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- Question: Why are women scary when they are so mad they breakdown and men don't?
- Question: Help me mother in law nightmare first time mom at age of 29?
- Question: Emotional abuse by elderly mother.?
- Question: How do I convince my mum to let me live with my dad?
- Question: My parents are control freaks? Help?
- Question: My step dad thinks I'm a slut?
- Question: Should i call the cops on my dad?
- Question: My parents are total control freaks? Help?!?
- Question: My dad always ruins my plans?
- Question: What to do when your family doesn't care about you anymore and all they ever do is use you?
- Question: Is she being a pain and ungrateful? How can I stop this?
- Question: My moms boyfriend tackled me and left marks on me, what can I do?
- Question: My parents found out I watch game of thrones what do I do?
- Question: Am i heartless?
- Question: Should my real dad know I m pregnant?
- Question: Is there a city code that prohibits one from buying 40's of malt liquor to minors during school hours?
- Question: How to deal with change?
- Question: Put my foot down?
- Question: My ex's mom is coming to my brother's wedding?
- Question: Looking for a sweet & unique gift idea for my partner this Father s Day! Any recommendations?
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- Question: Am frustrated with this!!! my dad!!?
- Question: Why do Mexicans show no class and respect towards others?
- Question: ADULT MEN: Do you show your male relatives physical affection when you celebrate Christmas?
- Question: I'm scared...I just had a dream that my parents stopped loving me... Help?
- Question: I am worried because my sister looks skinnier than before :(?
- Question: Looking for long lost brother!!?
- Question: AYUDA! Alguien sabe que significa el resultado: - 5 ng en anfetamina, - 28.7 ng en metanfetamina y - 27.5 en cannabis?
- Question: My brother is a bully and I don't know what to do my dad loves my brother so he won't do anything and my mum can't do anything I NEED HELP!!?
- Question: Grandfather has died but I'm going on a trip, what should I do?
- Question: Why hasn't my mom talking to me since yesterday ... Help ?!??
- Question: Question over my baby sisters situation.?
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- Question: My mom won't let my boyfriend move in with us!?
- Question: I cant deal with my problems and I annoy other with them?
- Question: Did I do something wrong that my wife should know about?
- Question: My step-mom forces me to be girly?
- Question: I'm a single dad. My daughter's mother is out of the picture completely. How do I stop my teenage daughter from masterbating to porn?
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| Question: Why are women scary when they are so mad they breakdown and men don't? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:45 PM PDT Like why do they sob hysterically while screaming and shouting?! And men don't like they mostly just stay calm.. Everyime my mom and dad fights, it's my mom that goes mad like that. I'm a 21 yr old female and I am so not like her and other women |
| Question: Help me mother in law nightmare first time mom at age of 29? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:42 PM PDT Ok I jus had my baby 2 weeks ago via c section and I had my tubes tied all in the same day well as you can tell I was in alot of pain soo my mother in law was helping me out while my husband worked it was nice for a while haveing her help me then she became pushy I told her I did not want her takeing my newborn son out and she said ok that was the end of that but I woke up this morning and she was gone and soo was my son I called her she they went out too walmart and too get breakfast my mother in law said she did not wanna wake me up even after I told her I did not want my newborn son goin out jus yet it was my only rule my only wish but she did anyway my husband even told her as well im a first time mom soo its not been easy even wit my sons circumcision she had sumthing 2 say bout that and that I cud not breast feed shes been soo pushy she even called me a bad mom today saying thats not how I wud do it she said its bern a nightmare my husband had too finely tell her too leave cuz she made cry by all the mean things she said my husband thinks I have post partum dispersion it might be true cuz I cry over the little things too but my mother in law calling me a bad mom hit me hard ive been in our bed crying my husband I nver seen him yell befor like that it was all too much for me I dont even have the energy too finish the babys bedroom my mother in law keeps texting me and husband sayin how im unstable too have a baby and that im turning my husband against his mom im not doing that I love his mom shes allways been there for me even when my own mom was not |
| Question: Emotional abuse by elderly mother.? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:38 PM PDT I have come to the conclusion that my elderly mother has been emotionally abusive towards me for some time. She has not been diagnosis with any dementia or any other mental disorder. My question is how long am I to tolerate this behavior towards me? I am her sole care taker. She lives with me so I can't just go home. I don't want to put her in a nursing home but she is making things difficult. |
| Question: How do I convince my mum to let me live with my dad? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:30 PM PDT |
| Question: My parents are control freaks? Help? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:22 PM PDT Soo I'm a 15 year old girl. And before you start rambling about how I'm young and SHOULD be controlled, hear me out. I've been raised in a Pentecostal church which is very controlling. My parents make me live by these rules: (they're more like laws) - don't wear pants or shorts of any kind - skirts have to be two inches below the knee - No cap-sleeved shirts (so hard to find other stuff) - Now low-cut necklines (three fingers below the collar bone) - No tight clothing at all (Whenever I wear something, I can just feel my dad judging the outfit) - No jewelry - No makeup of ANY KIND - Whenever I go swimming, I have to be fully clothed (following all of the above standards) - I can't swim with guys - I can't date until I'm 18 (and my mom says even that's pushing it) - They won't let me go to friends houses - I can't go anywhere with my friends without a "responsible" adult - I can't have sleepovers - I can't dance (which I do anyway) - I can't listen to "worldly" music (which is basically anything other than Christian music - Oh I forgot a big one!! I can't cut my hair. My hair is about halfway down my butt with tons of split ends so it looks gross. - If a friends over at my house and we're in my room, the door has to stay open (what the heck!?!) - I can't be alone with a guy even if we're just good friends - I can't go over to friends houses because my parents don't know them that well (even though they do!!) - My dad doesn't let us go into neighbor friends houses (or even their garage. He gets really mad about that) My list goes on and on and on.... I can't keep living like this! I'm 15 and I just need to live. I don't know whether to rebel and just do my own thing or be their good girl. I cannot just remain under those rules until I'm 18. My teenage years will be gone and wasted. Down the drain. I don't know what to do! Oh here's more "laws" - Can't go to the movies - Dad doesn't approve of anything PG13 unless it's avengers |
