Me and my wife have been married 6 years we don't have any kids yet. Tonight she told me she's pregnant she's really upset about it she's afraid I'd be mad at her I'm not. She thought I wasn't ready for kids because we waited so long but it's not true. I told her when the kid is older if something ever happend to her I'd be here to take care of it but it really upset her when I told her. She doesn't like to talk about that stuff. She's really upset with me now. I asked her if she wanted to have sex that usually makes her feel better but she said she doesn't feel like it. She's in bed now she's trying to sleep but she can't. How can I help her feel better ? She's 22 I'm 25

getting married and having children going to college and starting a career living on their own and finding boyfriends staying home and taking care of their parents

We fell in love with each other and had a brief affair after the semester was over. We didn't seek out an affair intentionally. Feelings developed unintentionally because we were spending so much time together(in class and working on assignments after class). It was mostly emotional and we were in denial thinking we could just be friends, but the chemistry was too strong and we made out in the heat of the moment(no sex) Not okay at all because he was married. We both felt terrible. He told his wife everything(he is a good guy and never meant to cheat. He had never been unfaithful before) I didn't want to be the other woman. We cut off contact. It was really rough because that love was there but It's been months now and I'm registering for classes. He teaches a class that I really need and he is a wonderful teacher. The best at the subject I need to learn. I completely respect him and I know that I can control myself. I think he would too because if anything were to happen between us it could jeopardize his job. Would it be a mistake to take his class? Thoughts?

Ok so me and my SO have been together for 15 years, married almost 11 of them. Over the years he has went behind my back and talked to other people in a sexual manner. He has met at least one of these people, but backed out of it saying he was uncomfortable with it. Recently we had a huge fight and he again went behind my back and was seriously talking up a female from another country, saying things like I love you, your my dream girl. Now he is not only guilty of talking to other people, I had an ex show back up and was talking to him because I felt my SO wasn't showing me any type of love or affection. I stopped talking to said ex because I really do.love my SO, but while we were fighting I threatened to call the police and tell them the car was stolen because it's in my name and he refused to talk to me about anything (stupid idol threats are never the right answer I know) I am willing to wipe the slate clean and forgive him of all the bs he's put me through, but he is having a hard time having feeling for me again because of my threat, he feels I was trying to ruin his military career and his job by threatening to take the car, I apologized numerous times for doing so, but it doesn't seem like it mattered. He finally said we would start working on things but he is still having a hard time feeling for me again. He was doing the talking and kept getting caught, I had to forgive him every time and take him back, but he can't do the same for me? Idk help?

Is it easy or hard? What if I dont get my kids and dad does? I have alot of anxiety and depression built up due for my fourth kid soon very unhappy in my marriage things fell apart a few yrs ago everything changed. I dont know what to do im not outgoing I have not much family for support ni friends could ca re less about friends because I alwYs been homebody but I had my sgit more together routines etc. I am lost im akways on edge my husband and I dont talj dont have sex dont enjoy tv nothing anymore I try to get back how things ince were but its not happening. Is duvorce a goid thing with kids or will we just ruin them? They been away at grandmas 6 mths cayse things got pretty bad financially etc. We just got a new home together but dont feel like a home. We been here a wk. What if I dont get my kids and he does? I havent held no job because I thought being stay at home mom would be best. Im unsure what to do. Counseling isnt working nothing. I love my kids but I feel sometimes tgey would be better off without me.

I am 17 will be turning 18 next year. my dad and mom are divorced and i gave my dad full custody of me. i am currently enrolled in high school. i want to give the custody to my mom because i am not happy here with my dad. How do i do that and how long does it take? I am willing to go to court and fight for it. Being here with my dad is hell. I live in Texas with my dad. My mom w lives in Utah

and don't you love it when she gets down on one knee, pulls out a ring, asks for his hand in marriage... and he turns her down flat!!! HAHAHAHA!

I wasn't neglectful or abusive but bad choices in men caused pain for my children.

My husband talks to his ex-wife about once a month she will call just to talk about her personal problems he is a very good listener. He seems to think he is just being a good friend and a support and they don't talk very often. Their kids are 24 and 26 years of age so not much to talk about in their regards. Is this appropriate behavior? Or should we just move on once we have a new spouse, and leave the other spouse of our lives

My husbands ex-wife wife calls him on occasion once a month just to vent about problems in her life , their kids are full-grown 24 and 26 years I think she just likes to talk to him and likes knowing that he's in her life and he will listen and he is a good listener.

