Friends: Question: Should i be her friend? |
- Question: Should i be her friend?
- Question: What is wrong with people who like to have bullies as friends (and always side against people who hate them)?
- Question: I'm afraid people will tease me?
- Question: Should I give up this friendship?
- Question: I'm so crazy about him...?
- Question: Am I overreacting about this?
- Question: I wish i knew what to do.. What is going on with my friendship? Please advice? What is happening? What do i do?? Plz!!!?
- Question: I'm having problems. My sisters friend is moving but I just can't tell my sister that she doesn't have the friends phone number,.?
- Question: What to do with a blackmailing asshole please help I will pick best answer?
- Question: What are some ways to effectively make friends?
- Question: Was close friends with a guy and then...?
- Question: I have this friend?
- Question: What should I email my German exchange parter for the first time?
- Question: Should i go to the party!?
- Question: Do you like hanging out in large groups?
- Question: How do I locate a childhood friend?
- Question: Did my freind react wrongly?
- Question: I kind of messed up and need some guidance?
- Question: I kind of messed up and need some guidance?
- Question: What should I do with this girl?
- Question: My friend acts like she has to hide our friendship. We're in our 30's for goodness sakes! Am I being unreasonable?
- Question: I'm concerned about my friend?
- Question: I wanna be a victoria secret model and my friend my friend is 6''5 and 128 pounds and 6''2 and 121 pounds. were both girls. do we qualify?
- Question: Planning a surprise party...?
- Question: I tend to push people away I don t outwardly show it but inside I detach myself from them for no apparent reason. why do I do this?
- Question: Am I wrong to not want to give my friend a ride anymore?
- Question: Why dont I get along with ppl?
- Question: My Friend Is Super Annoying?
- Question: Am I a goody two shoes?
- Question: Is this person a real best friend?
- Question: How to deal with these girls?
- Question: Why does my friend forever offer to buy me stuff?
- Question: I want to end my life but can't do it why??!!!?
- Question: Am I doing the right thing with my best friend?
- Question: How do overprotective (religious) parents let kids date?
- Question: I have been thinking about ending my life a couple of times but can't do it???!!!!!!!?
- Question: Wrong friend group for me?
- Question: I wish I could go temporary blind and be like Kenshi. Why would this girl bother me?
- Question: I'm so tired of the way some of my friends and some people treat me! I have been thinking about ending my life a lot!?
- Question: How to distance myself from my close friend?
- Question: I don't want to be alone, but it seems like I will be cause girls dont like me?
- Question: Can someone tell me why my friend is mad at me?
- Question: Does he want to stay in contact with me? Help?
- Question: Questions about sex?
- Question: Would you text me?
- Question: He wants me to cover and relax?
- Question: I kind of messed up and I really need some guidance?
- Question: Is it a big deal that my cousin always calls and talks to other friends but almost never me?
- Question: Girl wants to fight me?
- Question: I have a friend that needs help. Please help??
- Question: Apology letter??
- Question: Okay guys I used to have this friend i used to talk too... She used to be a close friend but we stopped talking due to my stupid actions a?
- Question: How to handle a clingy friend?
- Question: Where can I meet Professor X?
- Question: My friends never text me?
- Question: I am not shy, but I do not like talking to most people. I find most of it pointless and boring. Anyone else?
- Question: Should I act mature and not over react?
- Question: Girl farting in class?
- Question: I want to break up with my friend!?
- Question: I finally told my friend off and now in upset?
Question: Should i be her friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:17 PM PDT My friend Lauren was best friends with my friend kayla and Kayla found out that Lauren. Said some REALLY Mean things so they aren't friends anymore everyone is one Kaylas side i couldn't pick a side i would flip sides.on may 1 Lauren got a boyfriend she started acting different and started saying stuff. About. Me. Well.That's what i heard. Should i be her friend or i give up |
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Question: I'm afraid people will tease me? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:09 PM PDT I'm going into highschool and I got this backpack with cats on it. I LOVE this backpack but I'm scared people will call me crazy cat lady, or ask me why I have so many cats on my backpack etc. I really don't want another backpack and probably can't get another one anyway what do I do? Also, I recently got braces and I'm afraid they'll make fun of me for my braces too! Help please |
Question: Should I give up this friendship? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:07 PM PDT I have been friends with this person for about one year. We go to school together but she is kinda mean to me. In the summer I would go to her house all the time because she lives right across the street and then she gave my her cousins number because I thought he was cute we talked. After that she had me go camping with her for one week during that week he asked me out I said yes. She invited me to a weekend campout. I was woth her only half the time. When we got back everything was fine. One month later her cousin broke up with me because it wad long distance. Anyway she was distant and invited me to her birthday I went but when I was there so was her cousin and I told this girl there that i was really mad and wanted to hit him and she heard me and got mad. I went to her house less because I had stuff to do and then i just never went over there because she was friends with someone else and calls her her sister. When I talk she seems mad and always calls me stupid and uses me to walk her places so she isnt alone. By the way we are in highschool. She always calls me weird in a rude way. She makes me walk her to class all the time and without asking just pulling and yelling. |
Question: I'm so crazy about him...? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:02 PM PDT This guy (we will call him William) I really like, like am in love with and I hate how it just kills me that we aren't close friends, but just you know normal average friends. I just hate the feeling though being without him, and I can't stop thinking about him. I hate my other friend (we will call him Robbie) because he and my best friend (let's say Maddie) were bugging me because I told Maddie that I liked someone and I told her, "fine. I will give you 3 choices of people and guess one." so robbie came and said William and I hate them so much now. That doesn't make me feel any better. How can I get rid of the feeling of being without him? he doesn't know i like/love him... you know... just middle school 6th grade crushes. |
