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- Question: Was I abused by my parents?
- Question: My daughter is dead my life is over?
- Question: Hate my parents, and want to go to foster care?
- Question: Do I have Borderline Personality Disorder ? Please answer?
- Question: Why Does Anyone Think Spanking Works If It Has To Be Done Repeatedly?
- Question: I don't know my social security number?
- Question: Any advice?
- Question: Are Jewish men attracted to black women?
- Question: Is having a violent autistic sibling in a home with other children considered child endangerment?
- Question: Angry Mom Advice?
- Question: Child Custody in SC?
- Question: Why dosnt my aunt remember abusing my brother?
- Question: Does your siblings ( sisters and brothers) get jealous of you in what ever you do in life?
- Question: Need help please?
- Question: Estava brigado com meu namorado nesse tempo ele me contou k tem uma k lhe pediu em namoro k ele tinha k responder a ela na sexta feira?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to let me stay at home all summer break?
- Question: How to not be scared of my sister?
- Question: Child Custody In SC?
- Question: What do I do when my dad reset my phone and he drinks every night and is really rude to my fam and friends? If I call 911 I might get hurt?
- Question: How hard is it for an only child to take care of his divorced parents when they get old?
- Question: Should I be the one to tell my brother about my dad having a tumour?
- Question: Is it OK what my ex husband is doing for my mom?
- Question: Death and bereavement.?
- Question: Was I the mad one that thought it was my fault?
- Question: Problem with parents - what to do?
- Question: Should my husband have to help out with kids and household chores?
- Question: Mother in law problems can anyone relate?
- Question: Advice on escaping Dysfunctional Family and living a better quality of life?
- Question: My dad never calls or texts me, what should I do?
- Question: Parents and brother wanted me to earn more money help?
- Question: Why do some parents?
- Question: How do I tell my mom that I'm wanting to become hipster?
- Question: Should I move out? I (20 years old) and my girlfriend of a couple years (21 years old) have been living with my parents for the past year.?
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- Question: My dad is acting like I'm hurting his feelings by finally wanting to move out of his house?
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- Question: What do you do for a living, how much money do you make, and do you like it? I'm trying to get an idea of what I should do for a living.?
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| Question: Was I abused by my parents? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT So I grew up in a very violent family.When I was younger when I used to cry or did something wrong my dad would hurt me. For example I remember at night I was crying because I wanted a drink(we weren't allowed out of bed at night) and my dad came in and I remember feeling terrified and trying to get as far away as possible until I couldn't go any farther and then he kept hurting me. It makes me panicky thinking about it. So around when I was 9 I became very quite and stayed in my room a lot.i learned that when I was loud I would get hurt.then my brothers were born and I had to listen/watch my brothers get hurt and I couldn't do anything about it.now that I'm older I'm remembering memories from when I was younger that I forgot.for example when my mom slapped me across the face because me and my brother were fighting. It's tearing me apart.its affected me a lot in my daily life like when someone raises their hand I flinch and go into protective mode even though I know they aren't going to hurt me.i do this subconsciously. I'm still so confused by my dad.he was never a 'loving' type of father but sometimes he's nice but then in a split second he changes into this different person when hes angry.i guess I'm really asking if it was wrong what he was doing or if I'm just being stupid?was it discipline? Because I only remember getting hurt, not why I was getting hurt. Maybe this happens to everyone?am I just weak by the way it's affected me? Am I overreacting? |
| Question: My daughter is dead my life is over? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:56 PM PDT I really dont know where should i start .. i married a guy that sounded nice but turned to be a a monster he was attacking me ..cursing and hitteng me while being prignant his parents was the same and i left his house to my parents house before i give birth with two weeks .... three weeks later my daughter died with a skin disease my parents dont like me being around .... im still 24 but letterly my life is over i dont know why im still alive i wanna suicide soo bad i feel like this will be better for every one .... i cant feel any thing .. not any more im crying soo hard right now pleas somebody tell me what should i do i cant take any of this any more . |
| Question: Hate my parents, and want to go to foster care? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:55 PM PDT I hate my parents. I dont like them at all. I'm 16, honestly cant stand or trust them. When I was 10, my dad's friend raped me. I told them, and they called me a liar. Im never going to get over that. I hate them, and want to leave, what do I do? |
| Question: Do I have Borderline Personality Disorder ? Please answer? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:49 PM PDT I'm just gonna say a little about my past. I grew up in a bad home. My father died (the central point of my life) and my family broke apart. I don't think I would be so hurt if my mother handled things differently. My mom became an alcoholic and has been w/ a few guys since then. She has went away to rehab and jail shortly after my father's death. We started separating pretty much. And it was all just so much sudden change from the most beautiful family to a family (all of my family) who turned to **** & abandoned me. Then I grew up to an 18 year old girl who feels she never got her childhood and she has no idea who she is. She never learned her personality and doesn't feel. From when she wakes up to when she sleeps, all she feels and thinks is "I'm a little girl who wants her family back and misses her daddy". I feel scared of everything and I feel anxiety. I'm socially withdrawn and appear friendly but really dont like people. i don't care for animals either. but i used to love them. i feel like i'm a sweet girl who has hate in her heart but is so loving. I feel like i'm the worst person in the world and im my own enemy. i cry all the time. probably like 30 mins to an hour and 30 when i get the chance. i just feel like dying. i also have had a lot of sex which i dont want but feel i cant control it. i dont want to but i do. the reason i dont want to is because i know things would have been different if i had my family and my dad would not like it. |
