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- Question: Why is my mom acting like this?
- Question: I am SO mad at my parent's, what do i do?
- Question: How to make money my parents won't let me work?
- Question: How to make money my parents won't let me work?
- Question: MOVING PLEASE help?
- Question: Why does my mom pushes me to her friend's daughters?
- Question: I need some advice and help?
- Question: Should I write to father I never met at his workplace?
- Question: What do I do to prove myself right? (Read comment for rest of story, I don't have enough space) How do I deal with this problem? Help!!?
- Question: I wanna get a phone ?
- Question: How do I tell my mom that I smoke?
- Question: My mom never listens?
- Question: Do I have daddy issues ???
- Question: Help , my little sister is watching bad shows !! , need a parental app?
- Question: What would be fun games to play for a family gathering of people mostly college aged and another group in their 50's, 60's?
- Question: My younger brother is being mean, please help.?
- Question: Do you have family that expects too much of you?
- Question: Should I un-invite my mom to my graduation ceremony?
- Question: Worried about the future?
- Question: Am I spoiled?
- Question: We only want to have one baby?
- Question: Little sister out of control!!?
- Question: My dad watches child porn and was caught 15 years ago. He still watches it EVERYDAY.?
- Question: If your boyfriend has a scarred back how would you react?
- Question: My sister is always mean!!!?
- Question: Mother doesn't think partner is right for me?
- Question: How can I go about finding my little brother who was born in Brooklyn NY he was taken away into the system I believe it was BCW. please help?
- Question: I just feel pretty down in the dumps right now.?
- Question: How old to have privacy from my parent? I am a freshman please read details.?
- Question: Are my parents being fair?
- Question: Is it reasonable for my dad to tell me not to stay outside late at night and to come home early? I am 17.?
- Question: 'What relation to me is my aunt's son's daughter?'?
- Question: What can I do about my mother?
- Question: Parents Help?
- Question: I need help in my family.my dad calls me retarded/mentally ill,my brother/sister treat me like nothing,and rest just dont give about me ?
- Question: I need help in my family.my dad calls me retarded/mentally ill,my brother/sister treat me like nothing,and rest just dont give about me ?
- Question: I can't deal with my family anymore.?
- Question: How long should I distance myself from my dsyfuctional family?
- Question: How do I talk to her?
- Question: Im pretty sure my mother is lying to me about who my bio dad is see she has curly pitch black hair because she is half native american?
- Question: How to get your parents to buy you something?
- Question: What do I do? I feel lost and restless and scared?
- Question: Is it bad that I don't like my sister?
- Question: How do I overcome the hatred I feel for my mother?
- Question: Can my mom kick me out of the house? (I'm 12)?
- Question: My mother won't allow me to meet my grandparents. I really would like to see the at least once a year. Any ideas how I could get her let me?
- Question: 17 and pregnant help :(?
- Question: My son saw me masturbating?
- Question: My tutor is keep making me feel bad?
- Question: How do i deal with not being able to eat in my house?
- Question: Is this fair?
- Question: Do you think my dad is unfair?
- Question: How to move away when I need to move away?
- Question: My dad has anger issues.?
- Question: What is your family eating today? Just a poll, thank you.?
- Question: Im poor my.brother lost 6 grand at the.boat.is.he.wrong?
- Question: What are my odds on getting full custody?
- Question: Hate my mom what do i do? im literally locked up in the house and im not allowed to go school and she treats me way differnt to my siblings?
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| Question: Why is my mom acting like this? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:59 PM PDT So this morning my mom me up at 7 am to tell me to go to the mall with her. I refused & went back to bed, ten minutes later she came back. She told me to try a bunch of clothes on so I just did it. She kept putting clothes on me and fixing them that are clothes and asking if it fits. I asked her why she is doing that because the clothes already fit we tried them before. She screamed at me & started hitting walls & freaked the **** out. She was pissed before because I wouldn't go with her to the mall at 7 in the morning, & it wasn't even open then.. She kept telling me to turn. I span around because I was wearing a skirt and when someone says turn it means spin to me. They she screamed at me and was about to hit me. Keep in mind I was still half asleep because last night I had a school thing I stayed up until 12 for. grandma came down to yell at me and said she's taking my phone away because I was being ridiculous when I was half asleep & didn't even understand what was going on and wasn't sounding hostile at all. then she screamed at me to straighten my hair, then she did it, Then she told we're taking family pictures tonight and I was like okay, she said I can't smile like I usually do because I look forced but it's just how I smile. She said I have to keep my eyebrows close to my eyes but they aren't like that so I'd have to be squinting. & she said that if I don't then she's taking my phone away. & she told me she does so much for me.. She's a jerk but not this much. |
| Question: I am SO mad at my parent's, what do i do? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT So I invited my friend over a week ago and asked my mom if we had plans. She said no so I invited him over for Saturday. Today, he is suppose to come over and now we have to go to a party! I never can get my point across because my mom and dad are constantly screaming. I do not want to go but she is forcing me. I was walking up the stairs and my dad is screaming at me, I ask what time we are getting home and they yell. My dad tells me that im a f ucking ungratful prickk. I am so done, they never act like this what do i do! I try to keep my chill but im SO MAD. |
| Question: How to make money my parents won't let me work? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:53 PM PDT I am 16 and my parents won't let me work. Yet they always complain that i ask them for money, and when they do give me money its only like 10 bucks. They also don't give me allowance. |
