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- Question: What to get my brothers?
- Question: Why is my mom like this!?
- Question: Had a one night stand and got caught by my parents?
- Question: Using my middle name as my last?
- Question: How should I act with my brother in law when we have to be around each other after what he did?
- Question: Do you find my parents normal?
- Question: I destroyed my Daughters necklace what her Mum gave her?
- Question: Grandparents want to be involved?
- Question: Suggestions please?
- Question: I'm pretty upset with my best friend right now. What is the most diplomatic way to deal with this?
- Question: Sext me girls?
- Question: Did I do anything wrong?
- Question: My parents have given me one see to move out, and I've nowhere to go. What should I do?
- Question: Why do my parents appreciate my brother more?
- Question: SHS RESULTS!!?
- Question: SIBLING TROUBLE?
- Question: I need advice: Is this considered abusive?
- Question: My mother keeps will not drop the subject?
- Question: Would gypsies ever marry a non gypsy in the 1890s?
- Question: I'm really mad at my best friend right now and I need advice on how to handle this.?
- Question: He's meeting my parents and I'm somewhat worried?
- Question: He's meeting my parents and I'm somewhat worried?
- Question: My parents will not let me spend my own money?
- Question: Is this unfair?
- Question: How can I tell my parents about my plans? I am very worried about their reaction!!?
- Question: My moms forcing me to wear scarfs?
- Question: Love baseball, hate football. How about you?
- Question: Is my mom bipolar ?
- Question: Why gringos throw their children out of their homes when they turn 18?
- Question: Should i go or stay?
- Question: My girlfriend ALWAYS puts her family before me & her family hates me?
- Question: 16 year old paying full rent while parents sleep in and dont have a job?
- Question: What's a good comeback line to a sibling who is trying to get under your skin?
- Question: My dad gave me the belt?
- Question: I'm tired?
- Question: Is this due to family envy or competition?
- Question: Is it fair to say Josh Duggar thought that it was OK to sexually molest his sisters bc he watched his father do it?
- Question: My anxiety is really getting the best of me? I worry a lot about my relationship?
- Question: I get mad easily and my mom doesn't get that?
- Question: The more educated I get the more I can't trust my parents?
- Question: How can I turn back time to the year 2004?
- Question: What shall I do? My 12 years son falls in love with his classmate?
- Question: Mom thinks I'm fat lesbian?
- Question: Where can I find out where my brother was buried?
- Question: I LOATHE my sisters boyfriend?
- Question: How do I convince my mom....?
- Question: For parents who have raised sons: What were the ages that they started helping and becoming responsible?
- Question: Sister being risky on Facebook?
- Question: Mother treats me like crap?
- Question: What age should a child get a laptop when he already has other electronics?
- Question: My mother is becoming lazy and unscholarly?
- Question: How does 'acting in a persons best interests' create conflict in health situations?
- Question: I ******* hate my dad!?
- Question: Help my mom is bossing me around!!!?
- Question: :( how should i tell my mom?
- Question: Are Stay At Home Moms Proud Of Themselves For Making Excuses Not To Actually Work?
- Question: Verbal abusive dad?? Please help!?
- Question: I Have No Idea What I'm Doing With My Life?
- Question: Why do my parents treat me this way?
- Question: Am i ungrateful or s it considered quality family time when partner spends a night out on phone about work ...shopping 4 work supplies?
| Question: What to get my brothers? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:59 PM PDT My little brother is 9, and always looks up to my 13 year old brother. Although my older brother doesn't always understand it. He thinks my little brother is annoying, and I want to fix that. I want them to do something together, and I don't have any money, so please some answers that I can get at home. I want them to be separate, but something that they will enjoy. My little brother loves Need For Speed, and going into the woods behind our house. And my older brother, loves going on Black ops and such, and going on his phone and texting his friends. I really want to fix this!!! Please help!!! |
| Question: Why is my mom like this!? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:56 PM PDT Ever since a few years ago my mom has just changed comepletley like she will yell at anyone just for the helll of it , She ask us to do everything ( family) and we do it if its not right we are screamed at and put down then if you say something she doesn't like she insults you in every way possible she used to be a mom now shes not shes already chose a man over her kids and my dad I dont get her anymore I dont get why she is so mean to me im always the one targeted by her why? I never asked to be born I never asked for any of this |
| Question: Had a one night stand and got caught by my parents? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:55 PM PDT okay so first i am 16 and both of my parents have jobs that usually cause them to have to be out of town for several days. they do not know that people pay me to have sex with them. i charge extra for them to have sex with me in my parents' house just because there's always a risk of them showing up anytime really and that's what happened last night :( i was paid $250 by three men who wanted to share me so they came over and we all had sex in my parents' bed. one man was in my vagina and the second was up my poochie and the third was making me suck his manhood. it was honestly so amazing i love sex and love to do it all the time especially since my stupid parents cant stop me. i ended up getting caught with all 3 men in her bed when my mom came home from out of town! she was very angry and called the cops and beat me and i'm here in my room crying. god i just want my mom to fu*ckin accept that this is who i am and if she doesn't like it she can get out of this hand which is basically mine seeing as she's never here. please help what should i do? sorry i said hand i meant *house |
