Hello, my bf wants to get married but he really never had meet my parents. We are trying to get in apartment together and on top of that I might be pregnant. If I marry him without my parents consent basically would that be wrong? Could I marry him without him asking my dad I don't know I'm so confused. HELP!

Just want an insight. Two years back, my husband had an affair with one of his clients. She was trying to break into the industry and was very intimidated with him. They had an affair and he was the one who broke up with her. She ended up at my door tellling me her whole story. Then we split up for a year and afterwards we reconciled. She still had been calling him, texting , sending him pictures and everything. On my end, i was getting involved with one of his friends whom he introduced me to. We slept with each two times when we both called it quits. I revealed the affair to my husband and his response is the most weird thing i realised. He feels angry but doesnt express it because he thinks he had this coming. To him, its not fair to get angry because he had put me in that spot before. He's extremly quit. He wants to split but still thinks its unfair of him to do so bec i stayed when he cheated. What i feel guilty of is that when i read one of the letter he wrote to that girl few days before i slept with another man where he wished her good luck with her career and told her that he loves me his family than to be with her. I want things to go back to normal. He had changed and if only i had not done that. He works late, keeps himself away and spends time with our girls. But i am not there in his mind. Its been like this for 8 months.

I'm 23 and I work a part time job and I go to school. I live with my mom and brother and I part of the rent. My mom doesn't work and my brother holds an unstable job at a club. My dad helps me every now and then but my siblings fight a lot and sometimes it escalates. I feel sad and lost most of the time with the cursings. My mom tells me that men probably think I'm stupid and that's why they don't date me. I'm usually outgoing and friendly but some people just try to take advantage of me. I was seeing someone who was leading me on and making believe that he cared and I found out that he was seeing multiple women and a friend of mine owes me over 300 and decided to throw away a 10 year-old friendship over the money. I can't seem to trust anyone. I was raped when I was 9 and I get a lot "how come that you're single" I love to help others and that's why I've decided to take on law enforcement. Should I move out of my house?

So I hAve been married 10 years, and I was wondering how many people would stay in a marriage without sex? The most sex we've ever had being married was 5 times a year, and that was at the beginning.

My husband and I both suffer from depression. Mine is worse than his, as he only has episodes of depression. I know as well as anyone how hard it is to comfort someone when their depressed. But I need to try to cheer him up because I can't stand to see his sadness. What are some ideas how to make someone feel loved and comforted when they're down?

A few days ago I discovered a series of texts between my husband and a much younger woman. I was shocked, so since then I have gone through his emails, too. This has been going on for YEARS. She is much younger than him, but they clearly have a history - the emails go back almost a decade. She also lives in Paris, where we used to live (we live in America now). They have exchanged countless sexts, photos, romantic letters, and what kills me the most is that they obviously LOVE each other. I know for a fact they ve never had sex (they ve talked about it), and that he has not seen her in person in a very long time. They have also never discussed our marriage, though she knows he is married. I don t know how to feel. I can t even bring myself to tell him I know about it. I am heartbroken over how tender and intimate their relationship is. We ve been married for 8 years and have a child in kindergarten. Before this, I knew he was busy and stressed, but I thought everything was perfect. I m lost.

My wife and I will begin serving ten year prison sentences next month for a white collar fraud. We want to do everything we can to keep our marriage alive, despite our legal troubles and the time we'll be apart. We are wondering if we could be sent to a co-ed prison so that we can have visitation privileges. We aren't talking about conjugal visits....Although that would be nice. We just want to see each other, hold hands, massage her feet. We decided to own up to our mistake, and pleaded guilty. We are being punished by losing everything we have; our home, cars, career and our freedom. We don't want to lose our marriage too...

I married this girl, she told she is good christian and she is orphan. Within a week she behaved very arrogantly , she insulted me and my parents. She is not letting me inside the house. I explained that wife and husbands fight but they become one at the end. Things continued for 5 months, still she is not lifting the phone and she is not opening the door. I am staying with my office collegues .She is not willing to divorce me!! Any ideas ?

7 years no marriage so many excuses..living together im doing wifely duties but not talking about marriage

Has anyone ever been married or is married to someone your family hates? How did this affect the relationship with you and your family? What about between you and your spouse? How did you handle the situation?

