Family: Question: I've always been loving and thoughfful to my sister but she has always treated me badly. I cut her out of my life. Was I wrong?

Question: I've always been loving and thoughfful to my sister but she has always treated me badly. I cut her out of my life. Was I wrong?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 02:05 PM PDT

-I support our mom. -My sister always stole from us and asked for money and never paid us back. -I'm 34 years old, never once got a birthday or Christmas card from her. -She got worse in our adult years. In family gatherings she started insulting me out loud to humiliate me. Stuff like insulting my achievements to my home. -Last Christmas my best friend died and I avoided my sister trying to console me because I couldn't take an insult from her or her saying or doing anything mean in that hard time. I told my dad that on Christmas if she insults me I would tell her off. -He told her to be respectful to me and she texted me that I threatened to punch her in the face. -I never threatened her or hit a girl in my life. I'm tired of it. -My mom starved to provide for us and she always makes my mom cry. -My sister has a lot of money but this anger or bitterness is scary to be around.

Question: My mother is SUPER critical of every tiny thing I do and I think it's why I have no confidence.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 01:59 PM PDT

I love my mother, but she is ridiculously critical. We no longer share a house, but I visit a lot (mainly to see my brother) and she keeps in touch and I hate to say it gets me down and I think it's why I have no confidence. For instance, I'll be doing something as simple as making a cup of tea or vaccuming and she will say I'm not doing it right. if I mention a place I like or a TV show she will tell me how terrible it is. I'll buy an item of clothing she will always hate it. She will always hate my hair style too. She will find faults in all my friends and I have never told her about any of my boyfriends because I know it will be the same. If buy anything and tell her she will say I should save money, if I save money she will say I'm being stingy and need to spend it and money isn't everything. She judges everything I eat, which is why I'm self concious about that, and I feel like I can't relax or be happy because she will find something negative in everything. Another example, I didn't want to learn to drive but she kept on and on about how I'm too old to not drive. So I did learn. After passing she said I shouldn't have bothered because cars are too expensive and a waste of money.

Question: Why do my parents expect me to stand up for my shy sister who is getting bullied at school? It's her problem not mine?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 01:32 PM PDT

Question: My mom always yells at me when I cry. She never comforts me. I don't even cry that much.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 01:28 PM PDT

Question: My mom threatens to kill herself and me when shes mad. One time she told me I should become a hooker because she said she'd stop feeding me.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 01:27 PM PDT

Question: I'm 13 and cant persuade my parents to let me buy a Xbox with my own money. I work three mowing jobs and keep my grades high, Any help?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 01:26 PM PDT

Question: Should I take my 11yrs old granddaughter to Arlington to see the grave of my son?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:37 AM PDT

In 1988 I was married with a woman who had a 2 yo son. We divorced after 11 months of marriage when she left for another man leaving her child with me. I legally adopted him and he became my son. In 1989 I married another woman (whom I'm still married with) and it all was good from then. We had another child in 1990 and we made no difference between them.They were our children. In 2004 my eldest son at 18 decided to enlist in the Marine Corps and he decided to make contact with the woman he had hated so much during high school for leaving him as a child.She was happily married at the time with another man and treated my son badly or that's what he said when he got home that evening. I still see his face when he realized his natural mother didn't want him. My son was killed in action in Iraq in may 2005 at age 19. His fiance was pregnant at the time. In Jan 2006 my grauddaughter Meredith was born. Now at 11 she wants to know about her father.Who he was,what he did why he's not here anymore.She asked me to take her to Arlington where he was buried. She has never been there. She keeps asking that both to me and to her mother. Her mother tells her "yeah honey we'll go one day" but she told me in private she doesn't want Meredith to see the grave of his father yet because she says she's too young and the whole white headstone might be too heavy on her but she agreed to let me take Meredith if I want to. I know my son wouldn't want seeing his daughter cry on his grave. I POSTED THIS QUESTION YESTERDAY,YES,DON'T JUMP AT MY THROAT FOR THIS. I JUST REALIZED I FORGOT TO COVER THIS PART

Question: Is it right to confront someone about what they said about you if you were the one eavesdropping on them behind closed doors late at night?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:36 AM PDT

My husband and i are living with his brother and his wife. ( temporary situation... we've recently moved all together to a new country and splitting the rent). So the brother and his wife are acting very strange sometimes not saying hi to me and most of the times the brother is plain out rude to me. I dont say anything because i believe its not worth it as its nothing major and i dont want to cause a scene since they're family and this situation is temporary. One night my husband and i were talking in our bedroom ( it was like 1:00 am at night) and i basically blurrted out my frusteration about them and said some not nice things about them. I had no idea that the brother's wife would be eavesdropping behind our door that late at night. Anyways so she storms in amd screams, " you ******* b**** say sorry right now". I was dumbfounded.... i am in bed with my husband and have every right to talk to him about anything i want behind closed doors. Am i not right in this situation?

