Marriage & Divorce: Question: How do I cope with my sexless marriage? |
- Question: How do I cope with my sexless marriage?
- Question: Plural marriages, in favor or opposed?
- Question: How to I get my wife's father out of a relationship with his mistress?
- Question: Have you ever made your husband sleep on the couch?
- Question: If a man is into transvestites, hermaphodites transgendered porn and escorts, can a woman satisfy these needs?
- Question: A Positive Attitude and a Smile Can Go a Long Way for successful married life. Right ?
- Question: What am I hearing? I have lived in the house with my husband for 4 years. We know the history of it so we know its not haunted.?
- Question: Are you happy that you got married?
- Question: How do you know when it's time to move on when you have kids together?
- Question: Where to get a wife in Canada?
- Question: Can seperated wife name our baby maiden name?
- Question: Do you still think your husband/wife is hot?
- Question: Passion/chemistry or loyalty?
- Question: Birth certificate and marriage license?
- Question: Here's my problem. I have to go to north Carolina from pa to get married. I need five hundred dollars but that's an entire paycheck for me.?
- Question: I've been married for 2 years and don't feel any spark or excitement anymore..?
- Question: What to do with a negative husband?
- Question: Why does it seem like married people don't love each other anymore?
- Question: "Is hiding infidelity selflessly suffering in silence or deceptively securing the comforts of a family and life you don't deserve?"?
- Question: Can anyone get married at Bryant Denny stadium?
- Question: What are my rights when im confronted by my loan worker's husband?
- Question: Is marriage right for me?
- Question: Do you think I am overreacting?
- Question: How can I tell my husband the truth behind why ibhave been avoiding sex with him?
- Question: Can i get an annulment from my wife?
- Question: Why is sobriety ruining what I used to love?
- Question: Can you trust or not a pound of palladium?
- Question: Married people: What was it like bringing your fiancé home for the first time?
- Question: When is common wedding season/months?
- Question: Divorce or not?
- Question: If getting a divorce can wife ask for money back from a garnishment which has already been satisfied?
- Question: He cheated on me, should I use his credit card as revenge?
- Question: What does it mean when a wife looks for husband mistress many months after the affair?
- Question: I need advice on a marital question. Please read!!!?
- Question: I have been through a rough couple of years with my husband and it seems to just be getting worse. I have been in love with him for over 15?
- Question: We've been married 4yrs. Can I draw my husbands social security should he die before I do?
- Question: My husband can be passive agressive, what can I do?
- Question: Can a marriage survive again if it is broken and we are separated?
- Question: MY WIFE KEEPS ON BACK TALKING ME AND I WANT TO HIT HER IN THE FACE SO BAD I CANT STAND IT \?
- Question: How to help my wife?
- Question: Can my wife collect benefits from our divorce and then get more benefits when I die?
- Question: How does a dude withhold sex from his wife to punish her, without actually rewarding her and punishing himself?
- Question: How to help my wife get past her addiction, and is it time for counciling?
- Question: How may married men and women masturbate?
- Question: My husband fingered me and I didn't like it?
- Question: Child Support??? Laws??? Oklahoma?
- Question: Is this a bad thing to do?
- Question: Just tell me why is it so awful?
- Question: Is a divorce the right course of action?
- Question: Found porn on husbands phone?
- Question: Baby mama ruined my relationship?
- Question: My wife is upset about abortion? Why is she acting like this?
- Question: Iam married two years ago. but the problem is my vagina. it is small.?
- Question: Why does wife tense up in bed while i massage her gently and she thinks she is ugly, shes hot?
- Question: I have depression and I m in love with someone.?
- Question: Does a man or a woman have a scriptual obligation to marry and have children?
- Question: Mom says get marry, but I'm not settled yet.?
- Question: Please explain me this answer with the easiest English?
- Question: So what would you have done if your fiancee showed up to your wedding so hung over he didn t even want to be there?