Question: Am I overreacting about this? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:58 PM PDT Okay so me and my best friend hangout everyday and I mean literally everyday. But I don't know lately she's been.. different. She'll tell me that she isn't allowed to go anywhere or see anyone but then i'll see her posting these pictures of her and this other girl brooke. Me and her have been best friends for 8 years now were usually inseperable but lately I feel as though shes been blowing me off for this other girl. I don't know what to do I want to confront her about it but I also don't want her to think i'm just being jealous or something like that |
Posted: 12 May 2015 04:52 PM PDT My best friend and i have been friends for over a year now. Last year we were inseperable, always talking, texting, hanging out, sitting at lunch, laughing, smiling, fooling around like best friends. She would always text me "heard you won, congrats😘" just little things that made me feel special or i would text her "how did your game go?" But this year its changed completely.. Were still close, but the lack of communication, such as texting, she never texts me anymore. I always start it. Sometimes i dont even to see if she texts me and i get nothing. Honestly im so sad by it. Im so sad its different. We talk in school most of the time but its mostly me asking how are you or saying hi, she will, or even when ill text her a question instead of saying hey because i want to talk to her, shell say how was your day? But waits long times to answer. Yes were both busy with school and sports but it wasnt a problem before. Yes i habe talked to her about it and i said look i cant be friends with you anymore and she got sad but i said look let me explain and i told her i just miss it and i feel weve been distancing and she said i kinda see it..but she doesnt see it. We are so close like kissing on cheek, we kissed as a dare,hugging, smacking butts everything and it still happens but usually ill make the plans and ive made new friends and i try and give her some space to see if she comes to me but its so hard bc i care so much and miss her. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 04:52 PM PDT Why am I guilty? What should I do to persuade my sister to get her friends phone number.... Or give it at least?😥😞 |
Question: What to do with a blackmailing asshole please help I will pick best answer? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:49 PM PDT **IMPORTANT** PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING I AM NOT JOKING ABOUT ANY OF THIS AND IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME AND MY FRIENDS Ok so me and my friends always eat lunch together including one asshole (let's call him/her Steve)who my one friend said hi to on the first day of school this year (the only reason he sits with us is because no one likes him he is really annoying and weird) I didn't have much of a problem with it none of my friends did we just thought of him as that one annoying loser who follows people around trying to make friends. But today he told everyone that my one friend (lets just call him/her bob) was smoking weed in the bathroom (which bob has done but never at school and bob is trying to stop) and I said to Steve wtf dude why did you do that and he giggled and said why wouldn't I I already told guidance and I said wtf dude again and he said oh yea I also told them that my other friend (again fake name let's say Emily) was selling whiskey at school which Emily has never done before I guess he just had fun telling the first story about bob. After I heard about this I threatened to tell all of the facalty at school that he said he would shoot up the school which he sent me from his school email (I think he was joking when he said this he is to big of a pussy to do something like that) so I do have proof but he threatened to attack me at my house with is trashy redneck family what the **** do I do |
Question: What are some ways to effectively make friends? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:33 PM PDT Please Read: Hey so, currently I am a senior in high school. I've always had trouble making new friends, becoming welcomed into a new group of people, and having a relationship with a girl. Freshman year, I felt that people disliked me so badly that I ended up transferring schools. The following years were extremely hard - I felt that people thought they were better than man and didn't care to establish a friendship with me. Most of my past girlfriends' relationships have lasted a very short time (1-2 weeks). In addition, I can't help but to feel bad that I am not going to be graduating with a group of friends who really care for me or the knowledge on making new friends. I'm scared about going to college next year and I really hate the situation that I am in. My mom suggested that I read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. What are some other ways to develop friendships? |
Question: Was close friends with a guy and then...? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:30 PM PDT So I was super tight with a guy named Danny. We've known each other forever. Totally BFFs with him and then this new girl (a million times better than me in every way) moved in and replaced me in our friendship 😡 it's been about 3 months and he stopped texting me and talking to me when ever I see him. He's constantly posting pics with her and WCWing her! I think I'm jealous :( what should I do? I'm so sad and lonely now. BTW (1) we were just friends! (2) we're in the same grade about to graduate. (3) I got invited to a party tonight and Danny and the new girl are going to be there! PLEASE HELP ME. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 04:26 PM PDT he's really "yes girl yaaas" in public and i lowkey find it annoying because he's super sweet and cute and chill in private and i don't want to say anything or hurt his feelings... i just wanna know why? |
Question: What should I email my German exchange parter for the first time? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:20 PM PDT I just figured out who my exchange partner is going to be and I am just emailing her for the first time, and I need something simple yet friendly to say. What should I email my German exchange partner for the first time? What should I email my German exchange partner for the first time? |
