Marriage & Divorce: Question: I need advice, I'm confused? |
- Question: I need advice, I'm confused?
- Question: Did marriages used to be better (Ex. in the 1950s)?
- Question: What's the largest/most popular biracial mix? What races do white men and women most often marry for interracial marriages?
- Question: Is marriage really that bad?
- Question: Is it normal to feel this way about my wife after emotional affair?
- Question: Bakit kailangan gawing legal ang divorce sa pilinas?
- Question: Wedding questions?
- Question: In law boundaries?
- Question: Does my husband still love me?
- Question: My husband wants me back what should I do?
- Question: Can i divorce my husband in jail for 11 years?
- Question: HELP Is my husband using me for permanent residency? What kind of help should I get? I don't want a divorce unless necessary.?
- Question: How so I show my wife more affection, what could I do.?
- Question: How do I love on my wife more?
- Question: Husband's impulsive spending. Help?
- Question: Should I meet my existing new wife?
- Question: Do you think marriage between different social classes will most probably succeed or not?
- Question: How much would a divorce case in Florida cost?
- Question: Can someone give me an estimation on how much a divorce case will cost in florida?
- Question: Wife never responds to my texts, but always expects me to respond to hers.?
- Question: Is marriage worth it?
- Question: How many people are truly happy in sencond marriage?
- Question: My marriage is rough. I need an opinion, some assistance.?
- Question: Stay or go?? Help please?
- Question: Men: Two questions for you. How long are with the woman you love and would you be able to live without sex even if she had medical problems?
- Question: Why would the married man find it funny that the kids would tell his wife if he talked to his mistress when the kids were there?
- Question: I'm confused i need advice?
- Question: Why do you think that he thinks it sounds humorous that his kids might mention to his wife that they saw him talking to the "other woman"?
- Question: My husband (married for 1 month now) has never had a drink in his entire 23 year old life and he is majorly against it and so is his family.?
- Question: Would you rather the one you love die or rather you are the only person who can see your love?
- Question: How do I get my wife to quit nagging and being so negative?
- Question: How do I go about letting child support know he does work under the table and he gets SSI?
- Question: If my ex husband has a British passport , but the reason he married me was to do this . He has been violent within our marriage?
- Question: Is it time for me to divorce my wife?
- Question: Should I be trusting when my husband goes to a club while I'm out of the country?
- Question: Is it ok for my husband to go to a night club while I'm out of the country?
- Question: Do you think it is ok for my husban to want to go to a club while I go on a vacation with my son out of the country to see my family?
- Question: Should I keep trying to save my marriage?
- Question: Some advice to get over this divorce?
- Question: What should i do about my slated view on marriage?
- Question: Moms-what does your partner do to make you continue to love him while you have kids? Top 5 things that makes you continue to fall in love?
- Question: Louise Wenthe to Christian Schmohe weddings on New Schaberg,Il?
- Question: Why would a married man not wear his ring?
- Question: Should I Leave? Long story please read!?
- Question: Is it normal to still fantasize about people if you're married?
- Question: Is this normal? I'm 22yo and my husband is 33yo. I always wanting a sex everyday but my husband couldn't do it. And it turns a fight.?
- Question: My husband never does anything right, what do I do?
- Question: Saw a text pop up on my husband's phone from one of his friends saying that watching him made him not want a relationship?
- Question: Is this wife a little crazy?
- Question: How can I get my husband to include me in family functions?
- Question: My husband wants to work on things, he's not sexually attracted to me, should I have sex with someone else?
- Question: I love my wife even though... Divorce is her favorite word in arguments?
- Question: Why do so many men let their wives carry their balls in her purse?
- Question: My mother in law is throwing a birthday party for my husband this weekend but I am not invited.?
- Question: My wife lost her job I need my more money I have no money but can I get a truck?
- Question: Can i marry the tenth doctor?
- Question: Who's the husband and wife in a same sex marriage?
