A little background, my wife has been nagging me for years about distracted driving. Changing the radio, looking for something, adjusting the heat, looking at my phone. She hated when I did this and I've always told her I was good at multi-tasking, never been in an accident before. I was doing this the other day and did get us into an accident, collided with another car. This caused her to miscarry, would have been our first baby. She also got bruised up pretty bad and the car is totaled. I feel terrible and will have to live with this for the rest of my life. I know it's not the same but I do feel a loss too. She has every right to be mad at me but she is my wife and I wish she would talk to me. She's never been mad at me enough to not want to speak to me. She said she understands accidents happen and she wouldn't be mad if it weren't for the fact that I was doing something she told me a million times not to do and that she thinks I should have wanted to be more careful. I tried to buy her flowers and apologize but that didn't really help. She was like flowers...do you really think flowers are going to fix this? And I said no. She said she needed time and that she's being quiet so she doesn't lose her temper and say things she'll regret later. What do I do know?

4 months ago I committed adultery with a woman from my past whom I have been friends with. My wife and I were not legally separated but living apart for a month. I wasn't looking for anything serious with the other woman, but did it to end things with my wife onc and for all since we were not communicating. My wife finally contacted me and we began talking which eventually led to me and wife getting back together. My wife continues to bring up what I did with the other woman which is leading me to ask can I marriage work out. Serious answers only please??

Do i need to come back in person after the 90 day period to turn in more forms, or I can just mail the forms to the court?

This is a quote from the article "'It's saying that one ******** on a business trip should be given more weight and consideration and more importance should be attached to it than the 25 years you've spent together, the kids you're raising together, the property you own together, the history you have together, the affection you still have for each other - all of that must be discarded. All of that weighs less on the scales." Personally, I think the same could be said about ONE physical assault or mental abuse so don't agree. What do you think?

My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years and we have 4 children together (all still in school) Things have been pretty bad between us for about a year now ....we don t talk, we never do things together, sex is none existent etc etc......he works 7 days a week so we spend little time together (he is a hard working man and I do praise him for this) I think we have fallen out of love, I have tried talking to him and we have tried to make things better and thing are good for about a week then they just go back to being bad. My question is if we divorce what happens about housing as we live on my father in laws land where my husband works? Surely I would have to move out with our children as my husbands work goes with the home. And I know my father in law would rather have his son living here? I have always stayed at home with our children so I am their main carer. Moving isn't bothering me as such it's just I would have no money to private rent as I don't work (I look after the children) I am looking for work now our youngest is at school full time but I just don't have money behind me to put down as a deposit.....would the council help me or would they say sod off...lol, also I'm a little worried about everything I would need for a new home.....as my husband brought all the larger appliances that we have so they would surely belong to him? I live in norfolk uk.

I hear so many people cheating and I have been cheated on one time. Now that I think back I am pretty sure I have been cheated on more than once by my ex's I just found out about one. I was too naive. I never cheated on my ex's. Now I am married and I realized one thing. My husband who I always trusted with my heart makes me have some doubts. Not that he is cheating right now or that he has but he always breaks his promises. Anything that he said he would not do, later he does it and then he says well I think this is not a big deal and he justifies his actions. Because that was what made him happy that moment, he pushes the boundaries and makes is ok for our relationship. I makes me feel like if he ever feel like cheating he probably would do that too. How do I know? Do all people cheat? Seriously, am I one person that am loyal like a dog and its because I am just to naive? Be honest with your answers please. I hear a lot from a lot of people saying "oh everyone cheats, that is human nature." Is it true?

I just got married two years ago and caught my husband four timescheating on craigslist calling women and men telling them he can drive to meet them. In return he keeps saying sorry he wont do it again. Im still with him. He says he loves me.

On majority of marriage & divorce forums on the internet, too often I see questions about troubled marriages and the most common answer is, "divorce him and take half of his money," or maybe "take him to the cleaners for being a pig, you deserve better." Why is this so? When I read these questions and the responses, all this scares me about commitment and marriage.