I'm white and my wife is Chinese American. She was born here, her parents were born here, but still maintained their culture. Her sister passed away and we are now her 2 year old daughter's legal guardians. Niece was being taught to speak Mandarin and English. She has delayed speech so she doesn't talk much still and speaks Mandarin most of the time. Really her language is a mix of Mandarin/English/baby gibberish. My wife speaks Mandarin, she can understand her, but 99% of the time have no idea what she's saying. My wife gets home from work at 5:30. I pick our niece up from daycare at 2:30. She is very shy around strangers. She is not warmed up much to me and I'm sure the language barrier doesn't help. I have to call my wife and put her on the phone to have her translate because her niece will want something and throw a fit because I don't understand her. The daycare says she keeps to herself because the other kids don't play with her. We are trying to teach her English as much as possible and to talk more and I'm trying to learn Mandarin but it's a slow process. Wife's work schedule is not flexible. I feel awful for our niece because she's lonely at daycare all day and then it's the same thing when she gets home because she can't/ doesn't want to communicate with me. It's just very frustrating. What do I do with the niece? Grandparents can't help either because they're in their 70s and live in a different state.

I am beyond disgusted with myself and I had been living with the guilt of cheating physically on my husband for the past four years. He found out today as I admitted everything to him. He is so depressed and dead inside, because of me. I have been rebuilding my marriage after that shaky time and I have been trying to be a really good wife, we have kids....I am just beyond torn that I did this to him. How do I help him when I am the cause of his pain?? He is crying a lot, says he doesnt want to live anymore and left the house in the car. He wont respond to me, texts nor calls, and Im worried. I take full responsibility for my actions. I pray and I know God forgives me, but it honestly doesn't make me feel any better inside. Im so sorry for what Ive done . What can I do??? I never wanted to hurt him.....I did these things out of pure stupidity, selfishness, and lonliness because we were having so many problems then. I had a full on relationship and did have sex with the person on more than one occasion. Please, someone offer me some advice. Im dying inside. I stopped four years ago. I told him because he found out about it somehow, today. He didn't tell me how. He ASKED me for every single detail about what we did, all about him, everything. I wanted to be honest. I didn't want to lie or keep anything from him anymore. He told me I owed him the truth, and he wanted to know everything - and that is why I told him. Not to hurt him. In regard to what I've done to rebuild my marriage, I have been spending every waking moment he is home with him after he gets home from work. I spend every night with him. I got rid of all social media. I got more involved in my relationship with God. I became the wife I should have always been. I do everything I can think of every day to make him happy and feel appreciated. I get up at 5:45, get his clothes ready for work, his coffee, etc. I text him throughout the day telling him I love him. I write him letters from the heart. I show him love. I do everything I can to make him feel loved, wanted, and appreciated. I thank God for him every day. I respect him. I praise things he does. I just do what I feel is good. I cut off all contact with any friends I had, and maintain him as my only friend - my best friend. I made mistakes. I am trying to fix them and show him I am so sorry for everything I've done. I just want him to know how sorry I am, how much I need him, and love him

How can I change her mind I love her we have 2 kids married 19 yes. She won't do counseling.

I'm 6 months pregnant and my husband left me for another woman and wants a divorce :( I was so stressed I started to bleed at work so my doctor put me off .. so I have no money and am hoping my soon to be ex husband pays my bills ... and now my mom is telling me she's not paying or throwing a baby shower for me says it's a waste of time and money :/ I'm trying so hard to stay busy smile and keep breathing but I'm falling and I need advice how to get through this anyone experience something like this? Idk what to do and :(

Refusing to go with you?

In a marriage?

If you could choose for the woman/man you were going to share your life with to have 60k in cash or zero debt,which would you choose?

I am 23 years old and a virgin. I told him that. He is 23 years old and told me that he has had several sexual partners. We tried to have sex yesterday and he didn't have a clue what he was doing. He didn't know where the hole was. He stretched me till it hurt. He kept saying "I'm inside, I'm inside, am I not?". To cut the story short, I had so much pain that I gave up trying and I am still a virgin. What pissed me off was his brag like "I know what I am doing", "Do you think this is the first time, I took the virginity to a girl?", "If someone else was in my position he won't last this long". He even wanted to do it without a condom, and I opposed. He made a stupid face and said "You think I can't control it". I didn't say anything as I didn't want to make him feel bad, but I don't know if it's worth to be deflowered by such a person. It's not a troll. Even though I wish it was. I feel cheated and lied to. I believe that a relationship should be based on honesty and sincerity. I am mature enough and I don't fantasize any 50 shades!

