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- Question: My mom obviously favors my younger sister.. what should I do?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain?
- Question: Why did my dad disown my sister/?
- Question: People always making me feel bad about my weight?
- Question: Should I have a phone?
- Question: I don't want a stupid birthday party. And my parents keep forcing me to have one?
- Question: My mom hits me and yells and me im 15 and she does it for no reason, HELP?
- Question: How do I stop having problems with an uneasy mom?
- Question: WHY ARE MY PARENTS SO BITCHY?
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- Question: What should each family member do in this situation?
- Question: My cousin needs money but I don't trust him. I offered to pay him bills but he said he needs cash?
- Question: How do other women feel about what happened with those mothers in India?
- Question: I am going tell my parents that i snoke weed but a bit scared. any advice?
- Question: Why did my mom use the money i gave her for gas on tacos?
- Question: How do I ignore a person that have anger issues and Hippocratical actions that lives with me for 12 years?
- Question: I can't stand living with these people?
- Question: Why do people ignore children being abused?
- Question: How do I tell my parents?
- Question: What can I get my mom for Mother's Day?
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- Question: Please please please i need advice ASAP?
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- Question: Do I have rights to my brothers?
- Question: I'll kill myself?
- Question: Why did My dad got mad at me for wanting to have my name changed?
- Question: My brother watches porn and I feel like crying?
- Question: Help! My mum caught me masturbating what should I do?
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| Question: My mom obviously favors my younger sister.. what should I do? Posted: 03 May 2015 01:27 PM PDT Okay, so I'm 13 and my younger sister is 10. My mother has physically and verbally abused me since I was 9 years old, but she has not so much as touched my sister. She only says sweet and kind things to her, where as she has gone as far as saying "thats why you have no friends" or "you f**cking spoiled brat" to me. She hasn't cussed once to my sister, and she has cussed to me at least once a day since I was young. Just the way she speaks to my sister is nicer than the way she speaks to me. She always blames me when me and my sister are in arguments, and assumes that I do bad things. One time in an airport, my sister started crying because we missed our flight but she assumed I said something mean to her and I was punished. Whenever I talk back she starts with the insults, so I try not to but it still happens anyways because she often accuses me of things i didnt do, and I want to defend myself. However, in terms of the physical abuse, the last time she hit me was in late February so that has gotten much better, but the verbal abuse has not stopped. Also, I do admit that my sister IS very sweet kind and loving. I bet she is much more fun to hang around than me; I am very moody, angry, and sad. However I used to be as nice and as happy as her yet she still hit me back then. My sister has admitted that my mother favors her over me, and doesn't deny it to this day. My mom has even told me that she likes hanging around her better. Please help me, I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain? Posted: 03 May 2015 01:08 PM PDT http://i.imgur.com/DdSKDY4.png |
| Question: Why did my dad disown my sister/? Posted: 03 May 2015 01:02 PM PDT She is 20 and white, and she started dating this black man. My mom and dad looked at each other like "wtf", when they first met him. I heard my dad sternly tell her that she was not allowed to date him, but since she just turned 20, she told him that she was leaving. He later cut her out of the will, and legally disowned her. He was going to pass on around 100,000k to her, and he cut her out. I didn't like her choice either, but I thought it was harsh to disown her. My dad will not even see her at Christmas time now. Do you think he is overeating? |
| Question: People always making me feel bad about my weight? Posted: 03 May 2015 01:00 PM PDT So, People in my school and my family are basically making me feel bad about my body, Im a 13 year old girl who's going on 14, I weigh about 115. This boy who's really close friends with me, We even went out, Says that Im too skinny and that I need to eat more and crap like that, My friends say that I have no boobs or butt, Little sister who's bigger than me and bigger than the average weight her age says that I need to eat a little more and compares me to looking like ariana grande. My big sister says that Im adopted because Im skinny and everyone else in my family is thick, I come from a family where every female has big boobs and a big butt, And the men are muscular and tall and have all the right features for a man. My mom is the only one who says I have a big butt, But she stills says Im skinny. It makes me so mad and sad up to the point that Im really wondering if Im adopted or not, I mean I kinda don't look like anyone in my family anyways, I kinda look like my big sister. I have this thing I've had when I was born and it doesn't give me enough hormone. But I still don't know why my family makes fun of my size, They know I have the condition. Anyways what do I do, Its driving me nuts, Im literaly putting my hair out, Well not literaly but It makes me want to. What do I do, I have to deal with this everyday, Even my bestfriend says I have no boobs and That Im flat chested, But really Im an 36 A. Shes says my little sis has bigger boobs then me... I hate my body. |
| Question: Should I have a phone? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:52 PM PDT I m 13 and when at my dads ( who I have known since I was 8) and I want to call my mom (once about my period) he makes me feel bad by saying you never call me that much, or its im time with you not your moms . when I am at my moms she is always on the phone im not kidding so I can never call my dad. I also am in high school classes so I go to the mall a lot with my high school friends and my mom wants me to call her on there cell phones but they get annoyed when I have to use there phone. also I want to call my friends and family on the west coast ( I live in the Midwest) and I have basket ball and volleyball afterschool somtimes |
