Marriage & Divorce: Question: Do you think I'm asking too much from my ex? |
- Question: Do you think I'm asking too much from my ex?
- Question: I'm i unreasonably angry with my husband?
- Question: Help settle husband-wife friendly debate...?
- Question: Mom asking me for $1000?
- Question: I have a gut instinct my husband has cheated on me. Should I follow that or let it pass?
- Question: My husband watches porn and masterbates all the time. He says he wants more sex with me but he never comes to bed with me or touches me.wtf?
- Question: Father and son (tough love)?
- Question: Do you think this is a good opening paragraph for my book?
- Question: What do you think of a open marriage?
- Question: Why do so many wives choose to remain in sexless marriages to their gay husbands?
- Question: How do you stop child support payments?
- Question: What does finding an empty condom wrapper under your mates clothes mean? Is he / she cheating or do you let them explain?
- Question: Fiancees ex is nuts and harrassing me?
- Question: What am I missing out on by never having sex?
- Question: Is this prenup fair? My fiancee doesn t want to sign it. What do you think?
- Question: Me and My EX were having SEX for 4 months now he DOESNT wanna See me WTF Happened!?
- Question: Who invented sex?
- Question: I betrayed my wifes trust. Now i dont know how to fix our relationship.?
- Question: Scared of the future with my husband.?
- Question: Is it okay if a spouse loves another person?
- Question: My ex is telling my kids to tell judge they wanna live with him?
- Question: I am trying to find out if the divorce disposition date is considered the actual - official day of dicorce?
- Question: Is infidelity so important because we're like possessive animals when it comes to getting our special pleasure?
- Question: What can i behave if everybody fell jelous against me?
- Question: Why is my husband texting another woman all the time?
- Question: Do married people masterbate?
- Question: How to convince over-protective parents for love marriage?
- Question: Married 8 months and only had sex once?
- Question: Give me one tip to a happy marriage?
- Question: Should I tell my husband that I am unhappy and depressed.?
- Question: Why won't my wife stop starting huge fights with me and criticizing me?
- Question: Has any white wife ever gone to a Mandingo Party?
- Question: SICK OF MY HUSBAND WORKING ALL THE TIME!?
- Question: Wife Refuses to get Mental help? Should I leave?
- Question: First date stories? Anyone married their first date?
- Question: Am I overreacting?
- Question: I swear my husband will not grow up he is 23 and i am 21 we have a 4y/o together and i need to go grocery shopping today?
- Question: My wife and I are going through a divorce?
- Question: Who gets the houseafter 14 years of marriage?
- Question: Why wouldn't a husband say "I love you" or "I love you too" to their wife?
- Question: Why do some pakistani marry 1st cousins?
- Question: Am I overreacting?
- Question: What should I do and how do I tell my wife? please help?
- Question: Why do people think marriage is for kids?
- Question: Why my wife doesnt want to have sex?
- Question: Married having an affair with single man how to let go?
- Question: What was the reason your got divorce. What have you learned from getting your divorce?
- Question: Wife lied for no reason, not the first time?
- Question: My husband and I are busy and don't have sex often. How can we have sex more often?
- Question: Which is more important in a marriage - getting along and being happy together or following the rules society puts on you as husband/wife?
- Question: Why married couples argue so much ?
- Question: Do you feel it is important for a married person to people please their spouse (do things that make them happy)? Why or why not?
- Question: Is it weird that I got married to my wife after only knowing her for literally 12 hours?
- Question: Help w/ awkward work situation?
- Question: Is this normal behavior in my husband and what can I do about this?
- Question: Marriage troubles?
- Question: Do you think this is a sinsere reasonable gesture of apology?
- Question: How do I get my wife here quickly?
- Question: How can i find out if my husband is cheating on me?
