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- Question: Is the reason why I worry about other people's sex life is it because I walked in while My Mom and Dad having sex?
- Question: Chores, rent? I work two jobs and go to school full time. I need advice.?
- Question: Mother Inlaw that constantly gossips about her daughter and son inlaws.?
- Question: My overbearing mother in law comes over EVERY day?
- Question: I'm 14 and I smoke?
- Question: What make people throw rocks and say?
- Question: I want to kill my daughter?
- Question: Did that venom get on my baby's pants?
- Question: When to begin Hospice Care...?
- Question: MY enemia is so obsessed in ending -What can I say next time we ride?
- Question: Do my brother and sister have a valid argument?
- Question: What happens if your partner dies and their parents try to take custody of your children?
- Question: Do you agree my dad is a psychopath who needs to control his anger issues?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: I have a 99 year Old Grandmother and A brother who Is On a Kidney Machine is There any Way i Can Get some help my brother live with me?
- Question: My little brother keeps lying about me?
- Question: The minute when my in law heard abt my pregnancy she started hating me n forcing me to go for job. but my pregnancy was complicated?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me get contact lenses?
- Question: Drunk uncle molesting my cousin?
- Question: My cousins weird Behaviours makes me wonder of what happens between them in that tiny room what could happen between 9 guys i wonder !!!!!?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: My foreign exchange student crys a lot?
- Question: My family/boyfriends family are about to cause me to go to prision!?
- Question: Birthday ideas?
- Question: Family problems, moving and anxiety?
- Question: Why do black people get so mad over the n word I'm a jew that had a bad history with Hitler you can call me a penny picker all you want?
- Question: My son wouldn't properly talk to me and has started ignoring me?
- Question: Why is my cousin avoiding me?
- Question: Feeling guilty but can't do anything?
- Question: How do I comfort emotionally delicate four year old?
- Question: Why do the majority of adults in my family act like children?
- Question: Should I talk to my mom about watching hentaai?
- Question: Am I selfish for being a woman who does NOT want children?
- Question: Memorial service or school trip?
- Question: What should I buy?
- Question: I'm concerned my brother's girlfriend is only dating him for his money. I need advice on how to help him!!!!?
- Question: How to handle the way my mom is treating me?
- Question: Why is it that she's like this?
- Question: I have been a teenager for three days and I feel so miserable!?
- Question: My sister drives me crazy?
- Question: Sould I kill myself...?
- Question: What's a good school district in California?
- Question: I hate the way I look I wished I looked more like my mom than my dad cause she is pretty I get made fun of cause how I look?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to be like the "good" parents everyone else seem to have?
- Question: My stepmom hates me. After years of ******* up, we'll never get along. It hurts so much cuz shes so mean. What to do? I need her as my mom?
- Question: I m abt to give 2 wks notice to quit my nanny job. Is this considered enough time?
- Question: I'm living with a drug addict and alcoholic. I'm done giving people chances and i want them out. Am i wrong for not giving them chances?
- Question: How do I tell my parents about my internet friend?
- Question: Staying up without being noticed?
- Question: My grandma really gets on my nerves? It's not her fault she's confused?
- Question: Mother and Father deciding to not follow custody agreement?
- Question: I want to live with my mom not dad! I have a better relationship with her.?
- Question: I want to live with my mom but I don t want to move to her location?
- Question: What is the best way to kill myself without pain?
- Question: Can my parents send me away?
- Question: SERIOUS: My life. Parents don't understand. Please help!?
- Question: My dad think I'm a failure because...?
- Question: Does my mom have mental issues?
- Question: Where should I be in life at age 24? I turned 24 in March and everyone is making me feel old. I have 0 guidance! Please answer!?
- Question: Older sister mocks my younger sister and I about our weight?