Question: Why do seniors always yell at me in marching band?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:02 AM PDT

I missed one practice on my birthday and I was yelled at severely by my section leader and a band major, I was so upset not to mention that I was yelled at even more by seniors in my section and not in my section, I don't see them yelling at anyone else or any other freshmen and it makes me just want to cry...why do they always yell at me? Do they hate me? My section leader is such great friends with the other freshmen and I think I'm the only one she really yells at.

Question: Should I cancel my anniversary dinner to babysit my younger siblings for my dad?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:51 AM PDT

I am an 18 year old university student, and I lived with my parents this past summer during vacation. On Monday I move back to campus, though classes start Wednesday. My dad insists that I need to come back Monday night so I can watch my 15 year old brother and 10 year old sister. My boyfriend and I had planned our anniversary dinner for that night, because he works Tuesday and Wednesday we won t have time. Should I cancel our plans and babysit or tell him no?

Question: Telling a family member from our culture to **** off?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:29 AM PDT

So we had family who just immigrated from Vietnam staying with us. My older brother used to be a Army Ranger and is now a electrician engineer. Pretty legit dude. We look up to him. He is the least interested in tradition out of all of us and could care less about his heritage. Successful dude, War vet, and has 2 of the cutest kids you can imagine. He comes and helps our relatives pack. Our cousin comes up and starts demanding that him and I call him "An" which is for seniority and to bow to his dad whenever he enters the room. This is because the relative is older then our dad so he automatically gets respect in our culture.My brother goes ballistic and starts cussing and calling him out on how he doesn't rate and should go back to Vietnam if they can't integrate. I understand my brothers fustrsrion. Should he have just walked away or was he somewhat in the right?

Question: If a couple dies and they have several children who are adults, how is it decided which one of them gets the house?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:24 AM PDT

Question: Aunt and Uncle want to give 7 month old cousin smartphone?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:22 AM PDT

Im a 16 year old brown female and I have the most adorrrable little baby cousin. I love her with all my heart and I can't get enough of her. However, she lives in Canada with her mom an dad but visits often. I've noticed that they, despite my brother's and my advice, that they have let her use phones at such an early age. They give it to her when they cant be with her and cant hold her (shes at the age where she really wants to be held by her mom all the time) and use it while carrying her and often take her picture and video. I have another cousin and have seen numerous kids who are really young yet will kick and scream and fight and hit their parents until they get their phone so they would watch cartoons on Youtube. I hate kids who are like this and this is part of the reason I dont get along with my spoiled Cousin B. I am terrified my little baby will become this but I am not the parent and I know i have to respect the parents' decision. But she's so young and the most purest thing it actually makes me cry thinking she might come out like my other cousin. When she cries, sometimes the only thing that works is her mom or the phone. Plus, she'll be back at Canada eventually with a mom with a lot of chores and a dad with a time consuming job. Not to mention, I feel like I'm sometimes made fun of for refusing to give her the phone when her mom or mine asks to. Please help :(

Question: I hate living with my grandma. Is my family toxic?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:21 AM PDT

Hi I m 19 and recently moved in with my grandma because my grandpa died .She invited me to live with her because the place I was staying was expensive and she was lonely. My grandma constantly makes rude remarks about me and my mother (her son s ex wife). She went as far to say that my mom was an animal abuser because she leaves her dogs outside while she works. She asked my boyfriend If he really wanted to marry me one day because I m not good at cleaning. I was told I could live in any room until my aunt and dad told her I m not allowed to stay in the room I picked. I am being moved into the smallest room. She has every closet full of her clothes and has yet to clean a closet out for me as promised. I do household chores for her and my boyfriend who doesn t live here does jobs that require heavy lifting for her. I was recently told by a family member who previously encouraged me to live with my grandma to that I am just using her. Should I stick it out a year and wait until I can live with my boyfriend or just move out as soon as possible ?

