My friend is 16, she had a really bad day and was took a lot of pills and drank a lot of alcohol. She was really messed up and he was sober. I guess they had sex, no one else was home. He is her mothers little brother and lives in the house, his room right next to hers. He keeps snapchatting her and messaging her and wont leave her alone now. She wants to get away from him but he lives in the room right next to hers. She can't tell her parents because it would make the situation 10 times worse, her parents would make it all her fault and it would only end up making things worse for her. She and I both know how her parents are. So he lives in the house, she wants to get away from him, she cant tell her parents, what should she do?

Okay here's my situation I dated a girl for 2 and a half years talked to her for a whole year prior til that. I thought we had it all we had soon to be engagement plans. Last month she took a 5 day vacation to her best friends out of state. She came home and broke up with me she said she felt herself down there. I begged for her back days after and got shut down everytime. I am currently in a 2 week no contact. And she is also going away from May-July in the summer to enjoy her life as she says. Do you think she will get it together and come back to me? Also she puts cheesy stuff on Twitter and Facebook some seems that she misses me and some seems she doesn't. But idk if I should contact her before she leaves or wait for her to. She told me before if she gets the time and space maybe she will get back with me but she also says she don't know the future

Most will say 'yeah' or some might tell that 'its too obvious'. People have all rights to know the truth yet they don't research things.its a nature,strong dominates weak and in our case clever dominates stupid.its for a survival. I have pretty much investigated or researched this by myself and I have gone to the conclusion. We all have 2 faces,we try to be nice but when the opportunity arrives we betray each other.from my view those who don't are stupid. They use you for their purpose, make you do things for them without your knowing. They use you then they throw you.before they do that to you ,its better to do that to them. Well,speaking as a victim .

My younger sister is a weirdo. Our parents have never once spanked us other then smack our butt when we ran out in the street when we were real little. Caren seen our cousin Meghan get a spanking this past weekend. Uncle Jeff lifted up Meghan's nightgown. Megan is 7 but Caren is six months older then her. Now Caren has been tormenting Dad by running off with his remote or paper and trying to get him too give her a playful spanking over his lap like Meghan got for real. Last night she got what she wished and I think she is hecka weird cause Caren at nighttime always wears a tiny nightgown and her nylon panty briefs. Is it alright for my Dad (or Mom) too pretend too give my sister a spanking in her panties (or in her nightgown)? Caren will outgrow this right? LOL!!

What I mean is, I know what I ve done and I know what I need to apologize for. I just do not know, or am not sure how to put it into words. I am afraid that it will be looked at as rubbing salt on the wound. Wheather or not the letter will be effective or me being forgiven is not my concern, I just feel like this is my place to do this and it has been long over due.

i was seeing a 24 year old on the down low, im 17, we got caught...**** hit the fans. Lost trust within my parents. Now that things calmed down and im okay with my parents i decided to be honest instead of lying and told my dad tht we still wanna see each other, i wrote a letter to my dad explaining the relationship & how when two people care bout eachother they wont stop ever caring and that liking someone isnt a crime, i explained to him how hes not a creep and that he would he even talk to my dad. We really like eachother and we'd love to be together we understand the age difference but it doesnt bother us i'll be 18 in 3 months. We don't wanna lie again and we just want it to be normal. My dad read my letter and said he needs to soak it all in, he then said we'd have an open discussion tomorrow, tomorrow was 2 days ago. i can wait but what if two days turns into two weeks, idk if i should approach him or not. i want his approval so i wont ever have to lie again if he says no im telling him we will then both wait till im 18, my guy doesnt want to disrespect my parents so he doesnt wanna be on the down low again. i dont ever wanna lose this guy and he doesnt wanna lose me we really are trying to fight this but its hard my dads a really strict european father who thinks in an old fashion way. should i wait longer, if so how long? and if not how do i approach him. im scared.he hasnt given me a no or a yes, if it was a no why would he give me a gateway? HELLP

