In this life, you often hear stories about a parent abandoning their child due to difficulties or inconveniences. In fact, it's sad how often you hear those story. That was the story my daughter. She was considered an option to her bio dad. Then, I met the man of my dreams, Jamain. Kiwi and I both found what had been missing. It was our fairy tale! Jamain was so wonderful and didn't take her for granted. He was told he couldn't have children, so they took to each other immediately. It's been a dream. The last step in this process, we need help with. We are now married with 3 kids and have precious little extra money. What we want more than anything is for Jamain to legally adopt Kiwi so she can officially and legally be his. This may sound silly, but it is not. It is best for her for many reasons, but the biggest one is for him to be able to make legal choices for her on a parental level and a life level. Our other children can receive Jamain's benefits, whereas she cannot. We want this to change. We need this to change. We love and appreciate all of you. Anything towards the goal to help us out would be incredible. A huge thank you from the Walker family for all of the shares and donations. You are making us whole and completing our fairy tale. Please help complete our family...not only that...help us put a smile on Kiwi's face because more than almost anything she wants her last name to be the same as mommy, daddy, and her little brothers. www.gofundme.com/completeus

I am 13 and I can hear them how they doing that in room next to mine. I dont have nothing bad about her boyfriend. He is funny,he is good,he is great. But she lie. She said that she will ride him home right now but i saw how they turn off lights and doing it in bed. I mean i can hear them but I didnt saw them. This is hapening right now. I dont know why but i wanna yell to my mom: ***** you lie to me. I mean I love my mum but I hate lies. She lied to me and she hurt me. This is 2nd time that she doing this to me.I wanna say something but I cant. I love her boyfriend but I dont know why but I dont like when some man is in my house. Please tell me what to do.

Is it really that hard? It's Brianna. Alot of people say bree-ah-nah... It's bree-ANN-ah!! Should I keep correcting them or just let it go... It bugs me.

So I just can't feel happy.. Its a little bit weard... I'm trying to be happy but I cant! I have bad relationship with my family , the "boyfriend " thing is really complicated , I don't have friends that I can trust.. And I'm keep trying to be happy..I do things that used to make me happy but i can't feel anything anymore.. is that weird?

This guy, lets call him Bob, Bob has a huge crush on me. i think its kinda my fault because my playing has been mistaken for flirting MANY times. when i flirt, and giggle and smile and use sarcasm in a funny way. so i was definitely NOT flirting with him. Bob told my friend, lets call her Annie. Bob told Annie, and Annie told me. I'm avoiding him now because i DO NOT like him like that. i know it sounds mean, but he's stalking me now! he keeps looking for me, asking where i am, sitting at the table behind me, "accidentally" wandering to my table everyday. He was annoying me so badly, and instead of apologizing he offered me his cookie? wth! he almost bit into that and touched it and wanted me to have it. (i'm kind of a germaphobe). I want him to stop stealing my stuff, stop stalking me, and stop being nasty around me. I'm just not into guys like him! i also told Annie to stop giving him advice (especially when i was right next to her) about me. Help???

I know intensity changes, but I'm worried about amount? Like if someone means the world to you (not romantically) can that ever change?

nor sexually reproducing or reprodution system im talking mom and dad not male and female

I feel as though the one that always worried about you or by your side 100% stick by u and never leaves us good while some people may say they need space but it proves that a girl really loves you

So today I told him that he makes my days stressful and he's a liar. We have a LDR and is hard because he's always busy and we barely talk. I like him but he doesn't show that he does. Do you think he'll break up with me since I said that or look somewhere else .