| Question: Do you think I'm asking too much from my ex? Posted: 29 May 2015 09:06 PM PDT My ex was always a great dad but a bad husband. It's like he couldn't love both of us. Before my son he was great but after my son hit like 3 it was all downhill. My son is 9 now. To be completely honest, I think the entire time my ex just wanted to be a dad, he didn't want a wife. He even semi admitted to it in counseling. So anyway, we divorced when my son was 5 and got split custody. However, he only lives a block away so it gets sloppy. Overall my son is probably with him more. They just have a special bond, we do too but theirs is just different, he always wants his daddy. Anyway, I met a guy like a year and a half ago. Hes great and makes me feel special. Kobe met him a month ago and just naturally didn't like him. He was trying so hard and my son was just dissing him. My son is normally very sweet and good with adults. His coaches and teachers love him. When I told my husband he just laughed and said "that's my lil dude." I told him "tell Kobe to be nice." And he said "no, I'm not going to force him, he's never going to like him, that's just how it is." Yet I know if my husband told him to cut my bf some slack he would. Do you think I'm asking too much? It's impacting my relationship. Today Kobe called my bf gay. |
| Question: I'm i unreasonably angry with my husband? Posted: 29 May 2015 08:54 PM PDT He works second shift and gets off at midnight. Last night he didn't come home until 4am because he went to a friends house after work. He did call around 1am to tell me he was going but I didn't answer because I was feeding our two month old baby. I feel so irritated and angry because I told him earlier that our daughter was running a fever and not feeling well from her vaccinations earlier and was still awake, but he decided to "hang out with friends" after work. Having a newborn I get no sleep because I'm up with her all night and get up early with our three year old daughter in the morning while he consistently gets 8 or more hours of sleep a night, and wakes up an hour before he has to leave. I'm so angry that he can find time to hang out while I'm at home solely taking care of our children from the time they wake up to the time they go to sleep, and all throughout the night. While he hangs out, sleeps in and goes to work. Plus I'm slightly disheartened that he would even think about going out when I told him our little one was running a fever. Personally I would have come straight home! Am I just being cranky and unreasonable or am I rightfully angry? I haven't approached the subject with him because I feel like I'm being unreasonable..... |
| Question: Help settle husband-wife friendly debate...? Posted: 29 May 2015 08:51 PM PDT One of us states, (A) 'you didn't finish your pizza slice', and the other responds (B) 'because I ate your crust'. Is statement B being deflective or simply stating facts? |
| Question: Mom asking me for $1000? Posted: 29 May 2015 08:45 PM PDT Hi. My my mom asked me for $1,000 this morning. She has always asked to borrow money off me ever since I was about 14 & at times wouldn't pay me back. My mom loves all her material possessions and will never forgo anything. She drives her expensive car, spends alot on alchol and cigarettes and even rents out two rooms in her house to university students. My mother recently divorced my father again due to money issues, she now owrs him money after the divorce and has come to me for money. It has really upset me because on Monday she knows that I am quitting my job so that my partner and I can go travelling for 6 months. Growing up I have always been worried about money seeing my parents struggle and I feel that I go without so I can save. My partner and I live very simply. The thing is we do have savings but only because we don't go out spending our money on usless junk. In my heart I wany to give her the money as i love her but in my head I don't. She will never go without her possesions and has always been bad with spending. I really don't know what to do |
| Question: I have a gut instinct my husband has cheated on me. Should I follow that or let it pass? Posted: 29 May 2015 08:44 PM PDT |
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| Question: Father and son (tough love)? Posted: 29 May 2015 08:21 PM PDT My 5 year old son was being sturborn when I asked him to take pickup after himself when he finished drinking his Juice. I told him to put the empty juice container in the trash can. My son was reluctant, he complained to me that he was playing a game and that he wants to concentrate on the game. I cajoled him, eventually he did what I asked him to do. My husband was in his room, he overheard my conversation with our son, he yelled and asked our son to come into his room, but my son was afraid ad refused to go to his father. 5 minutes later my husband came out of his room with a toy truck he bought for our son. When our son saw the truck, he was so excited and started jumping for joy. Before me and my son, my husband took out a hammer and destroyed the truck. He said that will teach our son a lesson to answer him when he calls. I was really upset with my husband. I said nothing to him, but console our crying son. Is my husband's behavior OK? |