| Question: My step dad thinks I'm a slut? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:20 PM PDT my stepdad thinks I'm a slut because I started to get more hips and body so my clothes aren't fitting the same as they were and he thinks I'm doing it on purpose. i ask him for money to go buy more clothes and he always says no because he thinks I'm gonna go buy more "hooker clothes" I told my mom that I needed more bras and things like that but she just listens to everything that he says. I can't go out of the house without him saying that I'm gonna get raped or that I need to stop being fast no matter how hard I try to cover up. I just don't get why he's so concerned with me anyways? I'm trying to wait until I'm out of school for the summer to get a job so I can buy my own clothes with my own money but it just feels like my relationship with him is being destroyed over things that i can't control. since I'm considered a distraction I try to stay out of the house as long as possible. I guess since I'm the only daughter they're feeling over protective because they let my brothers do whatever they want.how can I get these simple things into his head? |
| Question: Should i call the cops on my dad? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:19 PM PDT My dad abused me and kicked me out because he thought i wasnt looking for a job and i have a hard time finding a job and he assumed i was hanging around bad people...i got out on my *** and stayed out several times just to look for a job...i feel guilty for calling the cops because its possible he would go to prison and even get raped...he never calls me to talk or to see me and my sister told me that he told her i changed...he makes himself out to be a good person...he's conniving...my mom didnt cry when she talked to me about my dad possibly going to prison i think deep down she knows she hates him..a part of me hates him but a part of me feels sorry for him |
| Question: My parents are total control freaks? Help?!? Posted: 22 May 2015 12:10 PM PDT Soo I'm a 15 year old girl. And before you start rambling about how I'm young and SHOULD be controlled, hear me out. I've been raised in a Pentecostal church which is very controlling. My parents make me live by these rules: (they're more like laws) - don't wear pants or shorts of any kind - skirts have to be two inches below the knee - No cap-sleeved shirts (so hard to find other stuff) - Now low-cut necklines (three fingers below the collar bone) - No tight clothing at all (Whenever I wear something, I can just feel my dad judging the outfit) - No jewelry - No makeup of ANY KIND - Whenever I go swimming, I have to be fully clothed (following all of the above standards) - I can't swim with guys - I can't date until I'm 18 (and my mom says even that's pushing it) - They won't let me go to friends houses - I can't go anywhere with my friends without a "responsible" adult - I can't have sleepovers - I can't dance (which I do anyway) - I can't listen to "worldly" music (which is basically anything other than Christian music - Oh I forgot a big one!! I can't cut my hair. My hair is about halfway down my butt with tons of split ends so it looks gross. - If a friends over at my house and we're in my room, the door has to stay open (what the heck!?!) - I can't be alone with a guy even if we're just good friends - I can't go over to friends houses because my parents don't know them that well (even though they do!!) - My dad doesn't let us go into neighbor friends houses (or even their garage. He gets really mad about that) My list goes on and on and on.... I can't keep living like this! I'm 15 and I just need to live. I don't know whether to rebel and just do my own thing or be their good girl. I cannot just remain under those rules until I'm 18. My teenage years will be gone and wasted. Down the drain. I don't know what to do! Oh here's more "laws" - Can't go to the movies - Dad doesn't approve of anything PG13 unless it's avengers |
| Question: My dad always ruins my plans? Posted: 22 May 2015 11:44 AM PDT So my parents are divorced and I switch houses every other weekend. This weekend I am at my dads. For my birthday I received 300 dollars and this weekend I was planning on buying an iPad with the money. I kindly asked him to take me and he got very mad and said that he wasn't going to take me. Then about a half and hour later I asked him if I could go to a bonfire at my friends. My mother always lets me go to these things. He told me that I could not go and I had to stay home all weekend. I'm very upset my dad always ruins my plans on his weekends and I just end up staying home and seeing all my friends hanging out on Snapchat. What can I do to make him let me continue with my plans |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 11:17 AM PDT My family is no longer on good terms with me anymore. I remember a time where they used to care and help me out and whatnot but all of that has now ceased. I'm at the point where they completely ignore me no matter what I do or say. The only time they or anyone else for that matter comes to me for anything is when they want/need something. It's very sickening. Borrowing money, using my printer, asking for things, always feeling pressured to give in and people getting pissed when I don't. Whenever I ask for anything it's always beat around the bush followed by an excuse or what I want to hear. And I will say it does not suffice because either it never gets done or they do what they have to to keep me content or what they think is content and that's it. I have a one-sided relationship with my entire family but then again not really. It's seriously like I don't have one. I really don't know what to do anymore. They have and will always put themselves before me. Everytime I talk to them you only hear their voice. They will not listen. The things they say I feel nothing for and it's usually pretty much the same conversation we have every time we talk. Or it's about them and their problems. Then when I bring up mine they brush me off and go straight back to theirs. I'm not just saying this. My family does not care. They are too absorbed in themselves to care about anyone else. I've even gotten bad talked about family members from other family members. I really don't know what to do |