- Question: Does this count as rape?
- Question: Marriage is going down the hill, need an expert advice?
- Question: My wife and I have a todler and an infant. She just told me she would like to try in a year to have a third. Need help.?
| Question: I need advice, I'm confused? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:51 PM PDT I have been with my fiance' for 6 years , he is disabled (he's on a wheel chair) and so far I thought that we had a wonderful relationship. But just the other day, he was talking about his past and he told me that if his ex- wife would have been the one to take of him instead of his mother, his life would have been better today. (they have been divorced for over 20 years and have 2 kids together). I am confused as to why he would still think this way, after we've been together for 6 years. any advice. I've done everything I could to help him and I feel that all my hard work is in vain. |
| Question: Did marriages used to be better (Ex. in the 1950s)? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:47 PM PDT If the divorce rate is high now and it was low earlier in history, like in the 1950s, does that mean that marriage used to be BETTER? And happier than modern marriage? Or are people really the same then and now? |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:27 PM PDT I'm curious about these Two topics. Also I chose white since they marry interracially the most. |
| Question: Is marriage really that bad? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:05 PM PDT Someone on here posted the question: If you could go back and redo your life, what would you change? I noticed that most people said they would never get married. Why is this ? |
| Question: Is it normal to feel this way about my wife after emotional affair? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:05 PM PDT My wife and I have been married for 10 years, im 38 and shes 39. We have two kids (6 and 4). So basically for a few months now my wife has been getting attached to a co worker she claimed it wasn't physical. She came clean with me and i had no idea. She said she felt abandoned emotionally and wants counseling. We have been in counseling for 3-4 months now and i have been trying to be there for her emotionally. The thing is i feel like i cant really trust her anymore. She texts me more than ever and talks to me about her day. also sex does nothing for me anymore, she always initiates i have sex to make her happy but get nothing from it. some days i just feel like giving her oral and then calling it a night so shes satisfied. how do i change my feelings for her? i want to forgive her completely but cant really forget, every time we make love i feel like she would of ended up doing the same with that coworker. |
| Question: Bakit kailangan gawing legal ang divorce sa pilinas? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 07:47 PM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 07:25 PM PDT Hey guys I'm just wondering it's been on my mind just have not asked for whatever reason but my cousin recently got married a 2nd time a year ago she was married years ago ended in divorce after 5 years. When my cousin got married to her now husband they sat instead of standing up like a normal wedding? Why is this? Is this a ritual for couples marrying a 2nd or so time. Just found it weird. Thanks guys for all the answers. They sat in chairs as they were up by the priest getting married I thought something was wrong with his back I have no idea |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 07:17 PM PDT So my wife's parents helped us Get our house ready before our baby, didn't go well. Her mom said I needed to get rid of my dead mothers dog I'd promised my mom I'd keep, they wouldn't stay out of our bedroom which was made clear I didn't want them going in, they while I was at work were over with her sister who found my phone I'd forgotten at home, she found a texting argument my wife and I had about them helping not going well. They told her because I didn't like them doing whatever in our home I was disrespecting her and must not care bout her and our baby. I got home she told me, I was mad texted her dad he said I didn't love her I told her that was going way way too far and I didn't want to hear from them again. Next day her sister texted her she should be ashamed of herself being married to me. My wife made up with them, baby was born they were at hospital I was cordial but that was it. Wife thinks I need let it go, I tell her I can't it was too far. She gets upset no clue what to say |
