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- Question: How can I get head from a man if I'm married?
- Question: Please help?
- Question: Does he like me or hate me?
- Question: Help! I do not know what to think of my husband!?
- Question: Advice for my husband.How can he engage sex w/ me w/o making me feel like I'm being pawed at. NO telling me what's going on, just paws at me?
- Question: Why do tall women hate short men?
- Question: What did my mom say to my crush?
- Question: Whenever she ignores me, I get really depressed? What Should I do?
- Question: Is my anger justified?
- Question: How is it that a rich man can marry a waitress and sleep at night, yet if a rich woman marries a plumber, it is sure to fail?
- Question: How many women would consider having sex with other men to turn on their husband?
- Question: To wait or not to wait?
- Question: What would you do if your husband sexually neglected you after having a baby?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: My husband never got me a wedding ring yet he wants to take his niece out shopping to spend a lot of money on her?
- Question: Women who never marry and never have children? Why does society view you with disdain?
- Question: How can I win my wife's heart back?
- Question: Why is my wife so mean? she always slaps kids around and calls them names , then screams at me when the kids cry. help is she crazy?
- Question: Why wont anyone help me on here?
- Question: Maybe some men out there can help me understand this behavior...?
- Question: Husband doesn't like his wedding band and wants a more expensive one. Have anyone else had this experience? Handle did you two handle it?
- Question: Marital Problems?
- Question: Help I want a man, I have someone in mind.... but I don't want sex.?
- Question: Is my husband controlling?
- Question: What age is too old to find someone and get married?
- Question: Separation agreement question...?
- Question: Girls, why does she do this?
- Question: Indiana parenting time?
- Question: How to deal with FILs?
- Question: Can I use a copy of my tax transcript when filing for divorce in California?
- Question: Do married people still get nervous when they are around each other sometimes?
- Question: Is it time to break up and move on?
- Question: What can i do?
- Question: My ex objected to child support order. Will he win?
- Question: Psychic reading ruined my life, do their predictions always come true?
- Question: Who wants to marry me?
- Question: Should I get divorce? I'm so drained!! Please help?
- Question: Husband giving household jobs to his mom?
- Question: Should I run and find a new boyfriend?
- Question: She seldom follow through on promises?
- Question: More sex. Is it really too much to ask?
- Question: Should I get a divorce? husband mistreating me standing with his family holding out on sex and looking at other women irritated about me?
- Question: I never got to shop for a wedding dress or a prom dress...?
- Question: My husband is sloppy and annoying what do I do?
- Question: Is this odd I love it when men check my wife out?
- Question: How do you get over an intimate partner abusing you?
- Question: Are wives always blindsided when men cheat?
- Question: Should I worry if my wife adds random men on facebook?
- Question: I need a friend please. Someone to talk to and give good avice to me.?
- Question: Is your twenties too young to be in a relationship/marriage?
- Question: What do married people do when they need to fart around each other?
- Question: Reason for life?
- Question: I'm scared to get married.. Advice?
- Question: Need suggestions?
- Question: Will I get second marriage?
- Question: Did I make the right decision?
- Question: Am I legally married if I got married in Las Vegas but I live in MI?
- Question: I want to marry with woman that she live in USA?
- Question: How do I deal with my addict and abusive husband?
- Question: Abusive ex boyfriend help please.?