| Question: I don't want a stupid birthday party. And my parents keep forcing me to have one? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:49 PM PDT I really don't want a birthday party at Main Event. My parents are forcing me to have one. The thing is my sister is having it on the same day as me, so I can only invite 5 freaking people. No, nevermind, not including me, 4 people. 4 friends at a birthday party and my sister brings 4. I don't want to bring 4 people. i don't want a party. They keep yelling at me to have a party but it'll be stupid. I have tests, exams and things to study for so I can't even take the time to have one. I don't want to bring a couple people and just have a fail imiitation of a party. Think about it. a 15 year old sharing his party with an 8 year old. I don't want it. My dad complained last year about 300 dollars, now we're spending 20 dollars per kid and I won't even have fun. I keep telling my family I don't want a birthday party but they won't listen no matter what I say. As shown earlier it's freaking expensive. 2 hours for over 300 dollars this year. A simple pizza is 20 bucks. We aren't even that rich to waste money like that considering I won't have fun with 4 ####ing people and 4 other little girls to take care of. This is more like a babysitting-force-try-to-have-fun then a party. What I really want is a day all to myself, my parents won't understand that and I must have a party. Help? Dad is calling Main Event right now to confirm that he wants my birthday party- actually mainly my sisters - party and purchasing orders. Help, now? Update: Max requirement is 12 people. 12 - 2 (2 is me and my sister) = 10. 10/2 = 5. 5 people I can invite. But wait. 5 - 3 because 3 is the number of my cousins who are coming in so I can bring 2 people from school. Mom just called me to bring 2 people from school. Ugh. I don't want to! 2 people is going to be horrible from school? None of my friends will like it and it'll be super boring. I don't want a party let alone a fail boring one. How do I let my parents know without them screaming? None of my friends will like it because only 2 of them will come. They'll most certainly feel akward around my cousins and have a boring time hanging with little girls and parents watching over us. Mg... |
| Question: My mom hits me and yells and me im 15 and she does it for no reason, HELP? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:49 PM PDT im 15 my mom recently just hit me and have me a bloody nose. she slapped me and pushed me against my fridge and choked me. just because i hang out with my friends she thinks i m a lesbian and im not! i was just defending myself stating that she is worng and thats when she hit me for "talking back to her". she does this all the time, she said im not allowed to say my opinion. and if i do i get hit and screamed at. please help |
| Question: How do I stop having problems with an uneasy mom? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:39 PM PDT She is a very difficult person who has some problems. Every time something goes wrong in her life, she takes it out on me. I wish I had a mom who told me what life was all about and teach me. Moms are supposed to be there for you, not ridicule you all day long! She's doing just the opposite and verbal abuses me a lot. This is affecting my life so much I can't take it!! |
| Question: WHY ARE MY PARENTS SO BITCHY? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:38 PM PDT My parent are always treating me like a slave like If I stay home instead of going somewhere with the they just dump a whole bunch of chores on me just because I don't go. Whenever I try to talk to them about it I end up being lectured and being told I'm being disrespectful.... What shoul I say to them? |
| Question: Why doesn't my Mom do anything about the dog? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:37 PM PDT We have a 2 year old chihuahua pomeranian mix and he's very agressive towards house guest to the point where he wants to bite, he's ripped up my brothers face and has even tried to attack my 7 month old nephew but thankfully we caught it in time and moved the baby away. My mom refuses to put a shock collar on him or get him fixed because his hormones make him aggressive. This dog is dangerous and she still doesn't control him and let's him near the baby. It pissed me off! |
| Question: What should each family member do in this situation? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:34 PM PDT What should a mother ("Mom") and a son ("Son") do in this situation? Mom and Son live 600 miles away. Son travels to see Mom one weekend a month. Mom just retired, and Son works full-time, including some weekends. Son has a business trip coming up, and when Mom confirmed that she was free, he paid $200 more (himself) to have a 4-hour layover at an airport 90 minutes away from Mom around Mother's Day. Mom then realized that she had a chiropractor's appointment (every 2 weeks) when Son would be at the airport, and so she cancelled. She told Son to change his ticket, spend the night at Mom's and fly out the next day. Mom says that she can't change her appointment (although she hasn't checked with the chiropractor). Son says that he can't pay $200 more to change his plane ticket, and he has to work the day after the layover, and so he can't come visit Mom after her appointment. So: 1. Should Mom try to reschedule her chiropractor's appointment? 2. Should Son just pay $200 more (making the visit to Mom cost about $500 total, including renting a car) and risk being late to work the following day? 3. Should Mom and Son just forget seeing each other this time? 4. Should they do something else? |
| Posted: 03 May 2015 12:17 PM PDT He is probably the dumbest individual I have ever met. Didn't finish high school, he has wasted every chance he has gotten from people to get a better life. But he wants quick cash, he doesn't want to work for it and he spends money like crazy. Once his father in law gave him $1000 to pay bills, food and essentials like that. He bought a $500 car, parts to fix it up and went on a shopping spree with his wife. I haven't seen him in a while and they have a newborn baby. So I went to visit and sure enough he asked me for money. I said: "To be perfectly honest with you, I don't trust you to sit the right way on a toilet seat. God only knows what you will do with the money I give you. If you need help paying bills give them to me right now and I'll take some of them. You need food I'll take you to the store and we can buy for this entire month. But I'm not giving you a dime". He says he owes some people money and they want it back. He needs cash. Honestly I don't care anymore. Why should I care about that? I told him to call my parents but they are going to give the same answer I did. Was that the right thing to do? |
| Question: How do other women feel about what happened with those mothers in India? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:17 PM PDT The recent horrible incident in India with the young woman being gang raped and ultimately dying made me think of a case from a year ago which also happened in India. Read about an incident in India from a couple of years ago, where a group of mothers took revenge on a man who had raped several little girls (one who was 5 years old) and was then released by police due to corruption. The women stripped him and tied him sitting against a wall with his legs spread, and put a cage of hungry feral cats between his legs. They inserted his genitals into the cage, and the cats slowly ate off his entire wiener and nuts. Police are receiving no assistance from the local population in identifying the women involved. What do you think of their method, and do you feel sorry for him? If you lived there, would you inform the police as to the identities of the women who did this? |