Question: Why are parents clueless when handling sibling rivalry? -_-?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:21 AM PDT

Ok, so here I am trying to explain how my brother is abusive and that I don't want to go to college with him (he's in college now), and she's like "you guys have to make up cause he'll take care of you" and I'm like "Um no, I told you he'll just make me feel like crap" and my Mom is like "NO HE WON'T HES YOUR BROTHER HE LOVES YOU" -_- I rlly can't have a serious discussion with any of my parents, cause they're like "that's not true guys, just make up already" like my brother even said he needs a therapist to her, and she just yells at us to get better and that's it... I want to tell her how much he has affected me, but I'm pretty sure she'll give the same answer as always, "Just make up with your brother blah blah blah I'M SURE HE LOVES YOU" like omggg i could go on a rant, but anyways, what do you guys think? Should I try to talk to her about it???

Question: Does my neighbor sound like a busybody?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:46 AM PDT

This neighbor butts into family concerns. She is always overly interested in what we do. She has no children or pets of her own. She gets into someone's business if they let their 12 year old watch horror movies. Her main goal seems to be to "parent" everyone else's kids. I often hear her talking about the sexualization of Kim K's daughter, North West. Her strong opinion is that family needs to stop dressing the child like that and "worry about all the other girls". Apparently she believes that they're endangering a whole group of kids by letting their girl dress a certain way. The neighbor expects everyone else to act like her - teachers, celebs, neighbors, parents, etc. I'm sure that famous people have BETTER things to do than worry so much about how their fans dress. This same neighbor will interfere with parents for letting a child get their hair dyed, claiming that it looks like "no one is caring for that child properly". It's quite strange how she fixates so much on random families whom she may not even know. Does she sound like she may be nosy or overly interested?

Question: I'm a 15 year old girl my 28 year old brother visits every other weekend. My mom let's him take my phone away. What should I do?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:58 AM PDT

-No I don't pay the bill my mom does but she have me the phone so it's mine. -Because it's my phone not his can he go to jail? -I know it's totally unfair but is it legal?

Question: Going to a barbecue at a park?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:14 AM PDT

So my family is going to a barbecue today at a park and i don't want to go because we had barbecue last week and I have no one there to talk to or any friends but i want to stay at home but my parents won't let me even when they know I have no one there

Question: Why do my family give me a hard time, because I'm childfree?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:52 AM PDT

Question: My brother is so much stricter with me than our parents ever were!?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:19 AM PDT

Our parents died last year, and that's when my oldest brother became my legal guardian. I am certainly grateful that he stepped in, and I understand how hard it must be for him because it's been hard for me, too. But I don't understand why he is so strict with me. Like, I have a ten o' clock curfew now, and he goes berserk if I'm home late, whereas my parents were much more chill about it, like, they would just call me if I was late and tell me to come home. And my parents never really cared if I dated, they'd just want to meet the guy, but with my brother, he gets pissed if he sees me with any guy, much less kissing or holding hands or something. And my parents always trusted me to keep my grades up and do my homework, they didn't even know how to check my grades online, but I'm pretty sure my brother checks them ten times a day and has them all memorized so that he can yell at me if I get lower than a B. I really don't get why he wants to be so much stricter than my parents were, and it's caused so much fighting between us, and I hate fighting, I don't know what to do! What should I do?

Question: How would you feel having 40 year old children living at home? How long could they stay?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 05:59 AM PDT

I have a childhood friend and he is 40 living at home with no plans on moving untill his mom dies. He is a great guy but utterly childish and is living the highlife with his 55 year old brother living at home in a nice big house. He constantly complains about not being able to find a wife and even though a very nice guy I told him that doesnt it cut it if you want to get married. He tells me he moved back home bc his father was sick but that was 10 years ago. He also is a alcoholic and doesnt know how to handle money which is the real reason he moved back home. Now his mother constantly complains to me about his drinking problem and I just want to say something like " this is your home i would tell him he has to go to rehab or get out" his mother is 80 years old and doesnt have the balls to tell him to sober up or leave. Even if he wasnt a drunk his mother should give him a time frame to save up money and get out. Since he lives at home he spends all of his savings primarily on booze. Do you think telling his mother she should tell him to go to rehab or get out? Is that rude? I think his mother is crazy for putting up with this. I grew up in a strict Greek household and my parents wanted me out when i turned 18. I moved at 19 bc my mother was not allowing me to live my life so i lived in the ghetto which is the only thing i could afford at the time so i wouldnt be a burden on my mother.

