She needed to renew the lease by 4 PM today or else we have to move out. She knows i have lots of friends IN my neighborhood. She is refusing to renew it and is doing this just to punish me. i have friends that play soccer and hockey. Thats how i get my rides to practices! My mom doesnt want me in sports because im actually good at them.

i'm 22 years old. I applied for summer youth but my neighbor and mother pressured me into applying for a lifeguard job. I took the class and I passed but they want me to come in for more practice. So meaning I can't start working. But they called me today and told me about a class starting next week I can go to. Problem is I have orientation for my other job the day I have this swim class and I can't miss this orientation. What do I do? i'm worried my mom is going to be mad at me but I promised myself I would pay my dad back for the class ( all $320 of it) and that's final. I don't know I want the summer youth job more than the lifeguard and my sister got upset that I would be working with her. I only have a dilemma because my mom says they paid for the class when in reality it was just my father who paid for it ( and my parents don't live in the same house) my dad says to wait until tomorrow to talk to my mother about it

It seems like my mom has been getting tired and has been getting sick more than usual for the past few months and she seems to be getting tired faster and gets mad faster too(it seems like she is). She got her blood taken and checked a couple months ago. And my dad asked me and my sisters if we would like to have a baby brother or sister(this happened right after the thing below this paragraph). My mom once just randomly said "what if I was pragnant"(not in a serious way(I think)and my sister said then your stomach would be hard and she just laughed. My parents also bought a new car with 8 seats(I guses it's like 8 seats instead of 7(I only have 7 people in my family)and when I asked why we got a car they just said we needed a new one. And I saw pragnace tests in her bathroom a few months ago(There was 2 in the box but 1 of them was gone). And my mom is 42 and my dad is 38. I don't know if she's be pragnant or not. I really hope she is though because I really want a baby brother or sister.

The other day my family and I looked at a house. We removed our shoes (as often required at open houses). I was barefoot as I had worn sandals (not uncommon) and everyone else wore socks. When the realtor showed us the different rooms and asked us questions about what we thought, she often asked me "Oksana, how does that carpet feel?" Or "Oksana, how does that floor feel?" I later asked her why she kept asking me that, and she said that it was because I had bare feet, thus it was easier to feel the carpets/floors than those wearing socks, and said that my opinion on the carpets/floors was especially important. Does anyone else find this odd?

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He's 3 years younger than me. When he was little, he was so cute and looked up to me. But now, he curses at me at the time over little things. Even when I don't say anything mean to me, he curses at me. He calls me "*****," "dumbass," and the like. His behavior is out of control. He doesn't try at all in school, he's always getting into fights, and he hangs out with people who steal from him. My mom is always crying because he won't listen to her and talks disrespectfully to her. He's basically allowed to do anything he wants and he gets everything he wants. His lack of respect probably stemmed from our mom giving into his every demand, and never disciplining him, but he should be grateful instead of hateful towards everyone. When he's talking to his friends, he uses crude language and sounds like he's a gang banger to be honest. The police have been to our house several times, because he has stolen stuff and called the cops on his "friends." I try to talk to him about his behavior but all he does is go off on me like I'm the one who's wrong.

One of my sister's is creating a toxic household for me. I can't move out cause me and my boyfriend don't make enough each month and neither of us have our licenses. Is there a way I can get her to stop talking to me without saying anything?

My brother is honestly the biggest bully I've ever met in my life and just the other day he literally tried to drown me so please tell me how to pull a prank on him without getting caught (plz don't be the person who says " you need to get along"

So tonight I was supposed to go to the carnival with my friend to do something important. So my sister decided to throw a tantrum so my mom wouldn't take me. Now my mom said I can't go. What am I supposed to do I've been waiting a long time for tonight