My birthday is in a few weeks I had planned a fun day at the beach! My best friend doesn't really "care for" some of my other friends as they had done her wrong previously. Some of them don't exactly care for her either. When we got together today, she told me she had to be honest & just wasn't really interested in associating/being around my group of friends they made her unconfortable so she asked if she could take me out separately or if we could do something a different day for my birthday? I told her that was totally fine which, I'm cool with but, I kinda feel like it was a bit "childish" of her. What are your thoughts?

We're both 24. Dated for a year and a half (even got through his deployment together!). Broke up last August because we were fighting a lot and didn't want to do long distance. Since the break up, he's reached out to me once (in August) and I reached out to him once (in November). Suddenly I get a Facebook message from him, in which he sends me a picture of something he thought I would think is funny, and he said it made him realize he hasn't talked to me in ages. Started asking how I am doing and telling me about his life. Lastly, he said he hoped he wasn't creating drama by talking to me (I think he may believe I'm dating someone else) and that he just wanted to see how I'm doing. (I'm not dating anyone else!) I'm confused. Does it sound like a case of a nice guy wanting to stay friends with an ex, or do you think he might want to meet up and see if the chemistry is still there...? He told me he's writing because we haven't talked in 5 months.

I've always said I don't want to get married, but lately I've been thinking that, when I meet the right person, I'd like to. I'm just too scared of what could happen, though. I could get cheated on, he could just wake up one morning and say he doesn't love me anymore, we could drift apart.... I mean, I've never really been able to keep friends either; they always end up bored or ditching me for other people. I'm not sure I could hold onto someone long enough for marriage, and that's what scares me, because I don't think I would be able to "get over" someone I love enough to marry in the first place.

I have been with the same woman for 12 years. We are married. We don't have kids. We had a rough time due to the fact that I immigrated to her country and had no real good job (always worked though) until last year so she had to put up with my going through years of schooling etc. Now I have a good job. The thing is that I am extremely introverted and quiet. I don't do much and I struggle to always find stability. In terms of finding a good career and eventually buy a house and have kids. She is the opposite. She is extroverted. Smartest and overall best person I have ever met. She doesn't want to be tied down and definitely doesn't want to have kids. For all these years she has adapted to my lifestyle and it was painful for her to do that. I am a controlling person. I like to keep as many constant and as fewer variable I can in life. I have abused her in so many instances...because I wanted to stay with her. The abuse was me imposing my lifestyle and values on her. I thought those values would have given both of us a good life. But I assumed her wanting to live on the run was going to change. I thought that is what everyone does eventually...they settle down. We have had plenty of good years together, but she always lapsed and did something irrational a few time every year. I take it as it was a release valve she had to open to open to release all the pressure I forced to be under. I seek stability and enjoy very simple things...like admiring a sunset. I want to settle down. She likes to push herself and her career to higher levels. She want to travel the world and live everywhere. Things that I thought were irrational and immature. I acted like a parent in the relationship. I hate myself for that. We are now going to live without each others. Something initiated by her because she has reached her limit in conforming to my life. I am devastated because everything I did in life I did it for her. Or at least I thought I did. I thought that finding a stable job, a community, was the recipe for a good life. I thought that as you grow in life it is normal to aim for stability. I thought it would have been good for both of us even if she didn't see it at the time. But I guess in trying to make something grow solid I undermined it. I ended up building a prison...when I wanted it to be a palace. I thought I was getting closer to make a family...now I am alone. I am seeing a therapist to work out my anxiety problems and to stop my controlling issues. She is going to explore the world as she always wanted to. I feel I am an horrible person for what I have done. I lost everything I loved the most and everywhere I look things remind me of her. Why am I writing this? Because I wanted to let some steam out. But If you have a comment please leave it.

The balance was left at a complex in texas. I got a call from her saying there was a balance. I am afraid she will want to transfer the balance to me since i lived in the apartment longer then she did. We were married while living. She moved out 6 month before i did. i renewed for the last six month. The lease was originally in both our names

I got divorced a couple years ago. My divorce decree stated I could resume the use of my maiden name however I never contacted the social security administration to get my name changed back to my maiden name on my social security card. Therefore my social security card still states my ex husbands last name. Now i'm a bit confused and could really use some help. I'll be getting remarried soon(ish) but I don't know if just use the social security card that has my ex husbands last name on it, or if I have to contact the SSA & get my card changed back to my maiden name and THEN change it again when I get remarried? I apologize in advance if this is the most stupid question in the history of yahoo answers!