Question: My Mom is running around the house naked and singing. Should I just stay in my room?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 05:23 AM PDT

School starts Tuesday for us so she is singing "It's the most wonderful time of the year".

Question: My mother dislikes her uncles on her mother's side. As a result she wants no interaction with their children. Is this wrong?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 04:35 AM PDT

Since the children, now adults, are innocent is this wrong for her to do? The uncles she is mad at for not being kind to her mother when she was growing up and their father died suddenly (they didn't share with her). However, they have become nice to her again in the last 10-15 years. They even include her again in their father's estate. My mother won't forgive. So is this wrong or is it okay to dislike the children of enemies even though the children did nothing wrong? They are adult children but still my Mom's cousins and super nice people (I go to an annual reunion with my grandmother and aunt so know them all). My uncle is the same, won't forgive the uncles and thus doesn't see or interact with their children.

Question: What should I do when my mother is forcing me into her future?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 12:46 AM PDT

I'm halfway through high school and starting to prepare for college. I have given thought to what I want to do and where I want to go. However, my mother is extremely demanding and keeps on pushing me into things that I know won't benefit me or suits me. Some bigs things are that shes always trying to push pharmaceuticals at me when I have no interest in. However, she keeps on pushing it to the point where even after 10-15 attempts to try, she has begun to guilt trip me and telling me that she's so scared for me in engineering and how other family members have failed to rise up in life. Another thing is that she is forcing me into a program at church. Now, I support my faith completely, but I have a problem with the program the church gives. It is considered "Sunday school", but they dont teach us anything and expect us to pay. She keeps on forcing me back into the class (for the last 10 years now) and I know its a waste because it has no benefits for me. I told her that it would be better for me if i cut that program off and work more on AP classes and preparing for college. This is where all hell breaks loose. Her justification for me to stay in that class was "Unless you have completely no time to work on school (literally. 24/7 of non stop schooling), then you will stay in that program". She disregards everything I say and treats me like if I was property, not as a son to the point where I dont think she even sees me as a kid, but instead sees me as her retirement plan.

Question: I took my twelve year old daughter to the doctor and they asked about her sexual orientation.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 12:36 AM PDT

They asked me to leave the room so naturally I pressed my ear against the door to listen in on the questions. Then I hear, "Do you know if you like girls, boys, or both?" I was in such shock I didn't hear her answer. But my question is, can they ask that? And why would they ask that?

Question: My brother is making it impossible for me to date anyone!?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 10:53 PM PDT

My brother is my legal guardian, and he has a stupid rule that if I want to date anyone, then he needs to meet them and approve of them. It's awkward enough bringing anyone home to meet my brother, but of course, he refuses to approve of anyone. I tried going on dates without telling my brother, but most of the time he finds out, because he always wants to know where I am, and then I get in trouble for going out behind his back. I can't even hang out with boys after school or anything, because the minute my brother sees me with any guy, even someone who's just a friend, he comes over and starts interrogating them, or forces me to leave and then yells at me. It's getting so annoying! I'm sixteen, by the way, and my brother is 25. How can I get him to back off?

Question: My mom told me that if i were i her stressful situation i would have slit my wrists or jumped off a bridge. One time my sister was arguin?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 09:05 PM PDT

W my other sis and my other sis was being annoyig and chewing ice in her ear my sis told her to stop and she didnt. So my older sis slapped the ice out out her hand understabdly. My mom if course got mad and said she was gonna teach my sis a lesson and slapped her phone out her hand cracked it. My mom is jealous of me calling me ms perfect or whatever, i canf talk tk her without her getting in her fits of rage

Question: Is this odd or fairly normal?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 08:34 PM PDT

So my dad is 54 ans now with a 23 yr old woman whom he met through his second wife who is friends with the 23 yr old and works with her. My dad has two kids aged 12 & 11 with his second wife as well.