My brother's a 20 year old boy (In my country adults are +21) who suffers from PTSD because he's been raped by a 30 year old man. After the rape i took him to our old house and left my husband and my parents for a while to take care of him alone. After the rape he started to hate clothes. He walks completely naked in the house and i don't permit him to go out of the house because i can't let him walk in the street naked! He's very good-looking and before the rape most of the girls in his collegue wanted to be his girlfriends. To describe his look i should says that he has green eyes dark hair soft and white skin thick and red lips and he's tall and a little bit thin. Because of his good appearance i'm afraid if someone falls into temptation and sexually abuse him and i have to keep him away from the people's eyes (I don't care if the person who i'm afraid of is a woman or a man). Last night a counselor (a middle aged woman) came to me and told me that she can help my brother improve by taking him out of the city in a quite and beautiful village and make him rest his mind a little bit. But i don't trust her... I'm not sure if she told me the truth or not. I'm thinking of my brother if he'll be okay away from me for a few days, weeks or months until he'll improve. In the same time i'm thinking that my brother doesn't acccept to wear clothes and i'm worried if he gets cold while he's travelling or not. Am i just too protective? Please answer honestly.

My little brother left for boot camp 2weeks ago and I've been depressed since to the point I can't eat and it's making me sick. (He is my best friend) And it's hard knowing he's pretty much going to be gone for the next 4-8years only coming home for short visits a few times a year if that..and In a few months I have to deal with my boyfriend (of 7years) joining the navy and being gone for at least 4years but looking more like 6. I don't know what to do or how to handle this at all:/ I just feel like sleeping all the time. (I don't allow myself to cuz I know it'll just make me feel worse) anyone else going through something similar? Or ever deal with it? How do you get threw it?

Im just so fed up with being weak and nice. He always comes out the hate with an excuse of why he can't visit his son that he's only seen one time since he was born and my son is 1 years old now. I don't understand how someone can be okay without being an active parent. He lives with his 22 year old girlfriend in VA and we live in NYC. I really thought he was just going to do the right thing this time. i haven't heard from him in two days. I feel so stupid all over again. His girlfriend is extremely controlling and don't like when he's having any contact with me about the child because she obviously feels like he don't have any other kids witch he has 4 in all. He's afraid to leave over what she might say or do. It's not fair my son can't have a bond with his father because of a woman. I'm confused and hurt for my child. He asked me to purchase the ticket so I thought everything will go smoothly.

So I was talking with this girls who I really like yesterday, and things started getting very steamy. Of course I was happy about this, cause I like her (though we haven't done anything in bed yet). But then we talked about size, of guys' manhood. She said that she "LOVES them big". And that "If a guy has a really small one... he seems way less manly... and way more feminine to me". The problem is, I'm really small! I mean like abnormally small. Its seriously only about 2 inches long, when at full mast (2 inches is the max). And its not thick either (plus I'm done over 18 and done growing btw). So can you please, please be honest and answer these questions for me girls. 1. Why does she "LOVE" big size on a guy? Whats so great about big ones anyway!? 2. Why does she think "very small" guys seem way less manly to her? And way more "feminine" (Please explain)? 3. If a guy had a penis that's 2 inches (& thin), honestly what would you think? How would you react? 4. I admit I've been laughed at before for this reason... Why do girls laugh if its 2 inches?... What all is so funny, honestly? Please be completely honest, cause I really need to know the truth. .

I just found out that I'm a dad. To a five year old son. The boy was conceived from a brief relationship several years ago, and I only met with the mother again this month. When we did, we both noticed that the boy and I had several physical similarities, and she never knew who the father was, so we got tested and I discovered that I was indeed the dad. This is a huge shock to me. I never planned on having children and now that the time has come, I'm conflicted on what to do. I want to be there as a dad, but don't know if its too late to do so. And then there's another problem. One I'm more ashamed about. You see, I'm also conflicted because the mother of this child is white, while I am black. I've been struggling with my own levels of racism toward white people throughout my life after my mother was killed in a car accident by a white drunk driver. I hate admitting this but i have feelings of regret that I had a biracial child with someone white, and am ashamed of those feelings because deep down I know they're wrong. I do want to be there as father for a child i helped put on this earth, and the mother is the only person I've been in a relationship with and had a good connection (she believes i should pursue being his father). Why do I have these feelings? Why cant I push them aside completely? Am I fit to be the boy's dad?