| Question: Using my middle name as my last? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:52 PM PDT Okay so I'm going to a new school and my mom and me where thinking when we register myself to use my middle name as last. We will put a side note that I want to be called by my middle name instead of the last name. I really hate my last name. I'm not a resident of the U.S but I live here so will it be okay (I'm from Taiwan) how could they tell it wasn't my real last name |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 12:51 PM PDT I was talking to my niece (9yo) and nephew (7yo) and they needed advice on a situation for school and as i started to give advice my nephew shouts out "DADDY SAID NOT TO TAKE ADVICE FROM YOU!" and asked their mother (my sister,) "Did i just hear what I think I heard?" then my sister told them to explain what he meant by that. And when my niece explained it my sister, their mom, found out that he had said a lot of things to them about me that she didn't know. While she was away, on a business trip he said "don't listen to Auntie's advice, do you want to end up like her? She's doing nothing with her life. She chased her boyfriend in college and got no work done. thats why she doesn't have a job, and lives at home with her parents." My nephew confirmed, "yep, i was there i heard him" My info I am 26 in medical school, i have a year and a half left. I am living at home until i take my licensing exam then moving to the town i have to do rotations in. I think he did this because he has a history of yelling at the kids and hitting and I confronted him once about it expressing my concern for the kids. Since then I feel like he has been trying to tear me down in secretive ways. I love the kids, they love me, and I love my sister. I don't think she will do anything about his behavior and she feels she has to take his side. So in the future how do I act with him? Do I ignore him? Say hi and bye? My biggest fear is that the kids will believe him :/ |
| Question: Do you find my parents normal? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:51 PM PDT Am a 17 years old female. My parents don't allow me to date, they don't want me to go to night parties, they don't want me to stay outside at 8 o"clock (i have to be in the house at 6pm!) Do you find my parents attitude normal? Whenever i watched others girls parents, i envy them because i wish mines were cool as them. My parents are kinda ruinning my teen life. Since i hit 13, i've never in my life been to a night party, i've never sleepover at a friend house. |
| Question: I destroyed my Daughters necklace what her Mum gave her? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:46 PM PDT I have been looking after my daughter for the past 2months, Her Mum is in a mental health unit she is mentally ill and trying to get better, However I despise her she's selfish lazy and greedy. She is constantly pretending to be depressed and cutting herself, I'm sorry but I have problems but you don't see me cutting crying for attention. My daughter has been missing her Mum alot, And been crying almost everyday . I won custody of her, And as far as I'm concerned she is never seeing her Mum again. I told her (My Gf soon to be wife) Is her New Mum, But she hates her I noticed she is always wearing a necklace, I asked her where did she get it and she said that her Mum gave her it and She said (Her Mum) will always love her no matter where she is and she promises she will get her back. I mean why is she promising a child that? She will never get her back she isn;t fit, I will not be putting her in danger, She doesn't deserve to see her Mum doing all that stuff to herself. She might end up like her, I'm not having a daughter who cuts herself for attention no way!! So I took her necklace and threw it away, And now she won't speak to me, I did her a favor? Her Mum is a liability and doesn't deserve to be called a Mum. I also want my GF to adpot her, But not sure if I would need her Birth Mums signature? I have full custody of her so I'm thinking I wouldn't How can I get my Daughter to speak to me? How can I make her see her Mum is no good for her and she is better off? She's 7 |
| Question: Grandparents want to be involved? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:39 PM PDT My son's grandparents from his father side want to be part of his life. They have always bought him things for him since he was born and his father never did. Lately I don't want nothing to with that family because his "dad" refuses to be part of my son's life and he ignores my calls etc. He promise my son he was coming to see him buy never did so my son just waited. That broke my heart. His grandparents want to spend time with him and take him to.their house once in a while but I don't think it's a good idea because my son's father still lives with them. I feel horrible but that man wants nothing to do with my son so how can I let him leave. |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 12:37 PM PDT I'm a 19 yr old guy. I live with my parents. They are very strict and particular about everything. They force me to get a very short haircut every month and shave my face everyday. I want to grow a moustache and have a bit longer hair but I'm forced to get a crewcut and be clean shaven. Moving out is not an option for me because I'm financially dependent on them. They pay for my studies which costs a lot. What should I do? |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 12:37 PM PDT She is a terrific amazing person. She is always there when I need her. She helped me get passed this bad relationship I had and so fun to be around. When I need someone to talk to she is there. A few weeks ago this guy she was seeing broke up with her through email. She said she didn't like to be alone and within a few days started going out with another guy. Her and I were supposed to go to an event this Saturday but because she already met someone she decided not to go...but it was a singles thing and because she couldn't go...I couldn't go either and I feel like she just left me out in the cold. How do I talk to her...she is really a good and sweet friend but sometimes she is really selfish. Thanks! I can be really mean to her or I can talk to her in a diplomatic way. How should I do that. She is not a good communicator and she also knows this. Thanks!! We've been friends for almost seven years. At one of my birthdays, she was the first one at the restaurant waiting for me : ) We live an hour away and she still comes to visit out here or we meet half way. |
