Family & Relationships: Question: Ayuda! Como hacerle para que mi ex me deje empaz? |
- Question: Ayuda! Como hacerle para que mi ex me deje empaz?
- Question: If you live with ur partner, how long do you let company stay over?
- Question: Feeling really lonely.?
- Question: Why does this teacher always stare at me and touch me?
- Question: What is this feeling?
- Question: I know my bf checks out his hot coworker. What do i do?
- Question: Love of my life moving in with her ex... Thoughts?
- Question: Need some advice?
- Question: Mi media Hermana me excita..?
- Question: How to get rid of my copycat cousin?
- Question: Is sodomy an acceptable form of punishment for my children?
- Question: Has anyone here ever stopped talking to their parents for a while or even for life?
- Question: How do I make out a will? I don't think I'll live much longer. I live in WV?
- Question: I found my Brother's Vibrator???
- Question: How come no one likes me anywhere I go?
- Question: How Do I Respond To This!!!???
- Question: Do men like to go shopping with their wives/girlfriends or is the idea that they don't an out-of-date stereotype?
- Question: Hey beautiful boy/girl?
- Question: Speech at a funeral?
- Question: She suddenly cut me off?
- Question: What's it like being a stepfather or stepmother?
- Question: Why do i not look certain people in the eye?
- Question: What to get to show a friend appreciation?
- Question: Why some people just don't understand what NO means?
- Question: Took a picture with my crush?
- Question: Wthis is my name adora.sudario@yahoo comhy i can not open my emial?
- Question: How to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship?
- Question: RESPONDAAAAN Hola . Diganme en esta . si es celos por favor?
- Question: How to approach family member using drugs?
- Question: Is it normal for my pregnant wife to bleed while having intercourse if she is pregnant?
- Question: What is my age? Which age is running? my birth 4-10-1998?
- Question: Should I forget the man I fell in love with?
- Question: I Like My Cousin - PLEASE HELP!?
- Question: HELP :(. BEST ANSWER GETS 10 POINTS!!!!!?
- Question: Should I give up my baby for adoption instead of aborting it?
- Question: What's your marital status and age?
- Question: NEED HELP FIND AREA FOR MATH PROBLEM HELP! EASY 10 POINTS?
- Question: Help. I hate my boyfriend's best friend?
- Question: I'm confused and need help! am I misunderstanding my boyfriend?
- Question: When will I ever know if my fiance died or if it was all a cover up?
- Question: Ayuda! Plis!?
- Question: I'm Falling For Someone I Can't Have (I need a guy and girl POV)?
- Question: Why do I feel so sad on my birthday?
- Question: How to really celebrate getting done with school?
- Question: This couple has TWO KIDS and ARENT MARRIED yet??
- Question: How to umblock someone?
- Question: ASAP please help?
- Question: My boyfriend never tells me his plans?
- Question: THEY ARENT MARRIED YET & HAVE 2 KIDS?
- Question: What would u make of this?
- Question: Did I Ruin my changes with getting back with my EX or did he Just want SEX anyway!!?
- Question: How to deal with constantly Having to turn down a friend?
- Question: Galaxy s5. How to turn Wifi Only off for downloads?
- Question: I HATE MYSELF.?
- Question: What do you think of this situation?
- Question: My sister in law is really sexy and flirting with me and making sexual passes at me should i give her what she wants?
- Question: My son stole my cat?
- Question: I need help telling my mom about my secret boyfriend!?
- Question: What is the best way to get have the D.V dismiss the day of the hearing?
