I'm not going to go into detail, but someone touched me in a way they were not supposed to and I need help, I'm scared because they're family and I don't want to get them in /trouble. thanks :

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I met her 10 years ago in a trip oversea in europe. She is a sweet girl . We got in love we stayed toghther for almost a year. I was planing to marry Her after she finish her study in the university but her family refused our relationship because i am 8 years older than her . I came back to Anerica to have peace in mind. I had 10 years peace ( i am divorced now since 2 years ) she found me and contacted me 4 days ago through facebook . She is married now, but still in love with me and confused what to do . Please advice I am 40 and she is 32 She loves me and loves her husband She wants me to go back and live with her in europe. I don't want lose her again I don t want hurt her husband and destroy his mariage. Please help

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When I was 19 I got in a car accident going 65 mph during a rainstorm, and crashing into the cement highway median. I was in the passenger side and my side slid into the median. I thought I was going to die, yet I walked away without a scratch. How on earth did this happen?

My boyfriend and I recently became a couple and we are great friends. We enjoy going out and having a great time together but our conversations are pretty surface level. Anytime I want to talk to him about our relationship or something bothering me he gets defensive and I find it intimidating to talk to him. A few weeks ago we started having sex and it wasn't what I was thought it was going to be at all, it was all about him and no pleasure for me at all, last a few minutes (if that long). After a few times started blowing me off and coming up with excuses to why we didn't hang out or we'd hang out and he just wouldn't try to have sex. All I could think is that he was having sex with another woman. He told me that wasn't the case but I broke up with him anyway. We continued to hang out and it was like we were still together so we decided to stay together but it's back to being awkward again. He will go on FB and text when we cuddle or in bed and turn the phone away from me most of the time. I want to have sex with him but he barely touches me so I don't get turned on enough. He never kisses me and without kissing I'm not sure how to "play" before sex. I've been with guys who can't keep their hands off me so I can't help but think he's not attracted to me especially when he never tells me I'm beautiful or anything. I keep thinking I'm doing something wrong, since I did push him away in the beginning out of fear he was using me for sex. I really don't know what to think anymore I feel like maybe he's hanging onto me for meaningless sex while he tries to find another woman. He will go out with friends and family and never invite me to go, to things like cookouts where you would think you'd want to invite your gf/bf and his FB still says single.

Been friends with a man for 7yrs He live in a different state. we playfully flirt and talk about a future together. he s always sending pictures of himself and tell me what he wants to do to me he tells me he loves me but rececenlty he insists on me sending him naked pics. I ll tell him: no, that he has to wait, or No naked pics before monogamy but he replies "NO he doesn t want to wait" or "Just close your eyes and hit send" in a forceful manner which is a new one for me, I ve never experienced him to be so demanding. after all, we both live in different states and we occasionally flirt. how do I tell him I rather not sext If he wants to see me naked he ll have to make me his girlfriend or should I just ignore him? what should I do? (P.S. when I decline his offer to sext he rapidly sends me a naked pic of himself.) its really disappointing because I do like him but I am starting to second guess if he really do love me like he say he do or he s was just telling what I want to hear for his own reasons and nothing will ever come from our friendship.

I love them and they are good people. I'm very privileged. I could never imagine them doing drugs. Until I saw it. Their closet had bongs and weed at the back and a good amount too. I assumed it was before I was born, but one of the bongs had a purchase date on it of about 8 months ago. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!

While I was driving in the evening at about 8pm, I noticed a pretty young lady walking alongside the sidewalk. So I waved at her and flirted a little, not expecting her to react: she waved for me to come over and talk to her. So I made a U-Turn. Keep in mind that I'm very humble and also kind of shy, so my impression was that either this wasn't going anywhere, or perhaps she's a prostitute. Nevertheless, I took a chance. When I opened the passenger window, we introduced each other. Then I asked for her phone number. Not only did she give it to me (I added it to my phone's contacts as she dictated her #), but she spelled her name AND said "Call me" while doing the phone gesture with her pinky finger. It was merely a 30 second conversation, none of which included her asking me "Can I come in?" or "So what are you doing tonight?" Instead, she simply went about her business after giving me her #. So I drove off while somewhat surprised, especially because it was nighttime and I was suspicious about what she expected when I approached her. Should I call her?