| Question: Does my husband still love me? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 07:12 PM PDT my husband &I got married very young. I was 20 he was 24. im now 23 & he is 27 & we're expecting our first baby next month. well in the beginning of my pregnancy we were fighting a lot & I ended up leaving him ..it didn't last long tho. I had packed up some things & moved out while he was at work. that night he was calling me begging me to come home & telling me things would be different. I went back a few days later. well that was months ago. our son is due next month & we're having problems again. he smokes weed which I don't really have a problem with because he doesn't do it around me & he is also a hard working man. but when he runs out he is kind of mean.. just moody towards me. we haven't been spending much time together either. well yesterday we got into a huge argument & I told him I had enough of his crap. he said he was going to leave & packed a bag.. then he kept coming into our room & asking if I was sure this is what I want. I told him yes multiple times & he kept trying to talk to me. then he got mad & called me a b*tch & said that he liked a girl at his job anyway. it really hurt me. he was saying he was gonna make her our sons stepmommy. I was crying really bad & I just wanted him to leave but he wasn't. so then I started getting a bag ready to leave & he came up to me & hugged me & told me he was sorry & that he didn't want us to split up. he said I was his world. I just don't know what to do anymore.. I am still upset. any advice? |
| Question: My husband wants me back what should I do? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 07:03 PM PDT We have been going through the divorce process and as we are finalizing everything he decides that he can't live without me. We called a quits because we honestly just couldn't stand one another. But since we spent four months apart we have both grown. He actually dated a girl before we even got all the documents signed. So I was sure he was happy and he moved on. The girl he dated played him like a drum and when it was over and he lost his job and hit rock bottom that was when he started trying to reach out to me. I ignored him until of course we had to go to court. Now he has my emotions all out of whacked because I do love him and I just want him to change. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Can i divorce my husband in jail for 11 years? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:55 PM PDT He is in jail on megans law. He was abusive and had lots of affairs and a son .and he is still in contact with her. Our kids are over 18 and have no assets to divide up i moved out of the house we shared |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:29 PM PDT I had an arranged/forced marriage at 18 with a 29 y.o. After marriage, I got a full time job while being a full time student bc he can't support me and wouldnt give me $ so that I could buy things,I buy him things constantly, (like a car) . I help w/ rent, bills, groceries etc with my minimum wage job. I have no idea where his moneys going, I assumed he was sending it to his family or something. I put my full trust in him. He doesn't listen to me when I want to talk and share what I'm feeling, he does not want to cooperate on dividing the chores. He always says "I'm not your slave", even though I say little things like "can you please help me with cooking?". He always hides his phone from me and goes to the bathroom for long periods of time. He has hit me multiple times and I've hit him too, he always says I wish I was back home so I could beat you and says he will run away soon. He always brushes off the subject of having kids. He is a big LIAR. Lied about his age, he lied about his education, lied about his work, lied about how he would treat me. And when I try to leave him, he gets so lovey dovey. Idk what to do honestly. I love him and I do everything for him. I cook, clean, I'm smart/beautiful/confident, go to college, go to work and treat with him with love and respect even though he does not have the slightest bit for me. He tells my parents that he loves me and would die without me. But he is just so damn shady&blames me for everything. I've been married for 8 months now. |
| Question: How so I show my wife more affection, what could I do.? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:09 PM PDT |
| Question: How do I love on my wife more? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:07 PM PDT She feels like I m not showing enough affection. |
| Question: Husband's impulsive spending. Help? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 05:56 PM PDT My husband just bought a $200 used and broken robot toy and another $74 robot toy on the same day using his credit card. He's been buying stuff like clothes, sneakers, iPhone, gadgets, whatever stuff he doesn't really need. Who knows what else he bought since he's been hiding these from me. He wants to eat out a lot, and buys things not on budget. We're supposed to save up for future plans but we can't move forward. I can't do it by myself and pay for everything. We talked about this before, that we need to save up, but it seems like it didn't really sink in him. How would I deal with his impulsive spending? TIA. |
| Question: Should I meet my existing new wife? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:51 PM PDT I have only met my ex a handful of times in the past 5 years since he left me for an arranged marriage. We were together for 6 years but had no children. Now he has started contacted me again and wants to meet up socially. I think I will find it difficult and don't know why he now wants to see me. |