Question: My brother won't let me drive!?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 08:28 PM PDT

I am 15, and I'm currently learning how to drive; I'm hoping to get my license when I turn 16 next month. Last week, my brother let me drive to do some errands, and he was being super nitpicky about everything, like telling me to slow down when I was going 70 on the freeway, just because the speed limit is technically 65, even though literally everybody goes faster and I was just going with the flow of traffic! And also freaking out if I don't use my blinker when changing lanes when there's literally nobody around. He kept making me nervous the whole time I was driving! And then, he wouldn't even let me drive home, and he hasn't let me drive since, claiming that if I can't follow the law then I shouldn't drive, even though he literally does the exact same things! I'm so annoyed, I'm not getting enough practice! He just doesn't want me to get my license! He's the only adult who can take me, as he's my legal guardian, and my parents aren't around. Is this fair? What should I do?!

Question: My biological mom treats me as if I'm her step child. She tells me how much I owe her every little thing she does for me. Can anyone relate?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 08:26 PM PDT

Question: My biological mother talks to me as if I m her step child. How do you cope with this type of annoyance.?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 08:23 PM PDT

Question: I dislike my sister's fiancé but she includes her in everything we do?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 08:12 PM PDT

Is it rude of my sister to include her fiancé in everything we do or is it rude of me to care? I've completely had it with my sister having the phone on speaker and including her fiancé in all of our phone conversations. (they're both women by the way). I don't know her fiancé that well so it's awkward. I know I should get to know her better, and I will, but sometimes I just want to have conversations alone with my sister. The fiance is also incredibly annoying, though. She is very, very liberal and I'm moderate but we don't agree on a lot of things. I never argue with her, but I just wish we could have conversations without everything turning political. If I ever dared to disagree with her she would make me feel stupid. I want to be a social worker and she told me I would be a bad one if I didn't become more liberal, which I thought was rude and I just hate it when people push their beliefs on me, liberal or conservative. What should I do? They're both so incredibly sensitive. I don't want to call them snowflakes because I know that's rude and I really don't hate liberals, but if there ever was a snowflake, it's them. They're so incredibly defensive and emotional about everything I know they're a couple and couples do almost everything together. But as a single person it's hard for me to completely understand and deal with.

Question: Why do I need to respect my mother when she doesn t respect me?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:48 PM PDT

My mother always yells at me and disrespects me. When I yell back she considers it as disrespect. I believe respect requires earn and has to be mutual. Why do I need to give respect to someone who disrespect me just because she is my mother. I don't do anything to irritate her, but my sister does;however, somehow it turns against me.

Question: Im the oldest of 7 silbligs the 3 older ones r treated horribly compared to the smaller ones. The older ones r made to clean and watch the?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:47 PM PDT

Younger ones. My mom had an emtionally abusive bf and mom. She is very emtionally abusive. She has called me a whore and told me to go to hell. She always has an excuse for her behavior or the kids. She a single parent and works to support us. But she is not stable. Yesterday she slammed my lil sis head on the ground, im scared to be at home. I think sometimes she doesnt want the older ones to succed and feel some sense of jealous from her sometimes. Plz help i i need it.

Question: How can I move in with my dad? I have a very bad relationship with my mom and I want to move in with my dad how can I do that?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:47 PM PDT

Question: How to report hard drug use around my disabled father?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:46 PM PDT

My dad is disabled because of an almost fatal car wreck. He gets disability every month. My step mom works, but spends her entire check on crack cocaine, and uses the drugs around my dad. He absolutely hates it but he can t do anything about it because she takes care of him. Is there any way I can report her for diabled abuse?? I absolutely hate her for doing this to him

Question: How can I stop my mom from getting so angry at me all the time?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:42 PM PDT

I'm a 15 year old girl and my mom gets mad at me for the littlest things. As I'm writing this we are not speaking. I was doing my homework at the dining room table and I said "my shoulders hurt cause my backpack is so heavy" and my mom turns around while she's washing dishes and screams in my face "MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE SUCH A DAMN HEAVY BACKPACK ALL THE TIME" I apologized and she said "get away I don't wanna talk anymore to you I'm done". Maybe I did something but I'm not sure? It happens a lot and she just gets pissed randomly. I get it, people have bad days but is everyday a bad day for her? She's always so kind to my step dad no matter what he says but if I say one wrong thing she won't speak to me for three days. I don't know what I'm doing wrong?

