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- Question: Did I deserve to be shouted at by my mum?
- Question: Can my bf dad get us in trouble by living together?
- Question: Things to do with my friend after her surgery?
- Question: Could my mom be pragnant?
- Question: How do you guys hande bringing g/f back to your house?
- Question: I don't want my mom or dad at the birth of my baby daughter.?
- Question: My mom smokes but hides it from me. what should I do?
- Question: I am tired of dealing with my father's superiority complex?
- Question: I think i'm a robot?
- Question: I'm afraid of my grandma dying, how do I cope?!?
- Question: I FOUND SEX TOYS IN MY PARENTS ROOM!!?
- Question: Is it me..?
- Question: What to do when someone confiscates something from you?
- Question: Pregnant from underwear?
- Question: My Parents Only Gave Me 5GB Of Data?
- Question: Was I molested as a child?
- Question: What percentage of fathers cut their child's cord?
- Question: How come my mom is so shallow?
- Question: How would you handle a verbally abusive/manipulative mother?
- Question: Only Muslims are requested to answer in the light of Islamic Shariyat?
- Question: Would I be a bad person if I did this?
- Question: What other choice do I have?
- Question: Parents don't give me any privacy?
- Question: Girls only. sex toy help?
- Question: Why does my sister chose video games over me?
- Question: Can i call the police on my brother?
- Question: Should my mom call me first?
- Question: My cousin is my teacher?
- Question: Am i in the wrong?
- Question: Why my little brother listen to only me?
- Question: Am i doing too much for my family?
- Question: I cant be nice to my parents?
- Question: Fighting with parents ?
- Question: I need a good antiporn that I cannot get around, much less my teenagers. Suggestions?
- Question: Is it weird to call my dad "daddy"?
- Question: Why do YOU think this girl randomly stopped replying to my texts... ABUSIVE PARENTS or IGNORING ME?
- Question: My family is so negative?
- Question: How to have sons instead of daughters? could you give me advice please?
- Question: I hate woman for being so weak?
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- Question: What should I do about my dad?
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- Question: I hate myself for what i did in the past i almost had sex with my sister?
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- Question: Is it bad if i love my biological son more than my stepson?
- Question: Why does my mom yell at me so much?
| Question: Did I deserve to be shouted at by my mum? Posted: 27 May 2015 01:10 PM PDT Lately I've been depressed and angry because last month, I discovered my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with TEN other girls. I still feel depressed and angry today, and I've been taking it out on people I love - especially my mum. About half an hour ago, my mum asked me to make her a cup of tea. I said I didn't want to - but I did anyway. While I was making it, I heard her talking about my ex who cheated on me. I got so infuriated hearing his name. After making her cup of tea, I shouted "Hear's your tea, your majesty" and threw the mug to the floor with a great force. Bits of her mug flew everywhere, and the tea stained the carpet. She started shouting at me. She called me names such as an "irresponsible, selfish brat" and a "miserable cow". I then shouted back "how dare you call me those names. How dare you talk about my f**king stupid ex boyfriend." I then got so livid I slapped my mum across the face and stormed off to my room. She then started calling me a "stupid, selfish thug" after that slap. Did I really deserve to be shouted at? |
| Question: Can my bf dad get us in trouble by living together? Posted: 27 May 2015 01:09 PM PDT My boyfriends parents are divorced. He lives with his mom and i recently moved in. His mom is okay with it and so is my guardian, but my boyfriends dad doesnt like me living here and keeps threatening to calling the cops and dhs. We live in mississippi and he is 17 and im 16. |
| Question: Things to do with my friend after her surgery? Posted: 27 May 2015 01:07 PM PDT My friend's getting surgery next month, like a week after school lets out (around June 14th, I think) and I wanted to do something to help her out, since she's gonna be on bedrest most of summer. I'm not sure what my work schedule/parent's plans are gonna be like but I don't think I'm going to be there while she's in the hospital afterwards, but hopefully I can see her here and there. A) I want to do a care package thingy, what kinds of post-surgery things do people usually want/need? Not personal stuff like candy or something she likes to do, but like practical things that could help her out? B) What are some fun things we can do while she's on bedrest/recovering? (she's sixteen) I'm not sure exactly what the surgery is--she had cancer when she was younger and they had to give her a titanium rib and I think they're they're switching it out since she's older and has grown. (some of the details may be a little foggy but that's the general idea) |
| Question: Could my mom be pragnant? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT My mom has been tired and has been getting sick more than usual for the past few months. She got her blood taken and checked a couple months ago. And my dad asked me and my sisters if we would like to have a baby brother or sister. My parents also bought a new car with 8 seats instead of 7(I only have 7 people in my family). And I saw pragnace tests in her bathroom a few months ago. And my mom is 42 and my dad is 38. I don't know if she could be pragnant or not. I really hope she is though because I really want a baby brother or sister |
| Question: How do you guys hande bringing g/f back to your house? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT My question is when you guys are hanging out with your b/f or g/f and your gonna go back to hang at your house, do you notify your family? Do you do it all the time. What's your protocol for bringing people back to your house? |
| Question: I don't want my mom or dad at the birth of my baby daughter.? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT I never got along with my parents but they both want to watch my birth. My boyfriend hates them too. I want his mom and aunt at my birth though as well as his sisters since they are about the only girls who I feel good with and as is with his mom. Do you think I'm being fair or just excluding my mom and dad...? Please answer quickly, my due date is next week. |