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Asking for a FRIEND, seriously. She grew up a hard life. In and out of foster homes, abused by her aunt, ended up homeless. She met her baby daddy, he gave her a place to live, provided for her, loved and cared for her. He told her from the beginning that his family (who has a lot of money-*hers doesnt*) don't want him to have a kid. Which made him scared that if he did he'd end up homeless with nothing. He's pro abortion she's pro life. They've been together a year. She found out she was 9w and told him. At 1st he was sad, crying, begging her not to have it. Then it turned to anger, telling her to have one, yelling, trying to convince her to do it, demanding, then acceptance, maybe more denial he just didn't talk about it and avoided it, then at 12w he had a mental break down. He hit her in the stomach/pelvic area. His family heard her screams but did nothing. She called 911 and threw her phone in a bush. He backed off her and she ran out the door. Told his aunt and grandpa who were standing there what happened and all his aunt cared about was the cops. When the cops came she told them he didn't hit her (even thought the cops heard her screams through the phone) the cop knew what happened but couldn't do anything because she denied it (she loved him) She went to the emergency room to check the baby. The baby is fine. The doctor put in his report that there is evidence or assault. She has some bruises on her stomach and legs. The rest of my post is in the comments because it wouldn't fit here. I already tried to convince her to move on.... That's not her question though! She wants to know what happens when the baby is born based on her decisions. That's it and that's all. Read the comment below to fi d the exact questions. Thank you..

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I am almost 28, and at that age where I would like to find a good man and settle down. At the same time, I live a very wild life, and am worried that I can't find a GOOD man that can keep up. I work a minimum of 50 hours a week in investment banking. I am the only person I know in Manhattan that actually cooks at home, and tries to eat healthy. I keep my apartment clean, work out a minimum of 3-4 times a week, and am close to my family. Just recently got out of a 6 year relationship. It was a good and healthy relationship, and we were close to getting married - just some basic core values that we didn't agree on (he didn't want kids for example, and our cultural differences stood in the way as well at times), that's why it didn't work out. We split 10 months ago, and while I always liked to party and drink, it's been more than usual lately. I go out about 3 nights a week, and I go HARD. On a typical Saturday I start around 3pm, and we don't finish until 6am. 15 hours of non stop drinking, and I still get up at 10am, run my errands, and do it again on Sunday. I have friends that join me at 3pm, and that are done by 8pm; that's when i meet with my next group of friends. I don't have any girlfriends that can keep up with me, and that's totally okay for me; it doesn't stop me. When I go out, I drink a lot, meet a lot of people, dance to good music, and just let myself go, don't worry about anything. Please continue reading - don't have enough space I work so hard, that I really need that, and I have so much fun doing so. It worries me because I would like to find a good man, and settle down eventually. This party life is not what I ultimately WANT in life, but for the time being while I have no children, I think it's totally fine. I am aware that most good men don't live the same lifestyle, and it makes me wonder if I need to calm down before finding a good man. On the other hand prefer a man that can keep up with me and also can just let lose. A man that I can be lazy with on Thursday night, and that can go party with me on Friday. Of course I can do other things for fun to, and I do, but I have more fun partying. I have my priorities straight - I would never touch drugs - I stay on top of world news, I go to art festivals, I read books, I travel alone and discover. Most "good" girls I know that live a "normal" lifestyle don't have their priorities nearly as straight as I do. They sit on the couch and watch netflix all day with take out chinese food, but wouldn't know where Egypt is on the map. They don't know how I do it, and comparing myself to them makes me wonder if I am too much, I think no man has hands big enough to deal with me. The guy on my other shoulder says screw it and do what you want; you work too hard to be balling on a budget or be bored, and if getting ****** up is my idea of fun, then there is nothing wrong with that. I just am scared to be losing myself along the way, or that I maybe have already lost myself. I don't know if I should be worried, or if it's okay for me to continue doing what I am doing.