| Question: How to make money my parents won't let me work? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:53 PM PDT I am 16 and my parents won't let me work. Yet they always complain that i ask them for money, and when they do give me money its only like 10 bucks. They also don't give me allowance. |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 12:44 PM PDT okay so i am supposed to move in two years so next year is the last year because my dad cant find a job in this location but i don't want to move away at all and neither does my sister and my mum doesn't mind either way and i just cant move i love my friends and i have my gcse in 2-3 years so i want to stay and do it with my friends. I just can't move now how can i convince my dad to let me stay here. btw he visits very month or so for a few days and my dad is very stubborn but i feel sorry for him because he works 2 jobs and one of them he doesn't like but please tel me anything i can tell him . i cry all the time i think of moving |
| Question: Why does my mom pushes me to her friend's daughters? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:36 PM PDT I really don't care about them. I don't want to be friends with them. I don't have friends and I'm happy being alone. But my mom forcefully pushes me to be friends with her friend's daughters. Her friend's daughter is graduating today and I really want to watch tv and sleep all day but no, mom wants to drag me to their graduation. I keep telling her time and time again, I don't want to be friends with anyone |
| Question: I need some advice and help? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:32 PM PDT So I don't know if i should leave my aunt's house to go live with my mother. But the problem is... my mom left me 4 years ago so i lived with my brother until his wife kicked me out because she said my efforts weren't good enough I clean the whole house every day and they don't aperciate my hardwork. So i went to go live with my aunt but 4 months later my mother came back that's when my aunt told me "not to be scared your going to stay safe with me" but now she is telling me to go live with my mom that i'm the one who should be sorry. She locked me out of the house on mother's day but she told me she was went somewhere else but the neighbor told me it's a lie. Now she is calling all these family members telling them "That he needs to leave because i'm moving on saturday" but how come she is not telling this to my face it's saturday and nothing is pack i think she wants me out. Now she doesn't speak to me she keeps telling me to go with my mom. But the problem is my mom lives with my brother's in laws and those people act nice but once i live there they will change and i know it because i lived there twice and they will be like "why do you go outside with friends" "why don't you go to church" My mother says things will be different because she is there and it's their home but my mom pays rent and if i want something i'll ask her instead of my bro's in laws. I fear they will say something to me when my mom goes to work. I need help and advice btw i'm 15 years of age |
| Question: Should I write to father I never met at his workplace? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:23 PM PDT I'm 17 next month and never met my father. Apparently.he met me when I was 9 months old but never again,as my mom moved out of state and they lost contact. At the time, he was young,building his career and "not ready to be a father". Not an excuse but understandable. I've found a lot of info about him online. I wrote a letter to an address that may be his house but I made a mistake in not putting tracking on it, so I never got a response but I can't be sure he even got it. I found the hospital he works at,so I'm wondering if I should write a personal letter to him at the hospital address. If he doesn't want to see me still that's okay,I'm prepared, but I am putting myself out there. I just want to know if he does or doesn't want to know me for sure, so I know to move on or not. I'm also unable to contact him on Facebook etc What do you think I should do? I appreciate your responses :) |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 12:22 PM PDT So yesteday, I came home from school, and I was just going to relax and just wait for my dad to get home so I can hang out with my friend, and well, my step sister's dog starts barking (The dog does not try and recognize who is there, he just always barks at someone coming into the house) and I just ignored him, I took my shoes off and I just pat the dog on the head to make him shut up, which only worked for a good 5 seconds. My step sister got mad at me thinking I was teasing the dog, and she was in her room upstairs, and I was a floor beneath her, and she said 'Stop torturing my f-ing dog' and my step mom got mad at me and said 'Stop teasing the dog' and well I just responded with 'I wasn't teasing the dog' and my step sister said something like 'Do you have an f-ing attitude?' And well I jusst said no, and she said 'I'll f-ing snap your neck' (Keep in mind, she is 20 years old, legal adult, me 14 years old, male, still a minor, and the thing is, I literally never did anything to make her this way, she is just this bitchy for some reason, and well, she never acted like this towards me before, EVER) and I just responded towards that threat saying 'Oh I'm sure you will' (sarcasm) so I just head towards a seat where I was going to sit down, and well, before I could, I heard her say 'You f-ing think I won't?' And she starts charging down the stair, runs at me until she was a foot away from me, and I was just waiting for her to raise a hand or fist at me. |
| Question: I wanna get a phone ? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:20 PM PDT My parents won't let me have a phone I still have an iPod 5g but I never owned a phone I'm 16 and my elder siblings have made problems with my parents relating to their phones and that's why they don't trust me too Summer vacations are coming up soon I need a phone to be able to make plans and have fun with my friends |
| Question: How do I tell my mom that I smoke? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:14 PM PDT I started smoking since I was 13 and now I'm 14. I started smoking in a party when my friend handed me a cigarette, since I've been smoking everyday like 3 cigarettes and after half a year my mom found a Marlboro Gold pack in my bag when I came from a friend. She was so angry she told me she would send me to a Boarding school. of course that did not happen but I told my mom I only smoked 1 cigarette because of my friends brother. She wouldnt let me go to him for like a month and a half until his grandfather died and she let me go visit him. She never forgot about the event and each argument she reminds it. As you could tell my mom is a hardass and I really need help to know how to tell her that I smoke. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! |