| Question: I am going tell my parents that i snoke weed but a bit scared. any advice? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:15 PM PDT pretty much i got caught twise and i want to tell my parents because me doing it behind their back ruins the high. my mom hates weed btw and my dad is more chill about it. help! |
| Question: Why did my mom use the money i gave her for gas on tacos? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:10 PM PDT its me ( I'm 14 ) my brother ( turning 18 next month ) and my mom my parents are divorced our money situation isn't the best and i recently got a job at a near by pizza shop taking food out bussing tables and so on my mom didn't have any money for gas and i had $25 cash on me on the way to work and i gave it to her saying to get gas with it she didn't do it that day and this morning she went while i was asleep when i woke up she said she got gas and tacos she bought tacos for me her and my brother probably spending more than half of the money idk if y'all can see where I'm coming from I'm 14 and working to help my family out and buy some stuff for myself and she spends the money i gave her for gas on tacos so yea thanks |
| Posted: 03 May 2015 12:09 PM PDT The person that I'm talking about is my stepfather for 12 years. He married my mother when I was 10 and I got a little sister the same year. Now I'm wondering why my stepfather have anger issues since I discovered it myself at age 10. I didn't pick up my old crayons in my room when I was done with a drawing. It wasn't all over the place, it was in a pile, in a corner of my room. He literally pick me up on my shirt collar, and put me against the wall, shouting in my face! My mom wasn't home so I told her, she didn't believe me, and I was mad; just to make the story short. Since I've live with my stepfather and rest of the fam, a lot of things been negative; attitude wise, by the way he act towards everyone in the house. Everyone in the house is girls. Since I'm 22, trying to get a job, have a bacholars degree, trying to move out; I'm trying to take my responsibilities to act as an adult, to ask questions to him, but he shouts at me like I'm a stranger. I'm thinking since he's the only one thats lucky to have a job, he thinks he owns everything? Is it stress from work that he's taking out on everyone? Is it that I'm 22 and I want to get out? Is it because I have a boyfriend of five years? My mom talk to him about his attitude for years, It work for a week after my mom talk to him, but he starts to harass me and the little one for telling on my mom. He doesn't like when someone tell him its wrong what he does, but when he doesn't like something, he tells straight of the bat. |
| Question: I can't stand living with these people? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:05 PM PDT my father is deceased, my mother has a new boyfriend & lives in his house. I live with my grandparents. I am not able to move with any other relatives I have tried before. My mother was in & out of jail for years dealing with a drug,theft,& bipolar problem. I did live with her before this all happened but when she was incarcerated I was sent to live with my grandparents. My mom has been out for awhile on probation and her boyfriend seems really cool. They want and plan for me to move in with them. However my grandparents are psychotic. They only have custody of me when my mothers incarcerated but they are convinced that they control every aspect of my life. My grandfather is an alcoholic and my grandmother is a lazy b**** that lives to make me miserable. I raise myself. When I am home I'm in my room all day. Once they found out I had a black boyfriend, grounded me for months, told my whole family I sleep around, and would give me no freedom what so ever. I convinced them that we broke up so that I could have some of my life back (though we did not) I am not yet able to drive and I still have two years left of highschool. I'm scared that my grandmom will fight my mom for custody when I try and move this summer. She's not open to the idea at all she refuses. I'm also scared that living with my mom will not last for two years because I question their stability. I cannot take these people any longer I am at a dead end. If someone could give some guidance that would be fantastic. |
| Question: Why do people ignore children being abused? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:02 PM PDT Back when I was a little kid, age 4-8. Sometimes even older. My sister and I had an older brother that would abuse us. Strangle us, beat us, poke us with knives, rub his genitals on us, etc. When we told our dad and showed him visible cuts and bruises, he told us "Your brother doesn't hate you, brothers are supposed to love his siblings.". We even told school counselors. We showed very obvious signs we were scared of our brother. Our brother even showed obvious signs of psychopathy. Everyone could see it. He mentioned he hated women and children and wanted so see them get tortured. No one ever listened to us. I still see this happening to children today. Aunt Katie, sometimes my brother beat me in front of my dad. |
| Question: How do I tell my parents? Posted: 03 May 2015 12:00 PM PDT I plan on pursuing my music career , I would need help from my parents, but how do I ask? I feel like they don't really support me, in anything I like or want to do unless it's something they like. I'm not open to my parents, and I feel like they wouldn't take me seriously. I have trouble talking to them. Help please! |
| Question: What can I get my mom for Mother's Day? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:54 AM PDT I'm 15 and can't get a job until August usually my dad may give me a few dollars if I say what I'm buying is for mom. But I don't know what I should get her. |
| Question: Why are my parents always mad at me? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:53 AM PDT I don't know they get mad at me for being sad, for wanting things, for crying. All that kind of stuff even when I don't do that though they bring it up. I'm 14 |
| Question: How would you describe a neglective parents? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:53 AM PDT |