| Question: Is she being a pain and ungrateful? How can I stop this? Posted: 22 May 2015 11:14 AM PDT My sister and I are two years apart. We get along fine, but sometimes things get intense. Sometimes, she forgets the simple things like doing chores or cleaning up after herself. Whenever I have chores and make a mess, I make sure that mine are done. But anyways, she didn't clean up her mess from this morning and empty the kitchen garbage can.I emptied the trash and cleaned my mess. She always makes an excuse when our parents talk to her. Her excuses are why not can't she (she points at me) do it or I have a life and I rather be with my boyfriend. Our dad tells her that if she makes a mess, she has to clean it and if I make a mess, I clean my own messes. My sister is always saying she wants her own place. Now, I'm getting really annoyed with her. She blamed me for opening a window in a spare room (she's the one that uses the room and because of her, I barely go in there.) when it was cold and our dad opened it. Plus she threw a fit about some pasta sauce that I left for her. I told her, I told her that I saved it for her and I'm sorry but I'm not here to fight today. She then said: well you need to start using your brain and use it all. She didn't say thank you for saving it, she just pulled a smart alec remark that I said above. I'm mad because she blames me for things that I didn't do and when I do something nice for her. Am I overreacting or is she being the mean one? She even thinks the whole world is all about her and it drives me crazy. Our dad threatened her before by saying "If you don't like our rules, you can move out!" My dad even made a claim before that what my sister, me, or both of us do affects his marriage/relationship to our mom. I feel it's more my sister's fault than mine. |
| Question: My moms boyfriend tackled me and left marks on me, what can I do? Posted: 22 May 2015 11:11 AM PDT Last night my mothers boyfriend tackled me and called me worthless because I was letting My dog finish puking outside on the porch before I picked it all up and he stepped in it and called me a piece of **** and worthless and I stood up and told him not to call me that I didn't threaten him of even get close to him and then he tackled me and kept calling me worthless and wouldn't let me up till I kicked him and then I ran outside and my mom was just pulling up and parking the car because she just got off of work, i have pictures of the hand prints on my arms and the scratches. I'm 15, and he had no right to tackle me I've been asking my mom to let me move to Iowa with my dad but she won't let me because then she doesn't get child support money anymore if I move. I don't know what to do |
| Question: My parents found out I watch game of thrones what do I do? Posted: 22 May 2015 11:06 AM PDT My parents are very conservative and sometimes protective. Because of this I often don't tell them about the tv shows I like to watch. Recently they found out I watch game of thrones from a parent like figure in my life. When we got home they asked me how much of it I saw because "the first few seasons are very mature." They are shocked that this person let me watch it. I guess you can say I live a double life. What I want them to see and think I do vs what I actually do. I know game of thrones has a lot of very mature things in it so I can't be an idiot and say I didn't know it was bad. I have no idea what to say to them. I also feel like my "double life" is falling apart. please help. I have no idea what to do. |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 11:05 AM PDT I hate being touched by my family and strangers. I'll only allow being touched by CLOSE CLOSE friends. If i don't want to be your friend I'll tell you off and say I just don't care anymore. I don't say I love you. I don't share. I'm not sympathetic. I'm not helpful. I don't give a ****. I'm a loner and when people are around me and i'm not in a good mood (very rare) I snap on them and push them away. I've been in fist fights with my family cause they wouldn't leave me alone. I have a venomous tongue when I'm mad and I dont apologize if you are offended. I'm also very sarcastic and couldn't give a **** less if i hurt your feelings. Am rude and I know it. I don't respect you until you show me that you need respect. Am I heartless? |
| Question: Should my real dad know I m pregnant? Posted: 22 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT So I am 15 and pregnant (I don t need a lecture, I already have gotten one) and I m wondering should I tell my real dad about it? I live with my mom and stepdad. My real dad split on my mom before I was even born. The last time I saw him was on my second (I think) birthday. I found him on Facebook two years ago and we had plans to meet but he never showed up. I haven t talked to him since then. Would it be weird to tell him he s a grandpa when we don t even talk? Or does he even deserve to know? |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT Schlitz seems to be the popular "in" beverage. |
| Question: How to deal with change? Posted: 22 May 2015 10:46 AM PDT I find it really hard to deal with change. My mother got a haircut and I'm in my room crying. It bothers me so much, and I don't know why. Is there a way to make change easier? |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 10:46 AM PDT My brother moved in with my GF and I. I'm 22, she's 23. He's 13. Our parents are at each others throats( no abuse though TG) and will probably separate soon. We decided( we being me, grandparents, aunts, uncles) to get my brother out of that environment and let my parents work things out. Anyway, he's being completely spoiled by her. I'll ask him to make his bed, he whines, she gives me the " Oh, he's just a kid, it's only a bed. I'll do it." Same with dishes, vacuuming. All he has to is whine and she's his aid against me. Do I need to put my foot down? |