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| Question: Chores, rent? I work two jobs and go to school full time. I need advice.? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:33 PM PDT I have the chore every morning to put dishes away and load the dish washer if necessary, and on fridays I clean the house (chores split up between siblings). I go to school three days a week with online classes and work my weekend job and work no less than 4 times a week at my second job. So as you can tell I am busy busy. I also take my sibling to a class twice a week for about two hours. I forget to put dishes away in the morning because I do leave 5 days out of the week in the morning and honestly it is the last thing on my mind.. Should I just pay rent? If so, how much? or any advice on how to remember to do such a simple thing as the morning chore when I am so stressed and exhausted already? On a side note.. I am dealing with depression and anxiety. My family doesn't know that since I have not told them straight foreward about my issues. I would pay rent to my parents. I would not move out. I am smart enough to know the responsibilities financially and emotionally. |
| Question: Mother Inlaw that constantly gossips about her daughter and son inlaws.? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:30 PM PDT I always say nothing and do not respond to hateful comments about others. It bothers me and I know that she is talking crap about me to the others behind my back. I wish I could let her know I don't want to hear any of it. |
| Question: My overbearing mother in law comes over EVERY day? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:25 PM PDT I have a very overbearing mother in law. She insists on coming over every day to see my 1 1/2 year old. Shes a very rude woman and never has anything nice to say to me. She always talks about everything I do in my life as if its wrong and her way is better and never lets me have an opinion. Ive had the talk about boundaries with her numerous times until I finally just said flat out your coming over too much. Even after that talk she still finds little stupid reasons why she has to come by every day even if it can wait. Its straining my marriage cause my husband wont say anything to her cause he doesnt want to hurt her feelings and when he does she will text me to tell me not to put him in the middle. but were constantly fighting about her and its hurting our relationship. She comes by and takes the special things I share with my son away from me. Its hard to have any quality time with my son cause she always has to be right there for every special moment and is always holding him, babying him, giving him junk food after ive asked her not to. Refers to things as if hes her son too and discusses things about his life and her opinion on them like shes is his mom and I cant take it anymore I dont think its normal or healthy for grandma to be there every day I need my space and she just dont seem to get it. I would like to feel like im his only mom. What do I do? |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:23 PM PDT Yesterday my friend told me that she smokes and I tried to smoke with her.Today I've stolen grandfather's cigarettes and i smoked one. I think tomorrow i will smoke another one because i felt good after that. How can I keep it away from my parents. I smoke on bathroom window and my clothes started to smell. |
| Question: What make people throw rocks and say? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:17 PM PDT Who me? NO NO NO! It wasn't me? but act all bad and have a lot to say on social media |
| Question: I want to kill my daughter? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:14 PM PDT Today of all day i get a knocking from my front door and the police tell me my daughter is selling liquior based lemonade. It started when i was working she was bored and found my key to my secret stash of vodka and she though it was water she four and made the lemonade by her self according to my wife. She poured the vodka into the lemonade and then sold it at a lemonade stand. Three kids bought from her and got drunk. The parents of the kids my neighbors slapped my daughter across the face she cries my wife rushes out to see whats wrong and then it turns into a cat fight were my wife beats the neighbor who is a woman of 48 years of age. My wife gets arrested for laying hands on the woman. Then i get a knocking from police saying my daughter is selling liquior based lemonade and I need to appear in court because the woman who my wife hit is suing us and she trying to take my house away. My name is on the deed not my wifes and so i am 100 percent owner of the house their trying to take from me what punishment is suitable for my daughter this really hapoened i want real answers and not to be called a troll. |
| Question: Did that venom get on my baby's pants? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:14 PM PDT |
| Question: When to begin Hospice Care...? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:12 PM PDT Our 94 year-old aunt has suffered from dementia for several years. She no longer knows anyone in the family. She has suffered from repeated urinary tract infections that have robbed her of any physical ability. There are 4 kids--two who live local and two across the country. The two local kids have cared for her for years, despite the controlling nature of one sister who is out of town. For 5 weeks, our aunt has not eaten and had taken very little fluids. She is now in a nursing home. She is so dehydrated that IVs were ordered. She is crying in pain and is very afraid. The POA has decided it is best if nobody visits so my aunt regains strength. She has barred my local cousins and us from visiting. All we did when visiting is comfort her if she wakes up and is afraid. The home admin. says she has POA, so she can dictate what goes on. The nursing staff has said she will not improve and hospice should be considered to ease her pain. The home admin. is telling my cousin, their therapy department is the best and that they can get her on her feet if she starts eating and drinking. She has lost 20 pounds in 3 weeks and is bedridden. My cousin actually believes she will get well enough to go home and is blindly drinking the admin s cool-aid. My aunt is alone at the nursing home when there is family willing to be with her. Is there any recourse? When is enough enough? |