At work i found out this girl thought i was cute her friend works with me gave me her number which i didnt want cause i have a gf already but my friend doesnt know that. I think the girl was trying to use me cause i went to school with her bf a couple years back but the reason i think she is trying to use me is because they broke up 5 days before she started talking to me and why would she come after me right after they broke up and then i asked her so today u just like me all of a sudden and she said she liked me when she was with him. The day i found out she was texting calling me but now she doesnt text me or doesnt text back so am i right u think she was just trying to use me or what? Thank u 10pts best answer

he is coming home Friday. I wanna surprise him I thought about making a sign with something cute on it I also thought about tagging me car since I'm the one that's picking him up from the airport I just need help with coming up with a cute idea.

Today my girlfriend told me that her elder sister has chosen a boy for him and she is chatting with him in fb for today onwards. later i found from her email id that that boy is from Matrimony site and she lied about her sister. She talked with the boy for hours and i spying all her chat from my laptop. She deleted the chats 3 times so that i cant see it. Later she added that guy in wechat and stopped fb chat. Is it easier to chat in wechat where u cant find the last seen..? What should i do.? I have been always loyal to her. Its been four years of our relationship. Yesterday she said me that she only love me. but after seeing her activities like this. m shocked.

Hi...I'm a 15 year old girl and I'm a sophomore in high school and as the year ends (and summer begins) and I start to take my final exams I realize that I'm halfway through high school and I'm going to have to go to college soon, and leave my parents and friends.. I have a recurring fear of this and I am scared to death! Does anyone have any advice?

We both have boyfriends and we are both bi curious, our boyfriends have no idea, we are in our 20s. Even though me and my friend don't even live near each other she says we have a connection, she doesn't want to fall for me and I don't want to fall for her, she's not texting as much anymore is it because she is falling for me? She won't talk about it so it's a bit difficult to tell, the more she ignores me the more she's on my mind, what can I do to get her to open up more to me?:( my mind is so messed up at the minute because of this but I need closure. P.s she lives in Scotland and I live in England.

Has anybody had a preference for a tight category of people??? Even tho my father and most males in my life have been brunette I seem to Only like blond male. My mother is blond but that's got nothing to do with it. I mean most girls I know only like brunette males and highly dislike of blonds, but I,on the contrary,only like blonds . even if there's a super nice brunette I never get that feeling. Like if it'd be Thomas kretschman vs Gabriel garko I'd choose always Thomas.... Does this mean I have more testosterone and like submissive/timid men? I've always been fond of nerds also ..... I do go very rarely for brunetter but only if they look very timid and soft and kind.....

one fine day when i was drunk at a house party, one of my friends let me sleep in his bedroom but then he comes in too and starts to make the moves. i kept telling him to stop, but he continued kissing and touching. i gave in. that was once. then we continued remaining friends until again when he told me to stay home. i told him i will leave. but he said he promises not to repeat that. i trusted his words and slept in his bedroom. this time i was cautious though. to my shock, he came in again n slept next to me. he tried to talk but i pretended to have fallen asleep. he started to touch me, fondle with my parts n took my hand to his p*nis n rubbed it with my hand. i stilll acted im sleeping, just to kno how far he went. the moment he started to kiss, i opened my eyes, pushed him n told him i have to go. he tried to over power me and said he did it because he loved me. he told me he just needs someone to hug and sleep. i felt disturbed about the fact that he thought i am sleeping and tried his luck! is his act considered molestation? and was his first time with me in drunk state considered rape?