| Question: My mom never listens? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:11 PM PDT I recently turned 14 and I'm in the 8th grade. Right now, I have a 0 in math class. Why? Because I don't have time. My math teacher gave me a huge packet of work, and if I complete it, I'm passing the 8th grade! So of course I'm taking that deal. I have 4 siblings one older and 3 younger. My mom always expects me to help with everything, I don't mind but when it gets to the point where I can't focus on my studies, I do mind. My mom says "as long as you live in my household or until you are 18, you do as I say." I attend EVERY family event, they are so use to me obeying, they don't know how to handle me simply saying I can't go or I don't want to. They just went to the beach right now and my mom and I had a big argument because she kept forcing me to go saying I don't have an option. I told her my reasons and she still said I'm going. This packet is due Thursday but I want to get it off my chest by Monday, I'm busy helping with my toddler siblings all week and I can't afford to forget about it or try to finish it last minute. The packet is 12 pages long. She finally gave up and left. My dad said let's just leave and that I'm full of excuses. They think I'm being a rebellious teen or something but I just want to focus on my studies!! Next year I'm going on homeschooling so I can help out more. How do I tell my parents to respect my goals and wishes and actually have them listen?! For anyone who doesn't believe me, I have a dad that plays video games all day and a mom that lacks sleep, so it leaves me to take care of my younger siblings. Diaper changing, entertaining, etc. because my older brother refuses to help me and hibernates in his room allllll day. -.- Since I didn't go to the beach, they expect me to have this whole packet 12 pages, done my the time they get home. |
| Question: Do I have daddy issues ??? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:02 PM PDT My father divorced his ex woe and married my mom. My step siblings still live with us and my dad always favored them because he thought they were being mistreated by my mom which is not true I was really young and he never paid attention to me or my younger sister I am now dating a 24 year old man is it wrong ? Do I have daddy issues ? I'm 17 |
| Question: Help , my little sister is watching bad shows !! , need a parental app? Posted: 16 May 2015 12:01 PM PDT Hello everyone i cought my 11 year old sister watching a tv show called 2 broke girls , it's full of sexual stuff and what not even though i take the app off she keeps installing it and watching i told my parents she lies to them and they believe her also i started to see some changes in her behavior , all i'm asking is an app so i can block the app she's using , and why not be hidden that means she can't get it back and she on't know i blocked it |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 11:59 AM PDT It is an out door party at a park during July or August. |
| Question: My younger brother is being mean, please help.? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:58 AM PDT Well, for the past 2 weeks, my younger brother has been so mean to me. Whenever i try to do my piano he s always like, "can you put on your headphones cause it s really annoying.." or whenever i sing he s like, "STOP IT, YOURE SINGING IS WEIRD AND STRANGE!!!" Which is making me feel down in the dumps lately. And whenever i try to tell my mom she just thinks we re bickering again. So if anyone has an idea for me, please help. Cause im already feeling hurt & dead inside and he s making it worse.. :( |
| Question: Do you have family that expects too much of you? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:57 AM PDT I have family that demands we keep them up to date on everything little thing we do as a family. My family prefers privacy. We don't care for facebook or throwing parties for every little milestone. They are no longer speaking to us because they weren't invited to the parties (that we never had) or we didn't keep a computer on all day long and sit lovingly to respond on the drop of a dime. To get back, they are not including us in on holiday get togethers. How do you handle family that expected you to stop what you're doing to make them happy and satisfied? |
| Question: Should I un-invite my mom to my graduation ceremony? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:55 AM PDT My mom and I never get along, and I am sure she would be a huge embarrassment. But today I feel like was the last straw. I was sitting in the living room, my dad was at the computer, and she walks by me and says "nice dildo honey". Yes, I am 18 and was curious as to what sex toys are like. How she found it, I have no idea. It's not like I leave it out in the open, I kept it hidden away. She must have snooped through my room. This isn't the first time she has invaded my privacy. Anyway, my dad sent me upstairs so he could yell at her. They have been fighting for what seems like an hour now. I am so sick of her ruining my life. Now my dad is involved, and that is SO awkward. I seriously started to hate her a long time ago. I had previously considered telling her she couldn't see me graduate and now I really don't want her there. And she can't just go to the school and buy her own ticket, only students with ID can purchase them. My dad says "we'll see". What should I do? Will not inviting her just cause even more havoc? This event today isn't the only reason to not invite her, there have been years of verbal abuse and crap that she has put me through. |
| Question: Worried about the future? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:48 AM PDT So I am a freshman in high school. I have straight As and I am in all honors. I have a plan to complete all academic courses in school, and my hobbies outside. I am on the varsity women's tennis team and I do competitive martial arts. I have played piano for 6 years. My parents want me to go to university in Europe like they did. My parents want me to start thinking about jobs. But I don't want to be a doctor or engineer or whatnot that my dad wants. My mom is supportive oft interests but never really gives advice. I just don't want to be stuck doing some regular 9-5 job I will end up hating, so I was wondering you guys' opinion on any jobs. I love video games (I'm a huge nerd) and I'm pretty decent at drawing. This summer I'm learning how to computer code (html and C+ I think). So I was thinking about animation for movies or game/graphic design (all electronic). How to I reach these goals? Do I just intern while I'm at university? How do you even GET a job like this that interests you? Thanks to everyone who takes time to answer! |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 11:44 AM PDT I have this rage towards my mother and it's because I always feel like she has treated my siblings better. I was raised in a upper-middle class home, and I had everything I ever needed. When I was 18 my mom kicked me out cos she got sick of trying to take care of my mental health issues. I landed