Family: Question: Ok so i am neighbors with a blended family u kno a mom with 2 girls ages (5 & 11) and a dad with a son (15) and i notice sum things? |
- Question: Ok so i am neighbors with a blended family u kno a mom with 2 girls ages (5 & 11) and a dad with a son (15) and i notice sum things?
- Question: Disfunctional family?
- Question: Should I visit my mom in jail? Why did my friend say it was cool that she is going to jail?
- Question: HELP!? NEED TO MAKE DECISION!!!?
- Question: How do i ask my dad for bras/shaving things/other things girls need?
- Question: How can i get my mother to be less strict?
- Question: I have a dilemma about my bf's ex wife.?
- Question: What color will my baby have?
- Question: Growing up, my mom used to beat the **** out of me. should I forgive her?
- Question: How to report a death of a loved one?
- Question: I live with my boyfriend's parents, and i am sick of picking up after them!!! what should i do?
- Question: 24 single and living with parents. Could use a little life advice.?
- Question: Mom Won't Give Passport?
- Question: How can I Talk to my Mom if Know she is doing something wrong without being disrespectful?
- Question: Teenager out of control. What to do before it gets worse?
- Question: Should I get some respect?
- Question: I'm thinking about asking my son's father to sign over his rights.. advice??
- Question: In three words or less describe the one(s) that raised you?
- Question: My mom is using me for child benefit wrongfully?
- Question: Why wouldn't my mom have told me about this?
- Question: Am I being selfish towards my sister?
- Question: Boyfriend's younger siblings are coming to visit, what are some things we can do? (We live in the SoCal area)?
- Question: Is it totally selfish to move out of state with my children?
- Question: I am always sad?
- Question: Was i abused?
- Question: If my mom does something wrong and I point it out, like tell my dad, would that make me a bad child?
- Question: How to get my dad out of jail?
- Question: Is my dad really sexist? What may I do?
- Question: I'm So Frustrated?
- Question: Adoption aged Fourteen?
- Question: REALLY awkward thing happened between family members - help me before I die of embarrassment D:?
- Question: Islam-Does he have to pay dowry?
- Question: Should i tell my patents?
- Question: How to deal with a passive aggressive parents?
- Question: My dad is going to stop child support.... How do I deal with my mom..?!?!?
- Question: What should I do when your mother in law interferes with your marry life?
- Question: Can I live with my mother or will the judge send me to foster care?
- Question: How do you go about telling friends and family that your married?
- Question: Schedule ruined?
- Question: Grounded... need to get my laptop back since I have an important assignment due. tips on getting it back from mom?
- Question: Help please?
- Question: Daughter will say anything in front of me?
- Question: My step mom still doesn't like me?
- Question: Moving Out at 18. Help...please?
- Question: Whats the law on kids and grandparents?
- Question: What should i do about my dysfunctional family?!!?
- Question: Why does my sister always stick her bare feet in my face?
- Question: I really hate my 9 year old brother!?
- Question: 10 points best answer!!!! How to break ur wrist at home?!?!?!?
- Question: What should i do about my mother and sister, they wont help out!!?
- Question: My mom's depression is costing me???? help pls?
- Question: My fiancé and daughter hate each other?
- Question: My dad kicks me?
- Question: I hate my life, I need suggestions on what I should do?
- Question: Why do my family members provoke me?
- Question: I am in a conflict with my brother's girlfriend and my mother sides with both of them?
- Question: Is weird a father calls his 18 years old son by names like, babe, sweet, darling?
- Question: I ******* hate my mom. I used to like her but she abuses me because my dad used to abuse her. She takes her anger and stress unto me.?
- Question: My parents make me wrestle?
- Question: How can I be a better child?
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:35 PM PDT Ok so my 4 y/o daughter plays across the street with the 5 y/o i watch her like a hawk from my porch but i notice other things and found out I'm not the only one about 2 or 3 others have but they're under 18 I'm 21 and well I'm cincerned that the 15 and 11 y/o may have an inappropriate relationship other neighborhood children have told me they think the step siblings are entirely to close u think i should tell the parents? |
Question: Disfunctional family? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:29 PM PDT My brother is having a difficult time with most the family right now. He spent 12 yrs in prison got out opened a business of his own and made lots of money. He invested his money in half a home for my mom to get her back to calif after the joplin tornado. He was working in las vegas brought my brother in to help him out he made lots of money too. He had all my family and friends up to las vegas for weekends wi suites shows limos cabanas by the pool. Bottle service the whole thing. He retired 2 1/2 years ago. Right before he did retire my brother working for him got into an argument with him i guess he thought the company was going to be given to him. My mother became mean and nasty along with all the rest of the family turned ugly. He has left them alone but they keep coming at him with hate. Holidays birthdays he doesnt get invited to because mom and brother are going. His latest is my brother claiming he owes on tax bill. But to make a long story short how should he just quit worrying about all this. Hes hurt feels duped and cant get over his loved ones exiling him. I told him that his family here in kansas have never used him have bowed out of certain things when he comes to town because we dont need dinners out. More family style home cooked meals board games things like that just to be together everyone. Hes having a difficult time trying to adjust to mean people. What else can i say to him to help him heal. |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:27 PM PDT my mom is going to jail for six months for forgery related charges. I am handling the situation fine because she will be back and her visit to jail might make her go easier on me now. Even though it is only six months, My dad asked someone that worked at the jail if it is alright if someone my age visited. They said yes and said she would appreciate a visit and it could be interesting and an "educational experience" (What does that mean? Please give your opinion on that) Should I visit her. I would like to visit her when she goes in, but I wonder if it is worth stepping inside of a jail .Then again maybe it might not be bad to go I told my best friend about it since I like to talk about things with her and she said it was kind of cool my mom is going to jail because now she will know how you feel when you get punished. I have to admit I laughed |
Question: HELP!? NEED TO MAKE DECISION!!!? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:21 PM PDT Ok so about 9 months ago I made the decision to move back in with my mom and my dad went crazy and he started using drugs and drinking and him and my stepmom lied to me about a lot of stuff and so I haven't talked to them since and my stepmom is about to have my sister/brother and they said I could come and visit the baby but I don't know if I'm ready so I just need advice if I should go I know I should plus go see my little brother but I don't know I just need advice |
Question: How do i ask my dad for bras/shaving things/other things girls need? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:20 PM PDT I live with my dad and 2 years go i started needing this stuff and i am emmabaresd to ask. |