Today, I was going to go to a friend's house for his birthday. I got up from bed and ate the breakfast my mother made my. She's a wonderful mother. When I went to fix my bed, she decided to read my text messages. The day before, she said that if she didn't get a message from my friend's parents that everything was prepared and that I could go, she wouldn't let me visit him. I had told my friend to tell his mom to send her a message but in parentheses i casually wrote "(stupid ****)" because I thought that asking for a message from his parents when my friend specifically told her in person that everything was ready for today (Saturday) was pretty dumb and pointless. She read that and got extremely mad and thought that I was saying that she is stupid ****.. After that message, my friend asked if he could write it and I said "idk, but write it in spanish so that she knows that the message is authentic". I called him a couple minutes later and told him to just get his parents to send the message. She read it and got even angrier. She called me piece of **** & that she failed in raising me, even though I've never done something like that in my life. She said my friend was worthless too because she thought he wanted to impersonate his parents, which he didn't. I told her that i called him and she slapped me. She dared me to say it again and I did, because it was the truth, and she slapped me again.What should i do? She won't even let me explain and keeps assuming that I lied to her She thinks me and my friend planned to trick her into letting me go to his house or something, when really I just told him to get his mom to send her a message. I called him after the messages and told him it'd be better if his mother sent the message. She won't believe anything I say and even said that I don't love her and that I never have. She says that she'd be fine with dying now so that I resent those decisions for the rest of my life. Now I can't go and she says I'll never be able to visit a friend again for years and even marked today on the calendar so that neither of us forget it. WHY IS SHE DOING THIS? She thinks I did something I didn't mean. She even slapped me three times for sticking with the truth even though she has never laid a hand on me in the past. Help please. I have nothing to apologize for except for calling her worries stupid shet. I didn't mean it to offend her, I was just thinking that a text from his mom was completely pointless.

I had a perfect life. Perfect job perfect boyfriend perfect house and a perfect car. Ever since we were young she would always compete with me. Our parents gave her most of the attention but I managed to achieve everything on my own. I've always liked her as a sister and held no grudge to her. We both attended the same university and even got the same job. Both working as full time police officers. But everything just went wrong. I was forced to leave for errands in another town only to come upon her and my boyfriend doing it in the office and the worst part being her becoming pregnant with his child. They both called it a mistake but I cannot seem to believe..should I just drop everything and travel abroad? I couldn't even think my beloved sister could do this to me...

For starters, my mother is a very kind, loving and caring person, but as far back as I can remember, she's been overly cautious and a tad bit paranoid. I was never allowed to do most things that kids were allowed to do growing up (like playing sports, going camping, or even learning to drive on time) because my mom was afraid of something bad happening to me. The older I get, the worse it seems to get. I'm 19 now and I just finished my first year of college and my mom has done her best to keep me in the house for as long as possible. If I want to go out to eat she'll insist that I don't need to and she'll make me food. If I want to go meet up with a friend it has to be someone she knows or she'll temporarily revoke my driving privileges. When I'm in my room she'll randomly walk in 4-5 times per hour to check on me, and as a result she's seen me change a couple of times. I confronted her about this and told he she's being a tad bit overprotective and she responded with "I know I am honey. All moms are like this. It's because I love you too much." I understand that it's her house her rules and I respect her authority, but doesn't this seem a tad bit excessive? @Vitoria I would If I could. My door doesn't lock.

My husband and I are 22 & 23 he recently got out of the military, I've been staying in NY with my parents because I was pregnant and he was going to be deployed when we got married and we planned on staying in NY when he got out of the military because we are both from here and both have family here. I don't work I was in school full time before I got pregnant and now I'm ready to go back to school and so I've been looking for the past 3 months and applying for jobs and not getting any calls back and the jobs that my husband could find are all starting at around $28000-30000 and rent for a 2 bedroom apt here starts at around $1200 and their aren't and schools nearby that offer what I was majoring in except one about an hour away. He got two job offers in Texas they both make about $42000 and rent where we would live is about $650-700 including water and their are 4 schools in a 20-45 min drive that offer what I'm going to school for and I could go to school full time whereas in NY I would have to juggle school and work and we would still be barely making it, how do I explain this to my parents without them getting angry because they like to be in control but to me I have more opportunities if we move

So I have a mid term coming up this week and so I m studying on the weekend. My dad suddenly walks into my room and starts yelling at my because I m not studying the way he wants me to study, which is by writing everything repeatedly. I study by memorizing the concepts and then asking myself questions, which is how I learn best. Also, I tried both techniques last semester. The course in which I memorized, I got a B+ and in the course I wrote everything down I just barely passed. To add to this, my drivers test is in 2 days, which he is really mad about because he thinks my work is more important than my drivers test. I ve been attempting the drivers test for 2 years now, and I finally found a good date for it. Now he just hates me for disobeying him. My mom is taking my side and says that both are important and that I should still do my drivers test. Also, I m a university student, so I feel that it should be up to me how I study.