in the hospital at least 10 times a year for suicide attempts or suicidal ideation. Of course she'd be exhausted! But I'm frustrated cos I feel like I had it way harder. My older brother got a car for his 16th birthday, I got 20 dollars. My brothers dorms were paid for by my parents, I didn't get any college support. My brother got a 4,000 dollar cello for his graduation gift, I didn't get anything. My sister is 26 and still lives with my mom and up until this year she did nothing but sit around and play video games. I got kicked out when I turned 18. I was homeless for 6 months until I worked my way up to housing. And it's not really about the gifts my siblings got, but it was more the fact that my mom treated them better. Especially my brother. He was the "perfect child" and my mom always went out of her way to spend time with him, but she never wanted to spend time with me. I think part of the reason is that my mom sees a lot of her in me? I found her when I was 8 after she had attempted suicide and 3 times after that. And because I had suicide attempts, maybe she saw that same thing in me? But my point is, does this make me spoiled? @David, Hi, I currently have many diagnosis' all of which are not aspergers or autism related. I have a psychiatrist and therapist and if I am looking to be properly diagnosed, I will talk to one of them. But please, unless you are a trained professional, do not go diagnosing people. Many people don't understand that, to get a proper diagnosis, you must see a trained professional. self-diagnosing, or "friend"-diagnosing can be dangerous. (continued) (continued to David) And plus, just with one situation in my life, you cannot possibly know my diagnosis. Please be more careful, as many people are much more naive than me. |
| Question: We only want to have one baby? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:44 AM PDT Is this selfish to "deny" our child a sibling? I was not and still am not close to my brother. I'm 29 and my husband is 30 and we are due June 18th. We both feel as though one baby will complete our family, we plan to put her in preschool, have play dates, and try out alot of sports. Do you think it is selfish to have 1 child? |
| Question: Little sister out of control!!? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:42 AM PDT please click the link read what was written then come back here and please tell me what to do!! http://www.wattpad.com/129867390-please-help-me-untitled-part-1 |
| Question: My dad watches child porn and was caught 15 years ago. He still watches it EVERYDAY.? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:40 AM PDT Well I'm 15 now (boy) and he's not gay (thank god). I've told my mom, my grandmother, basically everybody. We live in one big house and even though it's my grandmothers house my mom keeps inviting him over and trying to get him to stay even though nor do I or my grandma, the rest of the family want to. Can't kick her out so what do I do? I HATE HIM! he was caught once by the authorities yet he got out by bail. He's still doing it and I'd feel bad by throwing him in the hole. well then. can't wait to be 18 and move out of this hellhole, probably going to stay at my friends for the most part. thanks i guess. |
| Question: If your boyfriend has a scarred back how would you react? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:38 AM PDT It makes me rather uncomfortable. I asked if he was into kinky relationship before and he said no, and he seemed upset by my question. This makes me feel like I know him less. We've been together for around 8 months but we only sleep together very recently. He's a good guy I believe but sometimes unnecessarily secretive and in fact I know virtually nothing about him except his former university where we met and current job. I'm 22 and 4 years younger than he, and he's my first serious bf with whom I sleep, so I'm inexperienced in this matter. Any insight? Thanks. |
| Question: My sister is always mean!!!? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:36 AM PDT Okay, so my sister is older than me by 2 years. She thinks she can always get her way and if she doesn't she gets mad. She blames me for everything. Another thing is that she'll be nice but if her boyfriend comes over she'll suddenly be mad at everyone. Is it for attention? For example I was playing something and she told me to play somewhere else. I was like, "okay, one second" and she smiled and said "thank you." Like a split second later her boyfriend came in and she got all in my face and yelled at me for not moving. Then I went into the living room (where they were) and my sister told me to go away and she'll PAY me. Like, that's so mean!! She always makes fun of me, too. She took my movie and I told her to ask next time, so she gets mad at me! We share a room, and she doesn't like the same music as me. I was listening to a song so she put on one of her songs while mine was on. I was mad but I didn't say anything, I just turned mine off. But later, she turned on a song and I didn't like it so I did what she did to me, turned on my music, and she gets mad. She's a spoiled brat. I know its little stuff, but it happens all the time. What do I do? |
| Question: Mother doesn't think partner is right for me? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:30 AM PDT So i have been with my partner for over a year now, he has become a father to my 4 year old and does amazingly well and treats us the best he can (he doesn't live with me currently) now me and my partner argue and fight like all couple they only last half an hour and we always fix the issue straight away, i have recently been diagnosed with savere depression and he has helped me so much but for some reason my mother does not think that he is the right person for me and i'm not sure why :/ |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 11:29 AM PDT I think his name may have been changed too! I signed up on the registry of ny already and no avail. He had a speech impediment as well. Rarely spoke. Please help |
| Question: I just feel pretty down in the dumps right now.? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:22 AM PDT Okay So I have a sister that I hardly ever see she lives in Seattle and she doesn't visit often I live in Houston. But whats upsetting me is the fact my dad was never a dad to her she doesnt picture him as her dad and probably hates his guts I would to consider he abandoned her and acted a though she pretty much didnt exsist but what really bothering me even more is I want to have a relationship with her I think of her as my sister but we're not close at all Ive only see her 6 times in my hole life she is 30 im 17 so theres a big age difference but I want to be her brother and I want her to be my sister I just dont really know how to go about it I want to tell her that I hate my dad for what he did to and I want her in my life it upsets me and make me want to cry when I think about her all I want is for use to have a relationship I mean we've never really tride and shes seem more like a sister and less as a mom than my other sister. Who thanks she is my mom and I wish she would just be my sister instead. She did did take care of me when I was little because my biological mother is a psychopath. And I know that she loves me but she is not my mom and she thinks she iy mom. My mom is my dads ex wife and that won't ever change she thinks of me as a son and I think of her as my mom I just wish she would be my sister for once instead of my mom because that's not her place but I don't know what to tell her I've been talking about this a lot to my mom but I still dont know what do. |
