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- Question: How to get revenge on your mother?
- Question: My parents make fun of me because I'm poor?
- Question: How should I handle my sister n law?
- Question: Who is wrong?
- Question: How can i help my poor brother?
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- Question: How do you help a family who does not approve of therapy or counseling?
- Question: How to get my mom off of my back?
- Question: What to do if I suspect my stepdad is cheating on my Mum?
- Question: What happens if i never did any volunteering?
- Question: Why Has My Family Been Behaving This Way!?
- Question: Why does 13 year old sister keep picking arguments over nothing?
- Question: I am wrong for not talking with my family?
- Question: How to deal with psychotic mother in law?
- Question: Why is my dad so annoyingly sexist and overprotective?
- Question: How to convince my dad to give me money?
- Question: My dad drinks too much!?
- Question: How do I get out of my little cousins birthday party?
- Question: My grandpa watches Fox News for several hours a day, is something wrong with him?
- Question: I am not feeling well! Can you help me?
- Question: Does your disabled child/brother/sister ever embarrass you?
- Question: Should my daughter visit her mom in jail. Do you agree with what this officer said?
- Question: Talk trash about Warren, Michigan so I don't move?
- Question: How to handle people taking advantage of your elderly family members?
- Question: How do I make my parents stop arguing?
- Question: I need to find my son in Japan Anthony Hernandez?
- Question: How can I make my two elder brothers wash their dishes?
- Question: I think my parents might divorce?
- Question: Girls, My dad and I were making fun of all you! Now were in tutus because of it. Now you get to help our neighbor Cecily get revenge on us!?
- Question: How to deal with having a sister who is pretty much a model?
- Question: Why are my brothers so mean?
- Question: Fun things to do over the summer?
- Question: I have NO privacy in my house, what do I do?!!?
- Question: How do I tell my mom how she makes me feel?
- Question: I'm bored with life...?
- Question: My problem is I have a learning disability. I been told I am ugly and don't go out.?
- Question: What to do with my dad?
- Question: My mom says mean things to me?
- Question: Is it normal for parents to make fun of their child's independence?
- Question: Did I handle this situation with my brother correctly?
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- Question: My sister and brother are always ganging up on me and never do me any justice. How do I shut them up and make them be less self-centered?
- Question: Mother wants money from me?
- Question: Heard my parents having sex?
- Question: Sexually abused at 15 now 22 and feel like its my fault. Does anyone else feel this way or offer some words of comfort please?
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- Question: How to get my parents to let me have a bit more freedom?
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| Question: How to get revenge on your mother? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 01:10 PM PDT My mom ruined my life and i want to get my revenge on my abusive evil mother |
| Question: My parents make fun of me because I'm poor? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:59 PM PDT I've been living with my parents for 27 years and I'm finally moving out next month. But they don't understand why I'm so happy because I'm poor. I receive SSI and I have Bipolar and I have so many things physically wrong with me. But they can't seem to understand that I'm happy to be getting away from THEM! They LIVE for money and don't believe in love, family or showing compassion for each other or me in any other way BUT money. It's frustrating because they are almost 60 years old and they completely live for their jobs and it's obvious they're not happy with their lives. But my mom told me that if I was a manager at an insurance company, I would understand what it's like to feel so important. But she's not HAPPY. My family insults me so much because I don't have a lot of money but from what I can see through all of their lives, they're working for NOTHING. Do they have any right to judge me because of the lack of money I have? |
| Question: How should I handle my sister n law? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:41 PM PDT Every time my sister n law comes around and there's alcohol she gets drunk off her ***. She gets loud, argumentative, crying...you name it she does it. It's to the point now where sometimes we have people that don't want to come around for fear she will start drinking. My brother (her husband) doesn't like her drinking at all, but will simply have a bad attitude rather than telling her the real issue. She makes functions awkward because we're not a drinking family. My mom has been reduced to keeping alcohol totally put away when she comes over or we avoid places she can drink. I don't think we should have to change our whole lives for my brother's wife. What should we do to nip this drunk behavior in the butt?? |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:24 PM PDT So, the other day i wanted to buy a shirt for my grandma for her bday. I wanted to get her a large but my mom and dad said "no, she is a medium " They pleaded with me to get her a medium. I told her that my gf is a medium (she is a small girl). They both said "listen get her a medium, she is a small lady" So I got her a medium. 30$. When the shirt came it was too small and grandma said I should have gotten a large. I got mad at my parents and now theyre mad at me cuz I got mad at them. My dad said "its my decision and it was my money" He refuses to take me to work now. I told him that since there is no return policy he has to give me back my money he said no it was your decision and your money and is pissed and tells me I have to move out. |
| Question: How can i help my poor brother? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:23 PM PDT Well I'm asking this question for the second because i didn't get any useful and helpful answers... My brother is a 20 year old boy (In my country adults are +21) who has been rape by a 30 year old man a few months ago. That man was my brother's tennis coach. I know it's hard to beleive but the cops dropped the case excusing that the coach and my brother are both homosexuals.... I'm positive that my brother is not a gay because before the rape he spent the most of his time with his girlfriend. After the rape they broke up. My brother has many physical injuries that he refuses to show them to a doctor. Most of the time he cries. He barely eats. He talks to no one. Sometimes he stands completely naked front of the mirror and screams and cries. He fears the dark. He afraids take a bath on his own and me and my mother help him. He doesn't wanna talk to a counselor. He's too oppressed and too young. As his bigger sister i wanna help but how? All his friend pity him now... He was the most attractive boy in college and many girls liked him... He has green eyes dark hair... Oh! I don't know how to describe him! But it's such a pity if he stays like this... He deserves lots of thing...at least a better life... This is an emotional issue... Please don't make jokes with it. |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:20 PM PDT Okay so my moms father is my (grandfather) and his brother is my (great uncle). My mom and my great uncles son are first cousins correct? what is my moms cousin to me? Now my moms cousins (above) children are what to me? First cousins once removed or second cousins? Again my great uncles son is my first cousin once removed right? and so what are his kids in relation to me? |