| Question: Ayuda! Como hacerle para que mi ex me deje empaz? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:59 PM PDT Hace 3 años fui novia del amigo de mi hermano. Nos separamos despues de un año y el conozio a otra y se hicieron novios. Duraron un par de meces y se dejaron. Hace un año conozi a un muchaco y platicamos coo amigos. Todos dicen que yo a el le gusto pero el es muy timido. Bueno el cazo es que apenas me entere que la ex novia de mi ex novio es prima del muchacho con el que platico. Tambien mi ex lo conoze y no se llevan para nada y lo peor es que mi ex empezo a buscarme devuelta. Y lo mas peor es que mi ex ya tiene pareja. yo ya le dije que no puede pasar nada entre nosotros porque ya es cosa del pasado y a mi tambien me gusta el otro muchacho. Y para acabarla va y pasa por mi casa con la cancion de Amor Platonico y hasta la familia esta notando. Que harian ustedes? |
| Question: If you live with ur partner, how long do you let company stay over? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:42 PM PDT My bf and I have been living together for the last three years in a small one bedroom apt. and he left me Monday. We have been having issues with him constantly wanting his friends and family members visiting. often They stay til 1am and most time they stay for 2,3, and four days. one of his friends nearly stayed 2 weeks! And when I come home his friends and/or family are still there and he's at work! This annoys me bc he ignores me when company is over , doesnt know how to tell them they have overstayed their welcome and its time for them to go. They sleep all over my furniture, bathe , eat and rarely clean up behind themselves. then when I tell him it's time for them to go he tells them as if I'm being a *****..I don't tell them bc they are his family and friends and I feel like he should , it's his place to..i dont mind company coming over or even staying one night but I have a problem with them coming over 24/7 and staying for days.. every week we have visitors 3 or four days a week and most times they stay nights. I have repeatedly talked to him about it and he feels he should be able to have ppl over as much as he wants but I feel like they and he should respect our privacy, personal space and our relationship and go home. I have company over too which are not grown ppl like his company. they are my nieces and nephews all under 10.and I only get them on weekends or times when they are on break. My adult friends go home when they visit .am I wrong for my feelings? |
| Question: Feeling really lonely.? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:31 PM PDT So I am away from home (halfway across the country away) doing an internship. we live onsite. it's me and 5 others. We work over 50 hrs a week and have had little time for socialization, plus i'm just a really quiet person and never know how to make conversation so I haven't really made friends with anyone. it's been several weeks now, and I have another two months to go. We're also in the middle of nowhere (legit, farm country) so there's really not much to do when i do have a day off. I feel so isolated and lonely. |
| Question: Why does this teacher always stare at me and touch me? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:24 PM PDT This teacher i had from september until january always use to touch me on my lower back, shoulder, hair, face and arm. Whenever he talks to me or is near me he is always invading my personal space and is way too close and even though i dont have him anymore whenever i'm in the staff room to give a teacher work he always listens to the conversation and gets involved or even if he hears me and my friend talking he gets involved he also makes eye contact with me only, like you know how teachers give fair eye contact to the people they're talking to, once he was talking to me and my friend and while my friend was talking he didn't give her eye contact once he was just looking at me the whole time and today it was a catch up session and my friend told me he was staring at me the whole time im very creeped out am i going crazy or is this inappropriate i want to report this but im scared that im just over thinking this and he's just being normal anyway please give me your opinions on this situation thanks |
| Question: What is this feeling? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:11 PM PDT There is this guy at school named Antonio. He's my friend and for some reason every time I see him, hear him, or think about him I get so happy. At that same moment I think omg its Antonio and when I can see him, I end up starring at him. I always get nervous when I want to talk to . I don't understand what I am feeling. |
| Question: I know my bf checks out his hot coworker. What do i do? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:22 PM PDT I asked him and he said he does think shes good looking. He also told me that all the guys and work talk about her and im not stupid and i know he says stuff about her too (even though he denies it). Also, i know for a fact he checks her out and looks at her a**. How do i deal with the talking, looking at her a**, and him working with a hot chick? Its killing me and im insecure. Only helpful and respectful answers please. Im really struggling. |