Single Parent dating seems to be the worst thing you can be in the dating world. Why dont people just wait and get to know one another better before having kids or just wait?? The absolute worst thing you could be in dating is an Older single mother with young kids. No one wants to date old women first of all, as older men still go after younger women and having kids while dating is so much baggage good luck finding anyone of either gender younger than 40 to deal with that nonsense. Why do Single Parents even try to date?? They should just accept they failed at relationships and quit while they arent so far behind You have to find some dumb desperate chump to sign up for that trainwreck

My wife and I aren't having kids now, but in two years when she's done with nursing school and has a stable job I can promise she will not make love with me unless all protection is out of the mix. I want to be a dad, but having a strong sexual and personal relationship with my wife more. We have that now, but I'm concerned the strain of kids would make it far weaker. How can make sure my wife and I are still strong friends and lovers after we have kids?

I have heard of the 7 year itch, and it seems to strangely fit in with all the divorces I have seen. My aunt ended the relationship with my uncle after 7 years because she wanted to be single and ate again. Some of my friends parents are divorced after 7 years too, because of fighting also. Most of them remarried, even my uncle did. I am happy they found love again but why 7 years? This confuses me. Date again, sorry for the spelling.

My fiance and I had been together for 2 years and we got engaged when I got pregnant. But I had a miscarriage and I've been very upset by it but he hasn't even really talked about it. It happened four months ago and he has been doing nothing but going out a lot with his friends and acting like I'm not around despite me trying to reach out to him to talk about it. The couple of times I did ask or say something to him he just snapped at me. And to make things worse he has been sleeping in the other bedroom the past couple of days after he comes in from hanging out with his friends and smelling like liquor. I'm getting so confused by this. What should I do?

Hey Guys! I am a 13 year old girl, and I have a lot of friends who's parents are divorced and constantly switching houses or single parents. There are a percentage of kids who still have happily married parents and they seem to be the more calm, mature, less bratty ones. The ones with divorced parents I observed they are the ones laughing at crude humor, playing M games, watching R movies, and swearing. What do you think is the effect? Why are so many marriages failing? I do not mean all kids who have divorced parents are brats, just a large percentage of what I have observed over the last 3 years. Also, most of them have memories of parents being together.

How is it 2 people involved off and on can fight with ea other often, nag, chase , ignore and hurt one another. Claim to be done because of the head ache over and over. Then flirt with each other and try to remain friends. These aren't a couple of teenagers they are two adults who were once married to each other. both are close to me, I stay out of it until I'm asked for advice , and I dont know how too help. I just don't see why they can't let go or get back together.

My husband and I have been married for just over three years. I started nursing school almost one and one half years into our marriage. I just finished this past week. My husband is anxious for a baby but knows that I have PCOS and struggle with my weight. I workout but admit that nursing school and working 12 hour shifts in an ER has taken its toll over the past 1.5 years. I told my husband that when I finished school I would hit the gym and shed the excess weight so that it would give us a better chance to conceive. Fast forward to today and my husband says so when are you going to the gym so we can hurry up and have this baby. His tone was very direct and slightly rude. What he doesn t know is that I have been to the gym this week and was going today. My plan was to wait till further in the evening because there was a class I wanted to go to. When he said that I just put on my gym clothes and walked out of the door. This week has already been very hectic for me I had family in town whom I was trying to entertain and chauffeur around, I started trauma nurse orientation, and I am studying to take my boards which is coming up soon. My DH fishes all day and has a very relaxed job where he can even sleep. I try and help my mom and grandma out regularly because literally they are my only immediate family. Both of them are aging and that within itself is stressful. I don t think my husband understands the immense amount of stress I am under. Am I being too sensitive?