| Question: Why Does Anyone Think Spanking Works If It Has To Be Done Repeatedly? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:38 PM PDT If kids need to be spanked over and over again, then what's the point?! If it were effective, it wouldn't need to be done multiple times right? |
| Question: I don't know my social security number? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:36 PM PDT I'm 17 about to be 18 June 30 I live with my stepdad basically he's the one that raised me haven't seen my mom in months I don't know my biological dad and I don't know my social security number my mom knows it but I dont I need help how can I find out my social security number ? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 12:30 PM PDT Ok so this is obviously something u don't talk about cuz of a lot of reason but we r at the end here out of options I'm 16 n I have 6 other siblings in total its 7 my mom struggles every day to try n take care of us but it's hard there's never any money n my dad is helping well kinda he has his current gf living with us n its kinda hell I hate seeing my mom like that in pain idk wt to do we've tried everything my mom jst wants to get away n live in a house with us alone n away from everyone like I said we've tried everything we tried getting jobs n my mom has been trying to n we r currently living in a hotel room where trying here but nothing is working we tried getting help but they'll separate us n my mom doesn't want that its just really bad is there anyway we could get help where they wont separate us or anything like that or how we could earn money anything plz |
| Question: Are Jewish men attracted to black women? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:14 PM PDT My mom always jokes that my dad acts like a "jewish mother" around my brother because he's always asking him when he's going to find a wife and give him grandchildren. And that made me wonder if Jewish men are attracted to black women. It seems like our families would have a lot in common in terms of overbearing parents. Or am I being too stereotypical? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 12:14 PM PDT I'm 14 years old and my younger sister, who's autistic, is 12 years old. My sister is prone to violent outbursts and she'll pinch and bite people when she has an outburst. I have two other brothers too, one is 16 and one is 10. My sister used to live with us, but now lives in a special facility but now there considering bringing her back home permanently. She only used to come home on occasional visits (like on holidays and summer vacation) and my little brother is afraid of her and has been all his life (the last time my sister came home, she did bite him pretty hard). Is it considered child endangerment to have a violent, autistic child living around normal siblings? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 12:08 PM PDT My mom is always screaming at people and making them feel bad about themselves.She not only does this to her family but everyone that she is around.I told her many times that the way she talks to people is the way that they will talk to her in return.My older sister moved away from her because she got tired of the way that she was talking to her.I would move out myself but I have to stay for my sick grandpa.Since my sister left my mom has been taking out her anger on my grandpa and I.She blames us for everything that goes wrong and makes us cry a lot.Once I had to go to the hospital for an asthma attack the whole time we are driving there my mom is yelling at me blaming me for the attack and making her stop what she was doing we get to the place she walks in like she owns the place ordering the staff around because she wants to hurry up and go home it got to the point where they called security on her because she was trying to push her way into the back then the nurse made her leave because she was yelling at me making my attack worse and kept getting in their faces trying to start fights with them.Another time I was at the vet with my dog signing the papers.She starts screaming at the clerk ordering her around grabbing her papers throwing them at her.Then she starts yelling at the other clerk for staring at her saying"WTF are you you F****ing staring at you fat F***k?"the clerk started crying and I had to calm her down and apologize.I do not know what to do about her.Advice? |
| Question: Child Custody in SC? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:07 PM PDT I currently live with my great grandma. I'm 15, I'll be 16 in a few weeks. My daddy has full custody of me but I've never lived with him before. The only reason he has custody of me was because he allowed me to live with his ex wife and my brothers & sisters. He pretty much forced mama to sign her full custody over because she was doing drugs and we didn't want her to get in trouble and daddy didn't wanna fight for custody he knows he doesn't have everything it takes to be a parent and I don't think he wants to be, so he let me live with his ex wife bc that's where I wanted to be..she ended up being on drugs and making herself out to be someone I thought she wasn't. I live with my great grandma now and I have been for 9-10 months and I'm so happy here. Its drug free-alcohol free-smoke free-not violent I still have rules(more rules than I ever had) and I'm perfectly fine with that. But my uncle has made my dad mad and he called my grandma threating to come get me and make me live with him. I don't want to be with him it would be no good for me. I make As and Bs and am a really good child but I don't wanna live with my dad.my mom is in rehab and won't be out for 6 months. What could I do to make it where I don't have to go to my dads if he came to get me? I don't want emancipation I don't want to fight with my daddy I just want to live with my grandma not worrying about my dad taking me away. Is there any way I can stay with grandma without her fighting for custody? |
| Question: Why dosnt my aunt remember abusing my brother? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:50 AM PDT My aunty beat my brother with a cane many years ago, i can still remember the screems. She denies this and says i should get the facts straight and that i did it to him and not her because i was copying an ex reletive. My nan who rased me and my brother confirmes what she did to him in the past so its not me losing my mind! Why did she give me such an answer back? Doesnt she remember? Or does she tell herself so many lies she is starting to believe them instead? |