Miren .. Hace Unas Semanas a mi y UNOS amigos nos eligieron de caballeros UNOS párrafo 15 años de mi prima, okey Hasta Ahí ​​todo bien, habia chicas como de costumbre y lo de los Repasos del baile y Todo eso Pero me gustaba una chica 5 Jahr Menor Que Yo en Pero yo No lo sabia UNOS del hasta hace 5 Días y zócalo ESE eco me Dije a mi Mismo Que era muy grande Para ella (si ayuda tengo 17), El caso es Que Me Dije Que No! Y Ya but Hace 3 Días ESTABA chico Faltando Casi TODOS LO Repasos Hasta Que comensó á venir y me entere Que era hermano de Esa Chica, Pero No me molesto ni nada Hasta Que Hace dos Dias me entere algo muy raro Pero No lo CREI, Me Dijeron Que Ellos tenian Relaciones incestivas y Me Quede en choque Hasta Ayer: C y hoy los vi besándose Por Atrás del repasamos Que salón y no lo podia creer un but mmmm ..... estube pensando y me Dije Que No era asunto f mio Pero Aun tengo algo en mi Que no me deja Estar tranquilo .... alguien me ayuda? Que Debo Hacer?

I have a 31/2 year old granddaughter who lives 800 miles away. My daughter only wants visits on she and her husbands terms. We have seen our granddaughter for 3 days last summer and 4 days easter. My husband texted our daughter to let her know that we will be flying to Asheville every 2 to 3 months to spend a few days so that we can baby sit and enjoy her. our daughter called to say that the text was instrusive and that they have busy schedules. our granddaughter had a birthday party last fall in which her classmates from her montessori school attended in which we were not invited My daughter is in school getting her masters and is not working so my husband and i were asked last year if we could pay. the tuition is quite high but it is my granddaughter and cannot deny her a start to her education future. I know this is a form of alienation and am heartbroken

We were friends in high school then she had a really bad time with her family and her phone got cut off. She saw my dad in Whole Foods and put her number in my dad's phone but when I called it was the wrong number. I don't know what happened and I don't know how to feel.

Also if the bullying is online why dont the victims just close their accounts, not allow contact from the bullies? We had those mean kids in school but the kids they picked on didnt commit suicide. I see the answers but I cant believe it.

My friends have caught him so many times staring at me. Maybe even smirking or smiling

I see kids with bad grades walking around with the newest iphones and shoes , but their grades look like crap , but I work hard for my a b honor roll grades and I'm lucky if I get that stuff , or I have to wait until my parents get their tax money , why is the world so unfair ?

My boyfriend and I really want to get married and start a family together. But, I know that we have to go on more dates first. But, somehow, I feel as I dont trust myself anymore. And that I cant think positive anymore. But, im an adult that throws damn temper tantrums.

I was watching this video and I thought it touched my heart. I just wanted to see what you guys would think.\ https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/remarkable-bond-between-mom-child-shown-in-117008972667.html

I have been talking to this guy who is 29 years old and I am currently 22 about to be 23 in a couple of months. Although we have talked about this issue before he said he is ok with my age but I know my family will disapprove of this age gap and it would be hard to explain this to my family. And my question is this age gap between us matters?

My bf and I are both adults so need to worry. So he's 6'5 and I'm 5'6 In height. We are both sexually active due to our schedules we don't have sex very often. But anyway when I try to go on top it's never successful. He penis never reaches in me. Other positions do work for us doggy style and missionary. That's all we've tried we are fairly new to the whole sex life thing. But me on top never works. Even when I'm on the couch with him or his bed I can't see to get his penis in me when I'm on top. Idk if it's a height difference thing. But his penis is 9 inches long erect. I'm sure his size isn't the issue. His penis doesnt have a curvature to it. So idk if that's the problem. Or if it's just me not being able to ride him he keeps saying my butt is too big . Any tips? One more question does anal sex really make your butt big over time any one actually experienced that..? We tried anal sex 4 days ago & it was my first time. And I loved it so much I might wanna do alot. I just don't want my butt growing too big it's already naturally big.

1 some people have sex because they want to have a kid and make a family. 2 some people have sex because they are stupid and have it and then moan because u are pregnant. 3 some people have sex because they are stressed so they have it to calm down

Hi, I honestly don't know what I should do with myself anymore. I kinda stupidly misbehaved on Sun. and now I cant hang with my friends or my boyfriend. How can I fix myself for good? Sometimes, I just feel like I just want to shoot myself in the damn head. I feel like a bad, bad person. Help me.

I work with a black woman who doesn't like white people. She's really not the friendliest, though I'm not at work to make friends of course. She's the secretary at my job. I always see her when I walk in and I always say good morning, but she's never really friendly back. I always wondered why she's so unfriendly, though later I found out that she doesn't like white people.