- Question: My husband wants to take our son to Nigeria for a holidayshould I let him go?
| Question: How do I cope with my sexless marriage? Posted: 31 May 2015 09:32 PM PDT I'm 25 my husband is 27. He has no desire to have sex. We sleep together maybe once every 3 months. I've suggested counseling divorce you name it I've done or tried it. I used to ask him a lot but now maybe once a month I'll ask and he still tries to use the excuse he doesn't want to because i nag him? Once a month is nagging? I think about cheating all the time but i remind myself i made a commitment but the selfish party of me also thinks about how he made a commitment to me. What in the world do i do? |
| Question: Plural marriages, in favor or opposed? Posted: 31 May 2015 08:52 PM PDT |
| Question: How to I get my wife's father out of a relationship with his mistress? Posted: 31 May 2015 08:47 PM PDT Her father is currently in a relationship with the mistress he left is wife for. Huge mistake, we all know. However, I love my wife and as shitty as a person he is for having a mistress it is tearing my wife apart. She is crying every day and can't even speak with her father. It is to the point where I'm pretty sure he is going to blow a hole through his head any day now |
| Question: Have you ever made your husband sleep on the couch? Posted: 31 May 2015 08:47 PM PDT |
| Posted: 31 May 2015 08:26 PM PDT Found porn and escort services on husbands phone. Will not admit, deny or even talk about it. Is there anyway for me to satisfy those needs for him? If I can't do it for him he will either cheat or continue to cheat. |
| Question: A Positive Attitude and a Smile Can Go a Long Way for successful married life. Right ? Posted: 31 May 2015 08:10 PM PDT |
| Posted: 31 May 2015 08:03 PM PDT I have never had anything creepy happen here until the last 2 days. I was walking to my kitchen to get my 9 month old his puff snacks when I heard a voice very similar to my husbands say "baby". Problem with that is my husband was at work. The second incidence was the day after.(hubby was at work again) I had just checked the mail and I was about to sit down on the couch to open it when I heard the same voice say "Sit down" except this time it seemed almost angry. I haven't heard anything today but I want to know what someone else's opinion is. |
| Question: Are you happy that you got married? Posted: 31 May 2015 07:42 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you know when it's time to move on when you have kids together? Posted: 31 May 2015 07:39 PM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years . It was instant love for me. He was a single dad raising his 6 month old daughter on his own and was sweet as can be. He seriously was everything I ever wanted. We had plans to get married and got our first place together by the time his daughter turned 2. Shortly after, I found out I was pregnant with our son. About 5 months into my pregnancy everything changed. He started treating me poorly and wanted nothing to do with my pregnancy. After months of fighting and tears I found out he was talking to another girl 3 days before my son was born. As much as I wanted to leave him the stress of a new baby made me stay. My son is now 1 and we barley speak to each other. We are both pretty much in it for kids but as for us our relationship its dead. I've tried everything to fix us and make our family work but nothing has changed. I need advice on if I should stay for our kids or move on... I don't want to tear my family apart just because I feel lonely but I don't know how much longer I can live unhappy like this. |
| Question: Where to get a wife in Canada? Posted: 31 May 2015 07:28 PM PDT |
| Question: Can seperated wife name our baby maiden name? Posted: 31 May 2015 07:15 PM PDT |
| Question: Do you still think your husband/wife is hot? Posted: 31 May 2015 07:11 PM PDT |
| Question: Passion/chemistry or loyalty? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:55 PM PDT a man that is 100% loyal with very little passion or adventure. Or a man with high chemistry & serious passion? You've worked on passion with the loyal man....not working. You worked on loyalty with the passionate one....swears he will always be faithful & true. Has a shady past!!! Which is more important to you?? |
| Question: Birth certificate and marriage license? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:43 PM PDT Me partner and I are going to Niagara Falls in New York to get married we are leaving tonight! I just realized that I do not have my original birth certificate I only have a paper copy like a copy of it that was made by a copy machine it has all of the original information would that work? |
| Posted: 31 May 2015 06:40 PM PDT I need to get there to get married. I have piles of bills. Paying for my son and I have one more on the way. My fiancée is already set by her mother. 500 for a round trip. |