| Question: How old to have privacy from my parent? I am a freshman please read details.? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:22 AM PDT First off I live with my dad, I have my computer out on the counter downstairs because I like it open, I don't use it in my room because I don't like to. When he sees me on it often he asks "what are you doing"? It doesn't matter if I'm typing a paper for school he will just pry and ask about details. I am 14 and he always insists on an answer which is really aggravating me. I have NEVER done anything bad/consider bad on the computer and NEVER gotten in trouble with my computer. Finally he asked me while I was researching a movie plot and we had an argument where he said I have great freedom on my computer and said he doesn't monitor me or use parental controls on my computer. As if he could :) but it is a big problem. My main question is: As a freshman (14) who has never once done anything bad on the computer have some more privacy? Also are there any laws in place protecting my privacy? Thank You in advance! |
| Question: Are my parents being fair? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:22 AM PDT So they make me play golf and they told me that all I have to do is play 5 holes out of the 18 holes we play. they promised this to me. so I was telling my dad that I only had 2 holes left to play since I played 3, but then he said you need to play 9. And i said no, you told me to play 5 remember? and he said no, I never said that. And so then I told him to ask my mom and she said they told me to play 9 when it never was. They're trying to make it look like they promised me this just to make me play. It's pathetic how they think I'm an idiot. |
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| Question: What can I do about my mother? Posted: 16 May 2015 11:09 AM PDT I just can't stand what my mother does to me. I love her so much, and would do anything that she wants me to do. But all in all, I can't see her being the same way. It all starts with school. I'm 17, and I excel very well in school. I average at least a 90%(A) in every subject I take, regardless of what it is. Sometimes, when I achieve something really good at school, say perhaps a 100%, I usually go to my mom and tell her about it. She shrugs it off, and tells me that "I bet I won't see that on the report card". I give her my report card, my marks are really high, and she still ignores it. She just doesn't support me in whatever I do. Finally, whenever I want to go out with friends to play sports or such, I usually take the city bus to save my parents some gas money. Our express bussing system where I live closes at around 7(which is weird, believe me) so sometimes, not all the time, I ask my parents to pick me up from my location. Mind you, I rarely go out anyways, maybe like twice in the span of 2 weeks. Then, they have the nerve to tell me that I order them around to pick me up. I even take the school bus to school, saving them even more money, yet they still think that I order them to take me everywhere and anywhere i want to go. Don't think of me as a brat, as I love my parents so much, yet I'm not getting the respect or physical affection or support from them. Any ideas you guys could give me that would help me with this problem? |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 11:00 AM PDT So my parents are giving me problems. Some background info: I'm 13 and male. So the problem is: Mom: She was very inactive as a child, didn't play sports or anything. She always pushes me to do things I hate like Bible Quiz, sports, and she's trying to get me to do football, which I despise. She doesn't understand why I'd rather text friends then go outside. She called all my school friends deadbeats and said I needed to stop talking to them and get new friends. I have never had true friends up until this year, before that I was bullied and sad all the time. I don't care about sports. I did a year of wrestling, which I liked, but I don't want to do it again, which she is making me. I don't have the courage to talk to her and if I try she interrupts and fusses at me. She claims she's failed me because I don't like talking to people at church, who I have never been able to connect to because I like anime and am quiet. They all like sports and are 'model' children. I can't do this for 5 more years. My mom never hits me, I just feel she's trying to live through me and make her and me happy, but I'm not happy doing this. She will tear up and cry to guilt me into things and say shes failed as a parent. Dad: He's too laid back, but can become mad in a second, he also never hits me. He doesn't push like mom. Neither of them do things with me or my two brothers. We never have fun or go places. My brothers can't ever get along in public and embarrass us. |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 11:00 AM PDT so like my dad says nothing to me but just what a piece of **** i am. he thinks i have a high opinion of myself , am an ego . he calls me retarded and mentally ill(maybe i am suicidal but hey im alright) or the most stupid things he can think of : for example today , for not sharing my plug point with my brother (im in **** terms with him) he said that it is a 'symptom' of a mental illness... PLEASE POINT OUT LIKE WHAT ILLNESS IN THIS FREAKING UNIVERSE SHOWS SYMPTOMS OH HATRED TOWARDS A PERSON WHO MAKES LIFE **** FOR YOU.my dad likes discouraging me in my educational field . its like he gets paid for it .i know i dont try my very best , but i do try . im not some wonderkid who has an iq of 500. its 178 btw . i told him that , he said :'i think you mean 'minus' 178'.he finds fault in everything i do. he detests my tastes, says that he expexted something else. he dosnt get the fact that im not him. i hope ill never be like him. my brother is simply a ... a .. well i cant find the right word for the amount of hatred i have towards him. sometimes i think of dying just to escape this life with him. hes the elder brother .i wont talk too much about him anyway . hes basically all the bad words united. its