| Question: MY enemia is so obsessed in ending -What can I say next time we ride? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Do my brother and sister have a valid argument? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:05 PM PDT I have a sister and a brother. When all 3 of us graduated from high school, mom and dad told us they would pay for any addition schooling we wanted. I chose to go to college. My sister chose to go to beauty school which mom and dad paid for and my brother chose not to get any additional schooling and immediately get a job. It is now 10 years later and at family gatherings we have this disagreement. My brother and sister want mom and dad to give them an equal amount of money they spent paying my way to college. Mom and dad refuse. They say they gave us a choice and we have to live with the choice we made. My brother and sister's latest argument is that I should give them the amount of money mom and dad spent on my college education because I am now very successful and I can afford it. I am not inclined to do that. Do my brother and sister have a valid argument? |
| Question: What happens if your partner dies and their parents try to take custody of your children? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 01:02 PM PDT I'm writing a story in which a couple have a child, but the mother is really irresponsible so the father takes their child and leaves, and they have zero contact for six years. The father dies and the custody is given to the mother, but the father's parents think she's a bad mother and want to take the child instead. I want the plot of the story to revolve around the mother taking custody and she has to prove that she is a fit parent within a certain period of time (kind of like in Mrs. Doubtfire). Is this a plausible situation? If the mother has had no contact with the father or her child for six years, can she still be considered the default legal guardian? How much time would a judge likely give her to prove her ability as a parent? |
| Question: Do you agree my dad is a psychopath who needs to control his anger issues? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:45 PM PDT He took me shopping with him cuz he couldn't leave me in the house. So we went to a shoe store cuz he needed new running shoes cuz our dog ate beef stew out of his shoes. I don't know how the stew got inside his shoes. Anyways they didn't have his size. He started yelling at the assistant man that they never have his size, why don't they ever have his size, is his size so popular that they sell out before they even get the chance to restock. The assistant recommended other shoes. And my dad started waving the shoe around, saying I want these ones, this store is the same every f-cking time i come here, I've toad the manager to get my size blah blah. Then the guys asked which manager and my dad yells THE ONE WITH THE GLASSES. and made circles around his eyes with his fingers while he's yelling GLASSES. People in the store was staring. Eventually he picked a different pair and gave the guy a tip. Wtf. He tipped this guy after verbally abusing him for 10 minutes. This is what is weird about him. Sometimes he nice to strangers, then hes evil to strangers. like last week when he leaned out of the car and toad a cyclist that he would "run him the fck over" if he didn't stay in the cycling lane. Then the cyclist waved his camera at him and my dad was trying to stop the car to get out but the cyclist pedalled away. Is he bipolar? Sometimes I think he's bipolar. I think he needs pills |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:41 PM PDT My son is getting way too out of control. He's 15 years old. He plays a lot of violent video games, listens to a lot of weird heavy metal music and I caught him looking at porn yesterday. It's tough because we are a very Conservative family, and we are all practicing Catholics. I've tried to educate my son into me and my wife's ways. We limit the amount of video games he plays up to an hour a day, two hours on weekends. He's not allowed to play any M-Rated games, and failure to comply with these rules will result in the Xbox being taken away for a week, as well as his privileges of seeing his friends. He's also required to attend movie time. Every Friday night the whole family is to gather in the living room for a movie together. Violent movies are also a no-no in our house, so all our movies are family friendly movies. TV shows work the same way and we use the V-Chip in our house to prevent our kids watching shows with vulgarity. We also allow no iPods as well. This is to ensure that we all listen to music that the family can enjoy together. Of course this isn't working with my son. My son is to be home by 8:30 everyday and he is not allowed to move out and date until he is 25. Every night, we order our kids into my wife and I's room and we all kneel down on the bed in a row and pray. I'm a firm believer of God and I thank Him for helping my family maintain a good life and may He deserve the utmost respect. What else can I do for my son to put him on the right path? |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:29 PM PDT |
| Question: My little brother keeps lying about me? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:21 PM PDT I'm 16 and he's 10 but every time I walk by him he will tell my dad I hit him and start crying! I think he just does it because he likes to see my dad yell at me. I tried talking to him but he won't tell me anything and I tried talking to my dad and he says if you don't go near him it won't happen but that's bs it's my house I should be able to go where I want. (I don't go in his room just other places in the house). So what should I do? My dad sometimes hits me when my brother lies but that's about the worst that will happen. I'm thinking about actually hitting him so he knows what that feels like but I dont know. Any help is welcome. |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:14 PM PDT Evenshe tried to kill the baby that dint happened. later mental harassment started, i shifted to my moms place. Their also she dint let slowly my husband also started, he also needed money forcing me to go for job coz he is a criminal cheated lot of ppl in his business so he forced me to recover th money ( amount is abt crore ). Father in law in his lifetime he never went to job but he is very interested in my salary. Now m having a baby of 4month. my husband applied for PR to move out of country. My big? is anyone having criminal case (n once he got arrest warrant n now he is in bail) how can he thing of moving to other country. 1st thing i m not interested to move someother country. n he is forcing me to write the exam. is ty any justices in this???? Now he started abusing my parents for no reason. his mother n he both started talking rubbish abt me in my relatives even ty relatives too. so elders in Ty family. N my family planning for sitting. But after all this i don't want to go back to them. Earlier one of Ty family member said she had killed her mother in law. Same thing she did with me too so with what guarantee I can go their. expert's please please suggest me what to do. I don't have much support from my parents. I don't want to kill myself coz of her. I want to live for my baby. |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to let me get contact lenses? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:14 PM PDT I really want them because I have bad eyesight and now I'm getting braces too. They told me I'm not responsible enough and that I am too dirty and would probably get an eye infection. It's not about the money. they think I'm too young. I'm really depressed and I always cry about it. I'm already overweight, hairy, ugly and now because I'm so not confident my grades are dropping. I'M REALLY UPSET. HELP? |