I have a cousin who thinks where best friends. We go to school together and are in most classes together. She hates my best friend. How do I get her to leave me alone??

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For 18 years I tried to make him take care of things and clean after himself to wash more often to shave. I punished him I let him deal with the consequences of him being messy. None worked now he is a 23 year old that lives alone and has no girlfriend and no friends and the only thing that is normal is that he has a job and he is winning his own existence. I do not get is it possible to not be able to change someone no matter how much you try?

I am starting to feel like an idiot, I am no longer sure what I m doing in life. Before I got pregnant me and my boyfriend would go out quite a lot and we drank a lot too, it was indeed fun, but honestly it also gets boring and I felt like we could do much more with life and so did he. I m 4 months pregnant atm and while I really don t mind if my boyfriend still has a beer or a drink, I hate that he now actually constantly crosses his limits, it almost seems like he does it on purpose and I really can t act like I am okay with it and when I get mad, he starts on doing it more and more and I find it so childish and disrespectful, it makes me really anxious, I am sad to have to feel like that during this time. It seems like a problem, because I have been in that place and I know it s a choice, even when I was hammered I could ve said NO, but he just keeps on ordering those beers. Sometimes he tells me how this is all wrong, how he s sick of drinking and that it leads nowhere, that he doesn t need it & how he s sorry, but he always does it again. He is like two separate people, he can be amazing and happy about the baby, prepared to do anything and then he starts drinking and he can get really hard to talk to, disrespectful and seems like he doesn t care. And I m starting to hate his friends, because they just drink all day and do completely nothing for him. I am becoming that depressed, angry woman, that I never wanted to be. I really do feel low in life at this point.

So I have this friend (lets name her Sally). Well, Sally is a twelve year old girl and she lives across the street from me. I m a twenty year old girl by the way. Her mom and my mom are good friends and they often have a nice neighbor to neighbor chat. Her daughter Sally always seems to cling on to me (which i don t mind at all). Sally comes over on her own even without her mom just to hang out with me. She s really sweet and I feel like she s the little sister I never had. Problem is she never wants to go home. When its late I insist her to go back home(considering she s twelve and I m sure her parents want her home at a certain time). Every time I send her home(in a nice way- I have never been rude to her) she starts crying and says she doesn t want to go home and rather stay with me. I ask her why plenty of times but she doesn t say anything and stumbles back home. I then see her the next day after school- I m in college, happy to see me as if nothing happened and the whole crying when i send her home happens all over again. Should I be worried? Do you think I should take initiative and ask her parents whats going on? Or does Sally just simply like hanging out with me that much she cries the thought of going home?

I don't wanna go too into detail, but a few months ago lets just say I was in a bad place mentally and I cut myself on my legs... I only did it for a short period and I haven't done it since then... So it's behind me now and I don't need help for it or anything. The bad part is I didn't think about how it would leave scars! And of course it did scar... And they're pretty obvious. Summers coming up and I'm going to want to wear shorts and swim bottoms but NO ONE can find out what I did! I don't want anyone to know because no one has to know... I don't have a self harm problem I only did it a few times... And I'm left with evidence that I don't want. What do I do? Please help. Thank you

Ok so it's kinda out there, but be honest! We want to name her Lauren because it has just always been my favorite name ever since I could remember. Though we might spice it up and do Lorraine. But when after my husband and I had been dating for a while I asked him what he would name his daughter and he said Lauren.. It was the weirdest thing! And now here we are:) but for her middle name we chose Alaska.. We like how it's different and Looking for Alaska by John Green has been one of my favorite novels and my husbands as well. Plus we just kinda like the sound of it! So she would be Lauren Alaska Martinez or Lorraine Alaska Marrinez. Be honest: whatcha think?