| Question: I've been married for 2 years and don't feel any spark or excitement anymore..? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:35 PM PDT My husband and I met 3 years ago, got pregnant after 4 months, and married right before our baby was born. He has a tendency of quitting jobs I've always been the one constantly supporting our family. Between working my butt off, trying to spend time with our son when I come home from work ( I work 56 hours a week ), and dealing with my inlaws trying to be involved in everything too much, I am so tired after work and have no ambition to be intimate or let alone be touched by my husband. I miss the excitedness and spark I feel we once had. Lately I've found myself wondering how it'd be if we weren't married. I've also found myself wanting to feel attractive to other men.How do I know if this will pass or what I should talk about with my husband? |
| Question: What to do with a negative husband? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:34 PM PDT I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and always trying to keep him happy but it's never enough. He comes home and picks fights over this and that... Like my daughter was sick Friday and the dr was closed so we had to go to ER. It took all day and she projectile vomited all in his truck I had to clean it! By the time I got done he got mad that I left the doors open in the truck (letting it air out) and that I hadn't cleaned but after that I started dinner. Then I try to clean but he drifts off at like 8pm and gets mad when I run the vacuum because of the noise. I just got laid off and I don't like staying home. He's resenting me even though I had $ saved and should get ui. I might have a job now. I pd bills 2 months ahead. He was mad I didn't keep it in savings. I feel more secure with them paid. It's what that $ was for! I can't watch tv or do anything without a sideways comment. I always stay busy in front of him and it's getting to be a lot. Plus the arguments he start are for petty things and he drags them out for hours into days. I don't even want to lay in bed with him. I'll be on the couch where it is peaceful! |
| Question: Why does it seem like married people don't love each other anymore? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:27 PM PDT like parents and stuff. It makes me sad idk. Like when I'm married and have kids i still want to be in love with my husband and do cute things and stuff. |
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| Question: Can anyone get married at Bryant Denny stadium? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:05 PM PDT |
| Question: What are my rights when im confronted by my loan worker's husband? Posted: 31 May 2015 05:57 PM PDT |
| Question: Is marriage right for me? Posted: 31 May 2015 05:44 PM PDT I know I have to make the final call on this, but I would like someone else's input. Since I was young I've always wanted to get married, but as I got older I realized marriage isn't what the movies make it out to be. I'm not sure I'm ready for the commitment it takes in marriage. I'm not sure if I can see myself spending the rest of my life with one person. I'm not sure if I'm ready for the compromise of freedom and alone time I would need to make if I get married. I can't imagine being hurt so deeply if it does't work out. I've taken a lot of time to think about what I actually want in life when it comes to marriage. Recently, I've been on the edge of anxiety because of it. I've gotten to the point where I cry if I think about marriage too much. I know there is a fear of marriage, but I doubt it's that serious. I'm probably just nervous about the unknown, which is totally natural. But even then, I just can't see myself as the marrying type. I know marriage isn't for everyone, but how can I know if marriage is right for me? I need to know how to tell if I'm the marrying type. If there is no pursuit of marriage, I personally see no point in being in any type of romantic relationship at all. Maybe staying single would be more beneficial to me? i wish I was better at life decisions, but I'm not, so hence that's why I'm here. |