Okay, so I am 21 and she is 19 (let's call her Sierra). I met her last October for my friends (Kevin) 21st birthday, his sister invited Sierra (Kelly). I really liked her, she was really cute and down to earth and spoke her mind. Well, I talked to Kevin about it, who in turn talked to Kelly about it. She approved because "I am a good guy." So, they have set up (in the past) for the four of us to casually hangout to see if we would get along. This happened twice over the course of a few months. Kevin and Kelly both believe that I did well and have a chance. I too believe that I did well on both occasions. Now, we are all about to get together again and things will probably go well, and if they do, Kevin and Kelly are going to leave the room and I will ask her out. I have never asked out a girl before, never had a girlfriend, She has never had a boyfriend either. I am feeling very confident that we are hitting it off (along with approval of Kevin and Kelly). So, I feel confident but because I have never asked anyone out before, I do not know what to say, like I literally do not know what words to use. I just want to casually ask her out, to get to know her more. I don't want to ask her to be my girlfriend yet, as we still don't know each other all that well. I want to hangout with her more and get to know her, I want her to know that I am interested in her romantically, just that I want to go slow in the beginning. Thanks!

Me and my ex broke up in october due to a STD scare(IT CAME BACK NEGATIVE thank god ) my doctor thought i had herpes so i asked my bf about it and he started saying i was the one who cheated and i better not have gave him anything or he will sue me /leave me so i was so scared and freaked out and cried to my best friend about it and she randomly cursed him out on fb (WITHOUT MY PERMISSON ) which made us break up anyways we started talking again in december he texted me saying he missed me and forgave me for telling our business he started having sex again in january and he's only taken me on 3 dates he use to call me everyday but in the pass couple of weeks he only seems to call me when he wants to f**k and every time we cuddle after sex he says "Ur so sexy we would be a hot couple" and we would take pics together and he would say "aww we look so happy together" but when i ask him why don't we just get back together again he says "i can't trust u ur a tattle tell " or just "maybe" LIKE WTF he's the one who says we would make a cute couple and that he forgives me why does he keep holding a grudge ?? oh plus sometimes he calls me his "sexy thot" but then he says "I'm not using u for sex babe don't worry"

it show the last sync on march 2014 which proves it did work at some point in time but i havent been able to sync it since then!! help please?? yes i have tryed to contact the pantech people and both times i got an email saying i will get a reponse by the end of the next business day but they never responded and it's been months since the 1st time i contacted them and a few weeks since the last time!! i have searched all over the internet with NO help at all..figured i may as well try asking here!!

I don't know he was married.he did keep telling me that he can't promise me anything though. And the reason was because he will get an arranged marriage. But I didn't know he was already married. By advances I mean I started convos with him and I wanted to meet up with him. I wouldn't have wanted this if I knew the truth about him. He lied to me. I didn't make advances on him sexually. I just flirted with him because I did genuinely have a crush on him

She was from Pennsylvania Serious question. I don't want to ever want to see that happen again. I hate to say I'd never date another yankee, but if this is the norm, I want to stay away.

I'm a female music student and my male teacher will touch me somewhere almost every single lesson I have with him. The first time it happened was when he poked me in my diaphragm to see if I was 'supporting correctly' and he poked me twice when he did this and didn't even ask my permission whether it was ok for him to poke me in my stomach. Then he did the same thing about a few weeks later. Almost every lesson his hand seems to touch mine. Even when it doesn't need to. For instance he will touch my fingers with his when he is demonstrating something doesn't have to. Sometimes he will touch my hand with his for a long time. It's not the first time this has happened either He has also invited me round to his house twice to have an 'extra lesson' and I act uncomfortable about it and say I can't go and then he never talks about it again and I never go Is this inappropriate behaviour from a teacher?

My very close friend (she's like family) lost her daughter in a car accident a couple years ago, she was my age. (This happened before I knew her) I'm around her everyday & we are super close & always laugh & have fun together. She's been to my homecoming & saw me win Queen, she went to my sweet 16, she always hugs me & tells me how proud she is of me, she says she loves me. she's very supportive of me, we have like a special bond. But sometimes when I'm around her I feel like I'm the cause for her pain of dealing with the loss of her daughter. I feel like I shouldn't be here, I guess like her daughter is gone & here I am, her same age, alive. Why do I feel like this? How do I overcome it?.. if she were to possibly see her daughter in me is that a bad thing?