like im this glass sheet , and they throw stones at me. the cracks keep on building up . someday the sheet will break. what then . so like i dont know what to do. theres more but theres a word limit here ;P |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 11:00 AM PDT so like my dad says nothing to me but just what a piece of **** i am. he thinks i have a high opinion of myself , am an ego . he calls me retarded and mentally ill(maybe i am suicidal but hey im alright) or the most stupid things he can think of : for example today , for not sharing my plug point with my brother (im in **** terms with him) he said that it is a 'symptom' of a mental illness... PLEASE POINT OUT LIKE WHAT ILLNESS IN THIS FREAKING UNIVERSE SHOWS SYMPTOMS OH HATRED TOWARDS A PERSON WHO MAKES LIFE **** FOR YOU.my dad likes discouraging me in my educational field . its like he gets paid for it .i know i dont try my very best , but i do try . im not some wonderkid who has an iq of 500. its 178 btw . i told him that , he said :'i think you mean 'minus' 178'.he finds fault in everything i do. he detests my tastes, says that he expexted something else. he dosnt get the fact that im not him. i hope ill never be like him. my brother is simply a ... a .. well i cant find the right word for the amount of hatred i have towards him. sometimes i think of dying just to escape this life with him. hes the elder brother .i wont talk too much about him anyway . hes basically all the bad words united. its like im this glass sheet , and they throw stones at me. the cracks keep on building up . someday the sheet will break. what then . so like i dont know what to do. theres more but theres a word limit here ;P |
| Question: I can't deal with my family anymore.? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT It's mostly my mother, I am extremely jealous of people who have good mother-daughter relationships with their mom and it just gets on my nerves that I can't have a conversation with her for a whole month maybe. Earlier, when my friends started bullying me, she started shouting at me and getting mad it seems she likes the idea of me being bullied. And she always screams at me to the point I'd be scared to cry because she'll treat me more horribly for crying. At most times I crouch on the bathroom floor and try crying in silence because if she catches me, I'm dead. I feel like I don't even have a mother because she doesn't treat me nicely and she's never around and I've caught her various times talking to other men but I haven't told my dad because I don't want to create problems. My dad never really cares about anything, he's rude and likes silence and we only see him rarely since he goes to work and sleeps then back to work again. My older sister does everything wrong and she is cruel and mean and it strongly irritates me to see everyone be nice to her when I don't have a pinch of that 'nice' even though I truly deserve more than it. I'm a sensitive, sweet and kind girl and I don't like hurting anyone's feelings and I don't like being hurt either because I'll mostly overreact it but trust me what I wrote is nothing compared to real life. And people say I should try and solve it but I've tried a lot of times. If I had a choice to just leave I would've done that long ago. |
| Question: How long should I distance myself from my dsyfuctional family? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:54 AM PDT I was going to disown them, would it be wrong? My grandmother is using domestic violence towards me, mom does drugs and was not in my life, dad is nowhere in sight and haven't seen him since I was 18, and my siblings and I do not get along; I am the outcast in my family. I was the first to go to college and get an education and I do think there is jealousy going on. I work in the medical field and decided to go back to college. I am moving out in July; its a new chapter for me so, my girls and I can have a better life for me and them. It will never get better where I am. How to face these new challanges ahead? |
| Question: How do I talk to her? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:50 AM PDT I'm in the last month of freshman year in high school. This summer, I will transfer to another school because I don't like the things that we are studying in my current one (I wont get detailed about that). There is this other girl in the other class, but the same year. She is a few weeks older than me. She's a very beautiful girl, but I fear she might be one of those Facebook selfie girls. And I'm one of those not-so-popular guys. I have only been in one realtionship before, but I dont know if it counts, because it was a long distance one. And I have become much braver than when I was a kid and I can talk to girls, just not the one I have a crush on. So, could you help me with breaking the ice and how not to get friend-zoned? Btw, if you need more info about me to state an answer, I can give it: I play guitar, I sometimes rap freestyle, my favorite music genre is rap, I can draw very good and I like comedies. Hope that's enough. Thanks in advance. (I know I should have posted this in another topic, but I just didn't get any answers there). |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 10:42 AM PDT and half polish she is 5'5 with green eyes and a dark complexion she says my bio dad has curly red hair green eyes pale with freckles and irish standing at 6'2 i am 5'3 blue eyes chocolate ash brown hair thats bone straight (no joke) and have normal white girl complexion im pretty sure she is lyin about who my bio dad is wat do yall think btw im 22 and done growin shes lied alot to me before tho and when i bring him up at emergency hospital visits i use his name and she goes "who?" i know it was a long time ago but u would thing she would remember her childs fathers name |
| Question: How to get your parents to buy you something? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:40 AM PDT I want a rainbow loom but my parents are pretty stubborn, and I don't Think I can get it because I have a wonder loom already. My mom doesn't get me anything if I do work around the house for it, because she sees that as a form of bribing. What I want costs $13, but my mom always says, it's not the price that bothers me, it's the fact that you don't take care of it. I started to appreciate and take care of my stuff, but she does not believe me. Plus I'm really shy and think they might say no. Btw, it's not like we are poor. We're middle class people. So how do I convince my mom? |
| Question: What do I do? I feel lost and restless and scared? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:38 AM PDT My parents always had a rocky relAtionship. To make a long story short, there was a huge fight, the police came, my dad boarded himself up downstairs, and my parents are getting a divorce. I realize know that this was inevitable, but I'm still shaken by if. Where do I go from here? Am I going to be homeless? My mom can't really support us. Will I keep going to school? My dad said he doesn't want custody at all. Am I going to move? Is it going to be alright? Is my life ever going to be the same? Will god help us? |