| Question: How do you help a family who does not approve of therapy or counseling? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:20 PM PDT My family is broken as of now and everyone is constantly stressed and hateful towards one another. My little brother, 9years old, lives through it daily. He is surrounded by daily yelling and cursing. My parents are already so stressed and busy that they don't interact with him much. He just plays a lot of video games. A majority of my family members see therapy as something that doesn't work. I think they view it as a sign of sensetivity, which they think is a bad trait to have. I want to escape by living on campus, but my brother will have to deal with the torture. Commuting will result in me finding it hard to focus on school work at home. I am out of solutions. I am seventeen. I will be going to college this September. |
| Question: How to get my mom off of my back? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:19 PM PDT I am a 24 year old male, I am a middle school choral director, and I live in my own home with my niece and nephew. I would say I am doing very well in life. Until it comes to the topic of my mom, who constantly stalks my social media, interrupts my class with messages constantly, and will come to my house uninvited only to judge me for not living like my sister, whose kids are in my custody, because she drinks irresponsibly and does drugs. She often drives me crazy and I actually want to file a restraining order against her, but she is my mother. I love her. I've tried to have talks with her, about how I am a grown man with a steady life. It never works. Is there any way I can get my mom to "slow her roll"? |
| Question: What to do if I suspect my stepdad is cheating on my Mum? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:10 PM PDT Recently my stepdad has been spending large amounts of time online (which isn't unusual for him normally) but I can see that he is on Literotica chatrooms that he only accesses when my disabled mother is in bed. He is very secretive about it and uses incognito tabs so that it doesn't apoear on history, whilst staying on facebook on the normal browser to seem as if he is doing things. His flicking through the tabs to hide this from me when I get close and the fact he only does it when Mum is in bed made me suspicious so when he left the computer alone for a few minutes I quickly checked and he was sexting various people through this chat room. He and my Mum went out the other day so I logged onto his emails to find out that he has various accounts on this chatroom under different names, a few of which he pretends to be women. He also seems to pretend to be me on this chatroom to other people. I know he has cheated on my Mum before once (when I was much younger) and I would out him right now, but he is my Mum's only carer and she depends on him for help that I cannot give. I have pictures of the emails and accounts, but not any of the actual messages as I can't get on without a password. Do I tell her, knowing the stress of this and losing his support will affect her health dramatically? Do I let him get away with this? How do I even confront him or tell my Mum? I just don't know what to do right now |
| Question: What happens if i never did any volunteering? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 12:09 PM PDT i never volunteered, and now i cant get a job, my mom and grandfather says i cant volunteer. i feel very angry now. Is there anything i can do? i really need a job and i need to go back to school, but my parents said we have no money and i cant join the airforce because i have anxiety and asthma. I need advice bad. Should i listen to my parents or disobey them. i dont love them or like them i dont like the way they're treating me. im 18 years old and i dont respect my parents. im not a bad kid, its just i dont like the way they're treating me, and i cant move out because i have no money and im under my mom's health insurance. im so screwed. Any advice?( i know i have posted this question before, but i need some advice because im in a a rut and my parents dont love me because they're preventing me to become anything i wanted to be |
| Question: Why Has My Family Been Behaving This Way!? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:58 AM PDT I'm an average 14 year old girl with many friends and astounding grades.I have many talents and also handle doing domestic work quite well...But recently,since about when I started my teen hood,my parents have been VERY angry at almost EVERY little thing.(Not to mention that my father's side of the family has turned against each other.)All my parents have been up to is bickering at each other about getting a divorced or finding their own place.I don't really mind this...BUT...I don't know where to live!Because it seems that all they do now yell at my siblings and I.And recently,It's been a dreadfully week and money's been tight too.My aunt died from cancer.All my mother has done this week is YELL.She even had the nerve to tell me that she's given up and she's leaving me especially!Since we're poor,I decided to pick some old clothes that I couldn't wear anymore and sell them to a nearby consignment shop.This PISSED off my father and he told all of us he's moving to Chicago because he hates our home!I literally broke into tears in my room.I've saved up a good amount of money to go to a boarding school.When I announced it to my family,they said I couldn't go.Im infuriated!Nobody in my family wants me because thay think I'm too uptight and act white!(Yes,Im African American so don't act surprised.)I've prayed to God for help,but I need advice also!So any good advice will do!Thank you for your time and advice.Sincerely,Autumn R. |