Question: How can i get my mother to be less strict? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:19 PM PDT I feel like my mother is too strict with me. I get up at 6:30, take my tablets, force fed breakfast, then i do work until i have to go to school, not allowed to go out after school, i have to come straight back and do homework and she checks my bag for anything potentially dangerous, i'm allowed my phone for about 30 minutes, have a shower, if i take 'too long' to shower my mother gets angry, then i go to bed at 9, sometimes i'm allowed to read. I'm 15 and i think this is kind of ridiculous. I'm also not allowed ANYTHING because everything is 'too dangerous'. I cant use scissors or even sharp pencils and maths equipment because i might cut myself. I'm not even allowed a lamp or anything because i could strangle myself with the cord. I have to show her my arms every morning and night and after i shower and she always forces me to eat so i dont 'starve'. I get why she does it but its getting really stupid now. I havent even cut for two weeks so surely i should be allowed a little bit more freedom? And shes always shouting at me and its so frustrating. When i have to stay with my father he's even stricter - he makes me eat twice as much and im not allowed my phone at all. My life is so boringggggg its just making me more depressed :/ |
Question: I have a dilemma about my bf's ex wife.? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:19 PM PDT Even though they are divorced and have a kid together, she is still close with his family, which is totally fine with me. Now that his parents live with me and my bf, we are planning to have a house warming next month. I would like to invite my parents but they might find it awkward for now because there's a possibility the ex wife, their son, and her family would be there. Also, my parents have not met my bf's family yet.I would like to invite my parents but they might find it awkward for now because there's a possibility the ex wife, their son, and her family would be there. Also, my parents have not met my bf's family yet. I really like to invite my family but I feel like its inappropriate to have her there. I dont mind having their son there. I just find this awkward feeling she and her entire family (her mom and her siblings) and my family in the same room. i am good friends with her and family though. But I would love to have my family there too. |
Question: What color will my baby have? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 01:04 PM PDT I have brown carmel eyes and my boyfriend has hazel eyes so what color will our baby come out with |
Question: Growing up, my mom used to beat the **** out of me. should I forgive her? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:58 PM PDT every now and again acted like she cared but was too psychotic to be a decent parent. I guess what I mean is: should I let her back into my life. I don't feel any anger towards her, only sadness. I am concerned w/ protecting myself. in 20 years has not changed, don't believe she can. |
Question: How to report a death of a loved one? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:51 PM PDT |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:50 PM PDT My boyfriend and I moved into his parents house in January 2015, no longer to afford our place together. Everything has been going great, we are both working and saving to move out, EXCEPT,....his mother and I are the only ones who clean house, his dad does the outside...his mother rarely keeps up with cleaning because she works ALOT, his little brother...yeah right.. so I kind of took over and just took up the chores, just to help out and show my appreciation. Slowly but surely dishes would pile up in the sink, noone would dust, floors wouldnt be swept or mopped, bathroom was disgusting, and on top of all this, they have 3 dogs that piss EVERYWHERE. Now i have came home to find my towels on the floor in the bathroom used as bathroom mats, and thats where the dogs love to pee at....i am beyond ANNOYED and so very frustrated. I do not want to be rude, but I am not a maid! Maybe if there were others in the family taking turns, or actually cleaning this wouldn't be such a problem... HELP! HIW SHOULD I ADDRESS THIS??!! |
Question: 24 single and living with parents. Could use a little life advice.? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:45 PM PDT So I moved back home from school four month ago because I only have a couple more classes to get my bachelors degree and the option to take those classes online opened up. Fiscally it was the right decision, because, I do not need to worry about any student loans, and I can also work on becoming a certified personal trainer. The problem I am having now is with my self esteem. I help out around the house (cooking, and cleaning) I have a part time job (albeit one that only offers very limited hours a week), and I am determined to find a full time job so that I can be totally financially independent (besides obviously the free rent). My parents love having me around, people seem to love being around me, and I am able to keep myself in really good shape by spending around an hour at the gym each day. The problem is that I just can't shake the fact that I am living with my parents. I know I shouldn't be complaining, because there are so many people in much worse situations, but I expect so much more from myself. Maybe its because I'm single (and have trouble seeing why the type of person I am attracted to would want to date me right now), or maybe its because I spend too much time in my house, but I could really use some advice about what else I can do to get me through this segment of my life (Hobbies, Social activities, things that would make me more appealing to employers, ect.). I would appreciate any help. |
Question: Mom Won't Give Passport? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:40 PM PDT So I'm 14 and my parents are divorced and I was previously living with my mom. We got into an argument that escalated into me going to live with my dad. I've now been settled here and my dad wants to take me on a cruise ship soon, but my mom has my passport. I keep asking her to give it to me, but she's still mad at me and won't let me have it. Is there any way for me to get my passport back? Isn't it illegal for her to have my stuff when I'm not even living with her anymore? |
Question: How can I Talk to my Mom if Know she is doing something wrong without being disrespectful? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:40 PM PDT |
Question: Teenager out of control. What to do before it gets worse? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:39 PM PDT My brother has gone off the deep end, he is so bad that him and my dad have almost gotten into fist fights and I fear that if he keeps going that that is what is going to happen. My parents were always very fair, not to strict but not to leneant. My brother is 16 and he has a 10:00 curfew on week days and 12:00 on weekends unless he is staying with a friend in which case its that friends parents rules. No drinking or drugs, he has to keep his room clean and take out the trash. He has his own cell phone, they bought him a car that he is paying them for a little at a time with his part time job just to show responsibility and as long as his grades stay up and he follows the rules he is basically free to do whatever he wants. Recently he has decided that they can't tell him what to do. He started staying out at all times of the night, 3 times the police had to be called to find him because my parents couldn't. He keeps coming home drunk or high, his grades dropped and he has a terrible attitude. They punished him by taking his cell phone and car away. He retaliated by throwing a vase at the TV and breaking it. They wouldn't allow him out on week days or weekends so he started sneaking out and breaking windows. When they tried to talk about everything to see what is going on, he called my mother a B**** and pushed my father into a wall and punched him. I'm worried for my family. Please help. |