Question: Am I overreacting?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:36 PM PDT

I was visiting my folks for dinner, and my brother was there as well (I'm a girl by the way). I'm naturally very thin and delicately built, but I look healthy and I eat like a horse. While we were eating, I went back to the kitchen to get seconds, and my brother made a comment about how he doesn't understand why I'm "so skeletal" considering the way I eat. When I told him that I am not skeletal, he started poking my shoulder and saying "look at what we have here...bone! You're a skeleton!" This really angered me because I'm most definitely not skeletal, and I felt like he was body-shaming me. When my parents heard me complaining, they yelled at me to shut up and took HIS side!!! I felt really invalidated, as if my parents expected me to just take the insult without protest. I did wonder afterwards if I was overreacting though. What do you think?

Question: Do I have a cult at my school? They keep saying "slipknot" and "corn"?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:29 PM PDT

I keep hearing this group of people at my school talking about "slipknot" and "corn" Is it a cult? A song? A club? A new place? And don't tell me to ask them about it because I already have once and they told me to "get the f** out." They're not really nice to anyone, either. They wear a lot of black and they all have a chain necklace. One of them has bright red hair and a scarf around the mouth. Could that be the leader of the cult? (If it is a cult anyway) And then during lunch this guy was talking to the group and said that he loves corn. I'm not really sure what corn has to do with anything unless they really like eating corn...? So now that guy is always with that group that talks about corn and slipknot. One of the guys in the group is in my science class and I tried to be his partner in a lab activity but he told me to f** off and that he only works with people in his clique. So I guess they really hate me. My girlfriend thinks they do drugs and my friends think that they're just edgy and messed up. I can see why since they wear shirts with satanic symbols and then shirts with an "S" on the back, which probably stands for "Satan." Also I hear rumors that they have been involved with several crimes, but the teachers say that it's just a false rumor.

Question: Is this a cheesy idea?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:29 PM PDT

I have special friends that I mail, very few of them, only 3.. I always send them letters of encouragement in the mail, at rare times through out the year, when I feel they might need a boost. I want to send them letters again this month except I wanted to make them a little more special. I know Braille, it is a language/way of writing and reading that I've HAD to learn.. I was thinking of writing them a letter in Braille and mailing it to them, of course with a side paper saying (in writing/English) what it actually says.. I thought it'd be special. What do you think? Or is it weird? They know what Braille is by the way

Question: What if your daughter becomes a stripper?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:27 PM PDT

How do you solve this?

Question: Parents don't let me do things I wanna do/never accept/like it..?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:27 PM PDT

So I wanna go to the gym and be healthy but my parents said no to that. So I started working out at home. But I asked to do a private boxing class for $75 and it's an hour. It's a very good workout for getting fit. Also, I can take my stress out on boxing, but they had said no to that too. When I want to do something good/beneficial for me, they say no. Then they complain about me not doing any sports and being lazy. It's very annoying, how do I make them to let me do stuff that I like doing?

Question: I have been living with family for 5 years. This family has stated that they will change the locks in 1 week. What should i do?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 07:27 PM PDT

Question: What would u do? While a mother shops with her six year old daughter, she sees a man slip two sandwiches into his pockets...?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 06:50 PM PDT

While a mother shops with her six year old daughter, she sees a man slip two sandwiches into his pockets. Entering the store earlier, she noticed this same man searching through the dumpster. After glancing around the store, she realizes no one else saw the man steal except her daughter. Just the week before, the girl had tried to take a candy bar from a store without paying because she was hungry. Since then the mother has tried to convince her daughter that stealing is wrong. The girl tells her mother that the man stole something and looks to her mother to see what to do. What should the mother do?

Question: Need help with this creative idea? Is it dumb?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 06:24 PM PDT

I have special friends that I mail, very few of them, only 3.. I always send them letters of encouragement in the mail, at rare times through out the year, when I feel they might need a boost. I want to send them letters again this month except I wanted to make them a little more special. I know Braille, it is a language/way of writing and reading that I've HAD to learn.. I was thinking of writing them a letter in Braille and mailing it to them, of course with a side paper saying (in writing/English) what it actually says.. I thought it'd be special. What do you think? Or is it weird? They know what Braille is by the way

Question: My dad is mad right now, what to do?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 06:04 PM PDT

Should I just leave him alone? His new wife said something that probably hurt his ego and I'm guessing that's why he's mad. He teases his wife all the time, so she teased him back but he got all defensive and now he won't talk to her. Or me. He won't admit he's angry but I can tell. Should I approach him and ask what's wrong? Or just leave him alone? His wife is very sweet and doesn't deserve this. He's been ignoring us for 2 hours now.