| Question: How can I get head from a man if I'm married? Posted: 25 May 2015 09:15 PM PDT Long story short, I'm married, and the wife won't give me head anymore due to whatever reason. I'm just looking for a man (gay or bi) to get some head from. Is there a site or line I can call to get some from? |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 09:11 PM PDT I feel terrible please help. To begin, a few years back I was cutting a fruit and my sister-in-law came by and her child was right next to me about 16 months walking and tried to put his hand where I was cutting the fruit, I had told him to go with his mom, but in a way his mother thought I wanted to push her child. Anyways it was a miss understanding but she got furious thinking I didn't wanted him near me and she been telling everyone behind my back that I dont want her child, i mean come on I was avoiding to hurt him. Another thing through this time she has told me im not good enough, im fat, throwing indirect remarks. Until one day she told me my husband was seeing someelse which to me was buttom line. During those years of going through this i always had a mean face beause i was tired of it all and everyone else around us thought i hated her because infront of everyone she somehow tried talking to me nicely so i wasn't sure wether it was fake or real. Until New Year's day we got together as a family and got drunk and somehow she said we were making her like the "bad one in the story" and i said enough and said to her the thing she's done to me and the family over heard and now i feel terrible cause it wasn't the way to resolve things but i was drunk and now no one wants to talk to me and they dont want their children next to me, my sick and tired. Sometimes i want to leave my husband but is not his fault i could never get along with his brother's wife. Was i bad? |
| Question: Does he like me or hate me? Posted: 25 May 2015 09:08 PM PDT One of my husband s friends is giving me a weird vibe. I have no idea how he feels about me, whether he likes me or hates me. He is a great guy whenever I m hanging out with him alone but the moment my husband come around he starts acting like a jerk. For example, we ll be discussing plans and whatnot and I ll remind my husband of something we are doing together and his friend will make jokes about stealing him away from me that day. And when I get mad he just smirks. He does it all the time, its frustrating. I just want to know what he s thinking... Does he really hate me or is there something else going on? |
| Question: Help! I do not know what to think of my husband!? Posted: 25 May 2015 09:05 PM PDT My husband told me the other night that this girl was asking where the bus stop was. He knew the bus stop in that area was far away so he gave her a ride. He told me the girl asked if He was married and He said yes. This girl told him She was not jealous. He said He needed because He did not want to hide anything from me. I don't know why I feel like He did not tell me everythin. Why would a woman feel so comfortable to say that to him? I think He gave her reasons to say that. Do any of You guys would not take the opportunity with a girl who offering herslf to You? I think He did do something but just told me some details so to not feel guilty. Please help! |
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| Question: Why do tall women hate short men? Posted: 25 May 2015 08:22 PM PDT Shouldn't they be thankful that any man shows an interest in them since all tall want the short girls. Tall girls( 5 foot 8 and up) are very masculine in appearance and stature so they should thank their lucky stars even short men show them interest yet they don't. Why? |
| Question: What did my mom say to my crush? Posted: 25 May 2015 08:19 PM PDT My mom is very aggressive and gets angry easily. I was talking to my crush at a wedding and all of sudden my mom called my crush and talked to him. After she talked to him, he left the ceremony and didn't even come back for the wedding. What she said to him? why she's so rude? all her kids got married so does she think if I get married, she'll be alone and lonely and that's she ran him off? It's not my fault that she never get re-married after dad died years ago |
| Question: Whenever she ignores me, I get really depressed? What Should I do? Posted: 25 May 2015 08:19 PM PDT I ve been engaged to my fiancee since April. The one thing we have a problem with is communication. I ve noticed it is not just her but her family that have a habit of ignoring someone by not talking to them when they are enraged with them. This is completely the opposite of how I deal with people. the worst part is that I am always around her. It s as if she wants me to marinate in the depression. One thing that I keep thinking about right now is that she probably will not change. Even after marriage. I feel miserable around her when she does this. What do I do? I know this is all my fault too. I cause it and it stems from a deeper underlying issue... |
| Question: Is my anger justified? Posted: 25 May 2015 08:11 PM PDT I am 20 years old living in a college dorm. My roommate and I were talking about guys we thought were good looking. She told that my 52 year old dad is attractive. At first I just laughed at that, but then she said she has fantasized about having sex with him. I guess it wouldn't bother me so much if my dad were divorced, but he has been married to my mom for 28 years and we have a close family. Anyway I think my roommate was really being disrespectful by telling me this. Am I wrong to be upset? |
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| Question: How many women would consider having sex with other men to turn on their husband? Posted: 25 May 2015 08:02 PM PDT Also known as cuckolding or hotwifing. I would love this with my wife. I'm just curious if any ladies out there would consider this if your man promised to be faithful, but you could be with other lovers, but your heart still belongs to your husband. Could you do it if he loved and adored you? Of course you would have to enjoy the sexual encounters with the other men...otherwise your husband would not feel your happiness. Could you consider it? |