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| Question: Did I do anything wrong? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:16 PM PDT I am a 13 year old girl.When I was five years old I was molested. It lasted for around 5 years before I ever saw my molester again. But this isn't about me, I don't remember what exactly happened because this happened so long ago but I believe that my cousins who I've had been close friends with came over one day. Sometime during our play date I remember that we went upstairs to take a "nap" and one of my cousins and I were sleeping next to each other and we ended up kissing but Im afraid that I may have touched her. While we were kissing, my step brother came in and pulled us both downstairs were my brother and the other cousin were sitting down and my molester humiliated me by calling me a whore and I just remember wanting to curl up into a ball and cry. My cousin and I kissed on one other occasion. She is around one year older than me, but from that day on I was scared that I was just as bad as my molester. Since the guilt was eating me alive, Recently, I contacted her about if she remembered the incident and if I hurt her/forced her to do anything but all she said was that she doesn't remember that happening and that I'm like a sister to her and she would never hold that against me. I'm just scared that I did something terrible, and that I am a molester myself but I'm in NO WAY attracted to little kids and told my mom about my molester just to keep him away from my little sister. What is she's actually scarred but just doesn't want to talk to me? P.S. Since I was 5 and she was around 6, I don't remember if it was consensual or not. I do remember at one point that she wanted to leave the room though. I don't know if this counts as an update but thank you guys for being so understanding |
| Question: My parents have given me one see to move out, and I've nowhere to go. What should I do? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:09 PM PDT I am 20, never lived alone before. I have about 1,000 dollars saved. I have a job making 9.50 per hour. Friends can't help me. Don't have a lot and the ones I have don't work. What should I do? |
| Question: Why do my parents appreciate my brother more? Posted: 23 May 2015 12:01 PM PDT My parents are always scolding me and praising my brother. My mom calls me a "smartass" and "a *****" and I hate it! They both always tell stories of how good of a baby my brother was (he is 15, I am 12) and ignore me. They also always say how perfect of a son my brother is and mumble "if only she was as good" or something along those lines everytime(it happens often). Also, my parents don't let me have fun, if I ask to have A friend over they say no for ONE friend and then later, my brother asked for 8 friends over, she allowed it! I am so sick of she neglects me and all the things I do for her(it's mostly my horrid mother), she always makes me clean the kitchen while he watched tv with my brother. My brother and I both play lacrosse, we both have 2 games a week on different days, my mom can ALWAYS make his games but is always "busy" when it comes to my games and my grandma is always the one who has to take me. I hate my mother and wish I had a different mom! she's so lazy and fails to see when I have problems and ignores me and, once we were in a fight and she told me I was an accident, hidden through saying "i have never really wanted a daughter" |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 11:59 AM PDT I got accepted to HSMSE with the highest score in my class of 500 and Iam one out of only two people who were accepted into a SHS. My best friend really wanted a SHS but she didnt get it and she was really sad because her dad is a tutor and people would consider her to be dumb. I understand that shes sad but im feeling really bad because she says that she doesnt even want a SHS anymore cause its stupid but I fell bad because I worked really hard for it. |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 11:53 AM PDT SO MY SISTER IS 11 YEARS OLD AND IM 13 YEARS OLD.AND SHE ACTS LIKE SHES 16 SHE TRIES TO CONTROL ME AND SHE DEMANDS A LOT OF THINGS WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BECOME THE BIGGER SISTER |
| Question: I need advice: Is this considered abusive? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:50 AM PDT Imagine someone does everything to support you financially and they have sole control over everything financial. But if you happen to speak your opinion or something that they don't like, they threaten to cut you off financially and not support you. Is this abusive or does it sound like the person is just spoiled? Thanks. |
| Question: My mother keeps will not drop the subject? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:42 AM PDT I'm going back to school for a PhD. I have money in the bank but will still need to borrow money in order to live & pay for it. I'm stable, have had a job for 5+ years & I think I'm willing, ready, & able to do this. I was offered a stipen from the university to teach some classes. My mother is constantly bringing up that I should not take the stipen & that when I relocate I should just take any full time job I can get my hands on even if it's unrelated to what I'm getting my PhD in. I've had the same discussion with her the past 4 times I've been to her house! It gets me angry that she continues to bring it up then insists she's not helping me financially if I need help. I've NEVER asked her for money. I have over $95,000 saved up in my bank I'm not sure what is making her think I need her money?? I've estimated I won't need that much even in loans. Maybe ($50,000) & that's a maximum amount situation Any advice My mother is in her early 60's I'm in my early 30's |
| Question: Would gypsies ever marry a non gypsy in the 1890s? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:40 AM PDT |
| Question: I'm really mad at my best friend right now and I need advice on how to handle this.? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:40 AM PDT She is a terrific amazing person. She is always there when I need her. She helped me get passed this bad relationship I had and so fun to be around. When I need someone to talk to she is there. A few weeks ago this guy she was seeing broke up with her through email. She said she didn't like to be alone and within a few days started going out with another guy. Her and I were supposed to go to an event this Saturday but because she already met someone she decided not to go...but it was a singles thing and because she couldn't go...I couldn't go either and I feel like she just left me out in the cold. How do I talk to her...she is really a good and sweet friend but sometimes she is really selfish. Thanks! I can be really mean to her or I can talk to her in a diplomatic way. How should I do that. She is not a good communicator and she also knows this. Thanks!! We've been friends for almost seven years. At one of my birthdays, she was the first one at the restaurant waiting for me : ) We live an hour away and she still comes to visit out here or we meet half way. |