| Question: Does your siblings ( sisters and brothers) get jealous of you in what ever you do in life? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:48 AM PDT My elder sister talks behind my back just because I am living with my parents. I don't have a job yet, I am trying. I don't have a car or house where she has that. I am not ever jealous of her because I use to support her in life. This is the what I get for helping out my elder sister in life, do I deserve this? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 11:41 AM PDT For Spanish |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 11:35 AM PDT Então nos voltamos a nós intender antes da sexta feira. ele saiu na sexta feira de noite não disse pra onde ia. Só disse estou a sair. Lhe liguei não me atendeu depois de 3h ele me liga e eu atendi. Eu perguntei a ele onde ek estava me mandou dormir, perguntei pela segunda vez disse k estava com amigos a estudar, e eu perguntei n podias me atender ele disse k estava na carga. Deixei estar. Me pediu um tempo diz que tira notas baixas na escola pk lhe causo problemas, e eu desconfio k ele estava com ela. Eu gosto dele mas as vezes me dá vontade de desistir dele. Uk eu faco!!! |
| Question: How can I convince my parents to let me stay at home all summer break? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:27 AM PDT |
| Question: How to not be scared of my sister? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:20 AM PDT ok please someone give a real answer here my sister is 12 im 15 but this past summer everything was cool and fine but I told her my secret of nails designs even plain and nail technology so I asked her for hers that's how strong our bond was and kind of is but she told me that its not weird its fine its actually unique and I feel so controlled by her and it sucks to feel like that as you can see her toenails yes I like her hands and feet but we got into a small argument and before the argument I was able to go and look at her feet when she was playing the game or take pictures of them and her hands to when she wasn't necessarily using them but I used to just go up to her and do it but now after this its hard to build up my relationship with her im just a little scared on how to approach her bcuz now tht we argued she may think im a weirdo and im not trying to be I just have interest in that idk y but please help me on how to restore it back to the way it was |
| Question: Child Custody In SC? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:16 AM PDT I currently live with my great grandma. I'm 15, I'll be 16 in a few weeks. My daddy has full custody of me but I've never lived with him before. The only reason he has custody of me was because he allowed me to live with his ex wife and my brothers & sisters. He pretty much forced mama to sign her full custody over because she was doing drugs and we didn't want her to get in trouble and daddy didn't wanna fight for custody he knows he doesn't have everything it takes to be a parent and I don't think he wants to be, so he let me live with his ex wife bc that's where I wanted to be..she ended up being on drugs and making herself out to be someone I thought she wasn't. I live with my great grandma now and I have been for 9-10 months and I'm so happy here. Its drug free-alcohol free-smoke free-not violent I still have rules(more rules than I ever had) and I'm perfectly fine with that. But my uncle has made my dad mad and he called my grandma threating to come get me and make me live with him. I don't want to be with him it would be no good for me. I make As and Bs and am a really good child but I don't wanna live with my dad.my mom is in rehab and won't be out for 6 months. What could I do to make it where I don't have to go to my dads if he came to get me? I don't want emancipation I don't want to fight with my daddy I just want to live with my grandma not worrying about my dad taking me away. Is there any way I can stay with grandma without her fighting for custody? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 11:11 AM PDT |
| Question: How hard is it for an only child to take care of his divorced parents when they get old? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:07 AM PDT I am 28 years old, Only child (Male), My parents are divorced and they are aging. I am worried that I will not be able to take care of them properly. I am also worried that I will never get the chance to get married or move out. |
| Question: Should I be the one to tell my brother about my dad having a tumour? Posted: 13 May 2015 11:01 AM PDT Apparantley he had a biopsy today. It was a shock ... I didn't even know he was ill, or had booked a biopsy, or that they found a tumour. But my brother lives 5 hours away in Scotland. If I do tell him, it'll be over the phone. I don't know if the tumour is benign or not. Should I tell him? Or wait until we know? Or ask my mum to speak to him? Last time my dad was a bit ill, it was a couple of months until my brother found out -- I thought he knew, so when I mentioned it he was surprised and told me he'd not heard anything about it. So if I wait too long this time, he will be upset. Any advice? It was me who told him over the phone that our granddad died last year ... that was hard enough. |
| Question: Is it OK what my ex husband is doing for my mom? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT Many years ago my mom was in a car accident. When she got out of the hospital the doctors told her she had to have some one with her to take care of her for 5 days until she was able to take care of herself. It would have been very hard for me to get off work so my husband Jason took care of mom for the 5 days. Mom fully recovered thanks in part to the great care Jason gave her. Mom is going to have surgery soon and she wants Jason to take care of her again for a few days when she gets out of the hospital. The problem is Jason is now my ex husband and I have remarried. I told mom that even though we had a friendly divorce I didn't think I could ask Jason to do what she wants. She said I will ask him myself and she did and he readily agree to take care of her. I really have mixed feelings about this. I know Jason will give mom great care. It is almost impossible for me to take the time off to care for her and hiring a private nurse would cost way more money the I have. My current husband is upset that mom is asking my ex to help her but at the same time he does not want to do it. Should I just be grateful that mom will great care after her surgery and that Jason will do if for free because he really likes mom and she likes him and that is what really matters |