| Question: Do you think I am overreacting? Posted: 31 May 2015 05:30 PM PDT I've been a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years. We have both been divorced from our exes for 11 years. My boyfriend and I maintain our separate residences, but I do stay the night with him most nights. My problem is this: he always runs to his ex wife any time she needs money, or needs something at her house fixed, or she needs help with anything. While I still have a broken bathroom sink that he said he would fix over 10 months ago. His children are all grown adults now and his ex wife even has a boyfriend for at least as long as my boyfriend and I have been together. My ex husband is no part of my life at all... I do not understand why my boyfriend keeps running every time she needs anything... I mean she has her own boyfriend and they are divorced with grown adult children. It breaks my heart and makes me cry for I feel as I am chump change to him because of this. I ask tell him how I feel and he just says I am jealous because my ex husband doesn't do those things for me. It can be farther from the truth. What do you all think? Am I being jealous or do you see something wrong with this, too? |
| Question: How can I tell my husband the truth behind why ibhave been avoiding sex with him? Posted: 31 May 2015 05:04 PM PDT My husband was a virgin when we met, I wasn't. It wasn't that big big of a deal bc the few times we had sex before we were married were OK. We didn't have mind blowing sex (at least for me) but it wasn't bad. After we were married is where the problems came. I tried to have sex on our short weekend honeymoon but he could barely get it up, and it didn't stay up for more than 30 seconds. We didn't consummate our marriage until after we returned home. From that point on, it was a struggle to be intimate - sex was rapidly becoming unfulfilling. Anytime we tried, he would struggle to get and maintain an erection. I eventually gave up after I miraculously got pregnant. Its been over 3 yrs since we had sex. I'm frustrated sexually bc we don't match. I have a high drive and need someone to match my needs. I have had thoughts of cheating bc I know he can't give me what I need, but I don't want to hurt him. How can I fix this with out hurting his ego? |
| Question: Can i get an annulment from my wife? Posted: 31 May 2015 04:59 PM PDT My wife and i split about 3 months ago and the reason why we did is because i caught her cheating on me with another guy and well that dont settle with me! However we've only been married for a year and 7 to 8 months. The question is can i just get an annulment with out divorce? And if it helps with your answer we got married in Arkansas. Please real help. Oh and im in Alabama......if that helps to. Thank you. |
| Question: Why is sobriety ruining what I used to love? Posted: 31 May 2015 04:57 PM PDT Hello everyone my name is Mike and I'm glad to say I haven't had a drink since 4-18-15 and I'm proud of that. My question is it seems that this is what my wife wants as she doesn't really drink and when I do drink I'm mean. So since I've decided I don't want to be that mean person anymore everything I used to love I can't do anymore ( bbq,outdoor stuff,cars) it seems as though the passion is gone without a beer by my side. I have actually fought with my wife about bbq what man does that I just can't do it anymore it was a drinking activity what can I do to love stuff again I hate being bored. And before you answer I don't go to aa because I can quit this by myself I don't need more boring people in my life I just want to have fun without being drunk |
| Question: Can you trust or not a pound of palladium? Posted: 31 May 2015 04:56 PM PDT What would you trust better than a wife? |
| Question: Married people: What was it like bringing your fiancé home for the first time? Posted: 31 May 2015 04:54 PM PDT Had your family already met him/her or not? How did your family react, how did your fiancé react? |
| Question: When is common wedding season/months? Posted: 31 May 2015 04:41 PM PDT |
| Posted: 31 May 2015 03:43 PM PDT I am a forty three old woman married and a mom of two teenagers. My husband was mean to me since the first month of our marriage. He tried to hurt my feelings in a lot of ways. Such as constantly calling me names. The main reasons of why I didn't divorce him were because I didn't have a job at first, and if I did divorce him, I would have to return to my family which were also very mean to me, especially my mom. Also because I was pregnant with my first child the first month we were married. After one year of marriage, we left our country to come to America. Living with him was like living in jail. Once we arrived in America, I barely saw him. I was left with my child while he was gone for 16 hours. I had no cell phone. No car. And no way to communicate with the people in this new country. 5 months later I was pregnant with my other child. My husband was even more cold towards me. Again he was rarely there during my miserable pregnancy, always gone doing something. Because of my harsh situations living with my family consisting of my brother raping me, nobody believing me when I told them, no freedom whatsoever, I admit that because of these situations I became weak and depressed. Adding onto living with my cold husband, this made my depression worsen. I felt then that I couldn't do anything without his help. At the same time I didn't like living in this situation at all. I have no job, scared of driving, and have thoughts of killing myself if it wasn't for my kids. |