| Question: My mom smokes but hides it from me. what should I do? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:53 PM PDT My mom definitely smokes but she hides it from me. We are REALLY close but I still just feel like I shouldn't tell her that I know and I want her to stop. I would tell and ask my sister for help but I feel like that would be mean to my mom cause she's tried hard to conceal it. I also wouldn't know what to say if I do tell my mom I want her to stop and I know that she smokes... Any help? |
| Question: I am tired of dealing with my father's superiority complex? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:52 PM PDT I am so tired of dealing with my father's superiority complex. I HATE it when people genuinely think they are superior than others! He ALWAYS belittles people in our family who aren't as financially successful as he is. He rubs in everyone's face his paid off house and financially independent status and talks constantly about other peoples failures, shitty *** jobs, lonely lives and how they're tied to debt and he isn't. How do I get him to shut the **** up? |
| Question: I think i'm a robot? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:46 PM PDT I think i'm a robot. Should I tell my parents? |
| Question: I'm afraid of my grandma dying, how do I cope?!? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:46 PM PDT So let me start off by saying I'm 14 and my grandma is 68. My grandmother has been raising me since basically the day I was born, (my parents were teen parents plus my mom died when I was five and my dad is raising my two little half sisters) My aunt also helps my grandma and has also been there since I was born but I've always been closer to grandma. I'm so scared of losing my grandmother, she's healthy, she has diabetes though. But she takes diabetic pills and lately her sugars been really good and she never had to go to the hospital for her sugar, she never has to go to the hospital for anything. No heart problems. No liver problems. No cancer. Its just she's almost close to the 70 mark and I'm so scared. I can't imagine life without my grandma. I can't imagine the last time I ever see her is in a casket. I'm currently having a struggle with my religion, I believe in god and Jesus but I don't really believe there's a heaven. I want to believe but I find it really hard. I don't think I'll ever be able to move on if I lost her so soon. It kills me to think that maybe my grandma won't see me walk down the aisle one day, or wont meet her great grandchildren. And in a way I envy my older cousin because grandma got to see her wedding and her baby. Grandma also got to see her high school graduation. I'm just afraid grandma won't live long enough to make it to mine. I just know I won't cope right with the loss of my grandma, whether its soon or later on in the future I'm so scared |
| Question: I FOUND SEX TOYS IN MY PARENTS ROOM!!? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:45 PM PDT **THIS IS NOT A TROLL QUESTION! I WANT SERIOUS ANSWERS!** Some years ago, i was nine. My mom and dad just took my Nintendo DS because i had been acting bad, so i started looking in their room. While digging in the clothes drawers i found some... weird ******* ****. I didnt get it as nine, but i do now... And some days ago, my parents took some stuff i had ordered from ebay and hid it, and while i was looking for it i opened their locker and there was more weird stuff... a bunch of movies with ****** up names, a pink hairpiece and some sort of fricking horse whip! I know all adults have sex and all that stuff, but its weird when its my ******* PARENTS! I've tried to forget, but y'know it makes stuff really weird for me to be around them... |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 12:31 PM PDT Hi, sorry if i rant.. alot has been going on, but alot has changed between me and my mom.. im 14 btw, but me and my mom used to do everything together when I was like 10.. we used to go shopping, we used to get our nails done together, but then all of that stopped because I was going through a change with myself.. I started to hate myself and I despised going out in public because I thought I was the ugliest thing in the world, so I mostly stayed home and she started going places by herself because I was ashamed of myself but she didn't know that. Anyways fast forward 3 years later.. we moved.. with my auntie, shes very loud, she always asks my mom to pay for everything, shes funny.. sometimes, she's very bold and opinionated and judgemental.. and for some reason everytime she comes around I just get a bad vibe and I feel like I cant be myself around her.. the only time I actually accept when shes around is when she brings my cousin with her.. other than that, I keep to myself and become distant. because I feel like she'll judge me because shes very judgemental and my mom will take her side like always. I just miss when me and my mom would do things together like old times.. it would be just US, but everytime my auntie calls she stops what shes doing and stays out with her all day, but whenever I ask my mom to go somewhere where it;s just us, she always suggests that my auntie tags along and that makes me say nevermind. maybe it is my fault.. |
| Question: What to do when someone confiscates something from you? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:28 PM PDT I ordered some stuff from Ebay some weeks ago, and i've been looking forward for my items to arrive for many days. Usually i need to ask my dad for stuff like this, but he was away for some days so i asked my mom who said i could order the stuff if it was under 15 $ and i paid afterwards. So i come home from school and my dad looks at me angry, asking why the hell i had ordered something without his permission. I said Mom said yes, but then he said i couldnt just get what i want without any special reason. So he confiscated the items (it was a new charger for my phone and a new mousepad for my PC) and put them away, and hes been looking bad at me all week, he talks weird to me, and brings up the "disrespect" i showed him. So what is right? Him taking something because i cant get whatever i want, or me getting it because my mother said yes? How could i get my stuff back? |
| Question: Pregnant from underwear? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:27 PM PDT He have them to me and said they were clean. I wore a pad too when I wore then. There isn't any trace of anything on the underwear. As far as I can tell they are clean. He says he hasn't worn them in three weeks Serious answers only please I'm freaking out |