Question: Should i go to the party!? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:17 PM PDT So i haven't been to school for a loong time and i haven't even been to my exams last week, because i have been going through some depressions and stuff so i got a medical certificate. My friends have tried contacting me, but my phone had been broke for some time so i never got to respond to their texts and calls so they probably thought i was ignoring them. Anyway, i was supposed to start back school this week. But i haven't gone yet, mainly because i am scared of what the others are going to think of me since i have been skipping school so much. Quite sure they don't know what i've going though. And some might be angry because i didn't answer their calls and texts. But i recently found out that one from my school will be hosting a big party and i really want to go to it. Haven't been invited since i don't have Facebook like everyone else lol. But i know i can come because he is a pretty good friend of mine. So should i go? Or should i just try and overcome the "fear" after the weekend. Just thought it might make everything easier for me, because everyone will be drunk including myself so i won't feel nervous what others think of me. And then i get to see them again, and then after the weekend it won't be so hard for me to go back to school? yes.. i do have a little anxiety as well. |
Question: Do you like hanging out in large groups? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:16 PM PDT |
Question: How do I locate a childhood friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:14 PM PDT |
Question: Did my freind react wrongly? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:55 PM PDT Some say he was just defending himself and others say not. Was it even worth all the trouble Joeys in? Here's my story:Lunch Time was going norml until a 8th grade jerk started throwing food at my freind Joey. He messed up Joeys jacker and it was gross chewed up food, so then he started mocking Joey. Joey got mad and ran up up to him and started beating him up in front of everybody and gave him a black eye and a bad nose. And his (Joeys) sister had to pry Joey off and got mad at him, and yelled at him and everything was just awkward for the rest of the day? What do you think? |
Question: I kind of messed up and need some guidance? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:53 PM PDT Okay, so a few friends of mine have a group on skype that we usually go on to talk after school. The friends are Me, a guy I will call Jack, a girl I will call Aria, and another girl I will cal Amy. We started the group about a year ago. It was all fun, and we would do fun little projects and talk and play games and have a good time generally. But, as friends usually do, we would start to joke about eachother's habits. we would casually say something like "lol, Amy is so young" despite her hardly being and younger than the rest of us. and then we would move on. But the chats became dull. We ran out of games to play and had used up most of pur idle jokes. Chats became silent and I started to come less. So did Amy. Eventually, though, I came back. And the result was horrible. Jack was a bit bitter and Aria was annoyed with me for not being on for so long (about a week straight, at the time) that chat ended when we sat in silence for a good hour and I left. Us, being bored, started making slightly hostile jokes about eachother. Aria became the helpless baby, Amy became the super gay, Jack became the furry, and I became the dumbass. None of these are actually true, though. Aria is strong and independent, but likes childish things. Amy is lesbian, but cisgendered and not perverted or anything. Jericho played as Fox a few times in Smash Bros. I don't know exactly what I did to get my title. Eventually, these "jokes" became unfunny. I never really liked them too much because they dragged on for months and were f*cking stupid and untrue and annoying. But we all had to put on smiles and fake laugh, even when they were really offensive, or we would look like little children. I would always leave a chat because people would start that sort of thing.90 percent of group chats were fake laughs and stupid jokes that make me want to throw my computer away.And we all acted like we were happy. I started fighting with those friends. They are some of my closest,but we all seemed to tick eachother off from time to time. But then, we would act like it's nothing some days later and "Make up". I remember one time, though, with Aria, she hugged me after a dispute, thinking I didn't still want to be friends. It seems like they aren't very good at telling how eachother feels. Or, neither am I. Then skipping back to last night: We were in a call and we were doing the same, brain corroding jokes as always, and randomly, Amy typed in the chat not to "say that" and I said sorry, and asked what? Then Aria said "Oh my god Michael" and I asked what again and said sorry. Jericho said "Woooooowww." And I didn't get it and just waited. Amy said "Let's just drop it" I asked yet again and Jericho said the same thing. Amy said something about her Mom but I don't remember. I never said anything about her. They kept acting like I was a jackass, even though I kept apologizing and asking what I aid. They didn't tell me. I still don't know. But eventually, I just left. I posted a little rant there about everything I just said, basically. And about 10 minutes later, Jack/Jericho/idec anymore just left a link to a twitch page that he likes, ignoring my rant. I then left the group. Later that night, I went on tumblr and found that Amy made a post on it, saying that "something happened in my friend group and im trying really hard not to put all the blame on myself but it's hard and i feel myself shutting down but im trying to fight it and i kind of want to cry kind of want to throw up kind of want to just sit in a ball in silence but none of those is good so i just have to sit through the discomfort and try and be a big girl" I saw that and of course felt even worse and then I skipped lunch with them at school today, telling a friend outside of the group that I had a project to work on, so that if she told them, they wouldn't think badly of it. Now I'm sitting here and I haven't spoken to them since last night and I don't know what to do aaarrrrgghhhhh |
Question: I kind of messed up and need some guidance? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:52 PM PDT Okay, so a few friends of mine have a group on skype that we usually go on to talk after school. The friends are Me, a guy I will call Jack, a girl I will call Aria, and another girl I will cal Amy. We started the group about a year ago. It was all fun, and we would do fun little projects and talk and play games and have a good time generally. But, as friends usually do, we would start to joke about eachother's habits. we would casually say something like "lol, Amy is so young" despite her hardly being and younger than the rest of us. and then we would move on. But the chats became dull. We ran out of games to play and had used up most of pur idle jokes. Chats became silent and I started to come less. So did Amy. Eventually, though, I came back. And the result was horrible. Jack was a bit bitter and Aria was annoyed with me for not being on for so long (about a week straight, at the time) that chat ended when we sat in silence for a good hour and I left. Us, being bored, started making slightly hostile jokes about eachother. Aria became the helpless baby, Amy became the super gay, Jack became the furry, and I became the dumbass. None of these are actually true, though. Aria is strong and independent, but likes childish things. Amy is lesbian, but cisgendered and not perverted or anything. Jericho played as Fox a few times in Smash Bros. I don't know exactly what I did to get my title. |