| Question: To wait or not to wait? Posted: 25 May 2015 07:58 PM PDT I've been married for 1.5 years and have not lived with my husband. He lives in another country and what started off to be a story of romance is now my greatest source of depression. My husband of very close to years of service with a full pension. The plan was to get married, apply for his status all while waiting for confirmation of years of service, which included being promoted to the highest level giving the best possible pension plan. Well, as it turned out the papers came through quickly but still no word on the retirement.I am getting discouraged because I don't hear him talk about preparing to come here and our conversations are becoming empty and forced. I had several frank discussions with him about whether or not he has changed his mind, including my observations. He assures me that he has not changed his mind, but I just don't feel he is being truthful. To be fair I am impatient and a little insecure about our arrangement. I just need some perspective, am I way out there, unrealistic, naive or just impatient and insecure - help? |
| Question: What would you do if your husband sexually neglected you after having a baby? Posted: 25 May 2015 07:55 PM PDT guys, I'm frustrated bc my husband has been so sexually distant since i had our son, he doesn't even attempt to kiss me or tell me that he loves me anymore let alone sex. I'm in my 20s and he's a bit older than me. He claims the reason we're not having sex is bc he is tired from work but he doesn't work on winds and we don't have sex during the wknd either. I'm frustrated bc i do enjoy a healthy sex life but i don't understand what his reason is… what would you do with a husband that constantly neglects you sexually over and over? |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 07:47 PM PDT 5 years ago I got involved with a man that lives in another country. And to make a long story short we got married. We are both older, previously married with children. 2 years ago we got married, and the plan was to apply for residential status while we completed the amount of years he need to retire with a full pension. To our surprise his papers came through very quickly. The tough part is that he has not received full clearance on his end for retirement with the full pension he expects. Each day goes by I do not hear him talk about preparing to come to my country. I hear him talk about work,and he sounds like he s having a great time. He talks about taking care of his home, but not in the context that its with intention to leave. I have asked him several times if he still wants to come here and he says yes, but I just don t feel like it s going to happen. I feel like my life is on hold and I am beginning to get a bit depressed in spite of my man efforts to keep busy on my end. I am wondering if I made a mistake, if I was taken for a fool. In the end I love him and I want him to be happy, even if i means staying. I just don t know what to do any more, am I being foolish? |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 07:43 PM PDT guys, my husband and i married a year ago in a courthouse bc he at the time was not working so we didn't have the money for a wedding or a ring; love was enough to marry him. we said that we'd plan our wedding another time and stuff. We now have our 2 month old son. The problem is, he has a really good job now, he makes 7k per month…with a new baby and new place, he's been paying a lot; and having no ring has been no issue but he flew his 16year old niece from another state to stay with us for a month, and now he will be akin her shopping with his next check which he won't tell me how much he'll spend on her but he plans to spend a lot. He doesn't even think about having a wedding anymore nor buying me the ring. I feel like he feels responsible for everyone in his family and always trying to take care of them when he already has me and his son. what do you think should happen? |
| Question: Women who never marry and never have children? Why does society view you with disdain? Posted: 25 May 2015 07:35 PM PDT Nowadays many women are choosing to remain single and not have children. Sometimes they have a job that fulfills them, sometimes they would have liked children but never met a man they thought would be suitable to have them with. Other times, they make a responsible decision for economic reasons or they consider they may lack what it takes to be a good parent. Regardless of the motives, why is it that I still hear comments about single non-mothers over 40 such as 'What's her problem? How come she never married?' 'I feel sorry for her. She looks good and she's nice. Must have had bad luck!' 'She must be selfish if she doesn't want children'. Why can't these people just feel sorry for those who married, had children and now regret it? Let's face it, with the divorce rates the way they are, there are lots of them around. |