| Question: Drunk uncle molesting my cousin? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:13 PM PDT 3 days ago i saw my drunk uncle squeezing my 16 years old cousin's nipples while he kept telling him where's the milk mom?my poor cousin was yelling for help and i was just watching his chest wiggle but couldn't help cause he was wearing such an ugly shirt ew #swag |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:04 PM PDT Every vacations our family gathers around at the old house (grandma's house) and what makes me wonder each vacation is that tiny room that my cousins share encluding my 2 bros it's kind of a miracle that this tiny room fits them all perfectly even tho they are all pass their 20 so i'm curious about the **** that happens there and i want to know about those weird looks and touches that happens between them during the day because i do notice that a lot so to all of you boys help me explain this **** are my cousins all gay! because if they are this news will be the best chritsmas ever <3 so help ! |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT I went camping with my bf and my brother who moved out 2 years ago came to stay with my mom and of course since all my siblings moved out we moved into a 2 bed room house and my brother brought his gf with him and my room is always clean and never smells and when I came back home my room was a mess and there was a weird smell and well I think they had sex in my room but that's only my guess because I found a used condom and now I been making up reasons not to sleep in my room because I don't lik the smell and im afraid of what I might find |
| Question: My foreign exchange student crys a lot? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 12:02 PM PDT He is 18. I have asked him if he misses his family but he said that wasn't it. He is being very emotional lately, sleeping on the couch he sucks his thumb and cuddles his special stuffie. I want to help him but he won't talk to me. Should I bring it up? |
| Question: My family/boyfriends family are about to cause me to go to prision!? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:51 AM PDT I'm in a weird and difficult situation. I lived with my mom for a long time until i started staying at my boyfriends with him and his parents. We're both 18 and 19. We have worked but we can't drive. So I'm about to need to do my taxes. My ww2 forms got mailed to my moms house and she refuses to bring them to me and my boyfriends parents refuse to drive me to ber house to get them. This has left me stressed out and scared because if i don't have someone help me soon i can get charged with tax evasion! There's only so much i can do myself without being able to drive and plus I'm totally clueless when it comes to this stuff. i have the money to pay them but my family and boyfriends family are making things impossible! Can i show that i was trying to pay them and that they were simply preventing me? Or will i have to pay for this with jail time or a fine? |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:47 AM PDT Don't worry I'm on my moms account.(like all the time) so I'm turning 12 and I don't want a home sweet home party I want to go out somewhere.I always want to go swimming but my B-Day is in October so I can't.are there any places I could go and have an awesome time. Can the place be really cool because I want to make my cousin jealous because he never wants to invite me to his party's but he always goes paint balling. Just added that to see if that helped. LONGEST AND MOST DETAILED ANSWERS GETS BEST ANSWER |
| Question: Family problems, moving and anxiety? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:44 AM PDT My parents heard my sister and her family might be moving out of state and said if she does my parents are going to pack up and move wherever she goes. I am still living with my parents I'm in my 20s I suffer from social anxiety and I'm on disability been having trouble working and supporting myself, but my goal is to move out get my own place. Living together has not been easy for us my parents and I aren't close. They treat me like im stupid don't care about my diagnosis, but are listed as caretakers until I care for myself working. I've been trying to get my parents to move for over 15 years. our house is too small for the 3 of us, it's in bad condition, our family said to my parents move, they always say no were fine. So it's like, you'll move to another state just to be near your daughter, but all these years you could care less about what will help your disabled son that lives with you and the fact your wasting thousands a year to stay in a rotting house in a bad neighborhood? Tell me my parents aren't thinking straight. Now my life hangs in my sisters hands basically? I don't know whether to try and settle here or wait years and do nothing in case we do move and settle down in the new state. But then if they don't move I wasted years doing nothing! And if I move out before they will be leaving me to be near my sister clearly she's more important! It's not fair because I need a plan for my life but not knowing what my parents are doing affects that. |
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| Question: My son wouldn't properly talk to me and has started ignoring me? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:16 AM PDT I love my son very much. We have a close relationship. But now he is all focussed on this new girl, his girlfriend. He does not come to my villa but goes on a vacation with her. He does not reply to my birthday wishes for him. He would not even communicate properly like before. Even when I came to see him, he was fully focussed on his girlfriend. Have I become a stranger to him. |
