Is it OK for me and my dad to jerk off together?I'm 16. I caught my dad emailing guys on Craigslist looking for gay hook ups. I saw his di** and a $$ pics he emailed to said guys. So I know he is gay or curious but I am too. I want to jerk off with him at least..maybe more? I really don't know. I feel like it will strengthen our relationship but I have to ask. I'm not bulls&#ting BTW so please take this seriously. I need help.

My Mother made a fuzz about this too my Aunt and I think she is silly. I am only 14 so bear with my ignorence! My cousin Sophia is eight years old and she is always in her panties at night wearing a real short nightgown. Sophia is NOT shy around Mom or Dad althought around my Dad (her uncle) she is cause Aunt Maria lets Sophia wear an actual panty made of nylon. My Mother a few times has commented on my cousin looks very cute in them around Mommy and Daddy. A few days ago we stopped by when Sophia was getting a spanking over my Uncle lap. Sophia had her dress slid up past her waist so her white panty was showing. I know this was not the first time that Sophia was spanked over an actual panty. My Mother complained that "Dad should think how Sophai may feel getting a spanking in those type of underpants". I am pretty sure that my cousin is not thinking about him seeing her panty. She is feeling Daddy hand more over her nylon brief which is thin!!! What is the issue if he sees her at night in her nightgown then when she get's a spanking with her dress lifted up...what is the differernce? My Mother is being a nut or does she have a point?

Loving yourself is about following your heart and doing what makes you feel good. Not caving into other peoples demands or letting them control you, like trying to please people. So how do you love yourself and not be selfish and difficult? I read in a relationship column that you have to love yourself and not give into your bfs whims for him to respect you. If you always aim to please him and put your needs last, you don't love yourself. So am I supposed to be a selfish wench to him and just do what I want to do? Isn't that being difficult? Who would want to stick around with someone too hard to deal with? How do you love yourself and not be a selfish, difficult, irritating person to be around?

aintgot job..but goin to skl. before she was totally different she wasnt a cold btch this came outta nowhere i gave it some weeks and she hasnt changed wtf is wrong w her im a girl btw

I just moved to my cousins s neighborhood. I went over to their house, and me and my male cousins and a few friends were playing football. My female cousin stepped outside and wanted to play, we were short a player and we agreed, she was playing against my team. I was running with the ball and she was coming from my right and instead of trying to knock me down, she just jumped on my back. I kept on running til the touchdown and I just went down, and I turned over and was sitting on me. We were both laughing and I felt an erection, I quickly got up and faked being hurt as an excuse to go home. Its not only me I think she is attracted to me a lot, every time I would visit in the last year she always wanted long hugs or wanted me to come to her room, she was always touchy around me. I never went back to their house since that day. The worst part is I am 15 and she is only twelve, also before you start calling me sick I don't plan to ever be sexually involved with any of my cousins, that's why I am trying to avoid her as much as I can. I am afraid of what might happen when I am with her. What should I do?

Hi, ok so I asked this person if i could touch their butt. I will not say what they said, but it was no. This person asked for my name and i refused to give it to them. This person later said that they took a picture of me, and then they walked off. Is this sexual harassment, and what can she do with that picture? um i dont want any rude answers all i would like is some good feedback. Keep in mind that I never even laid hands on her

This guy randomly started messaging me on Facebook today. He's been asking me random questions like if I like flowers, how long my hair is, what I do for fun, etc. He also asked where I was from, if I dressed fancy, and he says I'm pretty and don't need makeup yada yada.. you know. Is he just being nice or is it weird ? I'm 18 and he looks to be in his 20s maybe

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I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. I haven't talked to him in 5 days and i am worried. I sent him a text 4 days ago just a 'hey you' and got no text back when normally i do. I know he loves me and he would not cheat on me. Our last talk was good, i brought up the subject of marriage because he had mentioned it to me before but his memory isn't that great and i think maybe he forgot or something. I don't know if i should wait for him to text or if i should send another text? Normally, i just text him once and he replies and then he will text me the next day or maybe something happened to his phone, i am not sure any advice? We have been together for 4 months now.

