Summary: I'm leaving my family need advice on how to bear through it knowing it'll make my parents hurt and upset and what I could say to make it easier. details:I live my with mom who has a strong personality, christian beliefs, & closed minded.. my father who says to just be quiet& do as I'm told w/o talking about it. And my sister mid 20s who is socially weird and stays home all day and I am forced to stay too to take care of her. My brother also didn't like them left 10 yrs ago. (he's 28) I have no privacy, they regularly go through my things and put a stopper on my door so its always open. I get told God will punish m. When I date one guy I feel obligated to keep it going though I'm unhappy b/c my mother will call me an unstable slut if we break up bc she doesnt understand it doesn't work out sometimes (shes very old fashion) and I'm not allowed to have a different point of view. she says "I know I'm not open minded and I dont care. Do as I say because I'm your mother" My father tells me what I can and can't do b.c I'm a woman. ex:Im not allowed at LA Fitness at night because thats not a place for a young lady. He hates that I like lifting. I have to childishly leave my house in secret b.c i know for a fact they will take my car away (its in my name AND my fathers name so he can take it) or do whatever they can to make sure I stay (I've asked, they won't let me leave) (I have a job, got to school, and have a budget plan. scared of hurting them is all thats left)

My ex-husband has been filling my 16 year old sons head with false information about myself. I do owe a little child support, and stay at home to care for my other 2 daughters while my fiancée works and helps support. Now, my ex has been making my son come home at 4 o clock on Sundays just because he was 10 minutes late the most recent time (and he made him go home at 5, when I'm almost sure it's 8) so now he says he'd like to live with me because of multiple legitimate reasons, can we make it happen?

My mom took my phone and ipad away because of 1 two Ds on my report card 2 bad attitude to my science teacher 3 fooling around during my tutor sessions I have apologized and have tried to do better but she still says I have to wait 2 weeks at minimum and it could be until September depending on my behavior I dont know what to do and I need my phone for numeros reasons along with my ipad please give me some tips on how I could get it back quicker.

Okay, so I'm 11, and don't tell me I'm too young to run away because I'm not, and at school I am constantly being teased and harassed by these other girls in my class that totally hate me for no reason, and my babysitter (ive told my parents i dont need one but they insist i do) doesnt like me and treats my sister way better than me, and my parents yell at me constantly just for being mad, and my sister is really obnoxious and rude to me ALL THE FRICKIN TIME! I cant even go to school for an hour without being harassed by this group of girls, and everyone else seems to absolutely despise me and I dont know why!!!! I want to run away and i want one of my 4 friends to come with me but i dont think she will come and she is the only one who can come with me because she is the only one that really will get why i want to leave. The only reason i havent run away yet is this one boy in school that i really really like.

I'm not trying to sound stuck up or anything but I think my sisters are jealous of me. I have 1 older sister and 1 sister that's the same age of me. I used to be really close with them but now we've kinda separated considering we don't live together. They've gotten really close with eachother and now each time I visit them they seem to gang up on me. For example I went to their house this weekend , I usually put my hair in the same style but I've decided to change it up recently and put it half up half down. As soon as I got in the car they were like um no stop , it's a no for me , ew this isn't the 90's . They do this each time I look good. They'll go on my Instagram and be like ew why are you making this face or if you don't stop sticking out your tongue . The one that's my age was like "did you wear your hair like that to school" I told her I didn't go to school today but I have worn it like that and I've gotten at least 10 compliments. Honestly everyone was saying how pretty I looked and stuff like that. It kinda upsets me because they always try to bring my confidence down. I don't have an ego but I know I'm pretty , everyone says it to me all the time , their the only ones who try to bring me down. Here's another example : they were complaining about hair on their stomach so I looked at mine and was like eh I have a little and then they said I make them sick with a disgusting face . How do I handle this , it's getting out of hand.

He has a good job, I'm 20 he's 27 We have a 1 year old son together, He's not sweet, he's mentally&emotionally abusive, he ignores me all day sometimes for no reason, I cook and clean and support him through his job. He gives me 100$ for a week, I spent it in 4 days on food for me & baby because he hasn't gone grocery shopping in weeks. Me and baby went to visit his grandma yesterday and I asked him for 20$ for my cab back home and he started yelling at me "we haven't had sex in 4days" he gave me the 20 after begging, and he argues over lots of little things.. It's been 2 years I'm physically & emotionally drained I've done everything for this man and he is still not happy so I accepted this. A few months ago I caught msgs in his email he was trying to get prostitues online but he denied every meeting with them, he always Denys cheating. My mother wants me to stay with him because of his job so whenever I tell her my problems she just asks me what did I do wrong... My only concern is he is my sons father, my son is so used to seeing him,being with him and waking up to him. I love my baby and I feel the relationship with his father is taking a toll on my parenthood. This has been one of my worst relationships ever I feel like I can't breathe and I'm walking on eggshells around him, when he is home I feel like a 10 pd weight on my chest and very tired.. Please I just want opinions weather they be good or bad I need to hear the truth and don't sugar coat it,