| Question: How can I win my wife's heart back? Posted: 25 May 2015 07:35 PM PDT My wife and I have only been married for 10 months and she wants a divorce because she has fallen out of love with me. She has been having a hard time finding a job since we've been married and so she has always been stuck inside the house and forced to live as a housewife, which she absolutely hates. I am in the military and so she had to move very far away from her family and friends so she has no one out here to communicate/spend time with except me. And she believes this has caused her to become extremely irritated by me. I can also be somewhat clingy in that I don't mind spending all five hours of my day by her side. She has admitted that she no longer loves me and wants to separate/get a divorce. She thinks that some distance might make her "miss me" so I am currently staying at a friends and only stopping by to grab food and see the dogs. I really want to save my marriage but I fear that she will not "miss me" and just be totally done with me. She found a job and so that will help her get out of the house more and she's taking medication to help with her depression. I just don't know what I can do to win her heart back. She can't move out yet because she doesn't have enough money saved up so I don't know how I'm going to give her space because I can't stay at friends' houses forever. I'm completely devastated. We are seeing a marriage counselor but I don't know what good that's going to do if she is completely tired of being around me. Is there any hope? |
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| Question: Why wont anyone help me on here? Posted: 25 May 2015 07:27 PM PDT |
| Question: Maybe some men out there can help me understand this behavior...? Posted: 25 May 2015 07:16 PM PDT One of my exes have been attempting to come back around (its been 2 years since the split). He was the one that called it off, but I wasn't angry because he got deployed and all.Anyway, I tried to do things right with him, but it didn't work. My question is why do ex boyfriends try to come around when they know they did you wrong? It's not to get even with me or anything, because I've never done anything to the guy. I'm starting to think that this guy just wants to hurt me just because. Is this normal guy behavior? I tried being friends or just nice but he ignores me so I stopped talking to him. H e said I was fake because I was too nice or something. Maybe I should be mad at how he did me, but I've dated other people since and I just learned that all guys aren't going to be good ones. I told him I cared about him still, but it's like he wants more than that. He walked away twice, and I can't put myself out there again for him to leave like before. |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 06:53 PM PDT Husband has a 14k white gold comfort fit band now. Been married a year. But it's not what he originally wanted. His ring cost between $700-$800. The ring he wanted, a designer band, cost between $2,000-2,500 with tax. Would any of you be hurt if your husband wanted a new band? Or said that he liked his current band and what it means, but he regrets not getting and speaking up about the other band? |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 06:46 PM PDT I am looking for some marital advice and although only I can make the decision to stay with my husband or not, I would like to share my store and get some outsiders advice because I feel like I know what the right decision is but cant seem to except it. |
| Question: Help I want a man, I have someone in mind.... but I don't want sex.? Posted: 25 May 2015 06:18 PM PDT Every time I think of having sex with him I think its weird and funny. I use to have sex all the time when I would date a man. Now I find it weird and funny. Just thinking the man on top of me humping me makes me laugh and I don't want to do it.... WHY? lol Charles. |
| Question: Is my husband controlling? Posted: 25 May 2015 05:57 PM PDT I am a stay at home mom. Before my husband and I met I was as independent as a woman can be. I worked and earned more than I needed. Now that we are married I stay home and take care of the kids. When we first married my husband put me on his bank account. He recently started his own business and now he has a separate business account and he has been making thousands a month. I don't ever see it. He never even tells me how much he has in his account. Whenever we get into an argument he transfers any money we ha've in our joint account directly into his business account. ALL OF IT!!! It sucks a lot!! Makes me feel bad |
| Question: What age is too old to find someone and get married? Posted: 25 May 2015 05:49 PM PDT I feel very sad because I feel like it's impossible for me to ever find someone. I'd like to have a boyfriend or a husband but I feel like it's deluded for me to hold out hope because I'm 34. If a man in marriage minded and serious about finding a wife, why would he still be single at my age? And why would any guy want a 34 year old woman when there are millions of 20 year olds? I don't see how things can ever work out for me. If a man is desirable and really wants to get married, then why would he be available for me now? The desirable men are all snatched up already and I feel like there's no future for me. |
| Question: Separation agreement question...? Posted: 25 May 2015 05:48 PM PDT i got a separation agreement in new York and i moved to California is it still going to work? Please i really need to know |
| Question: Girls, why does she do this? Posted: 25 May 2015 05:14 PM PDT Very nice social friend of my wife's acts strangely towards me. When I first see her at social gatherings at my house or hers she won't say honor awknowledge me. She will my wife but pretend not to see me. She will talk to me later on during the event but ignore me at first. Then when I say goodbye it's much of the same. What's up with this? I don't get it. Last time we were at her house she did this. I left beer in their fridge and she texts my wife a picture of her and her husband partying drinking the beer with a caption to me that says "thanks David for the beer we love it!" |
| Question: Indiana parenting time? Posted: 25 May 2015 05:09 PM PDT If the non custodial parent has visitation and is required to give his address doesn't report his address to the custodial parent. If the last known address is an a boarded up house and the non custodial parent refuses to tell mom where he lives is it ok to withhold parenting time? the custodial parent has filed a motion to restrict and supervise visits because his failure to maintain a stable environment. Non custodial parent hasn't been apart of his kids life in yrs and is now trying to enforce parenting time. |