April 4th, 2015, my dads dad passed away in his sleep due to cancer. Ever since he passed away I haven't been myself. I'm constantly feeling sad and insecure. Sometimes simple things get me down. I've been feeling really stressed out and just sad. I'm no stranger to loss either. Last year, my sophomore year in high school, my moms brother died due to stage 4 multiple myeloma. And in eight grade, my moms dad passed away due to cancer. I was really close to all of them. It feels like I lost part of myself. My uncle was the person who introduced me to photography and really believed in me. Since he's gone it feels like I have no one. Even my own mom is making me sad. She always says "Get up and do your makeup to look pretty." I never really feel pretty, and when she says that it makes me feel even worse. Idk what to do.

I'm angry at my brother for being incompetent. He constantly misplaces his phone, keys, wallet. Today we were doing an expensive figure skating lesson and I let him get the rental skates. He comes back with extremely worn out hockey skates. I didn't mind until I tried them out and I kept falling because the edge of the blade and shoe was slanting inward. We essentially wasted our time because our boots limited us from following what the figure skating instructor did. My brother said "wow, we made a lot of progress today." It's breaking my heart that I'm hating my only brother, but I really want to scream in his ear to get his **** together.

Hi,I'm 13 and I live with my sister but I'm not happy, I want to make this quick and simple but basically my mum died when I was six and I stayed with my dad. He then recently after got in a relationship with another lady and shortly after they married, we all decided to move in with her before the wedding to be a proper family but nothing worked out. I was always put down about myself, it was very depressing for me to the point where I wouldn't come home and I'd stay in a park, which made matters worse for me.. My brother shortly moved out before the wedding for reasons that I'd rather not say, but it was clear what my stepmum was trying to get at, so I moved in with my sister and her husband, she has 3 children of her own and took in 2 of her siblings. She constantly says how we've made things worse for her , I feel like I'm in the way and maybe it's best I go into care instead of bothering her, but I don't want to leave my friends and most things I've got here.

So my brother is a graduating senior. His dad came to visit from another state for his graduation. My mom made him take my brother's room. Now my brother will sleep on the couch. Me and my brother are working on a deal. For four days, he gets to sleep in my room and I take the couch for some deal. Any ideas?

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Hi! Ok so I am 16 a girl I have a little brother who's 9 live with my mom and dad. We love going to disney world but we don't have a ton of money. I have a job and make if I had to guess around $200-$300 a month probley more I. The summer since I'm a waiters assist at a golf course. Anyway my goal is to offer them at least $300 toward the end of July( when we would book it). And the. Give them around $700 more by December. To give you an idea of the trip We would fly we live 24 hours away and can't drive because of school Would stay on site at a value resort either pop century or allstar movies Would arrive late on feb 26 2016 and leave March 6 2016 We would have a meal plan regular or quick service 8 day park tickets maybe hopper pass( my brother will be 10 at this time so he would be charged as an adult) My brother and u would pay for an extras we want with our own money WE HAVE DISSCUSSED THIS PLAN AS A FAMILY IT IS NOT ME DECIDING MYSELF MY PARENTS WANT TO GO BUT ARE CONCERNED ABOUT MONEY. WHICH I UNDERSTAND DISNEY IS EXPENSIVE The money I give them would not be for anything extra for me I would be my. Contribution for the trip. I attempted to price this vacation ( 2016 prices are NOT out yet they will be in July). And it would be around ) $5500 I want to try and pay $1000 Oh I don't have my drivers license and am graduating that spring. Parents would this make you more likely to try and make this trip? How would you react? Thank you so much, Sarah 😊

i shower and wash my hair everyday before i leave the house i do it because it is very easy for me to overheat because i do not sweat people always comment on how good i smell tho. but the problem is my boyfriend, mother, and sister in law all think i shower to much my mother hasnt been around alot in my life and doesnt quit understand the "no sweating thing" as she calls it but what do ya'll think? thank you all for your answers some of you may want to know why my hygenic habits were being discussed by extended family was because my sister in law, her husband and two kids lived with me and my boyfriend for a month and boyfriend complained of the water bill to his sister because they had been here so long and didnt offer to help with bills and she tried to blame me for it and he defended me saying "she cleans up and cooks for 6 people'' and to give me a break sister in law only showered every 3 days husband once a week and she kept leaving her two children 10m/o and 6y/o with me so i made sure they bathed every day along with my own child 4y/o

this girl at school is always so sexist to all of the boys. especially my brother. She says all boys are dumb and smelly and says that my brother is a slob. my brother is probably way more organized and smarter thank that *****. she also says that girls are way smarter than men. Even though I'm also female it just makes my blood boil that she is like that. She even tried to get him in trouble claiming he was going to beat her up. My brother is very noon violent and the school knows that. Thank god he didn't get in trouble. I want to drag her and kick her teeth in but i know that isn't a viable option. What should i do? i guess i could rally all of the girls at school to kick the **** out of this girl. i need to do something before she tries anything physical. if she touches him i swear to the Lord i will kill the *****.