I know this is a repost, but the first time I asked some retard made a rude comment lol. Sara Avatar Sara ✉ Mail ⚙ Help Answers Home Notifications Frozen All Categories Arts & Humanities Beauty & Style Business & Finance Cars & Transportation Computers & Internet Consumer Electronics Dining Out Education & Reference Entertainment & Music Environment Family & Relationships Food & Drink Games & Recreation Health Home & Garden Local Businesses News & Events Pets Politics & Government Pregnancy & Parenting Science & Mathematics I lived out of the country for several years and then I came "home." I regret it now, and it was a mistake. I thought it was a good idea but now I wish I hadn't. I love my mom but she is driving me crazy. I get irritated, then feel guilty, because one day she'll be gone and in retrospect I'll see how I wasted time getting irritated. I just need my AIR! My (step)brother is annoying me so bad that I want to kill myself. I play the guitar and I NEVER get to practice because he screams and throws a fit. I KNOW I suck at it but I want to be great and become famous someday... how can I get any good at it if I NEVER practice? If I had a chance to practice I would get good. Do you know what pisses me off? All these people I love, and need, have either died or are estranged. I'm always lonely, but I am never alone. I need some solitude and time for myself. I need to be alone so BAD! I'm burned out from never getting any "me" time or being home alone. I don't have a paying job right now, just an unpaid internship (something in medical). Even if I had a paying job, I don't want to move out because I don't like the town I lived in and I don't wanna pay to live in a sh*t hole. No guys, no opportunities, the nearest ocean is THREE hours away and I deeply need to be close enough to the beach to go every day. I'm from a coastal town in Florida, and we moved to a landlocked NC town when I was in high school. Being landlocked seriously steals my peace and my current hometown is sucking the life from my bones. I've had panic attacks and medical problems like bladder infections, my vision is horrible, and I know it's from the stress of living here!

I know this is a repost, but the first time I asked some retard made a rude comment lol. Sara Avatar Sara ✉ Mail ⚙ Help Answers Home Notifications Frozen All Categories Arts & Humanities Beauty & Style Business & Finance Cars & Transportation Computers & Internet Consumer Electronics Dining Out Education & Reference Entertainment & Music Environment Family & Relationships Food & Drink Games & Recreation Health Home & Garden Local Businesses News & Events Pets Politics & Government Pregnancy & Parenting Science & Mathematics Social Science I lived out of the country for several years and then I came "home." I regret it now, and it was a mistake. I thought it was a good idea but now I wish I hadn't. I love my mom but she is driving me crazy. I get irritated, then feel guilty, because one day she'll be gone and in retrospect I'll see how I wasted time getting irritated. I just need my AIR! My (step)brother is annoying me so bad that I want to kill myself. I play the guitar and I NEVER get to practice because he screams and throws a fit. I KNOW I suck at it but I want to be great and become famous someday... how can I get any good at it if I NEVER practice? If I had a chance to practice I would get good.

Can i live there and is the house expensive ? Can i enroll my daughter in to a school there?

So my bro is 18 almost 19 as he doesn't go to school or have a job and he treats my mom like complete ****. She says she can't kick him out of the house ( which she obviously can). How can I convince my mom to kick him out?

This is a conversation between the mother and father of a 23 month old boy. The boy lives primarily with mom. She lives in a home with a bf who abuses her. He verbally abused her and has hit on 2 occasions that dads aware of. Dad is going for temporary custody to remove son from situation. This is a conversation via text message. It was copied and pasted. The dad was trying to ask for the child just until the mom was able to get a place of her own so that the child would not be around the abuse. Dad: Mason needs to get out of there. He should stay here until you get a place Mom: HOWIE U PUT THAT LIKE IV never TryD to get HIM AN ME In a DIffernt place An ur proubly going to tell thee judge like iv never TryD to get HIm AN me In to a differnt place Dad: Nobody said you aren't trying to get Mason out of there. But you act more concerned with whether or not you'll get to see him everyday, when your main concern should be his wellbeing. It is not best for him to stay in a home with domestic violence/abuse. It affects him very poorly to be around that stuff. Mom: NouthINg Is wroung wIth our soN