| Question: Why is my cousin avoiding me? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:13 AM PDT He's 16 and I'm 15. When I was 12 he and I talked a lot. But when I just visited him after not seeing him for more than a year, he just seemed like he was avoiding me. Like he didn't want to talk to me anymore. |
| Question: Feeling guilty but can't do anything? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT I have Spend Most of the time with my parents trying to make them happy spent all my time with them till the age 24. Then I figured out ı was so tired. I have a very hard time with them while ı was child . Very abusive. 3 months ago my doctor told me that ı have borderline . I never had a serious relationship with a guy. I am 38 years old and so angry to my family. And I don't want to see them for a while but on the other Hande ı feel so guilty and don't know what to do. I told my family that ı have borderline and they said. They have Raised me and my sisters in the same way do ı was the one who had the problem . Need your suggestions |
| Question: How do I comfort emotionally delicate four year old? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT For several months my 17 year old sister was living with my family. Unfortunately she was struggling with a drug problem and had pretty serious behavioral issues. She took to targeting and harassing my four year old daughter. It got so bad and after repeated attempts to talk to her about it we finally asked her to leave. As she left she made sure to get in a parting shot at my daughter telling her she didn't love her and would never see her again. Since then my daughter has been pretty emotionally delicate, needing constant reassurance that we love her. Adding to her stress we are expecting our second child. She's excited about being a big sister but I think nervous about the way her life will change. I'm a stay at home parent and have tried to be accommodating to her. Showing lots of affection and offering comfort but honestly it's getting absurd. Everyday she follows me around constantly and is prone to bursting into tears if I don't give her my undivided attention. We have never been a super lovey dovey family and the clingyness is really hard for me to deal with. I can't help but feeling that she's beginning to develop some pretty bratty habits. Is there anyway to ensure she still feels loved and secure while still avoiding indulging this kind of behavior? |
| Question: Why do the majority of adults in my family act like children? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:09 AM PDT I'm 16 years old and my parents have been seperate for about 4 years and me and my mom moved about three years ago. Anyways I have a older brother he lives with my dad and my parents have been able to semi co parent nicely ( they put me in the middle sometimes ). Untill two days ago my mom was picking my brother up from my dads house and I was also in the car and my aunt and my dad pulled up and my aunt started going crazy and screaming at my mom for stuff that is none of her buisness. My dads family has done things like this before so 1st example of Childness. When that all went down my dad just walked away like it wasn't his problem he has also just been blaming everyone else but himself and denies so many things 2nd example of childness. Now my mother refuses to pick me up or drop me off at my fathers house she is like either you go over your grandmothers or walk over to the neighbors I will pick you up there. I already lug my stuff from my moms house to my dads and back to my moms everyday now she wants me to add another house ( I do homeschool at my dads house everyday ) and then she complains when I lose things I mena you try keeping track of your stuff when you are forced to go all over the place. That's just another example of my family childness I could go on and on but I won't so my question is why do they act like this im more of a adult sometimes ?? What can I do about it ?? My mom situation won't last long beacuse im getting my license in June. |
| Question: Should I talk to my mom about watching hentaai? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 11:05 AM PDT Hi, I'm 13 and I have looked at hentaai. Only because its been joked around with in books that I have read, and I didn't know what it was. I have watched it about 5 or 10 times and I ended up feeling extremely guilty and ashamed in myself and whenever I am around my family or friends I feel uncomfortable and different. My mother and I have an extremely open relationship and we talk about everything. I want to talk to her about this, but even though my mother is a very understanding parent, I feel like she would still look at me differently and tell my sister or my father, who would hold it against me unlike she would. I've installed blocking software on my computer and phone so I cant watch it anymore, but at certain times I feel a huge urge to go and watch it again. I'm also scared that if I tell her she will take away my phone and computer. My computer is where I communicate with my friends from around the world and I don't want to just stop talking to them. Its my escape whenever I'm upset or just need someone to talk to. I've read multiple other questions that range from, "Porn at 13," to "Is it okay to watch porn at 13?" The answers range from, "Its okay, but it is illegal so don't watch it anymore" to "What are you doing? That's sick!" I have also read an article that porn for young people like me can become very addicting and harmful. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel inhumane, I feel like I'm extremely dirty and I hate this feeling so much. No hate please. No hate please, and I want a serious answer. Also consider the fact that she is very understanding but I am just really scared. oh and I forgot to add that I am a girl. |
| Question: Am I selfish for being a woman who does NOT want children? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:53 AM PDT I'm about to turn 27 years old and I have Bipolar Disorder. I've lived with incredibly judgmental parents my whole life and I have no patience. I know I am not fit to be a mother, just like my own mother wasn't fit to be one but she just won't admit it. But I feel like once I tell her that I will never have kids she will hate me even more than she already does because I have a lot more freedom to make my own choices than she did when she was my age. She's already jealous that I'm going back to college this summer and losing weight, but should I just cut off ties with her permanently if she can't be happy for my success? |