Question: Should I get some respect? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:24 PM PDT Let me say first that I am 24 years old, have controlled epilepsy by medications and surgery and I live with my parents cause no1 is whiling to hire me so I cant move out. After High School 2010 I took a year off to relax my mind.The following year I took a foreign language at a community college (ASL) .I found out it was very difficult after I found out who taught the class ( a deaf instructor) but my father said continue it even though your basically failing and you cant really ask for help after all It might turn out you like it.Three years (2014) after I got my 90 hours in Childcare 1 and 2.While I was in High School I had work-study and in 2012 I had an actual job but most recently I had a job but I had to quit cause the daycare/company went bankrupt. I have applied for daycare jobs and they all say "they are looking for someone more qualified" I ask what they mean so I can fix it for the next person and they all say "just more qualified".So I moved from daycares to places like Mcdonalds I still got nothing back. My parents and even my sisters look at me like I am a child/ immature.I thought I was in my yahoo email but I was in my parents and my mom talks crap about me ( I know wrong of me too look in her email).Every Friday I go over to my boyfriends and spend the night till Sunday maybe Monday if he is off work. And during the week I look for jobs, clean little things i.e do the dishes, fold laundry,vacuum. ALSO for those THAT DONT KNOW if you have epilepsy you cant drive |
Question: I'm thinking about asking my son's father to sign over his rights.. advice?? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:22 PM PDT Before passing judgment on me, please hear me out. My son will be 8 years old in 2 months. His father has never been consistent in his life, when we decided to go our separate ways when my son was like a year old its like he chose to take it out on the child too. He hasn't seen or hasn't had any kind of contact with my son in almost a year now and I'm to the point where I'm just really fed up. All he does is pay court ordered child support, which I can care less about. Because money can't replace you not being there as a father.He even had the nerve to tell me once that he hasn't gotten over me and that makes it hard to have a relationship with my son. The times that he would get my son it was only because his girlfriend at the time had to tell him to do so. Well my boyfriend of 4 years and I recent got engaged and we are in the process of planning our wedding. Now that we are getting married I talked to him about legally adopting my son because honestly he has been a consistent father figure to my son sense the day we met. My fiancée couldn't agree more and also feels its the right thing to do. I have always given my son's father every opportunity to be a part of his life... but I can't force him to and now I'm just ready to move on with life!!! |
Question: In three words or less describe the one(s) that raised you? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:21 PM PDT |
Question: My mom is using me for child benefit wrongfully? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 12:06 PM PDT Hello. My mom and dad divorced when I was 2. My mom took me and my second brother. I have three brothers. When I was 6, my second brother went to live with my dad. I was alone with my mom and stepdad. My mom never had a job, my stepdad still has. I had a talk with my third brother, he said that my mom kept shouting and abusing him when he was little too, threatening our dad, etc. She took almost all my dads money after divorce, kept taking all his money for child benefit (there was no deal about it when getting married). Now my mom kept talking hoping I would stay with her and not moving to my father. She gets easily irritated, like a psycho really. She's almost someone else in school meetings, she tries everything to make sure I stay. My stepdad is alcoholic, and it seems like my mom is using him to live off lazy and easy, which pisses me off, and making sure I stay so she doesn't have to pay my dad child benefits obviously. My real dad is really nice, he's genuinely a nice person. He was working his *** off when I was around 2, and my mom just kept shouting at him everyday. My mom has been brainwashing me and telling everything is my dad's fault, that he left us etc. I don't trust my mom anymore, what should I do? My dad is having hard time paying child benefits for my mom, and he's paying car things, food for 3 other people. He told my brother he's really low on money, he would go to retirement, but he can't, since the money is not enough to pay bills etc with 3 people. I am 16, my second brother is 18, my third 19 and fourth 25. They don't have good enough jobs to live on their own. |
Question: Why wouldn't my mom have told me about this? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:59 AM PDT My boyfriend Bill came to my house and I introduced him to my mom. He immediately said "You are so lucky to have a gorgeous mom". Then he said to mom "You look very familiar. Have we met before"? Mom said "no, I don't think so". Bill went home and searched for mom's name on the internet trying to find out if there was some event he was at that mom was at also. He didn't find any but he found several of mom's pictures on the Internet. He found out she was a model and had her picture in several magazines when she was younger. Bill printed out these pictures and gave them to me. I had no idea mom was ever a model or that she had appeared in national magazines. She had never told me anything about this. Was I ever surprised. I want to put these pictures on the wall in my room with a banner that says "My wonderful and beautiful mom". Bill told me to please check with mom before I do that. He said there is some reason she did not tell you she was a model. Can anyone think of a reason mom did not tell me she was a model? I think the pictures of her when she was young are of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life. |
Question: Am I being selfish towards my sister? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:59 AM PDT I haven't been on my laptop in like a week because I've been so busy. When I was just going on my laptop, my sister asked me if she could do her homework - even though it's due in 14th May and it's only like 10 short questions. Her laptop broke yesterday and she's already done six questions. I said to her that I want to be on it because I haven't used the internet for a week. But she was like "oh you're so f***ing selfish" and "all you care about is yourself". Was I being selfish? |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:56 AM PDT This summer, my boyfriend's siblings are coming to visit us from Chicago and since I don't have siblings of my own, I think it'll be fun for us all to get to know each other better since their brother and I have been together for a few years now. His brother is 14, almost 15 and his sister is 10, almost 11. Thanks everyone. |
Question: Is it totally selfish to move out of state with my children? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:47 AM PDT In the process of separation...then divorce. I want to move to where my family is and where I will have a tremendous amount of support through what I'm sure will be difficult even though it's what's best. My husband so far seems agreeable and willing to find a way to make it work; split time with them or even work to move closer to where Id like to go. My kids are 8 and 5. I just feel that having extended family to be there will be important! Thoughts? |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:37 AM PDT i am always sad because my dad is in jail n my step dad is in really bad conditions and school is is making things worse i am not popular a lot of people make fun of me and are mean to me what should i do and i all ready told my parents they r not helping me. |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:30 AM PDT A few times my mother has whipped me with an extension cord i'd say about 4-5 times. it left marks and left the area she hit numb. Is that considered abuse |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:28 AM PDT Like treating people bad or say bad stuff about people. |
Question: How to get my dad out of jail? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:25 AM PDT He is currently in jail because of interfering with child custody. Me and my sister ran away to his house and he didn't know about it so he didn't want to leave us on the streets so he took us in his house expecting to take us back to our moms the next day. We kept refusing to go back and eventually the cops came and he was arrested and currently is in jail. Our mom pushed us to run away because the way she was treating us, we have cps dealing with that right now. She told us to tell the truth and her version of the truth was that he molested us and all that so she made us say that. Now he's in jail for something he didn't do but he pled guilty and now I feel horrible, is there a way I can get him out? Even if it means I have to get him in trouble, I want him out of there because he didn't do anything wrong. And how long would he be in there? Please, anybody, help me with this. |