I used to attend school every day, and as i was at school i would get really good grades! teachers told me i was a bright and smart student as well! Within the second semester (I forgot to include that i am a sophomore and am 16 years old) of school, things were still going pretty well, until many things between my family and I were falling apart. Now, not living with any of my parents is one thing, it's slightly difficult but the reason for that is because my mom is and has been in jail, she recently had overdosed on drugs. My father is homeless and is currently living in his car as i am living with my grandparents. Within my living situation and hearing about my parents back home was and has been so overwhelming for me. Solely because i hadn't grown up in the brightest patch either but I won't go in too much detail into that. I have been missing so much school, I am aware, and i'm just so scared that I will not be successful or pursue my dreams..i'm scared that i will someday end up like either of my parents. But as of now, i'm beginning to accept my failure, i have no one but myself to motivate ME, but that is not helpful...i'm worrying so much and overthinking my whole life situation constantly, and i just hate facing people at school as well because they aren't making things any better for me...I hate the poor decisions i'm making and i know i should change things but it is just so difficult for me..help. (I apologize if this didn't make sense 😅)

I am 13 years old, and not realizing my mom was home, I was masturbating with my bedroom door open. She was at the laundromat, so I thought I had time to myself. But she happen to walk into my room while I was masturbating on my bed. I thought she was gonna yell at me, because she caught me looking at naked women on my iPad. but she just smiled and, moved her fist like she was jerking and said "beat it like it owes you money" and walked out and closed my door. The thing is that my mom is very cool and laid back, and a lil ghetto fabulous. Lol. and since i'm the only male in the house (I have two sisters who are 10 and 15), she doesn't make a big fuss about nudity in the house. So I think becuz our dad is not in out life, my mom tries to fill in and does her best to encourage me to play with myself since I'm growing up and she's worried that I'll be having sex soon.

So my niece comes over every Friday to my house and i texted her mom so i could have her and do something fun and she said "no she is grounded for a month for doing bad things at daycare" I instantly got mad because when i was 7 i would Usually get timeout when i did something bad. There is no way talking her mom out of this she is so thick headed! Just wanted your opinions if a month for a seven year old is a little too much.

My mom never buys me things I need like body wash, pillows, toothpaste, stuff like that. I need those things, but I always have to buy them myself. It's really stressful for me because she has priorities with her money. She doesn't make a lot but she goes out all the time and spends money on alcohol and weed. I'm only 14, it's ridiculous and I'm done taking care of myself all the time. We barely have any functional food. We have stuff like ramen, bread, Mac and cheese, and all the stuff only she eats. I know it's hard being a single mom but... Idk. I only babysit because I'm not old enough to have a job and I'm already trying to save up for my school trip to Europe next year. I can't keep spending 50 dollars every month on basic necessities.

I lived out of the country for several years and then I came "home." I regret it now, and it was a mistake. I thought it was a good idea but now I wish I hadn't. I love my mom but she is driving me crazy. I get irritated, then feel guilty, because one day she'll be gone and in retrospect I'll see how I wasted time getting irritated. I just need my AIR! My (step)brother is annoying me so bad that I want to kill myself. I play the guitar and I NEVER get to practice because he screams and throws a fit. I KNOW I suck at it but I want to be great and become famous someday... how can I get any good at it if I NEVER practice? If I had a chance to practice I would get good. Do you know what pisses me off? EVERYONE that I've ever loved, or needed, has either died, or is estranged from me. And the people that I want to be away from, are in my space and in my face. It's Spring... I waited for what seemed like an eternity and I can't even go outside and enjoy the sun. I probably sound grumpy and mean, but I get annoyed whenever someone else is outside on the porch, or when I see his f*cking car in the driveway. I have no rights in my house. I don't have a paying job now, just an unpaid internship, and I feel helpless and run ragged. I am always lonely, but NEVER alone! I never get to sing, or just cry, or spend time with myself, there is always someone around and there is always something to do. I'm just going to lose it one day soon. I feel overwhelmed. I feel like all the life has been sucked from my bones and like there's nothing left of ME. I need to just take a hiatus from life and just go to a beach or something to heal from the traumas I've been through (I've been through living hell in the past two years, the loss of loved ones, a rough breakup, and a suicide attempt), but I don't even have money or a way to earn it. I've burned out. @sleepinglive: I asked for advice about how to get alone time, not to be judged. I'm not a child, I am a young woman with a VERY hard life. My cousin died of a drug overdose last summer, my boyfriend broke up with me, everyone is either dead or estranged, and my dog died. I work HARD at my internship, and I work in the medical field. You know, saving people's LIVES. All you do is jump at me with your claws.