Question: Should I smoke the weed?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:58 PM PDT

My grandpa just went to bed and he left a joint out on the porch should I take it?? I'm 14 btw

Question: Pls read everything, I'm freaking out I already feel like a 50 year old grandmother. I can't do this, pls read and answer?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:55 PM PDT

Before anyone tells me to mind my business let me just say, I am a 24 hour nanny for my mother. It's only me and her and even though I help it still isn't enough cause there's my sick grandfather with a rare case of anemic that his blood drops so low he's like a walking dead man, he has a very sick heart. Then there's my sisters 8/6 that one still poops in the diaper and they stay up basically all night they're like energy bunnies. We also have 3 dogs. My mom says she feels if she aged 10 years since my grandpa fell a day before memorial day weekend she has her dish full and now another one for my grandfather, when I said to her a few months ago "please no more kids" after my sisters hit me when I had a cyst she said "what are you crazy" or "are you crazy". Our neighbors think we're weird cause we never go outside with everything going out, we only go out once or twice a month sometimes not even and when we do it takes us the whole day to leave the house that we don't get out until 8/9:00 my mom always feels sick afterwards. But I'm our closet I see the condomd haven't been touch (they fell out once) so I knew how I put them back/how there was. Also these are notes of what happen two times a few months ago so pls read to completely understand. My mom also has a belly herina she's scared, I'm having anxiety bc I know if there's another baby that's it for my life NO JOKE https://notestoryonline.tumblr.com/post/161915204828 https://notestoryonline.tumblr.com/post/162583064698

Question: How can I make my mom feel better?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:32 PM PDT

My moms birthday is on the 3rd of Sep. and shes really sad because shes turning 60 yrs old. How can I make her day better and special?

Question: Im all alone in a hotel as my parents are out and there is a tornadoe warning?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:26 PM PDT

Im in south carolina crowne reef hotel nd im actually completely paranoid of tornadoes and tornadoe warnings they are my number one fear. My parents went out and I cant contact them. Idk what to do nd this hotel is so big I wouldnt even be able to find the front desk if I needed too. I have been digging around the hotel room to see if they have a tornadoe procedure written down somewhere but I cant find anything.. Idk what to do. I have never even witnessed a tornadoe and I am from an area in canada where I have rarely had to worry about tornadoes or tornadoe warnings so Its completely out of my element on what to do.

Question: No one likes my sister because she is so much like a narcissistic relative we know and is a bully. Is this good reason to dislike a relative?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:25 PM PDT

My sister is still a relative. Yet she is disliked by all as we all know how bad she is.

Question: My brother was a bully when we were kids. He is fine now as an adult. How do I stop fearing him (I still fear uncomfortable around him)?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:24 PM PDT

He is not at all a bully anymore but I can't shake it off. I remain scared like he is the way he was 20 years ago.

Question: Myparentnevergetusanyfoodandmy brothers always goes out to get food withoutme and eats in thecar while I mleft home to starve whatshould Ido?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:00 PM PDT

Question: My uncle is as ignorant as a sack of ****. How do I enlighten him?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 05:00 PM PDT

perfectlybaked---He comes and raids the refrigerator and then leaves. I think it is an intruder and call 911 but he has left already by the time the cops arrive and my parents won't press charges since it is my Mom's brother. He has been married 4 times and is currently divorced again. He believes things like that Trump is a good person or that mental illness is not real or that ADHD kids just need to be yelled at more. He seldom sees his own kids from past marriages.

Question: My step-mother is disgusting on the inside my Mom says. How do I know if my Mom is right and should I hate her for my Mom?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 04:59 PM PDT

Question: My parents are travelling with their disgusting friends. How do I get them not to gossip with these disgusting friends?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 04:59 PM PDT

Question: How do I get out of helping my needy cousin?

Posted: 31 Aug 2017 04:54 PM PDT

Her parents have been too hard on her. It is a narcissistic mother situation. Yet she calls me 3 times a week for a car ride. She calls 3 times a week for a ride to the grocery store and sometimes for money. I feel bad for her but I am not her Dad. How do I get out of helping her constantly while still being a friend to her (still being nice to her).