| Question: Please please please i need advice ASAP? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:45 AM PDT So my mom cheating on my dad Basically she has a crappy job and she's so mean, and my dad is the nicest person ever in the world and he has a great job. The guy she's cheating on I know because when I was little I just knew him as my moms friend and idk why I'd suspect anything else. But, I know this is wrong and my fault, once I went through her phone for something stupid like finding out my Christmas presents and saw all their messages. She often says she's going to her best friends house but she goes to his house. He's one of those really annoying country people and has a lot of money but so does my dad! It's not like she's in an abusive relationship or anything. And for 7 years i had to go to this goddamn awful after school care place, even on my moms days off, and now I realise it wasn't because she was busy, it was because she wanted to see it. Every night I came home crying and she said there was nothing she could do. It was like $20 a day my dad had to pay out of his own wages too. Oh, and I found out that I was an accident and she didn't want to look after me so she was going to send me to boarding school at 4. But she didn't. I don't know what to do but anyway I'm not telling either of them I know. Thanks so much x |
| Question: Father/Money Problems? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:42 AM PDT I'm 14 and my family lives lower than a middle class life. My moms a nurse and my dads a nighttime supervisor for this produce shipping co. My family's having financial problems and I think my dad's the problem. He's an avid gambler and spends money that we don't have. He sold my moms Toyota minivan for an effing Audi and later on bought himself a Harley Road King. And to top it all off, HE WANTS ANOTHER FREAKING MOTORCYCLE! Every weekend it's necessary that we have to eat out 2-3 meals in a resturaunt because he complains that we don't have anything at home to eat but somehow our refrigerator is ALWAYS FULL! He thinks I'm being selfish if I just want to stay home and eat there because I'm only thinking about myself. I have some money by doing chores, getting good grades, and saving my christmas/b day money so I could do what ever I want with it right? I spend it on books and he says that IM the one causing all the financial problems when its my money that I earned. (I put most of my money away to save for college/uni but some I spend for books and i also give a quarter to my mom) Overall, I'm just pissed at my dad and his spending. Right now, we have to sell our house because we can't afford it anymore. I might have to move to another house out of my future hs neighborhood range so I have to transfer to another highschool because of where I'll live. His spending has been going on for 3-5 years and I'm just sick of it. Any advice on what to do about it? Thanks in advance... |
| Question: Do I have rights to my brothers? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:31 AM PDT I live in Kentucky, my mom and dad are separated but my dad has two kids with another women. One of them is 1 and the other is like 3 weeks old. I have took care of my 1 year old brother so much!! Just recently social services got called on the mom and she went to jail and I had to take care of 1 year old. ( she hadn't had the other baby yet). I had him for like 3 weeks then she got out and went to my dads moms and has supervised visitations. She lives there. But they completely refuse of me seeing him bc of social services being called. They were called because the house was always nasty, she was on drugs and so on. But now she is doing better. They just won't let me see him, but my full sister is a couple years younger than me & she can! My dad is actually on an ankle monitor at my house . ItS aconfusing situation. But I was wondering if I could get an attorney to see my brothers like once a week or something. Btw I'm 17. |
| Posted: 03 May 2015 11:29 AM PDT There's no other option I can find. I think I'm going to kill myself My dad abuses me by shaving me around and hitting me nonstop and my mom does nothing about it. I will kill myself |
| Question: Why did My dad got mad at me for wanting to have my name changed? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:26 AM PDT a few months ago my grandmother told me that my name was going to be different from my current name.it was going to be joseph jr. i said "aw man!why didn't you give me that name?" and she didn't respond.then a month later my dad's girlfriend came over and was speaking about a guy named joe and she turned to me and said "you're lucky you're not joe" my father turned to her and spoke about my name and said "you're MJS.Not joe" and i got mad. Last month,i was transferred to another school.A kid named Harry came over to me and asked what my middle name was and i told him it was JOSEPH.I told him that was originally going to be my first name but they instead gave me a girl's name and insist i keep it.He started to call me Joseph jr. and then other kids started calling me that and i felt more comfortable with it.i told my parents later that day what they were calling me at school and he became furious at me and demanded i tell the other students to not call me that but i told him no because i felt more comfortable with that name and told him i didn't like my name b/c it's a girl's name and asked him to please get my name changed.but no. he yelled at me and grounded me.i think that he should have been more kind about it or better yet,got my name changed to JOSEPH SANZONE JR.why is he mad at me? |
| Question: My brother watches porn and I feel like crying? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:22 AM PDT My bro is 12 and I'm 13, I found out he was watching porn 2 days ago and I told my mum but she just said its 'virus' because my brother kept denying it. She still believes him! This time I searched through his history and saw porn and hentai, I told my bro what is hentai and he seemed nervous and said "WHERE IS MY IPAD!" Omg I can't even. I cried so much on the first day but I just can't take it. Help me! This world is so curupt and my brother started saying to my cousin "I see a letter send to your email that you didn't come on pornhub for 2 weaks" I don't know if he is lying or anything but, not my cousin to! I just found out today. UGH just kill me now. What kind of world am I in? A living hell? Probably.. GUYS!! Please understand me! We are in a religion that makes it FORBIDDEN to masturbate and watch these things. He is very very non religious and I care about him, I know it's natural but I don't want him to end up doing something to a girl or even rape. I am worrying due to my past experience with my stepdad raping me. I am over worrying about everything and I know that not all boys who watch it don't rape etc but I'm very scared! |