I was very embarrassed the other day, when my girlfriend came home early and caught me in women's underwear. Its not something I do often and I'm not sure why. But I just kinda like modeling for myself like that every once in a while, though of course I didn't mean for her to see me. She had a strong reaction, partly because I guess I do act a bit feminine already, and we have problems with our sex life. I had some medical issues in puberty in terms of hormones, and I do have a very small penis (3 inches when hard). And because of that I know she is feeling some lack in our sex life, and I'm not the most "manly" guy. My girlfriend says she loves me and wants to stay with me, but after seeing me that way she also made a request that is a bit of a concern. She asked if, just every once in a while, she could see another man for sex (in a threesome). I said yes, mainly because I understand that she has trouble with things and I want to please her so much. But of course I'm a bit nervous about it. So girls if you could please answer these questions, honestly: 1. Was she justified, to react strongly seeing me that way (+ why)? 2. Why do you think she wants sex with another guy? 3. How and why does size affect a woman during sex (remember, I'm 3 inches... how are big ones different)? 4. How do you honestly think the threesome will go, if we have it? Thanks in advance for your honest answers.

Lately,I haven't hear from him I don't know if his phone is off because when I called it goes straight to voicemail,all the time.it's wring that I want his attention all the time like I want to hear from him mostly everyday because it will keep me occupied/relaxed! Should I just annoyed him until I get him? Please give me an honest opinion I don't want him to get irritated,too!

I live in Pakistan. Im 18 and currently doing my A levels. I live with my father, siblings and a step mom. Not having a mother, i share my secrets and girly problems with my real mother s sister because ahe is the only one who wishes well for me. Of course my daddy loves me too but hes busy with work. My family isnt narrow minded. But the problem is how do i tell everyone im in love with this guy. Hes also 18 he works and has an estabilished future. I cant discuss this with step mom cause she will create problems for me and will have a weapon to use it against me. I wany serious answers and solutions that support my culture

My 35 yr. old daughter with 3 children has moved in with a guy who is brainwashing her. I have done child care for her for 8 yrs. and I am not able to watch them anymore because he grabbed one of the kids by the neck in front of me and I told her about it. He lied and said he didn't do it. She believes him! He told me her he won't marry her til he changes her into what he wants her to be. He also said he will not tolerate any negativity in his house. So if you talk about anything important or a problem you are not aloud in the house. He has brainwashed her against her family and friends who won't abide by his rules. The kids are heartbroken and so am I. He has 10 counts of assault and battery against him also. I am so worried for my daughter and grandkids. What can I do to make her see what is happening?

ok yesterday was my ovulation day which is the MOST FERTILE TIME in a woman's cycle ever and he knows i don't wanna get pregnant i told him the only way i would f**k him is if he gets a spermicide condom (he had a condom but it was a old condom that had expired and those types easily break) but instead he told me to woman up take the d!ck and stop wining like a 10 year old girl & he wasn't gonna go through all that trouble to get some p*ssy then when i closed my legs when he was trying to get in he yelled at me calling me a ugly a$$ hoe telling me to leave and when i was about to leave he was holding on to my foot crying about how he's so in love with me and didnt mean it he's just going crazy cause we haven't. f**ked in 3 weeks i told him to go f**k himself and left but all last night he was calling me crying telling me it was because he had 4 beers & he was just mad he couldn't get his way & that he'll do anything to keep me in his life he can't live without me That I was the most beautiful girlfriend ever and that he promised not to verbally abuse me again and wants me to put it in the past and move forward with our relationship but I'm not sure i should ... SHOULD I FORGIVE HIM OR JUST DUMP HIM OFFICIALLY??