| Question: He's meeting my parents and I'm somewhat worried? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:38 AM PDT The first and unexpected time he met them was when they came to help me move out of college. He spent the night, took me out to breakfast, then he was going to help me clean out my fridge and take all the food I didn't use back with him. However, over the course of the night we spent together, I received a couple hickeys. I know a lot of people don't like them, but personally I find that they feel amazing. I don't walk around showing them off...they're always covered and hidden the next day. Well my parents told me they would be here to pick me up at noon, and showed up a half hour early with no warning. So I had no time to cover the hickeys and tried to wear my hair down and act like everything was normal. They met him, thought he was sweet, and he left. About an hour later my parents noticed the hickeys. Initially my dad chuckled and shook his head and my mom just made passing comments like "you really should cover that up", and later told me that my dad made a comment about how sleazy they are. Well he's coming by to pick me up for the weekend and I just don't know what to expect this time around with him interacting with my parents. Again, in my defense I wasn't trying to show off the hickeys. They happened, I liked it, but then I planned on covering them up. We're both 22, and his parents are very accepting of the fact that adults do adult things. I didn't argue with my parents, I just said it is what it is and explained the timing issue with what happened to my mom. |
| Question: He's meeting my parents and I'm somewhat worried? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:38 AM PDT The first and unexpected time he met them was when they came to help me move out of college. He spent the night, took me out to breakfast, then he was going to help me clean out my fridge and take all the food I didn't use back with him. However, over the course of the night we spent together, I received a couple hickeys. I know a lot of people don't like them, but personally I find that they feel amazing. I don't walk around showing them off...they're always covered and hidden the next day. Well my parents told me they would be here to pick me up at noon, and showed up a half hour early with no warning. So I had no time to cover the hickeys and tried to wear my hair down and act like everything was normal. They met him, thought he was sweet, and he left. About an hour later my parents noticed the hickeys. Initially my dad chuckled and shook his head and my mom just made passing comments like "you really should cover that up", and later told me that my dad made a comment about how sleazy they are. Well he's coming by to pick me up for the weekend and I just don't know what to expect this time around with him interacting with my parents. Again, in my defense I wasn't trying to show off the hickeys. They happened, I liked it, but then I planned on covering them up. We're both 22, and his parents are very accepting of the fact that adults do adult things. I didn't argue with my parents, I just said it is what it is and explained the timing issue with what happened to my mom. Also, the reason they weren't covered during breakfast is because we went to a local drive through places that does biscuits and breakfast foods. |
| Question: My parents will not let me spend my own money? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:37 AM PDT My parents, will not let me spend the money that i earned from work. Instead they "borrowed" all of it without my permission promissing to pay me back the next week but its been a year and a half. They yelled at me and called me "broke" but they are the reason i dont have money anymore. We come from a well off family so i do not see why the needed my money to buy my mother a new LV bag and my dad a new iphone. I want to spend 400$ for a new computer because the laptop i am on has alot of problems but they refuse to do so. When i told them i was going to buy one with MY money they still said no. what do i do they borrowed over 600$ btw |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 11:30 AM PDT okay. so my mom is finally getting back to work. so we have more money. even when we didn't have money, they always got my older sister stuff, and they never got me anything. whenever I ask for stuff, they ignore it and say they'll get it later. however, wen my sister asks for something, even if it's more expensive and less important, they get it. it makes me sad because they also wonder why I'm always so distant and I'm always sad or angry, and it's usually because I always feel like they don't care about me or anything. idk, it just makes me really mad. it's probably not a big deal and really stupid, but idk maybe it's not. |
| Question: How can I tell my parents about my plans? I am very worried about their reaction!!? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:24 AM PDT I am a young adult in my 20s and I currently live at home with my mom in NY. I will be honest I feel tired of living here in NY, to me it seems depressing and I have lived here for 16 years of my life. I have some bad memories living in this place. I do have a job and I am helping my mother, but at the same time I am trying to save up as much money so I can move to my homeland, Armenia. I don't want to live with my father, I don't like him or his new wife. I will let them live their own life. I want my mother to get married again and have more children, but I feel like I am curbing her process of finding a man because I am in the way. I currently go to college, but I honestly don't feel it. I just don't feel happy. The reason why I want to move to Armenia is because as a man, I want to start somewhere new and meet new people. I have extended family living there and they are excited about my plans and they told me that their home is my home, so I am very much so welcomed. I don't hate the U.S at all, I am just tired of living here, everything is the same to me and I want something new. I want to get a good taste of my own culture, meet an Armenian girl and get married. The job prospects are very good in Armenia. I can find a job as a translator or ESL teacher. There is an American college in Armenia if I ever want to attend again. My problem is how will I tell my family?? I plan on leaving soon. I know that they will ridicule me or forbid. I can tell them on my birthday! |
| Question: My moms forcing me to wear scarfs? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:19 AM PDT I'm only 13 I refuse to wear one on my head I don't feel feel comfortable at all, my sisters almost 17 and they never pressured her to wear one (SHE STILL DOESNT WEAR ONE) and I'm 13 and she's forcing me. Now she's like "wear one around your neck" so it covers your chest. First of all I don't wear tight shirts all my shirts are loose, then she's like wear a scarf around your neck even when I'm wearing a baggy sweatshirt. I wanted to go to the movies today and I know she's gonna force me to ruin my outfit with an ugly scarf in the middle of summer so I canceled. I hate my mom for doing this. Please help |