| Question: Memorial service or school trip? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:49 AM PDT A few months ago I signed up for the school trip that goes to St. Louis and Springfield. It's supposed to be really fun and I was really looking forward to it. However, my aunt recently died and her memorial service is on the same day we leave for St. Louis. My aunt and I were very close and I feel bad not going to her service, but we already paid for the trip and a lot of my friends are counting on me to go. What should I do? |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:36 AM PDT I am a 13 year old boy recently freed from the wrath of cancer and my relatives set up a fund for me. We don t need any of the money anymore, so my mom said I could spend about 2000 on myself. I told her I didn t want anything, but I know that she feels like I m lying. |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:33 AM PDT My choir director and my older brother had been hanging out a lot for the past while. I was wondering if they were dating. My brother told me 'no' even though he sees her every day. I asked my choir director and she denies it too. One day I was going to my brother's house to say hi. I have the key to his house. I opened the door. I saw both of them butt naked doing it on the couch. They didn't see me because they were too preoccupied. I left quickly. I looked through my brother's text messages (I know, I'm bad). Let's just say they're definitely going out. In fact they spent all spring break together (They didn't tell me, but I found out). I'm her TA and i found a lot of my brother's mushy notes and gifts he's given her stored away (I think it's sweet she's kept so many of them). Two questions. Should I just tell them I know or should I pretend to be oblivious? Why do you think they won't tell me? Last question: I'm a little concerned she's just dating my brother for his money. My choir director is a very pretty woman. My brother is in good shape, but other than that he's pretty average. However, my brother is a millionaire at only 27 (he's much wealthier than my parents. He helps them out financially). I'm very concerned my choir director isn't dating him for him, but to get his money. Is there any way I can find out if this is true? I'm 1 15 year old girl and my brother is 27. My choir director is 23. I'm OK with them dating/having sex as long as she really likes him for him and not his money. |
| Question: How to handle the way my mom is treating me? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:26 AM PDT Things have gotten really bad from neglect to abuse. I called cps on my mom and now she hates me even more. I know she hates me for sure, no doubt about that. She gotten everybody in my house to treat me like crap, and I can't even eat in her house anymore I eat at school now. Cps never takes my side, so I can never count on them. I have no relatives to go to, but I do have a friend that can take me in. Do you think if I'm able to get out of here, cps will let me live with my friend? And ive already been through therapy, talked to a counselor, a mental hospital ( because I ran away they put me there ) and I've been put on meds. I have nobody to turn to but my friend, but how should I deal with this? How can I get cps to get me out of here and not take away my siblings too? My mom has been proven to be abusive and neglecting but since she "complys" with everything, they always take her side. She always takes her drug tests when needed and always passes( even though she does drugs, the kind that doesn't show in a drug test ) and been through anger management and parenting classes, but apparently none of it worked. I'm 14 and I can't move out so please help me somebody??!!! |
| Question: Why is it that she's like this? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:24 AM PDT Okay so me and my youngest aunt (dads sister) look really alike like really, I guess our personalities are alike too. We don't get to see each other that much she lives a couple hours away but whenever we do see each other she always has so much time for me? Always listens just seems really happy to see me, we talk on the phone sometimes she says things like "wait until your old enough" and "make sure you know him" I mean I don't find it weird it's actualy kind of cute but why? Is it cause we look alike? If it makes a difference I'm the oldest niece she's 25 and I'm 15 thanks! |
| Question: I have been a teenager for three days and I feel so miserable!? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 10:18 AM PDT So I recieved £125 for my birthday and I was so happy until I went out to buy schleich animal figurines (yes, I play with them because they relax me, so I feel in control of a perfect world), I went shopping to my heart's content, but I came home feeling so empty inside. I felt sad and I felt like it was because I went shopping alone, I would have went with my mum, but has had a mental breakdown, so she is just silent and responds sadly to us all. I do my best to make her happy and she laughs, but when I try to have a conversation with her, she just doesn't respond like normal parents. I cannot talk to my mother, my older brother is engaged in his games. I have family members to talk to, but they are over the phone and I like to be able to see the person I'm talking with when I am sad. P.S I help my mum constantly. P.P.S I want to be the old me, because I'm worried about my personality changing to grumpy teen mode. |
| Question: My sister drives me crazy? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:59 AM PDT She is 14 so everybody think that the problem is puberty. But it is not. We fight about everything. She accused me that I stole her gold necklace. I didn't do it. And she doesn't believe me. She is younger and usually she is the one who take my stuff. She is bitchy and bossy and I really don't want to fight, but I can't stand it :( I need help Of course sometimes is my fault that we fight too, but lately I don't know what to do. I tried to talk to her but she just went to her room and she doesn't want to listen to me. |
| Question: Sould I kill myself...? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:45 AM PDT Hi.I'm 15 years old guy. I was born from a donated egg which means my mom is not my genetic mother. 2 years ago my father left us and I never saw him until now. My mom says:"I hate you.You are not my child.I gave birth to you just because your father wanted a baby. Now what should I do?Should I kill myself? I'm so depressed. Is there a way to find my real mother? How can I find my real mom?If there a way to find her? |