| Question: My Parents Only Gave Me 5GB Of Data? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:21 PM PDT Both my parents have unlimited data on their phone. Which, Is unnecessary. Use it to get on Facebook and Instagram and other social networks without having to pay for extra LTE. It is 2015 and many teachers are asking to do phone related activities especially since it is the end of the year. When I first got my phone, the deal was that we would all share 30 GB. Are without me knowing, they change the dad of plan so it would be unlimited on their phones but five gigs on my phone. Had a text from AT&T this morning saying that I have wasted over 75% of my data. I check and see that you are only 4.3 GB and that is class related. Why would they do something like this? I only use about 5 to 7 GB and they collectively use 15 GB. Or should I approach them? Monday done my phone plan, I was never informed of how many gigabytes I had until the AT&T man told me. Mother just said don't use the Internet at all without wifi. For the sole purpose of her getting more data on her phone instead of mine. I don't know when, but they customized my phone plan so they could get unlimited LTE, And I only get 5 or 6 gigs. I am so pissed! What do I tell them? I am not mad because I get to use Internet less but because I'm not going to be able to complete assignments to this new data arrangement. |
| Question: Was I molested as a child? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:20 PM PDT My cousin would come sleepover at my house almost every weekend. Keep in mind that he is 9 years older than me. I was 5 and he was 14. He would sleep in my older brothers room. I remember that when he would be playing video games, I would ask if I can play. He would say yeah but for a kiss. I would kiss him thinking that it was funny. I remember that we would make out, but I didn't understand why. I was only 5. My shirt would come off and sometimes my pants would too. I don't remember if my underwear did. I remember my mom took me a bath one night after my cousin left. There was some black sticky stuff stuck around my vag. No one knew where it was from. I didn't even know where it was from. When I turned 6, I stopped kissing my cousin. I knew it was wrong at that age. He would try saying that I can only play if I kissed him. So I decided that I didn't want to play anymore. I don't know if I was molested. I was young so I don't remember much from back then. I'm pretty sure kissing your cousin isn't against the law, so that's not really important. I never told anyone about it. My sister knows though. She saw him telling me to make out with him. He would also tell her too. I'm 14 now and he's 23. Can you help asking me questions and trying to make me remember. |
| Question: What percentage of fathers cut their child's cord? Posted: 27 May 2015 12:11 PM PDT I'm curious over whether it is more common for the father or midwife to cut the cord of a newborn baby? I asked my parents about me, and both me and my sister had ours cut by the midwife, yet the majority of children when asked claim that the people they know had it done by the father. Is it more common to have it done like them, or for someone who works in the hospital to do so? Additionally, would it be more common for the father to do so in the UK or US, or is there no difference? |
| Question: How come my mom is so shallow? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:54 AM PDT |
| Question: How would you handle a verbally abusive/manipulative mother? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:50 AM PDT I am 37 and have been a single mom to my 18 year old son his whole life. I worked hard and own my own home /pay all my own bills and even without any child support (guy kept moving states the last 18 years so he never paid it), and my son has always been a good kid. He's worked at the same job for two years and pays his own car/insurnace/ gas and phone. But he's always struggled with school. Now my mom and and dad have been a great support system (even tho I always lived on my own with my son). They spent time with him and my dad was a great role model, they took him on trips now and then, and always made sure he had a nice Chirstmas etc, since I didn't have much extra money. However my mom has ALSO always been very controling and judmental. Now that the school year is ending and my son is about to gradutate, she for some reason thinks I'm going to 'let him' drop out ?? No idea why, since all the evidence shows him to be a responsible young man with goals. but she often would accuse ME of things I never did either so I think it's a mental health thing with her :( So she RANDOMLY texted me today and said " Don't let him drop out of school !" I said back to her " Why would you get that idea ? Everything is fine" and her response was to say " why are you snapping at me when I just asked a question?? Maybe you don't care abut his future but WE do ! We have always been here for you two and now your telling me to butt out of his life and you don't care if he gradutates?!' |
| Question: Only Muslims are requested to answer in the light of Islamic Shariyat? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:43 AM PDT I've a cousin living abroad in KSA, From d last 14 yrs she's facing mental n physical harassment & domestic violence frm her husband, he threatens to give her divorce, if she tries to speak-up or oppose. He's neither educated enough nor has a stable job. She is doing a teaching job for d past 5+ yrs.now being mother of 3 children, wenevr she comes to her father's place, she can't even share her plea to her parents. 2 yrs ago we came to know abt his insane nature when during a family wedding they were in India, her children disclosed wat she has been facing.. Elders of our family talked to him & he felt guilty n assured tat he'll never repeat it again.. We sent her back with him. Last month due to her father in-law's heart attack news, they visited India and were about to return back in 2 days when he suggested her to go n visit her own parents. Due to shortage of time, money & in good faith she alone came by flight to visit her parents from South India to North India only for a day, Nxt day Whn she was abt to board d flight for South India, he rang on the phone n shocked all by this news tat he took her passport n her children back to KSA |
| Question: Would I be a bad person if I did this? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:38 AM PDT When I was 18 my Mom called herself adopting my sisters baby when he was 9 months. My Mom kept him for a week got married and dropped the baby off and said she's not messing up her life. I had to drop out of college and work two jobs to name ends meet. I never got to live and enjoy life. I'm now 24 and want to start back school. But I'm still struggling. My Mom and sister take turns claiming the child on their taxes. My Mom has custody and receives all benefits. I didn't chose this life and always wanted to wait to have kids. I love him like he's mine. But I'm not ready to be a Mom. I'm more into getting through with school and having a career. My Mom now divorced her husband. I want to ask her to keep him 4 days out the weeks and I keep him the rest so I can focus on school. I haven't been happy in forever. I tried to talk to my Church but they tell me I'm a bad person and suck it up. |