| Question: Do you think this is a good opening paragraph for my book? Posted: 29 May 2015 07:42 PM PDT I am writing a book about a women whose husband told her he wanted a 6 month break to figure out what he really wanted in life. The women works from home, likes routine, and is supported financially by her husband, although she does run a very small bakery business from her home. I know to not give the entire backstory in the first couple chapters and to leave the reader with a few questions that will be answered along the way. So I was wondering what you guys thought of this beginning paragraph. Would this make you want to read more? I am writing this book more for middle aged women, maybe divorced, maybe never married, etc... I never realized how long 6 months really was. In 6 months it will be winter. Tank tops and shorts will be tucked back into their boxes and placed in the attic, to be replaced with sweaters and fuzzy socks . Ill be filing my taxes and renewing my drivers license. The newest season of my favorite tv show will be starting. My mom will begin a whole new year of calling me every week to make me feel bad about not visiting for Christmas. 6 months is how long it took my high school boyfriend to tell me he loved me, and then to propose after we graduated. 6 months is how long it takes to decide if you actually love your wife or not. Well, according to my husband anyway. In 6 months I will either be married, or I will be nothing. Constructive comments only please, I am hard enough on myself as it is. |
| Question: What do you think of a open marriage? Posted: 29 May 2015 07:36 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do so many wives choose to remain in sexless marriages to their gay husbands? Posted: 29 May 2015 06:54 PM PDT one reads so many posts each day in m&d from distraught wives lamenting how their husbands refuse them love and affection. why do they remain married to a husband that shirks his marital duties? why won't they file for divorce and seek a straight husband who will appreciate his wife and satisfy her needs? |
| Question: How do you stop child support payments? Posted: 29 May 2015 06:46 PM PDT |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 06:35 PM PDT My boyfriend works overnight from 10pm-5:30am and goes to a second job around 7Am-11Am. He came home and changed clothes and left the clothes in the middle of the living room floor. While I was cleaning and picking clothes up, the tip of a condom wrapper purple pack with trojan on it fell out of the clothes. I didnt check the clothes, i just immediately put it on the table and texted his phone and said that We Need To Talk...Wat to do? What do u think? |
| Question: Fiancees ex is nuts and harrassing me? Posted: 29 May 2015 06:29 PM PDT My fiancee is about to get out of prison he went there for getting me pregnant underage. He also has a son with another girl; who is crazy. Him and I didnt talk for a few years and we got back together. Him and Anna, we'll call her, haven't had contact either. She is now writing him she still 'loves' him and that he is a horrible father. Anna has always been in and out of jail, and doesnt take care of their son. She is always on social media stating i took him away from their son and she wants a call so he can talk to the child. He has tried, and she just talks about me.. Now she is making me look like a horrible, selfish person. I would never make him choose between his kids, he loves my child as well as Anna's the same. She says im the one who put him in there and tries to say anything to get to me. Should i do a three way so he can talk to his son? Or should we wait 3 weeks, until hes out, to do anything? She has tried tp get him into trouble by calling the prison to tell we have contact. (We had a no contact but got it dropped) and we're scared she will let him see the child, then call the cops. He cant have contact with kids unless approved by his agent and Annas son isnt approved. I feel stuck... |
| Question: What am I missing out on by never having sex? Posted: 29 May 2015 06:16 PM PDT Hello everybody, My name's Marc. I'm 23 years old, turning 24 in a couple of months. I am wondering if I am missing out on anything by not having sex. I am fortunately or unfortunately still a virgin at this age. I missed the period of "experimentation" that so many claim to have with sexual partners. As I result, I am inexperienced while many of my peers are experienced. I am a virgin due to many factors, the main three being low self-esteem, low self-confidence, and fear. I used to be very jealous and envious of my friends when they would have sex or get girlfriends. I then soon lost hope and decided that it was a futile effort. I saw many attractive girls on campus but then I realized two things stood against me. I could not talk to girls and I was black (I went to a predominately white college). In addition, the black girls I know don't like guys like me. This made me think it was a hopeless fight. On the day of my graduation, I was severely depressed. I realized I would probably never get a girlfriend. I struggled with that for about a year and a half. Then I decided to listen to my inner voice. My calling. I was moved by this and I shifted my entire viewpoint. I have now devoted my life to this inner voice. It is telling me to achieve greatness, to achieve excellence in my field. I know the longer it goes on, the less chances I have of losing it. At this age, I have accepted that. I still ask one question: what will I really be missing out on my never having sex? |
| Question: Is this prenup fair? My fiancee doesn t want to sign it. What do you think? Posted: 29 May 2015 05:49 PM PDT I own a LLC and my net worth is about $ 10 million. I am engaged to a wonderful woman, she is very mature despite her young age (she is 19). I presented her a prenup with the following points: 1) Anything that is mine before marriage remains mine after the marriage. The same is for her. 2) Everything she buys within the marriage is hers, everything I buy within the marriage is mine. 3) Any money that comes from my corporation within the marriage, is mine. In the same way any money she earns within the marriage is hers. 4) Anything that is bought jointly, for example a house, a car, etc. belongs to both of us. When she read it, she got very upset. She folded the paper and smacked me with it and left, she went to her parents home. Now I don't know, does this sound unfair to you guys? I mean, I can't see why this is unfair, all I am saying is that what is mine is mine and what is her is hers. What is so wrong about that? I do not plan to divorce her, but I consider this to be an insurance. I have absolutely no plans on leaven her ever, but I can't know if she won't do the same in the future. What is wrong with that? |