| Question: Love baseball, hate football. How about you? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:19 AM PDT I'm over football. I've only seen a bunch of overgrown thugs trying to slam each other, along with some incidental business involving a so-called ball. Baseball involves skill, judgment and athletic ability. It's healthy (at least you're likely to be walking at age fifty), clean fun and has a great history. It's wonderful for the family. It's about having fun, not mindless "macho"ness. And football is all I hear about. I'm just saying. Anyway, your comments? |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 11:18 AM PDT One minute my mom is very happy , AMD then the next she gets angry over simple things. She thinks she knows everything and when I try to tell her what's right she tells me she doesn't want to hear it. Maybe she might have anger problems I don't know. When she gets angry she yells at me and explains Everton she angry about only to me. As if she's taking her anger out on me. I've explained this to her several times but she doesn't listen. What can I do ? |
| Question: Why gringos throw their children out of their homes when they turn 18? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:04 AM PDT I don't understand their culture... In Latin America, we live with our parents until we can get a job or we get married. It's normal that a 25 or 30 years old person lives with their parents. In USA that would be a terrible and shameless situation.. For example I'm 23 and I'm study at university, my parents still buy me everything I ask: clothes, my own car, cellphone, ipod, money for concerts, cinema, etc.. I don't have a job because my parents don't let me to have one, they say that my only obligation is studying. And I can have sex when the house is empty or when my lover sleep in my house. Maybe they don't love their children too much. |
| Question: Should i go or stay? Posted: 23 May 2015 11:02 AM PDT Ok this summer me and my Mom Are planning to move with my sister in Jackson Michigan away from the dangerous city i live in right now, This year around 100 people died in the city i live in, it scars me a lot. But also we are moving because of my mom health issues and i just cant take care of her by myself, Also i heard their are good high schools over their but i heard their are lots of African Americans over. Im NOT a racist. its just i dont want to be the only Mexican Boy Their, What should i do? 10 points For the BEST ANSWER |
| Question: My girlfriend ALWAYS puts her family before me & her family hates me? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:56 AM PDT My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now and our relationship has always been shot by the fact that her family really dislikes me along with my girlfriend always choosing her family over me. We have a 9 month old son who she ALWAYS brings to her parents house and rarely brings to my parents house. Even I barely get to see him anymore because of her decisions on only wanting him to be with her family. Her family barely knows me, has yet to have a FULL conversation with me and completely judges me. Every time we make plans to see each other she always cancels if her family wants to see her. I m a great father that has done everything for my son since day 1, I changed the diapers, woke up for the morning feedings, played with him, fed him, you name it, i did it. I did everything I could as a father and as a boyfriend but I m honestly starting to give up. I m getting sick and tired of this. Its been 4 years of the same stuff and I m really angry at the fact that she can t seem to focus on the family we have created instead of focusing on her own family. What do I do? Do I stay with her and continue on with this stressful situation with her family , or do I let her go ? |
| Question: 16 year old paying full rent while parents sleep in and dont have a job? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT My girlfriend is 16 years old and she is the only on in the family that works she lives with her mom stepdad and a 15yr old sister her mom makes her pay the full rent, water, eletric, cable, and wifi bill and on top of that her mom takea her debit card and goes shopping with it and withdraws money from her account without her permission and i mean im talking about $100 at a time and her mom decides to limit the amount of money that she can spend...her mom is limiting the amount of her own money that she can spend! I dont see anything right in this picture i don't understand why her parents wont get a job the sleep in and make her and her sister do all the chores in the house and just yell and make negative comments about them.....can someone tell me what she can do? How can she get out of paying all the bills and buying groceries? I think its been 2 or 3 pay checks and out of those she has only been able to spend about $100 of her own money! What can she do? Can she move out? What kind of legal help can you give me? Because she's starting to give up :( she has 2 more years until she turns 18 |
| Question: What's a good comeback line to a sibling who is trying to get under your skin? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:40 AM PDT So I mentioned to my mother that I significantly gained weight. I'm not the type who constanly complains to others about my weight. I know how it feels because i have friends who constantly say they are fat..so i wouldn't put others in that awkward situation. Anyways the sister probably found out from my mom about my weight gain. When we went to brunch i was so full from the lemonade and snacks. After she asked if i wanted more lemonade..i said no and that I had enough. Of course she had to yell out really loud....you're not fat! Of course, everyone around me says...oh my god you are not fat..and now everyone thinks i have some eating disorder. She smiled at me and walked off. She says little comments like that and gets away with it. She's 8 years older than me. This is so ridiculous. Anyways I could ignore her but it would be funny to get a taste of her own medicine. |
| Question: My dad gave me the belt? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:40 AM PDT Im 17 years old (im a male). Earlier today my sister (shes 15) and I were arguing about the TV remote and it got intense. After a good 15 minutes she p*ssed me off so i took the remote and threw it at her knee and she started cry and my dad comes charging in the room and with no remorse he takes his belt off, grabs me and whips me super hard on the behind. Hes a very fit guy too so he had a strong grip on my hand when he was doing it. I was scared for my life. Now i have a huge welt on my butt. I later apologized to my sister and took her to get some food. But was it right for my dad to act out like that? Keep in mind he is not abusive at all. But did he do it to disceplin me? He usually just yells at us and takes out stuff. But today was different. |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 10:36 AM PDT I come from a broken home. Meaning there's always drama in my house. Everyday there's arguing and fighting. I'm tired of it. There's nowhere else I can go. No one I can really talk to. I'm already planning to kill myself. I'd rather be dead than go on another day living like this. |