| Question: What other choice do I have? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:35 AM PDT Im 21 and I still live with my parents. The reason is that I receive Social Security because of my Mental Illness. But my Social Security also pays for the groceries on a monthly basis. My parents are poor and my mom doesnt work and my dad is a disabled vet. Ever since I was a kid my parents always vergbally abused me leading to depression and poor social skills. I ujust want to move out and have my own place but my SS pays for our groceries and if I leave they'll starve. I hate them really bad but I dont want them to suffer, Im not that mean. |
| Question: Parents don't give me any privacy? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:23 AM PDT I'm a 14 year old girl and my parents give me any privacy, they just burst into my room whenever the feel like it. My mum walks in like every 15 minutes for nothing she just looks at me and my dad comes in after work and then at random times. I tried telling them to stop bursting into my room without knocking so now they think I'm doing drugs and other things I shouldn't be doing and burst in even more randomly, my mum said I'm "too young for privacy" and she said it shows how ungrateful I am. It bothers me because I'm scared they will walk in on me masturbating or something and I can't do it when they're out the house because my mum doesn't leave the house, they also walk in on my changing all the time and all they say is "you don't have anything I haven't seen before". How do I get them to stop bursting in and am I too young for privacy? |
| Question: Girls only. sex toy help? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:20 AM PDT Ok so I want a vibrator but can't drive or go to a shop that sells them, but would it be ok for my step brother to get me one? |
| Question: Why does my sister chose video games over me? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:15 AM PDT so my younger sister who is 10 loves minecraft. We are homeschooled and she will play all day long. She used to like to play with just me but now she has an Xbox live. My mom allows it because she has a medical condition. So I asked my sister if she wanted to play video games with me and she flat out said no! I asked her why and she just shrugged. I told her how she always choses video games over her own sister and she still said she wanted to play with people she doesn't even no in person. I was really upset and walked out before I said anything I'd regret but I don't understand why she always choses video games. She is addicted to minecraft. When she is not playing it she is watching YouTube videos about it. My mom and dad let her play it constantly but if I want to use our tv the answer is no. Honestly I don't like video games but if it means hanging out with her then i am all for it. She has been glued to the tv for 3 days straight. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do? This has been going on for 2 years. |
| Question: Can i call the police on my brother? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:13 AM PDT He attacked my mom, i didnt see what happened i heard them arguing then i just heard her scream and came out of my room and she was on the floor so i went at him. My dad stepped between us so nothing serious happened. This has happened befor but not with my mom, but with his daughters mother (his ex). i heard her scream and i ran over and she was on the floor crying. He has also attacked me, broken my window while i was on the other side so my face got all cut up, but the most recent time was truthfully my fault, i broke his window after an argument with him and he came at me but my boyfriend stepped in. My brother is 23 and im 20, he's always been like this but in the past few years he's begun to get more physically violent towards us, in the past he'd just punch walls and stuff. My question is if i go to the police station will they take me seriously? Like will they do something about it even though no one has been seriously injured or what? I honestly dont know what to do and im scared that ill go and they'll just say they can't do anything about it or that it was my fault for starting it or something like that. |
| Question: Should my mom call me first? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:11 AM PDT Me and my mom use to talk almost everyday. I'm 19 and my mom moved away when I was 15 with my little brother and his dad I decided to stay with my grandma. We would talk all the time until the middle of last year after I came home from visiting her and taking care of my little brother for her we don't talk as much. Since I've been back in August of 2014 I've always been the one to call her I think she has called me maybe once I have two older siblings and she never calls them at all but me and my mom where always a lot closer. On Christmas she didn't send me anything like she usually does it doesn't really matter to me it's just the thought of it because she could of at least sent a card or something but she did buy my little brother who lives with her a lot of presents and went out of town so it's not like she didn't have the money to. I've helped my mom out a lot with watching my little brother and putting my life on hold and not having a job just so I could go there and watch him. I think my mom is very selfish she only calls my grandma when she wants money from her it's always just about my mom and she only contacts you when she wants something So should I be the one to call her again like always? I'm getting tired of it and I've already told my grandma I'm not talking to her until she decides she wants to talk to her daughter which will probably be in a month from now |