And I mean TREMENDOUS, like crying for hours and believing you could never forgive yourself for how you've been and what you've done to them.

my husband usually visits without me after he works because they live near his job . i invite them for us and them to eat out but i dont usually get a response so i wait on their invite but never get one . last time i saw them was three weeks ago . i guess thats ok , last time i saw his sister was three months ago and we get contacted to her by my husbands parents , they tell us about parties . should i not worry about it ?

My mom is deciding to see my boyfriends dad. I think this is just not right. If they were to "get to together" as a relationship the. That would make me and my boyfriend step siblings. I've been with him for over a year. They've been "seeing" each other for like only 3-4 months. I've cried and asked her to stop so many times. She promises over and over again. Saying she won't. She breaks it everytime she gives me a promise. I've begged her and told her it's hurting mine and her relationship. She divorced my dad in February and slept with my boyfriend dad 2 days after they "separated". And I don't like my boyfriend dad. At all. He's mean to his kids, and he's one of those parents who puts his love life before his own kids happiness. And my mom won't stop talking to him after she keeps promising me she won't talk to him. When she told me she liked him a lot, it broke my heart. Never thought my mom would be the first person to break my heart into millions of pieces. I cry and scream over it cause it seems she doesnt care. I want my old mom back. Who didn't do this stuff. She makes me unhappy all the time. She's WELL aware of it to. And she just kinda lets it happen.... Help me please. (Don't comment if it's mean)

I have a guy friend that is 7 years older than me but my dads met him once and my mum has never met him, he is willing to get me tickets for me and him to a band we both like but it's an hour away the venue. I don't know how to ask my mum as she would never let me but I don't wanna let him down and I really wanna go. I have a few days to find out if I can go or not before the tickets sell out.

They know they are players why waste time with them?

I am financially stable and I know I could take care of her but I literally have no love for her (I know that's bad it's how I feel) I am about to graduate college and it's the first time in my life I have freedom. I know it's selfish and I should be accountable for my actions but I know I would have so much resent towards her for the rest of my life. I see my future and she isn't in it

Its been almost 3 weeks and no sex, no touching me. But he will look at porn.. I feel unappreciated :'( I dunno what to do I have tried sexy clothes, new positions. Found alot of porn on his history on the web, and emails.. I have tired to talk to him and he ignores me, he doesn't seem to care about my feelings

Once i told her that im going to imagine her in a bald state, then she started to tell me that ive always been weird. In fact i just wanted to be open and friendly, but she got very anxious and told me that leave her alone

So I don't know why I'm so worried about this.. Because I'm 15 but I wanted to meet the love of my life in college or after but I don't know if someone will ever love me. I want a romantic fairytale kind of love :) Im different.. I love crafting and I enjoy sewing and making cards and stamping and I enjoy going on thrift store runs.. Not to buy but just to look because I love vintage things. I want a guy who will wait until marriage to have sex, and someone who loves God more than he loves me.. Someone I can grow spiritually with.. Will I ever find someone like him? Or are guys not interested in that type of girl. I also want to be a nurse and I love children if that matters. Please no rude comments :) thanks

I paid half for a new nice mattress when we moved in together and a year later we broke up. He's keeping the bed but refuses to pay me back my half. He and his family have plenty of money and the bed originally cost $2500. What do I do?

So I'm reading a book and there are two characters - a boy and a girl - who like each other but their parents marry each other making them step siblings. they hold of their feelings until the marriage turns out to be a sham so the husband could get money and the women could live somewhere else (hard to explain) and they divorce leaving the two kids ex step siblings. does that mean it would be alright for them to date? they technically aren't siblings by blood but is it morally wrong?? i haven't read the rest yet so i don't actually know if they do date but i want to see people opinion on this. thx!