| Question: Do you think marriage between different social classes will most probably succeed or not? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:39 PM PDT I don't think it works. my father's family is lower class than my mother's family. My grandfather from father's side: worked as hairdresser (owned a small shop), had too many kids, smoked weed until last day of his life. My grandfather from mother's side: had a degree in law, worked for the government, he was more than average class for his time. I think my parents had the worst marriage ever, they never love each other, there's discrimination and selfishness in every aspect of their relationship. What do you think? |
| Question: How much would a divorce case in Florida cost? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:35 PM PDT My dad has been caught cheating for 8 years and my mom wants a divorce and take the kids. We don't know much about the law and the court. But I would like to know how much would a divorce case cost? I know that there are a lot of factors involved but can someone give me an estimation. |
| Question: Can someone give me an estimation on how much a divorce case will cost in florida? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:33 PM PDT |
| Question: Wife never responds to my texts, but always expects me to respond to hers.? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:25 PM PDT Like I'll be driving or working and she will expect me to sext/text her right away, but if she goes somewhere or if I text her when she is busy or resting, she just doesn't respond back. What's up with this double standard? |
| Question: Is marriage worth it? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:16 PM PDT Im an 18 year old guy, and i always thought that in the future i was going to settle down, hell i still do but am wondering if its worth it. Maybe im young and dumb, or i over think things but theres a lot of things that can go wrong isnt there? for one there's divorce, and then there's being cheated on or falling out of love with your partner. I feel like if i invest all my heart into someone and end up wanting to spend my life with them but then a few years later they tell me they lost feelings for me or have been cheating on me, it isnt really ideal or encouraging. Plus divorce is a painful process, and then getting back out to the dating world is even worse. Im a guy that gets easily attached, like REALLY LOYAL, so these thoughts haunt me. am i just being pessimistic and dumb? |
| Question: How many people are truly happy in sencond marriage? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 04:04 PM PDT Please be honest. And why are you happier this time? |
| Question: My marriage is rough. I need an opinion, some assistance.? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 03:43 PM PDT My husband and I were married not because we loved each other, but because it would be best for his children. His last wife left him for her own reasons, and I filled in. The children referred to me as their mother, and it agitated the eldest when I tried to prevent it. Once the divorce was finalized we married. It has been extremely rough for both of us. He is grieving, and I want to do the most I can to help him through this rough time. We have become close friends, and I have an understanding of that he may never love me, and I pray I might come to love him. But I must admit, I am afraid to love him if there will be nothing in return. I am trying to stay strong and keep my head up right and fulfill my duties as a mother, housekeeper, and maybe even a wife. This is my first relationship, and happened entirely for the children. I feel I can keep going, but sometimes it all becomes such a weight, and I fear I might be a weight to him, which is the last thing I want to be in his current state. We are trying to move on together, and hopefully come to a point where we can love each other. I have no idea what to do. We have had very little intimacy of any kind, and have gone out twice. Thank you, and have a wonderful day. |
| Question: Stay or go?? Help please? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 03:22 PM PDT When is it time to call it quits?? long please read...? I have been married for going on 8 years.First of all..I know I'm not perfect, and like everyone I have flaws. The problem is my husband has NO communication skills.He doesn't talk about our problems, when i try he gets defensive and go to the bedroom and shuts the door. I have to ask him to help me around the house. I handle all the bills. When it comes to paying the rent, he never wants to pay it when it's due, because he says it's "taking all his money". He is a very quiet antisocial person. Before we met he spent most of his life on the computer playing video games and chatting.He told me this after we were married.He has been on the computer most of our marriage. I have tried talking calmly to him many times and asked him to go to marriage counseling. He wont go. A month ago, I finally had enough, I left and stayed at my Grandmother's house for a couple days.When I came back he said Ok, I will go to counseling. He has NEVER made the appointment. I'm so tired... physically and emotionally. He plays games with my mind. He does something to upset me, then plays nice guy for awhile and then thinks everything is okI He once said he put poison in my food. He then said it was just a "joke". Everything is a joke,, the problem is he isnt laughing and neither am I. He is controlling in a subtle creepy way and I honestly feel afraid of him. |