| Question: My cousin is my teacher? Posted: 27 May 2015 11:09 AM PDT Okay so it's kinda weird but a cousin that I've never met before is my teacher in school. I think she's a "first cousin, once removed"? We always say hi to eachother and she knows that we are cousins. I have 6 mutual friends with her on Facebook and they are all my cousins. Should I add her? Is it illegal to add her since it's my teacher? |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 10:53 AM PDT I am graduating today but last night me and my mother and grandmother got into a argument about the tickets.my grandma invited every family member which took up all the tickets but my boyfriend for 2 going on 3 years didn't have a ticket and they don't like him as it is.they said he uses me and he only wants one thing I'm still a virgin and I only gave him money once and that was like 5 dollars and so they were like well if he is going then they aren't going and I was saying my aunti that I don't talk to really could understand where I'm comming from and let him have her ticket but they keep saying I'm putting him in front of family and calling me out my name and everything..i wouldnt do that and i wasnt trying to make it seem like that but they never listen to me and they think they know everything.it is my graduation it would be nice to have him there and she sent out all the tickets with out my consent.i mean of course i would have gave everyone a ticket but i would leave one out for him cause he is my boyfriend after all i didnt think i was putting him in frong of family.I even apologized and they still don't wanna go Idk whatto do anymore and i feel like my big day is ruined. What should I do |
| Question: Why my little brother listen to only me? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:51 AM PDT I have wondered for a couple years that my lil bro listens to me than our mom, my mom said "you don't take his ****" and I don't if he's being disrespectful I get on his *** and when my mom tells him to clean up something or pick it up he won't but he does when my mom has to yell at him to do it and when I do he does. I'm strict about it I don't yell at him. I use a voice and when he hears it he knows not to disobey me. He's not scared of me or anything I don't want people to think I'm cruel to him it's just he minds me more I feel like I'm the mom and the other day he made me ice cream I didn't ask for any he does that sometimes but to our mom and dad or my brother unless hes bribed. My mom is the best she was strict with my bro and me when we were younger, my mom says she and dad are laid back now their both 52 and 53. My mom spoiled us mostly me since I was their only daughter with 4 boys. I kinda feel weird when he minds me and not our mom. |
| Question: Am i doing too much for my family? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:40 AM PDT I am 18 years old and just finished my first year of college. I am home for the summer (3 months) and staying with my parents. While I am home, I'm expected to watch my 8 and 9 year old siblings for 6 hours a day (at least), do everyones laundry every day (mine, my two siblings, my moms, and my step-fathers), do all dishes (wash, dry, put away) which are always left out with food still on them, and keep the house picked up. every other week I am expected to deep clean the house top to bottom. there are 3 floors. so this includes dusting (start with molding on the ceiling and on top of cabinets/high things, work my way down to furniture, then vacuum and mop all floors. this includes my step fathers office and his and my mothers bedroom and private bathroom. in my free time, i am expected to fill all holes left in the walls of the room im staying in (my uncle lived here for 3 months right before i got back), sand the patches down, repaint the room, and then photograph and sell all unwanted toys/furniture/etc for my parents. i am supposed to be getting paid $100 every other week for the scheduled things like cleaning and watching my siblings but i have been back for a month and have only seen $40. is this unreasonable to be upset about? i also take care of my siblings when my mother is home. i.e. help them with homework, get ready for bed, make meals, and my mother has also had me making meals for her |
| Question: I cant be nice to my parents? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:40 AM PDT My parents are nice,caring and very good parents. But i dont deserve them. They give me everything and i dont care. I never hugged them in my life. I always yell at them and talk back,im very short tempered around them and im not around everyone else. Im a horrible person. I dont even say happy birthday or anything to them.i have no compassion.im so selfish..it was always like that but lately it got worse. I always wanna be alone and they are always annoying me And i always wanna cry when they r talking to me.. how can i be nice to them? :( |
| Question: Fighting with parents ? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:34 AM PDT i appreciate everything my parents have done for me.. but why i can't take them anymore? our everyday fights are killing me, they dont even try to understand me in every case.. they're the reason that i spoiled my relations with my loved ones.. they always talk bad about me to my granny, auntie and so on.... i think no one cares about me |
| Question: I need a good antiporn that I cannot get around, much less my teenagers. Suggestions? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:32 AM PDT Most free anti prn stuff you can get around simply by clicking images. So, let's say on k9, if I search for naked girls, it blocks it, but if I hit the images bar, its right there. Too easy to get around.. |
| Question: Is it weird to call my dad "daddy"? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:28 AM PDT I'm 13 almost 14 and I still call my dad daddy. My older sister is 16 and still calls him daddy too. It's not because we are really close like I'm "daddy's little girl", it's just what I've called him my whole life and what my sister calls him. I don't call my mom mommy even though I'm closer to her. Is it weird or childish? |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 10:22 AM PDT Been texting this girl, she's super engaged, really deep conversations., sharing deep personal things with me. Randomly in the conversation, she stops replying. She's been going through some SERIOUS stuff at home with crazy parents so I'm wondering if something happened with that, or if she's ignoring me (don't see why she would do that). She hasn't been on any social media either which she is on several times a day. |
| Question: My family is so negative? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:21 AM PDT I don't trust anyone in my family. My sisters try to sleep with every guy I date, my Mom uses me for money and always try to bring me down..and are always trying to back stab me. I love my family and I know people are passing away. But I feel and do better when I'm not around them. I know its bad to say. What should I do? Edit |
| Question: How to have sons instead of daughters? could you give me advice please? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:18 AM PDT Hi, i'm patrice i'm a female 24, and i am interested in having sons i do not want any daughters what are some methods to have baby boys? |