| Question: Death and bereavement.? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:51 AM PDT Hello, you probably all don't care but I need to tell someone. My dad died almost a year ago, and I thought everything would be ok. It's not. I haven't had a real cry since September and i think I'm in shock I can't come to terms with it but at the same time I don't know how I feel. Everyone just gets on with their life and it's seems easier for them I feel just like I did the day it happened. It's upsetting to think I'm never going to see my Dad again and when I see other photos with their fathers I kind of get Jealous and upset. I know that's terrible but tough! Please don't tell me to go see someone because I get told this most times. I'm just fed up and I've lost interest in everything the only thing that keeps my happy is my Dogs what do it do? I've just turned 17. |
| Question: Was I the mad one that thought it was my fault? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:39 AM PDT I remember my sister and mother always been abusive to me and then told my father I was the abusive one and he started to beat too.... I did believe them but now I see after many years what I saw that time and this is that I was the kind one.... But still I can t believe this happened to me.... It s not my parents, the whole world doesn t respect me.... maybe my baby face, maybe my stupid kidness maybe being short and haven t much physical power, but this is the story of my life. You can t know if I was the crazy one but you can know if these things happens to other families.... Is there a possibility they just took advantage of me? Now all I do is hate them (but I can t really hate anyone unfortunately and believe me I want). |
| Question: Problem with parents - what to do? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:35 AM PDT Me and my sister live on our own. My sister lives with her fiance in a house and I am on my own in a apartment. Whenever I talk to my parents - it seems like they will help my sister out any way they can but its not the same with me. They gave her a thousand dollars for the house. They pay for her flights home, when we go shopping - she buys her expensive clothes for work and when she comes home - expensive museum visits, dinner, clothing, and new skincare products. They have never done this for me. They didnt do anything for my birthday and when i mention car problems etc they dont want to help. They make excuses to not get together like my dad was feeling angry that day or if they would help me move the bed would fall apart?? I am not sure what to do. I am thinking of walking away. What would you do? |
| Question: Should my husband have to help out with kids and household chores? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:25 AM PDT I have been a stay at home mom for 14 years. We have 2 kids together with the youngest being a type 1 diabetic. He works for an offshore shipping company and stays gone about 50% of the time. When he come home it's always about what he needs (wants) to do with his time off. I Don't have days off or even an hour off. His opinion is that all cooking cleaning and child issues are my problem. I'm trying to start a business but never have time to work on it. Is it fair to put all of it on me or is a father supposed to help out? I'm Getting very sick of being reminded of what I haven't done |
| Question: Mother in law problems can anyone relate? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:15 AM PDT My mother in law is a pain she gets jealous over the littlest things. She got mad b/c we went and seen my husbands step mom on mother's day first. The reason we did was because she told us that she was going to see her mom for mother's day and for us to come later on to her house. Well we did that and just because his stepmom wrote on facebook that she liked the gift we got her and how much she liked us spending time with her. Well when we went to give my mother in law her mother's day present she was all mad and turned her back to us the whole time. She blocked my husband from facebook.She is acting childish. We live right beside her for now and it's just driving me crazy not to mention she goes to church everytime the doors are open. I can't believe she is acting like this. What should I do? She doesn't do this to her other son and daughter in law she treats them like gold. Does anyone have some advice on what I should do. Has anyone ever been through this before? |
| Question: Advice on escaping Dysfunctional Family and living a better quality of life? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:15 AM PDT My family has always been at war, I heard stories of my Father swinging me around in a caravan on holiday when i was still a baby. My mother physically assaulting my Father, My parents being on acid when we was on holiday and countless other things. My mum was sectioned 3 times when i was about 3-4 with Bipolar Disorder. They was always arguing with eachother when i was growing up until eventually they broke up when i was around 13. Ive basically been neglected and emotionally abused my whole life and now i just feel burnt out. My mothers side of my family are always bitching about other family members behind their backs and seem to really thrive of drama and confrontation. When i was 10 years old my Fathers cousin was murdered quite brutally, bearing in mind this was shortly after my Mother divorced my Father, and my Father would sit me down and detail the incident very vividly and for a kid of 10 years of age it really affected me, and still kind of does to this day. It wasnt all bad, there was some really good memories we shared together. Its affected every aspect of my life now and to this day the arguing and abuse to my emotions and mind continues, but its just brushed off like its the norm and it makes me feel as if im the crazy one. They bad mouth me to all sides of the family so it seems like im the one with the problem. I just feel totally useless at the moment, i messed up my education due to this so cant find a job to save up an get away, what do i do? |
| Question: My dad never calls or texts me, what should I do? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:07 AM PDT I never had a dad growing up, but when I was 12 I got a birthday card from him with his phone number in. I called it from then we build up a relationship. He used to call me and text me to see how I am. I visited him every holiday which is a good 3 hours on a bus. But now I'm 15 going on 16 and I feel like I'm the only one making and effort to stay in contact with him, he says he will call sometime but he never does. I haven't seen him for sometime now, only because I'm currently suffering from agoraphobia, but he know that. Has anyone got any tips on what I should do? The last thing I want to do is give up on him. Thanks. :) |