So I'm 20, and though yes I haven't been out a whole lot I'm still an adult, but my mom as a kid wouldn't even let me go outside alone. She rarely lets me do anything alone now(I wasn't even in public school). Well, my friends are going to a waterpark next weekend and I'm paying my way and going. When I told my mom she flipped, saying I was going to get killed or raped, and she said I'm too immature and stupid to go. No, I haven't done anything to lose her trust(god forbid she hasn't even given me the chance to), and she's threatened me that it will "cause a rift" if I go, but I feel if I never do anything without her go-ahead I never will get to.I basically told her I was going but she refuses to accept it and keeps acting like I'm not, won't let me gather any of the things I need for the trip and I can't even tell her who is driving me because she refuses to listen. So my question is, should I bother trying to tell her or just pass the contact info to her the day I'm leaving + the info of where I'll be with whom or should I try and sit her down again? Any advice on this? Yes, I know I need to move out but I can't right this minute so that won't help me out much.

My mother is drunk and had sex with other guy infront of me in the room she is really drunk and i am so mad at her and i feel like she is a whore or slut and s i ve been crying all night please help me with my problem btw am only 10 years old

My parents and I work at a flea market on weekends. Last Sunday, someone had left their bag on our table (ethernet box inside). As per protocol, I just set the bag to the side in case someone came back for it. At the end of the day when it was time to pack and leave, my dad opened the box to find about an oz of salvia. Of course, he accuses me of "****** with weed again". I won't lie, I have been caught with weed a few times, and was still smoking weed, but this incident had no relevance to me. Before the fanatics turn this into a battle, I want to make clear that my father and I are perfectly aware of them. Regardless of what SHOULD, WOULD, or COULD be, the issue here is the fact that recreational use of marijuana in NJ IS still ILLEGAL. The last time I got caught, we talked about this extensively. We haven't spoken in a week, much less even seen each other. The rest of my family can clearly sense something is not right. Neither of us have really eaten, slept, or interacted with anyone else. My dad works a full time job and still decides to spend his weekends working for a bit more cash for the family. From where he came from, and the fact that his integrity has remained untarnished renders him the man I respect most in life. Yet on the other hand, this is not something that I will ever cut out of my life. My goals in life involve its research. How do I fix things now? I must and will speak with him, but what can and should I say?

I'm nearly 18, and soon going to university. My father works overseas and earns all the money, while my mom basically does nothing. For a long time my mum blames men for everything. She has on many times called me a rapist, a**hole and so on just because I'm male and am doing well in school. She does jack sh*t and then apparently it's my fault because she wishes I was a girl. How do I deal with my mother hating men, hence, hating me?

I hate these family members so much! My moms sister and daughters are supposedly moving down here to Florida from a northern state Soon. My mom told them how we just bought 6 acres of land and how we were going to build a big house for (me my dad and my mom and two dogs) and also build a two car garage with a little apartment like place above it with two bedrooms for my grandma to stay after her lease is up for the place she's living at. Then my aunt goes "I was thinking bout moving to Florida get a away from here. And says if you don't have anyone living there when we come we could live there" and my mom was like I don't know. Then her sister was like "if not then you could pay for a apartment for me til t finds a job" (t is my aunts husband). (I changed names of the family) I don't know what my mom said but I hate them because : whenever I was little my aunts daughter (my cousin she's two years older lets call her Riley and my younger cousin will be Hannah) Riley would always cuss and one time when she was 9 and I was 7 she said the f word and I didn't know it was bad and I said it and Riley rattled to her mother and my aunt put dish soap in my mouth and I spit it on her ugly shoes and she yelled at me and hit me and called me a *****. And she calls me selfish and a spoiled brat and that I'm lazy. When she doesn't even have a job and sits on the couch all the time never gets up because she's like 500 pounds yet I'm the lazy 1. And my cousins will always tell lies about me.

That's me..:( I'm 17 years old boy. Sadly,My father died in 2006 because of heart attack in Kuwait. Since than only my mom is taking care of me, She do the job of teaching in school & her salary run our home. I feel alone so much but not bored because It's my habit now to live alone. Only who live a life a like can understand the circumstances & feeling of that life.Well answer my question plzz..!! :) Be thankful to God for making your parents alive & giving you brother & sisters.You will understand their value when they will left you.