We have two beautiful children together. My fiancee Mark is a great man and a great father. He takes great care for our children. He is very good to me usually. Well a few days ago, we had an argument since to went to the club on Saturday with a few of my friends. I saw a guy there that I knew from college. I hugged him. We are platonic friends. I told Mark that I saw my friend. He asked if it was a male or female. I said male and I proceeded to tell him that I gave him a hug. If looks could kill, I'm sure I'd be dead. He walked up to me and asked me why did I hug him when I have a man at home. Mind you Mark was high off of weed on Wednesday night. I said it was just a hug and that he needs to relax. I told him that he is behaving irate for absolutely no reason. He then punched me in my face, called me a white b*tch and I bled from my nose which hurts and my lip has a cut. He never hit me before. I started crying and he came up to me and said sorry and we've been together for four years. We have a boy and girl, twins. I don't want my son to be abusive and I don't want my daughter to be abused. I don't want them thinking this is normal and he pays the majority of the bills including the mortgage. Should I marry him? I'm so hurt by his comment and his punching me in the face but I want my children to have their father. What should I do?

I have been with my wife for almost 7 years and married 6 years and in the last year I have really come to realize I can't live without her......for real I mean shes like locked onto my soul for real......I mean my words really cant explain it I've always loved her but recently I've just cant imagine not having her.......it actually hurts

I was married to a good Man for 5 years, we got divorced 4 years ago. Our marriage ended because I fell for another Man. my Husband was a good provider, he just didnt really fulfill my emotional needs much anymore. I met this new guy at the checkout when buying groceries one day and I fell smitten. My 2 kids with my Husband were young so I didn't think it would affect them as much..Anyways, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and hes physically/verbally abusive..I have 2 kids with him now, too...So I feel guilt when thinking about leaving him after I see how badly the divorce affected my first 2 kids..I regret getting with this Man, and miss my Ex Husband terribly. My Ex Husband always tried his best to make me happy, my boyfriend goes out of his way to make me feel terrible. Plus, my Ex Husband is engaged and has a baby with his fiancee so I feel jealousy from that, too. His fiancee looks so happy and Im so miserable wishing i never left. I know people will think bad of me for asking, but do you think my Ex would be willing to give us another shot?

My husband left me to be with and live with an other woman I want to get the papers and file them in the courthouse but I don't know where he is exactly at

I was in a relationship for 7 years and we would fight insults would get thrown, and I would break things in the house. The last fight we had was because she was under the impression I was cheating or planning to cheat because I asked a female friend if she wanted to hang out, this is out of the ordinary for me, I'm usually a homebody and stay with my boy, but my now ex was hanging out with her friends. Dancing, drinking, dinner the usual stuff. That's why I got so mad that she would accuse me when all I wanted was to hang out with one friend. During the argument I got so mad I spit on her. I instantly regretted it but I couldn't take it back. Police were called and I was arrested. She placed a restraining order on me. It never hit me before how bad my aggression had got until she didn't want me near her. I've begun taking anger management and seeking counseling to correct my problems. But now she won't have any contact with me and I'm pretty certain she wants to move on. I still love her and admit my mistakes. Why won't she believe me when I am really trying?

My name's first character is D. My date of birth is 2 December 1984. Birth Time is 7:45 pm and Birth place is Vadodara, Gujarat, India. My wife's names first character is S, her birth date is 19 September 1988, Birth time is 4:05 pm and Birth place is Allahabad, India. I was previously engaged to girl names first character is K, her birth date is 13 January 1987, Birth time is 10:50 am and Birth place is Ujjain, India. My engagement lasted for 3 years but my parents called off engagement due to some family mismatch and in their pride, ego and selfishness married to the girl of their choice in January 2015. My ex fiancé also wanted to marry me even after my marriage, but her parents forcefully fixed her marriage and I think she is married too now. I live and work in US, even in 3 years long distance relationship, me and my ex fiancé were in so much close love relationship and had plenty of dreams, but my parents broke everything out. I am very upset with my married life and can't love my wife at all the way the marriage took place, even she knew before marriage that I was not happy with this, but she never paid attention. My wife has gone her hometown and living there.I don't want to mess rest of my wife's life in my own mess and want to see her happy for rest of her years, which I wont be able to give. Can someone please advise, are there any second marriage chances in my life ? are there possibilities my ex fiancé come back to my life ? Please help.