| Question: How to deal with FILs? Posted: 25 May 2015 05:08 PM PDT My FIL is very demanding. He comes from a strong mexican background. He was a hard working man. Now he doesn't work and just watches tv all day. He gets his income from his son who pays for everything from mortgage to the cable they have. My husband helps out when he can. Even myself have helped out with electricity and other bills they needed. Nothing I do is ever good enough. We invite my inlaws over and he will walk in and start criticism almost promptly. As he hates our dogs being inside (we live in az). He tells me how his wife my MIL would always cook and doesn't waste time at school (I go to school three days a week, I'm 7 months pregnant and our 2 year old goes to a daycare I went to as a child with my family working there, she's never been to school only stayed mom). He tells me how I'm messing up our child by not being here at home and how my husband should've chosen someone more like his mom (this last comment I over heard while using the restroom) my husband tells me just to let it go since they're 60 and we are 23 yrs old and to just agree with him. I try but the little smart remarks get to me and idk what to do. I cried one time after he had told me I was too fat 3 weeks after giving birth to our child. He makes fun of me because I'm Native American and their whole family is mexican. I'm also not allowed to show my tattoos so I'm forced to wear tshirts everytime I see them since they don't like tattoos at all. Any suggestions on what to do? |
| Question: Can I use a copy of my tax transcript when filing for divorce in California? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:46 PM PDT I am getting divorced and on the paperwork it states must have a copy of two years of tax returns. I want to know if I can use a tax transcript instead since those are free, because the tax return will cost me 50 dollars each to get the copies. I would normally go through turbo tax but my wife did the taxes and refuses to give me the password or information. |
| Question: Do married people still get nervous when they are around each other sometimes? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:43 PM PDT If so,what circumstances cause them to have nervousness? |
| Question: Is it time to break up and move on? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:43 PM PDT i can't stand his family because they hate me and they still like the ex-gf. We don't agree on certain things. He wants to get an RV and I want to go on all inclusive tropical destination vacations. I want to get engaged soon and he thinks I'm not grown up enough to be engaged because I don't know what I want in life. We've been together 2 years. **** or get off the pot. I don't know what to do. I love him but I feel discouraged and think maybe I should find someone else. I don't see this relationship going anywhere. Please help. What should I do? He does love me. We have a lot of goods times together but I just don't have a good feeling that he'll ever commit. He has been married before. Married her after 2 months of dating and got divorced 2 years later. The previous gf (the one his family still likes) before me gave him an ultimatum after dating for 2.8 years (get married and have kids or we are done). |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 04:31 PM PDT we've been together for over four years and have two young children. we were best friends for two years prior to being in a relationship. we were good together. while we did have small fights we never had any major issues. we never abused each other or cheated. but recently he started acting real depressed. and admitted to having suicidal thoughts. he moved in with his mom and we got him into therapy. things were going better. while we weren't officially back together he was coming around to visit our kids and to see me. we went on dates without the kids. then all of the sudden he stopped talking to me altogether and doesn't even visit our kids. he still helps financially but that is it. I dont understand what made him change. he admitted he started smoking weed. after first he was telling me not to give up on him, that hes trying but now hes telling me to give up, move on and that he doesnt love me. this was a complete out of the blue change! and i think it has alot to do with the guys he works with. he moved out of his moms, while he says he is still going to therapy he is smoking weed and partying nearly every night. ive tried talking to him, ive tried leaving him alone. im hurt for my kids, im hurt for myself and im hurt for him. I dont know how to help him. yes i want to be with him. but even if we can never be again, i want him to be a good father. he was amazing up until now. and i want him to be himself again. im so hurt.its been two months now. |
| Question: My ex objected to child support order. Will he win? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:30 PM PDT My ex and I share physical custody of our 4 kids. He was orderd to pay me support in the amount of 420 per month. (That is only half of what it would have been i had kids full time). He feels he shouldn't have to pay me a dime since he has them 50 percent of the time however i make $9 per hour as appose to his $21 per hour. I was always a stay at home mom while we were together. I work full time amd still struggle to get by. He originally agreed between us to pay me 400 because it was more fair since we shared (his words!)...completely understandable im not trying make him broke I just need a little bit of help! He's been fixing up his house and going on roadtrips where its hard enough for me to afford socks and shoes for the kids. Not really my business i know but it baffles me how he is having an issue paying me 100 per week! Im no where near a greedy person. We now have to go back to court because he objected the support order of 400 even though he was agreeable to it before the courts were even involved! Now he's changed his mind. This is the second time my support order has been stopped. Anyone ever been through somthing simular. Im worried they will agree in his favor. |