Hello, I´m 29 and my adult sister is 38 years old. I have send her 3thousend photos of our holiday on DVD. Some days later my sister has send me a message, I should not send her nude photos of me, because she is my sister and not my girlfriend. At first I was confused but than I have discover, that I unfortunately forgot to delete four pictures of me making nude selfies in the mirror, in the hotel room. On that photos I´m complete naked but I have no erection or do something stupid. I excused myself and told her, that she should not receive this pictures. She send me „It´s ok". For three days I could not stop thinking about that. It was strange and somehow embarrassing. Then I said to myself that I can´t change what has happened. It is like it is. But is it really ok for her? After two weeks I became doubts and some other questions came in my mind. I think that I can be sure, that my sister has talked with her best female friend about that incident, maybe more. What does my sister really think? Would it be ok for you? What would you think about your brother when you see him like that? Would you expect your brother to do something? More excuses? Would you tell your friends, that you have seen such photos? Would you show friends such photos? What would you think if your friend tells you, that she has seen nude photos of her brother. What would you do if she shows you photos? How would you feel, if someone saw nude photos of you? What would you do? Shall I do anything?

I'm 16, my mom & her friends (elana & Dona) instruct Zumba everyday for about a year. We have a very close family bond. I'm really close with Dona, she's always supported me through everything, celebrated my birthday with me & home coming,. I love her alot, she's always so sweet & loving to me. Recently Dona got frustrated bc she couldn't get the dance moves as quick as mom & elana; she got mad at elana, Dona feels she doesn't deserve to be on stage. She hasn't come to Zumba in 3 weeks, she's over exaggerating everything, we love her so much & have tried everything to get her back. She hasn't been acting herself for a while & no one knows why.. 4 days ago I texted her "just wanted to say I love & miss you so much Dona! Been thinking about you lately, I hope your doing great!" She put "aww love you & miss you too!😘😘😘" (I know she means it because she's a very serious, reserved lady who Is very straight up!) today she wasn't on my Facebook anymore, turns out she blocked me, mom & Elena. Why'd she block me??? She even got her son to block me & it hurt so much.. I cried to mom about it, mom said she's probably going through something & doesn't know how to handle it maturely. Why would she block me? I didn't do anything :( I really wanna text her 1 last time saying "I hope your having a great day Dona! Love & miss you so much!" (I always used to wish her a great day randomly) should I? I'm having so much trouble accepting she's gone, I miss her & it really makes me sick..

I'm 31. Single mom. I'm educated, have a career and my own place. Been single for close to a year and decided to give online dating a try. Went on a handful of dates, nothing to really speak of. Met a guy a few weeks ago and we hit it off. He picked me up for the date, we went to dinner, saw a band, walked by the river. He kissed me. Sparks flew. We've been talking every day - always cutting up. Had a lunch date then a dinner date again. All seems great. I deleted my online profile. Buut, my gf is on the site and said he is on everyday and he even messaged her the other day! He doesn't know she is my friend. He will text me sweet nothings then go online and message her. It's a bummer. How do I handle online dating? I feel like I don't want to see him anymore because it's going to leave me hurt. I'm not saying he is doing anything wrong. But, is this dating nowadays? Do we not focus on one person and see where it goes, then move on to someone else? Should I back off him? Soany questions. Please help!

I am married to my husband since 2 years and I live India. I belong to a middle class family. My husband works in Dubai. And comes home twice in a year. Now the thing is as soon as I got married my husband went to dubai for work purpose and we didn't even go to honeymoon because he didn't get much leave from his office. He has his best friend here in my city. He asked him to take care of me as I don't have good relations with my in laws. Well time went on and I started missing my husband a lot. My personal needs couldn't get fulfilled. Now in his absence his friend, who is extremely hot and muscular, came and helped me in my household chores and grocery whenever he got free. He comes at night daily for dinner and leaves. His friend is not married. Now the part comes. Whenever I use to work around my house in his presence on weekends. He used to stare a lot at my breasts. One night during dinner he told me that he likes me and he love my body. He told me i have nice breasts. I kept quite and he asked me do i like him .. i replied that i feel attracted towards him. Then he started touching my hands and soon he kissed me on lips. I couldn't resist. he was then pressing my breasts and took me to bedroom and undressed me. We had sex and it was the most awesome experience. Then for the next three months I had sex with him every weekend and he made me enjoy sex in different positions. Last time we had sex around 2 weeks ago and we didn't use protection. I am pregnant now.

is it wrong for a grown man to wanna have sex with own real mom?