| Question: Love of my life moving in with her ex... Thoughts? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:07 PM PDT A girl I have been dating on and off for 7 months is moving in with her ex now and it kills me. I really care about her and love her and think she's making a massive mistake by being with the wrong guy We fell into things quickly back at the start for a few months before some fights drove us apart but we would start to see each other again not long after. Even now we are still seeing each other and sleeping together. The whole time we were together however, the ex tried constantly to get back with her and would turn up unannounced to try win her back. I did what I thought was the big thing and tried to help resolve the situation by giving advice but after we broke first time round they got back to hanging out and are now back together. For months however I've still been seeing this girl. To me this wouldn't be happening if they were truly happy I've tried time and time again to make her consider her choices. (he's proposed numerous times and failed) I feel she's being emotionally manipulated and controlled by him as he would constantly turn up even when she didn't want to see him and cry his way back. I can't understand it at all. It's a recipe for disaster and unhappiness being with someone who aims to control you to feel validated, someone who you aren't physically attracted to anymore. I want her to be happy and to grow and develop as a person, follow her dreams. Whereas her ex just wants to pigeon hole her seemingly at all costs. It hurts to see.Thoughts? Thanks. |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 01:04 PM PDT My daughters father and I have been together for 6 years about 3 years ago things started turning sour , I gave him chance after chance until I couldn't take it anymore . About 2 years ago I met a guy while her father and I were broken up and we started dating , then I went back to my daughters father and kept the other guy as just a friend . About 5 months ago my daughters father and I broke up and I started dating the other guy again which is currently my boyfriend now . We've been together for almost 4 months and I just found out that I'm pregnant. The relationship we share is everything I always dreamed of . He's So close to perfect and my family adores him. We talk all the time about the future and he talks about proposing to me soon so our feelings are mutual. He's so excited about the baby but everyday I think about what my daughters father will say when he finds out . I know it's none of his business but it just stresses me out . Happy now and I don't love my ex anymore but ever since he found out I'm seeing someone he's been telling me how she's sorry about the past and wants his family back. It just afraid to hurt him.Just want to know if it's normal for me to worry about this |
| Question: Mi media Hermana me excita..? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:56 PM PDT La verdad es que mi padre se separo de mi madre cuando tenia como 3 años, y tanto mi madre como mi padre consiguieron nueva pareja conforme los años pasaron, mi padre se caso con otra mujer y tuvo una hija al año de estar con ella. Yo no la conocí hasta que cumplí 5 años. Ella apenas tenia un año de edad, y la verdad todo estaba bien, cuando teníamos ya como 7 y 11 años teníamos unas formas raras de jugar ella y yo, nos tocábamos mucho pero no de manera sexual. Jugábamos a darnos besos en el cuello, ella se me subía mucho y a veces rozaban sus partes con las mías, eso me excitaba mucho y cosas así pero a mi no se me hacia raro ya que era un niño y no entendía bien eso. En fin, han pasado los años y ahora tengo 23 y ella 19, ambos asistimos a diferentes universidades. Ella tiene novio el cual me caí bien por que no es un mal chico, yo no tengo novia debido a que ya estoy a punto de graduarme y no me da tiempo, pero tengo muchísimas amigas muy lindas y todo eso, pero cuando tengo la oportunidad de ver a mi media hermana es diferente no siento amor ni nada de eso, pero cuando la veo usando falda o pantalón no puedo evitar comérmela con los ojos, ella se ha puesto muy hermosa y trato de ser indiferente con ella, de vez en cuando me abraza y cuando lo hace también la abrazo pero sintiéndome excitado al hacerlo, hasta me he masturbado pensando en ella.. que hago? :( |
| Question: How to get rid of my copycat cousin? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:35 PM PDT It relly annoys me the way he buy things like shoe, phone, bags, outfit and other things, tho hes gay, and im girl. I really hate it. I remember a couple of months ago, i was planning to buy running shoes. He told me that hes into "neon/colorful combination" and i said, nah, i prefer plain black. So i bought one online. A week ago, we went to mall then he bought a shoe SAME as mine. And he still has the guts to ask me, "is it okay if were same?" I was really annoyed deeply but I answered him "ye sure" for him not to get hurt. This is just one of many cases that he obviously, copying me in Phone, Outfits styles (except dress), bags, shoes, etc. Please help me. I love how i treat him like sibling but his "copying" thing really annoyed me. What will i do? |
| Question: Is sodomy an acceptable form of punishment for my children? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:24 PM PDT My son is refusing to do his homework. I've tried the classic time outs and privilege bans, but he still continues with this behavior and I feel that in order to be a good parent I need to take the punishment up a notch. My hubby and I decided to take a large dildo and sodomize our children when they are bad, and put various amounts of lubricant depending on the degree of the child's crime. I know it's harsh and some people may get upset but I'm of the "spare the rod spoil the child" camp, and the only reason I would do this is because I love my children. Please be mature in your answers. I need to know if it's morally acceptable and legal. Thank you. @Danielle Are you sure it's illegal? I'm just trying to discipline my kids like any good parent should. Where in the law does it say I can't do that? @Assassin I don't want to tear their anuses, that would be cruel. @pennypincher Um, I'm a human. What is a 'troll' and why do you hope I'm one? @Matthew I don't want to do this because there's "nothing to do". I'm doing it to punish my children because I love them. @Frank Why the hostility? You're making no sense. |