My fiancé is physically abusive, ok I'll try to explain as simple as I can, basically she was fine the first couple years, we've been together for 3 years, for about a year now she constantly checks my phone, gets mad and blows up if I even talk to another female, she's constantly thinking im cheating when I have never done such a thing, she was diagnosed with severe depression and adjustment disorder and she seems to be getting better but worse at the same time so far she has hit me she has bit me and I have to draw blood she has tried to cut herself and she constantly tries to make me think that it is my fault then when she realized that im done she sucks up to me, I love her with all my heart, we've done everything together but it seems that I get abused. I work 70 hours a week, and drive 4 hours a day to just get to work but she thinks that I don't spend enough time with her and that I'm avoiding her specially when I work the weekends and I can't help it because I have responsibilities and bills to pay she gets mad when I try to make sure that my credit is a top concern. I'm in the process to be a sheriff deputy and it has to stay perfectshe's constantly telling me how unhappy I make her but I try so hard to make her happy but I just can't seem to do it as she keeps abusing me her father is an alcoholic and is psychotic literally and he's always trying to fight me her brothers a druggie and an alcoholic and tries to fight me and cause trouble. What do you guys think??

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I'm 25 years and live in a one bedroom apartment with my mother for my whole life. It's starting to get to me and embarss me, I would love to move out but my salary is only 28,000 a year and 2100 a month. Where I live apartments go for 1000 +

Personally I cannot stand the girl. She's provoked me for years, caused a lot of drama and she's not a good mother to her son. But for some reason I can not stop obsessing over this girl. I check her fb & ig daily. I even check her friends and family to see if they've added any pictures of her. I've looked through everyone she knows fb and Instagram Twitter and complied all of the pictures of her I could possibly find and saved them into a hidden album in my phone. I post her pictures on fake accounts for people to rate her and talk crap. It's like I can't stop comparing myself to her...it's a sort of sick way I boost my confidence. I've researched three different counties online court cases and found her criminal history. I did a person search and found all of her past addresses.I know her address and her boyfriends address. I know the friends and cousins names she's usually around. I hacked her fb once by bypassing a security code. But she changed it thru her email. I'm working on hacking her email. I want to keep my hair black now because hers is. I try to keep my nails did because she does. I can't help but want to maintain and get higher paying jobs a better car and place than her. When her son goes with her on weekends I question him on detailed things such as what kind of weave she wears or if she cooks or cleans. And about her abusive boyfriend. I always either imagine us as friends or laughing at her getting beat up. I wonder how things would without female jealousy

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Take this in mind that I have never driven a day in my life before these classes. I passed the written test easy but as soon as I got behind the wheel I instantly got nervous, my hands were actually shacking. Day one and two were'nt that bad and eventually I got the hang of driving straight and the hole stop sign and red light rule. For me turning was and still is the hardest part for me. I'm much better at it but I still get these nervous jitters because I make little mistakes. Well we are on day 3 and I feel that I have improved and so does my instructor but he does little things that piss me off. It's only been 3 days and he expects everything to be perfect! He talks the entire 2 hours and if I dare make even a small mistake he acts like his life is in danger. In my opinion he's moving fast for me and it's getting harder for me to catch on. He's starting to get frustrated with me and it just makes me feel even worse. I kinda wanted to park the car, get out and say screw you when he got mad at me for waiting to turn because I wasn't to confident about getting that close to another persons car. I told my mom what happened and she acted like she couldn't relate so I pointed out all the mistakes she was making while driving.Then to top it off my dad got mad at me for not answering the phone and left me a angry voice mail.When my mom parked the car I had a breakdown.I never cry but I just bawled in my hands. Ps he apologized.Idk what to do? Plus my next lesson is on Friday.

My boyfriend and I have been dating a little under a year now. The first anniversary of his father's death we weren't together, but this is the first year we will be together. I would like to do something with his father'so hand writing if I can get my hands on something or transfer a picture onto something. I am crafty and would like to do something but I am not sure what to do. I need ideas and suggestions for a thoughtful gesture.