| Question: Help! My mum caught me masturbating what should I do? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:09 AM PDT I m 16 and ive been masturbating for two years. I recently stopped watching porn however. My family, including me, is religious. My mum is a physiologist (not psychologist) and has phd from oxford, so she s not dumb, she knows how a teenagers body works. She walked in on me while asking me something, then noticed, stopped mid-sentence, said oh im sorry and left. I talked to her and she said exactly what I expected her to: that masturbating is a sin and she knows I feel guilty but its a very hard urge to fight so I shouldn t feel guilty, etc etc. When will it stop feeling awkward that she s seen me wanking? |
| Question: Why is my mum angry with me? Posted: 03 May 2015 11:06 AM PDT My mum was in tye toilet for ages and i really needed to go. I knocked on the door and told her to hurry up and she told me hat if i couldnt wait i should go in the back yard. I asked if she was sure and she said yes. So i took some kitchen roll, went outside and took a crap in he backyard. Now shes realy angry wih me and i dont understand why, i mean she told me tomgo outside. Whats her problem |
| Question: Did I do the right thing?PLEASE ANSWER!!!? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:59 AM PDT So my mom has to deal with my sister not wanting to study at least 1-3 times a week. My sister is a brat (I may be one too) but my mom works her a** off for us and my dad is looking for work so he mostly lays in bed most days. My sister never wants to study and today I had enough my mom is at work and my dad is sleeping and I asked her very nicely to study and then it got to where I may have gone overboard. I yelled at her to study and she said "No." She wasnt going to study and if she didn't my mom would have to deal with her when she got home after a long day at work. My mom asked me to make sure my sister studies for a test she has and so I asked her then I took her bookbag away and she got it back then she kept saying no to studying finally I yelled at her and she still wouldn't so I took away her tv remote for a week then I decided to be nice to her and give her mercy so I said to myself that if she is studying when I go back into her room then she could have it back tomorrow afternoon and she was so shes getting it back tomorrow afternoon. Before you say i shouldn't have done that your right but i'm asking if I did the right thing. The bad thing is is that i'm also on my period so my emotions are running hot and I could explode any second and as i type this my hands are shaking. I'm 13 and she's 10. My sister is screaming and crying because she stole something of mine and my dad told us he was tired of us and i'm done even trying. I don't even care anymore. I'm so stressed and my parents are depressed. And it sounds like my dad wants to leave us. :'( I'm a terrible daughter my room is terrible and I never clean anything. I hate myself and I wish I was dead and i'd tell my mom my problems but she has alepiciariata so she pulls out her hair whenever she gets stressed and I don't want her to be bald so I keep most of my problems to myself. |
| Question: My mom makes me feel like an outcast.? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT So i dont fit in at school at all. i dont fit in with my "friends" and i dont fit in with my family. I dont like the feeling of being an outcast to everyone, infact i hate it. Im never myself and the only way i am myself is my music. I just decided to dye my hair and i told my mom and she yelled at me for 2 hrs straight. She never accepts me as i am. My family is all uptight and im the artist. My family doesnt see that. they see me as a freak. What am i supposed to do? |
| Question: I turned 17 and my life is a mess and time goes too fast, please help? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:54 AM PDT Okay, I think i should explain my background first...: I'm a junior male and turned 17 a few days ago. Normally you think I would be happy but I'm freaking out and filled with anxiety and depression. I have been homeschooled the past year after going to a private school the year before and a public high school for freshman year. Public school I was failing in even though I am apparently a genius, the private school was better but I only managed to pass and I miss it but I joined homeschool in September to get better grades and not focus on organization. I was failing before because I was messy and disorganized and couldn't therefore finish a lot of assignments and fell behind. However now I am a procastinator at homeschool too. Anyway my issue is I feel like I missed out on so much. I have Asperger's Syndrome mildly but mainly anxiety and depression and I feel like I want to cry now that I'm 17. I barely went to friends' houses, I never did anything I wanted to do. For example I love anime but always felt I needed the right "mood" to watch it but never did. Same for art and drawing which I never did for years because I was depressed. I have a million thoughts racing in my head and I want to throw up and I want to cry all the time. I don't what to do. I don't want to be an adult. My parents are divorced and I just moved in with my dad and I feel so conflicted. I should've spent my years from 13 to now enjoying life but I didn't and I hate myself. I want to cry and disappear |
| Question: At 15, do I still have to follow my custody schedule? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:42 AM PDT my parents have been divorced since I was three. The custody schedule they agreed on when they got divorced has always been terrible and I never liked it as a kid and I hate it even more now. One parent is completely open to letting us be at whatever house we want, and the other has always completely refused. Basically the only reason the parent who refuses to change has so much control over the schedule is because they make more money and pay for more stuff. At 15 years old the schedule is hugely increasing my stress and definitely hurting my performance in school. I have to switch houses every two days and I feel like I rarely get a chance to settle in at one house. I'm seriously thinking about going to a judge with this because it has gone on for too long. What should I do? I just want it to change. |
| Question: At 18, does my sister still have to follow the custody schedule? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:30 AM PDT My sister and I have divorced parents and a very frustrating custody schedule that hasn't changed since our parents got divorced. One parent is completely open to changing it and the other straight up refuses, and will probably never agree to change it. My sister is now 18. Does she still have to deal with this bs or can she go to any house she wants as a legal adult? thanks |
| Question: Why is my dad so overprotective? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:29 AM PDT It gets generally annoying at times. I have a crush and I talk about him. My dad gets all sparked up pointing out all the boys flaws and what not. I just don't understand I wouldn't do anything wrong. Its just simply annoying |