| Question: Why does 13 year old sister keep picking arguments over nothing? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:49 AM PDT I am 19 and she is 13. I don't know if it is something to do with new teenage hormones but for some reason she keeps arguing with me over the most trivial things. I honestly think she disagrees with me on purpose just for the sake of it, because whatever I say she HAS to disagree or challenge me on it. If I say one thing she'll say the opposite just to be twisted. I'm just getting fed up of it, I can't be bothered confronting her on it because she'll just say she isn't doing it on purpose but I know fine well that she is. It literally is such trivial nonsense for example I'll say something innocent such as I find a TV show funny and she'll start saying "It's not funny, it's so predictable..blah blah blah!" and she'll start being really rude. I'll then try and say that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, then all of a sudden and argument has started over whether this show is funny or not and I am sick of getting into these arguments over such nonsense. I don't want to stoop to her level but I find myself doing it. She can be a hypocrite too as some days she makes mean spirited jokes about certain people and then the next day I'll make a similar joke about the same person and she'll launch into "You're so mean! How could you be so judgmental, you're horrible!!!!" ...which is frustrating when she says it too. Is it normal for 13 year old's to be so aggressive with their opinions and pick arguments just for the sake of it? I am fed up of it. Will she grow out of it. |
| Question: I am wrong for not talking with my family? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:47 AM PDT Its been a year and a half. I hate them because they bullied me, mom treated me differently from my brothers. They would pic fights with me. I ran away from home at 16. My mom called me ugly a lot. She would gossip about me over the phone. I did not fit in with them. I am graduating from college in june. Should i invite them. |
| Question: How to deal with psychotic mother in law? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:45 AM PDT I ll try to make this fast. Im 27, my husband is 35. We ve been married for 2 years. Hes very wealthy. Not why I love him, of course, hes handsome, kind, loving, funny, great with our children. He s disabled from a car accident when he was 17. He tried to take his life many times from when he was 17-19 (yes, he s gotten help). For more than 10 years, women ignored him. Then, I came along, and really liked him, I swear I didn t even notice the wheelchair when we met. So basically, my mother in law doesn t think I love him, and am just trying to steal his money. A) I have my own money, a lot of it. B) I signed a pre-nup. Shes done background checks on me, and sends them to him trying to break us up. She somehow found personal information about me, like that my father was severely abusive and my stepfather went to prison for touching me when I was about 11. It was horrible. I wasnt ready to tell him, I never wanted to tell anyone, and was just embarrassed. I cried about it I was so ashamed. He was understanding and said that changed nothing, and was furious at her. THEN when I gave birth to our twins, she demanded a paternity test! Just to get her to shut up he took it, HES THE DAD I haven t even hugged another guy since we started dating. Then, she had the nerve to say we tampered with it somehow, when both daughters look JUST LIIKE HIM. Im so fed up with her, please help? It s annoying because they re still kind of close, he just gets furious with her... a lot. |
| Question: Why is my dad so annoyingly sexist and overprotective? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:42 AM PDT I'm 15 my family is Asian and my parents have pretty traditional views. My dad is a good dad and him and my mom are fine it's just that he's so strict. If I wear my makeup a little heavy he calls me a streetwalker and starts yelling at me. On our last night of vacation I wore a dress and some heels. I also wore these fake eyelashes that were barely noticeable. He didn't say anything before dinner but he was being super passive agressive the entire time. Then at the end of dinner he blows up and says I look like a hooker and that i make him want to throw up on his plate. I wasn't wearing anything inappropriate and I don't understand why he overreacts like this every time. |
| Question: How to convince my dad to give me money? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:38 AM PDT So my parents are divorced and my dad gets a pretty good amount of money every month ( judging by the amount of expensive cloths he gets to his gf and what my mom has told me) so I want to get a lot of cloths and shoes and outfit stuff you know, cause I have only like 3 tops and 2 pairs of jeans... and I want to renew my closet and get loads of cloths and purses and shoes,,,I'm a brat sorry if you think that way...but my dad is perfectly capable to afford the things I want..how can I tell him all this cause he is really hard to talk to and sometimes he seem really available to me..to buy me stuff or to talk and other times he acts so cold and distant ( and I hate it btw) I'm scared he will refuse to buy me the things I want and I'm to young to get a job in my country and my mom can't give me allowance even if I do chores cause she is really poor,and my dad doesn't care about house chores so HELP ME PLEASE I NEED CLOTHS...I'M A GROWING TEEN P.S: please don't hate on me I might sound bratty and selfish, but the truth is my dad can do it I just have't found a way to tell him and comfront him with the fact that I can't get material things from mom ssoo Help and no hate To all the bitches sending hate **** YOU..I don't need that bad vibe in my space so **** you and go burn to hell...LUV Ya |
| Question: My dad drinks too much!? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:31 AM PDT My dad drinks a lot and + he takes medications. Which makes him even worse. He yells and when he is sober I tell him that I want him to stop drinking so much, and he yells at me because he doesn't remember what he has done (He really doesn't remember trust me). I don't know what to do and I am scared I really am. I know that this may sound a little crazy but I pray to god every night before I go to bed that someday he will understand and stop drinking. |
| Question: How do I get out of my little cousins birthday party? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:26 AM PDT My cousins birthday was yesterday and now we are celebrating it today. I already have plans today to go to my friends house. I may sound selfish but they're. They're mean selfish and not disciplined they always think they can get their way and if they don't they tell their mom. All I really want to know is how I get out of their stupid birthday party and if I should feel bad that I don't want to go. |
| Question: My grandpa watches Fox News for several hours a day, is something wrong with him? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:13 AM PDT |
| Question: I am not feeling well! Can you help me? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:13 AM PDT Yesterday when I came home from the cemetery, I smelled an awful stench coming out of me. I didn't feel anything, but when I went to the restroom, there was so much diareah in my shorts that I could fill up five toilets. It kept leaking out non stop. Once I did get it to stop after three hours, I went to bed. I then heard this noise, and my cat was taking a poop on my bed sheets, and worms just poured out along with te poop. He was leaking non stop too. I got up and went to the bathroom and began to leak feces again. I haven't left the house in a week and my cat is shitting on me and there's cat litter in my grits this morning. My friend togus has also had a non stop erectiom that leaks green fluid. What is wrong with us!? |