About 5 years ago my husband came to me and said he wanted a divorce. He eventually said that the woman he buys products from for his business is not happy and cant find anyone, and that he was no longer happy with me. So maybe they could be happy together. I was devastated, we went to therapy and are still together today. Well recently I was making breakfast and his phone went off. I looked at it and it was her saying, I cant meet you for breakfast but I n lunch. I freaked. he said he would not do it again. a month or so later we were driving and his phone went off. he looked at it an put it down. I said who is it and he said don t look at it. Well I did. it was her she said, I have not heard from you in awhile what am I chopped liver? I freaked again, he again promised not to talk to her. we the new phone bill came and yep sure enough 9 times last month they talked. for longer than 10 min each time. What do I do? How do I get the strength to walk away? I am still so in love with him. But I know for my own sanity I have to leave. We have been married for 14 years.

Marriage isn't exclusively Christian any more in America, but I know that there are a lot of people who believe that their way of doing things is the ONLY way of doing things. So what is your belief on this? M&D Level 7's. You MAY feel this question belongs in R&S but really search within yourself. All questions that scrutinize marriage are filtered out. Only questions about sex and romantic love are allowed in. And in my studies, the only type of marriage that has sex and romantic love at its roots is Christianity. So please, stop moving this question and stop being a coward. Answer this question in M&D where it belongs. Nope, not a political problem. While I agree social reform may be required to make people understand that Marriage can be whatever you want it to be, the politicians of today don't care enough to do anything about it. This is why we discuss it in M&D. You Level 7's are funny. And if it weren't for you boring me with a cleared out M&D section for 4 hours I wouldn't post RIDICULOUS questions like this.

About a week ago my wife and I were having sex and she called me "Sean" - my name's not Sean. Immediately I said who's Sean? She played dumb and said she said my name, not that name. To my knowledge she had never dated a guy named that, so it's not an ex mixup. She doesn't work with anyone named that either. I did the dirty thing of checking her phone.. just to see if she had anyone by that name saved in there. Nada. But it's driving me crazy! Would you let it go or keep on the quest to figure out who the F is Sean? I'm anonymous so ok, no my name's Mike

I am 46 and my husband is 38. I have always heard that womens sex drive increase with age and a mans actually decreases. However, I have noticed that my husbans continues to go up. We have been together for 6 years. And we still continue to have sex at least 4 times a week, sometimes everyday. I am not complaining, and I do enjoy all the sex. But he is always horny. And I can appreciate that he is always horny with me. He doesnt watch porn and nevers shows interest in anyone else. He tells me that I am the only thing that turns him on. But there are times when I am too tired, too sore, or just plain dont want to have sex. I have never turned him down before. And its because I dont want to hurt his feelings and I dont want him to turn to some other way to get off, except masterbation. I mean we have had sex for the 9th day in row. Yes I liked it, but I am concerned because he is always expecting sex. He is hard the second we get in bed. I give him credit, he never stops until I orgasm. And if he cums before I do, he keeps going until I finish. Sometimes we have foreplay and continue to play around after sex, but it is exhausted. The other night he came 5 times and was still hard. The thing never goes down. And I know for a fact he doesnt take Viagra. How is this possible, he is 39 years old. Im afraid I cant keep up much longer. Why does my husbands sex drive keep increasing with age? He does work out. A couple times a week. Even when he doesnt work out his sex drive is the same. I am worried that he is a sex addict. Eventhough he only has sex with me. I am not getting any younger and sometimes it is very difficult to keep up with him and keep him satisfied. I am very grateful for him and his stanima.

Would you stay in a marriage where you found out your husband been lying about absolutely everything in our marriage for 9 years. Wehave4 kids and he moved out 6 months ago but will always email me and tell me some story after u find out more stuff~ he will never face me face to face and talk he always runs. He does not like confrontation, and all he has said is sorry, no hug no kids no holding- nothing!! I know whatmyheart heart sayes to do but scared I will make mistake for kids, cause he sayes I would be the worst motherin the world if I did.