| Question: Why is my mom acting like this? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:27 AM PDT Today, out of nowhere my mother decided to act like a ***** for some reason. It all started with me coming downstairs at my usual time (in the weekends), she usually says good morning and acts very happy. But all of a sudden, she was the opposite, she didn t ask how I slept, she instead asks me a bunch of questions and started cleaning my computer area. I helped her and she was acting very cold and distant towards me, I m not sure why shes doing that, I didn t do anything wrong, I was just helping her without talking back to her. Next, while I was studying for a test for tomorrow, she decides to rudely stop what I was doing to check my weight (she put me on this strict diet). I gained about three pounds and she acted even more cold. I lose weight pretty quickly, so I never worry about it. In addition, I ate a slice of pizza a day due to birthday parties, I kept my portion control in check. Should I be worried or just continue my day as it is? Maybe there s something on her mind? This isn t the first time she has done this. |
| Posted: 03 May 2015 10:27 AM PDT If your son was at home crying all alone on the bedroom floor cause he's hungry and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money? |
| Question: Should I tell my dad that my friends are calling him 'silver fox'? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:25 AM PDT For background info, I'm 15 and my dad is 36 (I know, he had me when he was young). He's a widower. I've got new friends from my new school, and they slept over at my place for the long weekend. My dad was home too. Now my friends think that my dad is handsome and they repeatedly called him 'silver fox' (not in front of him, of course). I'm proud of my dad but I feel uncomfortable because of my friends' behavior. I don't think it's funny at all when they called him 'smexy' (because my dad is a doctor), etc. I can barely write what they're saying here, it's gross. I've told them to stop but they didn't. Next week is my birthday, and I planned to invite them to sleep over again, but now I've decided to cancel it. Deep in me I don't even consider them my friends any longer. My dad asked me why I want to cancel, and I said I don't like them anymore without giving the real reason. I also canceled a trip with one of the girls and her parents. Her parents are upset because I canceled at the last moment without reason (they told my dad over the phone they're not too happy about it). My dad thinks I'm being unsociable again (I only had very few friends from my former school, and these 'new' ones are always polite in front of him). I wonder if I should tell him, but actually I'm embarrassed. And if I do tell him, and he decides to tell off my friends' parents, I'm afraid I'm going to be a laughing stock at school. What's the best thing to do? Thanks. |
| Question: My brother beats his 6 year old daughter? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:08 AM PDT I can't get him to stop but I can't report him to cps because she has bruises all over her body and I don't want to see my brother in jail. Idk what to do. Stop asking me to call cps i'm not going to do it. |
| Question: Is this child abuse? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:07 AM PDT My mom hits me every time she sees me for the dumbest things! And she threatens to beat me up if I don't clean and she makes me do both my chores and my sisters saying my sister has hw. I have he too! And she left to go to the mall with my 3 other siblings and left me to wash dishes. I hate this so much! |
| Question: Parent problems, also concerns life of friend? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:07 AM PDT I'm 15 years old get almost all A's and take part in Track and Cross Country. My parents are super protective and never allow me to go out with friends or have fun. Being in sports is already pushing it. I'm not allowed to take my phone downstairs which is where my bedroom is. Last night, I was downstairs kiking a guy that is one of my bestfriends from school. My parents hate him because during one of their random parent checks they saw him joke around and say that his d*** was the size of a spider because we were joking around with random facts about spiders and how much we hate them. My parents blew up on me and said that I could not talk to him on my phone or they'd take it away for good. So I'm downstairs with my phone talking to him about my mom because she eats so much and I'm worried for her. She's really obese and as a result has big medical issues.. I sent it right when my dad barged into my room and told me to give him my phone. I quickly deleted the conversation but I didn't have a chance to block him so they wouldn't get any messages from him. He can be a little rude at times and they always check my phone so duh, they would see his response. I got my phone back today and the whole entire app was deleted and my parents put restrictions on my phone. I'm not allowed to talk to one of my bestfriends? I seriously am losing any respect I have for my parents right now. They don't even let me go to my friends birthday parties! Please help me! My friend is also concerning suicide and kik is the only way we can talk. I can't lose him. :( Need help!!! |
| Question: Parents of children, I'm having problems with my parents and need advice? Posted: 03 May 2015 10:00 AM PDT I'm 15 years old get almost all A's and take part in Track and Cross Country. My parents are super protective and never allow me to go out with friends or have fun. Being in sports is already pushing it. I'm not allowed to take my phone downstairs which is where my bedroom is. Last night, I was downstairs kiking a guy that is one of my bestfriends from school. My parents hate him because during one of their random parent checks they saw him joke around and say that his d*** was the size of a spider because we were joking around with random facts about spiders and how much we hate them. My parents blew up on me and said that I could not talk to him on my phone or they'd take it away for good. So I'm downstairs with my phone talking to him about my mom because she eats so much and I'm worried for her. She's really obese and as a result has big medical issues.. I sent it right when my dad barged into my room and told me to give him my phone. I quickly deleted the conversation but I didn't have a chance to block him so they wouldn't get any messages from him. He can be a little rude at times and they always check my phone so duh, they would see his response. I got my phone back today and the whole entire app was deleted and my parents put restrictions on my phone. I'm not allowed to talk to one of my bestfriends? I seriously am losing any respect I have for my parents right now. They don't even let me go to my friends birthday parties! Please help me! Also, he doesn't give out his number and we don't have any classes together except for PE so I can't talk to him really except for after Track practice and through kik. He's a really good friend and I don't want to lose him. He's also thinking about suicide which is another reason why I HAVE to get my kik back. Im really freaking out, any advice is helpful! Im desperate right now |