So last night my boyfriend invited me to his house . We started drinking, and than I don't remember much except I woke up in his bed naked. Now I need to mention I've never drank hard liquor before because I'm 15. He is 27 so he can buy it. Anyway I woke up in his bed naked. I asked him what happened, and he said I got so drunk I puked all over myself, and he had to clean it up. I'm really thankful he took care of me, and cleaned my clothes. And I'm glad I can trust him. Anyway I noticed my legs were really sore. They felt like I was doing the splits. He said my legs were sore because of how he had to carry me to bed. But than in the shower I noticed inside my vagina it was sore, and had like some too in it. The too was kind of like glue but less sticky. I don't know what happened last night but I don't think he's being honest with me. What do you think happened?

I was in gym class and this girl came behind me and poked me in my butt hole.. Then she smacked it and all her friends started giggling and then I just ran away..

I'm like quiet and kinda shy... But sometimes I'm loud asf only when I'm around my friends but when I'm around people I don't know I'm so quiet and when they say something to me I usually say something and then they can't here me and it makes everything so awkward.. Is there anyway I can help myself.? And plz no rude comments.

Hi, I was friends with this girl and, When I went to her house for the first time I never met her parents before. Her dad started calling me babe, baby, cutie pie, sweetie pie and he would also kiss me on my neck, forehead, and cheek. He one time added me on face book, and then texted me saying "hey cutie pie". He also one time started kissing his daughter repeatedly infront of me and she was like "dad stop". I was at a store one time and I saw her dad, I wasn t sure if he saw me.. Guess what I was wrong. I then bumped into his daughter and we started talking, all of a sudden her dad comes over and says "I told you it was her", cause she didn t know if it was me and then he bent down and kissed my neck. I was so grossed out! One time I was at his house and I got a message from a friend on my phone and he picked up my phone and he said you got a message from.. And her daughter was talking to me and he was "like leave her alone she is busy". Which I thought was a bit strange. It got even worse! My friend tells me that her dad invited me to come and workout with them he said that he can "train us". Very creepy! This happened between the 7-8 grade. I am going to 10th and the last time I saw him was a few months ago. Me and his daughter don t hang anymore we kind of just sepereated. I am scared that he will do something bad and he lives in my neighborhood. What do you think? I really need opinions. And safety advice.

Because I feel really weird about it. I have a crush on my moms friend.....and he is 20 years older than me. And gay. (I am not a homophobe, I'm just saying.)

I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend and i was giving my boyfriend oral. And we were really into it. His 18 year old brother came home early though and saw us. I only had a thong on and i was on my knees and my boyfriends back was to his brother and i was facing his brother. His brother got a ***** and now when ever i am over my boyfriends house his brother gets hard or smiles constantly at me.

Hello so I'm almost 18 and I had a job for about 2 months before my mom told me I had to quit now I ask my mom why she wanted me to quit she had told me it was because someone my age should not be making that much money now mind you I only make like 100 bucks a week and I have not spend it I'm saving it for I can move out and start a life and she not getting it she needs me to depend on her so ill feel hopeless knowing that she is my only soures of income and I hate feeling that way I cry myslef to sleep I know some people are going to say that I should be grateful and lucky that I don't have job and I'm living rent free with income but the reson I'm saying this is because what happens when I'm 18 have no money saved becuase I think my mom going to Support me for the rest of my life and bang she kicks me out that's what I'm scared for my futer not having a job and some little money saved for when the day I turn 18 I'm out on the streets i cry myslef to sleep just thinking about it...