Since I injured my eye I've needed help walking to class so my crush offers to walk me all the time when I need help. He uses heart emojis and smileys & smirks when we text & always says hi to me when I get to class. He does this handshake with me everyday, and randomly tells me I look beautiful. But like I always freak out thinking some days that he doesn't like me? We have a dance coming up (I've slow danced with him before) I wanna slow dance with him again, but I'm scared what if he doesn't want to?! Advice?

Today is the day my boyfriends father passed away 2 years ago. The day after he did 2 years ago I just gave him a hug and told him I loved him and to be strong but we were just friends. That's not important but now I don't know how to comfort him because I've never been in his situation and I don't know what to say. So what should I say or do?

Hi there, Some of this might be my own personal circumstances, but my sister is being really selfish and arrogant and I don't know what to do about it. She got married last year (to a really arrogant man) and since then her head has been up his *** and she hasn't bothered about anyone else. I was her Maid of Honor and she expected me to do everything for her, but when she was my Maid of Honor she did very little and was more of a hindrance than a help. She seems to think she's the only person who has a husband and constantly goes on about them planning their future. My husband and I have plans too. I've lost my house and she's just bought a huge place, I am happy for her, but feel like she is being insensitive to my feelings by talking about it all the time and disregarding wha's happened to me. I love my sister and want her to be happy, I'm just so confused. Am I jealous? Is it her? Ugh i don't know, I just don't want to be a bad person ya know.

What are ways to make peace?

Actually my mom is really wealthy and of course handsome and my step-dad was her secretary at the office. They are couple of two years. After about 6 months, she offered him to work at home instead of office and she is rich enough to be able to live in high quality. But now, my mom treats him like a servant by ordering his to polish her shoes and sometimes massage her feet when she get home in front of me. I enjoy seeing my mom at this situation but I don't know why he isn't complaining. I guess he is amused but maybe it's odd a little bit. I, my mom and my step-dad are 15, 40 and 45 years old respectively.

My neighbor have 2 living living house maid :p One of them is a short beautiful girl with very hot body and i always think of her and have dreams about sexually... she sometimes come to our house (so she can give us like food or candy or cake because her owner and my mom are very close friends) and i always plant to talk to her or maybe pick on her but i always get afraid and act too normal and nothing hapens and i even went in the building elevator 4 times alone and a get affraud she like gonna tell my parents !!! ~>_<~ WHAT SHOULD I DO???

I'm a Mexican 16 Year old, and before the steriotypes of Mexicans kick in, I'm gentle and courteous to others, wouldn't hurt a fly, as well as tall and slim. Now for the question, it seems that the only kind of women I attract are kinky ones, and it's sort of confusing as of why. So far 5 girls have ever liked me (to my knowlage) with 4 of them being kinky in general. I have gone out with 2 of them, but that was 2 years ago, and vowed to never date til college. It was so obvious they were kinky because one has asked me over text how I would like to tie her up and have my way, and another girl saying in class (I have social anxiety so you can only imagine how embarrassing this was for me) "Could you imagine yourself to shake that *** on a pole and make a living on it" quite loudly, then "making it rain" with hand gesture. It is also clear the second girl is very submissive due to how all I say is "here" when the substitute teacher calls my name and then her voice gets much softer and submissive then says ,"you sound so big when you raise your voice", also surrounded by sexual innuendos and accusations of looking at her breasts when I was looking at her straight in the eye, just to get a reaction from me(this happened in the past year). I don't understand how I attract them by doing casual things, and I'm way to soft of a person to inflict what they are desiring in the long run, any thoughts on how their process of thinking works and/or why they would like me?

I was having a talk with a friend about exes and this was one of our questions. Even a year or so later, even if you're in a relationship, do you still check up on your ex that you dumped on Facebook?

so this is what we did ok so over the summer my 15 year old step brother came to visit his dad and at first he was very nice to me than one night me my brothers and my sister were hanging out in his room and i fell a sleep on his bed by mistake when i woke up i was just me and him in the room for about an hour than he started to (acsidentaly) bumping in to my brests than i fell back to sleep under the blankets than than waking me back up by pulling me closer to him and feeling up my body ?WHY?