| Question: I don't feel safe in my own home help me? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:46 AM PDT i am 18 y.o. male. my dad and mom always peaks into my room, my mom always stares at my motherfuckin' penis even when am not in a loose trouser. i am going **** paranoid i hate her in every way possible always negative manipulative such a *****. dude before all the hate i am from india. men are not legally adults before 21 and people don't move out until they're married or they have their own job. |
| Question: Why does my mother act like such a brat? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:38 AM PDT Everything I do is never good enough. I'm practically her slave. I get to do all the chores, deal with all my siblings, etc. while she sits in her bed watching TV and complains constantly. She absolutely loves being the center of attention and hates when I get attention whether its from my biological father or stepfather. She is 35 years ol but still acts like a teen - with her boobs hanging out constantly, bitchy attitude, plays dumb thinking its cute, the usual teenage girl ****. I'm only 15 years old and though she has her days where she is nice, for the most part she's acts like an immature 12 yr old. I have no idea what to do, and I've tried to talk to her about her attitude and lets just say she doesn't take confrontation well. My stepdad follows her around like a puppy and she still has my biological father on a leash practically. |
| Question: I heard my parents having sex? IN THEIR FORTIES? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:35 AM PDT Ew, I hear my family having sex. They don't moan loudly or anything but I always hear the bed moving(sheets). They do it every Saturday night when I'm not there and they do it afternoons on Sunday which is now..I also found I box of condoms. They don't know I know about sex. It's so annoying! I would cry every night. And ya,I don' wanna tell them. Im Asian so ya. |
| Question: What is an "ice cream cone bomb"? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:25 AM PDT |
| Question: Mom doesn't approve of 16 year age gap? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:25 AM PDT I'm 18. I'm enlisted in the army and leave soon. I'm a female. My fiance, is 34. He is the absolute most caring, sweet, hilarious, and amazing man I've ever met. We have dated for 3 years (yes, he went to jail for me). My mom however, will not accept the age difference. The problem is, i would rather be happy with my significant other and be disowned by my family over anything else. I am moving out with him after I leave. Is there any way of calming my family into this? Thanks. |
| Question: My moms boyfriend kicked her what do I do? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:21 AM PDT This morning they were fighting and a heard a loud hitting sound and my mom say "did you just kick me!!" There was things being thrown as well. And he was yelling at everyone, me and my younger sister too (13). My mom is fine health wise. Him being rude is not abnormal. Me and my sister live with our mom, but we do have a dad who lives kindof far away. My mom doesn't want me to tell anyone, but I have a good relationship with my dad and I think I should tell him. But I'm not sure becuase he will probably try and take my sister away and I think she still wants to live with my mom. I don't think my mom deserves her Daughter taken away. My dad might definetely do this because this is not the first time he's heard of our living condition to be less than satisfactory. I feel very conflicted. |
| Question: What should I get my neice for her 5th birthday? Posted: 03 May 2015 09:17 AM PDT |
| Question: Please read, I don't know what to do? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:52 AM PDT Hi guys, last night I woke up at 3:30 because I wanted to get a glass of water and so I got out of bed and everything walked to the kitchen and well there's a really big TV that has Internet and all that so we can go on google and stuff. Well as I was getting my drink I see that my dad was watching porn while masturbating and he's 57 years old. I obviously freaked out and just stood there looking and it happened still for about 3 mins until he realized someone was in the living room with him (me) and he immediately changed it and I just stood there still and I just drank my water and got another one and sat down at the couch. He asked me what I was doing and I told him just to get water and he asked me if I wanted to watch a movie with him on Netflix I told him no I'm really tired so I left. I didn't sleep at all last night knowing that my dad does this, I'm only 14 and I see this, is it normal??! I don't think my mom knows at all what do I do? This morning I checked his history on the tv and he erased everything |
| Question: My mom found out I cut and she thinks that its funny? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:52 AM PDT I was on the phone and my mom asked what happened to my wrists so i just ignored her walked away into my room. She opened the door and said "You cut your wrists? What the hell!" I told her to go away and that its none of her business and she started to laugh at me. She said that im stupid and its silly. She doesnt understand that its bad and addicting ok its not "silly". im crying so hard and I locked myself in the bathroom and now shes trying to pry it open and telling me if i dont come out im grounded. This is the worst way for her to find out and i dont know what to do about it. |
| Posted: 03 May 2015 08:48 AM PDT I swear to god. It is my fault this time because i didn't do a math test. Instead i studied for it. :/ But anyway all of a sudden she starts to get all upset when my dad leaves. And starts saying i should move away with my grandma. And now shes singing this song on "how she can't be a parent." And other times she gets upset at stuff like when my brother left a plate on the ground. She WAKES US UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT and starts FREAKING OUT and telling us to pick that one plate up. And other times she nags A LOT. She will NOT STOP LECTURING ME for the most STUPIDEST AND LITTLE REASONS. I can't take this anymore. Help?! |