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| Question: He cheated on me, should I use his credit card as revenge? Posted: 31 May 2015 03:09 PM PDT My husband has cheated on me and has brought this Jezebel a series of $5000 worth of items. I'm working two jobs to support him and he goes behind my back and spends numerous dollars on some girl I've never met. As revenge I would like to treat myself to a shopping spree on his credit card. I wouldn't spend more than $1000. Is it worth it? |
| Question: What does it mean when a wife looks for husband mistress many months after the affair? Posted: 31 May 2015 03:02 PM PDT For instance the wife wants the woman to say something to her, even though the other woman no longer speaks to her husband and has moved on with her life? Does this woman want a way out her marriage? |
| Question: I need advice on a marital question. Please read!!!? Posted: 31 May 2015 02:35 PM PDT I have been married for 2 years now and together for 5. We have lived in very rural locations for four years now due to the military. I am generally happy with him but the living situation has given me no room to thrive and develop as a person which has taken a toll on what I have to offer in my marriage since I am unhappy. Since we live in a very rural area, we have had no opportunity to make any friends that we can hang out with leaving us only for eachother here. We have had to be everything for one another, which is amazing, but its taken a toll on my sex life and the spark is gone. Over the 4 years we've been together I've actually never been happy with him sexually. I never feel like he wants me. We have talked about it a number of times and he always just says that he feels the same way and the end result is reoccurring. He says that he feels the same way and that his needs aren't fulfilled either but again, nothing ever changes. I shared with him about how I need to have sex with him and he said that I do small things that turn him off. I've not been interested in other men since i got married because it's just never gotten to that point since I've always been in love with my partner. Although, there has been one that has caught my eye lately, and I am afraid its a strong interest. I know it's so wrong but it would feel so right. I read and have learned that my interest is a reflection in what is lacking in my marriage and it all sounds so right. |
| Posted: 31 May 2015 02:26 PM PDT Years and he was a loving, caring, happy, silly, fun, responsible and devoted man. That man is now a ghost and a angry, mean, resentful, hurtful and lazy person is taking over. He shows the man I fell in love with ever so often but it isn't enough to make me to continue to be in an unhealthy and scary marriage and raise my (2 from previous marriage) and our child. The children alone deserve better than being raised in a toxic environment and we BOTH deserve to be happy. He has gone from small hurtful put downs, to nasty, degrading & shameful comments, to physical actions and secretly recording me and following me. I still love him but not the who is being and acting. Counseling has been tried, briefly, and setting goals, rules and separating from each other. I don't want to keep working on a marriage that is only one sided, I am getting exhausted and don't want to hate him. He thinks since I am a stay at home mommy with no income and no where to go I will just put up with it, which I guess I have. I want to know if I am not giving it enough time and effort or is it just pointless cause everything he is doing is just proving he doesn't care and wants to hurt me in the long run? I want him to get help not only for himself but for the children. |
| Question: We've been married 4yrs. Can I draw my husbands social security should he die before I do? Posted: 31 May 2015 02:23 PM PDT |
| Question: My husband can be passive agressive, what can I do? Posted: 31 May 2015 02:23 PM PDT He won't just talk of his feelings, if he's angry he can blow up so simply does little things to be mean, they are small. Like if he knows I'm on a diet he will buy me chocolate bars, my favorite. If I want to go somewhere, he'll restrict money to make it almost impossible, if he goes to store I will ask him to pick up an item and he will come home without it saying they ran out. |