My parents are working and i m looking after my brother who is 11. He wont listen to anything i say. He was told to go for a bath at 7 which he went but he wasn t even in there for 5 mins so when he got out i told him you weren t in there for long and he said "i don t care i can get clean in 2 mins" so whenever i tell him to clean up he will moan and say no and go back to his game, So i turned the wifi off and he still didn t do it so i tried to take his laptop off him but he kicked me straight in the stomach, as he is taller and much bigger than me. So i pretended to call our mother and i told him "mum said you need to listen to me because i m in charge" and he replied with "you re not an adult, you re not in charge even if mum says so". So i turned the wifi on without telling him and hes come down saying he is going on his xbox so i replied with "no becaus ei have the tv on" so now hes searching for a phone book because he gonna ring our dad. Please i don t know what to do he wont listen to me, i m 16 by the way i just need some advice.

Ok so I asked my friends this question as well and they refered me to yahoo. Ok so this might sound silly of me but I haven't been doing my work for the past few weeks, and my dad is fed up with it. So he said it your not caught up by the time I get back I will whoop you. He will be gone for about 4 hours but trust me, I'm not stupid I cant possibly get caught up that fast please help me! I can't stay with friends on the week days or neighbors I was thinking about getting a backpack and some cloths and food to pack and and run away for a few days, I would probably sleep under a building or under house or in a store. I know I should have done my homework but someone just help,he will hurt me. He's a good farther, he's just fed up but still I can't take any chances.Btw I'm 15 but im a small guy im only like 95 lbs please be nice I need help.

That should be "touched" her son's... She had a horrible fight with my adult children before all this lying started, and now we don't talk to her. She's nothing but trouble, and this is her sick way of getting back at us. I'm completely appalled by this! Family or no family, this lady has gone off the deep end, and I want no part of it.

no i'm not trolling. if you don't believe me just don't answer. i don't want any perverts either. i'm 16 and I burned my 9 year old cousin with my hair straightener (he was being a brat and annoying the s*** out of me). My uncle said he would spank me with his hand on my bare butt on thursday evening. i'm really nervous because i've never been spanked before!!!!!!!!!! does it hurt a lot? is there anything you would compare it to so that i can imagine it? im also really embarassed im going to show him my a** and all, im so nervous i cry when i think about it too much. thanks oh and also how long does the pain last? is it hard not to wince when you sit? (don't want my friends to know) Rivky: i can't get out of it because my parents agree and will make me do it :(

It's been going on for so long now but yesterday was the worst. The horrible thing about it all is that i don't remember a thing, my little sister who sleeps below me on the bottom bunk got so scared she had to walk out the room and sleep with my mum. My mum who sleeps in a different bedroom said i was shouting and making so much noise yelling things like no!! and stop and shouting in my sleep. I was being violent punching the walls and bed frames, kicking etc. waking them up. I just want to know what is going on, I don't like hearing it from my family i wish i would just remember what i dreamt of or what happens in these sleep experiences. i went on this christian website and it said i was being attacked by a demon, that scared the life out of me. I would appreciate any kind of helpful answers, I'm muslim but would like islamic or christian perspectives of what this might be. I researched about sleep paralasys but that just doesn't feed my curiosity.

I go to university, and I just got back. So I have been back about one week. I have applied to 8 jobs so far, so I'm just waiting to hear back. I exercise every day (I ride my bike, or go to the gym). Other times I read or watch TV or play music. I almost never go out but if I do I am always home by 1:30am MAXIMUM. Usually much earlier. But when I sleep late my mom comes in my room five thousand times and yells at me. She came home at 12:30 and I was still in my room (I was reading!) and she started screaming "are you kidding?!?". She sort of yells at me all day for small things but she really yells at me when I sleep. She gets so mad. It stresses me out so much that I tend to wake up at like 9 and sort of drift in and out for hours because I can't sleep comfortably because I know she's going to yell at me but I fall asleep late because I also have trouble falling asleep. I like to be awake at night because I get socially anxious and at night no one is awake and it's quiet - it's subconscious; I've been this way since I was a young kid, always awake when everyone else was asleep. So I sleep in late sometimes. But I can't and I'm tired of her screaming at me. I'm 19 years old and I am a super good kid (no drugs, no alcohol, no partying, no boyfriend). But my mom literally screams at me for this and acts like I am garbage for it. She will just tell me how lazy and pathetic I am for sleeping in. And other small tiny things. Beyond reason. Its stressing me out what should I do! I shouldn't say I almost never go out - I do go oiut during the day. What I mean is I rarely stay out late or anything like that.