I know you can push a person away by being to clingy, I have. What I want to know is if for good? After years apart we were slowly getting back into hanging out and being close. I stilllove him he knows it he also has feelings for me but I'm not sure what exactly those feelings are beside that he cares and is very attracted to me still. I'm not asking him at this point about us because I know I was being pushy. If I stop now and let him take things slower like he asked , could my rushing things be forgotten.? Do people completly get turned off for good when you chase them!

So my friend (well, acquaintance) is 15 years old and having sex with her boyfriend. I think 15 is way too young to be doing that stuff. I'm religious and was raised to believe that sex before mairrage is not right. But see, i get it if you are like 20 and having sex as long as you're not screwing everything that walks and has a dick but sex at 15?? I said that I wouldn't have sex until mairrage and she said "nobody does that anymore" and I said "well I do so apparently people do" and she asked what if I had a boyfriend and it was either him or sex and I said well I'd break up with him cause he's obviously not worth it. She said "well when nobody wants to marry you don't come crying to me" and that pissed me off. So I said no if a guy truly loved me they'd respect the fact that I respect myself. I have more respect for myself than to throw it all away to someone I'm just gonna break up with in maybe a year or two (they break up and get back together every freaking day) and she said "see, that pisses me off because 2 out of 4 of us have had sex and we still have respect for ourselves. Watch you say that might offend people" and I said well maybe it was supposed to be offensive because no, you are 15 and obviously very immature. You probably don't even know what self respect is but it's not having sex at 15 I'll tell you that. And then she goes on about my parents having sex before mairrage which they didn't. And I want an adult or someone who has good morals to give opinions.

There is this guy who is an usher at church ( he's 18, I'm 21 so it took a long while for me to admit I like him so I hope it isn't weird). He is actually seems mature for his age, I've heard him preach before and I was impressed. I've always thought he may be interested in me. He complimented me on an outfit I wore one Sunday while he was showing me to my seat (no guy ever compliments me like that) and I was surprised he was paying attention to what I was wearing like that. Does this confirm he is interested or am I looking too deep into it? Thanks

I'm 13 years old and I tell my mom everything. Literally everything. So this was the first time I've lied to her. My boyfriend kissed me last weekend and it was my first kiss. My mom told me that she was totally fine with it before we kissed so I knew she wouldn't be mad when I told her, but I didn't tell her. She asked me 3-4 times if we had kissed and I told her no. But I don't really like the guy so I told her yesterday that we had kissed and it was gross and how I didn't like it, so now she knows I lied to her and she said that we'll probably never have the same bond that we did. I don't think it was that big of a deal that I didn't tell her, but I also lied about him telling me he loves me too. I don't love him so that's why I didn't tell her, and I told her that, but she won't talk to me or anything! I'm really mad at myself and regret not telling her. Please help! I don't know what to do...

Im holding my second moms hand at church during prayer time,she brought my hand closer to her,and when it was time to let go she was still holding on to my hand then slowly let go,our fingertips touched. Why she didnt want to let my hand go? Shes like a mother figure to me.

If a guy says your smile makes me smile to u does this mean he has a crush on me

Ok so not long ago i asked a question about how normal it is for my exes mother to contact me. ( here's the link) https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150426164327AAXq9b4 You guys did a great job of answering, but recently I logged into my facebook account and had a message from my exes mom. She basically was just sending me a message compliments my default pic. Now keep in mind that she is not on my friend's list or anything and her son was the one who broke up with me. We've been apart for almost 4 months now and his mother seems to be trying to get me to reach out to him. We share a son together and upon exchanging him my ex's mother has gone as far to bring my ex by my house to "see how I was doing" She also was crying and saying how one of us needs to talk to the other. I know she loves her grandson to death and there is no worry about me picking him up and running because there is already a court order in place. Is it normal for her to seek my out on facebook? A few weeks ago she called to "check on me." Is this typically how things go when 2 people seperate. As far as my ex goes in the beginning of the break up he barely acknowledged and was very cold. I wont like and say that I initially begged, pleaded etc to get him back. (of course it didnt work) Then I just stopped doing all of those things since I seen it was not getting me anywhere. Now all of a sudden when we exchange our boy he tries to make small talk and actually acknowledges me. What lead my ex and I to the break up was constant fighting and arguing. I wont lie and say that I've been perfect but alot of the thing he has done to me in the past caused a lot of resentment. I guess I kept the resentment inside and basically argued my relationship to death. At the same end of the token my ex thinks that he does no wrong and anytime I tried to bring some of the things that were causing problems he'd perceive this as "arguing"