| Question: Does your disabled child/brother/sister ever embarrass you? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 11:03 AM PDT How? |
| Question: Should my daughter visit her mom in jail. Do you agree with what this officer said? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:59 AM PDT my wife will be going to prison for eight months for being involved in a financial crime at the company she is at. I willing to stay with her because I feel She made some stupid mistakes but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions. And I am not defending her or saying she should not serve her punishment. I told my daughter she is rightfully serving her punishment which is the right thing for her mistakes. I am wondering what is the best way to prepare for this situation and how to handle it. I have a daughter who is 16 and she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. She later joked about how "now her mother is the one being ordered around". I have no problem with that really as it is probably better to joke a bit instead of being hysterical. I am wondering if she should visit. I went and visited my wife it was one giant room with several tables and several guards around, I saw my wife at one table. She was dressed in her jail clothes. We talked for about 30 minutes then in the end the officers line the inmates up and walked them through one of the sealed doors. I wonder if I should let my daughter visit. Would it be wise to take her when she will see the prison environment, other inmates and even guards could be intimidating if I do allow her how should I prepare her ahead of time? I managed to talk to one of the main guards that works at that jail. She said that since my daughter is a teenagers it is perfectly fine to take her. She also said use it as a learning experience (what does that mean do you think), ask your wife to be honest about what happened, and to simply present it as a punishment for wrong doing. What do you think about this? |
| Question: Talk trash about Warren, Michigan so I don't move? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:55 AM PDT My family wants to move there for some dumb reason, I want you to find the worst things about it, and help me convince them. |
| Question: How to handle people taking advantage of your elderly family members? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:50 AM PDT I knew it was trouble when someone "volunteered" from a supposed church-going family, to "sit" with my grandma as she is very old and in with health issues. As soon as the started staying, suspicious things started happening. Now there is evidence that she has been snooping and stealing from my grandma two weeks after starting. They think she doesn't remember what is going on, because she has memory problems. What should we do? It would be satisfying to confront them face-to-face, or catch them in the act. Possibly beat the crap out of them, but that's more of a fantasy scenario. I hate thieves, and I hate people who take advantage of the weak, and I especially hate people who pretend to be all Christian and righteous, but are really gigantic hypocrites. |
| Question: How do I make my parents stop arguing? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:48 AM PDT Hi, Here's the story on how it went. So my dad and I went to lows and bought a lawn mower, then we went home and we're spouse to have a chair delivered and my dad asked my mom if she could move her car and she moved it towards my dad's car then my dad said it's still not enough room for them. Then My mom said "where do you want me to move it?" and my dad said "Out of the drive way" meaning across the street. Then my dad said "I'll move my car more up." and my dad has to back up cause there's a tree, so my mom just stands there and my dad tells her to move and she just stands there.My dad gets frustrated and they argue and start cussing and my mom calling my dad an asshole, a jack ***,and a not civilized human being. and my dad offered to move her car for her and she just still stands there. My dad says she's acting stupid and I'm scared someone is going to get hurt. My dad was arrested in 1991 for hitting a girl... How do I make them stop arguing? This happened 5 mins ago and they're still going about it.. Okay they seem calm now since my dad's outside working on our lawn mower, I'll see how things go. Okay, they have seemed to stop arguing so I think they are good, They'll probably start later when someone brings it up |
| Question: I need to find my son in Japan Anthony Hernandez? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:46 AM PDT Name is Anthony Hernandez |
| Question: How can I make my two elder brothers wash their dishes? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:45 AM PDT I have two brothers who are older than me, most of ther the time after they eat or drink, they just dump their dishes in the sink even tho the sink is empty and clean. I tired putting a polite notice a few times but everytime I find the notice in the dust bin. I also tried talking to them nicely since I am the youngest and need to respect them. but now I am running out of patience. we are four at home, all of us are busy. my elder sister works, I'm a university student , and the two guys work. my elder sister got tired of talking so now she just wash after them. I feel bad for myself and my sister, we both come tired, then have to wash dishes left since breakfast, lunch sometimes. |
| Question: I think my parents might divorce? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:35 AM PDT My parents are drifting apart and they argue almost every day. They get into arguments over the smallest things and swear at each other all the time, even in public and it's so embarrassing. They argued loudly at my last birthday party and everyone heard. My dad works late most days in a city about one and a half hours away from my town, but even if he's not working late he'll go ice skating or to his photo club and comes home late. I think this is to avoid coming home. They've stopped sleeping in the same room and my mum has been sleeping in the spare room for the past three or four months. She only moves back into dad's room if someone else is visiting and using the spare room. I haven't seen them kiss in the past year and they rarely hug or go near each other. My twelve year old brother (I'm fourteen) is becoming increasingly short-tempered/argumentative and doesn't care about getting in trouble at school. I'm now struggling at school more than ever and I think because of our home situation my brother is acting the way he is. I go to a grammar school so I am expected to have good grades especially as I am starting my GCSEs next year but I find that working is becoming more difficult for me and I suddenly am finding myself not wanting to get off the bus at my stop on the way home. My mum's said things like "I think I should just get a divorce" "I'm scared I'll lose you kids if me and your dad break up" to me and this is making me feel like piggy-in-the-middle. |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:32 AM PDT Hey girls, I'm Chris and I'm 23. I wanna keep this short because it's bad for my dad and I but fun for all you girls. My dad and I were making fun of you girls today while talking to our neighbor Cecily (she's 46). We said that all you girls are dumb dolls and only good for cooking and cleaning. We also called Cecily a dumb doll, because we're men and we're superior. That made Cecily really mad and unfortunately for my dad and I we ended up making and losing a bet with her. Since we lost to Cecily, she is making my dad and I both wear a tutu. Also since we lost to her we have to do whatever Cecily says for the rest of the day. So with that said answer the questions Cecily has for girls since this is girl's choice and we lost to you all :( 1) She wants to know between my dad and I, who should wear the pink tutu and who should wear the white tutu?? 2) She wants to know if she should make us wear anything else with the tutus?? 