| Question: Is this due to family envy or competition? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:26 AM PDT I don't feel very valued in my family. I came back from college to my hometown last year. I had a good experience with others, grades, and work. My family acts like it didnt happen - I'm not treated like I'm smart, capable of getting into a tough grad school, and getting along well with other people. It makes me feel weird that people close to you can act like that. Their lives are stressful. I worked so hard in college - it feels a bit mean for those close to you to not appreciate that. |
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| Question: My anxiety is really getting the best of me? I worry a lot about my relationship? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:23 AM PDT Ive been in this relationship for almost a year. Everything is perfect, and I am very very happy alongside him. For as long as I can remember, Im always overanalizing/over thinking everything. I make up conflicts in my mind and can't seem to tame it down. For example, my biggest worries as of now (and I've been just having them for a few days) is that I'll be the one to screw up the relationship. I fear I'll suddenly stop having feelings for him, or that I'll cheat on him. Which is irrational and weird, because I have absolutely no eyes for anyone but him. I've never done as much as flirt with another guy, or anything. I think cheating is immoral and wrong, yet I'm stressing over about it. I love this guy a lot, and I really don't want to lose him. Can someone reassure me? Can someone help me relax and stop stressing so much? |
| Question: I get mad easily and my mom doesn't get that? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:17 AM PDT If someone does something so little I feel like punching a wall and screaming at the top of my lungs. My mom doesn't get that. She always talks so freaking loud, and I get upset. Like five minutes ago: Me: can I have a friend over Mom: you need to clean up the bathroom, then she paused and then yelled, and start respecting me. Me: what? How don't I respect you . Mom: you know what, just you're gonna do chores before she comes over. And she's talking so loudly and I'm getting mad Me: why? I just cleaned my room yesterday! Then she started yelling at me and stuff and I said "you're just so, never mind." So I wouldn't get in trouble, but she yelled," you know what, forget it! She's not coming over!" And then I started crying because I can't help the fact I get mad she doesn't freaking get it! She makes me so pissed, and I swear. Someone please help me |
| Question: The more educated I get the more I can't trust my parents? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:09 AM PDT When I think about it, my parents come from a vastly uneducated background, my parents didn't even complete college, they don't know anything about politics or science, they don't even know anything about the history of our country(USA) and perpetuating bronze age myths like homophobia and circumcision. Yet, they still think that they know everything and have more "experience" over me, so I should trust them by their logic. What should I do when I know what they're telling me is wrong, and I know what's right? I feel like they're holding me back from what I can truly accomplish and I don't know what I should do. |
| Question: How can I turn back time to the year 2004? Posted: 23 May 2015 10:04 AM PDT I need to return to the year 2004, because something awful happened to me in 2004, and I regret it so much and I want to fix it and relive those times and take back what happened and to remain home and not go away to that awful place my parents sent me to. In my opionion even a dog doesn't deserve to be sent there and my parents sent me there and kept me there for 2 years. I hate them I wish they were dead. But how do I change what happened and be home during 2004 and 2005 I feel like I have missed out on so much and I can't live like this. |
| Question: What shall I do? My 12 years son falls in love with his classmate? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:51 AM PDT The girl is sticky to my son and has my son chat with her late every night. I just found out every night after I kissed him goodnight, he pretended to sleep but actually sit up late to company with the girl till she sleep. I was angry because he lied to me so I took away his iPhone and iPad just now. But I don't know what to do next. |
| Question: Mom thinks I'm fat lesbian? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:47 AM PDT We and my mom have always had a great relationship and were like best friends. I have never talked behind her back and I thought that so is she but it ends up its not so. Im 21 yo girl, studying in uni and still a virgin. (Not that I havnt had a chance to "loose it", but Ive always wanted to do it with a person whom I know,not just a random guy I met) When I was 15 I had a short relationship as I was away at countryside,but I havnt told my parents about it aince there isnt nothing to tell. He dumped me and ever since Ive been keeping boys away from me,simply because I was afraid it gonna happen again. Ive always had a problems with extra weight and ever since that,my weight has only escalated and I have developed depression as well. Few days ago heard my mom, while she was drunk,telling her friend that I might be lesbian (I support gay people,but I don't fancy my own sex) and that I am awfully fat. I dont dissaprove that Im overweight I perfectly know that and I am trying to work with that (doing gymnastics at home,eating smaller portions,healthier etc. But everyone who has ever struggled with weight knows,that change doesnt happen in one second). But the deal is that, everytime she comes from work she buy sweets. Why the hell then is she telling ppl ****,when shes not really helping me to loose weight? It just really hurts,that a person whos that close to you talks behind your back. It makes me feel even more depressed and self conscious. |
| Question: Where can I find out where my brother was buried? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:47 AM PDT My brother born February 13 1973 & died on September 17 1994. Name is Alejandro Amaya & was a Marine but I was told he was not buried with his brothers. I have a feeling it's somewhere in queens. I'm 35 & I'm doing everything I can, but no luck. |