I'm 13. I always have to keep everything I do on it open to them. For example, my parents always go through my browsing history, and I'm always afraid they might find something that the consider "bad" on a site that I do on. And sometimes they do. It's not like I INTENTIONALLY went on something bad. I can't use Incognito mode because then my parents will suspect I cleared my browsing history. And they said if I ever DO clear my browsing history, my computer is gone for a week. Also, if I end up wandering onto a bad site, and I close out of it while my parents walk in, my parents will demand me to open the page back up again or, again, I get my computer taken for a week. Like for example, yesterday I told my mom I was a furry, and she doesn't really know what furries are, and now today, I was looking a Tumblr blog on horrific fursuits (horrificfursuits is it's name) and my mom saw some of them, and I didn't want to give her a misconception of furries, so I closed out of it, but then my mom demanded me to open the page back up again or she will inform my dad about it, and then I will get in trouble. But the worst part is, they always tell me that I should have nothing to hide on the computer, that with me and the computer it's total transparency, and that it's a parent's job to see everything their child does. Well, I think not. Now having no privacy is just starting to get annoying, as I feel like everything I do has to be open to them and I'm sick of it. What do I do?

I feel like they hate me right now. My dad tried to kill me and he took my iPod and he said he was going to break it. My mom screamed at us and she took my iPod. I so f**king hate them right now. My mom screamed at us and she went out and drove off. What can I do to get it back?

Hey, well im 14 and my Dad is a sexist pig. My Dad is full Mexican (idk why but it just seems important to put that out) and well SUPER over protective. So I have an 8 year old brother, a 12 year old brother, and me. My 12 year old brother lives with my mom and when he comes over to our house my Dad usually brings up if he has a girlfriend, or is there any cute girls that like him, and here he is telling me that I can't date until im 25! Also, while my Dad is at work, he lets my trouble maker EIGHT year old brother go off to his friends house and just do what ever he wants. He can go from house to house, park to park with all kinds of friends and my Dad doen't even know where his is, and he's okay with it! While I already 14 years old, straight 'A' student, goody two-shoes daughter can't sleep over at her friends house ( which is all girls, no Dads, no boys) because he doesn't like the idea. My friend lives two very small blocks away from my house, and my Dad is very trusting of her mom too! How can he trust my 8 year old brother go god knows where with his friends when his goody two-shoes daughter can't sleep over at her friends house! He knows how to get there, he can contact me when ever he wants to, but he still doesn't let me. He has no way to even contact my brother though he still lets him hang out anywhere he wants. Well sorry for such a long story, my question is, what can I do about this? I perfectly know I can't change him.

My mom was asking me if I would still treat her well in the future, I'm 14. I replied by saying in 5 years, I didn't know if I'd like her or not . Then she started crying , which barely ever happens and she said that no matter what, I should always love her since she was my mom. She continued by saying that I was a horrible daughter and I probably always knew that I would never care about her in the future . And then she was like: I don't have to care for you, but I do it because I will always care about you , but not anymore . I hate you , you're the worst part of the family and I hope you like taking care of yourself. So now I feel really bad even though that's not what I really meant, I meant to say that I didnnt know what the future held , but if corse I would always care about her. She's so mad and sad right now, but I don't know what to say, I already explained what I tried to say but it didn't seem to go to her brain. Me and my mom were super super close and we had better memories than any of my other siblings. Help, I don't know what to do...

Hi I am a girl and I just turned 16. So my family is very dysfunctional. We have been living back and forth in neighbors houses and finally settled down in a neighbors house and it's been two years because my dad kept drinking and that's what caused us all to get kicked out our home. My dad is currently in the shelter doing drugs and being an alcoholic. My sister is 18 with some 30 year old dude and their both on drugs. My brother cusses at me and he's 13. He will hit me and if I hit back my mom yells at me. My mom over works herself but doesn't give up cause we are trying to get a home. Um I have been dealing with anxiety, depression, self-harm, and crying all at once for like ever and the chest pain is horrible. I am fighting this alone cause nobody else understands and my mom doesn't care for it. I told her many times she even went to therapy with me. She says I deserve "****" and I always hit people and start stuff when really it's self defense cause I grew up knowing I have to be the bigger person. I literally know what I'm doing though. I know alcohol isn't good to drink sadness down and I know drugs are stupid but well that's my opinion I don't judge too badly haha. The only thing that pulls me away from reality is suicidal thoughts and attempts and wanting to or feeling the need to run away but I have nowhere to go..I might just go to my sisters place one day. What do I do I'm so lost :(