Looking for some advice or direction to find information on step parents. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and have a 3 year old from a past relatio ship. The biological father plays little to no role in her life. My present boyfriend spends a lot of time with us, and the relationship is going exceptionally well but were having difficulties with discipline and authority between them. Hec we even have problems between us. You know, the "trying threes". We do not live together yet, but have made plans to live together by the fall. Were in love and were happy, but I think were both clueless as to how to gradually integrate him as a parent in the house hold. He has recently begun correcting some behaviours and time outs and meals and stuff, he's doing fabulous, but I feel like it's come to or may soon some to a road block where we both don't know what to do. My daughter of course yells for me if he disciplines her. To which I ignore unless she is peristsant then j tell her she has to listen to him. Maybe I just haven't given it enough time I don't know. Or perhaps someone out there has little tricks or a routine that has worked. I come from a broken family myself, as does my boyfriend. This is the first time we've ever had anyone participate as a family member in our home and vise versa; he doesn't have children. It's a beautiful yet scarey thing! Thanks in advance!

What Facebook statuses or pictures can I upload to make her envious. And also to let her know that I'm happy because that will upset her a lot if she sees me happy

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1st cousin marriage

What to do? I'm 19, a student at uni in my first year and am having difficulties. more of the question and details are in the answer During my last year of Alevels which was literally last year my parents split up. I have like a big sb story, like my real mother abandoned me wen I was a few weeks baby so when I say my parents I mean my dad and my step mom. Ever since my mum didnt want me I well grew up in different house holds, 7 years here and 8 years somewhere else. At the age of 15 I was being forced to move in with my dads whic I didnt want. I was sick of moving around. I protested but had no choice I had to move. My childhood and everything was not the best. I did things I wasnt proud of, I messed my GCSEs up I did everything wrong and then after all the protest when I finally agreed to move in with my dad and step mum( whos actually nice), It took my a wile like a year to adjust and finally I picked the pieces up and got going again. I was happy, I had a stable home, I was studying alot, I wanted to make up for my grades. Everything was going fine until they split up and my Alevels were around the corner, these were my final exams, some how my motivation to do well got me through it. I got quite alot of counselling in the last two years and i think that contributed alot. I was happy, I had a stable home, I was studying alot, I wanted to make up for my grades. Everything was going fine until they split up and my Alevels were around the corner, these were my final exams, some how my motivation to do well got me through it. I got quite alot of counselling in the last two years and i think that contributed alot. Now, I feel like im at square one.Alot of drama happened and me and my dad moved in together. It took me my whole summer to len how to cook and clean and the house had alot of work being done, I had my grandma here who I took full responsibility of. Then uni started. I feel back. I didnt have friends, the ones I had werent actually friends they were just people who I knew. I didnt understand what was going on in uni, like I couldnt study properly and I am trying my best too. I love my degree I want to do it but with the house work I found it difficult tto manage since I was all new to it. I went through break downs and cried. I use to pray alot. I dont even do that anymore. Its like I dont like myself anymore cause I dont pray. I went in to bad things again my habits from when I was messed up but not that bad like I began masturbating again I feel sinned. So the guilt kept me away from Allah, I try to fight it. its like one and two days il be fine th rest I will distance myself. Now I have health problems too. My head aways hurts and I feel drained. I feel lost but I want to fight but Ihave no enegry . I dont want to give up. I swear I want to fight. I have exams in less than a month and I have my fav aunty whos like my mum he was always there for m, is really ill. I want to help her but I have to study. I have to do house work. The worst part is I have so much confusion my brain hurts. It wants to explode! I cant think straight. Everything just annoys me at the moment. I dont know what wrong with me. what should I do? please help me. I dont want to lose myself and go back to being that stupid girl in high school.

