I have a goofy, kind, and different personality. I tend to make joke and play around, and I'm known for this at my school. Yesterday or the day before I told this guy that he should brush more so he can get waves like me. Not in a mean way, and he said "get off my d*ck, before I f*ck your b*tch" I let it slid at the moment because I was already walking away and he usually just talks, but then I realized if I don't try to stop him he'll try to disrespect me some more. So when he came into my room I said "miyear don't disrespect me" then he said " bruh shut up" then I got mad because he TALKS and tries to bully other kids, so I said do you want to fight ? So he said "bro what's up ?" And then I said "so what if I squared up with you right now, what would you do?" He didn't say he would fight me I actually forgot what he said but it wasn't that. Then I said "alright you square you then" then he made an excuse and said " you were the one who pressed me" but I only did it because he disrespected me. Keep in mind I've known him for 3 years or so and he NEVER fights, only talk. What possess him to do this ? Also, my friends told me that he was breathing heavy and his hands were shaking, was this fear ? Then when he left the room he talked louder and louder.. what a chump.. what do you think this means ? 

Maybe they don't really know what child abuse is? 

I had 2 sisters raped, 1 when I was 8, and the 2nd when I was 13. By the time I was 15, I became a rape and abuse counselor. I did so in 4 different states, by taking a 40 hr rape course. I am certified in San Fran, Vegas, Philly, and New York. I have handled over 500 calls on rape and suicide hotlines. I went to the hospital, and counseled over 100 victims. I was highly requested, at high schools talking about date rape, and abuse. After 9/11, my schedule prevented me from volunteering. for a few years. About 8 years ago, I tried to volunteer again, here in Illinois. But I was turned away, because they felt no man should volunteer. I tried to take the 40hr rape course 3 other times. I though It changed> The YWCA liked my experience, and allowed me to take their class. And I did. I was told I had to pay a professional fee, of $240. Which I agreed to. And during the 3 weeks of class I tried to pay the money, but they kept on saying don't worry we will get the payment. but never took it. The last day of the class, with nothing but praise of my knowledge, and experience, I was told I could not volunteer. So I asked for my certificate, and pay my fee. But now they are ignoring me. What can I do?

I was 8 when my 1st sister was raped, and 13 when my 2nd sister was raped. I went through a lot of emotions, Including arguing with adult family members, and friends, who made excuses for rape and abuse. I found out, they made excuses, out of guilt, not being able to protect their loved one, fear, realizing, no matter what we do, someone can abuse, or hurt of anyone. After a few months of fighting any person who was mean to a girl or woman, I was forced into counseling. The doctor, was also a father of daughter who was raped. And he started a group of fathers, husbands, boyfriends, and brothers, of rape victims. After 6 months I became a certified rape and abuse counselor. Lucky for me, and for over 100 victims, I worked the hotline and or went to the hospital, when a rape victims was taken to the hospital. I did this in San Fran, Vegas, Philly, And Illinois. Where I took, a 40 hour rape and abuse course. Now recently for the 5th time. Not every victim agreed to talk with me. . I would ask for 3 minutes. . After reminding them, we all have mothers, and grandmothers, and would not want any woman to be raped, and nothing they did could be the cause of someone hurting them. I can count on 1 hand how many women requested a woman counselor. So after I finished the course, the Boss of the YWCA refuses to let me volunteer, or give me the certificate I earned. I had to pay for the class, but she refused to take my payment. What can I do Now?

These friends contacted me a few months ago and I kept in touch with them. One of them I used to spend all holidays with like we were sisters. We only stopped talking for 2 years. I cut them off cause of the past. It still hurts me what they both did to me. One spread rumors when I was in elementary that I got my boobs done so boys can like me and she called me silicone **** and told her sister to fight me. She apologized now and gave me a long speach about why she is sorry. The other one was the sister like and I really saw her like a sister until I saw that she didnt want me around when other friends were around, she would ignore me a lot and tell other friends I was the silicone girl. All that was in elementary and there was other stuff in jr high that they did and said. I'm 27 now. They both apologized and said we are grown and should be able to get along cause we go way back. They can go way back I'm not going there! I can forgive them and I have but I cant keep in touch with them its toxic to me. I forgave but I didnt forget! Am I wrong to think this way?

When I drink too much I black out and say terrible things to my boyfriend. I tell him I hate him, wish I never met him, I'm better off alone, etc. You get it, just nasty things. The next morning I have no recollection (most of the time) and apparently I break up with him or am just simply nasty to him. We are happy and fine when I'm not drinking and I have no any reasons to hate him. He's the sweetest and treats me very well.  My last relationship was very toxic, emotionally and physically abusive. My ex cheated on me and always cursed me out. I was with him for a while and I feel this has to be one of the reasons why I am so nasty to my boyfriend when I'm drunk because of my past experiences. I'm so confused and hurt, because I cant remember anything I say and I leave him very upset to the point where it's hes had enough. I've tried moderate drinking and told him I'd consider to stop drinking overall, because when I'm sober I know I still want to be with him.

I'm want her and her family to leave the US to be safe. She's white and loves traveling outdoors. She lives in Texas which will become Hispanic in a few years and I want her and her family to be safe. What should I do? This woman is very important to me. I see her like an older sister and a role model https://instagram.com/alexandriadeberry?igshid=1n3cwfwvspoe

Especially right after work? I need to take a dinner break and continue for another two hours. Is it okay to have free time and home and just go straight to bed? I don't want to face any drama at home.

There's nothing interesting in my life, I can't do anything I like, I can't have anything I want, for example: I like something so simple like running and where I live there's not even a decent running track, everyday I have to do things I don't enjoy at all and is becoming a pain to live like this just thinking on surviving. Everyday I think at least for a second about drinking cyanide but of course is complicated. I'd like to move to other country but visa and work is very difficult. I feel fkd up.