| Question: Me and My EX were having SEX for 4 months now he DOESNT wanna See me WTF Happened!? Posted: 29 May 2015 05:39 PM PDT me and my ex broke up in october due to my friend cursing him out (i didn't know she was gonna do that) for being a assholee to me he texted me in december saying he missed me and "this Dick is still yours" we ended up having sex in january which turned into a every weekend thing for months told me not to talk or sleep with other men but every time i would try to talk about getting back together he would be like "Your NOT my girl get use to it" even tho he still acted like my boyfriend he use to call me everyday would take me out to eat sometimes i told him i was tired of being a f**k buddy i don't want to have sex until were in a relationship then he was like "You got me F**ked up who you think you are" after that he didn't talk to me for a week then that weekend he invited me over to "talk" but we ended up having sex anyways but that was the end of april since then he's been ignoring me for days we only hung out one time this month (may 2nd) and while we were together he kept looking at other girls saying "Damn she can get the dick she's hot" and he didn't even wanna see me on his birthday even after i told him i got him a gift he ended up going to the strip club with his brother and I've seen him adding random hot girls off MY Facebook friends list i confronted him and all he said was "And the problem is??"he never answers my calls anymore barely texts me back now AND ITS BEEN A MONTH SINCE IVE SEEN HIM do you think he's replaced me ? |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 05:38 PM PDT I am just curious to who came up with the idea of a man and a woman using their body parts to love each other. |
| Question: I betrayed my wifes trust. Now i dont know how to fix our relationship.? Posted: 29 May 2015 05:24 PM PDT My wife and I dated for 2 1/2 years before we got married. As soon as we got married a lot of things changed for us. Its too long to describe it all. The main problem on my side was the almost immediate lack of attention. We moved in with her parents to help us out untill we were able to buy a home. She was always so attached to her family it seemed as though I was always the last thing on her mind. Well things got worse from there to the point where my behavior chaned completely in only a few months. I just couldnt be the same with all the pent up emotions, I couldnt talk to her about it. She always took it as a dig against her family. It go so baf so fast it just blind sided me. I retreated backed off became distant. She started accusing me of affairs and infidelity. It got to me one day i got mad and said let me prove her right. I went to the strip club , i was never one to go to those ththings. I let my emotions sway me. It was more of me being mean to her in secret tham really wanting someone else. I felt bad guilty and I kept ot from her for a long time. About 7 months she found out because like an idiot I withdrew money from the atm. She saw it on the statement. She kicked me out and its been two months no sign of anything good between us. Theres so much more to our situation. The main thing is I want to work things out shes just so mad shes puching me away. I try my best to tell her what i think is best. I just cant show her she doesnt let me. Advice? |
| Question: Scared of the future with my husband.? Posted: 29 May 2015 05:11 PM PDT My husband and I love each other very much we are newlyweds but have been together for six years. So we both have bad A.D.D I recently decided to get treatment which is great I've never felt better and I finally am able to concentrate and follow through with tasks. However my husband has not done anything and is driving me insane. I constantly have to do all the cleaning which is ok. But he doesn't even acknowledge anything I'm doing. I'll Clean and then turn around and he's made a mess. Not to mention I can't ask him to do anything without him forgetting or it taking him forever to get done. I'm really afraid to have kids because I don't want to be the only one taking care of them. Has anyone experienced this and gotten through it? |
| Question: Is it okay if a spouse loves another person? Posted: 29 May 2015 05:03 PM PDT What about when a spouse is a big fan of a celebrity or really likes someone else? |
| Question: My ex is telling my kids to tell judge they wanna live with him? Posted: 29 May 2015 04:54 PM PDT My ex husband is trying to change our joint custody arrangement( in place now for 9 yrs) so he can get full custody. He is telling my twin 11 yr old girls that they should tell the judge they want to live with him.. even saying if one wants to live with me then request splitting the girls up.. can he get that? |
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| Question: What can i behave if everybody fell jelous against me? Posted: 29 May 2015 03:28 PM PDT |
| Question: Why is my husband texting another woman all the time? Posted: 29 May 2015 02:18 PM PDT Seriously it's like over 50 messages. It's nothing sexual but it's strange to send so many to any one person. He texts her more often than me! |