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| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 02:53 PM PDT This married man was at the public pool with his kids and the woman he is having an affair with was also there. She text him later and asked him what he was thinking about when he was there and he said he was thinking that if he talked to me his kids would mention it to his wife lol. What I don't understand is why he would say something serious like that and then laugh about it after? Any thoughts? |
| Question: I'm confused i need advice? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 02:52 PM PDT I have been with my fiance' for 6 years. he is disabled, meaning that he is on a wheel chair. Anyway we have had a wonderful relationship (so I thought) and the other day he was talking about the past and he told me that if his ex-wife would have been the one to take care of him, his life would be better . they they have been divorced for over 20 years. I am confused. I think that he has always wanted to be with his ex-wife, and the only reason he is with me is because he needs me. any advice? |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 02:50 PM PDT Why would a married man text the woman he is having an affair with tell her that he was thinking about how if he talked to her while his kids were with him they would mention it to his wife then he said "lol" why do you think he would laugh at that? |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 02:45 PM PDT My husband (married for 1 month now) has never had a drink in his entire 23 year old life and he is majorly against it and so is his family. I enjoy drinking sometimes but have not in our relationship. I feel bad because I want to and I wish he did too so he would know how it feels and we would have that in common. Thoughts? |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 02:41 PM PDT like your love is a ghost. You are the only person who can see them. but you cant feel or touch them. they can talk to you though. would you rather them dead or would you rather it be the alternative? they cant touch anything they would just be a spirit none is not an option... |
| Question: How do I get my wife to quit nagging and being so negative? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 02:06 PM PDT The problem: My wife thinks I don't spend enough time at home. We are both in our mid 30s and have a 3 year old daughter. I work full time (8-6 Mon-Thu, 8-2 Fri) and my wife works 20 hrs/week (9-2:30 M-Th). Our daughter is in daycare from 8:30-5:30 M-Th. That way, my wife can have a couple of hours to exercise and/or relax before picking up our daughter. I go to the gym either before or after work, but I am usually back home at 7-7:30 PM (4 PM Fridays). On weekends we spend time with family and friends. My wife nags me about getting home so late. 7:30 really isn't that late. What am I supposed to do, skip the gym? Living a sedentary life isn't good. Neither is leaving work early. As a biochemist, I make $105k per year (my wife makes $16k as a social worker). I am lucky to have a job that pays so well without working > 45 hrs/week. As a result of going to the gym daily, we are both in great health. We also get to see our friends often, even the ones who don't have kids. Could I spend more time at home? Sure, if I worked part time. Could I be making more money? Probably, if I worked 60+ hours a week. Could I have a more active social life? Definitely, if I neglect my responsibilities. Could I be in better shape? Sure. Our lives aren't perfect, but they are perfectly well-rounded. You cannot maximize 4 variables at once, but you can optimize them, which we have done. How do I get my wife to quit being so negative? |
| Question: How do I go about letting child support know he does work under the table and he gets SSI? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 01:43 PM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 01:28 PM PDT Can he be deported from UK or is it very difficult once he has a British citizenship |
| Question: Is it time for me to divorce my wife? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 01:11 PM PDT My last question got deleted so here we go again... My wife and I have been married for over a year now and have many problems. First off, she doesn't show me any respect at all and treats me like a burden. I love her and respect her, but I feel like deep down she regrets marrying me(and she has said that before , but after she's calm she says it was just a joke). I try to provide her with everything she wants it doesn't matter if I don't have any money in the end I always get her what she needs, but she's never happy with me or appreciate what I have done for her. I always tell her how she's the love of my life, but as the days go by I'm starting to believe it's no longer true. I believe in communication, but she hates the idea of it and walks away from me or hangs up the phone. In the past when she was angry she would say things like "I hope you die in a car accident," or "I regret marrying you so much my life was great before you ruined it." When I make a mistake I acknowledge it and apologize to her, but she makes a big deal about it. One thing I don't agree with is that she expects me to do everything for her even though she never does anything around the house. She spends more time with her parents than she does with me. Many times I have said that we should try to spend more time together but my wife always has an excuse not to and when I I invite her to go out to dinner just the two of us she brings her mom along every single time. What should I do? |