| Question: I hate woman for being so weak? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:13 AM PDT There so perfetic and weak they cry over little things men hardly ever cry and I litterrally never cry even when family members died I don't care it seems to me that woman always cry and I find it perfetic it makes me angry seeing people cry |
| Question: Why is 18 considered an adult? Posted: 27 May 2015 10:06 AM PDT I don't really understand because people ages 21, and 22 are still very young. I know a lot of 22 year olds who still live at home. I'm 21 and still don't feel like an adult. my sister is 19 and she said people 22 or under are not fully adults yet. |
| Question: I need advice please? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:57 AM PDT I don't really know where to start, so I'll just start from the beginning. I was born in Oregon and lived there until I turned 10. My parent got divorced when I was 8 due to him trying to kill my mom. When I was 10 my mom took me out of school and took me to Mexico where she literally abandoned me and my younger sister with some relatives who didn't give a **** about us. Since nobody was providing for me or my sister I had to start working at age 10 in the fields. I'm now 19 and I want to go back to the USA because to be honest that's the only place that's ever felt like home. I would also like to go back to school maybe even go to college but idk if that's even a possibility. I don't know why im writing this, I guess I need a little guidance |
| Question: What should I do about my dad? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:47 AM PDT My dad gets very angry at times and on occasion slaps or grabs me and my three siblings, ages 5, 9, 7, and I am 11. He got really angry when my brother, 9, couldn't throw or catch a baseball the right way. I asked if I could have ice cream and he plain out yelled at me and said I needed to eat lunch first, although I explained that I had already had lunch, but he said it was breakfast just because it was cereal. I remember about a year ago he slapped me hard on the wrists, hard enough to leave a mark. I know that he spent a few weeks in a mental health care facility a few years back but I don't know what to do. My parents are divorced, but I really don't think that my mom is the best person to talk to about this. I would appreciate any answers or feedback. This is a family issue, not really abuse, so I do not want to call any hotlines or child care or something on him. |
| Question: My 13 year old sister stole money from my parents?!? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:40 AM PDT Yesterday my mom found a hole made in the porcelain piggy bank where shes saving up for my sisters quinceanera. There were several 20 dollar bills in there, so much that it was overstuffed. Now there are only coins. My mom found out my sister had been stealing money from it (over 60 dollars) to buy junk food at school with it. I was shocked and had no idea why she did it, she has a good breakfast in the morning, lunch, and we have dinner as soon as we go back home. She eat a lot more than I do (im 17) and weighs more than me (i weigh 105 pounds, she weighs 120) and I dont even know if thats the whole reason why, she has been lying to my parents a lot, and cares more about her friends than her family. My parents had a private talk and considered to take her to a counselor. Should she? |
| Question: Can you blame your parents if your grown up and messed up mentally? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:36 AM PDT My parents punished for "bad" grades. They didnt care about my effort, to them getting a C means I was slacking off. I had these when getting C's my step fuhrer would not talk to me for several days bacause "he was dissapointed in me" and I was only 11. Then when I didnt do anything right they would scold me specially my step dad. My parents were always fighting and arguing even my step dad hit my mom a few times when I was a kid. They always would tell me that I need to grow up strong but how can I do that with constantly being emotionally tortured all the time. Im 21 right now but I had a few suicide attempts which I blame on my parents. I also have a mental illness but maybe I had that when I grew up. |
| Question: How to fit in with my family?? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:28 AM PDT I don t feel as if I fit in with my family. They love parties, dancing, drinking, smoking and I don t talk or dress like them. ive always felt different from them. I don t listen to the music they listen too or even the same movies. Im more quiet, shy, love musicals and plays, and more conservative. In all honest I get along better with my husbands family. How do I fit in better with my family? For example, there was a family event I went too last week and nobody sat near me or really talked to me. I ended up leaving a couple hours early and nobody seemed to care. Only a couple people talked to me the entire night, |
| Question: Why does my brother bully me? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:18 AM PDT I'm a guy, I'm 15 a sophomore in high school. I have CF so I'm infertile, have breathing problems, am out of shape (I go to Planet Fitness and play basketball), sweat a lot, have a slower heartbeat, can't grow anymore, and have a 40 year lifespan. My older brother who's 19 has bullied me my entire life. And when I tell mom and dad, they do nothing, I do all the work in chores and he gets paid quadruple what I get and he literally did nothing. He hits me in the stomach because he knows I won't be able to breath due to my CF, he threatens me, he always tried to beat me up and laughs as he did it. He steals my things, vandalizes my things, he calls me terrible names, he even said I should be put in a mental hospital, he called me a little boy last Sunday, he said he's better than me at basketball (he couldn't even carry my bags), we played last Sunday and I beat him 42-3 in baskets. He says he's smarter than me when he's never made the honor roll and I've made honors Q1 this year and high honors the past two quarters. As far as I'm concerned, I have no brother. Why does he always treat me like this? |
| Question: HELP! I'm scared my parents won't let me ride ! 😭? Posted: 27 May 2015 09:15 AM PDT So I've been riding for 2 years and I started off with wearing a body protector. I am lots more advanced now but not really advanced enough to have a huge fall and break my back! I walk, trot, (lots) of canter, and I jumped for the 1st time ever today! About 2 months ago I stopped wearing my body protector and my parents found out last night. They threatened to not let me ride again unless I wear it. I didn't wear it today(1st time riding after the argument ) and I think they rang up the stables and they know that I didn't wear it! I'm really scared what they are going to say when they find out and I need some good ""arguments"" against they're reasonings! 😟 Please please help me, this is URGENT🐴 Thank you so much! |