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My parents are going through of divorce and since my brother is off in college, I'm really the only on they have to fight for. I just want to know how they work so I know what to expect.

I am thinking about an arranged marriage as in I have not had luck with men and dating, I am a good woman. Just having a very hard time finding someone who wants to commit. Do my parents and family members have to be the only one to do the arrange marriage? If it helps I am in my late 20s and have not dated in 4 years. In all honestly, I stopped looking and trying.

I asked her if she was depressed, she said no. She has no hobbies, no friends, no nothing, she works and on the weekends watches endless netflix shows for 48 hours straight, then goes back to work. She will only do anything else if I practically force her. I'm not sure what to think, but it does get annoying. I feel like I'm married to a rock.

I have been seeing this guy and he is married. I fell for him. I am normally strong when it come to men. I never take crap from them and I am always able to leave a man and never look back even if they continue to call. I have been seeing this married man fir three months now. He lives with his wife. He keeps telling me he will be moving in a few weeks to make me feel more comfortable about the situation. I have not asked this man to move nor leave his wife. We went out on dates and unfortunately we were intimate. The thing that made me believe him was the fact that we spend lots of time together. He appears to be a manipulator. When we are together I am so happy around him, but when he leaves my mind starts wandering and thinking about what he is doing and who is he with. He told me he loves me (I didn't believe it), he asked me become his girlfriend (I didn't answer). He often gets frustrated and tells me that he is tired of showing me that he really wants to be with me. He told me that his wife doesn't believe in a divorce and she will not be divorcing him. He said that when he moves out he will help his wife get a place of her own. On numerous occasions I attempted to leave him alone but he always lured me back, which is something unusual for me to allow. I am, in no way blaming him for all of this because I am also at fault for not being strong enough to not let this go on. He always answers when I call him. I never had to call him more than once for him to answer. He always tries to make it appear that I am acting out for no reason and that he is completely being honest. he really expects me to just go with the flow and give him no problems. He took me to meet his mother, which I felt was sketchy. I feel like he converses with me just to make the illusion appear genuine and authentic. I told him that I another guy was taking me out and bought me something. This married guy went and bought me something the next day. I did not take it.

I feel like if I am married and unhappy I would leave. I would not stay for the sake of children, nor would I stay because of finances. If I am truly unhappy I will leave. I have a married guy who is trying to drag me into his marriage.

she is living with her mother and I am a over the road driver and we have a son and I miss them so so much and now I need help to find a way yto make her love me ones more she says she is happier with me and I know she is not that happy all this started over a me getting a cell phone plan without her know and I leased a truck too and I didn't think I know I am a dum *** and now I need some help to find a way to her hart agin

Should I give it more time? We were speaking everyday when I was in Jordan and now nothing for two days? Wtf? He said he loved me and wanted to be with me always and he can't even whatsapp message me. I got mad and deleted all thmy messages. At least he can say good mornings? I don't know what is going on but, I feel like **** because now my mom is in the hospitsl and I am waiting to hear about grad school. The last few times he was making excuses why he didn't call me.

So what are your opinions on the odds of success of the marriage if it does happen? Will he be faithful? Do men just stop cheating if they are never caught, and he works with the woman he cheats with. The woman he's engaged to has no idea. She believes he is committed. He seems to feel some guilt and says they shouldn't but then calls the other woman continues to have sex with her from time to time. I'm not sure why he would get married when he desires to have sex and spend time with the other woman other than feeling obligated to the fiance.

I was on my husband phone I went on YouTube and saw in his search sister in law and brother inlaw sex. I was so confused I think he was thinking about his brother wife but I'm just so confused about the whole thing need some advice

My fiance is very attached to his parents, especially his mother. Which is fine and actually quite admirable. But the thing is, especially now that we are engaged, he doesn't like that I am attached to my family. He said "You have to stop being emotionally dependent on your family and come to me" and also said "My parents will be your new parents...you will eventually care for them more than your own parents." He expects me to call his parents because marriage is of two families, but very rarely calls mine, and if he does it is only when I ask him to. He has called my brother weird as well, and called my dad too carefree. I have never disrespected his family. When I brought it up he became very defensive and says "Everything I do is disrespect to your family...." Is this posessiveness? I am close to my family and I dont appreciate his double standards--I feel like instead of it being a marriage of two families it is instead a process of me being uprooted. Are these grounds to perhaps break the engagement?