Now, before you answer this I need something from you: I need theorists to break out your theories, Stoners to break out your weed, and everyone else to just open your mind. For 3.5 years. No, closer to 4 now. For 4 years now, I have been researching a LOT about the world around me. I grew up disillusioned by all of the culture around me and I was "in my own little world" as my parent's described it so I didn't learn what most of you had. And my parent's couldn't of been any closer to the truth really. I was in my OWN little world, and I was interacting with people with this version of reality in mind at all times. People constantly accused me of being "special", but I'm not; I just wasn't easily influenced by pessimism/realism. And not being easily influenced made me an outcast. I didn't mind until they bullied me for being different. Eventually I met my wife. I showed her my way of life and what it had to offer, and she was bedazzled by my point of view. Intoxicated with hope and dreams we started a life together. But my reality came crashing down when we both yearned for friendships and everyone was pessimists/realists... About 8 years ago, we made a desperate choice and gave in to it... And for the last 8 years I can honestly say I've been depressed. Not clinically, but definitely mentally... I've lost my drive/motivation/purpose and I no longer feel connected to my wife. Anyone else experience something like this? Lost your religion? Lost hope in humanity? Something? @Anonymous (User: Katie) : I wonder why I keep unblocking you. I guess I'm trying to show you respect, but your answer is EXACTLY the kind of "pessimism/realism" that I have allowed myself to be subjected to. All I'm going to say to your answer is "Haters gonna hate". I'd put this in comments, but I can't comment on people's posts who have me blocked.

And i know i have made met his needs as a partner because he has said so himself. Quite frankly i want to divorce because I really think (now) that I should focus on meeting my own needs and on myself. I care for him but after seeing other marriages experiences, I don't want to be that wife that waits 10, 20 or 30 years before standing up for her needs as a woman. But also a part of me still loves him, though no like I did before. Any thoughts? P.s. We have been married for 3 years, so for these 3 years I have felt unhappy and he knew it because I used to tell him so. Difference is that now I really don't feel "special" or happy when he sends me a cute text because I guess I don't care about receiving affection from him anymore. I have added details into the comment section because it was too long and yahoo wouldn't submit it :/

One of my female friends asked me to go for a drink. She is a bit down (her marriage has collapsed). I asked my wife if she minded. She did. I resented this and tbh (not proud of this) effectively sulked for the evening. I didn't go and I felt like I was also letting my friend down. It felt like asking permission in my mid thirties. Any thoughts?

I have been married for almost 10 years and although our marriage is great I found that there is something missing in our relationship. We have 2 younger kids, our life seems pretty normal and I would say no one can tell that I am having this feeling. Although I will say I cant see myself without him, but I feel that we are losing that spark. And yes I have another friend whom I have been friends for 4 years. We talked about everything. We tried to stay with our boundaries and the limitations we set not to cross that line. But everytime Im around him, I feel the joy, I laugh, I am patient, and I listened more to him and most importantly I feel good about myself. I know this is wrong and I am trying hard to avoid it and continue to make things right. My friend said he needs me. that I continue to inspire him, that I make him feel great about himself. So I feel I am in the middle of something and praying I can still hold my self control and avoid to do anything wrong...

My husband feels that I don't look fresh and is always tired. I live with no domestic help around and I myself does all cleaning cooking and other stuff at home and I agree, I get tired very easily, but that's how I am since I am born. He says that we are not physically involved as the house and me particularly doesn't arouse him well. He doesn't help in any household activities until I brag a lot. What do I do..I really don't understand, is keeping wines/perfumes/flowers in the room only a wife responsibility...is everything only a lady understand or do in marriage? He never pampers or says anything good about me, I am losing my self confidence completely.

Hi. I m currently facing the situation which I don t know how to resolve. I will be having divorce in coming month or two. Currently we live with my "wife" in apartment that belongs to her parent s. They were informed about divorce and won t allow me to live here after divorce for a single day, wife wants to kick me out too. I have no friends to ask for a room to sleep, and no family I can ask for help. On top of that I lost job and have minimal savings, so renting a flat is not an option. Divorce is inevitable, so I have very little time and no options where to live. There s no option convincing them to let me stay a bit longer, as I tried that. Any ideas welcome. Help.

My wife, who lives a few states away, and I had been married for about 6 months before cheated on me a couple of times and left. She didnt explain anything to me or bother telling me what was going on for over month; after finally coming clean and explaining, I was pretty distraught. I am close to enlisting in the Air Force soon and a large part of me wants to stay married, as she says she has changed and loves me and wants to try again. I do love her and want to be with her, but at the same time, someone who cheats multiple times with multiple people after only 6 months of marriage doesnt seem like a person I should be with in the military as I would be gone alot of the time and the trust is not there. Please help me make a decision, a logical one. Because when it comes to her I run on pure emotionally alot of the time, which isnt very smart.