Question: What should I do with this girl? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:52 PM PDT I'm 16, from Lebanon. I met a girl at school 7 months ago, I'll call her T, she's a 15yo Russian but speaks Arabic fluently & lives in Lebanon too. She fell in love with me but I didnt. We kissed on New Year's Eve and we became somewhat friends with benefits. My sister told my mother that T is a b**** and flirts with a lot of boys. So my parents hate her & blame her whenever I get bad grades or dont get good results in competitions (btw I'm a fencer with a lot of accomplishments, I have even received a medal from the President). So they told me to stop talking to her but I just can't. T shares most of her secrets with me as I'm the one she trusts the most. She hates her life, her father is not her biological father, she cuts, she always says that she'd rather be dead. I helped her a lot, she changed into a better person. T is friendly and makes friends easily, she talks to a lot of guys, a lot of them are in love with her. A few days ago she was with her friends at a girl's house. We facetimed from 12:00 am until 5:00 am. One of her friends was named M. She's very funny and charismatic. We talked about things in common. Training starts at 6:00 pm, T told me to meet her there at 5:30. But I slept and arrived at 6:20. She was afraid cz I didn't answer and now she doesn't want to talk to me. I asked M for some advice, he told me to be cautious cz T flirts with other guys... T still doesn't wanna talk to me what should I do? I think imma write a paragraph that she'll read 2morrow |
Posted: 12 May 2015 03:40 PM PDT I've been friends with this woman for a decade now, we're both in our early 30's. Which is why I'm so baffled at this dilemma. She's the type of friend where you have to call, text, or facebook message every single day. I feel no need 2 do that because how much can change in 1 day?!! Within the past year, I got married and had a baby, and therefore ALL of my time lately has been devoted to my daughter. I havent had time to go out or even talk to my friend because any time I get a free moment, it's to do something for myself. Also Im the kinda person where I understand we're adults, if we go 6 months without talking, I know we're still friends. But she gets dramatic and vents to her other friends that I "ignore" her, etc. So apparently they started telling her Im a sh*tty friend, and to "dump" me. Im focused on my Daughter so I paid no attention to her "dumping me". And to be honest, I was relieved. Anyways after months of no contact, she showed up the other day and while catching up, she said "Please don't put on facebook that we hung out, so many people would be mad if they knew I was with you." I wanted to tell her off right there. She ended our friendship not because I stole from her, or talked crap, but because I was too busy for her. We're adults and I have a FAMILY now, I cant go out to bars or have all nighters like we used to. And Im upset she made me out 2 b such a bad person to other people. This feels like grade school bullsh*t. What should I do with this?! |
Question: I'm concerned about my friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:31 PM PDT Okay so he's my friend but also my crush and today he looked sad so I asked him what was wrong and he said that somebody wanted to fight him because he said some stuff. So when we got off at our bus stop the one who wanted to fight him, cornered him and started threatening him by walking towards him. I wanted to do something but the one who wants to fight my friend is a popular and is a bad person. I really want to do something to show my friend that I'm here for him. I just don't know what to do. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 03:29 PM PDT to stay skinny we only eat 100 calories a day. |
Question: Planning a surprise party...? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:27 PM PDT I'm planning a surprise for a close friend. She will come over and think it is just me and her other friend, but it will be the whole class. She doesn't like certain people in our class, so I'm not sure if I should invite them, but my mom says I can't leave them out. I was gonna have a campfire, hang out at our neighborhood pool, eat, look through old picture and what else? She's really sneaky and I'm not sure how I'm gonna keep it from her. Any other ideas? thanks oh and it is sorta an end of year party for our class. |
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Question: Am I wrong to not want to give my friend a ride anymore? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:25 PM PDT Please answer, thank you. Sorry for the long read. This friend and I have known each other for a long time and used to be close. I thought I knew him, but this year I have more classes with him now and can see how much he has changed. I am very uncomfortable hanging around him now because of his personality. In class, I tend to talk to my other friends rather than hang out with him. I feel like our friendship is outgrown, but there is unfortunately no way we could ever part because my only real best friend is also old friends with him and we have mutual friends. My parents don't know about this and think we're still best friends (we never were), so they insist on giving rides to him, but I don't want to hang around with him more than necessary. The rides are extremely awkward and silent, and he doesn't greet or thank my parents properly (my family encourages well manners, so this bothers me). His house is in a different direction from mine, but it's not too out of the way so that's why my parents insist on the rides, even though the school is very near. He walks home when we don't offer to drive him. I'll feel bad but even so I dislike being near him even more, so what do you think? I'll offer him rides if our mutual friends go hang out somewhere, but other than that I don't want to. My parents are driving Btw to anyone curious, I HAVE tried to improve our friendship and change my view on him, but it's been over a year and I still don't like him. |
Question: Why dont I get along with ppl? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:24 PM PDT I am having trouble finding my place in high school I am a freshman and I feel like I don't belong anywhere or to any group. I am on the varsity wrestling team which is the only thing I feel comfortable in. But socially I have no real friends and never get invite to the parties. I am not ugly, ripped (six pack and all) and a nice guy so I don't get why I don't fit in anywhere. Lately when I am around people I want to leave. |