| Question: Should I be trusting when my husband goes to a club while I'm out of the country? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 01:03 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it ok for my husband to go to a night club while I'm out of the country? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 01:02 PM PDT |
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| Question: Should I keep trying to save my marriage? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 12:54 PM PDT I been married for over a year now and my wife doesn't share the same sex drive that I have. We rarely have sex and when we do, she doesn't like to try new things or even be open to the idea of it. She never dresses attractive for me and doesn't even try to make our sex life better. She doesn't show me respect and expects me to treat her like a goddess. She says a lot of hurtful things to and has an anger problem in which she doesn't want to do anything about it and when we went to therapy she didn't want to put her part in anything. I tried to do everything that makes her happy, but just like always she doesn't seem to be happy about. I'm starting to feel really bad about this. It's like she doesn't care about my emotional and sexual needs and all she cares about is everyone's else's problems. We don't have kids or anything, but she always acts like she did and tells me how busy her day was when in reality she doesn't do anything at all. I'm tired of leaving like this everyday she gets worse I tried to get help, but she rejects it. She hates communication with me and when I leave for work she puts stress on me due to how she texts when she's angry. I do everything for her and she doesn't appreciated. When I'm away from home due to work she doesn't bother to call me at all and doesn't even try to answer my calls, but if it was one of her relatives she would answer them in a heart beat. Please I need serious advice from men who have gone through this. |
| Question: Some advice to get over this divorce? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 12:52 PM PDT I am getting a divorce and I keep thinking why did I marry this man and wasted a few years of my life with him. I feel that I fell behind in life because of marrying him. Did you feel this way after a divorce? Felt used? Share your thoughts please. It's not all bitter too. I can see the good in him but keep wondering why it did not work out. All these thoughts come up in my head. |
| Question: What should i do about my slated view on marriage? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT Im 17, i never had a gf, im a virgin, saving it until marriage. Basically i do wanna get married in the future and have a family and stuff but feel like its a waste of time. My main reason for thinking this is the amount of divorces happening. Not only divorces but affairs, losing interest, falling out of love and all of that bull ****. there's just so many cons and very little pros. My parents want me to get married very early (early 20`s) i said hell no and i promised myself not to be an idiot and think it through slowly when the time comes. I think part of the reason why i feel this way is because my father and mother had an arranged marriage and they had a rocky start (when i was a kid), i heard my mom say in front of me "if it weren't for you i wouldn't be with your father right now" countless times throughout my childhood. right now they are fine, even though im pretty sure those feelings haven't gone away. I just feel like if i were to get into a marriage i would be the one that would be at a disadvantage, especially since divorce laws are so bias and men has to suffer the most. I know for a fact that if one of my marriages ended in a bad way i would never want to get into a second marriage. Im all about loyalty, once i marry a girl shes the one for me, but not everyone thinks that way. i hope that one day i can find a girl i can spend my life with and feels the same way about me that i feel about her and we wont end up like the others but its hard to keep hope. (cont). what should i do about these thoughts? |
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| Question: Louise Wenthe to Christian Schmohe weddings on New Schaberg,Il? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 11:58 AM PDT |
| Question: Why would a married man not wear his ring? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 11:51 AM PDT White collar job, so no safety hazard there. |