| Question: Do married people masterbate? Posted: 29 May 2015 02:15 PM PDT My husband and I aren't having sex. Is it wrong for me to masterbate? |
| Question: How to convince over-protective parents for love marriage? Posted: 29 May 2015 02:11 PM PDT So, I'm 19 and he's 29. Parents do not want me get married as of now, they want me to wait till I finish college. But, I don't mind getting married now or a year later. He (boyfriend) said I can continue studies after marriage as well. He is a lawyer and is financially stable as well. So that shouldn't be a problem. But I guess the main problem is that we are somehow related and my dad thinks that might cause a problem for me if I ever want to conceive a child. I'm Muslim and so is he and from same country. I know his family and they know me too and they absolutely love me. His dad even came to talk to my dad a year ago (when I was 18) but my dad said he will only get me married after I finish college. And no one from my family knows that we're in a relationship. How do I convince them without hurting them? There has to be a way. Please help Okay, so even if I do wait 2 or 3 years, what guarantee is it that my parents will agree? Even if we don't get married now, we can at least get engaged, right? But who will convince them? |
| Question: Married 8 months and only had sex once? Posted: 29 May 2015 01:55 PM PDT So. My husband and I have been married for 8 months and only had sex one and that was on our wedding night. When we was dating we have sex all the time. What in the heck is going on?!?!? Please help! What should I do! I have made his favorite food and bought lots of naughty clothes. Idk what's wrong. Help!?!?! |
| Question: Give me one tip to a happy marriage? Posted: 29 May 2015 01:42 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I tell my husband that I am unhappy and depressed.? Posted: 29 May 2015 01:35 PM PDT I have been with my husband for 3 years and my husband lives in Toronto due to the fact he has school. He is 24 and I am 20. I live with my in laws. He didn't wanna take me because he said I would distract him. So anyways lately I have become really depress and have suicide thoughts I am so unhappy but I love him so much I don't wanna leave him. I see him once a month. Now I don't no if I should tell him or just let him finish school then tell him. He is done by end of June. |
| Question: Why won't my wife stop starting huge fights with me and criticizing me? Posted: 29 May 2015 01:23 PM PDT My wife and I have been married for 8 years. Over the past few years, things have started getting really bad. She always starts fights with me over the dumbest things. The other night I came home from work. I worked from 8AM Until 11PM. I was exhausted and sat down started watching the news. She flips out on me and starts saying " Oh I guess your too busy watching the news " Then she starts talking about how I " Enjoy being mean to her?" My wife keeps saying I enjoy being mean to her which is bizarre because I've never been accused of being mean in my life. Not only this by my wifes son who lives with us gets involved and starts accusing me so they tag team me. My wife compares herself to my boss frequently says " If Jessica was speaking to you would you just act like this". She compares herself to my mother. I mean I work a 15 hour work day and she doesn't even factor in hey this guy might be tired? Lets give him a break. |
| Question: Has any white wife ever gone to a Mandingo Party? Posted: 29 May 2015 12:48 PM PDT A married couple we know has been to two of them and has invited us to their next gathering. Do you think we should go? We have had interracial sex before and have it to be very pleasant. |
| Question: SICK OF MY HUSBAND WORKING ALL THE TIME!? Posted: 29 May 2015 12:31 PM PDT In short, my husband of three years (been together for 8) continuously accepts overtime for weekend (and some weeday evening )work after he KNOWS I hate this. We have three children ( 14, 5, 2) and he and I work hard and are busy through the week. The weekends are the only times we have to spend together both as a family; and as a married couple. Like most families today, we could always use more money, but WORK WORK WORK is not something I would ever choose. If my husband told me he felt lonely and didnt want to be alone, I would make sure he wasnt. When I tell him that he starts talking about the bills..blah..blah...blah. They are MY bills too! I am not panicking and running around trying to make millions in exchange for family/quality/romantic time. I really can't take it and it makes me so angry. He'll stop for awhile...sometimes a long while....then he'll start accepting extra hours again. Obviously, i've thought about whether or not he's cheating..but I dont think thats it (I'm naturally a thorough-snooper). I just really don't know what to do about this. I get so angry and hate being neglected in this regard. |
| Question: Wife Refuses to get Mental help? Should I leave? Posted: 29 May 2015 12:21 PM PDT My wife and I have been married for 8 years. The first half of our marriage, she was completely normal. We rarely fought and got a long great. She had a much bigger social life than I did the first half of our marriage. She would go out 2 or 3 nights a week with her friends, and though it bothered me. I never once complained. Her social life kinda stopped and I decided to slightly reignite mine. And this is when things went south. She's now endlessly accusing me of having affairs. Shes even accused me of sleeping with my boss ( Who is almost 20 years my senior and married ). Accused me of sleeping with my mothers friend! One of my childhood friends who is an ex-model recently moved back to our city and she and I ran into eachother while I was out with my wife at the store. After running into her my wife immediately says she looks like a " Prostitute ". She frequently brings up that woman and refers to her as a " ***** " and randomly accuses me of having feelings for her? My wife's paranoia has gotten so badly, that some close family and friends have come to me worried about my safety. I've tried talking to my wife about getting help and she refuses to even consider anything is wrong with the way she acts? |