| Question: Psychic reading ruined my life, do their predictions always come true? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:23 PM PDT Basically, my husband and I aren't on the best of terms and he told me the other day that he may be in love with another woman but respects our marriage, however he contacts this woman daily. I was desperate and wanted answers, so I seeked a tarot card reader. All she told me was bad news. My husband will leave me for this woman. I will fall pregnant by my husband and he'll want nothing to do with the child and I'll possibly have a misscarriage or abortion. She also told me by mid-summer I'll be forced to leave becusse it'll be strange. This reading has ruined me. I can't stop thinking that everyday my worst fate will eventually come true. I'll have to live with the loss of a child and a spouse and move out of my marital home. As of today, my husband and I seem to be working on our differences. He told me a few nights back that he wants to work on this marriage, but he can't guarantee anything. All I could think about was what this psychic told me about all of these negative things that are about to happen. She also told me that I'd spend some time being alone and single. I cry myself to sleep everynight. Like I'll just end up alone anyway. Are psychic predictions always true? |
| Question: Who wants to marry me? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:15 PM PDT I love my mother, but she can be overbearing. I'm not married and whenever I talk to her she brings up the subject of marriage. As I was talking to her one day she brought it up again, I panicked and told her the reason I didn't want to go on a blind date was because I was ... already married. I told her that I didn't tell her is because she's the person that always wants to put her nose in every crack of a persons life. She does do that , but. I told her I didn't want her to barge in and being the person she is, control every aspect of my marriage, home, and lifestyle. I was right when I told her I was married she made a list of things she apparently needs to fix in my life. She's now wants to meet my " husband", and wants to know when I'm having children. I need someone to pretend to be my partner for 1 week. Ill handle everything. I just need someone to come with me and stay with me and my parents for a week this summer. It would mean the world to me. |
| Question: Should I get divorce? I'm so drained!! Please help? Posted: 25 May 2015 04:01 PM PDT I got married 10 years ago had three beautiful children. Since I had my first baby I had an agreement with my husband to stay home and take care of my daughter. A baby after a baby.....every time I thought about returning to my career we had big argument about my kids and taking care of them. I gave up my career and stayed home. Don't get me wrong I love my kids more than anything in the world, They are everything to me. My husband was always good financial provider but when it comes to the kids hell never get involve. I lost my value in these long years and I was drained to my maximum. He got more controlling and disrespectful over the time....after 7 years I decided to go back to online school and now am done with my degree...again the kids issue popped up! Who will drop them and pick them ....using daycare after school for my 3 kids will take more than half my salary since I don't have that experience....big argument again... The thing is am not happy...and am so afraid I feel so weak. On the other hand am sick of it....he disrespect me every once awhile calling me stupid and worthless. He told me last night that he is (keeping me) for the kids. My life is a circle of this few weeks lovely and quite other few weeks so much of verbal abuse that I cant take any more... I'm so confused, lost and I disparately need an advice or a little light which direction to go.... |
| Question: Husband giving household jobs to his mom? Posted: 25 May 2015 03:26 PM PDT I've been giving my husband jobs around the house. Hang a shelf. Clean bugs out of light fixtures. Paint the deck.. When my Mother in law comes over, she offers to do all these jobs for him so he doesn't have to do what his mean ol wife asks (me) I let her, but don't want her to anymore, I want my husband to have some responsibility around the house. He's always with his friends and never helps with the kids. He'll come home right at dinner time and then leave when I go up to do the kid's bedtime routine. They don't see the issue because the job is getting completed in the end, and isn't that what I wanted? Well, sure I guess... but I wanted my husband to do it What do you think? |
| Question: Should I run and find a new boyfriend? Posted: 25 May 2015 03:14 PM PDT i can't stand his family because they hate me and they still like the ex-gf. We don't agree on certain things. He wants to get an RV and I want to go on all inclusive tropical destination vacations. I want to get engaged soon and he thinks I'm not grown up enough to be engaged because I don't know what I want in life. We've been together 2 years. **** or get off the pot. I don't know what to do. I love him but I feel discouraged and think maybe I should find someone else. I don't see this relationship going anywhere. Please help. What should I do? He does love me. We have a lot of goods times together but I just don't have a good feeling that he'll ever commit. He has been married before. Married her after 2 months of dating and got divorced 2 years later. The previous gf (the one his family still likes) before me gave him an ultimatum after dating for 2.8 years (get married and have kids or we are done). |