Question: Is my dad really sexist? What may I do? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:16 AM PDT He usually watches TV and says "women are so stupid". He puts my mum to clean the house and work while he doesn't do absolutely anything all day but watch TV and call his friends and get drunk. He also ignores me for being a girl because this automatically means to him that I am "dumb" and uninteresting. I am bored of him ignoring me and telling me to learn to cook. I am only 14 to 15. He is at home just for decoration, he doesn't do anything because he is the 'man'. We live at the 21st century.. What may I do? I am very sad seeing my mum wanting to die (she was struggling with cancer) because all she wants is some support and empathy from him. She tried to attempt suicide in front of me. I try to help her as much as I can.. What may I do?? |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:13 AM PDT My legal guardian (great aunt) won't let me see my real mother anymore. My real mother used to visit every day, bringing me food, staying over, having fun with me. They always get into fights and for a while, my aunt won't let my mom see me. This time, they got into another fight, and she won't let me see her. Ever again, she says. If I want to see her, my aunt threatens to kick me out. She doesn't even want my moms name to be spoken. What do I do? |
Question: Adoption aged Fourteen? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT Alright. So, I am fourteen years old and currently live in the United Kingdom. Ever since I was around aged 10 I had found that my family life was more then abnormal. I am constantly living a depressed life due to the family around me, and I have no idea how I am related at all to them. My father has been a heavy drinker from when I can remember. He would play video games 'most commonly World of Warcraft' and would barely spend any time with the rest of us, 'Me, my sister and my mother'. Now, my father would need taking care of when he was drinking and my mother would usually be working nights and my sister would sleep out at another friends house, leaving me at the age of 10 to keep my father company and listen to his long lectures about how he was treated as a child. There had been times when he had fallen asleep with the door wide open throughout the night and I had awoken to find a cat within the house. I then closed the door and proceeded (aged 10). There had also been times where he had come home at four in the morning heavily under the influence of alcohol. He also chooses to play music at high volume awaking me and my mother who works hard to provide for the family. My father has never worked one day of his life other then when he created his own business of which lasted one month and was funded by my mother. My father also tried a photography job of which he needed on average £10,000 total to purchase camera's, lenses and much more. However in recent times he now claims his photography is a hobby. My father is also a heavy drug user and smokes 'pot' almost every day. It smells when I enter the downstairs and he does not smoke outside leaving it to be inhaled by anyone who walks past. My father constantly complains when he does not get something he wishes to, for example money for his game as well as products that he expects my mother to pay for. He also notices when I ask for a product and have to wait a year for my birthday, he then asks my mother to purchase it for him and then leading to him being bored of it after a while and then either selling it to me or selling it elsewhere. A prime example of this is a camera called 'Go Pro', I had asked for one for two years and my father had asked me what It was. I showed him and the price of the camera was over £300, two weeks later he purchased one and sold it just one month later online. My father also constantly abuses us, not physically but mentally. He insults me and my sister 'as a joke way' But does it all the time, for example he states if I were to become gay he would disown me as well as calling me a 'pussy' if I wish to go upstairs instead of watching television with him. What really pushed the boat was that after years of him insulting me and my sister he had recently visited a doctor stating he has PTSD / Depression which is outrageous and extremely pathetic. My father also claims he is intelligent and is a member of menca 'of which he is' however he had entered the group over twenty years ago. He feels as though this allows him to have an advantage over people and uses it during conversations at the bar where he would try to make new friends while drinking. It is not as though I have done anything to trigger this, in fact me watching how my father had turned out has made me work harder in school to make me not turn out like him. I am currently an A standard student who attends school all of the time, I cause no bother and do not go out partying like other teens. What fully appalls me about my family is the fact that my father does all of this and my mother still wishes to stay with him without caring four mine and my sisters well being. (My sister = 18). This had led to my sister moving out of the house and constant arguing between my two parents, all of the time who are constantly yelling from morning till noon at the shortest of things such as food going cold or my father not being able to purchase what he wishes. It has gotten me to a point where I wish to escape from this house, also the fact that I am not praised for all of my hard work and dedication to my school work as my parents do not care about us and instead are focused on pleasing each other so they do not become angry. For example I would receive an A for an English Essay and my mother would say 'Ah that's nice', and the conversation would be over. What also annoys me is the fact that my sister is becoming an Alcoholic and also smokes with a boyfriend who does drugs. And yet she has received countless chances from my mother, she had moved out of the house to live in a hostal, she asked to move back and we had cleared out the entire room. She then said she didn't want to move back. My mother said that was her final chance and then sub-sequentially asked her to move back in after a while and allowed her to. My mother then also gave my sister a car even though she failed her entire high school and has had to resit her maths assessment over eight times and yet she receives the exact same amount of praise as me if not more, my mother speaks to her more and cares about how she is being treated more. They constantly have conversations about driving and how her school is going and I am left here on my own to sit and revise. Overall I just feel as though there is no other option then for me to leave this household. Now I do not wish to ruin my parents as they have brought me up for the past fourteen years, however I do wish to leave the household to close so I can attend the same school, still have the same friends and even be able to see my parents once in a while. However I do not wish to involve child protection as they have done me well to where I am today. I hopefully wish to become a lawyer after attending college and university but I feel as though these tasks would lead me to suicide within a household like this. If there is any option for me please list it, thank you. Also please do not recommend speaking to my family as it is hard |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:07 AM PDT I am SO embarrassed and have no idea what to do right now. My dad just made things SO awkward D: I have a guy friend who is also my fwb. He has met my parents and sees them here and there, but I haven't officially met his yet (I do know their names and stuff though). Well, my dad met his dad out and seriously talked to him. He told him who he was and who I was. I don't know what exactly was said because I wasn't with him, but I pray he didn't say "my daughter is your son's girlfriend" or something because we AREN'T dating! I really hope he just said we were FRIENDS. Worse yet is our parents had never met until this random