippines 8 years ago when he was 2, and he came back when he was 5. I'm very worried because some kids of my generation are doing drugs, smoking "weed", having sexual intercourse and getting pregnant, yet my mom's shipping me off because apparently "I'm not disciplined and I'm very stupid, I don't know how to clean" and I'm just going to throw this out there, but that's bullshit. I'm worried because I have a goal, I want to attend Princeton University school of Architecture to fulfilled my dream of being an interior designer. Is this legal? Can she actually ship me off to a foreign country without me having a say in it? I'm a 13 year old female. Also, my mom has threatened me numerous times and I'm also wondering if I could call child services. The thing is I don't want my mom to get arrested. Also, she annoys my very much, as in she's distracting. She scolds me very often, and is in the way of me getting my homework done and studying for upcoming exams and finals that are in less than a WEEK. |
| Question: Adopted sister feels lesser than me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:57 AM PDT Hi yahoo, i have a big problem. My mom couldn't have kids at the time so she adopted my bigger sister then she had me 3 years after. My sister has always felt like I get more than her and she thinks my mom treats her like dirt but in reality my mom really struggles to pay for both of us and she tries her best to make both of us happy. She claims her friends see the difference between me and her and how much I get compared to her. She says **** my family and me and that she doesn't give a **** about us. Can you please help me? I want to speak to her and tell her how much our mom struggles to make it equal for us but I don't know how to explain it.. Can you please help this division? She also feels like my mom did bad stuff to her over the past year but she really didn't. Its built in her head since she feels like since she's adopted she's not really apart of the family. |
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| Question: Do people troll a lot and ask 'fake' questions here? How to spot it? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:50 AM PDT Sometimes I fall on a seemingly genuine question about grave family/ marriage problems and then some people would answer that the story isn't true/ great soap/ happy trolling and things like that. I wonder if the asker is indeed faking a question (why on earth would one do that?), OR the answerers are the real trolls? Sometimes I clicked on the answerers' profile and they do give thorough answers for other questions, so I wonder if the answerers can really spot a faked problem? But I don't know how. The questions seem utterly genuine. If I'm asking, it's because I'd like to know how to sort questions. It'd piss me off to spend some time to give real answers and it's just a faked problem (although I'm still amazed at the thought why people would spend time to fake a seemingly authentic problem. Does it give them a sort of satisfaction?). Like the most recent post on the Family section: "My sister is having an affair and I'm torn between keeping it secret or working it out?". Is it fake or not? Thanks! |
| Question: My sister is having an affair and I'm torn between keeping it secret or working it out? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:40 AM PDT I won't go into details but I've found proofs which strengthen my suspicion that my elder sister is having an affair with one of her colleagues. I haven't confronted her, and Idk if I should. I sympathized with her husband, b/c he's actually a good guy, but from the beginning I know their relationship is going to be difficult. My sister was (and still is!) a party girl, and her husband is a lot calmer, but they're more suitable to be friends. I think my sister's attraction to him is almost purely physical (and also b/c he's nice, of course), whereas I don't know why he could fall in love with her in the first place (my sister is pretty, definitely not stupid, but not the right woman for him; he's a university lecturer, btw., and my sister works in fashion industry, and she likes to have a lot of fun). They're still young (late twenties) and don't have kids yet. I'm torn. I like my brother-in-law and I think he's going to be a great father to my future nephews/ nieces. I'd like to keep him in the family. He's clueless about the affair and will remain so because he's that type of naive guy. But I feel guilty if I don't do something. However, if I do something, I'm afraid my family will think I'm jealous. They used to tease me for having crush on him. Even if it's true, and even if they do separate, now that he's been with my sister, I wouldn't be with him at all cost. That's just not ethical. In fact I'm torn between keeping him in the family or disclosing the truth. Any idea? |
| Question: What can i do about my brother who is like a metaphorical lock? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:36 AM PDT OK it's not entirely bad but I only see him at weekends but he hangs around me like a permanent shadow when he gets time off work and doesn't really hang around with his few friends. It has been this way my whole life, i just couldn't reason with him as to why I would like to leave my country and live somewhere abroad for a few years guilt free, he just wouldn't understand why I would want to do that on account of the fact he has an intellectual disability and doesn't grasp my wanting to be free to roam away from the family unit for a while. I feel I will never achieve any if these plans as long as he is around. |
| Question: My sister tells me everything? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:32 AM PDT Hi! I am 13 years old and my sister is 18 and is going to college in the fall. We are very close and can tell each other anything. She tells me everything. I don't mind it, I like how she shows that she can trust me. I just thought I'd ask if it is weird that she tells me everything. What do you guys think? Thanks! |
| Question: My brother hates my dad? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:29 AM PDT i know i just asked this question, but i dont know what to do. my brother always tells my dad to shut up or go away. my dad has been trying to control his anger, but i don't think he can anymore. i dont want things to get physical. my dad just told my brother to go on a walk and said " if you're not gonna talk to me, why dont you just leave?" i dont know how to fix this or what to do. i dont want things to get any worse than it already is. my brother has aspergers and doesnt listen to anyone. it makes me so anxious and scared. will it always be this way? |