okay first off do not even try to call me spoiled because i didn't come here to get lectures about how you would love to go in my place. well basically, in 2 days our family is going to montenegro with my dad's coworker and his wife. i am 14 years old and my parents do not understand that i don't find it interesting to hang out with 40 year old people (my brother and i don't get along anyways). and we're going with our camper. i used to love fam vacations because we went to all these cool places but i guess i've changed now and i don't want to go. if i go, it means 1 week without privacy, showering, wifi and we'll fight all the time. i also have 8 exams in may and i can't study in our camper. my mom is just making fun of me when i beg her not to go. me and my family fight more and more and if we're going to spend 1 week in a super small camper, i'm going to go insane. pls help as fast as possible

I want to shave my head for cancer awareness week at school ($10 that id pay), and I recently became vegan. I've been vegetarian for over 8 months before that. My mom said I'm selfish for only thinking of myself. Thoughts?

hello everyone out there, I was told today that my "father" isn't my real father and that he adopted me. I do know well that I should appreciate the fact that he still decided to take me in, but it's just that i can't get my thoughts together on who is my real father. It is frustrating and I started questioning myself who i am...who my real father is? Any help or advice? Thank you

I don't know anyone in her family except for her, her mom, her grandma, and her niece. How do I survive

Hey i am 19 years old still leave with my mother i was drinking when i stole my mom car and when i came back she slapped me hard in the face i started telling her to not hit me then i blacked out and hit her back and broke her car windows i feel bad ,people are saying i was drugged with a pill but no one knows and i dont remember been drug with a pill i need advice what can i do she gave me a big hug and started crying i saw the suffering of my mother and the way she cryed i feel like a monster like i am not me i feel so bad i want cut of my arms ;(

there is this tutor I worked with in college for my math class. She is about 29 and I am 23. One thing I notice My class ended but I still see her around a lot on campus and we chat a lot. I have asked questions about this situation before. I realize I have a big crush on her and think about her a lot, but I have zero chance with her because she is engaged and she is older. But despite that I have developed some kind of obsession with her. I think about her all the time and the last time we spoke I secretly switched the recorder on my phone on and recorded the entire conversation, and I listen to it over and over This girl is also rather touchy feely, always patting me on the back or shoulder or side. I wonder why. also, she was my tutor but I still see her around and we chat. She was the one that initiated the first conversation when she saw me, I never initiate conversations with anyone let alone girls I can't stand that she is with another guy, whenever I see that ring on her finger I want to grab it and smash it to a million pieces. I also like to take a piece of paper and cut it up pretending it is her fiance, I can't stand. it. I can't believe I am not with and I never will be. It makes me sick. I want to kill him. I really do. The only reason why I won't do it is because it is against the law and I will go to jail I imagine killing him by stabbing him or strangling him usually.

I gave a toddler a piece of pineapple to eat and my grandma disliked my action and came up to me in discretion that i cant do that and be giving any slices of what we got.... The boy came by with hes dad because hes dad is working on my grandpas truck and the boy came along and he was alone so i just felt to do that. Is that wrong to make such a wreck about that?

My friend's parents somehow went through her snapchats and caught her doing something she wasn't supposed to. (It wasn't nudes or anything). I haven't done anything wrong, but now I'm paranoid. I deleted my snapchat account, so can my parents still hack into it or do whatever my friend's parents did and go through it?

And how different would you say communication and relationships were different then than they are now?

I'm not saying like coloring your hair that day for the funeral. But what if you just always have crazy colored hair and suddenly you have a funeral to go to. Should you completely change your hair to a normal color becaouse of that one day or is it alright to leave it?

He was abusive, especially towards me. Did drugs. Disappeared for days at a time. Drank excessively. Was not there for my sons when they were growing up. One of my sons carries around a lot of pain and anger. My ex will be 66 years old. He needs to give my sons some kind of closure, some kind of apology. "I'm sorry I wasn't the father I should have been. I'm sorry I hurt you". The loose ends need tied up. I see behaviors coming from my sons repeating their father's behavior. They need to know it's wrong. They need to know their father loved them. Their father needs to take ownership of the things he did. I left him after 11 years of marriage, and moved 150 miles away. My sons were 8 and 10 when I left him.