| Question: My ex's mom is coming to my brother's wedding? Posted: 22 May 2015 10:40 AM PDT I wanted to be so comfortable at my brother's wedding but my ex's mom is coming to the wedding. I feel so awkward because she probably was expecting me and her son to get married. I hate it. How to feel comfortable at the wedding? |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 10:39 AM PDT My daughters biological dad and I separated shortly after their birth. I was on my own for a little while, until luckily, I met the most incredible guy. We ve been living together (with my 2 daughters) for close to a year now, and although it s only been a short while, he has been the most incredible father figure they could ever ask for. From the very moment we began dating, he s taken full responsibility for our family, and has behaved in ways their biological dad would have never done. Which is why this Father s Day I want to do something extra special for him. What do you think would be a sweet gift idea? Thank you in advance! XOX |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 10:20 AM PDT So basically, I had a fight with my mom. And sister. I was having a normal conversation with my sister when suddenly she said that I was a liar. I told her to stop and then she started calling me an idiot over and over. Meanwhile I took a bottle of juice from the refrigerator. She pissed me off so I threw the bottle at her. I actually aimed at the sofa but it hit the back of the sofa which was hard. The bottle was made of glass so it shattered into pieces spilling all the juice. She called mom and told her. I just ran up the stairs cuz I didn't know what to do. I can't believe that I could have killed her. I can't believe myself. Now its night and my mom is basically glaring at me. I know now that I clearly have anger management issues so plz tell me how to fix this. I feel like I'm out of th3 family now. Please help |
| Question: Am frustrated with this!!! my dad!!? Posted: 22 May 2015 10:17 AM PDT Hi am 16 yrs girl! Feeling helpless I Approached here..my dad is 47 yrs..he is a type of man who's nature is like..if anybody simply boast abt him...he will be flying in the sky...my dad gets impressed by their fake words and ppl take full advantage of this situation.he also drinks a lot and scold and blame my mom with bad words for everything... He drinks full everyday.. And his brothers also take full advantage of him...my dad always supports them.but he is very foolish in real cause he Dono how they r using him..I feel sorry for my mom..first of all drinking must be banned.. Half the problems will be solved.... I am seeing my dad's behaviour frm my childhood... And day by day it's increasing to the worst.. My dad doest listen to anyone.. Even me when I say dad please dont drink. I am worried.abt my mom specially.. ..Dono why few men dominate their wives...when I think all these... It affects my studies... but what to do.. :( I know everyone have some or other problems.... But still help me...am worried soo much! |
| Question: Why do Mexicans show no class and respect towards others? Posted: 22 May 2015 10:15 AM PDT One thing before I start there was a African American family next to me that was great said please and thank you when they needed to move. Even exchanged phone numbers they where great people. Mexicans on the other hand Diffrent story I was at my sister high school graduation last night and could not hear her named called because of the stupid Mexican family behind me yelling screaming and yelling to there son. I am devistated over this that I missed my sister name behind herd because of this large Mexican family. I mean ok I understand your happy but have respect for other people this is a big deal. They kept yelling and screaming to there son for a good 4 mins. It just makes me very angry that people have not respect for others. I made a comment afterwards and they just acted like dumb *****. I feel like they should be deported over this issue because chances are they where not hear legally it was my only younger sister and I am very upset. |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 10:09 AM PDT This is addressed to men (adults) who celebrate Christmas with their adult brothers and/or fathers. I am having a difference of opinion with someone and want to poll people: Do you show extra physical affection to your adult brothers or your father when celebrating Christmas? |
| Question: I'm scared...I just had a dream that my parents stopped loving me... Help? Posted: 22 May 2015 10:02 AM PDT i woke up a few mins ago with tears running down my face and my pillow was drenched in my own tears. I had a dream that i had died and my parents found a way to clone me back to life. My parents are extremely loving and no one could ever replace them. In the dream they cloned me back and i was born again i guess, i was just a baby and my dad got...Weird. He threw my newborn self in the dump without my mothers position and started cloning new random children from my mom and his DNA... They where all little boys, and my dad for a wile said he really wanted a boy...When my mother said "Clone her back!" My dad got all hurt but did it anyway. It was odd though, Me and my "Brothers" Grew extremely fast. and for some reason i had my memories, when i asked my dad what the hell he did he said he ignored me. And he said something that really bothered me... "I like the little boy with the chubby cheeks better than the others." All i can remembered after that was beating the crap out of him till i broke down crying. My mother who didn't really act like she loved any of the other children other than me tried to stop the fight/ What does this mean? My dad would never act like this i know...I'm scared... |
| Question: I am worried because my sister looks skinnier than before :(? Posted: 22 May 2015 09:51 AM PDT Well, we come from a thin, small-framed family. Both mom, dad were thin when they were young and my sister and I are thin too. My sister is older than me and although she is thin, she always had a bit of a butt. Now, I've noticed that she is flat and her thighs are so thin. She looks like she can break! I am worried she isn't eating that much :( I think I might know where it comes from... Even though she is older than me, she has kept her roundish face and full cheeks and people say I have a model face because my face is thin and I have cheek bones. My sister thinks I am pretty so I feel maybe she is trying to eat less to make her face thinner but it looks like it is only making her body thinner and her face is the same. I am scared because I don't want her to be unhealthy :'( What should I do??? Also, she is very, well.... emotional and flips out over the most minute things so I can't talk to her about it, and I don't want to bring it up because I don't want to make her feel depressed about the way she looks. |