| Question: First date stories? Anyone married their first date? Posted: 29 May 2015 11:40 AM PDT I am married to the woman I went on my first date with...12 years and counting. We have two first dates. Anyway, our first actual date could not have been worse and Murphy's law certainly took effect (Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong). We went to this Mexican restaurant and spicy foods do not agree with my stomach. I spent half the date in the bathroom and she was left to eat dinner alone. When I finally pulled myself together, in all my nervousness, I spilled my soda on her blouse. At that point I was about nine different shades of red. I paid for dinner--well, tried to pay--and my credit card got rejected. She graciously paid for dinner. As I was driving to take her home, the car cut off on the highway and I had to push it on the side of the road. I thought that by now I had the word loser written on my forehead. When I finally got the car started and back on the road, we made small talk until we got to her house. We sat silently in the car for awhile until she asked me if I was going to ask for a second date or was she going to have to do it. True story. If you can top that, best answer! |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 11:21 AM PDT My husband and I have been together for three going on 4 years we dated 3 years before we got married. I knew my husband had some debt before we got married but I didn't realize how much until afterwards. I pay rent, utilities, and groceries, clothes and doc bills for our daughter plus other misc necessities for the household and my personal bills . My husband pays car note, insurance, and his student loans and daycare through an HSA account and he was paying cable but had it disconnected because he said he couldn't afford it, my issue is my husband makes on average 2700 a month but is unable to contribute to our other bills. This is frustrating and when I question it he gets defensive and says my attitude is the problem. I just want us to be able to get along but I make less than he does and on top of paying our household bills he comes to me occasionally for money because his account is in the negative. We've went to counseling he's gotten into a debt management program but that does t seem to be helping I'm thinking about separating but am overreacting?? |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 11:06 AM PDT but he wnt get his *** up and get ready he just keeps groaning bout how he doesnt want too it 1pm right now and ik wat ur think "why dnt u just go?" well he makes the money in the house and has the only debit card he wnt get me 1 cuz he says im not good with money so no im not gunna just take his money w/o permission that would b rude srry i just needed to rant |
| Question: My wife and I are going through a divorce? Posted: 29 May 2015 11:03 AM PDT my wife and I are going through a divorce and I am still living in our house, now she says that she is scared how life will be after after the divorce so she asked me to live somewhere else and put the divorce on hold for a few months to see how things would be if we are living apart, what should I do I am so scared but I want my marriage to work also is this a trap she is seting up or is she really scared about it and this is her way of working on her marriage |
| Question: Who gets the houseafter 14 years of marriage? Posted: 29 May 2015 11:03 AM PDT |
| Question: Why wouldn't a husband say "I love you" or "I love you too" to their wife? Posted: 29 May 2015 10:57 AM PDT Why would any husband never say these things but rather say "I know." whenever you tell them "I love you"? |
| Question: Why do some pakistani marry 1st cousins? Posted: 29 May 2015 10:35 AM PDT Please don't get offended I understand that not all Pakistanis do. Also I get there's.nothing wrong with it. Is it for wealth so that it stays in the family or is it because they trust family. My family's is paki and all my auties/uncles married their 1st cousins through arrange marriage. |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 10:32 AM PDT I filed for divorce this morning. I have been married to my husband for 3 years and last night I realized that I have had it. He's cheated before and we were working on getting things back on track. Last night, he receives a call from his friend. She says that she and her girlfriend want to have a baby and because he has "strong genes", they want him to be a sperm donor. I was okay with it until the friend's girlfriend said she wanted to do it "the natural way". I hit the roof! He then gets off of the phone and starts yelling at me about how it is his body and I can't tell him what to do with it. When he calmed down, he had the nerve to ask me if I was so selfish that I wouldn't sleep with a friend's boyfriend in order to ensure they could have kids if she couldn't. I dropped him off at his mother's house. I was fuming, but I tried to do my usual and give him a kiss on the cheek. He tells me not to kiss him and when he decided to come back home, he didn't want to "hear that mess". I got up and filed for divorce this morning not only because I am hurt, but because I have never cheated and I have been a good wife. He says I am overreacting and we can talk it out, but I'm not interested. |