What makes you want to cheat? And why don't you just break up with that person if you will just play with their feelings. For me a person who cheats is selfish and has no respect for their husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend.

Having a bad day. In need of a good laugh. thanks :-)

Whenever I try to leave my partner she cuts herself and tells me. Today we were at the gym and she was getting angry and frustrated with me becuae I apparently wasn't playing tennis properly. If we argue she calls me all names under to sun and even told me to drop dead. Then when I burst out crying she comes over and apologises and says it won't happen again. I wanted to listen to music theough earphones and she says I'm being ignorant yet it's okay for her to do it m.

I work full-time and he stays at home with my daughter, she's 6 months old. He doesn't have a car, so he would essentially have to take one of my cars and take her away or he would have family pick him up. What can I do to stop this from happening while I am at work?

Hi guys....I have a new question... can you answer this question please? ..Do guys with longer height have longer penis..???

I am married, have been for three years. When I met my husband, I was dating someone else, who I had a strong connection with but didn't seem like a practical choice for dating someone. My husband on the other hand, was, but I didn't connect as much to him. Three years later, things are more or less the same. I'm fairly happy in my marriage, but I feel that we don't connect on a certain level. We have a hard time talking about things. Whenever I do try to talk about things, he simply doesn't say anything. The guy who I broke up with for my husband, on the other hand, still cares a lot about me and is impossible to get rid of (though I have tried many times). I know the "right" thing to do is to stop talking to him at all and just focus on my husband. It is SO hard though, so accept and essentially "give up" having an emotional connection to someone. People often say that the strong feelings of connection are temporary, and that they would go away over time... however they are still there after almost four years of knowing each other. What should I do...what advice do you have?

i fought with his wife by sending her nasty text messages and she's deadly angry and upset with me. So i thought her husband is also against me but when i spoke to her husband directly through the land phone saying that i'm sorry for disturbing your family, he said no don't say sorry you haven't done any wrong to my family we are happy and fine but i could hear his wife arguing in the back ground and her heard her yelling at him even more for talking to me so he just made it short by ending it with take care and God bless. so i'm wondering what is going to happen. the wife told she hasn't deleted my messages to keep for withness.

is it messed up for my husband to not text or call me for a week and 2 days to check on me or the baby who is her way we dont live together yet because im finishing my last semester of school then ill move in but is it worth it staying by his side just because he is the father of my baby but he hasent been much responsible as a father he is lazy dosent value the chance of having a job he just goes with the flow and as a husband he dosent act much like it he isnt even romantic or wants to make it work much well he thinks he is but his not i need advice from adults

This girl at school, she always asks me the same questions every day about how different I am than everyone else and I just want her to shut up and let me live my life. She wont accept me the way I am and i've had enough. She tells everyone she meets about how different I am and I have to sit next to her and she takes all my pens and always irritates me one way or another. And in class we had to work in a 3 and she told him how different I am and I can't take it anymore.

it's like, for example, a teen spends alot of time in their room and whenever they come out their family members say stuff like "omg she's finally out if her room?!?" except they say it kind of sarcastic like? Or like when a really quite person talks everyone is like "wow she speaks?!?" Or like, a personal one, I don't really wear shorts much but one day I wore some to school and my friends were like "omg you're wearing shorts?!?" Is it just sarcasm or a different thing?

My very close friend (she's like family) lost her daughter in a car accident a couple years ago, she was my age. (This happened before I knew her) I'm around her everyday & we are super close & always laugh & have fun together. She's been to my homecoming & saw me win Queen, she went to my sweet 16, she always hugs me & tells me how proud she is of me, she says she loves me. she's very supportive of me, we have like a special bond. But sometimes when I'm around her I feel like I'm the cause for her pain of dealing with the loss of her daughter. I feel like I shouldn't be here, I guess like her daughter is gone & here I am, her same age, alive. Why do I feel like this? How do I overcome it?.. if she were to possibly see her daughter in me is that a bad thing?