| Question: Has anyone here ever stopped talking to their parents for a while or even for life? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:00 AM PDT Do you feel like you disapprove of some of your parents decisions? Look down on them, as you get older? Diagree with their life? Want to cut them out, even if its just for a while. I am 25 and honestly I just think my dad is a loser who has done nothing with his life, he has confidence issues and has gambling issues but never wants to goto therapy to address his issues - he is hiding things and never talks about his issues which makes me look down on him.... my mom wants to leave him but years go by and she never gets around to it because she relies to much on him for drives (she doesn't have her license) and the minimal amount of money he brings in. She has expressed numerous times that it is a marriage of convenience but I cannot cope with her continually complaining about him and being mean to my father yet still subjecting herself to living with him. WHAT DO I DO IT MAKES ME DEPRESSED TO BE IN THEIR LIFE Its weird though cause as a child my dad was a good father to me..... but he is a loser and was gambling the whole time. I find it hard to be close to my dad when he has confidence issues he never talks about and doesn't want to help himself. My mom for the most part is fine but I disagree with her for being with him and whenever I tell her things about my dad she goes and tells him and betrays my trust..... making it more awkward for me to talk to my dad. My two younger sisters don't seem to care or be bothered by it. They also have lives outside the home so they don't care as much.... But I am trying to be very successful and I feel shitty that I look down on my parents. I feel like they never set an example for me and also I have different views on politics, money, success, values, etc. than my parents to the point where I feel we are WORLDS apart. Its hard because NO ONE I KNOW keeps their parents out of their life this much as me.... sooo I feel kinda alone in this. |
| Question: How do I make out a will? I don't think I'll live much longer. I live in WV? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:58 AM PDT |
| Question: I found my Brother's Vibrator??? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:44 AM PDT Should I tell my mom??????? He's 15 |
| Question: How come no one likes me anywhere I go? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:34 AM PDT Tell me all the causes why someone would be disliked or even hated. |
| Question: How Do I Respond To This!!!??? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:22 AM PDT This is from my ex! Before I go on I just wanna say that she is an extremely good woman and I've hurt her more times than I can count including yesterday. She sent me this::: I honestly feel heart broken & its because of you. I was fine! It took me 4 months to start getting over what you did & how you hurt me! & then you come back, say all the right things & tell me you want me back & because I love you...I gave it a chance again even tho I was scared out of my mind. I spent the night with you & let you in! & the moment I got home I knew something was wrong because I felt that same change in you! The one you get when you don't really want to be bothered with me anymore & you want to break up! I brought up our boring conversations just to see how you would react & you use it to break up with me. & yesterday I just sat there in shock because you actually broke up with me & offered to be my friend...just because we have boring conversations over the PHONE when we are bf & gf! I personally couldn't give 2 ***** about our phone conversations. I care about how our relationship is when we are together in person & its great... I actually enjoy myself, until you change! tbh I could never just be your friend, I could never just hurt you, or just let you down...but you do all 3 to me & it makes me feel stupid & hurt. All I wanted was to be your gf, love you, make you happy, be there for you & be apart of your life completely! That's all...nothing horrible! How do I respond to that?? |
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| Question: Hey beautiful boy/girl? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:07 AM PDT |
| Question: Speech at a funeral? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:22 AM PDT i have been asked, by the father of a very close family friend who suddenly and tragically died, to speak at her funeral about her and about my relationship with her. I'm 16, I've known her for 10 years and she was like a second mother to me. I'm really extremely anxious and nervous, and I don't know what to say. Are there things I shouldn't say? Is it ok if I cry? It's been an absolutely crazy week and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: She suddenly cut me off? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:52 AM PDT Last month I hung out with this girl, things went well and we got coffee 2 weeks later. After the second hangout, I suggested we hang again, and she suggested sometime next week like "Monday or Tuesday" That was on sunday, and on Thursday I emailed her asking what day looks good for her. I got no reply. I waited until Saturday and texted her this time, to which she said that she gets her schedule "tomorrow and I will text you again" Sunday came, and no text. I didn't want to be overbearing, so I waited until Monday at noon to text her. She didn't reply. Her boyfriend recently broke up with her like 2 weeks ago, but we're just friends and I never came across flirty at all. It's been 5 days and no replies. What in the world happened? |
| Question: What's it like being a stepfather or stepmother? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:45 AM PDT Is it more difficult depending on the age of your stepkids or does it vary depending on the situation? |
| Question: Why do i not look certain people in the eye? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:35 AM PDT In certain people i can not look them in the eye especially if they are mad and its mainly in my uncle even when he's joking or playing around i dont like to look at him in the eye or at him at all his presence and energy to me is just akaward and hes not the only one i find this in its mainly in people i dont care much for is there something wrong with me |