| Question: What should I do and how do I tell my wife? please help? Posted: 29 May 2015 09:49 AM PDT I'm 30 years old. My wife and I been dating for 9 years . And married for 5. So my wife experience alot of my young N dumb ways in my 20's. We have a 4 years old son. N every since we've been married. I've been faithful as I can be. HERE'S COMES THE TROUBLE. .. One day a partner of mines came to me and told me a old friend of mines needed to talk to me. First thing comes to my mind is WHY? I haven't spoke to this woman in years. So I have my partner to see what can she possible want. He tells me that she has a 8 years old daughter. And the man who's been fathering her child found out he wasn't the father. So she wanted me to take an DNA test to see if I'm the father. Should I take this DNA test and how do I tell my wife? Because even if the child mines or not. It's something from my past that's coming to the light, from me cheating... So I'll hate for something I did YEARS ago. To break up what I have going now. KEEP IN MIND I NEVER KNEW SHE HAD A CHILD. That's how long it been since I've seen or talk to her. |
| Question: Why do people think marriage is for kids? Posted: 29 May 2015 09:16 AM PDT Marriage was never for kids. In the old days, marriage was to unite families to gain things such as land, money, etc. So there goes that. A lot of people say that gays shouldn't get married as they can't produce kids, and that kids have a right to both parents. Okay but: Not every married couple wants kids Sterile couples can't have kids Old people who get married can't have kids And some fathers and even some mothers bail out on the kids, so the kid doesn't grow up with both parents Heck, some mothers die during childbirth so the kid doesn't grow up with a biological mother, and the mom or dad could die because of freak accidents. Gay couples can just adopt if they want kids or go to a sperm bank. So I don't understand the argument that marriage is for kids when I presented all these facts? Why the hell do people think this? Is this just a desperate attempt to deny gay marriage? And I'm not asking this question because I don't believe in not allowing gay marriage. I'm also asking this because it's personal. I want to adopt kids when I'm older and A LOT of people tell me that I shouldnt bother getting married, married is for kids biologically, I shouldn't adopt, etc etc. I'm an asexual and also I just want to adopt kids to help them end up in a nice home. Apparently this is frowned upon by many people on here and in real life. Wtf? Also who the hell are you to determine if I have kids or not? Why do people care so much about others' lives? Sorry this turned into a rant. |
| Question: Why my wife doesnt want to have sex? Posted: 29 May 2015 09:04 AM PDT My wife and had a 3some one night when we were drunk with kinda a friend after it they texted back and forth and mind u we were on different shifts. We were having sex every other day. Then one night at the bar we ran into him well he had a new girlfriend my wife didnt look to happy not sure y. Since then oh and now we are on the same shift but no sex unless she is drunk and evertime we drink she says that she want to do a 3some with him again and talks about alot. I even set us up on a swinger site. Just not sure what to think she says there was nothing between them after it. Just tired of when bedtime comes up i get a back to me and yes i have done everything i can think of playing with her butt ,boobs, but just get the cold sholder |
| Question: Married having an affair with single man how to let go? Posted: 29 May 2015 08:11 AM PDT Hi ive brrn married for 6yrs ive been having an affair with a single man for the last 3.im pregnant with his baby husband knows about the affair ..i cant seem to let go of the affair. I recently found out that (e) well call him.,has been contacting his ex.. After i told him i was prego with his baby.after confronting e he denies ever contacting her an said i was lying..hr said hes lonely since he cant be with.me everyday i stated to him if hed like to move on he says no but his ex said he said he doesnt want nothing to do with me and that he begs her to be with him. Which of course he denies. My husband has always known about thr affair an stated that er should work on our marriage and hell raise that baby as his own..How do i let go of my affair he calls texts shows up at my.job, i find it odd.that e is doing all these things he changed.his password to fb email.. After i found out he was talking to his ex.. I know that.its best to work.on my marriage i believe i was goin through a phase me and my hubby have been together for 16yrs he was my first ..and i was being selfish Please help |
| Question: What was the reason your got divorce. What have you learned from getting your divorce? Posted: 29 May 2015 07:54 AM PDT |
| Question: Wife lied for no reason, not the first time? Posted: 29 May 2015 07:50 AM PDT Ok, so it's just something very weird, I don't believe my wife is having an affair or anything like that but this is now the 4th or 5th time I've caught my wife lying to me over nonsense. My wife's natural language is different from mine and while I'm not fluent I can understand enough, she for some reason thinks because I always speak English I understand next to nothing. Even though I tell her I can understand a lot. She posted something online that I didn't fully understand but understood key words and then in English she wrote all booked. I asked what she'd booked, instead of telling me, she made up a lie about it being to do with work, when I know that 1 thing is a hairdressing appointment, another is a massage and a third thing is lunch in a restaurant. The lunch isn't a surprise or anything as I'll be at work so it's her going with other people. I could obviously find out the other thing using an app but surely it would have been much simpler to just tell me? It seems like such a silly thing to lie about that I'm just confused. I told her that I could read most of it and spoke to her about it but she just says she doesn't really know why she didn't mention it. Is this a big deal? |