| Question: My mom wants to follow me to college?? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:26 AM PDT I'm a junior in high school, picking colleges to apply to in the fall. Anyway, most of the colleges I picked are out of state and one is in state. My mom insists that if I move, she will follow me and go with me. She is a single mother. I understand where she's coming from, the main reason she wants to move is because she is worried about my safety and because my paranoid grandmother (who lives far far away) always tells her that I'm still a little kid (I just turned 18) and that she should follow me to college wherever I go. I know how selfish it is of my grandmother to say this to my mom but my mom listens to everything the woman tells her to do. Keep in mind, I feel like I am more response than my peers and actually know what the world is like and have more experimence since my mom and I basically act like roommates, I pay for a lot of my own expenses and have been driving since 16, I feel fully capable of living alone (besides minor finances such as phone bill, which she said she will pay for) Also, my mother is Russian and she didn't go to college here, she doesn't know what it's like, it's scary to her that kids leave their parents and move across the country to go to a college. I understand that, but how do I convince her that she's just going to ruin her own life by moving there with me? I mean, I won't see her much and I feel as if she will be disappointed with me if she goes with me because she will see more of me and the way I am with friends? I don't know |
| Question: Could I stay with my girlfriend and her parents if my dad has custody of me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:24 AM PDT Okay so recently my mom decided to attempt suicide because tons of stress has built up (I live with her) and so my dad and my moms dad had to fly out to our state(we live in the US). Cps allowed me to stay the night at my girlfriends the other night and then my dad has custody of me now because of what happened. Anyways, my moms dad wants to take my mom to his state and she would have to go through processes in order for me to be in her custody again and so since I'm in my dads custody could I go be with my girlfriend and her family until my mom can do that which would be a couple of months? My moms dad is saying I couldn't do that because of the state but I think I could since cps told my dad and I that the decisions were up to us. So could I go with them for a few months or no? Please respond, thank you. |
| Question: My parents always comment on the acne? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:17 AM PDT My acne is getting bad and it's really red and now my parents act like there disappointed in me because I have acne. I don't understand because I can't control my acne. Out out nowhere my dad just goes "your acne is so bad honey" or "ew don't your acne it's disgusting" with such a disproving tone. I wash my face and I'm doing all I can to get rid of it. Is there anything I can say next time they comment on my acne to make them feel bad and stop? I am 14 years old and I do really well in Athletics and in school, I got 98% tile for the ACT's and for lacrosse I am joining high school varsity and for volleyball I am joining high school JV yet they still like to bring me down. Help? |
| Question: How to handle the future?i have no one.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:15 AM PDT hey guys i insulted my older half sister.we both told that we won`t talk again.basically she is very greedy and blocked my future.i don`t even talk to my mother and i don`t talk to my other sister and also my older brother.you might think that it`s my fault but it`s not and i only have my dad.i don`t even want to talk to them anymore.the truth is i want to be that strong person and i want to overcome all these problems by my own and just be the most successful man.how can i forget the things and focus on school.i don`t want you guys to say that i should forgive them, because they hate me too. |
| Question: Can my baby's father get custody if he lives with his parents who smoke weed? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:15 AM PDT The father of my baby lives with his parents and has told me he will have his parents babysit when he works shifts and has visitation at the same time. I don't feel comfortable letting my kid in that situation of having weed in the house at all, but especially when he plans to leave her with his parents. Is there any way I can prevent my child from even being in this house, let alone the situation? |
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| Question: What to get a 13 (going on 14) year old girl for her birthday? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:08 AM PDT My niece's birthday is right around the corner, and I need gift ideas! She doesn't wear make up and specifically said 'don't get me anything expensive'. We got her a few cute animal phone cases, but we need a few extra things. She is into everything 'fandom' and is not girly what so ever. Help! |
| Question: Should I be worried about my daughter? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:58 AM PDT My daughter is 15 going on 16 yrs old. About 6 months ago, she went from a bubbly, laughing, no worries kind of teenager to one that's closed off, somber, & barely laughs. It has me worried. Also, she use to talk to me about anything & everything. Now, she's completely closed off, like she put up a wall. I don't know how to deal or what to do. Can someone give me some advice? |
| Question: How can I get my sister to stop annoying me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:53 AM PDT |
| Question: How can i change my last name to mums maiden name? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:51 AM PDT I am ashamed to have my father's last name. He makes me feel sick and I am embarrassed to call him my dad. My parents are divorced. My dad is nothing but a junkie and he doesn't treat my sister and I as 'family'. I have so much hate for him that makes me want to decapitate him for putting us in hell. He tears families apart and causes ****. He's been brainwashing my sister and she suddenly blocked me on fb it caused me to feel heartbroken. Dad has no empathy for anyone. He is a heartless evil soul that can rot in hell with satan. I wish I had a better loving responsible dad than that stupid prick. Makes me want to throw a glass bottle at him. I want to forget that he is my dad. He broke my trust for all these years I cannot trust anyone anymore. He failed to be a better parent and I don't want anything to do with him. I don't want him on my birth certificate or especially his last name. I want my mums last name as I'm close to her family rather than my dads. How can I change it legally? |
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