| Question: What's a good school district in California? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:37 AM PDT So near november I plan on moving to Cal with my dad. He currently lives in Sylmar but I dont like it that much and I want to convince him to move more south, maybe san diego? Or just a little more south of sylmar around west LA. somewhere cheap cause itll just be me an my dad and hes just getting started there, he moved there about 2 months ago, obviously with some good work opportunities for my dad, he works with like home reconstruction. Like a handy man haha, he does really good work.Im also gonna work but still, I want to try to save some money for college. Ps: Im 16 Any good high schools? |
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| Question: How do I convince my parents to be like the "good" parents everyone else seem to have? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:30 AM PDT I am 15. I will be 16 in June. I wake up on time every morning, and I'm in the shower by 6:30 every morning consistently. So yeah i'm doing as good as as can be doing. Anyway my parents are STILL convinced that i need a 9:30 bedtime. I dont like going to bed at 9:30 because i usually dont have everything ready for the morning. I like to put everything together last minute. That way i know when i go to bed that everything is where it should be. How can I convince my parents to let go a little. If I didnt know any better, I would think that my parents are just sentimental and dont want to let me be my own person. They want to think im still a little kid and treat me like one. Oh and after i Go to bed at 9:30, they stay up watching tv, and they make sure to eat food from only the thickest plastic bags, make the most goddamn noise possible. So, no matter what time i go to bed, they make sure to keep me up to 11:30, and when i tell them how loud they are being, they tell me to close my door, as if its my fault i cant fall asleep. |
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| Question: I m abt to give 2 wks notice to quit my nanny job. Is this considered enough time? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:26 AM PDT - I m concerned because the nature of the position is rather intimate relationship w/ the family - Past few months have been rough, family not treating me respectfully, mom is very Type A and thinks her kids don t do anything wrong, that personality is hard to work with - Dog isn t trained, doesn t listen - Mom is a teacher, hard job to just find a sub for if she has a hard time replacing me - But...The family has a ton of family nearby, both their parents, her sister, etc. who love and are able to help out Any Moms out there been given 2 wk notice? How did you respond? Past nannies who ve been in this situation? Thanks for any advice. |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:18 AM PDT My father has been on drugs, specifically heroin. He's been doing drugs and has been in and out of jail since before i was born and i'm sick of it. Money has gone missing, valuables stolen, etc. He is also a pathological liar. I'm 23 and going to college right now. I want to leave this house and live away from him. I currently live with my mother, older sister, brother, younger sister, and my uncle and he's another story. So my father just got out of jail on tuesday and already he screwed up. He's begging me for a "half a chance" but i'm done i'm not supporting him anymore. My uncle is a really bad alcoholic as well. he receives money from the government and doesn't work, neither does my father. I know my mother is enabling them. Taking my father back, and letting my uncle live in the basement when he couldn't live on his own because he spent all his money on liquor. I want to leave this house but i want help my mother get out of this house because it's too expensive for her to afford alone and it's already in pre-foreclosure. But if i finish college and this doesn't change. I'm out and i'm not taking part in any of this madness and i hate that my younger sister has to live with this, as i did. |
| Question: How do I tell my parents about my internet friend? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:18 AM PDT Okay... So I have an Internet friend and it's almost her birthday and I want to send her a parcel filled with nice stuff. Thing is I haven't told my parents and I'm scared if I do they'll make me stop talking to her. She is 100% real and the same age. |
| Question: Staying up without being noticed? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:17 AM PDT Im not doing anything bad, but my mum forced me to do maths all day and I need to revise the test for Chinese which she didn't let me. Problem:the rooms are separated with a wood and there are a hole. She will noticE if she wakes up which probably won't happen. How to do that? |
| Question: My grandma really gets on my nerves? It's not her fault she's confused? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 09:03 AM PDT Apparently my grandma is perfectly healthy, at least for a 75 year old. However she can barely walk & a lot of things she says don't really make that much sense. She acts really annoying & she gets confused a lot. I know none of this is her fault it just comes with old age but it's so annoying!! I'm 17, I do online school so I'm with her & my grandpa all day long just helping watch over her. Sometimes I can be rude to her because i get so fed up. How can I control myself? I hate being mean to her but she can be so annoying its hard to hold back my temper. |
| Question: Mother and Father deciding to not follow custody agreement? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 08:53 AM PDT My sons father and I have a custody agreement where I have Primary Physical Custody, he has supervised visitation by me every other weekend.My question is what happens if my sons father and I decide to "work things out" between us and I let him keep him over night, does this void our agreement? And what happens if he decides not to give him back one night? I want to give him a chance to spend more time with his son but I don't know what happens if we decide not to follow our agreement in place. |
| Question: I want to live with my mom not dad! I have a better relationship with her.? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 08:51 AM PDT My parents separated when I was younger, and I always lived on and off with them. Right now as Im getting older I realize that living with my mom would make me happier. My dad is great but he never satisfies my needs. He doesn t get things done, but my mom does and I have a great relationship with her. As I get older I realize that my mom is the better provider, I dont want to move where my mom is but I want her to move where I am. We talked about and it wouldn t be ideal because of her work and the connections she has. I just don t know if I m ready to move again, because I always move around. |