My half sister's aunt was my mom's best friend. They had both bought two extremely rare bracelets from india, one for each. My mother gave the bracelet to one of my older sisters and it was passed down the family. When my half sister's aunt died, the bracelet was found and was passed down from family member to family member like my mother's. One day my older sister told me that she has one but doesn't know if it is my mothers or my half sister's aunt's bracelet. The gold bracelet is beautiful, aged from all the times it has been used but with age it looks better. My sister told me she wants me to have it now. I love it so much, its not just because its beautiful that i love it but because it has so much mystery and meaning. But my favorite person in the world, my half sister, practically my sister who's the same age as me, Aria, saw the bracelet and right away I saw she was hurt. It's been almost a year now that I've had it, she's never said anything about the bracelet but I still feel like I'm doing something wrong. What if it is my mother's bracelet, that would be great. But what if it's her deceased aunt's bracelet! Aria is the most generous and loving person i know, she doesn't have one bad bone in her body. Should I give her the bracelet or should I dig deeper and try to find the original owner of this bracelet? This isn't some dumb bracelet that two sister's are fighting over. This is a family symbole and a gift from a deceased loved one.

Ok so my brother and his wife are getting a divorce. She treats him like dirt and he can't take it anymore. And he also found another woman. This is hitting my nieces real hard. The oldest is failing her in school and sports. The middle is extremely clingy towards my mother and the youngest is over eating. And the youngest has been crying every day. My sister n law moved out and took the kids and brother is heart broken over the fact that he can't see his kids everyday. This is hard for me too. I care about and love my brother and I love my nieces as if they were my own. I've been sad frustrated and stressed over this. And to make things worse, my parents blame me for all of this. It's not my fault. I didn't cause their arguments, my sister n law would pick fights with my brother all the time. Even over the smallest stupidest things. It's making me feel worse. I can't eat I can't sleep I can't function at work. I don't feel like being around my husband. He tries to help me through it but nothing seems to work...we have a daughter and she's usually the only one who can make me feel better when I'm down. And it hasn't been working this time. A friend of mine suggested I do something I've never done like go to the movies alone. I don't think that will help. Another said to workout. I did and it didn't work. I want this out of my head and off my mind and I don't know what to do. What can I do??

My great uncle recently passed away and his funeral is being held in a couple of days time. He was ill and it gradually went down hill last week. I lost my best friend the week before, she was my dog and almost 15 years old. She was my world and the only reason I kept my head up over all of the years. I've found the last couple of weeks extremely hard and difficult to get through. To the point that i'm thinking of missing my great uncles funeral. My mum, who's blood relative, feels I should go as 'we all have to do things we don't really want to' whereas my sister & Dad (who have seen me daily since my doggy passed away) feel if I am unable to go then I shouldn't and that they feel all other family members, including my grandma (great-uncles sister) and my aunt who has lost dogs too, would understand With funerals, can it be seen rude not to go when you're going through grief of two lives - including the one that you're missing?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three months. And at the beginning of this month i found out that another girl had a baby that might be his. I asked him about the situation and he told me that he wanted to wait until he got the DNA test done before he told me, because the girl told him that she didn't know who the dad was. Well the baby does look like him, and he wants the baby to be his because he wants to be a dad. But it's been killing me. He says he has no feelings towards the girl the condom broke and she got pregnant from pre-***. And he tries to ensure me that nothing will change between me and him. But it still eats at me everyday. And the baby is a month old and still no DNA test and he hasn't even seen the baby yet.

I recently told my dad that I didn't want to play basketball anymore. We got into a huge fight about it and he threatened to throw me against the wall. I do not feel safe around him now because he is always mad. The rest of my family is out of the state so I have to deal with him for the rest of the week. I want to meet with my coach or counselor if things don't get better. Any advice on what i should do

I have no family support and I am a single parent moving to another city in a month to a half with a soon to be 3 month old and 2 year old for college and domestic issues at home. I go to college and soon to be going into my medical career soon. How to cope?

Im 16 years old and very depressed, but weed helps alot. I dont go to school right now and i have no friends and no life. I barely even go outside. I have started to go to my aunt and uncles every month or few weeks to help them with their house and things, and I can tell they are very concerned about me like the rest of my family. My aunt is a pot head and smokes all the time, she also knows i smoke too. I buy my bud from my brother but i dont have enough money to be doing that so why not just ask my aunt to give me some, I have nothing to lose. Marijuana is legal where i live so i dont think it would be that big of a deal. Im just nervous on what i should say. Im planning on asking her if we can talk, then im gonna say, "I have been feeling depressed and feel like its just getting worse, I was wondering if you can give me some weed, because it helps me" and thats all i can come up with that doesnt sound that bad. What else should i say? My life is complete ****.

by my step dad and the best people can give me is to get over it?....I mean is that your solution for everything? You see the thing about mistakes is that you don't keep making them in the first place so **** you. It's not "get over it", its don't let it happen to begin with.