Question: My Friend Is Super Annoying? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:21 PM PDT So I have this friend who is always hitting me, pulling my hair, or anything else of the like and she thinks it's some big joke! When I tell her to stop, she doesn't listen at ALL and keeps doing it. And then when I do it to her, she gets pissed off. But the thing is, I really like her as a friend but I just don't like what she does to me. It's obnoxious, but I don't want to stop hanging around her for good. How do I get her to stop? |
Question: Am I a goody two shoes? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:16 PM PDT Hi, well im 15 and my friend called my a goody two shoes. I've never smoked, gotten drunk, and I'm still a virgin. I don't lie to teachers, I never ditch and I'm an honors student. Why am I being called a goody two shoes? I didn't know being a good kid is bad... |
Question: Is this person a real best friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:14 PM PDT So I had this problem in my mind for a very long time and I'll tell you my story. Me and my "best friend" have been friends for 8 years. When I first met him he was a very humble and a joker in fact I invited him home because he never stopped making fun of me so I decided to be friends with him. Eventually we both forged a great bond and we were very VERY close, all the time I spent in school was with him we really had a great time togheter. But one year a group of kids or bullies or whatever and these guys mocked about us saying that we were gay. My friend started to talk with me outside school and turned his back when I walked to him, so i said hey i don't care you know we are not gay and they are not going to make us stop talking by saying nonsense but he dismissed me. One day I puched the guy that was spreading those rumours and knocked him out. I got suspended from school but he was my friend again we talked about that day for years and everything was fine but recently(like 8 months ago) he left this high school and went to another since then he barely talked to me, he made new friends( I have no problem with that),but he never invited me to hang out NEVER, I invited him to a party a few weeks ago but nothing from him, he uploads pics with his new friends and stuff and never answers me back or he just says OK, COOL, NICE. Sorry for making you read my little novel but seriously I am analysing like everything to try to figure out what's wrong. So plz help. |
Question: How to deal with these girls? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:11 PM PDT There are these girls in my gym class who act like they are above everyone else. We were playing tennis and my friend and I hit the ball in bounds but they said it was out and they laughed at how "bad" we were. Then they cheered everytime we "messed up". When I finally got fed up and took the ball from them, they got mad and gave themselves points. In the end, the teacher made them win because they were "popular" girls and I was just a "loser" asian. At the end of class they were braggin how they beat asians at their own game. I am fed up with their crap, how do I deal with their stupidity and racism |
Question: Why does my friend forever offer to buy me stuff? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:09 PM PDT Ok, I'm 22 years old and it is a tad weird but I have a friend who is 15 (just to add a little bit of clarification to the situation, we met at a youth group that has a large age range, 13-25 and well, we met and got on really well and it was before I even knew how old he was. No point throwing away a good friend due to age though). Anyway, when ever I hang with him he always seems to offer to buy me stuff. Like once we were out in Birmingham hanging out and there was this Elsa doll I really wanted (I'm a massive Frozen fan) and like I had ran out of cash so he offered to buy me it (making himself moneyless in the process) and he wouldn't even let me pay him back for it. Then last month our youth group went on a trip for the weekend and I ran out of cola and I'm a major caffeine addict and I was coming down and getting agitated and he buys me a cola telling me I'm not allowed to pay him back again. Then we are in Manchester this weekend and I see some darts and I want some darts cos I have lost some of mine for my dartboard. In a position where I can afford to buy them and stuff and yet he is still offering to buy me these darts. I refused this time saying it is fine but.... Why is he forever offering to buy me stuff? He is so sweet and great friend but I have never really seen him do this for anyone else, just me. Thing is, if it means he is into me though he is kinda a bit too young for me right now. Needs to age at least 3 years before that is even a prospect. Why do you think he is constantly offering to buy me stuff though? |
Question: I want to end my life but can't do it why??!!!? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:01 PM PDT Some of my friends are pretending to be my friend and my dad has been screaming at me and my brothers everyday now. He talks about his blood pressure and yet he still screams. also I'm nervous about seeing if I will pass my grade or not!!!!! We will know Saturday |
Question: Am I doing the right thing with my best friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:58 PM PDT More recently and lately my friend and I have been very bothered by each other. And note we have been best friends for 4 years. But she seems to always be so angry when I want to talk to her. And she says I'm over dramatic about everything. I'm not. I just feel like she's gotten bothered by my presence. And I have depression which is getting better because life is can be beautiful. But it comes back every now and then. I tend to be very confused with myself. I'm very sensitive. So when we are constantly fighting for such a while. I had enough today. Because this causes me to have depression. Which I like have bi polar depression. And I told her I wanted a break. Because when I tell her my problems she doesn't care. She always changes the subject and I always listen to her. It puts me very low. :( She left me alone at lunch today and sat with her other friends. I feel so low you guys. But like I said I want a break to figure things for myself. Is it the right thing to do? And she wants to act like nothings wrong /: |
Question: How do overprotective (religious) parents let kids date? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:58 PM PDT What if they are over 18 and still protective of them? Have you had this experience before? |
Question: I have been thinking about ending my life a couple of times but can't do it???!!!!!!!? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:57 PM PDT My group of friends are kind of followers. When one person doesn't like you in the group the others are followers and doesn't like that person either. And I have witnessed it because they told me they didn't like this one girl and I just wanted to fit it. But now I know how it feels because it's being done to me and there taking about me and fakeing to be my friend |