| Question: Parents and brother wanted me to earn more money help? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:05 AM PDT I finished my bachelor degree in asian American studies. I just recently finished my medical assistant certificate and going onto my externship soon, but my parents and my brother kept complaining that I should continue school for more money. I really don't want to go back to school. Is money everything? I'm going on twenty eight years old, but she doesn't matter. My parents want me to get a fulltime job and continue school but that's crazy and I don't want that. Help? |
| Question: Why do some parents? Posted: 13 May 2015 09:41 AM PDT Let their kids run wildly in stores.? |
| Question: How do I tell my mom that I'm wanting to become hipster? Posted: 13 May 2015 09:36 AM PDT |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 09:14 AM PDT During that time she has been working and I've been in College. I just graduated yesterday and I'm looking to get a job ASAP. We're trying to move out. I also wanted to go to music school (most likely in Tennessee) because I love it and I really think I could go somewhere with it. I thought I would get a job along with my girlfriend and save up money for the next year/year and a half to pay for necessities like rent and food. My mom has always been supportive of my music and still is. However the problem is she is convinced that by doing this I'm ruining my life. She thinks if I quit going to college for now I'll never be eligible for FAFSA again. She also thinks that we don't have a clue about what it takes to live on our own. She wants to sell the house that we have now and find themselves something smaller and give us the rest of the money. I'm not the kind of person to take from someone. I want to do this myself, I want to be capable of taking care of myself. I try to explain my side and ask her what's wrong with our plan and she just won't have anything but what she thinks is right. I also want to mention that I am an only child and my mom is extremely overprotective. She doesn't want to let go. She says she's just trying to help but a part of me thinks she just wants to hold on any way she can and this will just end badly. I am a very conciencious person and I just want to better my life and do the right thing. Any opinions or advice would be greatly appreciated. |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 09:11 AM PDT i have something coming up this weekend and my parents and siblings are expected me to do it but im not sure if i can. its a performance and everyone is going to be there and i have extreme social anxiety. What can i do it get out of this? Serious answers only please. |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 08:29 AM PDT My dad helped me with a college registration issue and I told him thank you and I appreciated it. But I also told him that I think I need to focus on moving out before I start school because I think I would be able to concentrate better on my studies if I lived somewhere different. I'm 27 years old. He still treats me like I'm a kid constantly asking me questions. It's NOT going to be a good environment to be around to focus on my studies and I told him and my mom tried to make me feel guilty by saying I hurt his feelings by saying that but that is total bullcrap. Both of my parents have constantly loved controlling me and parading their dominance over me my whole life and it's suffocating. They seem upset that I'm HAPPY to be moving out of their house. I feel like they WANT me to feel dependent on them forever. It makes them feel powerful. But they both act like little kids trying to be grown ups, not actual grown ups. Just because you have a job and make money doesn't give you the right to treat another person however you want to, right???? |
| Question: Is their somthing trying to hurt me and my daughter ? Posted: 13 May 2015 08:08 AM PDT Im just wanting some answers the other night i was feeling verry on edge and uneasy like their was somthing or someone in my house !! I pretty well live alone its just me and my 3 month old daughter my fiancé works away and is only home 5 days out of the month anyway i was feeling odd so i went to bed i picked up my fiancé the next day from the airport he was home for 5 days he left yesterday and then that night i had the same sort of feeling when i woke up in the morning i had finger marks on my right arm and the way they where positon it would of been impossible for me to do it myself .... i was pretty freaked out i was going to stay at a friends the night but then i decided to go home so i got a friend to drive me ! When i got home i sat my daughter up in the corner of the lough with a pillow so she was laying back a little i have always dont this as she dosent like her swing anyways i always make sure she is not close to the edge and isnt sitting up enough to be able to move herself anywere but tonight when i did it i went out for a smoke i had a couple of drags an herd this loud thud i ran inside an she was approximately a meter away from the couch under the coffee table their was no possible way she could have fallen or even got close enough to the edge of the couch to fall an even if she did she would have fallen down right beside the lounge but she was down towards the end of the couch and about a meter away from it on the ground face down under the coffee table! I need some help is their somthing trying to hurt me and my baby ?? Even my friend who had been trying to convince me for hours that i somehow must have left the marks on my own arm was verry worried and said that their was no way she could of done that an got so far on her own !! Someone help im worried for my little girls safety |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 07:58 AM PDT My sister did not want to come see our dad ... So after my dad asked her again and a again I finally said "maybe she just doesn't want to come!" He said ok but was I out of place because I love my dad idk if I wuz just jelly or what but yaa. We are also 1/2 sister maybe she just don't like me. |