| Question: She seldom follow through on promises? Posted: 25 May 2015 03:11 PM PDT When your wife says the night before that there will be fun in our bedroom the next night, and then promptly falls asleep soon after we start, I must admit it bothers me greatly. She said this morning she was too tired, etc., but, come one, she can't tough it out? I hate it when the promises of bedroom fun seldom pan out. Any suggestions? (Yes, we see a counselor who suggested she place a penny on the nightstand the mornings of days when she will be "a sure thing." There was a penny there Sunday a.m., so you understand my frustration. |
| Question: More sex. Is it really too much to ask? Posted: 25 May 2015 03:09 PM PDT Okay, I was on the birth control pill for years. I finally stopped using it since my husband got a vasectomy (hooray!) and now, my sex drive has increased tenfold. His has remained the same and to my surprise, he's actually denying me when I try to get physical with him. Take last night for example, we had an amazing day together and come bedtime, I was raring to go. But my husband said he wasn't in the mood since we had had sex Friday and Saturday, already. I'm just confused, who knew a man would say NO to sex?! Wdyt? I'm 35, he's 39 |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 03:07 PM PDT Me and my husband knew each other since October 2013 we were friends for like two weeks then became boyfriend and girlfriend and he became jealous because I had a guy friend so he became friends with a female coworker and was secretly running errands with her so I was hurt and he can to me and told me he loved me and I told him he didn't and he came back and admitted he didn't so I became hurt again from my past engagement so I opened myself up to my friend and I cheated on him two days later I broke up with him and had oral sex with ex feeling horrible and very vulnerable so he was hurt by that and contacted his ex highschool sweetheart to be with her. He Told me I wasn't **** and etc And comparing me to her two weeks later he told me she was getting married when he contacted her and her proposed to me. And it didn't seem real then we found out I was pregnant by my husband when he proposed to me I said yes ever since then he was rude and mean to me and I became bitter. He would stand with his family and strangers but not with me or for me so we decided to go through marriage counseling and in the mist of that I got him a job in mesquite where he was flirting with a female coworker because he was mad about me getting in the car with my ex in front of him because he confessed he had sex with his ex supposedly the first day he met me we fight EVERYDAY there is no sex We both have hit each other before it's like we are enemies it feels like he is in front of me but not emotion |
| Question: I never got to shop for a wedding dress or a prom dress...? Posted: 25 May 2015 02:49 PM PDT I went to prom, in a borrowed, hideous dress and it was with my best friend who was also a girl. I never received a romantic proposal from my now husband, and the wedding turned out to be a 5 minute talk in a courthouse with no rings, no dress, nobody but us, he didn't even look at me once, and for some reason we never even received the marriage license in the mail to prove it. All of this makes me want to just jump off of a bridge. Can anyone else relate? Don't bother commenting if you have something rude to say. |
| Question: My husband is sloppy and annoying what do I do? Posted: 25 May 2015 02:45 PM PDT I'm 26 and married to my husband who is 29. We have 4 young kids the youngest one is soon 1. I'm stay at home mom for the moment and my husband works long hours. He annoys me all the time and leaves the cupboards open and leaves the milk out. He gives the kids candy too often even if I tell him not to and he makes annoying jokes. I'm very tired with 4 kids having to take care of the house cook and everything I never have time for myself. When the kids sleep I have to spend time with my husband and listen to his boring nonsense. He's so full of himself. He just talks about how stressed he is about everything and never thinks about me. I tell him to put the milk away and be more organized but he still does it. I'm pregnant with my 5th child and I'm stressed about that. He just takes everything lightly and says it will be fine. The other day we went out with the kids and he spilled food on his shirt and laughed about it, he never does anything right and just laughs about things. He's not serious at all, what do I do |
| Question: Is this odd I love it when men check my wife out? Posted: 25 May 2015 02:27 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you get over an intimate partner abusing you? Posted: 25 May 2015 02:02 PM PDT I was with a guy that was verbally, mentally, physically and emotionally abusive. He turned out to be a liar and a cheater. I'm having a hard time moving forward but I'm trying. Does it ever get easier? Why would he do something like that? He appears doing well in his life right now and engaged to be married but did I make him like that? Does he change with her? to the person who answered my question with the rude comment you are either an abuser themselves or one of the many people that are easily deceived by an abuser. Either way who are you to come on here and give such a rude comment? |
| Question: Are wives always blindsided when men cheat? Posted: 25 May 2015 01:59 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I worry if my wife adds random men on facebook? Posted: 25 May 2015 01:58 PM PDT I been noticing my wife been adding very attractive men on her facebook. I trust her but I wonder if this is something to be concerned about? |