| Posted: 27 May 2015 09:15 AM PDT I'm not a parent by the way. |
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| Question: I hate myself for what i did in the past i almost had sex with my sister? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:59 AM PDT me and my sister almost had sex i put only the tip inside her then we both pulled away from each other realising what we are doing is waay to wrong we hated ourselves but my sister got over it tolled me shw wants to forget about it and move on 4 months have passed and she has but i havent i hate myself i cant live with what ive done i cant belive what i did or why i did it i tried to kill my self several times but i was stopped by freinds or family my sister walked in on me when i was about to stab my gut she stopped me and held my hands while we where both crying she tolled me i have to let go of the past that she has forgotten it and has forgiven me ages ago but i cannot live with my actions of my past i dont know what to do please help me i dont know where else to ask do you think that i should tell our mother what we did or would it be too much for a mother too hear |
| Question: I am treated like a child EVERYWHERE I go!? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:51 AM PDT I'm always treated like a child everywhere. I'm also 13 years old. For example, at school, I go to a K-8 school, and we still have assemblies, recess, and have learning programs that that are mostly child-themed (like Dreambox, Typing Agent) I'm also treated like a child by my parents. My parents won't let me have a cell phone or social media, go out outside my own street in the neighbourhood, use the computer unsupervised, check up on me when I'm in a PUBLIC BATHROOM (It's really embarrassing), and are basically overprotective. Also, at the track club I run at, I'm more of a slower runner, so I'm always put with annoying little kids that are the same speed as me. And I'm like, WTAF. I'm ALWAYS treated like a child no matter what. Like, I WANT to grow up and be mature, and I am always TRYING, but for some reason, life won't allow it, and I'm always pushed back down. No wonder why everyone wonders why I'm so immature and irresponsible. I cannot take it anymore!!! WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?!? |
| Question: Please answer this question? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:29 AM PDT I am in a difficult situation. I belong to a very small town in a backward country. In my hometown there are almost no job/career opportunities. Therefore I had to go in a big town for job. The job was good. But Living Away from home and parents and brothers and sisters was very very difficult for me. It was so painful that I had to leave my job and I returned back to my home. Now as you know unemployment itself sucks very much. It is very difficult to be unemployed. Therefore I again joined a job in a big town and leaved my home. This second job was also good. But after some time I was again home sicked. And I leaved my second job and returned back to home. Some people told me to do self employment (own business) in my home town. But I do not have enough money to start my own business. Now in this situation I do not know what to do. Please give your suggestions. All answers will be appreciated. |
| Question: When my dad gets stressed..? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:25 AM PDT so basically my dad got stressed about a window that was the wrong size, then he got worked up, and said he was going to kill the chicken and explaining how he was going to do it. Also he asked me to give him a gun so he could kill himself, this has happened before why is this. I'm confused why he would say such things? this is my friend asking the question btw (: |
| Question: Major Family Problems Involving Misunderstandings? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:15 AM PDT I've been having major problems being understood by my family. They constantly let their emotions get to them and are becoming so oversensitive. For example, I tend to misunderstand what my Mom means and it totally sounded like by her voice that she was pissed off at my Dad. When I said you can't just blame him without finding out if it really is his fault, she just states that I'm acting like she's a "critical *****" and it took her till about an hour later on Facebook for her to say she never was actually blaming him and I misunderstood. She should have used that instantly right after the "critical *****" remark. Also, my brother the other day, who gets really bitchy when annoyed at something or someone, was getting overemotional, so when moments like this occur, I often tell him "you're being oversensitive" or to "calm down". However, he just screams at me like an asshole and tells me to "shut the **** up" if I say right after "you're being a jerk". At that point, I just lose my temper, because I won't accept being talked to like that. I demand respect and when you don't give it to me, I'm not going to be nice in return. I'm getting to the point now where I'm just mean in return or just ignore them, because I just don't care anymore. When I was talking to my mother, I just stopped talking to her after that comment. Can someone please help me? |
| Question: Can a teenager be granted partial custody of a child? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:14 AM PDT I know this seems like an odd question, but I'm actually asking this seriously. I have cancer and the treatment I'm receiving isn't going as well as the doctors hoped and I want my sixteen year old niece and my son's nineteen year old godfather to share custody of my five year old son if something ever happens to me. I know it seems a bit irresponsible to want my niece to have custody, but she's a good kid that's been helping me raise my son and practically raised her brother before my sister adopted them. It's not like the two of them won't have help raising my son, we live in a pretty small town where everyone is always helping each other and keeping an eye out. Also, all four of my niece's parents and her biological grandparents are pretty influential in town and will help her and my son's godfather take care of him. I don't want my sister and her husband or my niece's biological parents to have custody of my son because, even though we're all family, there's just too much drama there. What I'm not really sure about is can my niece