So, I told my mom that i have a detention of 2 hours ( Due to Talking,Being naughty at school,ALL of that shi.t) And I actually didnt because my teacher was sick and not in school. I went home and heard Noises such as: Uhhh Uhhh UHhh. And i heard the bed shaking from downstairs. I went upstairs and the door was closed, i quietly opened it and then i saw them... Fully fcking naked. i saw my moms pussy and her boyfriends penis. Her boyfriend didnt have a condom on, then he removed his penis and I saw him shoot, Like Litterally Shoot about a litre of c.um into my moms pussy, Firstly im worried she will get preg. 2 im just creeped out about what i saw. 3 I need advice on this!

I've already written a letter expressing how much I love and miss her and that we should start doing something together. That didn't work. I've tried calling, but she's always in a meeting or something. That didn't work. I've tried texting, but the replies, if she replies, are very mild and simple answered. She told me I didn't do anything wrong, but I just don't know how to go about getting our "relationship" back. I thought about just going over to her house, but feel like that would invasive at this point. HELP

I started to babysit for my cousin, and then I told her I couldn't do it anymore because of summer school (online) it was an excuse to not babysit anymore. But then I saw how she couldn't find anyone and I felt bad so I told her that I would just keep doing it. Now that he's back he keeps throwing tantrums and being a brat. I can't deal with it anymore the baby won't let me do anything or my school work or eat or anything !!!! I know she will get mad if I tell her all over again to look for someone else to babysit her kid cause I told her to just leave him with me last time....... :(

My parents never let me go on sleepovers and clubbing. I am 19 years old, I told her that I was going on a University trip around Europe.I am going to Europe, however wih my friends. What are my chances of getting caught ? If I tell them I am going with friends they will say no.

I have NEVER gotten along with my stepfather's parents. They're hateful people who have an insane superiority complex about their own family, and they spoil my two younger sisters (my stepfather's kids). I honestly wouldn't care about that except then they go out of their way to rub it in my face. Like they're taking my sisters to Universal this summer, and they literally sit there telling me that I won't be going. I mean like CONSTANTLY. So I'll say, "That's fine" or "Have fun with that" to them, and my mom snaps at me and says I'm acting disrespectfully. Wait... What respect do I even owe these jerks? And how am I the one being rude? This goes on all the time. If I bring it up with my mom or stepfather they'll say that I just need to "watch my tone" when speaking to my seniors. But honestly WTF??? Does being younger than them mean I have to literally sit there quietly while they badmouth and tease me? I mean these people are bullies, plain and simple. Seriously, am I wrong? (P.S. I know the obvious answer is "move". Luckily that will be happening, but not until August when I leave for college. Thanks.)

For some reason or another I always wear a jacket; take school for instance, wearing it outdoors and in... This happens even in the house! Is it normal for me to do this? It just makes me feel safe... Am I crazy? My step-father scolds me for doing this, calling me stupid, weird, abnormal etc.

He keeps waking me up at 7:00 am knowing damn well we come in at 1am or 2am because of this event so I asked my mama if i could take a nap she said yes I wake up in the middle of my dream with him yelling and telling me to get up like wtf -_- then he's always says.....do you want me to knock the shet outta you I'm 18 years and I'm tired of his disrespect to me and my mama I'm waiting to get a house so I can at least tell him off then run home he always says he'll knock all of us out and I just wanna tell him "you haven't fought me yet and when it does I'm gonna go ham" impairing for the day he tells at me for no reason or to hit my mom again or push her I'm gonna let all my anger out through the years I never kicked his ***

sorry if my story is long i am a dutch woman who was married to an egyptian muslim man when i was 18 , i was young and got affected with his soft words but he turned to be controlling and abusing man . when i gave birth to my twin children , a son and a daughter . he took them away from me and left for egypt in 1994 when they were only 6 months . i moved on , resumed my education and made a good career and got a real family here , two daughters aged 8 and 10 and a son aged 14 . last year i found out that my mother was in contact with my children from my last marriage and arranged a visit for them here . they arrived last week . at first i was scared as i did not know how to act and wasn't sure of my feelings towards them and i didn't want to meet them at the first place until my mother insisted . they are 22 and take much after me me and my daughter got along very well , love at the first sight , she obeys me and opened her heart to me .about all her secrets and her life there , she even took her hijab off and dresses like a normal dutch girl .but she doesn't like my other children here her brother is opposite to her , he always makes barriers between me and him but he is so close to his siblings and they see him as the big brother figure even my husband sees him as a good young man . when i talked to my son he told me he likes me on his own way. this is their last week here and i want them to come back for me again and remember me what should i do ?