| Question: My husband and I are busy and don't have sex often. How can we have sex more often? Posted: 29 May 2015 07:50 AM PDT My husband and I are both super busy. Between everything in our lives we don't have sex that often. It's not due to a lack of interest or attraction. It's because I feel like it's so hard to do with everything else we have to do. We both want sex more often, but we're trying to figure out how to do that with everything else we have to do. How do we have sex on at least a fairly frequent basis with a busy life schedule? |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 07:39 AM PDT If you don't know the rules society puts on husbands and wives then you have been living under a rock for 2,000+ years. Either that, or you are playing dumb so you can have an excuse to ignore them. Society want wives to be nurturing and husbands to be providing. This is the "give and take" society wants you to do. It's taught in church, taught in home economics, and it's taught in Hallmark cards when you shop for mother's/father's day or anniversary cards. |
| Question: Why married couples argue so much ? Posted: 29 May 2015 07:22 AM PDT |
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| Question: Is it weird that I got married to my wife after only knowing her for literally 12 hours? Posted: 29 May 2015 06:17 AM PDT We felt a strong connection the second we met and decided to get married right then and we've been together for 5 years and have not ever had a fight before. But my friends and family think it's weird. Is it? |
| Question: Help w/ awkward work situation? Posted: 29 May 2015 06:16 AM PDT Two of the people I work with are having an affair. The guy told me and it is otherwise obvious at work. Both of them are married to other people, and apparently their spouses have no idea. A third coworker is getting married this weekend and we will all be seated together at the reception (me and the cheaters plus their husband and wife). I feel SO awkward, especially since the guys wife is such a nice lady otherwise. how am i supposed to sit there and pretend like nothing is wrong when I know the two of them are banging on the side? |
| Question: Is this normal behavior in my husband and what can I do about this? Posted: 29 May 2015 05:39 AM PDT My husband has always been one to be like a "Yay Me!" person. He has always put his interests first and not care about how his actions affect other people. But lately over the years he has become terrible, an embarrassment. For example, instead of waiting to let me move my car or move it himself, he just drove his car across the neighbors lawn. The neighbor got so mad he yelled at me, not my husband. Instead of waiting in line he cuts in front of people. Sometimes they get mad and say something most don't. When they say something he just says "F you I wanted those". He interrupts people all the time instead of waiting for his turn to speak. He is becoming impossible to deal with, he is embarrassing, and people frequently get mad at me for his behavior because they know talking to him will do no good. When I talk to him about this he just says He wants it and F everyone else. We are in our 40's. He still has plenty of friends. They tolerate it in him. They just never ask anything out of him because they know he won't follow through unless it directly benefits him. He did have 1 incident where he acknowledged he was wrong. It was with his friends. He didn't feel bad he just admitted he did something. He doesn't do it with anyone else including me. |
| Posted: 29 May 2015 01:14 AM PDT So me and my wife had a falling out. We had a terrible moment in our marriage , and she said she just does not feel anything for me anymore. She said let's just be friends and mabye she will fall in love with me again. So for the past few days we go out to eat and we go to the movies and we have fun. But just as friends, there's never a kiss or holding. If I keep this up and we keep having fun will my wife come back to me? We're going to six flags in a few days and I feel like if she doesn't love me after that then she won't ever love me again. |
| Question: Do you think this is a sinsere reasonable gesture of apology? Posted: 29 May 2015 12:55 AM PDT My husband and I argued badly he even called me ignoranr mediocre, lazy, lower in capacity. Then next day he comes and brings me a rose. Didnt say sorry or anything. Just gave it to me. When i confronted him he says "the gesture speaks louder than words"..😕 |
| Question: How do I get my wife here quickly? Posted: 29 May 2015 12:43 AM PDT My wife and I got married not too long ago. She lives in guam where we met and I love here in the states. It wasn't too long after she went back to guam after staying with me for a bit to settle some stuff and and find out what to do with the things she owned that I found out she was pregnant. The problem we're facing now is what to do with her furniture. Nobody will buy it and I can't afford to ship it over. Also, the military will not help me ship it either (I am in the military by the way). I'm completely loss at what to do and it's kill me. I just want to be with my wife and help her give birth to our child |
| Question: How can i find out if my husband is cheating on me? Posted: 29 May 2015 12:32 AM PDT Are there any free spy apps or websites out there that will help? |
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