3) She wants to know what she should make us do for her since my dad and I have to do whatever she says all day?? (housework, entertainment, etc) 4) She wants to know if she should make my dad and I do a father-son ballet performance for her?? Since in her words "We might as well since we already look the part" :( This is gonna be the worst day ever! :( |
| Question: How to deal with having a sister who is pretty much a model? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:28 AM PDT I'm 21, and my height is 5'5. My sister is 18 and is 6'0. She is tall, slim, slender, attractive, curves in all the right places etc. She always wears tight clothing that shows off her perfect figure, which everyone remarks on. Everyone in my family says, 'she should be a model!' or 'why isn't she a model already! I'm 5'5, I'm not fat but I'm not overly skinny. Just average I guess. Nothing outstanding or amazing. I feel like my family compares me to her, I feel like they must look at her and think WOW and then look at me and it's like... ugh Hope I don't sound too jealous. I guess it can be a little hard when you're the older sibling sng your little sibling looks olde r than you, |
| Question: Why are my brothers so mean? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:09 AM PDT I have 6 brothers I am the only girl and also the middle child. Everyday day they swear at me and beat me up. Today my brother for no reason hit me as hard as he could in the head and I couldn't see for 5 minutes. My brothers always lie when I tell my parents and it ends up being my fault. Stuff like this happens all the time. What should I do? |
| Question: Fun things to do over the summer? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:09 AM PDT My dad wants me to do stuff over the summer, instead of doing "nothing" all day. He's trying to sign me up for things I don't want to do. Unfortunately, he doesn't let me go out of the house alone and my parents work during the day. I need stuff to do at home, so I'm not forced to do something I want to do. |
| Question: I have NO privacy in my house, what do I do?!!? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:07 AM PDT I'm 13, and I can't even spend an hour in my room, alone, peacefully doing whatever I want without my mom, dad, or brother barging in. I'm at a time in my life where I'm going through a lot, and the last thing I need is for my dad to barge in and give me hugs and kisses. I have to wear headphones 24/7 because I'm scared someone is always listening. My mom looks through all of my school projects that I don't want her seeing. I can't have a peaceful sleep without my dad barging into my room, sitting next to me, picking up my phone and looking through all my private stuff, whether it's my texts, Instagram feed, or notes. My 15-year-old brother thinks he can just bug me any time he wants even though he's been called out on his actions countless times. (He either begs me to play some video games with him or he just steals my stuff and runs away with it while giggling, that's what a 4-year-old does.) Finally, when I'm FaceTiming a friend and having a conversation with them just to catch up, my brother and my dad would barge in and completely embarrass me by either doing half-naked dances or just saying rude things. I find that completely disrespectful, and nothing I ever say or do will give them a clue on how idiotic they're acting. I've told my family about this numerous times - how they're impeding my privacy, and just how disrespectful it is. When I was little, I would sometimes put up 'DO NOT DISTURB' signs on my door, and I'm wondering if I should just do that agin |
| Question: How do I tell my mom how she makes me feel? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:05 AM PDT Here is the problem: I'm almost 23 years old and I am a woman. My mom is always on my case because I still love Disney and I really love watching Disney channel. She thinks that I am too old to watch Disney channel. She keeps telling me that it's like "there is a 13 year old in the house" Last night she actually texted me "I hope you're not watching the Disney channel" She also makes comments about all of the TV shows and movies I have recorded (we have a universal DVR) This morning I found out that we had free HBO for the weekend. My mom wasn't going to tell me this time because I "record nothing but baby movies" but she accidentally let it slip. Even her fiancee is starting to do this. I am so sick and tired of her freaking comments. Her comments aren't going to make me change who I am and what I love. But I'm starting to feel like she is not accepting me the way I am and I hate it. I feel like this is a conversation I need to have. What should I say? |
| Question: I'm bored with life...? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 10:02 AM PDT There's nothing to do! -I can't join a sport cause my mom doesn't have the car and my dad is always at work so there's no one to take me -I can't got o friend's houses cause my parents don't trust me or the friends -All I do is sit at home and go one my phone or laptop -I'm not really social... -My sister doesn't ever do anything with me cause she's always on her phone -I can't really eat because I have an ed -I just watch YouTube videos all the time and see that other peoples lives are so much better! THERES NOTHING TO DOOOOOOOO |
| Question: My problem is I have a learning disability. I been told I am ugly and don't go out.? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:53 AM PDT I help my dad out everyday at home cleaning, taking out the trash and bathe my dogs in the sink.. Oh I am going to get my ged since I graduate with a certificate of completion in 2009. Life not fair my mom died from cancer.... I need help to get my life together I feel like I am not positive thinking no more its negative. My dad thinks I am ugly now. Why?:( |
| Question: What to do with my dad? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:38 AM PDT My dad used to work nights but now he works days 3 timds a week. I get out of school at 4 he will get out at 7. what fun things could i do with him im rlly excited he will be home at night |