23 (female) no friends, no love life or anything. I'm tired and my family has scapegoated me for the longest. I have been every and anything for these people... and they have never had my best interest. No one wants me to succeed. My parents put all of my siblings on their feet with cars, start up money and college... since day 1, no one ever cared about my academics... I failed tremendously, but then picked my grades back up in High School and graduated... I struggled with depression so bad. I had hopes of going to college... I was prepared to start my journey.. but dreams got shut down when my controlling and psycho path dad told me NO and that it wasn't for me and that I just needed to stick around and take care of my family and that's what I been doing. Everyday I constantly hear how no man will ever love me, how I can't have friends, questioning why do I feel I should be loved. I'm pretty, everyone tell me... but my self esteem is dead. my brother just spitted in face yesterday because I told him NO when asked to wash his laundry.. I always do and I am tired. Got blamed by parents... and I can't go because I'm scared. No money, no close relatives (they are animals), no friends, or any transportation for a job hunt. I have license and drive to run errands only.. no personal use. How do I remove myself today with no money?

To start off, my parents got separated for two years. On the road, my dad lost his job (and moved out but my siblings and I still visit him), my mom still has hers as a business woman but her income is quite little and she only buys it for our food necessities etc. When it comes to my dad once he gets money whether he just borrowed it from a friend or earned it (sometimes he's hired as a driver... only sometimes) he would always spend it all on drinking or spend it on things that would make me and my siblings really happy since the only thing he wants for us is to be happy. Anyway school is starting in like a week and since it's going to be a new school for me and my siblings we need to of course get new school uniforms, books and necessary school supplies. My mom paid the enrollment fees ONLY and leave dad to provide us all the new stuff for our new school but it's hard for him because he has no money and job. And there's no way my mom could do it for him since she already did her part. I really wish I could help. I don't want to be incomplete with my school stuff and be embarrassed. Is there any way I could do? As a 15 year old girl? PLEASE HELP ME???

Ok so like my dad has these special headphones and so like he uses them for special purposes like work or projects and stuff and so like I was using them and my brother and cousin started fighting and so like they wouldn't stop and I tried to break it up and to get them to stop, but then after they stopped fighting, I found that the lil microphone on the headphones was broken it had snapped!!😱😱😱😭😭😭 and I know that if he finds out then IM IN BIG TROUBLE!!😱😱😱😱😭😭😭😭 plz help me what should I do??

....the child grows up, does he or she has to pay respect for her mother. After all, if the mother did not exist, so the child will not either. How should the child see this whole situation?

Ok so one day I was watching 8 mile late at night through my headphones on a school day my parents told me the next morning I should go to bed early. A while later I was watching the the good the bad and the ugly really late on a weekend and then I started humming the song and my dad says that it was a good movie but I shouldn't be watching a 2 HOUR movie late at night but it was actually a 3 hour movie that I only watched 2 hours of it. I asked my mom how she knew that I was watching it and after her avoiding the question for a while she finally says "I'm your mother and I know these kind of things" finally yesterday I was really sad and talking about how I wish I could be drunk so I could be happy and the next morning I found all the alcohol was gone from the fridge(this includes the unopened ones and the one they never threw away.) and tonight I found them hidden. WHAT SHOULD I Do my parents aren't the best at talking to and if I asked them about it they would probably freak out so is there any way I could find the supposed camera in my room or is there actually no camera cuz I've looked before but not that hard. Ps. I am fifteen

My sister was dumped my her husband of 10 years for a woman much younger than she was. The house sold and she had to move but her apartment would not be ready for 2 weeks so she is temporally staying with my husband and me. As expected she is depressed and has a very low self esteem. Trying to help her I asked my husband to tell her she is still beautiful and appealing to men. He did not want to do it but I insisted and that was what he told her. BIG MISTAKE. She thought he was flirting with her and she has been flirting with him ever since. He has been trying to avoid her but it is hard when she is living here. He wants me to tell her to back off. His is not interested in her in any way. I think he should tell her so I will remain good friends with her. Please give me your opinion. Who should tell her? My husband says the faster she leaves our house the better.