My child mother's and I been living together since three years so far with our 18 months daughter. However, many things have been troubling the relationship and have to be change. As you already know sometime there's no way you can find out how someone is unless you live with the person. I already know no body is perfect in this world. And we all were born with our own instinct. The problem between us look impossible to fix .The main problem is she is very clumsy, and disorganized. So, I get very angry and critical about that. Because I love someone that love taking care of herself and her valuable. ( like Keeping the house clean, take care of her own self and valuable ,and be organized) we arguing many times for those reasons and even compromise ...I work a 12 hours shift 5 days a week and i help her out with the shores on Sunday since she works 8 hour's shift nightly on Saturday. And also, I pay my daughter daycare by weekly, paying all the house utility, as cable, electricity. She does knows how to clean very good but she doesn't keep the house clean. She will for example clean the house around 9am then before 12pm the house will be worse than it was before she cleaned it. Because she move thing around so much and leave em the same place, that's not the way I was educated.I have a big problem with that.What do you think is the problem, what would you do or how would you fix that problem to keep the relationship going????

I am 30 and a married woman. I met this extremely polite, smart and nice man in my office and ended up flirting with him because of his qualities. I would make an excuse to walk by his desk, talk to him, even asked him for drinks once. I never realized this then but it seems like obvious signs that i was interested. Possibly the guy noticed too ( or may be I just came off as friendly which I am anyway). He never took advantage of me or my meetings (What a gentleman! ). Till date, I am the one initiating conversation. I feel silly now! I obviously have a crush on him But don't want to act on it.

i cant find anything anywhere i just want her to know im there for her and what are some things i can do that can help her when shes upset because of it

Okay so my brother has a friend ( let's call him joe ). Joe and I have a weird relationship. We both pleasure each other sexually ( oral sex only ) but we aren't dating or anything so we are fuckbuddies ( my brother has no idea ). Joe is coming over this weekend and my mom just recently installed cameras inside our house ( she has a view of the living room, kitchen, part on the hallway, and the front door along with out back yard, side of the house, and the front of the house ). She doesn't have a view of my brothers room, my room, or the guest bathroom. However, my brothers room is not even five feet from my room. I need to find a place where me and joe can be alone. I really don't want to go in the bathroom and do it because ugh gross and I'm afraid that if we go in my room, my brother will hear us ( my bed is really loud sometimes and joe is a moaner ) but do you guys have another ideas?

Thank you

I'm not comfortable around guys , and I need help so I won't think that way, any suggestions?

Okay so there's this girl at school and we were on the phone and she interrupted and said she was going to go take a shower with her dad. What?? That's sick , I have never heard of a 13 year old taking showers with her father, its disgusting , what do you guys think? He's not abusing her or anything but I still think its wrong. Could he be put in jail or something ? Idk its just very sick