| Question: Should I Leave? Long story please read!? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 11:47 AM PDT My husband and I have been married going on 10 years together 11. He is younger by 10 yrs. At first he was everything I wanted, nice, caring, he was good to my kids. Not so long after we married he started changing. I noticed that all of his free time was spent on something electronic. It was becoming a problem. I tried talking to him about it, we even went to Marraige counseling. After 2 sessions he didnt want to go back. This is my concern he does things like pout, gives me the silent treatment frequently. When I try to talk to him about anything in general, I feel like Im talking to a milk carton. Hes just NOT THERE.I feel like im not important. He doesnt discuss future plans or goals. He does this weird thing of saying something that makes no sense whatso ever. It leaves me like "huh"? He is controlling in the most subtle ways, you dont even know its happening. Its scary. The crazy talk for instance... Last night I went to bed early. I woke up and he came in the room asking if I needed something. He brought me some water and said ""here you go baby". I said "why are you being so nice"? (smiling) He said "Because you went to bed and ee are supposed to go to bed together". WTH?? I said that doesnt make any sense. He said "it was a joke. Jokes dont always make sense." THIS CRAZY TALK is what I mean. I have begged and pleaded for him to go to counseling on his own. Im the one who's been in counseling almost our whole entire marraige! Idk what to do. Help? |
| Question: Is it normal to still fantasize about people if you're married? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 11:21 AM PDT I love my husband, I think he's very attractive but I still find myself having fantasies about other men (random people, famous people etc). It's just when I'm at the house alone or bored. I'd NEVER cheat on him but I feel very guilty about it. Is this normal? |
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| Question: My husband never does anything right, what do I do? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 11:10 AM PDT I'm mixed and my husband is a typical white man, I'm tired of him. We have four young kids. Yesterday he was babysitting because I met an old friend for dinner. I told him they should sleep by 7pm and no sweet things. When I came home around 10pm my 2 and 4 year old were still awake. I saw that he gave them candy and when I told him he just laughed it off. He's so annoying and never does anything right. What do I do? |
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| Question: Is this wife a little crazy? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 10:04 AM PDT I work part time in customer service at a hospital. I am instructed by supervisors to confirm patient appointments. Because often patients forget or want to cancel but never notify us. I've been sending out calls for several weeks now. There is this one 50 yr old man who is a frequent patient at the clinic. I have called his household several times when i had to remind him about each of his appointments. Each time i call, his wife would hover over the phone and not let him have access to it at all. In each phone call, I would typically always ask to speak to the patient but his wife just demand that she leave him a message even if hes in the same room as she is. Shes kind of rude too. Whenever I ask to speak to her husband, she gets annoyed/agitated and begins to desperately try to prevent me from speaking to him. Is it because she is uncomfortable with her husband speaking to another woman over the phone? |
| Question: How can I get my husband to include me in family functions? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 10:02 AM PDT He does not include me on holiday get togethers birthdays or any of that. I asked why but he says because I'm not part of his family. I thought when you marry that means you become family?? His birthday is Monday and it's a big milestone. I put together a dinner party for his fiftieth. He said he does not want to be part of it. His mom I found out planned a party for him but he informed me that I was not invited to the party at all. I was hurt that I'm not invited to my own husbands birthday bash ? I expressed to him that I'm hurt he said too bad deal with this, this is not your family and you will never be included. I said but I'm your wife. He then blew up at me and threw a glass at me then pushed me and said go in the other room away from me because I told you no means no and you are not invited case closed deal with it. Should I just brush it off and leave him be with his family and respect that I am not part of his family and respect that he does not want me included ? I always include him in my side of family functions cuz I consider him part of my side of family. |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 09:22 AM PDT We have been living apart for 6 months now, he's the one that wanted me back. He says it's because he wants to live a godly life, but he's not sexually attracted to me. What should I do? I am only 135lbs I work out everyday, I just don't know why he feels the way he does..I do have a guy friend that is willing to offer me what I want sexually. |