I decided to dye my hair blonde, it doesn't look odd seeing as I'm fair skinned and blue eyed. My dad turned up from the pub and asked me if it was to grab attention, I asked him to explain. He meant to show everyone I'm gay. He started to ask if I was going to become one of those because he wouldn't like it. I sarcastically replied I was going to start wearing makeup and he declared if I did I would be kicked out the house. He didn't upset me, but when he's drunk he clearly says what he is thinking. I'm a guy. And I just find it sad he presumes because I'm gay I want people to know it. P.s dyed hair is the only camp thing about me.

We have 2 year old twin boys. One is glued to me and my older one couldn't careless about me if Dads home. My little mamas boy won't have much to do with Daddy. It's been this way since about 9 months old. Is there a way to balance it a little more?? I feel like this favoritism is starting to ruin relationships between my husband because when my husband gets home we both pretty much tend to "our" baby . And of course it's hard to play with child who screams and fights when you try to play with him. we wind up just sticking to our own separate child a lot. But I don't like the route it's going because we aren't interacting as a whole family much. Any advice?

What would do? if your husband gets your 18 old daughter pregnant?? (NOT HIS DAUGHTER)

We were fine before she came into the family but now our brother is not speaking to us and has blocked our phone calls. The girl has convinced our brother that it is us causing the problem not her. We have tried to welcome her but she takes our kindness and turns it around to keep the drama going. Now it is affecting our 86 year old mother. The girl acts loving to our mother when she is around her then belittle's her behind her back. She posted on facebook that Mama has dementia which is not true. I don't know what to do anymore.

My 5 year old daughter refuses to go to bed on time. Once I've wrestled her into bed, she gets out and I have to coral her back into bed. Her new kick is to, when I say " Go put on your jammies and get into bed", respond with " No bedtime." She'll explain that she's a big girl and bedtimes are for little kids. I tried a compromise of giving her 15 extra min. she declined and insists I do away with bedtime. I had an idea, let her stay up as late as she wants, and then when she realizes she needs her sleep, she'll beg for a bedtime. What do I do? Bad idea?

I recently changed my career and I am trying to find a jjob. Everyone is impressed by the course's iv done however I lack experience I have even done voluntary work experience just to fill up my cv. I'm a good worker I just need someone to give me a chance

i live with my mum and two sisters and ive never had a 'good' phone. in the past she has got me cheap phones an refuses to buy anything better. i understand how expensive modern iphones are but its really annoying how ahe just refuses and its really embarrassing because when im outin public i cant take my phone out. plus thw worst thing is that she is on contract and always has had the best latest phones. she says she cant afford to buy me and both my demanding sisters a new phone and when i asked her to takw it out of my child benefit she goat really angry (bad move) im really desperate right now because all i want is a good phone! especially when everyone around me has one and has access to apps i cant use because of mt phone. im sorry if i sound selfish but this is just how i feel and i get really frustrated plus she likes to play mind games and act like she is going to get me a new phone then the next day defiantly refuse as if its the most stupid thing shes ever heard. and please dont suggest getring a job because ive searches EVERYWHERE for a job just to finally get my own money to get a good phone or just have anallowance but its soo hard and i never hear back from anywhere and i doubt people want someone still in schopl witg limited hours to offer..

I'm 21 and going to be 22 soon in a couple months. I don't live with my parents anymore. My dad does more with his dog and my dad tells me that he doesn't have the gas to come see me allot even though we live in the same city. He goes to another city that is like 30 miles away from where he lives like once a week and goes around and see his friend. He won't ever come over to see me on Sundays cos it is nascar day. I feel like he doesn't love me that much and that I'm not important enough for him. My mom comes sees me every 4 days and sometimes more. It makes me sad that he treats me this way. My dad says we will do all this stuff and we never do. I mean I will be 22 in a couple weeks.

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I generally get along very well with my mum because she's always been nice and kind and easy-going to me. But I don't get along the same way with my dad. It's not like we hate each other we just have our differences. Like for example, my dad is big into sports while I'm interested is something like movies or music or acting.

Okay so I'm 17 years old and I've been smoking weed only occasionally though. I do it maybe once ever other weekend or so. But my mom doesn't like me doing it and when she finds out I have she always grounds me. And the only way she knows I have smoked is when she makes me swear on her life Because I can't do it and lie. Obviously I know it doesn't mean anything, but I feel bad for doing it. I recently found out that my moms been smoking with her brothers and friends the past 3 weekends she's gone out with them. And I've also found a used pot test she was gonna give me. My mom doesn't know I know and I'm really pissed off that she's doing it because she's making me feel like I'm the bad guy. I can't tell her I know because I promised my cousin who told me I wouldn't say anything. But I've been smoking since I found out because I figure if she's doing it why can't i right? I know she's and adult but I'm going to be one in a year or less. If she asks me if I have smoked do I swear on her life and lie about it or tell her the truth. She said next time she founds out I'm outta the house. Any opinions would be lovely! Thank you!