| Question: What to get to show a friend appreciation? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:32 AM PDT My 9 year old son has a sitter after school for about 4 hours. The sitter (John) offered to help me out free of charge because I was going through a separation at the time and our kids love playing together. He has never asked me for a dime. His services are no longer needed because school is ending and we are moving to another city. I want to get him a gift to show appreciation. My question is what to get him? He's in his early 30's and is in the medical field. Tell me your opinion and options. Thanks. |
| Question: Why some people just don't understand what NO means? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:29 AM PDT Here is my family guys! "hey wanna eat something are you hungry?" "no thank you I'm fine" "hey wanna eat something?" "no, no I'm full, I just ate before arriving" "come eat this I just made it for you!" "I'm fine! I really full, really" "why don't you eat? you have not eaten in all day!?" "it's because I ate before!" "come one eat this!" "I'm sincere and honest, I really don't want, thanks!" And it keeps going, like 20 times, sometimes I feel I'm loosing my mind and yell everyone "for god ******* sake, are you all retarded or something, **** everyone!!" Also a bunch of friends invited me to a drunk party, and same thing happened, and sometime ago there was a gay man insisting me to pass time with him. Sometimes I really want to punch someone in the face of shoot a flamethrower, I just don't understand... What should I do, am I doing something wrong? I'm very polite, shy but always honest, direct and sincere. |
| Question: Took a picture with my crush? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:09 AM PDT On graduation my friend happened to have my crush as her walking partner but didn't know I liked him or esle she would of helped us walk together,on graduation she made me talk to him n I got nervous n he was all distracted with his friends n my girlfriend went up to him n was like take a pic with her n he was like Wut n she repeated it again he said ok and we took a pic did we do the right thing? |
| Question: Wthis is my name adora.sudario@yahoo comhy i can not open my emial? Posted: 28 May 2015 07:32 AM PDT |
| Question: How to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship? Posted: 28 May 2015 07:21 AM PDT My friends dad is emotionally abusive to her and her mom. She says "The way he treats us He yells at or ignores us and puts us down He uses the pets and threatens to hurt them We walk on eggshells to not make him mad and set him off (trying today be quiet and not make noise or talk around him, don't cook or do anything if we think he's asleep) Isolation is part of it too. I can't talk to anyone and we never leave the house We can't get necessities (my mom and I's clothes are handmedowns from my grandma or brother, he yelled at my mom for buying pads once) and we have money so it's not like we can't afford that stuff. My dad gets $2500 every two weeks and we only pay two bills,my Grandpa pays the rest" Is there anyway for her and her mom to get help? They want to leave but her mom doesn't have a job so she doesn't have any money. Please help!! |
| Question: RESPONDAAAAN Hola . Diganme en esta . si es celos por favor? Posted: 28 May 2015 05:50 AM PDT Resulta que estoy hablando con un chico de la universidad . pero siempre estoy con mi mejor amiga y una chamo que considero como amigo. bueno resulta que el chico con que estoy hablando mira feo a mi mi amigo. como si le tuviera rabia, y me lanza puntas. sera que le da celos verme con mi amigo? o por que sera? |
| Question: How to approach family member using drugs? Posted: 28 May 2015 05:35 AM PDT I am a recovering addict of pills, sober for 4 years. A family member of mine told me 6-7 months ago that they had a problem with the same pills. They hid it very well from the family but it was apparently so bad that while they were not in their right mind, they were caught stealing $250+ worth of merchandise from a store and actually served some time from that. They told me they were clean and had me convinced! Last night, I received a text message from this person asking if I could find her husband the same pills because he was running out (he is prescribed them). I cannot find the words to text her, the words to say over the phone, or the words to say in person to her. I know that if she was clean, she would NEVER ask me something like this considering my past with the pills and her past as well. I feel like either her, her husband (considering he shouldn't be running out of his prescription this soon), or both of them need help! I can't be silent on this with her, but I do not know how to approach the situation. Any advice is GREATLY appreciated!! Thank you! |
| Question: Is it normal for my pregnant wife to bleed while having intercourse if she is pregnant? Posted: 28 May 2015 05:01 AM PDT |
| Question: What is my age? Which age is running? my birth 4-10-1998? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:31 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I forget the man I fell in love with? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:28 AM PDT I think I should overcome him by moving on. He is already married but can have 4 wives. I think I should move on. |