| Question: Looking for long lost brother!!? Posted: 22 May 2015 09:27 AM PDT I'm looking for my long lost brother that's about 2 years younger than me. His name is Bryce Gant(?) I don't know the exact spelling... I've looked on Facebook and found nothing. He turned 16 sometime this month. He was born to Heather Buschine and Loy j. Russell. He was born in San Jose California, if you know him or anything please please help me, my dad denies that Bryce is his son and my mom kept him a secret from me, I don't remember her being pregnant at all... please help |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 09:20 AM PDT Tengo un pariente lejano al que su papá le mando a hacer un antidoping a San Diego, de los que hacen los judiciales o es médico forense (no estoy segura) donde todo lo que has consumido sale en el cabello, pues a él le pidieron 2 cm de cabello (mas o menos) y le mandaron a hacer el exámen. Yo vi los resultados y eso es lo que salió. Según la persona que me los explicó (que quien sabe si sea así) para cada droga hay una cantidad "normal" y que esos resultados muestran que se excedió. Necesito información verídica, saber con precisión qué significan esos números en cantidad, a alguien que me pueda orientar y que haya tenido algún tipo de experiencia con este tipo de examen. Muchas gracias! |
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| Question: Grandfather has died but I'm going on a trip, what should I do? Posted: 22 May 2015 09:15 AM PDT Hello, I'm in a trying time, my grandfather has passed and it's been very sad. I know this is going to sound stupid but, I'm a student, so I had signed up for an overseas trip with my class and this was planned 4 months before. The ticket was paid for and so was my living. But now my grandpa has died and it was decided they would do something on the day I'm supposed to leave. It's not the burial or a funeral, more of a ceremony. I want to be there but I also know I'll never ever have a chance like this ever again. I don't know what I should do? And please don't blame me because this was going to be my first trip ever, but now I'm stuck and I need advice and reasons. Thank you. |
| Question: Why hasn't my mom talking to me since yesterday ... Help ?!?? Posted: 22 May 2015 09:15 AM PDT Okay so I'll try to make this short. But I moved to Florida to live with my dad in March . Because I couldn't take living with my mom anymore ,she is verbally abusive sometimes and has put me through hell. I'm going to be 20 in a few weeks and I didn't want to waste my life being aggervated so I moved. Soooooo my dad is still paying child support which is messed up. We went to court yesterday and the judge said it's a NY issue and their law is child support goes till 21..... Sooooo my mom lucked out. Everyday she would text me 24/7 wanting me to come back home. When she really only wanted me there cuz of money. And every since yesterday ,I have NOT heard from her. I tried texting her a little but barely nothing .... I don't give a sh*t about her but my cat is still there and I have to get my cat with me here whenever I can. So that's the only reason I'm trying to keep peace with my mom. But I have not heard from her ... SOOOO what could it be ?!?? |
| Question: Question over my baby sisters situation.? Posted: 22 May 2015 09:06 AM PDT I have a sister, and all she does is cry all the time. My parents are always working and don't seem to have as much time for her. I take care of her as much as I can, but I feel that I'm not knoledgable sometimes about kids. She is 3 years old . My mother does nothing but yell and scream at her, she acts annoyed by her. And she is very negative too. It must be because they have had 5 kids total, and she is just tired of kids. I don't know exactly what to do. Of course there are times when my sister is in an upbeat mood. Is it common for kids to cry a lot? I'm worried that it would effect her when she grows up. |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 08:52 AM PDT My grandma is very nosy and wants to know everything about my life. She keeps coming over to my house being nosy wanting to do my laundry, and saying I'm not doing something right. I do my own laundry cause I want to, and she thinks I'm being rude. She refuses to respect my privacy, and I am FED UP. |
| Question: Porque mi perro tiene cosas blancas fuera y dentro de la oreje? Posted: 22 May 2015 08:44 AM PDT me urge |
| Question: What do you call your Aunt's sister's child? Posted: 22 May 2015 08:42 AM PDT I have an aunt who is married to my uncle. My uncle is a blood relative, and my aunt is not. My aunt has a sister who has a child. He is technically a cousin, but is there a specific term? (something similar to second cousin) |
| Question: How am I suppose to live in a family that can't make up their minds or give me respect? Posted: 22 May 2015 08:34 AM PDT Right off the bat, twenty-one male and I suffer from Aspergers. So, my world view is 'Weird' by basic standard. But, get this my family keeps flipping it's traditions or beliefs at the blink of an eye. - My mother keeps flip flopping whether dying your hair will end with you bald in her house [Direct Quote: "You like that hair, now imagine yourself bald"] - My mother keeps flip flopping on her opinion of piercings/tattoos Now, this next one needs more description to be understood. My Family on my mothers side always had two tables at Thanks Giving and Christmas 'The Kids Table' and 'The Adults Table', fair to say it came down to me and my three younger cousins. Yet, when it was clearly time for me to move up I got passed over for my younger cousin with the excuse that I clearly said I didn't want to which the next year the whole 'Tradition' was scrapped. Growing up I quickly learned not to exist, my interests didn't go far in my family. They already complained I was 'Negative' and was 'Wearing to much black', doubt they'd been accepting of make-up, nail polish, etc. So, I trained myself to ignore any interest or wills I wanted to make their lives easier. Yet, my whole life I've been told I should respect everyone yet they've given me no respect and on top of that given me reason after reason not to respect them. Yet. I'm the **** Up with no life that sits on his dead ***. To make this point even more clear my father died due to complications with back surgery when I was sixteen. Here is the kicker, when I was told this surrounded my mums mother and family. To me, it was kinda like 'Yeah' but my grandmother decided to make a 'He needs to cry' comment which ended up with my faking the whole ordeal. Sorry, I didn't have empathy for someone who literally referred to me as 'One of those kids that locks themselves in their rooms and screams'. My father was straight football, hunting, etc and had a thing for 'Doing something perfect the first time or don't do it at all' if you get my drift. We never really 'Clicked' sure he was a great man, but there is a reason I taught myself not to exist around people in general. |
| Question: IM LOOKING TO SELL MY HOUSE ANY TAKERS?-ROBERT? Posted: 22 May 2015 08:28 AM PDT FREE WITH SERVICES |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 08:14 AM PDT If you don't mind sharing. I think my parents are slowly parting. It's affecting me and I hate the feeling. I hate this btw, my parents won't divorce bc we don't have divorce in my country but they can just split and live in diff homes. |