I got married in Jan. to a man that I have been best friends with for 4 years, then dated for 2 years. He is a US Marine and ever since he got back from training (right before we got married) he has been extremely aggressive when we argue. I try to keep my tone as calm as possible, it makes him more angry. A few times now, he has gotten up in my face and screamed at me so hard that I can feel his spit, and I can't get the look on his face out of my head. He throws things around. Once he gripped my jaw in one hand painfully hard to make me look at him when I was trying to walk away during one of his fits. He doesn't let me leave when he's having a fit, and if I do, he chases after me and blocks my way or stands in front of my car. I feel like I have tried every reaction (crying, indifference, disappointment, walking away) except for getting angry back at him. He always admits afterward that it wasn't my fault that he got so angry. He always has the perfect apology and I used to believe him, but after we had another huge fight last night and then another perfect apology, I am starting to lose trust in him. He sees it, too, and he got really emotional over that. We're stuck in this pattern of me being afraid to tell him how I really feel, then he gets mad at me for not being honest about my feelings. Then I'll tell him my honest feelings and then he'll get mad about my them. I think the neighbors are starting to notice. I am so lost and I can't sleep anymore. What do I do?

Just wondering why he owes 8k for one and 30k for the other? Court says it's interest, however he was served for both kids at the same time 3 years ago. The judge doesn't give us any other answer than saying it's interest, how can we resolve this problem?

Quit posting fake questions and go out, get a boyfriend.

Ok so I guess it's more like this I have found him on paid sites and he hadn't upgraded yet. But I have also found naked pics of him on twitter and trying to talk to girls on there. Oh, and he always gone for hours at a time and he says he is "junkin". I guess I just really need to know what the next step is. He says it's nothing and even denies most of it but I'm not stupid and a woman's intuition is almost always right, I know he is cheating in my heart.

We waited until we we're married to have sex. Which is when I found out just how bad a situation we have. His penis is so small I can't feel it during sex at all. He can't ever finish. Has to take breaks every 5 minutes. We have been married over a month and had sex 10 times total. I'm miserable. I do love him but I don't know how to handle this. He never finishes so how will we ever have kids? I don't want to sound cruel or insensitive I love him but I can't live the rest of my life like this.

I need advice from couples who do this. my husband has this fantasy and we actually have already met with someone and going to pursue this fantasy in a month. I need the good and the bad advice.

Too often I hear about many women giving on intimacy, love in a marriage and neglect emotional needs of a husband. And these husbands try hard to keep her happy, do all the chores, take care of the children, etc. But it doesn't work. There are some women who are not like this and actually put the effort ot keep a strong marriage. Why is this the case? Why do some women change after marriage?

Its actually 75% of women who initiate most of the divorces. 75% of men cheat? I doubt it....you are blocked Youthoughitwasgonnapass. "put effort into being an actual good husband and father to their children" -- and what did the wife do? Did she become a couch potato making the man do all the work in marriage?

I'm sorry if this is long. I have been with my husband for seven years. We have been married for three 1/2 years. We have a three year old daughter together. In the past my husband cheated when we dated. I forgave him but we did end up breaking up and seeing other people a year and 1/2 later we met again and started dating and got married. He has a big porn/sex addiction. I knew this marring into our relationship and for a while he was doing great. I also try to help him with it but he is too embarrassed to talk to me about it. Needless to say I have found out he has done some bad things. In October of 2014 I found out he had created a fake face book and was talking to girls and sending them pictures. One of them was actually my sister. He would lie to me saying he deleted the account after I confronted him about it. I found out that wasn't the case in February. He pleaded saying he's been so embarrassed of what he's been doing and just really crazy afraid I would leave him. Well I have been living with my mom since October. I told him I needed separation. I found out he has "cheated" during our separation but is that really "cheating" It wasn't full on sex but close if you know what I mean. Parts of me hate him and want to get divorced but I truly love him and feel we could work this out. I'm just so freaked he's just going to continue to lie to me. I know he does love me cause he does feel incredibly bad about everything he's done. I am one of those people who are also afraid of change and being alone. Should I give it time to see if he changes? I'm scared no one will understand and love me to. It's weird for me to ask strangers but my family and friends can be biased Thank you for taking the time! Yes, I believe in god and that he can help. We were actually both raised LDS(Mormon) I do believe if we both strive to live the commandments and have a goal of getting sealed in the temple it would help him a lot. And I do help him even though I'm not living there with him. I still talk to him I haven't abandon him but what he has done is not okay and I don't have to roll over and take it either. I know what his addiction is I have been living with it for all this time. He does have to be the one to seek help. I can only do so much.