| Question: I need a friend please. Someone to talk to and give good avice to me.? Posted: 25 May 2015 01:55 PM PDT Hi I'm 28, married with two children. I am having problems in my marriage and am being verbally abused and feel like I may be being mistreated. He tells me it's all my fault and I don't believe so. I would like someone to talk to and maybe exchange emails with or something. Someone who can be there for me and give me advice because I need it so bad. I don't have anyone else to turn to. I would like to maybe exchange emails and get to talk to each other on a more intimate level. Thank you |
| Question: Is your twenties too young to be in a relationship/marriage? Posted: 25 May 2015 01:45 PM PDT I am in my twenties and feel as though I don't even want to be in a relationship as I do 't feel mentallt ready. Yet I have friends in deep, long-lasting relationships. Teo of them even recently got engaged. Thoughts? |
| Question: What do married people do when they need to fart around each other? Posted: 25 May 2015 01:39 PM PDT Do they hold it in or let it rip, even though it smells? |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 01:27 PM PDT I wonder and always ask my self what is the reason of my living / purpose of my life study getting married work home work but I dont know why I came to this earth what for??? any idea please suggest Thank you!!! |
| Question: I'm scared to get married.. Advice? Posted: 25 May 2015 01:19 PM PDT We've been together 2.5 years. I'm 20. The wedding is in 7 months. Everything is paid for and our families have gone through hell to pay for it. I'm very scared and have been a few months. I don't know what to do and I'm scared to tell anyone. I just dont want to hurt anyone. I know my happiness comes first but I'm letting it go long and longer. Help. |
| Posted: 25 May 2015 01:18 PM PDT dont know whats wrong, I am married and have 1 kid, but I feel lonely most of the time. what should I do? |
| Question: Will I get second marriage? Posted: 25 May 2015 12:44 PM PDT I'm divorced and not dating, I want to know if there is any chance of second marriage in my life. Please only astrologists answer my question. My date of birth is Nov 5 1985 thanks. |
| Question: Did I make the right decision? Posted: 25 May 2015 12:41 PM PDT When I met this guy he chased me for months before we went on a date. We talked every day, but I just didn't want a BF and he wanted a GF. He even tried to get me to be his FWB or booty call and that is a huge NO for me, so he has known from the start that's not an option. He was always cocky about women and saying he knows I'll want to be with him and get attached. When we finally hung out it was great, he was gentleman and paid for dates, opened doors, was respectful, and I met his family. We acted like a couple so he said he assumed we were together and I agreed because I really enjoyed my time with him. But after we had sex everything fell slowly fell apart. The sex was disconnected and selfish on his part, he hardly touched me, would go MIA for days, would make plans and never follow through leaving me to waste my night waiting on him. I tried to talk to him about it and he said I was trippin or just blow it off. So I broke up with, saying we could stay friends. He said friends would be good since he couldn't give me what I wanted, but wouldn't explain what that meant. He said he expects sex every time we hang out, even if I date someone else. But all along claiming he's not using me for sex and he wanted to be with me! I told him forget it I want nothing and I'm not talking to him, even though he's tried to contact me. I did really like him but if he thinks I'm going to put up with disrespect, I'm not. I'm a good woman, someone to settle down with, I accepted his daughter and was good with her. I know he didn't expect me to walk away, will he change his behavior and come back? |
| Question: Am I legally married if I got married in Las Vegas but I live in MI? Posted: 25 May 2015 12:34 PM PDT Me and my husband got married in Las Vegas about a month ago. We live in Michigan. We applied for our marriage license there and it was signed by the rev who married us and two witnesses. We have yet to get our marriage certificate in the mail that I ordered over 2 weeks ago. |
| Question: I want to marry with woman that she live in USA? Posted: 25 May 2015 12:28 PM PDT i want marry with woman that she lives in USA and she is citizen of USA and she wants to marry me too and we love each other so much so can i move to USA to marry her and live for ever there with my becoming wife ? and how can i do ? |
| Question: How do I deal with my addict and abusive husband? Posted: 25 May 2015 12:03 PM PDT I am filing for separate maintenance and can not live this way anymore. We have 5 children who are all struggling indifferent ways. Our oldest son is home from college and is also being verbally and emotionally abusive. My husband keeps berating me and my family in front of the children. I have found marihuana, fake marijuana and hidden beer and Vodka bottles on and off for almost 21 years. He believes it is a marital problem, which of course it has become part of the problem, BUT he has major addiction problems and rage issues that were there even before we married almost 21 years ago.... How do I deal with my 19 year old son who is now being so disrespectful and Placing the blame of that on me.... So hurt... |
| Question: Abusive ex boyfriend help please.? Posted: 25 May 2015 11:20 AM PDT 8 years ago I was abused by my ex boyfriend. I was also pregnant at the time. He nearly beat me to death, tried to stab me with a knife. He got a year of probation ( which is such bs!) but he violated it and was deported to Mexico. To this day it bothers me so much. I've tried getting over it but is so hard. Especially since I have a daughter with him. I remember every detail of that day. My husband just told me I need to just get over it already! Like how can he just tell me that! That was such a traumatic experience! Anybody have any advise on past abusive relationships? How did you over come it? |
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