My boyfriend is 17 and i am 16. Last night my boyfriend wanted to give me oral. So i was like okay because no one was at his house. My boyfriend started and his twin brother must have came home because he walked in on us as soon as i started having an orgasm. His twin brother walked right in and right out. This is so awkward now because i work festivals with my boyfriend's families concession stands. How do i not feel embarrassed?

I am 15 & my boyfriend is 16. My boyfriend's brother is 18. So yesterday I was over my boyfriend's house. His parents were at a bonfire party. Anyways my boyfriend went to pick up pizza and go get pop from the grocery store. I stayed home with his brother not thinking he would do anything. So my boyfriend left and i was sitting on the couch watching tv when his brother came down the steps and sat really close to me and told me I was beautiful. I sayed thank you but i was creeped out. He put his hand on my thigh and started rubbing my thigh. I asked him to stop but he didnt so i went to get up and he pushed me onto the ground and told me if i yell or scream he will hurt me. But i screamed anyways and he punched me in the face. I started crying and he pulled up my shirt and started kissing my chest. Then he stuck his hand down my pants and said "you get me so hard baby" and then he took my pants off and raped me. It hurt so bad. When my boyfriend pulled into the drive way his brother said "if you tell anyone about this i will do it to you again even harder" then i blacked out i dont remember anything else because he punched me and my head hurt really really badly. All i remember was waking up in my boyfriends bed naked under the covers and my clothes folded on his night stand. I walked down stairs and my boyfriend was sitting there. My boyfriend knows i am just feeling really bad about it and don't know how to deal with it.

I was talking to a group of adults a bit older than myself. I am in my 30's, by the way. We were talking about the cost of things and how much they've increased. I mentioned that living expenses have sky rocketed. Then I stated that it was one of the many reasons I do not want kids, because I cannot afford them. And I most likely never will be able to afford children. (I have many other reasons I am remaining childfree, but that's not the point.) I was immediately shot down. Being told "if you wait until you can afford them, then you'll never have them!" Of course, once again, that isn't a problem because I don't want kids. But no one would listen to me when I told them this. I said I had many reasons on top of not being able to afford them, and it was like no one was taking me seriously! Now, am I being unreasonable or is it really a "bad reason" to not have kids because you know, for certain, you cannot pay for the things they need in life?

its like half my mind is telling me to go for it, let all the positive emotions in. But then again the other half is telling me to stay away from that, its going to end in the worst possible way... and usually most of the time I bad things happen to me anyways, I don't have the best luck.

I'm a girl and I have a boyfriend I've been with for 3 years. Our sex life has been great and we don't use condoms because he's infertile due to his CF and we don't have STD's. Anyways, yesterday after I gave him a BJ he gave me a rimjob. It felt really good but after a few minutes I really needed to fart and I tried to hold it but I couldn't and I farted in his face. How do I get over this?

I don t like being fingered that much b/c it doesn t really give me sexual pleasure. I m concerned this will also mean I won t like vaginal intercourse.. is my theory correct.?

It's a week long trip, and i'm scared i'll get super homesick or something. Also, i'm not that close with the friend i'm going with so i'm scared the trip will be awkward or weird. We're going to cape cod, which is far away from home, and i'm just nervous!

Long story short, my mom asked me if I was being intimate with my boyfriend and I just was honest and said yes. I'm 16, about to be 17 in a few months and I've been dating my boy for two years. Anyways my mother told my dad and they were haut disappointed and my mom did her best to make my boyfriend look bad. Today they met with his parents and she has informed them that she does not want him hanging out with me anymore. I can't go over to his place and he can't come to mine. Now I need help because just about two or three weeks ago my boyfriend came in me because he thought that since I'm on birth control it would prevent me getting pregnant (I haven't even been taking it for a month). Anyways now I think I might be pregnant but my parents or his don't know. My parents clarified that if I get pregnant that they will not support me but on the hand, my boyfriends parents are more welcoming and supportive. I'm scared I might be pregnant now and my mom is planning on taking me to get all these tests next week. What do I do?