| Question: I Like My Cousin - PLEASE HELP!? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:23 AM PDT A few days ago, I was introduced to a cousin that I never knew lived near me. I am a 13 year old girl named Lolah, and am very shocked. I have only spent 2 days with this new cousin of mine, but the first day, I was not so attracted. The second day, I was all kissy-the-cheeky type. Here's the story. I went to the mall with my bestfriend, Kathy. My mother was supposed to pick us up, but we were picked up by an unfamiliar lady, yet my mother was nestled in the passengers seat. Kathy and I hopped in, and this lady began speaking. She told me she was my Aunt, and that I had a cousin that was the same age as me. I was happy, to finally have someone to hang out with that was my age, until I was told he was a boy. We reached our home and inside, I met him. David. Just the look of him was mesmerizing. His mother took us horse-carriage riding and we all bonded really well. Then, he paid for all of us to go skating and bought us snacks. He was just so kind and generous, I couldn't help my self but add millions of kisses all over his cheeks. Knowing he is family, I felt bad about it. What should I do about this? AND PLEASE, don't call this "incest" because the clear definition of incest is SEXUAL ACTIVITY between to related individuals. And there is no sexual activity, just my feelings. I just dont want my family to be upset with me, knowing I just met him about 3 days ago. So ANYBODY, please help! Thanks, Lolah |
| Question: HELP :(. BEST ANSWER GETS 10 POINTS!!!!!? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:23 AM PDT do you know of any relationship xperts which offer free online advice?( live chat prefferred)? i would preffer if this expert is one of the best one can find as i need help really fast !!!! thank you :) |
| Question: Should I give up my baby for adoption instead of aborting it? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:27 AM PDT I'm 20 but I'm going on my sophomore in college still and I can't even support myself without my family!! I'm the youngest so everyone will upset with me and I'm mixed and on my dads side there's NO WAY they can know or my dad because it would upset him he lives overseas. Anyway, I'd have to move or something to have this baby. I know eventually my family would help and never mistreat me also his family are super close. But I'm not ready, and he and I aren't even together anymore I didn't tell him bc I'm not 100% sure yet I'm gonna see a doctor. I feel guilty regardless because this baby would be me and his responsibly. He's a few years older than me has a good job and also a student.. I'm terrified.. |
| Question: What's your marital status and age? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:55 PM PDT Engaged 35 |
| Question: NEED HELP FIND AREA FOR MATH PROBLEM HELP! EASY 10 POINTS? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:33 PM PDT HELP PLEASE |
| Question: Help. I hate my boyfriend's best friend? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:21 PM PDT Sorry to drag on a question like this but I need some advice. My boyfriend and I (both in our early to mid twenties) have been together quite a while now and have a daughter together and another baby due in a week. However I feel like he still hasn't grown up and isn't putting our family first and it all has to do with this awful "friend" of his. Basically this friend he has only ever calls him when he needs something (only when he wants to get high).He is a terrible influence and has got my boyfriend into smoking marajuana and even convinced him to do ice, even after I begged him not to. I can't stand him as he is disrespectful and cruel to me (a whole other story) and a danger to everyone around him. The last time I agreed to swallow my pride and spend time with him and my boyfriend, this "friend" got so drunk we were stopped by police in the street and he assaulted one of them And was subsequently arrested. I've tried telling my bf That I'm not okay with them spending time together and that it's just a matter of time before he gets in trouble too but he gets so defensive. He claims that I'm trying to take away his friends. All I want is for him to spend time with decent people and stop ditching me to go out doing drugs while I'm at home looking after our child. How can I explain that this person is not a true "friend" without sounding like the crazy psycho gf? because it's causing issues in our relationship and I'm on the edge of just giving up and leaving |
| Question: I'm confused and need help! am I misunderstanding my boyfriend? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:15 PM PDT I have been with my boyfriend for 16 years now we have 3 children together and have endured a lot in life.when I met him he was the most amazing man and had such a great heart and taught me so much and I felt he was my hero because life at home with my mother was not great she was doing things I didn't agree with and was bringing home strange men so my boyfriend took care of me and helped me look at the good in life.He is an amazing father he knows how to talk to a child to me where they can understand better than I can! But the past few years its went downhill so fast, he's been putting me down and is always grumpy always complaining says how he hates his job and wants a better job then he lands the job the wanted then complains about that one wants more money and when he finds it not long after he starts complaining that even that is not enough. I feel like I'm walking on pins and needles because he forgets things in tell him and gets mad at me and says I'm playing games? And if I forget to put blinds down in the house when sun goes down I'm treated like a scolded child of his. I get blamed if the doesn't wake up on time for work,when he has an alarm.I've found myself always on defense because I'm expecting to get yelled at or blamed for something. I'm tired of it I offered to get a job he said no so my job is to take care of house and kids and bills and literally everything else.I dont know what wrong with him I get nothing for holidays not even a card. I dont know anymore |