I had a baby 9 months ago and my boyfriend wasn't supportive both emotionally and financially. He cheated several times but I forgave him. He recently had to look after our daughter with my mum's help as I went back to school but he hacked my phone and could see messages from other guys texting me. He confronted me in a harsh way and pushed me around in front of people and it was really embarrassing. I've been trying to work things out but he won't talk to me and when he does,he just throws insults at me. He now hangs out with his former friends and drinks all the time. I'm confused,should I help him come out of this phase or should I just walk away.I love him but the stress and heartbreak for over 2 years is too much. Please advice me.

I invented a mixtape, which I did not want to do. It's high on demand to make sure you have a material mind, you know to show you as a product can create such a thing. Anywho, I'm coming out with a mixtape called 'I Ain't Stopping Here' hosted by me, ErKLE I'm on Social Networks Instagram: @_erkle Twitter: @_erkle Facebook: erklechavanne YouTube: erklechavanne Soundcloud: erklecloud I'm promoting like hell, but I want celebrities to hear my story and get on opening up for them on their tours. I was poisoned as a baby, at a local daycare. Mom went homeless for a while with 2 children with me in her belly. I'm a human that wasn't suppose to exist in this world, some how I fought the universe to survive. I'm here for a purpose. I was a magnet to negativity, until I chose to think positively and stay in school to get a degree. Which lead to get the name ErKLE. I wouldn't do anything without my glasses in school. I played instruments while in school, joined bands in every school I attended. My production is all me, compose and invent the products. My team is me, no one sees my vision but me. I try to help but the donkey won't drink when I brung him to the fountain. This is what brings me here today. I want to be a change to the world for my nation 1. How can I get a buzz so people can invest in me and I can return the favor? 2. How do I work as an independent ? 3. I do not know anyone, Who do I talk to? 4. My question is, how do I get celebrity buzz? Thanks

So last night I had my boyfriends phone and saw he searched if a girl talks about there boyfriend to you do they like you? Why would he look this up. I'm his first boyfriend ever and he has history with females. so I don't understand why he would look this up.what is his curiosity. Should I tell him I saw it or wait to see what happens

V both love each other....wen i realized her lied i left from her....but am suffering from her leaving.but she confessed about her mistakes,,she is asking a single chance that she never do this lue again...what should i do?

Was black man/white woman, thoughts? Studies also show that Asian man/ white woman are least likely to work while white man/black woman are most likely to succeed. Any opinions?

I have an addiction problem - passed on to me from my lovely ******* father. and I had been prescribed xanax for an emergency pill for anxiety attacks. well I loved it so much I started taking it more often 'just cause'. I've built up a tolerance. don't have many pills left either and it's hard to contact my psychiatrist. what to do?

During an argument my fiancé said "I wanted to get married to you because I wanted kids and you can't have kids without a wife." This made me speechless. All this time we knew each other, he was so charming and in the heat of the moment he said this--this objectifying statement. Is this truth or anger? He apologized afterwards but I am very afraid of his thought process... When he is angry (when I disagree with him) he has said things like: "Whatever. I'm done. I don't even care anymore." "I'm afraid to have kids with you. You're mentally immature for marriage." "You can take your ego elsewhere I can find someone else to love me." (When I didn't call him because he said something rude. He got upset I didn't call him bc he felt ignored). "You're messed up." After an argument he once said: "You're batshit crazy." "You know you're stupid right?" After these statements he hangs up, calls back and says "I love you so much. Put water on the fire--don't defend yourself, just apologize." And "Promise you won't leave me? Do you still love me? I'm a broken man." And "I got you a gift." Is this an abuse cycle? Anger then regret then love. This behavior has happened thrice, before marriage. When I ask him afterwards he either denies he said it, said he was joking and I am sensitive, or justifies his words and says I am truly immature and he meant that he is afraid to have children with me. He says he said it out of concern, though I didn't do anything to provoke this thought process. :( when he is sweet...he is really sweet. When he is caring he Is really caring. But when he is angry/frustrated he puts me down. When I ask him afterwards he either denies he said it, said he was joking and I am sensitive, or justifies his words and says I am truly immature and he meant that he is afraid to have children with me. He says he said it out of concern, though I didn't do anything to provoke this thought process. :( when he is sweet...he is really sweet. When he is caring he Is really caring. But when he is angry/frustrated he puts me down.