| Question: My mom says mean things to me? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:31 AM PDT Ok I'm 14 going and almost a freshman in high school.I have a mom that is always moody and well my mom aways bugs me about not cleaning the house,which I always clean through the week before she gets home so she wouldn't get mad.She is always telling me I'm a waste of space which hurts me a lot because I'm a great student,I don't skip school,do drugs,or have had sexual intercouse with someone,I don't really have friends,I don't go out to school dances I mean what else does she want.i help her with my siblings like if they're my own kids.I don't have no one to go to.I don't know where my biological dad is and all my relatives live in Mexico.She pushes everyone away.She recently got a boy friend who I love as if he was my own dad but she said she is bored of the whole comintment thing,but he is still with her which is good because he takes out to eat and stuff and we don't have to be with my mom the whole time.Do I need help or is it my mom? |
| Question: Is it normal for parents to make fun of their child's independence? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:23 AM PDT I'm turning 27 in a few weeks and I have developed into a very stubborn woman. I've developed my particular taste for certain foods, hobbies and just my overall independent personality. But my father has gotten very quiet and somewhat angry about me branching off into my own ways. And my mother and aunts giggle when they see me enjoying foods they personally would never eat. I feel like my family hates when they can't control me. I've always been the "black sheep" of the bunch and to see me finally branch off in a positive way...I'm moving out soon...not addicted to drugs or alcohol...saving up my money to go back to school... it hurts them. My mom has always blamed me for her marriage problems to my father and her personal depression. I think it scares both of my parents to know they have no one to blame but themselves for their problems once I leave. Are they cowards? And is this a normal problem that happens in many families? |
| Question: Did I handle this situation with my brother correctly? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:22 AM PDT My 13 year old brother and I were in the back seat of our parents car going on a trip. I felt sleepy and laid down with my head on his lap. Soon something big was poking me in the back of the head. I got up and looked at my brother. Oh My God. He had a b0ner. He was VERY EMBARRASSED and started to apologize immediately. I really felt bad about the problem I had caused him. I told him no need to apologize. Wanting to make him feel better, I said you have something to be proud of. He said what is that? I told him he was hung like a horse. He smiled and said thanks sis. I feel a lot better now. You are the greatest sister ever. Please tell me if you think I handled this situation in a good way. Is there a better way than what I did. Gals, what would you have done? Is my brother getting a b0ner a normal thing for a guy that age to do? |
| Question: Why won't my iPhone let me take off my credit card? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:20 AM PDT iPhone 4 see no delete wat to do ??? 10 points |
| Question: Why do parents have favourites? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:17 AM PDT Me and my younger sister only has a year and a half between each other. My sister has a beautiful face, body, tone of voice. She's very creative, talented and outgoing. I'm withdrawn, isolated from public; I prefer staying at home. When I was small I use to be a ugly girl. but a funny smiling person. People around always said why can't I you look like your sister. This made me very upset as I kept getting the same comments. For about 3 years I decided to isolate myself by staying at home and working very hard to pass my exams. now my mum is doing the same thing. She says how I can try being like my sister like going out and being a loving person. She also tells me how beautiful my sister is but why doesn't she tell me anything about my looks to me or my sister? What do you think I should do? Btw I'm 17, and she's 16:) |
| Question: Sister impacting relationship w/ niece & nephew? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:15 AM PDT I've had some disagreements with my sister, over the past year and a half. She's horrendous with money. I've twice denied her insistence for financial support (taking her kids to get footwear; loaning her $800). She already has not repaid our other brother over $1,800 in expenses. I texted my nephew about what he wanted for his birthday a month beforehand. He never responded to my text, nor acknowledged it. I gave him a gift and a card on his birthday. Granted he had friends with him on his birthday, but he did not acknowledge it over the coming days, nor has he at all. I texted my niece a few weeks ago, about gifts for her birthday. Again - she never acknowledged the text, nor returned it. I was talking with my brother on Easter, and he said that my niece told him that she would send him some gift suggestions later this week. At this point, I will likely buy her gift certificates, which is what I did for my nephew. But, at the end of the get-together with my family, I am considering telling my sister I will no longer get gifts for her children. They are rude and don't return texts They don't acknowledge gifts received. It appears they are adopting their mother's attitude / anger with me, for not financially supporting her (and them). Am I wrong in considering not buying gifts for my niece and nephew any longer? I feel like I'm an outcast, that is being taken for granted - I'm only in their lives when I provide gifts that aren't acknowledged. |
| Question: Boyfriend said he dosen't want to be around my mum? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 09:12 AM PDT So I had a fight with my mum and she said some really nasty things to me anyway I told my boyfriend what she was saying because I was upset. The next day everything was fine again with my mum but he said "I don't want to be around your mum anymore". The reason my mum has the out bursts is because of Bipolar and she won't get treatment for it. Do you think it's fair that he said that when it's a medical condition? I always forgive my mum she is the only person who has looked after me all my life I can't stay angry at her. I've been with him for 1 and a half years now and what he said really hurt me. |