Saying: Hi! 😸😺😻😽 And you called it to find out it is a woman....What would you do? Woud you confront him? Get real evidence of cheating? Or leave? I am in this situation and kinda panicking..please offer advice :( I wouldn't say he lies lot but track record is he definitely isn't very open with me.

To get to the point. My wife and i have been together since 08 and married in 09. Now i have.been caught sexting myself about two yrs ago but i have been on a clean slate since then. Our sex life is great but she hated giving oral but did it on occasion. So one day i picked up her phone and started going through it. I found a txt i didnt like. It was basically very short. She txt him saying she didnt feel good. And he replied, i got sum to make u feel better. And she replied, wut. And he said, this big dick. And her response was, diff face emojis. To me it was like she like his response. So i asked her about it. And she tells me its nothing. She jus was bored and feeling herself. And i asked her did he send a dick pic and she sed yes. She sed she didnt send one. And that he made.all initial contact even though she responded. The guy was a client of hers. Now she is giving me the best oral sex i cud imagine. And it all started on the night i caught her. She is even catchin it and the sex is better than ever. To b honest, im confused as hell about all of this.

Both my wife and me are working and we have two kids 5 and 3.5 years old. The oldest one is going kindergarten and youngest is with in laws, my wife doesn t pay for watching him, but arguing since it would cost monthly 800 $ to put him in daycare so she doesn t have to pay any bills or contribution to any expenses. Her income is about half of mine and our monthly expenses are 2500 dollar is it fair, I feel somebody outside her family and it is like I hire her parents and I am somebody outsider.

So my husband and have been together for 8 years. We have never had any problems when it comes to being faithful to one another, Or so I can this for myself. I have never had any suspicioun of him cheating, ever. he goes to work and arrives at home right after. Besides the hours that he is at work, we are never separated from one another. He's my first sexual partner and has been the only one. He is a great father, husband and overall a greta guy. For some reason, I think he has cheated on me. I don't have any proof of this, because like I said he leaves the house and comes back at the same time everyday, but you never know what is going on during work hours. I think that I cant be that luck and be with a guy that perfect. Ive started to track his calls and messages on his phone. I check his facebook and his car to see if I find something but nope. Nothing. Am I looking for something that isn't just there? Or am I lucky I met him.

My husband has been lifting weights to gain muscle and has gained 40 lbs.! Needless to say, the wedding ring he wore for two years no longer fits him and he had to take it off because it was hurting him. I offered to purchase him a new ring and keep the original band for when he's "cutting" and thinner, and get a new one for when he's slightly bigger. We agreed that once he hit a certain weight, I'd purchase him a new ring. Once he hit this weight, he contemplated about whether or not he wanted to get a ring because he mentioned it was extremely uncomfortable when he lifted weights. He gets pissy when I bring up if we want to go buy another ring or not. I have expenses coming up in the next month and while I don't mean to be insensitive or piss him off, it's either YES you want one or NO you don't! I enjoy him wearing his ring, I like the way it looks on him and my parents always wore rings so I prefer to wear one myself, too. Is it the end of the world if he doesn't? Of course not, it's his choice and it doesn't mean he's any less faithful with or without it. Should I just let it go and get one when/if he asks for it? Or just tell him about my upcoming expenses and tell him he's SOL if he wants one within the next few months.

I always kept looking at other men while I was married to my husband and he got angry, jealous, and called me a whore. He was so devoted to me but I think women should not respect men at all. They should do whatever they want and not care about a man at all. A man has to serve a woman first while a woman looks at other men in front of a man until he gets angry and abusive. @Mrs. Frankenstein-I don't respect men at all because my mom taught me not to since she didn't respect my dad anyway. I always love looking at half-naked to naked men.

I ran into my high school sweetheart. We were together for 4 years. He said he wanted to get back together and he wanted to make love to me. We never did it before and I want to do it with him too but I don t want to get back with him because I don t see a potential. Would you feel that his HS sweetheart is taking him from you or would you feel that you took him from her since she was with him in HS before he ever knew you? Would you feel that his HS sweetheart is taking him from you or would you feel that you took him from her since she was with him in HS before he ever knew you?

State the car (brand name only) used by you and your spouse? For eg; If your spouse loves Honda cars..how does that affect your choice in going for Honda cars for yourself? Just a survey