So I have my husband who left me and we don't want to divorce but he doesn't give me any support I have 2 kids that are his can I apply for spousal support while we are still married and not get divorced? I'm in California.

A friend of mine brought up this question because she feels that she cheated on her husband one day. It was actually a sexual assult done to her by someone that she knew. When she ran home crying and told her husband that she had been attacked by a man, he kicked her out and divorced her for committing adultery. so, that's why her husband divorced her was on the grounds of adultery. She carries that guilt with her everyday. So, would you stay married if your wife had sex with another man?

I know a lot of females may seem offended, but I'm just trying to clarity out of the whole marriage concept. I really can not understand exactly how 'Marriage' is a good thing for men. For women, I understand completely because females love money and security. Those are two things that men can attain on their own. as far as relationships, females are more serious about having strong relationships with others......not men. Most men are comfortable living alone, however, most females find it impossible to live alone. they really long to be social creatures. A single man can aquire sex, money, relationships, security, protection, kids, maid-services, a personal chef, more control of his finances.....personal freedom........less responsibility......etc...etc..... However,Married men can not do everything that single men can do so what is it that a "Married" Man benefits from ?

We are to go to counseling by the court to resolve issues regarding our 8 year old child who we have joint custody of. It has been 2 years now and the visitation times are not enough for me and my son. I see him every other weekend and also have for 2 hours on tuesday and thursday. Basically he is with her 26 days and 4 days with me every month. Also I got a letter from his school that he is EXCESSIVELY tardy and absent alot and is not doing that well academically either.

HII , Im sunitha from bangalore 24yrs old . I got married a year ago , I have not been happy with the marriage , I have been going through mental and physical abuse . I want to get divorces . I Havent signed in a single document or a paper confirming the marriage . Should I require to file for divorce or part from him . pls advice . will this affect in anyway if I want to get married to anyone in the near future . pls advice

My wife tells me that sex (and penis size) with me is fine. She does orgasm virtually every time we do it and I can tell she was into it. But she uses words like "satisfactory" and "meets expectations". And she doesn't ever say anything unless I ask how it is. This sounds like average to me. Now I am not small: I'm about 6 inches long (tad over length average) and almost 6.5 inches in maximum circumference (definitely above width average). How can I know for sure that she isn't B.S.-ing me and that she secretly doesn't yearn for something bigger/better? Does she want more?

Married 3 years we've been apart totaling over half of our marriage. He was arrested for a domestic violence issue and blamed the whole thing on me and didn't talk to me a month after he went to jail for 2 days [[ I was pressured into checking myself into a high security mental institute because he felt like he was going to die during a deployment he said he would get sent home early and didn't I spent 2 weeks locked up ]]. Any ways he had over 6 months to tell me he didn't love me he moved to another state, I paid all bills his car everything, with no financial help from him AT ALL. We had regular phone calls and text messages him telling me he wanted it to work, and he didn't consider us separated. He decided to come back to our home town. Monday he told me he didn't love me, and didn't talk to me, he was due for a trip down here to do prior registration for work and school, I found him where I KNEW he would be with his friend who told him if we stayed married he didn't want to be friends with him anymore at a pokemon card shop and I asked if he wants a divorce he said he doesn't know he came to finally saying he stayed because he feared to never see our daughter again but he was in town a whole day and didn't bother seeing the baby after not seeing her for 3 months, I asked him about that he just walked away and sat with his friend I asked did he want a divorce or not he said I want a divorce I said okay he said see you in court.

My wife and I haven't been getting along and I'm afraid we're headed toward a divorce. My last surviving parent is ill and not doing well and they own a decent house in a nice neighborhood. I feel like my wife is waiting around for my parent to pass to get some of the inheritance or use it for some upgrades on our house so that when we sell it it will be worth more money. How can I protect myself?