| Question: Which parent would win in court? Posted: 22 May 2015 08:09 AM PDT My parents are splitting up. They were never married. My mom took a travel nursing job in Seattle (we live in Florida) and I've flown there a lot and she's flown here a lot and we talk everyday. My dad works in Florida but doesn't want to leave his job. I live here with him and we always argue and we never have much to talk about. We don't really do anything and we blth just get on eachothers nerves. My mom and I always get along and never fight and we always have the best time. My mom and I both love Seattle, it feels amazing there and we are just so much happier and we are miserable in Florida. Well my dad doesn't want my mom to move to Seattle and take me, he wants me to stay here. If she takes me there, which he would know about, he's taking it to court. But i love my mom so much more and she has enough time to see me and hang out and also monitor my schooling and also we are happier in Seattle. The only benefit me staying in Florida is serving is the fact that he gets to see me, which will not be fun because we never get along. Who would win in court? |
| Question: I feel like I am stuck in this life of being half white and half Arab. In need of advice.? Posted: 22 May 2015 08:08 AM PDT Okay so a little background: I am half white and half Palestinian, my mom is a white westerner that basically goes by the American ways. My father actually came from the country of Jordan, and him and his family have strict values being Islamic. They divorced when I was young and I had an on and off relationship with my dad for years. So I grew up with my mom going by American ways. I recently started communicating with my dad and his side of the family and we get along great! There is just a problem. I don't think they know I have dated before and had boyfriends. They do not know that I am not a virgin either. Discussing marriage, my aunts make comments like "You're going to marry a Muslim right?" "An Arabian man right?" Okay I have no problem with that, but I feel like they want me to have a Muslim wedding going by the Muslim way of marriage. That is not what I want. I want to be able to marry whomever I want and in whatever way I choose. I want to be able to have boyfriends and date but now I feel like I have to hide it to avoid being talked about. It's "haram" (a sin) to date or do anything before marriage. I shouldn't have to hide it but everyone will talk down about me and think bad of me. I am feeling pressured to go by their ways, and I don't know how to explain it to them without being offensive. I just need some advice. I don't know what to do. And I feel like they are trying to change me. This is not me. :( |
| Question: My mom won't let my boyfriend move in with us!? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:51 AM PDT so, I'm 16 (but I act way older based on being forced to grow up because of my history) and currently dating a 20 year old. We haven't been together too long but we've known each other and have been friends for about five years now. Currently, he lives 40 minutes away, and doesn't have a car. And holds down two jobs, so we barely ever get too see each other. Where I live,there are plenty of jobs hiring and close to home. My mom continues to say no to having him move in with us even though I've tried everything in the book. I'm extremely responsible, not planning to get pregnant or quit school or anything. He even offers to pay money, and bring food into the house and hold down two jobs. What do I do? What can I say to convince her?? |
| Question: I cant deal with my problems and I annoy other with them? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:46 AM PDT I'm a new mom, bf and I living w my mom and brother. I've always had my own problems being fat and clueless about school, couldn't find a job. Then at 21 I found my bf and at 23 got my first job. I ended up being pregnant at 24, quit my job because my manager kept piling on a lot of work on me bit giving me less hours. Basically she wanted me to quit cus she couldn't fire me. Emotional rollercoaster. Now I'm with my 5month old, I love him but I hate myself everyday more so than before. I feel like A huge failure or a human being and it shows with my lack of experience, money and physical apperance. I'm not going back to college for some career that has no future. The things I'm interested in don't make money. My moms charging us for rent $400 and my bf barely makes enough to pay that and that baby things. I feel like such a burden. My sleep shedules all ****** up, my head hurts and feels cold from lack of sleep. I just want to leave my moms house even my bf. Take my baby somewhere else and start over. But that so stupid. I do love my bf but I'm just holding him back. I have no friends anymore since no one relates to me ,I feel so alone. My mom tells me I should be happy and feel blessed. I wish I did. |
| Question: Did I do something wrong that my wife should know about? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:46 AM PDT There is only one way to describe my mother in law (Pam). She is beautiful. From looking at her, you would never know she could have a daughter my age. She is also one of the nicest persons you ever will meet. Pam and I work in the same office building. Occasionally we have lunch at a local restaurant. Sometimes when my wife can get off work, she joins us for lunch. At the last lunch, it was just Pam and me. Some of my female co workers who know my wife saw us and when I got back from lunch, they got on my case about me being a married man and having lunch with a beautiful blonde. I told them my wife was OK with me having lunch with this blonde. They said "Typical man". "No wife would approve of her husband having lunch alone with such a beautiful woman". I thought I would explain she was my mother in law but I decided they would probably not believe me anyway. Gals, am I right about this? I knew these women would probably call my wife and tell her what I did. That should be a fun conversation to listen to. I think they are going to be embarrassed when they find out that blonde was my mother in law. Should I have told them I was having lunch with my mother in law? |