Llevamos ya tres años pero desde el primer día que conocí a la suegra supe q iba a ser un gran problema... Es una señora sumamente vulgar y sin educación, cree tener la razón en todo y saberlo todo, terca, me hace burla pues soy de familia con más recursos y la verdad que ni lo demuestro y ni se imaginan la diferencia. Se burla de mi novia de fachosa cuando usa pants y ella cuando salimos a comer parece prostituta como "costal mal amarrado"(es bastante obesa). Estos 3 años la he pasado increíble con mi novia pero siempre estuvo la piedrita de la suegra, de hecho hace 1 mes que no me habla por una tontería y lo mismo hace con sus hijos. Ya no puedo más y la verdad con mis padres me basta para sufrir de vez en cuando... Mi novia cree que estamos por terminar por un pleito reciente y no sabe que de fondo es su familia... Qué hago?... Saludos!

Ok been married 2 yrs to the most loving sweet husband BUT his mom and sister lives with us well it's been 2 yrs of hell cuz of this.. They are dirty and don't help around the house when I would speak up I got accused of being disrespectful and I wanted them gone..it put my hubs in a bad place cuz he was being torn so I decided to just let it go so he could be happy I went to a dark place..I hold a lot of resentment towards him because he never stood up for me or if I had a issue never tried to help fix it.. I'm trying to get over it and understand him but it's hard.. Will I ever get over it?? Also she is suppose to move in May so hopefully that helps me and my hubby's relayionship does anyone have any advice I'm super excited just trying not to show it.. Do u think it will hurt him that I'm happy about it or should I keep it to myself

Lets say you were separated for 6 months or 12 months and found out they had been with other sexually...maybe dated and it was random, or a brief relationship, whatever the situation. Would you be upset with them or be understanding that that happens during a separation?

Okay. I'm not terribly low with self esteem but I'm beginning to notice that I'm starting to care more and more about if whatever it is I'm talking about sounds 'stupid' or not to other people especially when it comes to social media. Sometimes I'll have good days but like yesterday and some of this week I went over everything in my head if what I said to a person sounded off or weird. I really wish I could relax a bit more with stuff such as this. I was even hesitant on asking this question ha ^^; Anywho. My question is, how do you or how would you handle something like this?

So I bought a 1990 Chevy Beretta from my moms girlfriend.. And I've had it for 10 months. It was alright before, but now everything is just falling apart, it's litterally a pos. I wanna just dump it since it'll cost more than it's worth to fix everything.. But it was her mothers car, and her mom just passed away 2 months ago.. She b*tches every time I mention anything about how the car is a pos.. If she finds out I just wanna dump it instead of pay to get it fixed, she's gonna flip ****.. Is there an easier way to tell her I'm dumping it?

So last night I had my boyfriends phone and saw he searched if a girl talks about there boyfriend to you do they like you? Why would he look this up. I'm his first boyfriend ever and he has history with females. so I don't understand why he would look this up.what is his curiosity. Should I tell him I saw it or wait to see what happens

im 15 yr old male and ever since lat year my hole life has changed completely my mom had to move to my grandmas house again due to my dad not paying rent because of his drug habits and i was just going to highschool a magnet school too but i just stop careing about school and i started arguing with the system of the school and all this other sthupid things. this led me to smoking weed to try to run away from problems but since in my grandmas 2 bedroom house i had nothing but a computer and a cat so smoking weed was a very dificult task to get away with so i started to smoke in school witch ****** me over alot and now im on probation and i cant go to school im just stuck here playing league of legends every day i have 1 friend and absalutly nothing to do most of the thigs i do are illigal as ****. i used to be very smart i had 140 iq but its a shame its gone to waste

My exchange student sucks his thumb and I want it to stop.

Im a 16 year old girl and have grown up without my father or any male adults/role models. I have had some horrible experiences with a couple of men. I find it hard to talk to adult males and find it very hard to feel comfortable around them and they kind of frighten me. I also find it very hard to accept love and affection from guys in relationships etc.. Is there something wrong with me? No I am straight and do have relationships with guys, im not lesbian