time. Our parents don't know each other. My dad said they shook hands and stuff. I'm not exactly "mad" entirely but I'm afraid my fwb will be mad at me and think that I was behind this or that I'm going around saying we're dating and stuff. This is NOT TRUE! I didn't even know my dad was going to do that. When he came home and told me I was like O.o omfg you WHAT?! I worry that his dad will go home and be like "hey I met *insert my name's* dad today" and then he'll be like wait HUH?! I don't even know if his dad will SAY anything about what happened. He may not. He could have just been like "ok that's nice whatever" and shook my dad's hand to be polite (I know his family are very polite church-going people). But if he DOES say something and my fwb finds out what happened, WHAT DO I DO!? I don't want my fwb thinking I did this because I didn't! I don't want my fwb to think I'm some crazy person who is going around, introducing our people and wanting to take things too far. I honestly had NOTHING to do with this and am REALLY embarrassed and feel really awkward (especially since his poor dad doesn't even know me well). Even worse is my fwb has a brother and my dad may have harassed him too (or might in the future). So yeah - I'm just about to die of embarrassment to be honest. How do I handle this? I don't mind our parents meeting or all of us even hanging out - but really? THIS is how it started... with my dad opening is mouth prematurely? This is one bad quality my dad possesses - he has a HUGE blabber mouth =/ If I get approached by my fwb about this - what do I do? Is it possible they won't blame me and we can still be together? If they are mad/offended, what do I do about that and how can I prove I really didn't have anything to do with it? |
Question: Islam-Does he have to pay dowry? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 11:00 AM PDT I dont want to go into details but she came from a rich family and very greedy family from srilanka who had 4 mansions! eventually allah probably took them away because they were so greedy so they came to England. My brother used to live with their dad his pathetic excuse of a wife and their only good sister. She used to pretend to be religous and pious but all she was a was lazy good for nothing money stealing lying hypocrite. Even to this day all they want is money. They found out about this thing called dowry if you get a divorce you give them a gift to help. Well what do you expect!? she did so many things (hit him argue with him publicly embarrass him and threw melted candle all over his body- she then lied saying my brother hit her and that she was joking with the candle) there is so much I could say about this greedy liar. So she kicked him out about 4 times as soon as he came home from work (10 at night) even though he is providing them with food and drink. (the dad who pretends he is religious already has taken 4000 off him)! so anyway my brother is a very patient man and stuck by them but they kicked him out. My brother has told nobody but me what they did because he is pious mashallah. But anyway she went and called my family saying how he abused her and he just left! Even the dad says he saw me at mosue tring to fight him! I did not even go! SO anyway they want him to file for divorce so he has to give her 2.5 grand.They already owe him 4000 so does he have to |
Question: Should i tell my patents? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:57 AM PDT My sister has been lying telling her friends that she had a abortion. I dont know why she id lying about something so exotic. My sister and my parents mostly argue. They sometimes argue alot so i dont know if i should tell them or not cause they might argue. Im not trying to ruin my parents in my sister relationship but i really want parents to know so my sister can go talk to someone. I dont know what to do? My sisters told my best friend and my best friend told me cause she was concerned . Can someone please help me |
Question: How to deal with a passive aggressive parents? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:54 AM PDT I have grown up with my grandparents my entire life, since my mom was more occupied with her friends at the time. It was always filled with arguing. I moved out at 17 with an ex. We lived together 3 years. The break up gave me an unfortunate last minute move and it made it really tough for me to get another good stable job to afford a studio in the city. I looked for help, but because I have family I was told to move back in with my grandparents. I've been living with them a year and a half now, before I wasn't as home as much, but now I am, since I've fallen pregnant with my current boyfriend. He lives about a 45 minute drive away, but I visit him often. I have never felt so calm with him/his family and it's great. When I'm at home, it's negative and I have the two of them get upset at me over little things. If I get upset they are arguing about, I have no right to an opinion and it's bothersome. I'll get upset and I'll be told I'm the one with the issue and "everyone is getting along fine". She even said that I have to figure out why I hate them, which I don't and today, she had the nerve to tell me that I shouldn't get pregnant too often. I'm just tired of the bickering between my grandparents and mainly my grandmother taking her anger out on my grandpa. He doesn't stand up for himself. I plan on moving in with my boyfriend in a month, I just don't know how to keep a "normal" relationship with them on a daily basis until so. There is always something negative to be said. |
Question: My dad is going to stop child support.... How do I deal with my mom..?!?!? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:40 AM PDT So I'm 19,turning 20 This June. I've lived with my mom In NY. I hated it there,had no life and always dirt poor.my mom does not work,she is on dissability and lives on child support $300 a month (not a lot but something) anyways,I came to Florida to be with my dad on March 29, because I thought it would be good for me. And I like it here. BUT my mom wants me to come back because she doesn't want child support to end. Supposed to end when I'm 21 in NY ...... Now my dad wants to stop it like go to court and stop it so he doesn't have to work as much and can spend more time with me and such. He's 77....... Now I feel bad for my mom cuz she has no money,and she won't move to Florida even though it's cheap..... WHAT THE F U C K DO I DO!?!? My mom is going to FLIP OUT WHEN SHE FINDS OUT. My mom has. Bad temper and gets mad easily |
Question: What should I do when your mother in law interferes with your marry life? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:38 AM PDT My husband and I have been marry for two years and have a 8 month old daughter. We currently renting a townhouse and we are saving for our new home since we have a 2 year lease. My husband and I decided I would stay home with our daughter while he worked. He makes enough money for the three of us and enough to even save! But now my mother in law who is 53 is pregnant. Her husband which is my husband's stepfather left her and now she's telling my husband that I should look for a job now. Why should I look for a job? Well she's wants my husband to help her out with expensives and the baby that's coming soon. What the hell? I feel like she needs to leave us alone. It's not my problem she's in this situation. We made a decision. And I'm not looking for job to support her baby. She has that husband to pay child support. And she also has a son, a 23 year old who lives with her and doesn't work! HE SHOULD GET A JOB!!! He's only taking three classes in college. I went to college and had two jobs. I managed! I'm just so mad about this. My husband is still in shock, so we haven't talked about it 100%. What should we do? What should I do? |
Question: Can I live with my mother or will the judge send me to foster care? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:29 AM PDT My dad's potentially going to jail and I was wondering if I could live with my mother. I visit her daily except when she has to work on Mondays and we have a great relationship. She never hurts me and always motivates me to do good in school. However though there's just one issue. My mother has a history for "child abuse" because my sister told lies to social services. I was wondering if I could still live with her. I just can't stop worrying about this issue |