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| Question: My mothers friend is horrible to me? Posted: 13 May 2015 07:22 AM PDT So, my mums friend almost always comes over to drink with her, or it's someone else (my mum very recently went through a rough and horrible divorce with my father, and goes out every night to go out drinking). Yesterday, I was off school as I was ill, and my mothers friend was round. So I told my mum that if i don't feel well in the morning i may have to go to the GP to see if i have a stomach bug or something. Then all of a sudden my mums friend just starts laughing, jokes around with my mum saying i'm a lying little bee (substitute for another word), tells me to stop lying and get my bum (again, substitute) back into my room and not to come back. And today, mum was on the phone with her and I came in to show her something, not realizing she was on the phone. So she tells her to hold on, and her friend asks is that little cow still off school, and my mum replies yes, and the friend says, stick a sharp stick up her bum and drag her to school like the little s*** she is. I'm really unhappy with this, but i'm scared to talk about it with someone. My mum also has men round the house, and because i'm 15, she tells me to f off whenever someone is round. Someone help! |
| Question: Blaming my parents for not being stimulating.? Posted: 13 May 2015 07:19 AM PDT Over the past years, I have met some great people who have taught me all kinds of other viewpoints and ways of living that do really not match my parents'. I today see some of my peers having their families backing them up in business, in taking them to the perfect schools, in sending them off to a foreign country in order to become better, whereas my parents have always played everything on the safe side and were never stimulating me to get higher, to do more. They have always thought in modesty and told me: you are good enough like this. However, I never feel good enough, I feel I have an enormous potential that I am not living to the fullest, simply because no one is taking me there. I need a coach, I need to have the back-up. I need to know my family takes strong decisions and they can help me starting up a business etc. But they aren't like this. And therefore, I feel more and more angry with them, I feel they have minimalized their role as parents and haven't put themselves aside to stimulate their children. I feel I lack the keys and the insight to take myself up to a higher level. Are there people like this and what did they do to improve? Who did they turn to? Is it OK to have these feelings about your parents, is it fair? Thanks for help |
| Question: Is my sister-in -law a sick twisted F*Ck? Posted: 13 May 2015 07:14 AM PDT My brother and sister and I have always been close. We grew up in a very rough household (My mother had mental issues and constantly emotionally abused and neglected us, and my dad was afraid of her so stayed away most of the time). I am the oldest and really kind of took care of my younger sibs and we were all really close. Now we are all grown...and recently my brother (youngest) who is also now a recovering addict, married a woman he just met a few months ago. She is a religious fanatic and says since she brought God into his life he is saved and staying clean. Whatever ..as long as he's happy. However, she has really ticked me off several times already. Last summer, she went to my mom and told her she thought MY teen son was on drugs, and my mom LOVES this new wife of my brother (and drama), so came straight to my house (that I own an pay all the bills for etc) to drug test my 16 year old son ! (no one even asked me permission, and OH ...he of course tested clean BTW!) I was FURIOUS. Now it's my brother's birthday and I wanted to send him a funny birthday meme to his phone (since his wife won't allow him on facebook now). They SHARE a phone so I texted it, then asked if he recieved it, then SHE texted me back asking "what did you send? I don't want him getting any pix on this phone that are not family friendly" FIRST of all WHY would I send something sexual or dirty to my OWN BROTHER?? and second of all...butt out you controling ***** !!! |
| Question: How should I feel about what my mom is doing? Posted: 13 May 2015 07:02 AM PDT My problem started when I invited some of my high school friends for a sleep over at my house. These girls bonded with my mom who is a doctor mostly because they could ask her questions about their body and mostly about their reproductive system. Mom gave them correct information and corrected MANY errors in their thinking about their bodies. This info really opened their eyes and hopefully made for less teenage pregnancies. These girls told their friends about the sleep over and several other girls ask if I would have another sleep over and invite them. I did this and had the same result. They all wanted to talk to my mom about their bodies. I did this 4 times. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I feel a little bit unusual about sharing my mom with these girls. Mom is always available to answer their questions as she has seen the tragic consequences of bad information on teen girls lives. Should I be proud that my mom is available to give these girls the facts of life. Why is it they feel so free to talk to my mom with their questions and will not talk to their parents. |
| Question: Should I tell my wife about this? Posted: 13 May 2015 06:59 AM PDT My wife's mother Billie is staying with us for a few weeks while her house is being remodeled. She is a wonderful person that we both adore. She has a great personality and is just a joy to be around. I was brushing my teeth in the bathroom and Billie walks in, takes off her robe and gets in the shower. WOW. What a beautiful body. I had to get out of there fast so I would NOT get a b0ner. Guys, can you imagine how I could explain to my wife if I had got a b0ner for her mother. I think I would be in BIG TROUBLE (gals would I). Luckily it did NOT happen. This happened a few days ago and it apparently is no big deal for Billie. She never said a word about it. Should I tell my wife what happened and/or just lock the bathroom door every time I an in it and forget this ever happened? I am afraid if I tell my wife, she will be mad at me or mad at her mother or mad at both of us. Since nothing happened wouldn't it be better to just forget about the whole thing and not cause a family fight? |
| Question: Is it possible to hide a marriage from my parents? Posted: 13 May 2015 06:58 AM PDT Ok so my boyfriend and I live in separate states due to him being in the military. And while he s over 25, a college graduate, and had lived on his own for years before he joined, he is still viewed as a child and needs to live in the barracks. I recently had to move back home myself due to some unfortunate circumstances and am still on my dad s health insurance plan since I m under 25. If we get married then he can move off base and I get my dog and cat back by living with him. I know that my parents won t be happy about my decision but I also know that it s the best decision for me and my boyfriend. Is there any way to hide this marriage from my parents until I can move out here to be with him? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 06:48 AM PDT Hai my mom is 39 and im her 18 year old son ...I dont know how to tell her this but lately she hasn't been wearing bras , I know this because her nips are poking through all her tops she wears ... This kindoff bothers me because it is very visible ... How do I tell her to start wearing a bra again ? thanks guys |