Abuse has always been something that I believed is terrible, but it is also interesting to learn about. I have recently been thinking about it, and I'm not sure if I'm overthinking this or not. Would this be considered abuse? My step-dad would yell at my mom and call her a b*tch, sl*t, wh*re, and many others things. He never actually hurt her physically. He would just yell. Some websites say this is abuse, others say it isn't. I'm just wondering.

Okay, so recently I came into A LOT of money. I plan on taking my husband's little sister, her boyfriend, my husband's older sister, and also her boyfriend to Disneyland/California for a VERY Lavish California vacation. I'm giving this as a graduation gift for his youngest sister. We couldn't afford to even travel to see the older one graduated a few years back and we didn't give her a gift. I feel really bad about this. This, among wanting to bring them along, is the reason they're also invited (Plus the older sister is closer to the younger one than my husband and I, so we think they'll be more comfortable. it's a two week trip). I also want to give the youngest sister graduation gifts. Should I be giving the older one equal "make up" gifts for the lack of graduation gifts in the past? I know doing things unevenly is unfair, but I also know that they understand our circumstances have changed. We're paying literally for every expense (Travel, Spending Money, Food, Entertainment, Tickets to the Parks we're visiting, etc) for both sisters and their boyfriends... Would I be wrong to give them both gifts for graduation before the trip? Or will that take away from the graduating sister's glory? I need help! THANK YOU! UPDATE: Both Sister's are VERY competitive in both Cheer-leading and Basketball (both All Stars- going/went on to play in college) and the younger one is easily upset about unfairness/is kind of selfish and always wants to be better than her older sister/not compared. Both are NYC girls who take themselves and fashion seriously. OH! Youngest sister is 18! Boyfriend of similar age! Older sister is 21, boyfriend also of similar age. Husband is 27, I am 24! Any answers help!

I consider myself very indulgent cause' I really hate staying mad at people and not holding grudges (depending the issue ofcourse, but I'm more likely to act like it didnt happened) but being like this... makes me feel like a fool forgiving friends that don't really deserve it and I can seem like someone you can take advantage of... So I don't know if it's at the end of the day something good or bad :s

i want to start a support group covering various topics but i need advice on where to start,what i will need and so fourth. the reason for this is i suffered a great loss when my parents died and i needed some kind of a support structure which i can imagine a lot of people are as well, it will be a non profitable project and users are not expected to pay anything, i just need a bit of guidance in terms of what i need to do from here.

My birthday is this Wednesday and it's just me and my boyfriend celebrating but we don't know what to do. I got the day off work so I have to do something...but I dont want my boyfriend to pay a ton of money. We live in California But want to do more than just a beach day...any ideas? Disneyland is too expensive :(

His name is Pawan Sachdev, his wife name is Komal and they had one son around 2001,I'm not sure if they have more kids or not. Anyone with any info Plz.🙏🙏

what does it mean when my crush texts me on my number but talks to others on facebook messanger?? Like he wished me 'happy birthday' in the morning through text but wished *his crush's birthday on facebook???

I always try to respect each person I meet.

I am NOT talking about love stories in movie or a book or a television show. I want the most heartwarming but untraditional love story that is real and you have heard of?

Why don't men respect women?

First, let me start by saying that I'm a senior in high school 17 years old. I'm not one of those teens who goes out parties, sneaks out and does drugs like most teenagers do these days. I'm diligent in school & respectful toward my parents. I'm always home, at work, or attending school, rarely do I ever get to go out w| my friends & when I do it's a curfew of 8:00 max. If I come home any later I'm threatened to never get let out of the house until "further notice" as my punishment. I'm seeing this guy that I really like and I have been seeing him for a little over a year now, and my mom has met him & says she likes him. I want to see him more often but my parents are always making excuses when I ask for him to come over. They won't let me go over his house either b/c they thinks it's "trashy", & that "its a guys thing", & "what will his parents think of you", & other sexist things. I feel like I'm constantly explaining to her that we are just going to hang out, but she still won't budge. Idk what to do , I want to sneak around for him without getting caught, this guy means a lot to me. Should I start getting sneaky? P.S. My parents have very strong opinions about the decisions they make so talking to them doesn't really help, I also tell them a lot about my life, should I stop? Also this guy is very respectful towards me, he never gave a reason for my parents to doubt him. & he's the first guy to not mention sex to me, and genuinely cares about me.