| Question: I love my wife even though... Divorce is her favorite word in arguments? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 09:21 AM PDT My wife is a very ambitious person, she is always wanting to do better and so am I since we are not in the best of situations, on January 28 2015 I got laid off from the oilfield and got two months severance pay, didn't get a job until after a week that pay ended, we had been pregnant since around Christmas time and ended up losing him on March 23, I will be honest, I was not a good husband, after I got laid off I bummed around and hardly did anything except.every now and then, and it has been very rough since then for her specifically and I don't like the fact all of this is going on, but her rubbing my face in EVERYthing EVERYtime she is upset or in get case very angry and hateful, I try to talk her down and let her know I just have no excuse's for what I have and have not done and that I want to just stay as positive as possible, that seems to be an impossible task for her. I am not selfish and she just thinks that I only care for myself and I am here because I don't know if she is right about divorcing and being single again is all it's made up to be. I really just want to not have my heart hurt with her painful words, even though her favorite thing to say is that actions speak louder than words but her words hurt more than anything. |
| Question: Why do so many men let their wives carry their balls in her purse? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 09:16 AM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:49 AM PDT My mother in law has never liked me or even his ex before me. I have no clue as to why, but I have been very nice to her. She has threatened to hurt me and destroy me if I didn't leave her son. I said to her son ( my hubby) please talk to her and ask her why is she acting like this. He said this is my family not yours and stay out of our business. I said but I am your wife. I am family. Well, hubby told me that she is throwing him a birthday party and that I am not invited. I said but I threw you a birthday get together and invited my sis and her hubby and now he said he does not want to go to his birthday get together that I threw for him but is going to the party that his mom threw and told me you are not invited and that's the end of it. I said does this bother you he said yes because that's my family not yours andi refuse to let go of my mom for you I said u are not letting your mom go for u cuz I don't expect I to let her go I just want to be included and not left out. What would be a solution to this problem? |
| Question: My wife lost her job I need my more money I have no money but can I get a truck? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 08:18 AM PDT |
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| Question: Who's the husband and wife in a same sex marriage? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 07:37 AM PDT |
| Question: Does this count as rape? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:37 AM PDT Messing with my husband While he is sleeping. He always comes late from work ,and he goes to bed immediately when he is back. |
| Question: Marriage is going down the hill, need an expert advice? Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:35 AM PDT My husband and I are both from dominican republic. We are 22 &23 right now, we meet online 6 years ago. The first 4 years of our distance relationship were good on the week days but a living hell on the weekends.However I still married him and brought him to the U.S to live with me in 12/2014.Ever since he came I have found so many things that he ways doing while over there. For the past 2 months, we are good one day and the next day we fight like savages. Hes not romantic, sex life sucks, when we **** is like a 2 minute max thing, for his pleasure only i gues.We dont hold hands when we go out, he doesnt help around the house at all. Even when he knows im tired from work. He does help with buying things for the house, but thats about it.He loves hanging out with his coworker, on the weekend. But he always has an excuse to dont spend time with me at home. He tells me 24/7 that I treat him like a kid, and that I yell at him all the time. Well I have to because Im sick and tired of telling him the things I dont like and we both agree to fix the issues.And a few days later the problem starts over.Last night I asked him to go eat with me and he didnt, with the excuse that he was tired. But he was online chatting on whatsapp until midnight. Ofcource he deletes the messgs I hate the way he treats me, but I still love him for som reason. 1 day I want to leave him but the next day he starts talking nice to me, and I change my mind.But I cant stop thinking about the past neither |
| Posted: 08 Aug 2015 06:24 AM PDT Thought a family of 4 was nice and not extremely difficult. A family of 5, as a male, scares me. She promises 3 is it for her. I have been getting female friends input as well and they are saying she loves me as a Dad and thinks we make good babies. I don't understand what women think when it comes to this. Need other input please |
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