| Question: Should i quit piano? Posted: 13 May 2015 06:48 AM PDT my sister thinks it's really annoying, and hates to hear me practice. she's constantly complaining and i might just quit to stop her from constantly insulting me about it. |
| Question: How do i get my husband and the father of my children of 13 years to come back home? Posted: 13 May 2015 06:34 AM PDT He ran off with this wh**e and her two kids and are now living together. Apparently he's starting to realize the grass really wasn't greener. I was hospitalized for 6 months and almost died. She took advantage of the situation. But im back to normal now and ready to put my family back together. She has just filled his head with so many lies and i think she has threatened him. He is in the army and i wouldn't put it past her. I have already taken her to court once. Now again for harassment by computer. |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 05:56 AM PDT For the longest time i am having this debate with myself. The whole issue started couple of years back. I got married and life was just 100% perfect. The best wife i could get, the best family i could be born in. The issue started after everything kinda stumbling with wife and family. My wife is still the best but just cannot accept when someone of my family give any suggetion on anything. She just takes it negatively lately. She wasent like this before idk. She will take anything i say but not from anybody else. The smallest thing she started keeping in her mind and then once in a while the bubble burst. Other side is mom and my sis and dad. They all are right about everything and wrong too sometimes. Just examples sometimes the give are wrong but the intese is for her benefit. We have a baby coming and just anything i say. Shetakes it negatively. But then she will realize that was for her own sake. I am in the middle where i see both are right and both are wrong. I love wife, mom so much where i can not take anything for bad. I feel both sides pain. But neither one want to accept for eachother good. I cant live without neither one. I thought of leavingthe house for good but worried about the consiquonsies after that since i am the only one earning in family. Days have been passing by haddling both crying and giving thier sides to me. I cannot blame eather one. Never been on this road. Thought my life and people are too perfect for these, i guess i was wrong. Somebody????? |
| Posted: 13 May 2015 05:55 AM PDT I've been really stressed out lately because i miss my dad and sister and my grades are failing. My mom is mad at me and keeps yelling at me because of my grades and i don't know how to tell her that i'm stressed. I always try and stay home from school so i'm not reminded about my dropping grades. I try so hard to turn in missing work but it doesn't always work out as perfect as that. She never believes me when i'm sick. How can I explain to her in some way that i'm going through a lot right now and that school isn't any more important then my mental health? |
| Question: Why my brother friend ask me always were my brother? Posted: 13 May 2015 05:44 AM PDT he always msg me saying were my brother at why he dont msg him insted ? |
| Question: What did he mean by this? Posted: 13 May 2015 05:37 AM PDT Me and my boyfriend got in an argument last night because he tends to pick his brother over me sometimes. I am getting sick of it. We live right next to his brother and sister in law. Which sometimes is a little to close and I wish we had more privacy. They don't really bug us much. But him and his brother work down at the farm alot. Which I understand they need to get the work done. But what annoys me is he will spend all day working down at the farm with his brother. Than they will go cruising or go visit their friend and have a couple. I am not saying he should not hang out with his brother because I know he can. A good example is on moday night I asked him to go to the bar for a couple. He said no that him and his brother were going to work down at the farm then go to their friends to visit. I had asked him first to come with me and I even said I would pay for the drinks. Cuz his reason was he didn't have money. Then last night I told him I am getting annoyed with it and he said well family comes first. And I said oh Im not family and he said no not yet. As in he thinks being family you have to be married. But i consider him my family and we have a dog so I have told him before "oh look at our cute family". Why would he say this? Or are girlfriends not considered family? |
| Question: My sister is blaming me for her phone being stolen? Posted: 13 May 2015 05:13 AM PDT My sister had her iPhone for 6 months before it was stolen. I'm 19 and she's 22. We were at a pub last night and we only had 2 or 3 drinks because she has work right now. When she going to order some drinks, she asked me to look after her phone. I was holding the phone while she was ordering the drinks when someone yanked it out of my hand and walked quick towards the door. I went after him. He started to run fast - but I was in high heels. I had to take them off to try and get to him, but he was too fast for me. My sister was running behind me and asked me what happened. I said that someone stole her phone. She then started shouting at me - she said it was my fault because I was looking her phone. She also called me "an irresponsible person". When we were at the pub after the phone got stolen, she began to ignore me and she's been ignoring me ever since. Her phone's on contract, so she has to pay nearly £50 a month for 1 and a half years for nothing. She has insurance though, which is good. Is it really my fault it was stolen? "she said it was my fault because I was looking her phone" should say "she said it was my fault because I was looking after her phone" |