| Question: How do I apologize to my parents? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:55 AM PDT Okay, so I basically messed up pretty bad. It'll be a long story, so try to get comfortable. So, it was my birthday and what I've always wanted was a mechanical pencil, and so I was planning on asking my parents after school. I don't really go to school because my parents don't want to waste that kind of money on me, but I learn from outside the window in some classrooms. I came home on my birthday one day and I asked my mom for a mechanical pencil. She quite literally threw a fit and started cursing my very name. She called my dad, and he said he would come "teach me a lesson". Meanwhile, my mom went on and on about how ungrateful I was and how I should appreciate the things I have. When dad got home, he got a bat and started beating me severely. After he was thoroughly exhausted, he kicked me out of the house. My mom then proceeded to throw out anything I had out the window. So, my only pair of socks, my only 2 wooden pencils, my only pair of shorts and underwear, and a melted candle (one that I use for light because my parents refuse to put light bulbs in my room). So, here I am, in a library, writing this. I commonly have to come in here to shelter myself from the rain and heat. But now, I regret everything I did. I hope there is still some chance they'll let me back in. I was a bratty, ungrateful child, and I wished I could've appreciated the things I had more. I hope I can still fix things. How do I apologize? |
| Question: How do I convince my parents...? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:41 AM PDT Okay, so before I type any further I just don't want any hate ;-; and I want serious answers only, please.. My parents told me that on summer we'd go somewhere out of the country (it's my first time going outside the country) and I want to go to Canada because my long distant boyfriend lives there >_< my parent's have no problem going to Canada but the thing is that he doesn't live in a tourist city like Toronto, Montreal or Vancouver and such major cities. He lives in a city in New Brunswick which is popular for it's beach but not too popular. I haven't told them about my boyfriend and if I did I'd be dead ._. (My parents are Muslim but not the strict type telling their daughter to wear scarves and following me everywhere when their daughter goes out with friends.) Anyway, I really want to go to him and I'd tell him to come to some major city in Canada instead of me going to his city but his parent's are broke so I don't want him to do something like that :/ any tips and idea's on how to convince my parent's without letting them know about him? (oh and I already know how to meet him if I go to his city.) |
| Question: How is my aunt's half sister's son related to me? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:37 AM PDT |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:34 AM PDT and abusive? |
| Question: Mother wants money from me? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:28 AM PDT Okay, so I'm kinda in a pickle here. Just to give you some background, my father passed away when I was a teenager. My mom is a social worker. After my dad passed away, money wasn't a problem. People tell me that I owe my mom for raising me, and I guess that's true, which makes this more difficult. I'm out of the house. I just finished my surgical residency and am now starting my career as a cardiac surgeon. But it wasn't easy - the last few years I've been living off thrift store clothes and ramen noodles. I had no help whatsoever from my mom, and there was some days that I couldn't afford anything to eat at all. On top of that, I still have a monster college and medical school debt to pay off. Mind you, I'm single, (and plan on stayin that way), so I'm also paying my own bills. Now my mom is asking for me to pay HER bills. I am shocked, and I want to say no, but I'd feel guilty doing that. My mom has always rubbed me the wrong way, and we fought a lot when I was a teenager. I moved out as soon as I was able. I've been working since I was 15, saving my money. So what on earth do I do? She seems really firm on her 'decision' for me to pay her bills. My older brother is living with her (he's a 'musician'), and my younger brother just started college. I'm just baffled and honestly a little angry. I know we are supposed to 'owe' our parents something for raising us, but I really just don't feel like I have the money to pay my mom each month. Help??? |
| Question: Heard my parents having sex? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:26 AM PDT I've heard my parents having sex about two or three times now.. I'm 13 years old and it makes me upset and I feel disrespected when I hear them. I'm in the room right next to them and they always keep their door open a little bit. But last night, when I went to open it, my dad said he wanted the door closed. I knew something was wrong at that moment, but didn't say anything. I heard them a few minutes later, and obviously they knew I was awake because I had just gone to bed and I usually play games on my phone or go on Twitter. What do I do? It's morning now and my mom is at work but my dad is home. Do I comfront them? Do I pretend like nothing happened? I was up crying last night because of how upset I was over it. My mom yelled at me from her room, telling me to grow up and go to bed. I don't know whether she told me to grow up because she knew I was crying for this reason, or just because I was crying. I don't want anybody to tell me to put my TV on or listen to music, or make a lot of noise. I need help on what to say to them when and if I comfront them. Thanks. |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:17 AM PDT At 15 I was sexually abused by my stepdad after knowing him for 5 years beforehand who was a loving father figure I trusted him. So when he starting abusing me I was confused I didn't know if I should say something. He said if you tell people our family will be torn apart you have to take it to the grave. I feel like I should have just said No and he would have stopped but I didn't and that's why I feel it's my fault. Please no rude insensitive comments I am a real person with real feelings that have already been hurt because someone very close to me asked me why I didn't run or scream or say something :...( |
| Question: Can you correct my grammar please? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:12 AM PDT Hello Cristina I can't believe you replied to my email I was just checking my email this morning not expecting an email from you at all just because you probably get tons of emails so you probably would not even see mine but there it was a new message from you you don't even know how happy that truly made me I have been watching your videos since you first started on YouTube I have been watching since you uploaded your very first video onto YouTube may I just say you and Andrew are my favorite YouTubers of all time I've been going through a lot lately and so I have been binge watching your videos like crazy trying to take my mind off things and no matter what is going on in my life your videos always and I mean always put a genuine huge smile on my face and you must be pretty amazing because you managed to put a huge genuine smile on my face even through my dad almost dying in the hospital this past November and him being gone in the hospital for days in intensive care, through my dad being in a nursing home, through my dad being out of the nursing home and back in the hospital again my dad has tons of medical problems so yeah and my parents fighting constantly, and going through a very bad breakup basically I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with a bunch of other girls and he used me and blackmailed me and lied to me constantly and just emotionally harassed me everyday and through all the other bullying I face on a regular basis you really cheer me up so thank you. |