| Question: Can a marriage survive again if it is broken and we are separated? Posted: 31 May 2015 02:21 PM PDT I have been married to my wife for 10 years now. I have loved being with her and still love her. The last year has been a snow ball rolling down hill fast. We decided to separate for 3 months and give ourselves a break and readdress everything then. I am looking at going on a marriage retreat, doing a gottman workshop and doing counseling on a weekly basis. I know we have both done our fair share of hurting each other. Only thing that bothers me is she says she wants everything to work and wants to stay married but i dont notice any actions behind those words. I have never cheated on my wife but i came back from my last deployment and now its effecting me after 10 years in. Im doing what i have to do to help myself but dont want to lose the one i still care so much for. |
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| Question: How to help my wife? Posted: 31 May 2015 01:12 PM PDT So my have and I have been married for 5 years now. In college, my wife struggled a lot with alcohol. Luckily with the help of counciling, she was able to overcome the addiction and start over. We got married and now we have a 1 year old son. Lately, she has been struggling with alcohol again. In April, her and my son and I went to the zoo. She had been acting strange all afternoon, then she suddenly past out. That night we got home and I found a bag of empty beer bottles in the trash. I ask her about it and she says she is sorry and she will never do it again. Then not even a week later I come home and our son is covered in paint and she is very drunk. So the next day I ask her if there is something that is bothering her that she would like to talk about. She says no and insists that she's fine. So I watch her closely and she does good for a few weeks until last week I come home from work to find yet another sac of empty beer bottles in the garage and she is upstairs past out. Now whenever I go to work I have to take my son to my moms house. I really want to help her with this, but she refuses to talk to me and will not see a councilor. What else can I do to make things better? |
| Question: Can my wife collect benefits from our divorce and then get more benefits when I die? Posted: 31 May 2015 12:59 PM PDT |
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| Question: How to help my wife get past her addiction, and is it time for counciling? Posted: 31 May 2015 11:57 AM PDT So my wife and I have been married 3 years now, and we have an 18 month old son. My wifes dad has been an alcoholic all her life and unfortunately, he passed the addiction down to her. She has been able to keep it under control until about 3 months ago, when we took a family trip to the zoo and she suddenly passed out. She hadnt been acting herself all that afternoon. That night when we came home, I just happened to open the trash can when I found a huge sack of empty beer bottles in there. I ask her about it the next day and she says she's sorry and won't do it again. Then a few weeks later, I come home from work and my sons covered in paint. My wife was completely drunk and I take my son and wash him up and put him in bed. Then last week at church, one of our good friends come up to me and tells me how strange Monica was acting the other night at their group and that she's worried about her. So that afternoon I find codeine prescribed to other people in our closet. I become angry and I confront her about it and she cries and promises to never do it again, and I tell her I'm watching her. |
| Question: How may married men and women masturbate? Posted: 31 May 2015 11:54 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband fingered me and I didn't like it? Posted: 31 May 2015 11:27 AM PDT I'm a virgin. It was our first night together as a couple. It was after the wedding and it was so late. He really wanted to have sex the first night but once we were back at the hotel, he looked at me and was like you're tired, aren't you? And I said yes. And he said he was too. By the time we were at the hotel, gotten undressed, it was midnight. So he's like we don't have to do everythinh but do you want to try something? I said okay. We lay on the bed, we do mutual oral sex which was okay but not as good as my friends made it out to be. He fingers me and it doesn't hurt, it's just uncomfortable. He does a second one and again, same feeling. He doesn't have freakishly large fingers or anything. But it felt like they were going in so deep. I had done it myself before but never very deep and never really got into it. Then he tried to go really fast and I didn't like that at all. He assumed I'd done it myself all the time and I said I didn't. He asked how it felt and I said imagine I stuck my finger up your nose. It wouldn't hurt but it wouldn't feel like erotic either, you know? It's kind of like that. I knew sex the first time would hurt but I still thought it would be a pleasebt experience. But now that I did not enjoy myself last night, I don't think I'm going to like when it's his penis at all. He wants to make it special for me but I kind of want him to get it over with, just stick it in, so it will start feeling good in the future. I'm just disappointed. Is this normal? |