| Question: My life is falling apart? Posted: 13 May 2015 05:07 AM PDT I am 16 and I'm stressed and depressed. A month ago my grandmother passed away and we were really close. I was closer to her than I am with my parents. This has made me lose my faith and my happiness. To make things worse, now my parents are possibly going through a divorce, which hurts a lot. Ever since this all began, my grades have gone down and school is making everything worse. My best friends are the only reason I am able to hang on but if my parents go through with the divorce, we will have to move and I'll lose my best friends. Everything is falling apart, one by one and I can't bare the thought of losing everything like this. I don't know what to do.. |
| Question: Mom keeps thermostat at 62, but? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:53 AM PDT Alright so I live in a well off family. It's not like they can't afford to turn the heat up a little bit. I also have cold induced asthma, keeping the house at 62 makes me feel like I'm about to have an attack all the time, on the contrary, when. I'm at my grandparents house which is set to 67 I've never had issues and breathing and same thing with school. How do I talk to my mom about raising the temp? While I understand It saves money, the medication they end up having to pay for and sometimes the hospitalization probably isn't worth it. |
| Question: Very worried about my little brother. What should I do? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:37 AM PDT So my lil bro is in the 8th grade and he has been struggling. Not fake struggling. You know, like people that complain when they have a C on their report card. I mean, my lil bro has F's and D's all across his report card and with less than one month left of school, he's in danger of failing... So I'm really concern because he's taking the same path I took growing up. The lazy path. The path that only concise of video games and joking around. I'm also very concern because I believed that by me talking to him about my experience, he would do better, but that doesn't seem to be the case. I preach and I preach and I preach, and nothing. He's still failing. Every time I come home from work, I see him playing video games, while my lil sis is doing homework (she has excellent grades). My little brother is 14 going on 15 and has ADHD, but I tell him that that's not an excuse! He should still do well. He needs to show more effort! Because my laziness got me no where. I'm 23 years old, drop out of college because I was not prepared for it and now work a dead end job, living with my mom still. It's embarrassing. I tell my little brother about it all the time but it seems like he really just can't do it. He hates school just like I did. I'm very concern. PLEASE. Any advice will help. Thanks. |
| Question: How to get used to moving out from parent's house? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:37 AM PDT I feel lonely and depressed now that I've moved away from them. I have friends, but it's not enough. I can't handle the fact that everything's down to me now. I have to look after myself, if something's wrong it's my fault, I can't have someone else fix my problems, etc. I know I can move back in, but I'm too old for that. Besides, everyone moves out eventually and one day my parents (God forbid) won't be around anymore. So I have to get used to living alone. How do people get used to living away from parent's. It's been a year and I still find it incredibly hard. I suffer from anxiety and depression already, so I find it impossible to just "suck it up". Please help, many thanks. |
| Question: How do I get my dad to trust me again? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:07 AM PDT Ok, Hi, I'm 13 and a girl. So I have this guy friend at school and he thinks we are boyfriend and girlfriend but we are NOT and my dad found out about that, how?, he found out by my messages on my phone, so he read my messages on my phone with my best friend saying "I'm so sick of him thinking we are a couple" and one more message saying "he's nice as a friend but as my boyfriend..no" and he read that and he got very mad, he thinks I have a boyfriend now and that I didn't tell him anything about it and and he doesn't trust me anymore, because he thinks I'm doing something else and yeah. He asked what was those messages, I lied and said that it was an acting scene thing,I lied because I thought it was gonna get worst with the truth, he didn't believe that, he a very not dumb, very smart, strict dad. I told him in the morning today(the truth) and now he said that I also lost more trust because I lied. I don't know what to do, he doesn't believe me, my mom knows everything , that it's not true that he is my boyfriend. I've tried so much but he doesn't believe me, I want to get his trust back immediately like in a day. Please tell me what to say or what to do!!!😔 |
| Question: Weird things in egypt pleas help!!!? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:07 AM PDT I am a 20 years old girl 9 monthes ago i moved to Egypt to study philosophy from NY and I swear everything was going alright tell 2 weeks ago weird things started to Happen like at 1 am i saw some weird shapes in my window and I hear a lot of noise coming from it and I live at the 7th floor!! And always feel like some one is watching me i cant live like that i moved from that place to another hotel but still happening i thought that im going crazy but im 100% sure thats there is something wrong .... i wanna leave but im whole future counts on staying what should i do pleeas help |
| Question: Who cuddles with their little brother? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:04 AM PDT I just wanted to see if you guys cuddle with them Say how old they are and when you guys usually snuggle My little brother is 11, and I cuddle with him everyday to make sure he feels loved because he suffers depression and feels like nobody likes him because he has had a rough childhood But when do you cuddle with your little brothers? |
| Question: My parents took my computer and ipad? Posted: 13 May 2015 03:51 AM PDT So this happens a couple of days ago my parents took my computer and iPad because I had an "inappropriate" picture on my computer.(I am female it wasn't a person) so the picture said f-c-k leaving out the "u". My parents came in one day and saw it and got mad at me and I asked them why they couldn't not calmly ask me to change it as they were yelling at me. Then my mom decided to take my computer and iPad. I have been doing chors etc.. Yesterday I apologized to my dad because he was the main one who found it. After I did that my mom told me that he thought my apologizy was fake and I didn't mean it which meant I might never get my computer back. I honestly have no clue what to do my mom wants me to engage in the family more but I enjoy to be alone. I am a 15 year old girl. Please help I just want this to end. |
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