Hola, hace como 3 meses comenzo irme mal en la escuela me deprimio demasiado por que mi "novia" va muy bien, después mi padre tuvo problemas fuertes por deudas con vecinos de la comunidad, fue entonces cuando debimos cambiarnos de casa repentinamente para evitar que a mi y mi madre nos hicieran algo, luego por cosas que dije mi novia se molesto y me trata mal ahora me siento solo mi novia era lo unico que tenía, opte por dejarle de hablar para que me demuestre que me quiere por que ella dice que si incluso me pidio disculpas por tratarme así pero antes de que me dijera eso un día muy deprimido fui a un parque, llevaba una navaja de un filo comence a cortarme el antebazo y me hizo sentir bien fue un placer que nunca había sentido y ahora de nuevo estoy muy deprimido por que ya estoy en otra casa solo con mi madre pero esta horrible ni si quiera tenemos muebles, no se que hacer me siento solo, ya hable con mi mamá pero eso no me ayudo, sinceramente muero con automutilarme de nuevo

hace 2 años estuve enamorado de alguien muy especial pero deje un gran problema entre nosotros aun asi ella nunca se enojo conmigo y hace un año bajo todo el sufrimiento decidí eliminarla de fb pensando en que olvidaría todo, no fue asi. yo siempre e sido alguien superficial pero con ella no es asi, y hoy estoy aqui pensando en segundas oportunidades ya que cuando me despedi de ella le dije ojala nos podamos volver a ver. la agrego a Fb o dejo todo? no puedo dejar de pensar en ella ayuda porfavor

la cosa es q, soy hombre y tengo 17 y creo que me gusta mi mejor amigo? no quiero esto, las mujeres me atraen mucho, pero esta vez la cosa cambia, somos muy unidos, siempre nos abrazamos y nos decimos te amo y tal,hacemos bromas de gay y tal pero normal, varias veces si nos hemos pasado con la homosexualidad xd pero nunca hemos hecho cosas asi pasando la raya, el limite, enserio noc no soy homofobico, ni el, pero se que todo es en juego, y lo peor es que a mi me esta gustando o noce que mierda me pasa, ultimamente solo espero en mi telf mensajes de el, que no llegan..., estoy muy frustrado, siento que lo quiero ver y hacer estupideces, (tengo muchas amigas y otros amigos, y generalment la paso bien con todos asi que no creo tener falta de amor o algo asi) siempre estoy pendiente de lo que hace ultimamente, el tambien anda pendiente de mi pero noc, me siento demasiado gay, enserio noc que me pasa, le gusto a varias mujeres que conozco y nunca les paro por mi maldito problema de andar pendiente de el, o que el este cerca o venga y me hable, la verdad no se que hacer no quiero esto, quiero que me gusten las mujeres, quiero una novia no ese loco, hay veces que me dices cosas asi como que me ama y quiere verme y tal, y noc se que es mentira, y me estoy haciendo ilusiones o noc, quiero un psicologo pero enserio me da pena decirle a mis padres, ey me estoy volviendo homosexual llevame a un psico..., no tengo nada encontra de ellos pero solo quiero evitar, ilusionarme con algo falso.

I was beaten by my dad growing up. Sometimes during these incidents my dad would try and take my clothes off 'playfully', try to pull down my pyjamas, pinch my bottom and touch my breasts. And other times he would say inappropriate things, like if I was going shopping he would say try to buy something sexy. He used to do other intimidating things like watching me wordlessly from my doorway for 10 minutes at a time. It sounds silly but it was actually really intimidating. I would say what do you want? And he would just keep staring at me with this cold look. It was never while I was naked or changing or anything. During this time he was very drunk though, so I don't know if he really understood the sexual nature of it. Now that I'm not living with him anymore, the idea of seeing him, especially going over to his house or staying the night there scares the hell out of me and makes me feel nauseous. And I feel a lot of shame about my body, especially my breasts. I try to cover up a lot especially around him. I won't even show a bra strap. I always make sure I wear long sleeves and will not wear make up or anything feminine around him. I realise I was physically abused by him by the bashings, butI know how horrific sexual abuse is so I don't feel like him touching me so mildly or suggestively really counts as abuse--He never raped me or touched my genitals.

I do not want to have this come in between me and my sister who I have known and grew up with since birth. How do I get this kind of thing treated?