My sister is in a situation. She currently lives in one state and owns a house there. Her fiance wants her to sell her house, marry him and move to his state. He lives in remote location. He has promised that he will sell his house and relocate close to a certain city, so that she can easily travel to visit her older parents a couple of times per month. He has already agreed to the relocation. Originally he said he d do it prior to or right after the wedding. Now he still wants to marry her, but is saying that he s not in a hurry to sell his house. My sister would like to protect herself in the event that she sells her house, relocates to a remote location, and find herself trapped there if her future husband decides to stay put. Not only that, but she d have a hard time finding a job in a remote location. In other words, her commitment to the marriage seems to be bigger than his. Can a marriage agreement be created such that if the conditions in it aren t met by a certain time, those constitute grounds for divorce? And here s the kicker. He makes a good money. Could the contract also stipulate that she could get some sort of financial reparations for not having honored his agreement. She is in one of those situation where a guy say he loves her. They ve been going out for several years. He really wants to marry her, but he might want things his way under his time frame. Your help will be greatly appreciated. I realized that I gave the impression that he doesn't want to marry her. He does indeed..He has been reliable to her to a certain extent while being her boyfriend. Her problem is that if she commits to marrying him, sells her house, moves in with him, is not able to work and not able to visit her elderly parents, she's going to be stuck in a bad situation. I think a lot of women find themselves in similar situation. Hoping that their future husband will do as he promised, but might not do it.

Women, are you okay with your man masturbating to pics of other women? My wife caught me and thinks it is. She said not only is it disrespectful to her, but also to the women in the spring dress clothing catalog I was masturbating to. She said she didn't mind me looking at the images and admiring their beauty, but that I shouldn't masturbate to their images. She said regardless of what a woman is wearing, they don't deserve to have their pics used as some sort of masturbation tool and that it demonstrates that I have no respect for women and treat them like objects. She asked if I would be okay with another man masturbating to her images if she were a model and I honestly would not be, I would find it absolutely deplorable. She said just because there's no touching involved doesn't mean it's okay, that it's a form of infidelity and disrespectful of women. We only usually get around to having sex about once a week, but she says that's no excuse and that I should be a little more patient with her and shouldn't take sex with her for granted. I'm feeling bery hypocritical now and would like to stop, but the problem is I have a really high sex drive and hers is lower than mine, but she doesn't like doing sexual acts outside of the weekly intercourse we have. She says that I need to learn how to go a week without sex and still appreciate women without jerking off to their pictures, that it would grow me as a person. She even suggested a chastity device, but I'm a little hesitant.

My husband says hurtful things to me a lot. uses the F word all the time screams so hatefully that I instantly start crying cuz I get scared. Usually he does it when I don't do something for him (Get him a drink when he's watching TV cuz I'm busy cleaning or just don't feel like it, sleeping, or when I don't feel good so I ask if he will drive but he gets so mad if he doesn't want to) I love him more than life and I want to start a family with him some day but I'm almost afraid to because what if it gets worse? I say I love you and he always replies no you don't. he doesn't tell me he loves me. Now he's started making comments about my body Like look at ur belly where did it come from? Last night it was your boobs are bigger than your butt Like he was disgusted by that fact. I've always been built like this I'm 5'5 115 lbs no butt and D cups. Before we got married he always said I love your no butt I think ur built perfect but now I feel like crap about my body but I haven't changed. Hes happy around people but when were alone he flips a switch and turns on me but its not all the time. Never physically hurt me but sometimes i think he might. I love him but I don't know what to do. I was raised with the view that marriage is sacred so I'm not leaving him unless he were to be physically abusive or something. I just want to feel loved again. He used to call me his queen and now I feel like his slave. what can I do to fix this?

Really! Seriously. Husbands and wives jointly need to communicate and help each other out. If Bill Clinton is helping her, then he is doing a bad job. If she is ignoring him, then she is running amok and their marriage is a sham. If they both agree with her behavior towards law, then she should not even consider running for office.

My sister just got married to my brother n law 3 weeks ago. He is my husbands cousin and best friend and I also feel very close to him as well. 2 weeks ago, my BIL saw her texting on her phone 3am in the morning and when he confronted her she erased the messages and had a panic attack. Since then she told him the reason she was talking to another guy (a guy she works with) was because of his actions (not spending enough time with her, paying attention to her ect) Since then I have seen a major change in him, he is taking her out to eat, drinks and spending a lot more time with her and the kids (They have two). A mutual friend of ours started working with her and seen her heavily flirting with the guy she was texting, and staying after closing in the parking lot just the two of them. I am angry at her for what she is doing. i am married and have been for 5yrs, I do not take my vows lightly it is serious. I just do not know what to do. I tell my husband everything but I know that if I tell him this he will be burdened as I am now as to what to do. My husband has a very strong opinion on cheating and I am sure he will tell his cousin. Any opinions as to what I should do?