Odio sentir estos celos, se que mi novio me ama, pero esa mujer es muy especial para el, y se conocen desde hace 12 años y él le tiene mucho cariño. Razones que me hacen sentir asi: 1. Ella es una mujer muy atractiva. (yo también, pero nuestros atributos son muy distintos). 2. No le conozco ninguna pareja, siento que solo le gusta divertirse. 3. Mi novio hace TODO lo que ella diga, le pregunta que hacer y le pide consejos. 4. Con ella se muestra "espléndido" $$$. 5. Conserva fotos de ella en su PC!. 6. Él quería que ella fuera testigo en nuestra boda!!! 7. Una vez mi novio empezó a tomar de su copa cuando estaban bebiendo alcohol. 8. En una ocasión ella le estaba diciendo a él que estaba lastimada de la espalda, y en frente de mi se levanto la blusa (de atrás) y se le vió la espalda, y una parte de su lencería (brassiere y calzón).. :@ 9. Nos invito a tomar un café, el 14 de febrero. (aún sabiendo que queríamos festejar JUNTOS). Aunque ese día mi novio si se negó. :D 10. Nos comenta nuestras publicaciones, nuestras fotos, (aunque sean comentarios positivos) me incomoda que siempre esta AHÍ.. observando lo que hacemos. 11. Siento que finge que le caigo super bien, es que yo no puedo fingir lo mismo, y entonces si sabe que no me agrada tanto, porque insiste en mantenerse tan cerca de mi? Me estoy volviendo LOCA. Necesito un buen consejo, muchas gracias!.

Is it the same thing to make a woman *** than make her have an orgasm? I have always asked to myself about it. Can somebody answer my question? I would prefer a woman to answer that question but if you're a guy and knoe about it that would be good too. Thanks.

I'm a 22 year old man and I'm a relationship type of person. I also don't use women for sex.  I was talking to this women (who is 28) I met on a online dating site we talked for over a month until we decided to meet we had so much chemistry it was extremely magnetic attraction from the start. We ended up getting a scorpion bowl we we ended up bonding we even started to make out in the restaurant. We went for walk on the beach and we sat in the car and talked for hours.  We also drank more (she did a lot more then me) she got so emotional and she told me things of her past how she would have one night stands and she gets rid of all the men she falls for. Also that she really likes me and wants me but she knows she will hurt me. I made her promise not too and we had sex (it was extremely good as well) and I slept over. She dropped me off at my apartment later the next day. She told me she can't to see me again. But then she started canceling plans on  me over and over she would also apologize. Then last week she said it wouldn't work out with us and we couldn't even be friends (it came out of nowhere)  Right now I feel like crap and used also she had hpv (she told me after we had unprotected oral sex) now I think I got that from her. I went to the doctors and they think so too. I've never been in the situation before I've always been in relationships I feel like absolute crap and used and hurt. I've never done this to a girl (although I have friends who do it to them). Help

I was having a talk with a friend about exes and this was one of our questions. Even a year or so later, even if you're in a relationship, do you still check up on your ex that you dumped on Facebook?

I don't know what to do. A couple days ago, A cable guy came over to setup some "cable stuff". Anyway, He went to the bathroom and had to use it. I took a shower today and found a mini camera "glued" to the top of the ceiling. I was extremely angry to see that. THAT CAMERA FILMED ME TAKING A SHOWER! And I know the cable guy set it up. I called DirecTv and complained and they said they will send another guy to come check it out. Today, The cable guy who setup the camera keeps texting me, saying he will publish the video online! I called the police and they have an open case.. But until they solve it.. What should i do!