| Question: My step-mom forces me to be girly? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:35 AM PDT Im not girly. At all. I love sports and cars and video games. But when my dad married my step-mom, she just took me in like a lab rat and -from my view- forced me to be girly. She sold all my old clothes, bought me new ones, and bought me all this makeup. That was just in sixth grade. In seventh grade she made me wear heels and skirts and curl my hair all the time. You might be wondering, "Why didn't you just tell her?" And I tried! When we went to the store I always wanted jeans and converse and a plain T-Shirt, but she always shook her head and bought me skirts and heels and boots and ugh. And I continued to wear them...because I knew if I didn't she'd get mad at me. Like this morning, she pulled me over and said "Natalie you've been slacking. You need to curl your hair more." And you can probably imagine how I felt. I've been bottling this inside for so long, that I just nodded and went upstairs. I bursted into tears. It's not my fault I'm not girly! My dad doesn't even notice, he goes along with it. I mean, she's been through a lot and she's never had a daughter before, but she can't just change me if I don't want it....ugh, what do I do? It's hurting me and I'm afraid to tell anyone... |
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| Question: I'm not ready for kids and want to focus on my career. but I have a kid? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:21 AM PDT at 19 I was in college just beginning my life. My sister gives my nephew to my Mom and my Mom drops him off to me and says this child isn't going to ruin her marriage. I had to stop college and find a job to raise this child with no help. Every year my sister or Mother claims him on their taxes and gets benefits. I've been trying so hard. Its like I've missed out on life. My Mom got remarried. I want to start college back. But raising a child alone is hard with non help. To be honest I'm just not ready for kids. I want to travel and have a career first. I feel like this was forced on me. I love him so much. What do I do? Drop him to my Mom until I'm done with college and take him on the weekends or what? I know it'll be hard. |
| Question: Am i wrong for feeling so stressed out? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:19 AM PDT I am 18 and I have a little sister who is four. I love her more than anything but I am so stressed out from babysitting her all the time. Monday through Friday I watch her from 6 in the morning in till 4:30 when my mom gets home than I go straight to work in till late at night. And on the weekends I work all day both days. I have no time for anything else. It was like this even when I was in school. I would go to school. Come straight home to take care of my sister and than go to work if I had work that day which I usually did. It wasn't fair because I didn't get to experience actually being a teenager. Ive tried talking to my parents and at first they were sympathetic but nothing has changed. I don't like to bring it up to much because I don't want them to think I can't handle it but it's becoming so much. But when I do bring it up now they just get angry and turn it around to make me feel bad that I am stressed out. On top of watching my sister I also babysit my niece a couple of days a week. (I have an older sister) and she's only a year old. It's like I am so stuck taking care of the kids and working I have no time for anything else. I want to start college soon but I keep putting it off because there is no one to watch the kids. I want to start my life so that I can be somebody but I can't. I'm just so fed up but so stuck too. I guess my question is, do I have a right to feel stressed out and do you think that the amount of babysitting I do is excessive? Thx |
| Question: What's happening between me and my sister? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:16 AM PDT My sister is 16 and I am 19 and we used to be really really close like best friends but the past year are relationship had gone downhill so fast and we are not close at all now. The past year I left school after my completing my alevels and took a gap year before going to university in September. That's the only thing that has changed in our house and everything else is the same. Is it because I'm spending much more time at home than I used to or what? Anyway we fight and argue all the time sometimes going days without speaking to each other. She constantly been horrible to me. She says in worthless, lazy and good for nothing because I haven't been able to find a paying job ( I volunteer quite a bit though). She laughs at me for having OCD and having very few friends. She tells me she wants me dead and that she would be happier if i didn't speak to her again or didn't see me again. It's really getting to me and I often end up crying over it. I miss what we used to have, I miss chatting to her about everything and i just don't know what to do. I've tried telling her how she is making me feel but she says she's not doing anything and I'm just too sensitive. I probably am too sensitive. When September comes and I move out for university im afraid that we will grow even more apart and I'm afraid we will be those type sisters who never speak or see each other. I just don't know what to do |
| Question: Can my dad get in trouble if I run away to him? Posted: 22 May 2015 07:08 AM PDT My mom is abusive and our relationship is really bad, it's getting to the point where we fist fight over little things and I can't take it anymore. My dad has visitation rights and I'm supposed to go stay with him for a month this summer which is a month away. I want to unassistedly run away to my dad's house because there is no way my mom would let me go. And if she found out I was going she would take away my privelage to see him. I don't want my dad to get in trouble for harboring a runaway so what should I do? |
| Question: Gay, Out, and my father. ? Posted: 22 May 2015 06:58 AM PDT I am gay and I am still living in my parents home. I am 19 years old. I came out publicly back in high school. My parents ended up finding out. My father, ignores me a lot. I have a feeling he doesn't like me, since he talks behind my back and doesn't stare at me properly when we have a conversation. He acts Immature around me. I am becoming depressed. What should I do????? |
| Question: Mother in law wants to visit when my parents just moved in? Posted: 22 May 2015 06:48 AM PDT I'm gonna do my best to explain the situation so just hang in there with me. My parents just moved to town, they used to live about 5 hours away. We are super excited because they'll be helping watch our 2 year old and they'll be staying with us temporarily until they can get some money together to get a place of their own. They just moved in 2 weeks ago and we're in the process of getting their room and bathroom together. We are re-painting and just doing a few little projects so they feel at home. My mother in law lives about 1 1/2 hours away and comes to visit 1-2 weekends every month. Her brother has a summer home down the street but he doesn't really like anyone staying there so she usually stays with us. Here's where it gets sticky she wants to come visit and I assumed since there's already 5 people staying in our 3 bedroom house that she would stay at her uncles. Now she told my husband she needs to stay with us and I'm pretty annoyed. The bathroom is being redone, the only place for her to sleep is the couch and she has a dog that my mom is terrified of! I don't think I'm being unreasonable to say that 6ppl in one house is just too many and that my parents just moved in it's really hard and not to mention awkward. I know my parents and know they'd be uncomfortable with staying with another person in the house. Am I being ridiculous or is this weird? Should I just tell my husband to tell her no. HELP!! |