Question: How do you go about telling friends and family that your married? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:28 AM PDT This is for a friend. My friend and her got married sooner than expected due to the status of his visa at a courthouse. My friend never told anyone yet that she is married because she knows that her friends and family won't approve of then getting married so soon now she realized she wish could've stand up to them. Her husband family lives our of the country so he doesn't have family in the US. They want to have a big wedding after they elope or some ceremony if thats possible. How can they go about this? Thanks. Please don't judge. |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:27 AM PDT My family ruin my schedule all the time. I have exams coming up and i want to be on schedule. Im so behind in everything and i think its my familys fault. They do whatever whenever. I would have a plan to study at 2 on a saturday i would ask the day before are we doing angthing theyed say no then at 1 theyd tell me were going to my grandparents. Right now im sitying in my grandmas all my books are at home i was meant to be studying now but my dad called when he was meant to collect me saying hes not coming. Im so sick of this. Im 15 |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:25 AM PDT So I was playing Call of Duty w/ my brother and killed him. He got really pissed and told my mom and she grounded me for a week. I have an important English assignment due the same day I get my laptop back and my assignment is time consuming so really need help trying to get it back for her. Help please?? |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:21 AM PDT My sister is 14 yrs old and she don't want to go to school ( her mum dead since 2 years ) she is alone in the house bcz my university is in another country So she cut her hands and she shred her school costume to not go to skl and every night cry Anyone have a solution ?? Why she don't want to go to skl (Sry for my english ) |
Question: Daughter will say anything in front of me? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:20 AM PDT My daughter is 15 I'm 30 and my wife is 29.me and my wife had her young but she will talk to me or say thing in front of me which I don't want to know about like periods and stuff the other day she was talking to me and her mum about how at a party a boy asked her to give him head but she didn't want to because his pubes were long so she gave him a handjob instead , I didn't know we're to look and my wife was laughing with her, I we can't really tell her off because we had a baby so young but I don't want to know about her doing stuff like that I've told her before not to tell me stuff like that but she just does it anyway.I said to my wife in bed she says that she would rather know what she's upto and that she finds it funny but I don't. What should I do ??? Does you children say anything like this in front of you ? |
Question: My step mom still doesn't like me? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:13 AM PDT I have been nice to her and her kids, I was in college until she found out I smoked weed, she mad the decision and coerced my dad to pull out all my money for college and said I would live in a trailer park (she said it like thats some evil place to live) and she said I am going to go no where in life and called my house a dump. Then she got my dad to buy her a really nice house right afterward... Recently I made some money and my step mom and dad were in Florence, Italy. My friend has a mansion outside of florence in the country. Very beautiful house with a pool and courtyard. Anyways I told them I could meet them at this villa house and I said they could stay the night. I had my girlfriend with me (who is a very nice girl has her degree and she looks really good) they had never met her. Anyways my step mom first asks me how I can afford the place and all these questions being very critical of me. I just said I wanted to see them and show them a place in italy they hadn't been too and my girlfriend thought she was disrespectful to me. My dad is nice to me though. Why is it my step mom doesn't like me? I have been the nicest person in the family and she is fairly disrespectful to me and I have told her many times about my concerns and she tells me I am brain damaged because I smoke weed. |
Question: Moving Out at 18. Help...please? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:10 AM PDT Im 17 right now and turn 18 in a month or two. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years since 9th grade and I will be graduating in May. We've always talked about moving in together and for now it would be with his dad. There's a good amount of space for us two there and We would be helping out with money. We both have jobs also. The thing is my parents are completely opposed, of course. My parents say that's it's not what they want for me and they would like for me to stay because it's hard out there on your own and blah blah. All of the stuff I already know. I'm willing to get through it with my boyfriend though. And it's not like we're completely on our own yet. We're staying with his dad and helping there until we can get on our feet with money. But my parents have this idea that I wil be moving into their new house they are getting but I've said I wanted to live with my boyfriend before. I'm only moving 10 minutes down the road so it's not like I'm far away. I'm just feeling bad now and I don't want to hurt them. I need help finding a way to approach them about this. My mom takes it the worst and she will probably be mad. But I want to have a little more freedom since I'll be 18. I can't even be out past 9 now and 9:30 is stretching it. I'm only allowed to be home by 10 SOMETIMES. They say rules will change when I'm 18 but idk how they can just change it within a day. I don't know. i need help. I just don't know how to go about it... |
Question: Whats the law on kids and grandparents? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:04 AM PDT Question: my sister and her husband are married. They have one child together, long story short she does not get along with his family and has no contact whatsoever. If her mother in law and father in law do not see their grandkid ever because she doesn't want her kid to be around them ( there's reasons why). my question is if they get a lawyer can they fight to see their grandkid? Could that be possible? I mean they are only grandparents but could they actually have rights? |
Question: What should i do about my dysfunctional family?!!? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 10:01 AM PDT Growing up every sincere was a kid ive always had to always help my mother all the time I always had to play the mother at a young age, I pretty much had to be the mother and raise myself. And this has been going on all my life , where i had to do everything ..and support her so for the last eight years she and my sister have not had a stable place to live .they lived with me on three separate occasions all for about a Year at a time or i ve had to give ever money to help her pay her rent or to get food while she went to school or drive her around because she doesn't drive or have a car its ridiculous Anyhow, she moved with me AGAIN, after relocating from calfiornia to Houston to stay with me her and my sister, for over six months they both stayed with me , for pretty much nothing,she only gave me 100 dollars per month , while she worked , during that time, I had to driver her to work, help her run errands , because again she refuses to drive, but she promised me she was saving for An apartment and a car because transportation system is terrible , you need a car here , so my lease comes up in June, And she had no money saved , i had to pay for her to move, get their apartment in my name, aand she me to take her back and forth to work and stuff I don't mind but its like i have been doing this my whole life , driving her around , or living with her , or taking care of her and she's 53 , I'm 34 im frustrated and feel like doing something drasti so her and my sister lost the apartment in November I co signed for, so she moved away back to mississippi to stay with my grandmother, she couldnt find a job in mississippi, so I had to rent a car drive 600 miles 7 hours and go pick her up and,and pay for her food, pay for gas ..because she had no money smh and she's been here three weeks and no job, she trying some at home business, which she doesnt know if its legitmate, shes missed interviews with staffing agencies and I have to pay for their tolitries, they have both eaten up my food, well now she gets food stamps, so that helps a little..but everything else they use up, like soap, toliet paper, laundry detergent, plus my sister takes my makeup and clothes, and shoes, and uses them and lies and says she doesnt have them,,and they owe me over 5000.00 dollars, and she is taking her time finding a stable job..Im broke now from trying to help them.what should I do! |