share custody of my son if I die before her eighteenth birthday? Or would she have to wait until she's eighteen? Also, if she is a minor does that mean her parent's have custody of my son too? Or would they not have custody because my son's godfather is nineteen? Also does a criminal record stop someone from getting custody of a child despite the parents wishes? My son's godfather did have a "misspent youth" and his arrest record is pretty long. For Katie: First, I'm using my niece's account because I don't plan on making an entire account to ask a question. Second, my son's dad isn't in the picture and he doesn't even know he has a kid and I quite like it that way. Third, I grew up in foster care, so did my niece & my son's godfather (who has a criminal record because a lot of times he had to steal food & clothes for himself/his siblings & because he got into fights because of his situation) and I don't want my kid to deal with that. Also, I'm not so inclined to trust "the court" in the placement of my son, they screwed up with his godfather and my niece too many times for that to happen. |
| Question: Can someone have four legal guardians? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:09 AM PDT My mom got pregnant with me when she was fifteen and, after she had my younger brother and our dad left, she realized she couldn't take care of us on her own so we were sent to a group home. After a couple of years my brother and I were adopted by a couple from the same town my mom is from and we ended up living down the street from my grandparents, who had no clue we were their grandkids. My brother and I had a hard time living with our adoptive parents because they're always working and treating us like we're idiots. When I was twelve I tracked down my biological parents and made them come back home with me. My adoptive parents have been acting really awful to my biological parents even though they've been around for about four years now and they keep threatening to get a restraining order against them. My brother and I don't want to not see our biological parents, but we don't want to leave our adoptive parents so I was wondering if there was someway to have all four of them as our legal guardians, that way they can't keep fighting over my brother and I. I know because I'm a minor my adoptive parents are my legal guardians, but the judge that handles my case is open to the idea of my adoptive parents sharing joint custody with one of my biological parents, I wanted to know if it was possible if I could have them share custody with both my biological parents. |
| Question: My son wants to go into costume porn what should I do? Posted: 27 May 2015 08:09 AM PDT He's 19 years old. |
| Question: Is this a reason to be upset? Posted: 27 May 2015 07:51 AM PDT My daughter is now 3 months old but when I had my baby shower for her a lot of my family didn't show. My dad bought me a really nice stroller and car seat which I did not expect at all cause I was working and so was my bf and we could afford it ourselves but it was such a nice gesture. Anyway now my brother (who him and his fiancé are in their 30's.. 12 years older than me.) is having their baby shower that I planned this Sunday. When I got my car seat and stroller they instantly made the comment "oh, can't wait till dad gets us that for our shower" and they continued up until now to still say that so my dad felt obligated to get them that. Now I just feel upset because they don't work and that was my shower gift and now they just expect my father to get them the same thing. Makes the gift not feel special to me anymore. I guess I'm really just hurt because all my family is going to their shower and weren't bothered to come to mine. They literally have so much new stuff for the baby that was just handed to them and I had to get another job just to buy our own stuff. But anyways that's why I feel the way I do- now my question is- is it ok for me to tell my dad how I feel about him buying them the same thing? It just pisses me off that they kept saying "can't wait to get our car seat and stroller" like he was just obligated to get it for them. |
| Question: Is it bad if i love my biological son more than my stepson? Posted: 27 May 2015 07:38 AM PDT I met my girlfriend when her son was 1 year old & now he is 2 years old. We been together for 8 months now & she moved in with me, been living together for 3 months now. We are having a baby boy & she is 6 months pregnant. We are very happy together & i always support her & my stepson in everything & every way, we a nice lil family. Her son calls me daddy (on his own wish) but his real dad is still around but doesn't really care much about him as a father should (he didn't want to have kids) nor has he ever took care of him or helped with him or helped financially & also verbally abused her hence why my girlfriend left him cause he was an asshole who let her raise her son on her own till i met her & started raising him with her. Once the father knew she has moved on & her son had a new father figure he started harassing us & trying to take her son away. He filed for a custody/visitation court order which he obviously lost & now he only gets to see his son on Saturdays for a couple hours by order. We believe he did this out of spite & not because he actually cared about his son but because he likes controlling people & now he is mad about it cause he didn't get his way. So to the main point, i treat my stepson as if he was my own with much love, i feed him, change him, buy him clothing, diapers, toys, take him to school, appointments, discipline him & play with him. but i'm afraid that i will love my biological son a bit more when he is born & i would feel bad about that. ? |
| Question: Why does my mom yell at me so much? Posted: 27 May 2015 07:35 AM PDT I m a 14 yr old girl and my sister is 17 and my dad died 13 yrs ago and she always yells at me. So, say like I go up to her and ask her to stay home when I haven t stayed home in months and my sister stayed home the other day so I thought it d be okay. She starts screaming at the top of her lungs how we re so shitty and ungrateful and how when she was a kid her parents never did that for her (she was abused as a child) and she yells at me for needing things like food for my hamster. Even though I NEED it, she screams at me for wanting too many things. I get good grades, I try not to fight at all,but she still yells at me for no reason when my sister goes to her friends every day with her car that my mom pays for her gas, and my sister doesn t have a job. This might sound like no big deal but I think it s toxic for me be cause it s been going on for years. Help? |
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