My very best friend in the world is now my sister in law. She had an affair last year. I knew about it for its entirety. My husband (her brother) doesn t know about it. Now I don t know if I should tell him. The affair is over now and no one else knows. In the event the truth does come out ,im worried it will compromise the trust we have if he finds out that I knew. What do i do?

Husband was 22 and Wife was 29? What would you assume about him and what would assume about her?

if my husband can't find his keys or the remote he goes into a rage and screams at my son ,my son screams back and then I am stuck in the middle. I don't think evan my son should be so sarcastic ,or passive aggressive or leave whenever his father is coming home. I also don't think it is fair that everything is always my son's fault.It is to the point he can't even eat dinner with us or heat anything up in the microwave because my husband comes after him. He has never liked our son abd does not like I am close to him. Even if I prove that I did it or I find the money or the remote control. he is adamant my son did it.Sometimes he waits till the middle of the night and harasses my son until Evan blows up.

I am totally screwed. We intended to end the affair as soon as he gets out so her husband wouldn't suspect a thing. She is pregnant and is certain that's our child. Her belly is starting to show. What should we do to make sure he does not go crazy?

My sister is getting married to a mutual friend of ours who was married when she had an affair with him. When my sister got pregnant, he ended his marriage to his wife. My sister says that they are destined to be together. I am supposed to be the maid of honor in her wedding but I am having a difficult time supporting her relationship, especially when her husband to be seems to still be in love with the wife he left.

I told her not to text me about anything unless its important about our son She texts me everyday about our son sometimes it just feels like it's for the sake of a reply I only reply if I feel one is worth it if I stop replying to most of them will she eventually back off.

Get off on the drama and he is trying to make my son think I am the bad person I am not a bad person I am all ways there for my kids no matter what.do you think it's fair that he starts with the drama with me.

Is it because they got married young or they married douche bags but due to them being popular in school they tied the knot

That is not true my first husband loved me very much and I loved him. I started hitting me when he started with a drinking problem. I was lucky I had support and left right away. I started a new life and I am very happy! It is ridiculous to say that anybody who hurts you doesn't love you. Often the people you love are the ones who hurt you more. I'm not saying you should let them hurt you. You should defintely leave but this childish view that people who love you can only do good things is silly

-he is actually legally her son)if I can have her consent she said yes so would we be able to at least get engaged but wait till actually getting married?

like slapping her husband in the face......well your husband may have cheated on you but you can solve the problem in private

should I?advice?

I ve been engaged to my older husband at 16 married at 18, currently 20 And have one toddler together. I feel like the relationship is a very unhealthy. He is twice my age. He was super sweet at first and i had no intrest in him at all but he promised to spoil me if i married him. He started being verbally abusive and unreasonable with no regards to my well being and constantly puts me in danger on a daily basis. More so after the child. He says one day he wishes i died and the next day i love you.. He calls me the most horrid things you can imagine.. And spits.. And more so. He says i do it to myself but. He will never communicate and talk things out just scream and blame, theres no talking only thing he does to solve a problem is go on walks and act like nothing happened. I feel like im just used to it now. And i feel so comfortable in my living situation i dont know how to change or seperate. Im scared of living on my own because i have terrible seperation anxiety and couldn t imagine putting my baby in day care, also i see too many bad stories on tv about molestation and he couldn t tell me because he cant talk yet.. What should i do i need seriously good advice without being a put down comment im already serverly depressed.

I feel as if my husband is always making his friends priority over me. When he comes home from work, the first thing on his mind is to go hang out with his friends. Friday he was 40 mins late picking up our 8 year old from the school bus stop. Turns out he was out running errands for his friend. When I expressed how angry I was, he had the nerve to have an attitude with me as if i did something wrong. Long story short i kicked him out and told him to go stay with his friends that he givea priority over his family. Now im heart broken, miss my husband and questioning my decision

My husband hurt me my husband and i have been together for 10 years and tonight is the first time he has ever physically harmed me. we were arguing about he said she said bs while intoxicated and i got tired of his treat to leave so i threw my ring at him. in return he threw his shorts and now i have a beeding goose egg where the button hit my head and idk how to think or feel. i have bl0pd running down my face and im just plain hurt. just thinking or typing about it makes me wanna cry.... what would you do???.

My husband was in London on my birthday We said before his trip we would celebrate later It s been 2 weeks since he got back and he s done nothing I mentioned it to him today because it was bothering me I told him maybe I didn t communicate enough but it would be nice to get a card or just a happy birthday Now he s mad at me... He sucks at holidays and birthdays but it s my 40th I really wanted him to do something