| Question: When will I ever know if my fiance died or if it was all a cover up? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:42 PM PDT 2 sets of tire tracks in straight clean tracks, NOT a side ways skid "out of control" like the crash report states that was written 2days after the accident that NEVER made local news of any kind but 3other wrecks the same day did, funeral then creamated, family reached into the milky for reasons to shut me out and keep me away cause I kept asking OBVIOUS questions, hospital says he was 0brain activity but he would get worked up when I played our favorite music and begged for him to get better heart rate go crazy breathing increase even tears and gripping of my hand,thrown from vehicle but no visible scratches cuts only a black eye among a crazy number of injuries unseen on the outside, death certificate WRONG 6 times over I was at his side 20 minutes prior no contributing toxins to contribute, too 2 and a half hours to go 40tops away but say he flatlined 2times this is just a crumb of the story I ask scared to stir up the dirt but I want to know so I can accept it |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 10:35 PM PDT Mi situacion es la siguiente. Siempre que paso mucho tiempo sin socializar y de repente salgo otravez me da mucho estrés. Sin embargo, durante ese periodo en el que me encuentro sola extraño estar acompañada. Tengo amistades y un novio y no se por que la ironia de sentirme así. Aunque en el caso de mi novio es un poco diferente, ya que cuando paso mucho tiempo sin el lo extraño y al encontrarme con el me siento mejor. Pero con los demas es TODO lo contrario. Ayudenme porfa!! T____T |
| Question: I'm Falling For Someone I Can't Have (I need a guy and girl POV)? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:49 PM PDT So there's this boy and it's killing me because I can't have him. I really like him; love him even and he's taken. He is a year older than me and left Jr. high already I'm still here and I need help. Why doesn't he like me? It's driving me nuts. I need a guys and a girls perspective. It's getting to where I don't even sleep I just think of him. I know, it sounds creepy but it's not. God, it driving me insane help me! I need an actual answer not directing me to some random website. |
| Question: Why do I feel so sad on my birthday? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:35 PM PDT last night my mom and i got in a fight and didnt end in the best terms and then my mom pretended everything was fine and well idk.it just didnt feel that significant. cause i was still kinda mad at her and then i had an essay in english and cause my bff promised she would come i was rlly distracted and didnt do my essay well. i came home and watched tv for 1 hour and just slept. my parents made my birthday dinner and i just totally bailed and i feel so bad. |
| Question: How to really celebrate getting done with school? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:20 PM PDT So this is partly a vent and partly an actual question. Last year I got really behind in my school work cuz of some family issues.. I ended up having to do summer school. Well... That year I had geometry. The geometry course I took was a year above my grade level and let's just say I couldn't back out of it. I had to do geometry and learn this stuff that was a year ahead of my level. I cried almost every day all that year.. And then had to do it all summer too. This year (2015) I got back at school with algebra 2 an chemistry and they're equally frusterating. Cried a lot this year. Was super depressed. Got behid in school again. This time. I wasn't doing summer school. So I literally did 9 lessons of math in three days, 4 tests a day for a week, 3 chemistry exams, and 2.. 8-page history exams. Ad I passed all of them. All so I didn't have to do summer school. I was so happy when I was done I almost cried. Now since I'm not old enough to get drunk for doing all this crap.. How can I celebrate all the hard working crap I've dealt with for two years???😏😏 any ideas?? |
| Question: This couple has TWO KIDS and ARENT MARRIED yet?? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:55 PM PDT Is this weird? My boyfriend's brother has been with a girl since 2009 and they got engaged in 2011...it's now 2015 & their still not married to one another? They just had their second baby... & they are living in the girl's mother's grandmothers house. They used to live at his house but then she wanted more "privacy".....they're both 24...he does construction/has his own business going. |
| Question: How to umblock someone? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:34 PM PDT I blocked a man a couple of years ago.I would now like to communicate with him. |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 07:55 PM PDT I wrote a letter toy teacher and read it to him. He said thank Takes alot. After a couple moments ghe said everyone goes though that phase. What was he taking about? The letter went like this. Dear x, Where do I begin? I am at the ends of a crossroad and sometimes we did not along because were seeing eye to eye and occasionally when alone an awkward presents fills the air. I know this is my fault thought because over the last haft of the year I wasn't the student I should of been. I could of worked harder and tried when I didn't. But must importantly I shouldn't of used you as a punishing bag as an outlet of my own frustrations by treating you like an underpaid piece of crap by with attitude in the third nine weeks. I have lied you. You may of believe otherwise but when I told you I didn't like math anymore I lied and I don't know why I did. I am sorry. On a more happier note thanks for playing a role into helping shaping and molding me to become the person who is stand here before you. I know after I leave these walls I may not ever see you again. But I hope that is never the case and you continue playing a role in my success weather or not it's thought simply believing in me when no body else does. A wise man once said "A child's life is like a piece of paper on which every person leaves a mark." Sincerely |