| Question: Child Support??? Laws??? Oklahoma? Posted: 31 May 2015 11:20 AM PDT So my sister got impregnated by a psycho, and quickly ended things with him. During her pregnancy, she met a new guy, and he was wonderful to her. He knew that she was pregnant and the whole situation, and he wanted to be with her and take the responsibility of being the father. He had a good career, money, a nice house, she knew she would be better off getting married to him. In the last trimester of her pregnancy, they went to the court house and got married, so when she gave birth, he signed the birth certificate. Its been 4 years now. They recently decided to get a divorce, its not finalized, they are just separated right now. They have no custody arrangements, but my niece still stays every other weekend with him. But he isn't helping my sister at all financially. When they first separated, as soon as she got paid, he cleaned out the bank account, took all her money, so she is in a tight spot. He offered to give her $500, only if she had sex with him, and she wasn't going to. Now he wont give her money at all. So child support would be very helpful right now, But he said he will not pay child support, since its not his blood daughter, he will request a DNA test, and get his name off the birth certificate. Is that even possible? Can he do that to get out of paying child support? |
| Question: Is this a bad thing to do? Posted: 31 May 2015 10:47 AM PDT Is it bad to have sex with your husband every night? Don't men need sex to feel wanted/appreciated? |
| Question: Just tell me why is it so awful? Posted: 31 May 2015 10:39 AM PDT when a 19yrs old guy dates a 13yrs old boy YES I DO IT ,and I say it loudly luv is luv ,and ppl should have some sense of the motherfu¢ker liberation ◣︵◢ |
| Question: Is a divorce the right course of action? Posted: 31 May 2015 09:50 AM PDT Hello Friends, I have been married for 13 years and have 2 wonderful children. However, I think that my marriage has run it's course and it is time for me to end my marriage. I'm looking for advice as to whether or not this is the right move for me. Let me begin by giving a bit more information on my situation and why I am contemplating divorce. I married the love of my life. He is extremely handsome, smart and generous. He is a dutiful father and faithful husband. He will not even look at other women when he is in my presence. He provides everything we need financially and goes above and beyond to make sure we get anything our heart desires. We are never in want for anything. However, when he is upset he becomes violent. He will say things he doesn't mean, he hits me in front of the children and breaks things. This is not new behavior that is just now surfacing, it has been a part of our marriage since we first got married. It hasn't really gotten better, despite me trying to adjust my behavior to better fit his needs. After one of these fights I'm at a low that is extremely hard to get myself out of. I feel worthless, ashamed, defeated, broken, intellectually inferior, and depressed. It affects my relationship with others around me. I project the things he says about me during these fights onto my friends and colleagues. I withdrawal from social situations because I truly feel I am not fit for companionship. Yet, all of these negative feelings go away when he is kind to me. It is cyclical and unhealthy. I realize the message that my children get when they witness these situation is damaging. And while I long to stop the cycle, I can't, because I love him so much, even though I know it's time. |
| Question: Found porn on husbands phone? Posted: 31 May 2015 09:46 AM PDT So last night my husband left his phone at home and I wanted to be nosy. He's going through my phone 24/7, so I wanted to look at his for a change. I found porn sites in his internet history. This is a major problem because I've told him that porn is like cheating in my eyes. He says the only reason he watched it is to please me better because he doesn't feel like he does good enough (but I make it WELL known that he does). I honestly don't believe it, because he lied about the porn for 5 hours and blamed it on his brother, so I've lost my trust since lying is something we DONT do. Any advice on what to do? |