| Question: I want to live with my mom but I don t want to move to her location? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 08:37 AM PDT I live with my dad and he is lazy and never attends to my needs but loves me dearly. unlike my mom who gets everything done that I need for school and really anything and she s like my best friend so we get along well. but I don t want to move where she is, and she said she can t move where I am because of her job. I m the only child and I often get depressed by this. what can I do? |
| Question: What is the best way to kill myself without pain? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 08:37 AM PDT I have tried and tried all my life and I'm convinced that I will never get the things I want. I think it's better to die than living a life like this. I don't expect you to understand. But I don't want to die in a painful way. What is the best way to kill myself without any or little pain? |
| Question: Can my parents send me away? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 08:24 AM PDT I'm 18 years old a senior in high school, last night my parents told me that they were going to send back to New Mexico with my grandparents.They said that i'm a "bad influence" on my little brother, and they don't want him to follow my foot steps. I told my parents if they don't want me in their house anymore, i can move out and live with a friend or family member . They said no and told me i don't belong in the city. Soo i'm wondering if they send me back to my grandparent's place without no choice? |
| Question: SERIOUS: My life. Parents don't understand. Please help!? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 07:53 AM PDT At first, you may be wondering how such a simple game can be my life, but this is extremely serious to me, and it's gotten so bad, I've resorted to Yahoo Answers. The game of chess is my life. I study chess for an easy 6 hours a day, (At least). The thing is I'm hearing about these child prodigies, and even this one child in the U.S. He's 14, and he's in the U.S. championship. I myself am 15, and I truly believe I have that potential and then some. You may or may not believe me, but whatever you believe I really need help. My parents and family do NOT understand one bit how chess tournaments work. I have to be playing tournaments as often as children play soccer on Saturdays. As if I play it like a sport. However my parents think a chess tournament is a yearly thing, and I have offered entire lists of tournaments to enter, but they just say "ok" and throw away the list. I feel trapped. I should by now be in local newspapers as this amazing child chess player, but I don't have the opportunity to even play any games! I have such a deep understanding and I want to prove it. This situation has been giving me so much stress. I've had this overwhelming depression for months because of this. I want to play chess, and my parents are 100% unsupportive. I don't know what to do :( |
| Question: My dad think I'm a failure because...? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 07:50 AM PDT i want to be different. Throughout my whole life he has planned everything for me. Go here, major in this, support this. I never had a say in my life and whenever I would tell him what I want he would scold me and tell me what I'm aiming for is not prosperous and that I'm a disappointment or failure. It's just that I want to live my life you know? I'm not a bad son at all. 20 years old in college and I hate it. I just want to be free you know? Live life to its fullest because I hate how in society you have to work to live you know? I don't want that. Life is short so why should I waste it doing something that I know I wouldn't be happy about in the long run? It's about taking risk. But to him I'm an idiot and recently he told me I'm not his child anymore because of this. So am I really a failure because I think differently or? |
| Question: Does my mom have mental issues? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 07:46 AM PDT My mom will yell at anything and everything (bad) I do. Then she will call me disrespectful. Even when I have a normal tone of voice. For example one time she asked me to put her bags away from a trip. I said "no" then she said "okay". 5 minutes later she tells me to sit down. Then she says how I am disrespect and self entitled. I have no clue how not wanting to put away HER bags. Also she brings God into EVERYTHING. It's getting hard for me because if God is so good then why is my mom so mean/nasty to me. I do and don't believe in God. ve size of my mom. I have become suicidel. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong) I want to leave this place so bad. Also whenever she yells at me she asks me says "right?" After everything and I know if I don't agree with her then I know I'll get yelled at even more. I'm getting really sick and tired of all this. She will yell at me for stupid stuff. I feel like I am being controlled because I can't listen to any "evil" music. She calls my dad controlling and she starts fights with him ALL the time. Everything she calls my dad it feels like it's really her that's like that. It feels like she is always trying to break me down. Please help me asap |
| Posted: 09 Apr 2015 07:36 AM PDT I'm so stressed out and feel that I am under pressure. I'm 24 years old and working on a second master's degree (MBA in IT), I am currently building my own businesses, an online consulting business and an online boutique. I have all of the paperwork complete, but slowly building my business. I work part-time as a long term substitute teacher because I need the extra income to live and support my businesses. People around me make me feel like I am way behind in life. ADVICE PLEASE! I do not have any children but in a committed relationship. I work out at the gym. I just feel so behind. I am not a home owner yet. |
| Question: Older sister mocks my younger sister and I about our weight? Posted: 09 Apr 2015 07:36 AM PDT 'm the middle child of 3. I'm 20, my older sister( who still lives at home but commutes to college) is 22 and my younger sister is 17. My younger sister and I are, to put it bluntly, obese, 250 pounds each. We're ok with it though, it's given us an odd bond. Anyway, our older sister never passes on a chance to make references. " Ugh, you guys shouldn't eat so much"* pokes us in the stomach * " pants are getting tight I see". " Soon enough we'll need to widen the doors for you two". It gets old. We're not losing weight. Best way to get her to stop. |
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