Whenever my sister in law wants to come over she is very vague and says things like " I will come sometime in the later afternoon to see the kids " or a similar comment. It would be nice to have an actual time to go off of so I can plan accordingly or better if she asked me what time suits me but she doesn't. If I ask for a time she may get annoyed or I may not get one.Just curious why do you think she does this? I know I should be more assertive and say you are welcome to come but I really need a time to go off I'm just so afraid of issues or drama. Thanks for any advice or thoughts on the matter.

I'm 18 years old and my mother and I argues everyday. It has gotten to a point where I talk back sometimes, but I feel like she provokes me. I'm not happy at all living with her I'm trying my best to stick it out until I go to off to college in August. She says I hurt her feelings by the way I act but she really hurts mines because she tells me everyday that I'm going to hell and I'm really tired of hearing of that therefore that causes me to talk back. God knows I hate acting like this but I just don't know what to do I feel bad about everything but I'm so tired of arguing everyday, I'm hoping once I go to college everything will change because of distance.

If it's really late and everybody is watching a movie, sometimes I will go get my nighty and come back to the movie and then undress and put my nighty on and return to my place on the couch. Sometimes I just take off my clothes and keep watching.

My little brother has basketballs and evet single morning for months I've had to wake up to him dribbling and I hate it!!! U have crazy anxiety for noises when I want it to be peaceful like at night or during the morning. He dribbles at night in the morning during the day and I asked my stupid mother to make him stop and she says she will but she doesn't do ****!!! It's driving me crazy I have a headache every morning and ice tried blasting sound in my ear but it's been making my hearing really bad. What can I do!? It's driving me insane I want to scream and curse at them

I just woke up and I right away hear my brother say comments like "Dad why do you have to be this way?" "it's 7 in the morning!" "I haven't talked to him in years!" and "They're in stockton, they're at the BASEBALL game!" So can anyone help me make sense of this because if I ask my dad he'll just give some really general answer like "you're brother didn't take care of his responsibilities" or something and if I ask my brother he'll be like "shut up!"

I have an issue with my dad. I can't stand him. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do any more. He expects everyone to do **** for him. I have to wash his dishes, my mom has to park his car in the garage and more.Then even if we do finish all his ridiculous demands he still yells at me how " you need to get off your *** as do something around here" He also goes out of his way to prevent anything my mom or I have arranged. This means claiming he has a stomach ache or sometimes telling me that he's going to act like he's not home when the landscapers come so they refuse to complete work since I'm a minor and my mom is working. He claims he's working as an excuse even when he's clearly watching YouTube. He doesn't clean or do anything around the house, but yells at us for the state of his room and the dishes (which he leaves a ton out before we get to them) He asks dumb questions like "Are you happy you're alive) over and over just to annoy me. Or maybe because he claims all his friends are stupid and inferior and has no one to talk to. He bullies my aunt over Skype telling her she had worse grades so she can't make her own decisions. He claims he knows everything. Like saying he knows veterinary medicine to how to hunt to the best way to cook. In reality most of what he thinks he knows is harmful. like he gave a bone that chipped my dogs teeth, but says it's not his fault and my mom did it. Yet my mom doesn't give the dog bones. Help!

Ok so just let me explain how my dad is. All 15 years of my life this is how he has acted. First of all, he doesn't spend money on ANYTHING. He's started making his own bread now cause he doesn't wanna spend money on food. He's been wearing the same 3 shirts for over 20 years cause he doesn't wanna buy new clothes. Meanwhile, he has over 400,000 dollars in his bank account. That I don't think he ever plans on using. He expects my mom to do and buy EVERYTHING with the $15,000 she makes a year.. Everyday he comes home from work @ 5:00, sits on the couch, watches tv till about 10:00, while eating the food that my mom has had to make him, and doesn't even talk to anyone or his two children. My 13 year old brother has a learning disability and autism. Instead of understanding this & helping him, all he does is yell and call him an idiot for not being able to do certain things. Transportation.. He rides his bike EVERYWHERE. It could be a 20 mile travel and he will still ride his ride there cause it's free. He simply will not buy a car, even though he has More than enough money for one. Or if not a car, he could at least take the train or bus {since we live in NY and Its full of them}. But no. Trains and buses cost money. He doesn't know what school I go to, hasn't ever wished my a happy birthday or ever gotten me a gift and SO much more. It's crazy & I just don't know what wrong with him. You try to talk to him and he doesn't listen. He thinks what he is doing is fine.

My family thinks I'm going to work today, but I'm not. I meeting up with a guy for a date. I can't tell her because 1. It's my first date idk how to tell her. 2. I met him online..... 3. Anything I tell my mom then becomes everyone else's business and I don't need that right now Am I wrong?