| Question: Baby mama ruined my relationship? Posted: 31 May 2015 09:26 AM PDT Baby mama ruined my relationship? Did his baby mama ruin it for me? I've been dating this guy for 3 months long distance , he's friends with his baby mama in Facebook, they share a son who is a year old . so to make it clear I posted sexy photos of myself on FB , tagging him saying how much I love him. She made a comment saying he loves you too and can't wait to make you his wife. I have three kids and this man is financially stable and has promised to look after me and my kids. Few days ago I commented on his photo saying how sexy he was looking. And he deleted and blocked me from Facebook. What did I do wrong ? He's blocked me from his phone and everywhere , his ex didn't hack him , she's married to someone else and has moved on, but I started an argument with her on FB that she needs to stop posting pictures of the three of then together he's mine now, I also sent his baby mama a friend request and she declined |
| Question: My wife is upset about abortion? Why is she acting like this? Posted: 31 May 2015 09:25 AM PDT My wife and I discussed not having any kids before we were married. So I think I attribute it to a bad condom. It was in my wallet for a long time, looking back I think the latex was kind of worn. She winds up getting pregnant, caught it really early. When she told me, I said "do you want to abort?" And she said yes. I sat down with her then and there, we scheduled the appointment for the following week. I also said that she could have the baby if she wanted or we could do adoption, up to her. She could change her mind. And she said no, no. I want to do this. I was glad she chose this but I would have gone any way. I went to the appointment with her. I held her hand. I asked her if she was okay and she said yes. The whole process was pretty simple. They just gave her pills to take, talked to us about it, gave us some information about afterwards, dealing with the physical and emotional effects. We both took off from work and then we were off for the weekend. I figured that would be good for her, if she could relax afterwards. I feel like I was as supportive as I could be. Now she's been really upset. It almost seems like she's mad at me but she says she's not. I said,"you wanted this right?" And she said yes. So I asked what the problem was and she said she doesn't know. I asked her if she wanted to have a kid. And she said no. So I said then what's wrong? And again she says, "I don't know." Like I told her, if she can't articulate what the problem is, I can't help. |
| Question: Iam married two years ago. but the problem is my vagina. it is small.? Posted: 31 May 2015 09:19 AM PDT Though it is two years iam still a virgin.. Each and every time husband tries put his penis in i couldnt bear the pain. And i think my vagina is small. Its been two years.. My husband still waits for me. He loves me.. Please help me to go through. |
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| Question: I have depression and I m in love with someone.? Posted: 31 May 2015 08:12 AM PDT |
| Question: Does a man or a woman have a scriptual obligation to marry and have children? Posted: 31 May 2015 07:16 AM PDT I want a christian perspective |
| Question: Mom says get marry, but I'm not settled yet.? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:43 AM PDT Need suggestion. Don't know what to do I'm still 26 Yr old nd not yet settled but mom forcing me to get marry. I'm not even not settled anymore but my family is forcing like anything I convinced everyone of my family they were in same pitch of forcing what to do ? |
| Question: Please explain me this answer with the easiest English? Posted: 31 May 2015 06:31 AM PDT I understand that you don't want to lose him. But you would be a fool to put your education aside just for a boyfriend. If your boyfriend really loved you, then he would encourage you to finish your studies no matter how far you had to go. You are only 19. Your education should be your first priority. If your boyfriend does not understand that, then you should not be with him. If your love for each other is that strong then finishing your education should not be a problem if you study abroad. The best advice that I can give you is for you to finish your studies so you can become a doctor. The world needs more people like you. Be proud of whom you want to be. And never let a boyfriend come between your goals |
| Posted: 31 May 2015 06:05 AM PDT It happened to me. Despite his promises not to go out the night before he did anyways and showed up to our small wedding so hung over he was getting sick and begging me to get married another day. I didn t want to get jilted to I demanded he go through with it. He then was so sick he missed out reception. What was the better way of dealing with this situation? I prefer not to use the word retard because it insults others. But I will admit I married an idiot which makes me one just as bad. |
| Question: My husband wants to take our son to Nigeria for a holidayshould I let him go? Posted: 31 May 2015 05:06 AM PDT |
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