A "friend" of my brother texted him something sooo rude I can't even begin to tell you how angry I am! My brother says he's fine but I feel like he is a little hurt (this is person is sort of his only friend). I feel like I should protect him and say something but then he might be mad at me. Please help! I don't know what to do :(

A family member will be 27 yrs old. She has a 9 yr old & 7 yr old, & twin 9 month olds. I'm not sure if the older 2 were born addicted to herion but the twins were. She does NOT have custody of any of them. She hasn't come to see the twins since they were 3 months old. She is currently pregnant with her 5th child. due in July. At 5 months old she over dosed on herion & was hospitized. She claims to be "clean" now. But I really don't believe that she is. Will she keep custody of this child? Or will they take baby in the hospital? Her mother has the older 2 & an aunt has the twins.

This morning I used my moms toothbrush by accident just not paying attention. I feel so disgusted each time I think about it but my moms not like dirty or anything like that haha but just thinking about germs and stuff like that. I rinsed my mouth with listerine immediately once I realized so am I good? When I get home I'm just leaving my toothbrush in my room..

K, basically 1.5 hours/day on weekdays, 2 on friday and 3 on weekends, I used to have NO LIMITS. My parents are fine with the fact that I rarely go out, and that I play no sport, and they were fine with me spending all my free time on a PC. (As opposed to being a dirty console peasant). My simple question is, what techniques could I use to get them to extend the limit? (My target is 1.5-2.5, 2-3, 3-5/6 or better) A point to add is my parents are often easy to convince and have only ever held a limit for 13 days max, apart from this time... In the spare time I now go out a little bit more and play...(I'm ashamed to admit it)...dirty, dirty console games. I feel scarred...(and bored)... They dont really trust me to stick to the limit and Im currently trying to slloooooowly edge in a couple minutes a day. Whether I have to do the method you tell me by confrontation or not I dont mind. I forgot to add some info about me. I am a 13 year old schoolboy in top sets for all bar PE. I have semi-professional level Musical achievement (grade 7 flute grade 1 singing and grade - piano) and I spend a lot of my spare the doing these. I always get very high grades and I could get a job with results from gcses if I took them tomorrow. I have 3 hours of paper round a week and I'm very hardworking. Still think video games are bad for my career if I keep this up? Yeah I know lotta updates For those commenting on my social life I have a decent circle of friends and I am always talking to at least one of them online (yes I know them in real life). People online who I dont know comment on my chattiness and command of the english language, despite me having a couple of...lets call them socially hindering mental quirks. Of all the gamers I am one of those who playtime is justified, so no worries there worriers.

My mother, June told me she wanted to start dating again and hopefully get married again. She had lost a lot weight and had bought a whole new wardrobe. She ask my husband if she could model her new clothes for him. He agreed. After she had showed him her new clothes she ask my husband what he thought of her chances of finding a man that would marry her. He told her with her great looks, a year from now she would have been on her honeymoon. She should plan now for her wedding dress as he knew she will get a marriage proposal soon. She said is that true or are you just trying to make me feel good? He told her men can not resist a beautiful woman with a great figure and she would soon be married. She gave him a hug and said you are the best son in law ever. Should my husband even be thinking about mom's figure? For the record she does have a GREAT FIGURE. Was mom flirting with my husband or was he flirting with her. What do you think?

Too make this short I couldn't help that I hate my step sister because I always felt she was a manipulative person who loved to cause such trouble and drama among me and my family relatives thanks to her I don't Get along with anyone of my relatives if I'm going threw bad times I just can't go and call any of my family members for help because of her me and her weren't raised together and me and her are from the same mom and different dad's but I can't help how much I always desired for her to die I know that sounds cruel but I try to forgive her from my heart from far away but I just couldn't and she got all the support from friends and family but at aleast I have two amazing daughters and amazing husband but still I always felt she got the best out of everything either tho she's a conniving manipulative women and Im the only person who doesn't trust her at all how can I over come my jealousy and hate towards her either tho I never haven't spoken to her for 6 years already but I felt life isn't fair and I wish.I didn't felt this way about her can anyone relate to this I need advices please don't be mean or rude I really appreciated it thank you!