| Question: My boyfriend never tells me his plans? Posted: 27 May 2015 07:27 PM PDT He never tells me anything . He's always telling other people his plans . My friends always know what he's up to cause he tells them & i get mad when they tell me cause it's like he has a more better free relationship with them than me . & also it sounds like they're his gfs . I always tell him about my plans where I'm going how it went etc.. Today he was talking with his friends about an event then I decided to ask him if he was going & he replied back with a mad irritated tone "why do you care" then I just told him I was just asking then he said "maybe" and turned around. I know it can't be that he feels "crowded" by me or that he needs his owns space because I don't check up on him. For example he stocks my Twitter & ig and is always asking questions about who people are . I don't do that . Btw we've been together for 2 yrs & 6 months . |
| Question: THEY ARENT MARRIED YET & HAVE 2 KIDS? Posted: 27 May 2015 07:08 PM PDT Is it weird that my boyfriend s brother has been with the girl he s with since 2009, they got engaged in 2011...it is now 2015 and have not got married yet? & they just had a second kid. They also live in the girl s mothers grandmas house.....at FIRST they lived at his house in the basement but then moved there for more "privacy".....they are both 24....he does construction...she s obviously a stay at home mom |
| Question: What would u make of this? Posted: 27 May 2015 06:56 PM PDT She called him boo boo as he was about to walk out of the store another worker said u can't call him that he's married she said she knew that but he's a trip |
| Question: Did I Ruin my changes with getting back with my EX or did he Just want SEX anyway!!? Posted: 27 May 2015 06:16 PM PDT me and my ex broke up in october due to my friend cursing him out (i didn't know she was gonna do that) for being a assholee to me he texted me in december saying he missed me and "this Dick is still yours" we ended up having sex in january which turned into a every weekend thing for months told me not to talk or sleep with other men but every time i would try to talk about getting back together he would be like "Your NOT my girl get use to it" even tho he still acted like my boyfriend he use to call me everyday if i asked him to take me out to eat he would but for the past month he's been distant i told him i was tired of being a f**k buddy i don't want to have sex until were in a relationship then he was like "You got me F**ked up who you think you are" after that he didn't talk to me for a week then that weekend he invited me over to "talk" but we ended up having sex anyways but that was the end of april since then he's been ignoring me for days we only hung out one time this month and while we were together he kept looking at other girls saying "Damn she can get it" and he didn't even wanna see me on his birthday even after i told him i got him something he ended up going to the strip club with his brother and I've seen him adding random hot girls off MY Facebook friends list i confronted him and all he said was "And the problem is??"he never answers my calls anymore barely texts me back now do you think he's replaced me ? |
| Question: How to deal with constantly Having to turn down a friend? Posted: 27 May 2015 05:38 PM PDT My ex/bestfriend keeps pressing me for a relationship. And honestly,it makes me feel bad n guilty at the same time. How do I deal with this? |
| Question: Galaxy s5. How to turn Wifi Only off for downloads? Posted: 27 May 2015 05:05 PM PDT Getting extremely frustrated!!! I need to update my phone and I've tried what it says to do online but I don't get an option like it days I should. Pictured is what pops up after I click on Software Update like it tells me. What am I doing wrong? I need to update and don't have access to wifi????? |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 04:57 PM PDT I hate myself. I hate my life, I have an abusive father and I can't leave my house even though I'm 18. I hate my body, I'm 5" 126 lbs, I see myself in the mirror I see a big nose small lips fat lopsided girl. I'm so stupid, I'm so bad in school, I failed 9th grade and I can't get past a C in any of my classes no matter how hard I try, I have a low *** gpa and I'll never get into collage. I'm so clingy, I can tell my boyfriend is getting sick of me Idek why he's still with me. I don't have a lot of friends, I'm not out going. My family thinks I'm weird. My only talent is painting. No other talent at all. I just hate myself so much. |
| Question: What do you think of this situation? Posted: 27 May 2015 04:53 PM PDT Ok so I was trying to avoid my dad because he abused me on Saturday for no reason while I was just sitting on my bed covering myself with a blanket when he came to visit. Then he called the phone and I ended up picking the phone not knowing it was him because my sister was in the bedroom. I feel weird for talking to him because I think he's a bad person for putting his hands on me. I'm 15 years old by the way. What do you think of this situation? |
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| Question: My son stole my cat? Posted: 27 May 2015 04:22 PM PDT I bought a kitten, it took to my son so he trained it for me. I have been buying it's food, paying it's vet bills, whilst my give it a lot of attention. Long story short it's one years old now, my son moved out and took the cat when it is my animal. What should I do, he lives miles away. |
| Question: I need help telling my mom about my secret boyfriend!? Posted: 27 May 2015 04:19 PM PDT if you were in this situation, what would you do? please answer quick! I need instant feedback. situation circumstance: your mom doesn't want you to have a boyfriend, yet you do. you two have been dating for roughly 2-3 months and you decide you wanna tell your mom. she's not the most understanding mom and your almost 100% positive she will not like the idea and will be mad. this will also make her loose all trust in you. how do you tell her? what do you say? |
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