Question: Why does my sister always stick her bare feet in my face? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:57 AM PDT |
Question: I really hate my 9 year old brother!? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:57 AM PDT Here is 10 things I hate about him. 1. He's so immature. 2. He has an extremely weird obsession with Lego Ninjago and Minecraft. It's all he ever talks about and it's been going on for years now. It makes me miss Thomas the Tank Engine. 3. He doesn't have a phone, computer, or iPad so he takes everyone else's and that's all he does all day. I have a passcode on my Kindle but not on my phone and he still takes them. 4. His voice sounds like a girl. 5. He blames everything on everyone else. And they always believe him. 6. He is spoiled, and if he doesn't get something, he whines until he gets it. 7. He screams and cries like a baby over the stupidest things. 8. He touches his p*nis, eats his boogers, won't wash his hands unless you yell at him, and in the shower he just sits there and pees. If he's mad at you, he'll cough, burp, or fart in your face. 9. He has a ton of friends that he doesn't deserve. 10. He always sleeps with his mom and she does nothing about it. He won't sleep alone. He always goes in my room and threatens to read my diary but doesn't know where I keep them. This is NOT A TROLL. I'm sick to death of him! Not to mention he forces himself to cry and lies that I hit him. And everyone believes him. What can I do about this little b*stard!? |
Question: 10 points best answer!!!! How to break ur wrist at home?!?!?!? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:45 AM PDT I've been trying for 2 years. I LOVE it!!! I sprained ma ankle and ma wrist on purpose!!! I dislocated ma shoulder on purpose w/ ma friend!!! 😃😃😃 I love it I can fake cry and got as whole story planed out!!! Ok this it what I have no hammers and no car door!!! Srry!!!! Don't say I'm physco bc I already no dat!!! Gurl, I don't got 2 worry bout money bc I got insurence!!! Plz don't judge bc it's ma bones not urs!!! Thx boo 😉 |
Question: What should i do about my mother and sister, they wont help out!!? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:42 AM PDT Growing up every sincere was a kid ive always had to always help my mother all the time I always had to play the mother at a young age, I pretty much had to be the mother and raise myself. And this has been going on all my life , where i had to do everything ..and support her so for the last eight years she and my sister have not had a stable place to live .they lived with me on three separate occasions all for about a Year at a time or i ve had to give ever money to help her pay her rent or to get food while she went to school or drive her around because she doesn't drive or have a car its ridiculous Anyhow, she moved with me AGAIN, after relocating from calfiornia to Houston to stay with me her and my sister, for over six months they both stayed with me , for pretty much nothing,she only gave me 100 dollars per month , while she worked , during that time, I had to driver her to work, help her run errands , because again she refuses to drive, but she promised me she was saving for An apartment and a car because transportation system is terrible , you need a car here , so my lease comes up in June, And she had no money saved , i had to pay for her to move, get their apartment in my name, aand she me to take her back and forth to work and stuff I don't mind but its like i have been doing this my whole life , driving her around , or living with her , or taking care of her and she's 53 , I'm 34 im frustrated and feel like doing something drasti so her and my sister lost the apartment in November I co signed for, so she moved away back to mississippi to stay with my grandmother, she couldnt find a job in mississippi, so I had to rent a car drive 600 miles 7 hours and go pick her up and,and pay for her food, pay for gas ..because she had no money smh and she's been here three weeks and no job, she trying some at home business, which she doesnt know if its legitmate, shes missed interviews with staffing agencies and I have to pay for their tolitries, they have both eaten up my food, well now she gets food stamps, so that helps a little..but everything else they use up, like soap, toliet paper, laundry detergent, plus my sister takes my makeup and clothes, and shoes, and uses them and lies and says she doesnt have them,,and they owe me over 5000.00 dollars, and she is taking her time finding a stable job..Im broke now from trying to help them.what should I do! Im sleeping on the couch, I gave them my bedroom, my neck and back hurts..I want to help them,but I feel like they are doing me wrong, by not helping out, and trying to help themselves..Ive paid their cell phone bills, wired money for food |
Question: My mom's depression is costing me???? help pls? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:35 AM PDT My mom has had Depression since I was 2. I am 17 now. My mum is on medication but the side effects makes my mom tired etc This has needed me to take great responsibility from a young age, especially since I am the eldest child. When my mom is sick I do help. When my dad is at work I do a lot, because if my dad doesn't go to work. Who will pay for bills, morgatage, food. etc. It has been a lot for me. Even when my mom is well. I have to try and keep stress ftee at home as work is a lot for her. This has greatly affected my life. I have no social life as I have to make sure mom is well. I am at school and do sports 4 times a week. I only have four friends all from school, but I never hang out with them outside school as if they want to come to my house it isn't the most pleasant place. This is why I have always build up excuses saying I'm busy. Because closer friendship lead to people coming over to your place and tbh it isn't great I have always maintain that. It has prevented me from having a GF as your GF or close friends??? Please help any person experience would be an extra help as well. No one outside my family knows about my mom's depression. It is a personal problem. That we keep behind close doors so talking to teachers etc is out of the question What should I do Thanks sorry for making it long.... |
Question: My fiancé and daughter hate each other? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:27 AM PDT We had our daughter young she was 15 I was 17 but we stayed together ,now she's is 26 I'm 29 and our daughter is 12 going on 13 . They hate each other they argue they say horrible things to each other , my daughter tells her to go and die, there hate for each other is strong , I don't know if it's because there hormonal,but our house is like a war zone most days what should it do ?help !!! |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:19 AM PDT im 14 and year old girl and when my dad gets angry or irritated he pulls me forward by my wrist and hair and kicks me from behind. It used to be much worse when i was younger but he has been doing it less because he feels bad about it he used to do it for just discipline but now its when he's irritated but anything can set him off. Recently i asked him where somewhere was and he started talking then just stopped so after a while he started talking to me about something and i asked more exasperatedly where the place was after telling me not to talk like that he told me to ask again nicely so i asked "nicely" then said but i asked you ages ago and he started charging towards me this is usually the point where i say please don't hurt me and If im lucky he might stop but if not like today it's the same grab pull kick My mum says i need to understand that he was raised like that so thats how he knows how to raise me And tells me again that he feels bad about it. So after yelling at me calling me a cow and all i ran upstairs I don't think this is worthy of childline but i am really fed up of him doing it How can I protect myself Or get him to stop? When he's charging at me I panic so I haven't done anything in retaliation |