| Question: How to convince parents to let me move out at 16? Posted: 22 May 2015 06:33 AM PDT BEFORE you ignorant jerks out there judge me - My parents are abusive (emotionally, sometimes physically and neglecting) They`re not THAT bad, but I wouldn`t want to live with two alcoholics more than the next person. Anyways. They for some reason will not let me move out even though we all despise eachother (i suspect it is to save face, they want to seem like good parents because they REFUSE to admit any wrong doing) My parents have kicked me out once before and I was happy to go, but then THEY threatened to call the cops if I didn`t return (???) Anyways, I have said I`d run away but they`d call the cops and CPS on me (they only care about themselves, and not that I would be able to lead a functioning life without them, as I am being further emotionally damaged every day) So they threathen to call THE COPS, and I would end up in every single news paper in the country for sure and be found by police. HOW DO I CONVINCE THEM TO LET ME MOVE OUT (it`s legal) They don`t care about my future plans (they`ve said they`re kicking me out at 18 and don`t want contact with me) SO PLEASE HELP. I am severely emotionally damaged already (don`t suggest shrinks, I have a STRONG hate against all authorothy (and I don`t know why, please explain) |
| Question: I hate my brother please answer? Posted: 22 May 2015 06:09 AM PDT So I told my Mom that my older brother got drunk on Saturday and was also driving. So, now my brother is mad because he was supposed to go camping with his friends over this weekend (he couldn't go either way because he is already grounded for stealing a bunch of expensive clothes and almost getting caught) and while I am already avoiding, ignoring, and pretending like he doesn't exist, he does the same thing to me only he also is trash-talking me to his friends. Although my oldest brother told me that some of his friends recognize he isn't very smart and think I did the right thing by telling my parents.. This isn't the only bad thing that's happened. My brother thinks he is better than me in every single way possible, he thinks he does NOTHING wrong, and believes that me and my family is out to get him when we are just trying to help him. In my opinion, I believe I did the right thing by telling my parents. Also this morning when he was dropping me off in the carpool line, he stopped and told me to get out and he didn't even pull up at ALL!! It was embarrassing I had to walk a long time to get to the school entrance. Please help. How do I live with someone like him. He isn't even moving out anytime soon. (btw he is a senior and I am a freshman (girl) |
| Question: What should I do about my daughter? Posted: 22 May 2015 06:05 AM PDT Unlike her sisters, my daughter (12) is overweight and just not really pretty. She has long, ratty blonde hair that I constantly ask her to get cut, she is almost obese, and I have to buy her extra "loose" pants, and all she does is eat crap and never excersize. It was fine when she did this as a 7 year old, but now it's bad!!!! What should I do? Please, I'm not a bad person, I love her very much. |
| Question: Raising 9yr old niece and she said to me, "you're not my mom"? Posted: 22 May 2015 05:58 AM PDT I have had her for almost 4 years and things are actually really great! She remembers her first mommy from when she was really little, but since we have had her has chosen to call me mommy too. Now that he's older and more established she's happy and healthy! But recently we were talking and laughing and I teased her she can't date until she's 30 (clearly kidding) and he turned to me with a smirk and said "But you're not exactly my real mom" with a smile. I was floored and had to take a moment because it was so out of left field. What would you have said? And was there meaning to that underneath the comment? |
| Question: How should I tell this to them? Posted: 22 May 2015 05:24 AM PDT So I'm 13 and I go to school with bullies who are pretty much the whole school who make me feel like nobody cares for me there and I have to come home to my mom dad and brother complaining over nothing. My mom and dad are just tired and my brother CHOSE to smoke and now he's complaining about it . When I needed a break from school today because my chest and head started to hurt they started complaining again. I don't know if I should tell them how I feel about this or send it through a text because they hardly listen. |
| Posted: 22 May 2015 04:54 AM PDT My mom just got into the peacecore and im very happy for her but dad suggests that him and i go with her to ghana for two years. Im sad because they original plan was for me to stay at my grandparents but dad thinks its a bad idea. So now im forced to go to africa for two years. The main reason i dont want to leave is my friends and the second one is that next year i will be a senior and i want to finish school. Extra: i have a car so i dont have to hang out with me grandparents all the time |
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| Question: What do you think of child abuse as a way of protection? Posted: 22 May 2015 04:33 AM PDT i.e. when a mother hits her son in order to prevent him from doing something wrong. |
| Question: How do I get my parents to forgive me for having sex in their house with my boyfriend? Posted: 22 May 2015 04:31 AM PDT So I was 15 and he was 17 , and we had sex in my parents house like in November and my parents found out barely in March they went crazy!! They took me out of my school where I ran track an was getting sucks credits and I'm not allowed to talk to any of my friends if I see them they took away my phone my clothes my makeup and it's just ugh! My mom was yelling at me that I'm a disappointment and embrassment and my dad just kept yelling "I'm my f##king house!! And how I was a disappointment and not to talk to him. Me and my dad are super close unlike me an my mom. It's may now an my dad has calmed down some and my boyfriend is leaving to the marines next summer what do I do?!?! I need help asap oh an note my mother is strict and mean |
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