| Question: Is it bad that I don't like my sister? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:34 AM PDT She's only 13 but I seriously hate her. She's a stuck up brat and tells my friends that I'm soooooo jealous of her and that she's better than me. She's not. She never even goes to school and probably has straight F's, she misses so much that the district officer came to our house before. She cuts herself because her friends do it and she runs away from home a lot too. And she's one of those girls who starts drama 5 girls wanted to jump her one time. She's mean to my mom she makes fun of my older sister and calls her a fat pig. I think she even smokes marijuana. You can't have a simple conversation with her because she gets mad and when she gets mad she starts throwing glass all over the house we had to call the cops on her a lot of times. When I'm home and she's there it's so miserable. |
| Question: How do I overcome the hatred I feel for my mother? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:12 AM PDT She's a compulsive shopper, a control-freak, and a moderate hoarder. I can't tell if she's bi-polar, but sometimes it feels like she truly loves and supports me and wants what's best for me, and other times I feel emotionally abused and shamed into feeling guilty. I'm tired of living in a house where I trip over piles of paper and random boxes everyday. I'm going to college a few hours away this august, which will help immensely, but my dad is moving to Colorado for his job so my mom has to clean the house and try to sell it. She wants my dad to spend any vacation days he has coming back to help her and I know she'll want me to come help too. Its her stuff that needs to be thrown out or donated, but she makes it seem like its me and my dads fault. If she can't clean it up, the responsibility will fall on me, and if by some miracle she can clean it up in order to move, it will make me feel like I never meant enough to her to even try. I locked myself in my room, ended up in screaming matches, tried cleaning myself, and even ran away once to try and get her to clean before, but she never has. I struggle not to hate my mother and I feel guilty for it. How do I come to terms with all of this? |
| Question: Can my mom kick me out of the house? (I'm 12)? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:11 AM PDT so yesterday I forgot to vacuum my room and my mom told me to so she flipped out and said I didn't listen to anything she said and long story short she said I can burn in hell for all she cares and i don't deserve her and by the time I'm 13 ill be drinking and in jail. she made me pack my clothes and anything I can't fit in my suitcase she's going to throw out.(i havent finished packing yet) as of right now, my dads at the beach with his girlfriend (I hate both of them) and he's coming back today. when he comes back, my mom said she's dropping me off there. I really don't want to go to his house. also, last night I wrote her a note and put it by her door but she opened her door I saw her throw it out which pissed me off so much because I spent so much time writing it. I'd thought I'd give her some time and not talk to her for about a day but she just keeps on yelling at me and is telling me to finish packing. but what I'm really sad about is leaving my brother because he's my best friend and I know I can tell him anything but he's staying with my mom. we're only a year apart and I'm going to miss him so much. I keep on having panic attacks and I'm not sure if its because I'm going to miss my mom or if I'm mad at my mom or what. also, I tried telling her how much I love her and I don't want to leave but she won't listen. what do I do. I just turned 12 in April and everything is already falling apart. |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 10:10 AM PDT My mother is quite isolated from her family. She doesn't keep contact with her sisters, and because of that I haven't met my cousin for years. Though she has been hurt before because of her family. Still I think that she should let me meet my relatives, just to catch up with everything that has happened in the last 16 years and get to know them. Well, now my mother is also denying my meetings (once or twice a year) with my grandmother. My grandma likes to drink, so I ques that's the reason why my mom won't let me go. But in a year I am an adult, and I have been able to take care of myself just fine before too. I have a close bond with my grandma, and I think my mother is not willing to admit it, and that's also a reason for her acting. I'm just clueless of what I should do or say, in case of getting to stay with my grandparents for the summer. Help please :/ |
| Question: 17 and pregnant help :(? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:09 AM PDT So I am in a really bad situation. I am 17 years old and currently 5 months pregnant. I moved in with my fiancé 3 weeks ago & so far I feel SO uncomfortable. I love with his mom, step dad, and brother. They are really nice people but it's just that I really don't know them. I'm staying here at this house but its doesnt feel like home I'm depressed. I disappointed my parents by leaving because they think I should get married before I leave the house & I agree. It's just that my fiancé was being kinda pushy and rude towards the whole situation. I left on a Friday night & my parents were so sad and so was I but happy at the same time. I didn't want to leave but I just had that feeling that if I don't leave with him he wouldn't want me anymore. Me and my fiancé have been arguing a lot & we have had a couple fights. He doesn't understand I feel uncomfortable here.. And he already said that if I leave, there will be nothing between us no more, that we will only be there for our son and nothing else. That CRUSHES me. Is that TRUE LOVE? I feel like it honestly isint. On Thursday I got into an argument again & he said he was taking me back home Froday night & I said okay. But when he came home from work my feelings got to me & I cried saying I don't wanna leave. And then everything came back to normal. If I try leaving I know he wouldnt wanna be with me. That's why I'm stuck here & only not to loose him. What do I do? There's also a lot of stuff I've been noticing about him thatidont |