Question: I hate my life, I need suggestions on what I should do? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:07 AM PDT I am 20 years old, I am stuck in the worst life anyone could imagine, my parents are complete assholes, imagine how much of an asshole anyone could get, that s what my parents are, especially my dad, that piece of **** keeps abusing and insulting me all the time for no ******* reason, I do have an online job that pays me well, and I can afford leaving the house and living on my own, but the problem is I am stuck in an engineering school, I still have 3 years left in college and I am afraid that moving out and living on my own would affect my studies and lead me to fail, I seriously don t know what to do, I try as much as possible to avoid my stupid parents but they keep coming around me and annoying me, for an example, they went on a vacation once and my dad asked to borrow my camera, and I accepted, when they came back, my dad came into my room and threw the camera at the floor and insulted me, because he thought the camera was bad, this is MY camera, I bought it with my own money, but still that ****** piece of pig s **** dad of mine thought he had the right to do that for some reason, you get the idea? I can afford moving out but I can t do that because of my college studies, so I am stuck living with these asshole pieces of **** parents of mine for the next three years till I get the ******* degree, what should I do? I can t take it anymore... |
Question: Why do my family members provoke me? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 09:07 AM PDT I was minding my own business My dad pulls my hair and touches me and I tell him to stop and he doesnt so i go off and he tells me I need deliverance and im crazy.. He is so annoying what do I do? I have anger issues and may eventually hurt him |
Question: I am in a conflict with my brother's girlfriend and my mother sides with both of them? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 08:43 AM PDT My brother is 22, I am 24. We used to live with my mother, but she moved away about a year ago, because of work. When she moved, the apartment was left to us. I love my brother and we used to get along really well, but he has problems with depression and doesn't work, nor he talks to us much. When my mother was still at home, he brought his girlfriend to live with us. I didn't mind it back then, but it started to piss me off when they were just laying around, doing nothing, watching TV and my mother did nothing about it. When I mentioned it to her on a few occasions that I don't mind that she's there, but I just don't find it OK for her to do absolutely nothing and live at our expense, she started yelling at me, saying how mean I am to everyone and that I am just jealous like I always were. I think she's allowed this just so my brother could have a reason to be happy, but I think it's very contradicting of her to do this, while she always told me to keep on working and earn my own money, because she won't pay for me to lay around the house. Now the girl lives with us, acts like the house is hers, if she's in a good mood she'll be nice, if she's in a bad mood she'll bang around the house. It all started with her behaviour after my mother left and one day I told her to stop, wanting her to understand and have respect and know I have all the right to be there, then the real war started. My mother pays their bills and gives them money for the food, it drives me mad. I just wanted to add, the thing that really brings out the anger is the fact that I cannot believe how much guilt I had to go through in my life, because my mother always had to make me feel bad about everything. Everything I've done, said and mostly everything she gave me in this lifetime. And I actually believed it for years and played ping pong inside my brain, thinking "am I wrong, am I right?". And now I am witnessing her giving it to this girl and it makes me want to punch someone. |
Question: Is weird a father calls his 18 years old son by names like, babe, sweet, darling? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 08:33 AM PDT Is my father gay? |
Posted: 14 Apr 2015 08:22 AM PDT So far she's 1. Hit me. 2, Spit in my face. 3. Threw hot boiling water on me. 4. Ran my foot over with her car on purpose she had got mad and put her ******* car in reverse and ran my foot over that I was screaming in pain and some old guy stared at us in shock. 5. She calls me all the worst names in the book. 6. Whenever I say no or she doesn't get her way she put her hands on me. 7. I am in college and i'm graduating soon. 8. The reason I don't knock the crap out of her is because she is my mother 9. My aunts even said my dad f.u.c.k.e.d her up. 10. She treats me like a pet ******* dog. And I told her if I get older and have kids she will never get to see them. Not even a photo. I have heart problems because of her and have been to the hospital because of all of this. I even though her that i'm not her husband she literally nags me and argues like we are in a marriage I don't know what is wrong with her. School has been my safe haven I block everything out when im at school. I am scared of her. She was raised in a strict family but was also cheated on and abused by my dad who has a new wife and a kid. And she even says she has the right to hit me. I also have a large gash on my arm scars that people can see that see puts on my that I never wear short sleeves clothes Ron: Yeah Ron Why don't you try having an abusive parent since were little abusing you because they were abused in their marriage and i'm trolling. You are an asshole.You were probably raised as a spoiled brat with loving parents in the suburbs that why you know nothing about me or people who are abused. Go **** off somewhere before you joke about someone who dealt with abuse |
Question: My parents make me wrestle? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 08:19 AM PDT Hi...I'm currently 16 in the 10th grade, I've been wrestling since I was in kindergarten and have begun to hate it the past years and have relentlessly tried to quit over and over again but my parents will not let me I have talked to them about it countless times, it makes me miserable, I'm always in a bad mood, I've spent the past 3 years trying to get out of it. I even offered to get w job and pay them back for this past year, they're only worried about college scholarships which I'm not good enough to get and wouldn't even take one if I could. What do I do? How do I get out of this? |
Question: How can I be a better child? Posted: 14 Apr 2015 08:08 AM PDT I honestly feel like I'm a terrible child to my mother. I lay out from school too much, even when I'm not sick, like today. I just oversleep and miss. She has to work so she can't take me. I don't do dishes, I don't clean the house, I don't take the trash out. I don't do anything but sit in my room, watch anime, and play video games. I enjoy this lifestyle but I want to be a better child. My mom has never told me that I am bad, but I think she feels like it. My grades aren't really that good either. I want to be better but it seems like I just can't. I don't have the motivation to do it. I feel like I'm really hurting my mom and that makes me sad. She and my dad raised me in a "Christian home" but they recently divorced because my dad was an abusive, drunk, drug addict. I'm no longer a Christian, I am Pagan, and I feel like that makes her sad to. I'm also being an extremely bad example for my little brother. I just want to know, am I a bad child for doing nothing and getting things? How can I be better while keeping most of my current lifestyle. Please help me, I'm only 15 and I know that there is time to change. |
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