| Question: How to get my parents to let me have a bit more freedom? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:10 AM PDT So my parents don't allow me to go outside without asking(which my friends can do) or go outside when they're not home(which my friends can also do) I just want to be able to go outside and skate whenever I want to. Please help! |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:07 AM PDT My fiancé and I have been talking about moving to California when we graduate college next year. He wants to get into the police department which starts at $80k a year so he can help his family out finically. So in a few weeks both of us will going to make a trip to San Fran so he can take their physical exam as well as check out the place and see if its a place we really want to spend our life together. I recently told my parents and they went through the roof. They feel like I have no regard what so ever to their feelings and how I'm being selfish. (We live in NJ) My dad says that they spent all this time raising me and my mom gave up her whole life for my brother and I and how its selfish for me to move there because I won't be able to spend any time with them, etc. I told them I'm not ditching them and I'll visit and call them all the time but its still not good enough. I just don't understand. I love my parents and it would be nice to live near them however…My fiancé and I both have a good chance to make a decent salary right away and we just wanted to get out of the same place we've been stuck in for so long and go somewhere new and warm. Am I being selfish for wanting to move? I really need some advise. |
| Question: How to deal with senseless Bulls!t from parent? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:07 AM PDT My dad says you have to listen to me, because I'm your father to every irrational thing he says. My parents and I have a mutual hatred. I'm going off to college and they said they won't give me a dime... |
| Question: How do I get a better relationship with my mom? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 08:06 AM PDT I am 15 years old, and I live with my mom on weekdays and with my dad on weekends. My mom is always calling me an *** and telling me that I don't care about other people's feelings and all I care about is myself and I'm only happy when I'm getting what I want. Because of this I can't have my birthday party anymore. she's constantly screaming at me because I did something wrong or said something in the wrong way. Half the time, I don't even know what she's talking about that I did wrong and she just walks away. she never can admit she's wrong, and when I try to talk about how she affects my self-esteem and I really like her to calm down when she's freaking out on me, she yells at me and told me that I'm the reason why she feels this way maybe I need to stop. I don't know how to stop her from freaking out so much over every little thing I do, Because I'm just being myself and she yells at me for it. |
| Question: My sister Steals my Stuff!? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 07:51 AM PDT She's older than me And I'm her Brother she Deals with me like sh** and like a piece of crap & piss She always lies to my mom and makes troubles disaster just to get me grounded She stole my laptop cooler and she said "yeah i will return it back" ITS BEEN 1-1.2 YEAR And she Betrayed me, Today she stole my 3DS and Bought games in it and I Can't play with it anymore! I BOUGHT IT WITH MY OWN MONEY I'VE BEEN SAVING AND SHE CLAIMS IT MINE! please help shes mean to me! |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2015 07:50 AM PDT Is there anything wrong with a brother and sister having protected sex? If you think it's wrong, explain why. |
| Question: Am I wrong for not speaking to my parents in years? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 07:41 AM PDT Both my parents were drug addicts and alcoholics. My parents were abusive although my dad was the main abuser. The state came in and took both my sister and I from our parents three seperate times. My parents would go to counseling, take coures, and regain custody through the courts. I never felt loved as a child. I was always terrified because I never knew when my dad would go into his fit of rage and beat me, my mom, or sister. When I turned 18 I immediately left home and joined the military to get as far away as I can from this messed up family. My mother chose her abusive husband over her kids when she had places to go and people that loved her. It wasn't like she was alone. I despised her for this and sorta still do. My parents are almost 60 and they are popping pills and smoking weed still. I refuse to go around my parents because of this, I have children I need to protect. I will not allow my children to go through with what I went through as a child or see the things I have seen. My parents never apologized for what they put me through. They think they were good parents in their demented minds. However family members and friends think I am wrong for not speaking to my parents even though everyone knows of all the abuse I went through as a child. Why is it that people feel they can treat their children like garbage and feel entitled for thier children to be there in the end? I now have a family of my own and want my parents out of my life! Am I WRONG?. |
| Question: No rude comments. Did my mom had the right to do this ? Read Story .? Posted: 11 Apr 2015 07:39 AM PDT So my mom and neighbor (step dads cousin) had to split a bill and the neighbor haven't payed for it for like 6 months. My mom had to pay it ($200 every two months) because she didn't want us to be with no water, because my siblings. My mom went to the water company to ask why it's so high and they said it was coming from the neighbors house. She got it all fixed now the neighbor has to pay $45 dollars at least (the whole bill for these 2 months is $45) and she still didn't want to pay for it. She says it too much because it's only her living at the house (but guys spend the night there and she has a job) My mom finally got tired of asking her..She still was complaining that its too high to pay -.- when my mom went to go reduce it to $45. Then the neighbor came home (with her 18 yr old sis because she's scared) and my mom told her face to face about the problem. They just kept going at it and the neighbor brought us up (me and my siblings) that we use too much water and other stuff. Then my mom said "I bet if your son was living with you and I didn't want to pay part of the bill you will be the same way as me right now, but you don't give a **** about your kid "(His dad took the mom to court and took him away from her because she parties and messes around with guys instead of watching him) and they got mad. She was telling my mom why she has to talk about her kid , but when she brought us up it was okay. We are moving instead to a better home so we don't have to split bills. |
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