Question: Wrong friend group for me? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:54 PM PDT Everyone has their friend groups, mine is a bunch of girls I have known for ages, at least 3 years for the shortest. But I feel like they don't need me there and wouldn't care if I wasn't there. They don't really worry about my problems but they do with everyone else's, I was wondering if this means that I'm in the wrong friend group? Like, today for example, I had really hurt myself and went to get a drink of water and when I came out, no one cared or asked what was wrong, I had been replaced in the game as quick as a cat and no one even noticed that I had come back. They just don't really notice me much; they don't think about my feelings because I don't show them as easily, even though I have depression AND anxiety, please help me and tell me if it sounds like I'm hanging out with the wrong people!🙏🏼 |
Question: I wish I could go temporary blind and be like Kenshi. Why would this girl bother me? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:54 PM PDT I'm 33 never had a girlfriend in my entire life hahaha. Athletic and been so my entire life. I'm just very shy around the "girls I like". For awhile, I saw this girl at my gym. I didn't stare at her like some creep. Just noticed her innocently. Then one day, she came up to ask me something about if some water bottle was hers or mine. Now it was obvious it was hers and she was giggling. . She left it by the machine a machine away from where I was. Not too close. She caught me off guard as she was the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. She gotta be early 20's too. Im still into prime women. all I did was shake my head no and went back to my thing. She is physically perfect. I didn't want her to actually come up to me. That was weird. The next day, she was walking past me as I was heading into the building. I got that feeling I was being looked at and in the very corner of my eye I could tell she look irritated. Why? Dudes her age talk to her do why should I? Recently, i went to walk past to a curl station and she must have seen me in the mirror walking by and looked over her shoulder to see me. I stared ahead and pretended she wasn't even born. It's been almost a year and a half she still glances at me time to time. I'm money poor and haven't much to offer. Sometimes I envy the blind. Sometimes not noticing can be a good thing. Why do it to myself in the end? |
Posted: 12 May 2015 02:53 PM PDT On the last day of school my friend said to to me why didn't I come to the party and I said I was busy and she just made a awkward face and was like oh. And my other friends were around me and then the bell rung and my other friends weren't the same and started to ignore me. I hate it when one friend in the group acts weird so does everyone!!!!!!!!!!! That girl that asked me a question was one of my best friends started acting weird for no reason |
Question: How to distance myself from my close friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:48 PM PDT So I have this friend who is the one person that I have been best friends with for so long but she is always criticising me, like when I think I've done something well I say "I'm quite proud of that, I think I did quite well" she would either say "ok, you think that" sarcastically or "no, no it's not" and it always makes me feel badly about myself. I want to distance myself from her but I still want to stay friends with her and not hurt her feelings; does anyone have any ideas on how I can do this gently? |
Question: I don't want to be alone, but it seems like I will be cause girls dont like me? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:47 PM PDT I'm one of those "nice guys" who treats girls with respect, kindness, love, and care. Finally had my first gf like 5 months ago.. and i'm currently 23. Lost my virginity to my ex-gf who I dumped as well; however, it just seems like girls never like me or find me attractive.. feel like I'm doomed to be single forever which I don't want to be :( I've just been pretty depressed and lonely for the last few months. Things I use to enjoy I just dont anymore.. often find myself crying myself to sleep and taking long naps cause of how upset I feel. |
Question: Can someone tell me why my friend is mad at me? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:41 PM PDT Today in school, my teacher gave us the option if we wanted to take the last test we had for the year. We were going to take a vote and majority would win. We took a vote and I raised my hand to take the test. He forgot to count me so I raised my hand and said I'd like to take the test also. Some other few did the same thing. After class, my friend won't even talk to me. I don't even understand. I knew she didn't want to take the test but it was my choice. I don't even know if I should text her and say anything.. Please no smart alike answers. |
Question: Does he want to stay in contact with me? Help? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:26 PM PDT So i was in the bus with my instructor the other day. Hes 30 &im 17. Im female. Me and him got on well and we had a good laugh together & got on well throughout the course in which he instructed me on. Anyway, we were in the bus on the way home and he was sitting beside his friend that he brought along. They met because my instructor also thought him and they built up a friendship. My instructors friend said something about another friend of my instructors that we met on the course and i said that how they all know eachother and my instructor then said "Yes Nicole thats how we know eachother I thought these and we built up a friendship". Was this his way of wanting to me know that he wants to stay in contact with me? He told me on one occasion that he wouldnt forget about me too! |
Question: Questions about sex? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:26 PM PDT So my parents have a thing they have to do and will be gone this weekend and my boyfriend and I have been wanting to have sex for a long while and O used the excuse that my parents are home because I was nervous and Saturday is the day. Well now they're gonna be gone and I have no excuse. He's not forcing so don't think that haha, I want to but it's my first time and I don't know what to do or expect and I'm nervous. So what should I do? Do I have to be naked? Where should we do it? What positions are best for first time? How long should it last? Pain level? What should I do? He's going to wear protection but is there anything I have to do? What happens when it's over? |
Posted: 12 May 2015 02:18 PM PDT I have friends but when they talk about stuff its mainly complaining about stuff such as how one teacher is unfair or how unfair it is they go there phone taken. I mean it is okay to complain once and a while but not everyday. So I was wondering if someone would like to text me so I can possible make a new friend that I like 100% of the time. |