A friend of mine is engaged to be married. I think she and the man seem very happy together although I doubt they have slept together as that is not their culture to do that before marriage. In fact I don't think they see each other very often. However I know they facebook a lot. But I said to another friend of mine, "I think they will have a good marriage." And she looked skeptical said sort of slowly, "um...yes...we hope so..." So what is the problem you think? Btw no I am NOT the woman who is getting married I am ONLY asking this because I am curious

By Family I mean parents and siblings. If you cannot attend

Hi guys, I am writing this,as i am going nuts with my brother in law.my husband has two brothers and the elder one is over powering and crazy.My father in law is also driving me crazy.now the problem is that we are on our vacation back india and since my house is near to the airport and we went there first.And same day we went to his home after spending two hours to rest at my home now thats creating a problem.they have a rule that we are not supposed to go to girls home first.indian rules sucks at times.i am seeing my parents after an year and these people are making big fuss for what we did.it takes 5hrs to his home from airport where as just half hour to mine.this is just an example.these guys are putting a control over my life,which i hate and i am suppose to follow them.i never underwent these situations before marriage.and now am really down.i dont want to go to my husbands home anymore.But my husband also obey them though i dont know why.but he loves me a lot and take care of me like a princess.i know these things might sound funny.but as i am really sensitive,i am really sad.

Should gay marriage be allowed I the state of ohio, bibelicaly gay marriage is wrong no matter what but I want everyones oppinions!!

Okay so here's the deal, my husband is a chatterbox. He talks and talks endlessly but, he never talks to me unless I'm on the phone or watching TV and then he'll talk all the way through the shows and he'll comment on most everything I say over the phone. It's not a controlling thing, it's just he feels the need to constantly tell me something and it's usually when I'm busy. How can I deal with this chatterbox of mine? Also, every time I tell a story about anything, he always interrupts and has a story of his own to tell that's "better" than mine. I've tried talking to him nicely about it and I've tried saying "Can you please be quiet" but, he talks on and on. What can I do?

Husband and I have been married for almost 9 years with 4 kids, he moved out 6 months ago cause things have been really bad here. I have been stay at home mom for 9 years.He has lied about absolutely everything in our marriage from financially to talking to exes( have messages from them talking about hooking up when I was 8 months pregnant), forging my name on taxes and extensions for several years, and gambeling and winning lots money and never telling me, and so much more. We have had many talks recently, and he would tell me I know everything now, well i confronted him couple days ago cause I found out more stuff and all he said is I'm telling you now. So later that night he sent me email explaining more stuff he has hidden from me. I told him it hurts me so bad cause I feel like he has absolutely no respect for me and hasn't for our whole marriage and I feel like I am worth nothing now. All he sayes is he is sorry~ no hug no kiss, no remorse what so ever, he will just leave or sneak out when I am busy with kids. And now his family hates me because he has told his mom everything in our marriage but not his own wife his mom thinks this is all my fault even after he told them the things he has done. I havebeen yelled at by his mom saying everything is my fault. He has threatened me so many times with taking kids away and house, and saying he doesn't care about me anymore and will take everything. Part of me wants to stay for kids but I'm just scared

He owns the company with his cousin and started drinking a lot. I was removed from seeing the checking account when I confronted him about the drinking charges every 2-3 days. Is it okay for a spouse to hide an account if you know they are hiding in appropriate things? Also tell you that the business is none of my business if we are married and he helps support the family?