| Question: I LOATHE my sisters boyfriend? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:44 AM PDT I'm just going to straight up say it. My sister's boyfriend is a racist, narcissistic ***. My sister forces me to hang out with him and take me to places with him and The other day she dragged me out to lunch with them and we were sat next to a black family and he acted disgusted and demanded to be sat somewhere away from them and I had a complete meltdown I took him outside and I yelled at him for 20 minutes straight saying how can someone in their right mind do that to a person because of their color and my sister came out and started screaming at me for yelling at him and it took every ounce of self control not to slap her in the face for dating him so I left them, apologized to the family, payed for their lunch, and took a bus home without bothering to look at my sister and that prick. Keep in mind I'm only 17 and she's 31 and he's 29 they should know better. He is so judgemental of my family because my parents are from Guatemala and their English isn't perfect. Whenever he comes to my house to visit my sister I go out to the park or something because I can't be in the same building as him and later my sister yells at me that that's rude and I just laugh in her face. I don't know what to do I'm at my wits end I know it's her life but I cannot tolerate my sisters bf anymore. |
| Question: How do I convince my mom....? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:33 AM PDT My friend and I are 17 years old. This weekend, her whole family went out for vacation but she had to stay home because of work. My friend has severe depression and bad mood swings. She's attempted suicide and been hospitalized multiple times. Right before they left, her mother personally asked me to stay with her as much as I can, especially at night. Because she's afraid to come home and find her dead. I promised her I would. However, my mother absolutely hates sleepovers and won't let me sleep over. My friend doesn't really have anyone else to stay with her. I tried to explain to my mom why I have to and she did not believe me even though I showed her texts between me and my friends mother and sisters. How do I get her to let me stay with her? |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 09:29 AM PDT I'm just curious since I feel like I am a well raised daughter but my brother is the completely opposite. Most likely because my parents spoiled him so much. Its not like I want him to suffer like I did but he should have some responsibilities since he is becoming a teenager. He's going into high school in 2 years but he doesn't do anything for the family or even for himself. Doesn't help with the laundry, the dishes, the yard, cleaning up. NOTHING. So I am here in search of other peoples situation. Like at what age did they started helping out. |
| Question: Sister being risky on Facebook? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:29 AM PDT My sister is in a local band and many people from all overy the world send her requests on facebook (idk how they find her or their band as they dont have a big following yet). She gets upwards of 100+ friends a day and most of them are from....for lack of a better term...creepy old guys. Some go through pictures from 4-5 years ago and comment. Some find me through her and try to add me. I've told her to stop doing this as she doesn't know these people. I think there's a difference between networking as a musician and opening up your Facebook to anyone who can now see your family, photos, etc. When I tried to talk to her about it she shut me out, removed me as her family from facebook, and said to direct all questions to her band manager. We live in the same house and if I want to contact her I have to go through her manager?! What should I do? |
| Question: Mother treats me like crap? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:23 AM PDT Don't get me wrong, my mum does quite alot for me, and I appreciate it. But she just seems to treat me like crap compared to my dad and brother. All she seems to do is moan at me, nag, shout and literally complains about everything I do. She always swears at me and calls me names. She acts like she knows everything about me - in reality, she knows next to nothing. She tries to force me to exercise and go out, but she doesn't see that all it's doing is making me annoyed and not want to do it at all. I've tried telling her this but she just yells at me. I exercise when I want to - why can't she see this? Our relationship used to be good, then in my early teens it went downhill. I would constantly be crying because of her, she used to hit me if I did anything that annoyed her. I used to hate her so much that I contemplated killing myself or I'd wish she was dead. I know that sounds horrible, but that's how I felt - and afterwards I'd feel bad for thinking like that. It went okay for about a year and now it's just going downhill again. I stay in my room so I don't have to bother with my family as much. I feel like I would happily move to the other side of the world and cutbher out of my life. Is it normal to feel like this? |
| Question: What age should a child get a laptop when he already has other electronics? Posted: 23 May 2015 09:22 AM PDT So I'm just curious since my brother is so spoiled. He had a bunch of other electronics such as iPad, iPod, Ps3, and we even have a pc. He's only 13 yet he also wants a macbook. So I was wonder what other parents or family would do. I got it when I went to college and it seems reasonable. |
| Question: My mother is becoming lazy and unscholarly? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:56 AM PDT I am 19 and my mother is 46 Through out my life she seems to have degenerated. She works seven days a week and has bee raising my sister and I for 17 years as a single mother Everyday she comes home under so much exhaustion. She complains a lot, she bickers a lot, she's very closed-minded to many things. However, she has been to Canada, France, Belgium, Germany, Italy, Mexico, Argentina and so many countries in the world, she has friends of all types. Nevertheless she's very trivial, she doesn't seem to want to learn anything She only watches simple "mom" light romantic comedies. I love Romantic comedies too But I can appreciate a good drama, foreign films, black and white films. She has this very trivial commonplace manner. She prefers to eat at like Applebees, Ruby Tuesday, Olive Garden, Chipotles and all these base restaurants When I try to introduce her to many other places. She orders her pizza from pizza hut Which is awful. She doesn't care for the news, she only knows about major events, like the boston bombing, the Charlie Hebdo massacre, the pilot who commited suicide on a plane, etc... And when she knows about these things, she basically only reads the headlines. She likes the beach and calm neighborhoods. I just came back from New York, last time I was there with her, she couldn't manage it. She walks slow, wanted to stay home, etc... My mother is so unscholarly, she's so pedestrian, what are some ways we can get along? |