Question: He wants me to cover and relax? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:17 PM PDT Does he have intentions? He doesn't live in this city but heads over to his dad's (who isn't home due to work) and chills before heading to his other job. He has asked me to come over several times but I am skeptical. When I once asked him why he doesn't come over and see me, it took him a VERY long time to respond and ended up saying he will sometime. |
Question: I kind of messed up and I really need some guidance? Posted: 12 May 2015 02:15 PM PDT Okay, so a few friends of mine have a group on skype that we usually go on to talk after school. The friends are Me, a guy I will call Jack, a girl I will call Aria, and another girl I will cal Amy. We started the group about a year ago. It was all fun, and we would do fun little projects and talk and play games and have a good time generally. But, as friends usually do, we would start to joke about eachother's habits. we would casually say something like "lol, Amy is so young" despite her hardly being and younger than the rest of us. and then we would move on. But the chats became dull. We ran out of games to play and had used up most of pur idle jokes. Chats became silent and I started to come less. So did Amy. Eventually, though, I came back. And the result was horrible. Jack was a bit bitter and Aria was annoyed with me for not being on for so long (about a week straight, at the time) that chat ended when we sat in silence for a good hour and I left. Us, being bored, started making slightly hostile jokes about eachother. Aria became the helpless baby, Amy became the super gay, Jack became the furry, and I became the dumbass. None of these are actually true, though. Aria is strong and independent, but likes childish things. Amy is lesbian, but cisgendered and not perverted or anything. Jericho played as Fox a few times in Smash Bros. I don't know exactly what I did to get my title. To Be Continued Eventually, these "jokes" became unfunny. I never really liked them too much because they dragged on for months and were f*cking stupid and untrue and annoying. But we all had to put on smiles and fake laugh, even when they were really offensive, or we would look like little children. I would always leave a chat because people would start that sort of thing.90 percent of group chats were fake laughs and stupid jokes that make me want to throw my computer away.And we all acted like we were happy. I started fighting with those friends. They are some of my closest,but we all seemed to tick eachother off from time to time. But then, we would act like it's nothing some days later and "Make up". I remember one time, though, with Aria, she hugged me after a dispute, thinking I didn't still want to be friends. It seems like they aren't very good at telling how eachother feels. Or, neither am I. Then skipping back to last night: We were in a call and we were doing the same, brain corroding jokes as always, and randomly, Amy typed in the chat not to "say that" and I said sorry, and asked what? Then Aria said "Oh my god Michael" and I asked what again and said sorry. Jericho said "Woooooowww." And I didn't get it and just waited. Amy said "Let's just drop it" I asked yet again and Jericho said the same thing. Amy said something about her Mom but I don't remember. I never said anything about her. They kept acting like I was a jackass, even though I kept apologizing and asking what I aid. They didn't tell me. I still don't know. But eventually, I just left. I posted a little rant there about everything I just said, basically. And about 10 minutes later, Jack/Jericho/idec anymore just left a link to a twitch page that he likes, ignoring my rant. I then left the group. Later that night, I went on tumblr and found that Amy made a post on it, saying that "something happened in my friend group and im trying really hard not to put all the blame on myself but it's hard and i feel myself shutting down but im trying to fight it and i kind of want to cry kind of want to throw up kind of want to just sit in a ball in silence but none of those is good so i just have to sit through the discomfort and try and be a big girl" I saw that and of course felt even worse and then I skipped lunch with them at school today, telling a friend outside of the group that I had a project to work on, so that if she told them, they wouldn't think badly of it. Now I'm sitting here and I haven't spoken to them since last night and I don't know what to do aaarrrrgghhhhh |
Posted: 12 May 2015 02:06 PM PDT She always talks about how she makes phone calls to all her friends and they listen to her complaints. I'm not jealous or anything, I'm just kinda curious why she never calls me. I mean I only get text messages but her other friends get huge and massive life stories. |
Question: Girl wants to fight me? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:50 PM PDT Today at school this girl that I was friends with comes up to me and says people are saying I'm talking **** about her I told her I didn't then the girl that told her that told everyone she wants to fight me so I'm like u have no reason to fight me I never got in to a fight but I will fight her and I can't say I don't want to be use everyone is gonna think I'm scared of her everyone is scared of her and scared to fight her but I don't know what to do I went home early just because of it now I have no friends I sit at lunch by myself in a loner lol and we only have 3more weeks of school and I'm in 8th grade we both are |
Question: I have a friend that needs help. Please help?? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:46 PM PDT She has been violated while she was sleeping at her moms house a while ago by a family friend. She was talking to him on the phone and he told her exactly what she remembered, without her asking him to tell her if it was true. She wants to know if what she did (Which I will update later) is something you would have done. Please help. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 01:43 PM PDT My friend was being so mean to me. Jealous, not telling me things, and treating me like crap. I finally said something and I was really angry at the time and now I want to apologize for being so mean. We won't be best ferments anymore, I just want to be the bigger person. So any ideas on what I can say? Thank you. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 01:40 PM PDT Okay guys I used to have this friend i used to talk too... She used to be a close friend but we stopped talking due to my stupid actions and I see her around and I got people to ask if she still liked me like as a friend and she said no and she's moving next year and I still wanna know that she forgives me and the whole reason we stopped being friends is because I stopped talking to her and she wanted to talk to me and I was being mean.. btw I'm a girl and I'm 13... I didn't do something bad |