How would they mate, or at least your ideas. I've always been so curious about them and have been wondering this for a long time.

My mom started a fight with me today. The fight that my mom started today was a similar situation. i'm a college student now and as a teen, my mom went overseas all the time to take care of my sick grandma. i live with my real parents but was a troubled teen. my mom stared a conversation today that revealed that my dad wanted to send me to a residential facility while my mom was away. Of course, this upset me. i remember my dad told me he didn't want to send me to a residential facility and i did ask my dad before and he said that he didnt want to send me away. My mom argued with me today and said that it was her who told him to not send me away and "Dont believe his lies" of course i was upset that she dug up a traumatic event in my past. She was overseas and i remember having that meeting with my dad and the therapist who were making the decision whether or not to put me in residential, my dad said no and of course, i didn't want to go there either. i wanted to know your opinion on this issue. It makes me think why did my mom bring up this issue when it was many years ago? Was it just another attempt to defend her position and to make me and my dad look wrong or was it because it's true? it made me feel very bad to even be in this family because they have so many issues. it makes me feel unwanted and it makes me feel difficult to keep a relationship with my parents. And FYI my mom is the type who likes to blame everyone else and make my dad look bad. So now i'm wondering did my dad really want to send me away? should i talk to my parents about it, get into a argument about it with them or should i just LET IT GO? i really wish this conversation never happened and that i could just forget it all and let it go but my mom is this type of person, she is making it almost impossible to forget this and let it go and not argue about it. Do you think my mom was lying or telling the truth? i asked my dad in the past if he wanted to send me away and he said no, i was in that meeting when the therapist was deciding and also asking if my dad wanted to send me to a residential facility, and i remember him saying no..but my mom is arguing saying that it was because she told my dad to say no and that he wanted to put me there. Need your opinion? My mom was going out of the country all the time and wasnt there.

Friends and family are always saying how me and my friend are going to get married. They always tease us and we both say eww no and it will never happen but the more we hangout I think I'm actually starting to like him!! What do I do?!

So I'm 13 and have been kinda depressed lately, I have no life I'm lonely nothing about me is interesting I can barely talk to someone and if I do it will just be like "hi" in a really nervous voice. People ignore me and I get good grades and everything I guess I'm mature I'm just such a loser, self-pity isn't good but I just don't know what to do I mean most of my friends are in relationships now anyway and here I am with them mostly ignoring me and me sitting on my computer feeling depressed. I'm being whiney here but people say "just be confident" its not that easy, I can't get over my anxiety and I think thats what is holding me back in life.. I just need, legitimate help... I just feel so empty.. Thanks for taking the time to read....

I've been thinking about it, and for some reason I've been having the desire to get tickled. Like really tickled...I'm super ticklish. My stomach is my most ticklish spot, and I think it would be fun to get tickled all over my bare belly, sides, etc. I have a best friend who I'm super close with. I know I can trust her and tell or ask her anything, and I think I want to ask her to do this. But I don't know...how would I ask? Also, I have a boyfriend...would it be okay?

Recently my friend have told me I've become very mature and 'boring'. About four years ago, I was extremely addicted to the computer, sat down on the computer all day, watched things like cartoons and avoided going out. All I did was sit down and talk to my friends on the internet. I'm 20 now and I've lost interest in doing all of those things. I want to go out, experience things, I'm not all that fond of socializing with people over the internet anymore, I want a job and all of these things. However, my friends told me because of this, I 'matured dull' and I'm 'boring'. My online friends are all 20-24 and they still just enjoy sitting down inside on the computer all day and thing I'm weird for wanting to go out. Why is this? Did I really mature badly?

If you and your partner were separated for 2 months and during that 2 months, got somebody pregnant but you didn't find out until a few months later and you two got back together, would you stay or would you leave?