We live almost an hour away from my husband's ex wife. We have sole legal custody of the children as of two years ago. She was ordered to pay child support when they got taken away from her due to drug use, changing homes every 2-3 months, unsanitary living conditions and missing school due to headlice. She was ordered to pay child support but hasn't given us a dime. We've been driving them to and from her house every other weekend. That's 4 hours twice a month. Gas isn't cheap! So my question is... since she refuses to get a job and pay child support... and its not in the court papers we have to bring them to her. Should we start telling her to find her own way to pick them up? At least work 50/50 on the transportation? She dont have a vehicle but shes always finding a ride to friend's houses etc. I think its only fair. I've been with my husband for 7 years. Took care of his children since the youngest qas only 6 months old! When their mom would drop them off on his front porch and leave for weeks at a time I took care of them. I taught them all how to go to the bathroom. I'd pick them up from school when they were sick because the school couldn't get ahold of their mother because she was passed out on the couch. As far as I'm concerned, I am thir mother and I love them! I RAISED THEM! She's a manipulative deadbeat! Always playing mental games with them. Trying to turn them on us. Its aggravating to know she thinks she has absolutely no responsibility to these children!

My husband looks just like this, and he was offended when my mother posted this on facebook referencing this to him and how he's stupid and looks like this. My moms always hated him and my husband was so offended that he left growling like a mad man and hadn't contacted me since.he may want to divorce me bc of my mother and that he thinks I made this picture. I did not. I think my mother did. My husband has just left me a note with blood and feces in it and I'm scared!!! Should I get facebook to delete this image???

I've been with my boyfriend for 8 and a half years. He even moved 200 miles to live with me, 4 years ago. We are committed and plan everything even kids. We talk about getting married and what our wedding will be like. We are also saving for a house. Yet despite how close and happy we are, he still hasn't proposed?! I find I'm starting to resent him. I get cross and upset. But I don't feel like I can bring it up because I did a year ago and he went on about how he can't afford a ring. But then he buys other expensive things for himself? Also he now has a good amount saved. So how long do I keep waiting for him to propose? I feel humiliated when we are constantly asked are you engaged? Oh why not?! It really gets me down and makes me feel like I'm not special. All our friends who have been together for a lot less time are engaged or married! What's wrong with me? I feel like I might need to set a limit and leave if it still hasn't happened. I don't want to sign a mortgage if he can't even marry me! I feel like an idiot whose wasted all my youth! Help..

My wife can't satisfied me enough therefore I need a sex doll.

So far my ex and l can't agree on settlement terms for our divorce. The court has granted 2 extensions so far.One in March and next one is in June. The law clerk told me that I need to file some kind of motion to make the case active and therefore the case won't be dismissed. Do l get another extension ? If there is no agreement, how can l apply for a trial and let the judge decide? I am in CA.

Hi. I'm 29, so is my wife. We've been married for 5 yrs, and have 3 kids together, 4, 3, 2. Before I share, we both went to very selective colleges and are very wealthy, separately. My wife grew up in the hood of LA. When she was 7, CPS took her and her sister out of her mom's custody into her dad's. My wife's dad's friends used to molest her, when she tried to tell her dad he joined in. They beat her up too. When she was 12, her dad& friends went to prison, she went to live with her aunt, great aunt, and grandma. It was a violent atmosphere. They kicked her out, and beat each other up. My wife acted out in the worst ways with drugs, suicide attempts, and sex. I still don't know exactly what her dad/his friends did to her. Every other night, my wife wakes up screaming, and will attack anything in her path. She's in a constant state of alarm. Sometimes when I wake her up she'll take a swing at me, which is why I tell our kids to not disturb us when we're sleeping. She hates closets for some reason. Sometimes she'll scream stuff like "No, no, no!"". She wakes up crying when it happens. But, SHE REFUSES TO GET HELP. She tells me I'm exaggerating and that she's okay. Our kids are terrified at night, and have their theories that she's "fighting monsters" which I suppose is true. I get so sad when I see her having an episode and just want to be able to love and cuddle with my wife without her having those flashbacks. Oh, also, while this is rare, she has flashbacks.

I think she is embarrassed but she cums so hard with a finger in each hole. Will she ever admit she likes it? Do I have a shot at anal? Comments and recommendations.

Hello , How embrassing but, I was tested for Herpes Simplx II . My doctor pretty much told me and said to come back if I get any outbreaks . With no comfort so w.e I began looking only for some answer. The difference between Igg and IGM . I tested 174 . For Herpes Simplex II igm . Can anyone tell me what does that mean ? I'm fairly knew to this and I'm quite sacred .

No offense, but is money all you ladies care about, what if the judge said that YOU had to pay him child support. Would you still go insane.