Question: How to handle a clingy friend? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:37 PM PDT So my best friend won't stop texting me & calling me nonstop he always wants to hang out &I I never have to time cause my mom is very overprotective of who I hang out with. I've heard rumors that he likes me from his friends plus he told me he liked me in that platonic way but he's also gay so that's what also confuses me. I'm the only one who knows he's gay so far everyone's else just assumes they don't know for sure like me but I feel like he's using me as a coverup or he really does like me? He won't leave me alone and he just keeps texting me 24/7 & I wish I had the time for him but I just don't my mom is the strict type so she always takes my phone away. How do I make him back off a little without being rude? |
Question: Where can I meet Professor X? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:33 PM PDT My friend told me that he is a real person. |
Question: My friends never text me? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:27 PM PDT Im a 16 year old girl and i have about 3 close friends and a few other kind of friends. We talk a lot at school (so much so tbat sometimes we have nothing left to tall about) but we never text. Is that bad? In middle school, i texting people 24/7 and now im not texting anyone. I only get texts to make plans to hang out....right now i would say that i am borderline happy and borderline sad (#songreference) and sometimes just really sad but never happy. I was happy when i was popular and texting a lot of people (in middle school) and i want it to be like that again. Is this like something that happens as u grow up or what? I also feel like i have no best friends and it really sucks |
Posted: 12 May 2015 01:26 PM PDT I am not shy nor am I a teenager. I am in my 40s. I don t need to come out of my shell, I am very outspoken. I just don t like pointless chit chat and don t care about hearing about other people s children, grandchildren, dating, jobs, household repairs or of any of the stuff most people like to ramble about. It just sounds like a parrot squawking to me. I know they are trying to say something but to me it only sounds like irritating noise. I actually make friends easily and people like me and always have since I was a child. I just wish I could return the favor but it is rate when I actually find anyone interesting. Just wondering if anyone else feels like this. And no, I m not an ahole. I m nice to everyone. But inside I just don t care what most people have to say unless it is a subject I have a specific interest in. Like this question. I m interested, so I will listen. |
Question: Should I act mature and not over react? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:20 PM PDT On Sunday I went over my parents friends house too drop off flowers.. Karen is the Mother of Anne who is 7 or 8. Karen was in the house giving Anne a spanking for being bad. The little brother told me Mommy was in the living room so that is the only reason I went in the house. Karen stopped spanking when she seen me and then TALK TOO ME with her daughter laying there with her underpants exposed. (Anne had her dress bundle up past her waist). I told Karen sorry but Karen acted like this is how little girls get spankings? She said that Anne is getting a "spanking on her panties" for lying about something and made no effort too pull the dress down over her daughters sheer white underpants. After I left Karen then resume spanking with her hand. This kind of bothers me. Anne''s undies are private and unless I was giving the spanking then you should not see them...right?? Am I naïve and just didn't realize that this is how a little girl get's a spanking? |
Question: Girl farting in class? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:14 PM PDT I was sitting in Social Studies class, and we were all reading a book to ourselves....and i fell asleep. The room was silent. Then when i woke up and while i woke up i was farting. It was SO loud! Everyone was laughing! When it happened i couldn't believe it. It's getting around the school that i farted in class. It wouldn't bother me as much if it was just a small fart, because everyone farts..but it was LOUD. My friend sits in the badk of the classroom and i sit in the front. My friend said that she didn't know it was me until i told her. i'm so nervous to go back to school!!! Should i just laugh about it and act like i don't care? And that i think its funny as well? Or what? This is the most embarressing thing thats every happened to me! Everyone is talking about it. I'm a girl in 8th grade!! |
Question: I want to break up with my friend!? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:12 PM PDT I'm a woman, 29 years old. I have a friend whom I can't have a normal conversation with because all she's capable of is talking about herself and strange issues in her life. She talks about death a lot (one time she told me about every detail how her great, great, great...grandmother died.), and EVERY time I leave, I feel twenty times worse than before seeing her. Would you keep a friend who makes you depressed and who pretty much gives you nothing? Shouldn't it be the other way around? She's a very sensitive person (everything gets to her, hence the great, great, great grandmother's death. She died bleeding out on an operation table, by the way). I try to change the subject, but almost right away she changed it to something else, about a lamb she found dead and every gory detail you can imagine (While in a coffee shop while eating...) I don't want to hurt her, but I'm not comfortable to willingly go and get depressed like that. I get very anxious whenever she calls me or sends a message. Is it okay to carefully stop seeing her? I haven't told her straight out that she's talking too much about death and negative things, but I've hinted toward it and said let's discuss something more fun and brought up a book, or people we both know to talk about. Or clowns! ANYTHING really. It just doesn't work. I wouldn't say she's a close friend, but I suspect she'd call me one. I'm also not a therapist. (Sorry for my terrible English, I'm Swedish.) Thanks for any help! |
Question: I finally told my friend off and now in upset? Posted: 12 May 2015 01:11 PM PDT Here's the story...so my friend Stacy has been obsessed with these 3 girls because they are popular. She literally follows them around like around like a dog on a leash. She treats her original group of friends she has now like **** since she finally "joined" the popular group. She's been treating me like **** and ditching everyone to go hang with them. Today was the day where I had to step up my game and finally tell her how me and my friends were feeling. I accidentally told her that it wasn't JUST me who felt this way and so I mentioned 3 friends. What I'm scared about is that 1 of my friends is gonna get mad at me bc I mentioned them in the conversation. She just gets mad easily. My other friend doesn't care that I mentioned her and my other friend won't answer her phone. I'm scared that Stacy is gonna twist my words around and tell those popular girls that I maybe called her a ***** or something. How should I cope with this? Why am I upset?! |
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