| Question: How does 'acting in a persons best interests' create conflict in health situations? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:52 AM PDT |
| Question: I ******* hate my dad!? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:51 AM PDT Sometimes, I want to kill a B I T C H! He's stubborn! I want to stab a knife in his eye!!!!! |
| Question: Help my mom is bossing me around!!!? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:35 AM PDT Ok so I'm 19 and I'm going to be 20 in like 3 weeks. I still live with my parents because I don't have enough money to move out (because if I did believe me I would). Anyways, my mom is soooooooo bossy with everything I do! I'm supposed to spend my whole day doing chores (and love it), I'm never supposed to do anything fun (except on the weekend), and she's really bossy about religion and my attitude. Ok I understand that I have a temper, but when I'm angry I just shut up, and she wants to change my attitude. I just wish I could tell her "look mom, this is who I am and who I want to be so stop controlling me!" But I would get grounded for like 2 weeks if I said that. And about religion she's Christian and she wants me to be Christian too, and I'm ok with that you know stuff like going to church, reading the bible (sometimes), and watching Christian movies. Honestly I'm ok with that, but what I'm not ok with is that she expects me to be a super Christian like David, Jonah, and those other people. But I'm not going to be a prophet or anything like that, I'm just a normal person with a normal job and she can't except that. Please help! How can I tell her to let me be my own person without bossing me! |
| Question: :( how should i tell my mom? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:34 AM PDT i hav virginity pregnancy (pregnancy without having virgin sex) and i dont know how to tell my mom and dad .. i mean how to explain them 😢 |
| Question: Are Stay At Home Moms Proud Of Themselves For Making Excuses Not To Actually Work? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:33 AM PDT Stay at home moms are worthless pieces of garbage. And if you're a stay at home mom that's reading this, why are you on the computer right now? Shouldn't you be "working" and paying attention to your kids????? |
| Question: Verbal abusive dad?? Please help!? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:28 AM PDT My dad has always been like this, ever since I can remember. In public he is fine but when not he is horrible. The littlest things set him off for days or weeks. For example, last night he couldn't find a clip to shut a bag of chips and he started screaming and several at me because I should have the kitchen in order, and I should buy enough clips that he doesn't have to go looking. And he was swearing like crazy. Now today he is the eating to behead all my chickens and sell the horses if I don't start improving. He calls me the worst names, (I won't repeat them) and swears in every sentence. I don't know what to do any more? All it takes is for one little thing to go wrong and he is in a fit. He got better when we started going to church but then he fell away and is ten times worse. He treats my mom the same way. Plz help me! God bless |
| Question: I Have No Idea What I'm Doing With My Life? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:15 AM PDT I'm a 19 year old college junior. I'll be 20 in September, and lately I've been kind of down about some stuff. My first 2 years of college haven't been the greatest and my grades could definitely be better! I basically failed my first semester, my grades improved but then dropped again last semester. I got an F and a C, everything else was fine. My GPA is a 2.5, Anyway, my brother is a year older than me and he and his girlfriend had their first child two months ago. Since then I've been thinking about my life and I realized that all I want is to get married and start my family soon, I've always been the one people said would be successful but school just isn't going well right now. I want to be a physician assistant but honestly I'd be happy with any career as long as I can support myself and my family. I guess I just feel like I'm wasting my life away because I feel like there's nothing going for me. I need some advice, please! |
| Question: Why do my parents treat me this way? Posted: 23 May 2015 08:09 AM PDT My dad told me I couldn't keep pushing cars off the roof of their parking garage, (our house has a 3 story parking garage) but I know he can afford to pay for them. I always look to see if people are under me when I do it, so it's not dangerous. It's my parents house, so it's not like people have the right to complain. Most of these people are paid by my parents anyway. |
| Posted: 23 May 2015 08:07 AM PDT So partner is at his busy time as in construction. We have a new baby they rarely see or spend time with. Partner says they have 2 work more as other workers always taking time off spend with their family. I never nag or complain about it So partner calls last night and says we got lucky. They are coming home. .as no one else is working So they offer take family 2 dinner. At dinner ...Partner on phone chatting about work. Nothing that could not have been given a call back. Partner does pay 4 dinner. I cover tip. Partner had told child we'd go bowling if ate...but says not going as left a bit. Then we need hit hardware store 4 work supplies. Kids and I hit garden section. Partner leaves 2 shop. .I locate partner few minutes later (they are on phone with another worker). I get keys ... head 2 car. . Shopping can sometimes go on 4 hours...kids fussy. ..not my idea if a fun family night. Partner returns and yells at me. How I couldn't have waited...am terrible parent if I can't entertain/control kids while they shop. How they wanted 2 look with me in gardening section. (Huh...then why did you leave us 2 shop? If I am a terrible parent and you can do better then why not take kids with you?) Partner says they were trying 2 be nice and take us out. I tell the above and about phone. I am at a loss? I don't understand why we couldn't have a good night without work influences and feel partner blames us 4 everything. Am I ungrateful? Or is partner a money grubbing workaholic? |
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