| Question: My son saw me masturbating? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:06 AM PDT Hello. I am 39 years old and this is the most shameful thing I have ever had to admit. My 14 year old son had left the house to go walk to school and after being gone for about 5 minutes I decided to have a little me time. (My husband and I divorced and I hadn't been sexually active in years) I got totally naked and laid on the couch in the living room and started to touch myself. I was starting to get wet then I decided to get my toy. I got up went to my room and came back out with it. Just as I laid down and put it inside me I heard a yell. "MOM" it was my son he must have come in when I was out. I didn't know what to do so I said sorry hon and got up still naked and humiliated and went to my room. I put clothes on, came out and he was gone. I don't even know why he came back he hasn't said a word to me since it happened yesterday. I feel horrible he must think his own mother is a slut. How can I handle this I don't know what to do and I have never been more humiliated in my life. Please any advice would be appreciated. |
| Question: My tutor is keep making me feel bad? Posted: 16 May 2015 10:00 AM PDT i do SAT with him and i did for a year.. and of course... during that year i would improve??!!! but since i get most of the questions right he thinks im looking at answers because when he asks me what the error is.. i dont know... but i do know the error.. i dont know why but he expexts me to know all the errors when i get the question right. and so he tells me.. "this will take a longg time for you.." sighing.. and im trying to do my best.. and idk what he wants me to do.. get all the questions wrong?? and when i memeorize vocab he gets mad at me if i dont memeorize the voacb definition word to word in the book.. but i dont know what the definistion means sometimes so i search on google and he gets mad saying that the book is based on the SAT thing so i should ememorize it like that.. theres no other tutors around here and im stuck with him.. i tell my mom and shes like.. "just work hard.." what would you do if you were me? |
| Question: How do i deal with not being able to eat in my house? Posted: 16 May 2015 09:57 AM PDT I'm a teenage girl , and every weekend my mom decides to make breakfast. Whenever I wake up , the pots, and pans are scraped empty leaving me to eat a granola bar or possibly leftover dinner as my breakfast while everyone else stuffs their face with eggs, bacon , pancakes and sausage while I just have to deal with just so that my mother won't go off on me. How should I tell her that I don't eat enough during the day? |
| Posted: 16 May 2015 09:46 AM PDT My dad is the only one in my family who likes golf but all of us have to play every week because he forces us to. But whenever we go to play golf, he gets super pissed at us every time we make a mistake. And he says we should play to have family time when it's actually him just getting super mad at us the entire time. He yelled at my mom for coming out late to leave for golf which I thought was mean. |
| Question: Do you think my dad is unfair? Posted: 16 May 2015 09:44 AM PDT My dad makes me play golf and whenever I do something wrong, he gets super pissed off and yells at me. Today he told me and my brother to wait in the car so that we could leave early for golf and we had to wait in the car for 30 minutes because of him and my mom. Then later I went back into the house to get my hat and he start yelling at me saying that we're late because of me. Plus he always ignores me. So whenever I have to repeat something, I have to say it louder so he hears me and he gets super pissed off and says that I have a horrible attitude. |
| Question: How to move away when I need to move away? Posted: 16 May 2015 09:29 AM PDT I live in a town in Michigan bordering Wisconsin. I've been working since I got out of high school. I tried college, but working full-time with part-time college was too much, and my parents never made learning and school important, so it's very hard for me to learn.. I worked at a lumber mill for almost two years, and now I've been in a shipyard for a year.. I feel like I'm going nowhere. My "family" drags me down a lot. They put me down my entire life, and now that I make my own money, they act like I owe them my life. I have no friends in this town. I have a small apartment (which I love).. But overall I will never get anywhere living here. I have some family in Austin, and I'd love to live there.. Other issues I have are very bad money management skills and I have an issue parting with my material items.. (Mom is a hoarder)... My "future" in this town is very dark and terrifying for me.. I need some good advice on where to start. I'm all alone on this one. |
| Question: My dad has anger issues.? Posted: 16 May 2015 09:16 AM PDT My dad just gets so angry sometimes and I don't know what to do. He freaks out and just starts screaming when he thinks I'm "trying to push his buttons on purpose" when all im trying to do is explain my side of the story and ask him to help me out a little... He takes medicine for it but he's still so scary sometimes.. just little problems like forgetting to do the dishes etc. he has never hit me, and he never will but its just really stressful and i dont know what to do. we cant afford therapy anymore.. |
| Question: What is your family eating today? Just a poll, thank you.? Posted: 16 May 2015 09:08 AM PDT |
| Question: Im poor my.brother lost 6 grand at the.boat.is.he.wrong? Posted: 16 May 2015 08:56 AM PDT Ive.been.living.in.hotels my.brother spent 6 grand.at casino but.wouldnt.help.me.is he.a.asshile.jerkface? |
| Question: What are my odds on getting full custody? Posted: 16 May 2015 08:45 AM PDT Ok, so my baby's mother Is on the whole government housing deal right now. It was brought to my attention that government housing is given to you to have a place to live until you find a job and get on your feet, well that's not the case with her! She has gotten all of my support the last year and hasn't gotten a job once! She has her mom and boyfriend living at her apartment and they take care of my child, but the thing that bothers me the most is she hasn't lived there for a month now! She went to another state and left my baby here with her parents and she didn't tell me, she also has her visa that my support goes onto. So my support isn't going to my child, but her instead. I am 21 years old now have a house, vehicle, and I'm engaged to my fiancée. My fiancée and I just had our daughter a couple months ago I have proven I am more mature and are more financially stable to maintain and take care of my children. So I want to take my son from my baby mama (this is for my sons best interest, not because I want to hurt her). So my question is how do I begin this process to get custody and what are my chances on being able to get him? I know it's not easy to take a child from his or her mother, but she has proven that she doesn't want to take care of our child. I have talked to her about signing him over and she said "no way in hell"! Please help!!!! |
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