Is it better for a person to get away from their family if the family she lives with have been a bad influence emotionally and psychologically to her? Her parents are going through a divorce. Her parents don't speak to each other and act immature. Her mom always teases her daughter, ever since she was little - she does it on purpose just to hurt her feelings, and when the daughter asks as to why she does it, she always says it was a joke - but she does it on purpose, just to piss her daughter off. Her father and siblings are all in their own world, they don't have a really close relationship. She feels like it's better for her to leave. She is in her early 20s, and she never wants to see her family again, because of how dysfunctional they are, even though she tried to make things okay with her mother - her mother ends up being angry. Her mother is SO negative, also close-minded and racist too. The girl just finished college, and is in the process of looking for a job. She wants to make enough money so that she can move away and be independent. There was a man who wanted to marry her.. But she was going through unfavourable circumstances at that time, so she declined his offer two times.. She can't stop thinking about the guy - they were friends, and she still has this guy as a friend, because he wanted to be in touch with her. If you were her, what would you do in this situation with a life and dysfunctional family like that? If the girl left will that make her bad?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while, but he has to serve a year sentence. Our relationship is great. We talk, write letters, and very much in love. But, after doing research to try and cope with the year without him a lot of females said that their partner was released and cheated because of so much temptation that was now available. He has never cheated on me and we have made plans to marry and have kids one day. Is there anyone who can help me with dealing with this?

Selam Aaykum, I've just turned 17 and asked my parents to get me to a college. Being an obedient daughter that I'm, my parents are neglectful to put me into school as they need my help in almost everything; apart from being a daughter, I'm their servant, the one that does everything a mother and a maid aught to do , all the chores: ironing, cooking, dish-washing, vacuuming,sweeping, dusting, carpet washing, etc and hence i have almost NO TIME for my self. Furthermore, I have siblings of whom I take care of and clean for. And my dad is so lazy, he calls me from my bedroom just to fill his glass with water or to bring him a toothpick or a remote controller sitting 2m away from him. To add to that, I'm treated as if i have no voice in this house. My mum is aggressive(beats & chokes) and offensive(telling falsehood to my dad & her friends about me) & my dad is too proud(has 2 Phd diplomas) to speak to us or help us out in schooling. Even tho, I SWEAR BY THE GREATEST ALLAH, I always try my very best to please them and love them for the sake of Allah, but they seem to be blinded by my kindness. I do understand that being patient is crucial but if I don't enroll to college now, 4 the rest of my life I shell be stuck under the roof i really can't stand. I'am deadbeat from this, crying dry tears each night b4 bed. Hence, I'm planning on secretly traveling to be accommodated in a dorm for a year. What r ur opinions?

Hi. Im really confused right now, and i hope that some of u can give som advices. So here it begins: Im 20 years old. I have been living with my girlfriend since we found each other when i was 17. She is Danish, and is very openminded. Im Arabic. So there is some cultural differences. We had a sometimes great relationship, and other times not so great. I would become very mad, when she screwed op big time and call her things and braek op. In the past year, we have been fighting a lot. Last month she had to go to Thailand and do some vilunteer work for 3 months. She have been in Thailand before when she was 15. And she was very slutty. She had been with multiple guys there was 24+ at age. Sometimes with more guys at the same time. So of curse i didnt feel good about her trip, because some of the old guys was still in Thailand, and of curse she would meet them at some point. Not because she would seek them, but she is living on Phi Phi Island wich is a very small party island, and she would run into them. So i was very frustrated and dindt like it when she was in the disco and drinking. I would become angry and tell her to come home or i would leave her. 2 weeks after i called her and gave her an apology, and told her that i know she loves me and i didnt have to be scared of her doing something with the guys over there. She was happy for that. And after 2 days where she have been drinking and meeting a lot of people on the party island, she broke op. She told me that she couldnt handle the pressure of me annymore. So of curse, i begged and pleded for her to not leave me, but she was acting ice cold. So i told her that she have 2 weeks to decide if she really wantet to end it or not, because i dont want to try to beg her anymore. I texted her all the time im those 2 weeks. She calledme and said that is was enough and that she is 100% sure we cant be together. She blocked me on fb, snapchat and skype. My question is. Should i keep fighting for her? I know she is the right one for me, and i wNt to change and be the one she deserves. And i also told her all that, but she kerps saying, u had ur chances. ?? Sorry for my english and mispselked words. Im from Denmark and writing this from my cellphone. Ps. I cant let her go. I love her so much, and want to fight for her heart!

I kept asking him when he will get married and he kept lieing saying in 2 years etc. however he did also keep an timing that he couldn't promise me anything