| Question: Just need some sympathy or someone to listen? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:32 AM PDT My mom has a gambling addiction & my older sister basically takes care of me. My mom comes home every week after a whole week of gambling and my sister is really just done with my mom. She screams and threatens my mom that she can't come home ever again if she keeps gambling. My sister pays the bills, my moms car bills, everything & works 6 days a week. I am only 14 and I'm just stressing out. I hate the fact that my mom (50 yrs old) won't just get her **** together and start earning money for the family not to gamble it all away. My sister (21 yrs old) I know is going to move away if she can't handle taking care of us any more. Which means my mom would be forced to take care of me, idk really how that would go, but most likely horrible. Like I want money and I hate even asking for any. My mom just pisses me and my sister off all the time and I'm only a 14 year old girl going onto high school, I just wish there was a way to stop all this stress I have. We have so many family problems & I just wish I had a better life. |
| Question: Difficult situation!? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:29 AM PDT Hey, I m a teenager and last summer 2014 I went to Mexico in June with my close cousin and sister. We only lasted 3 weeks. It was my first time ever going, so about 4 years now my grandma has permission on coming to the United States and she comes almost every 8 months! Well when I went I mostly stayed with my fathers side, my grandparents of course. I barely was with my mothers side and you can say I was crazy but could control myself. Well I was so attached to my grandparents (my dads side) within a week! For the first time knowing and meeting them I loved them. Well long story short I am soooo soo desperate to go back when school ends. I try and try to convence them to let me go! I want to see how they are, love them, and take care of them. (Both sides) and I sometimes get sad like all night and want them to see that I want to see them, and its just so hard to convence them... The question is, what should I do? Please help me this is a tuff situation. Thank you. |
| Question: Hiw do I convince my mom to let me get my driving permit? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:19 AM PDT I turn 16 in 4 day and my mom still hasn't let me take my driviNg permit. It sucks because once I get my permit I have to wait 6 months to get my liscence. There's absolutely no reason why she's not letting me take it. She just says no when I ask and then she starts a stupid arguement I'm why I can't get a permit. I'm afraid my friends are going to stop hanging out with me because they don't want to drive me anywhere. The ones that do drive have already started to stop asking me to hangout because they don't want to come pick me up because I love kind of far away from everyone. What should I do |
| Question: My family loves the show Chrisley Knows Best, what can I do? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:15 AM PDT They've been watching it the last 2 days and I CAN'T STAND IT, even my Dad likes it...Do I have to sit in my room when I'm home with my own TV cranked up just to avoid this trite? Just listening to this pseudo-reality show about a goofy family with a bunch of money is driving me crazy. If I wanted to watch nepotism in action I'd drive to Paris Hilton's house. |
| Question: How do i prevent my step-dad from throwing me out of the house? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:08 AM PDT My parents have been divorced for about 10-11 years, and i have lived with my mom, step-dad, brother and sister for about 9 years. I am 15 years old, and about five days ago he asked me THIS question precicely: -Why do you live here? And i answered: -I live here because my job isnt big enough for me to live alone Then, he went on and said: -I don't want you to sit in your room, using that computer of yours. I dont want it in the house, and if u disagree, you have to leave - for good. I have a small job that requires me to work for 2-3 hours a week, at the workplace, and 3-4 hours at home. They pay me roughly 100kr an hour (About 20 bucks) wich is not even CLOSE to what i need to make to live alone. My problem is, that work i am doing at home makes me roughly 70 bucks a week, and it had to be done on a computer. Now that he tells me to remove it, i wont make that money, and i might get fired because i am not finishing my task. My brother sits all day in front of the computer, my sister has an ipad that she uses to watch these kids shows, my mom has a computer that she uses, and my stepdad - well.. He had a job where he works at a place for 48 hours straight, (he gets paid to sleep) and then has a week off. In ALL this time off, he watches Game of Thrones, Vikings etc all these series on HBO. My problem is that i am not allowed to have my computer (about 2000 dollars i made on my own) while they all sit enjoying themselves while i cant even do my job. What to do!!??! |
| Question: Please help here!!! Is this verbal abuse? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:02 AM PDT Please read! I know it's long... I have been living with my granny since grade 3, but last year in grade 10, i moved back with my mom and her husband who isnt related to me ( btw i dont know my real dad )in the first month, ive cried more because of what he says to me than ive ever cried in the years living with my gran. It has been a year now and he is very verbally abusive. He tells me how my whole life is uncool and how im the unhappiest person ever and im permanently sad and miserable with life. But id just like to say, before i started living with my parents, i always got good grades, was such a chatterbox and made friends so easily, i now still have many friends and they're all so kind but ever since hes been telling me how i think im cool but im actually the opposite, ive become really shy and self aware. He is extremely racist and this is also a reason he always shouts at me, because i dont think of people differently and get along with all everyone. The other day he told me that if i lost more weight i would have a lot more friends, but he isnt one to talk. He always shouts at me and my siblings for being wrong and argues with my mom about everything but will never admit to being wrong and always changes the subject to himself. A few years ago they almost got divorced and he wouldnt let my mom see my brother and sister and wouldnt pay my school fees because im not his child. I really would like to move back to my gran but she doesnt have the money to take care of me..... Is there anything i can do, I'm 15 and Really desperate.. |
| Question: How do I deal with my older brother? Posted: 03 May 2015 08:01 AM PDT I have an extremely obnoxious and abusive older brother. He's always hitting me, twisting my arm, calling me names, throwing my stuff around, and when he gets in trouble he just lies about it and manipulates people, and this is only with me. He doesn't do it to anyone else. When my parents get involved, luckily they know that he's lying and punish him sometimes, but that never teaches him anything, and he just goes back to being a bully. What do I do? If I don't get some help soon I will flip my s**t. |
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