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- Question: Dads birthday card?
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- Question: Those who are parents and have raised kids, how do you control a 19 year old boy?
- Question: I can't find a job after i graduated in may 2014 from technical college and I'm really clueless where to go or where to look?
- Question: What should I do to bond with my wife daughter?
- Question: My parents are always fighting because my dad has a sickness and he doesn't want to get help :( What should I do?
- Question: Good age to have kids?
- Question: I hurt so bad please please help!!?
- Question: I need to be more respectful to my mother?
- Question: My life is falling apart?
- Question: Why am I always so depressed?
- Question: I feel like i have no one?
- Question: Help me with my life plz!!!!!?
- Question: My parents are divorcing and I don't know how to help my Lil brother?
- Question: How do I vent out my anger?
- Question: How much should an 11 year old girl wheigh?
- Question: How do I gain my parents trust back!?
- Question: In OHIO.12 years old, divorced parents, I have a question?
- Question: Can my aunt take custody of me?
- Question: What do you do when you don't like who your parents are as people?
- Question: Was my cousin teasing me?
- Question: What can I do to make my moms life a little better?
- Question: Should I have more kids for the welfare?
- Question: What should be my baby brothers name? Richard Jerom (r.j) or Jarom Richard(j.r)?
- Question: How do you deal with materialistic, rude and pushy relatives when they visit your home?
- Question: Is it normal to be jealous of your mother in law?
- Question: Is my boyfriends sister obsessed with him?
- Question: Is my mom pragnant?
- Question: What to do about a cocky little brother?
- Question: Do my parents like my brother more then me?
- Question: How to toughen up a bitching brother?
- Question: How to leave my family?
- Question: Should my daughter visit her mom in jail? is there any benefit to visiting?
- Question: What age is too old to be living with your parents?
- Question: Is this still done at my age? Is it legal?
- Question: How much say should a step mom have in what changes are made?
- Question: My mom tells lies about me?
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- Question: My mom left the U.S. for an affair?
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| Posted: 28 May 2015 02:06 PM PDT I'm writing in my dads birthday card and want to know if this makes sense: You're the best daddy in the world. No, you don't buy me every new phone or whatever. And no, you don't let me do whatever I want, and I thank you for that. Because it means that you love and care for me. It means that you're teaching me that when I am all grown up and moving out, I can do whatever I want, but you've taught me to do what's right and responsible. That way I won't be one of those people that've thrown there life away. And I know I am a hard headed, not easy to work with person, but thank you for always pushing me, otherwise I'd give up on pretty much everything. I love you batman!!! So this is it. I call him Batman fyi, and yeah so tell me how it sounds please! |
| Question: Mom making big deal out of nothing? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:04 PM PDT Ok so the past 3 weeks we've had at least 1 argument. When we barely used to argue. She gets mad at me and starts yelling at me. I don't do well when people yell at me. It doesn't make me me listen it makes me mad and defensive. Like one of our arguments was me waiting till 10am to wake up and get ready to go to work. I had to work at 12pm.she came into the house fussing saying all I do is lay in the bed when there is stuff that needs to be done around the house. I was like how was I supposed to know you had clothes in the dryer that needed to be folded. So that was an argument and she acts so childish when she gets mad. She won't talk to me and she acts like she doesn't care. And today I got fired from a job I love because of a protocol mistake I made. I admitted to my mistake and took my consequences for it. She made a big deal out of it trying to make a life lesson. She literally called me into her room to "talk" about it we had 3 conversations about learning from my mistake and the last conversation I got mad and told her she just keeps repeating herself and I get it learn from my mistake I messed up do better next time. She got mad that I got tired of listening to her and said you're not going to do well in life until you learn to listen I'm like you said this 3 times already why you still talking about it move on I got fired life happens I will get another job and do better. We have been having this arguments over nothing and I'm tired of it. Btw I'm 19 and in college |
| Question: Those who are parents and have raised kids, how do you control a 19 year old boy? Posted: 28 May 2015 02:02 PM PDT I have a brother who is 19 years old and has this "you cant tell me what to do, Im 19 attitude." The issue with him is that he has become disrespectful to our mother that whenever our father is not home, he can do and say whatever he wants. Im 21 years old, finishing up school, and even though we are a few years apart, I do not act anything like him. The other day, my mother and I were talking about him and one of the things she said was that she cant control him. My assumption is that the reason he doesn't act that way around our father is because our dad has always been the one that showed tough love - so if we did something wrong, we got punished; if our grades werent good, we got punished. Another reason could be because he is the one who is paying for all the things my brother has. So he could just as easily take away his phone, his car, or even kick him out of the house. Our mother use to be the one who punished us as well but as soon as we all passed her in height (and reached a certain age), it is as if she lost all influence and grew soft. Now I know that most guys around his age will act this way, some say it is a phase, some don't grow out of it. He likes to party and drink and even got a DUI one night that hopefully woke him up to realize that if he were to pull a stunt like that again, he would be kicked out of the house. But I am not a parent. For those who have/are raising kids, how would you deal with this? I tried talking to him but the guy's hard headed. |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 01:58 PM PDT my parents don't even care or support me or even help look for a job, i don't think i would be able to pass a job interview or be able to answer question because I have extremely social anxiety and i want to die of ******* stress and I'm unable to go to another college because i have really bad math scores and poor communication skills, my parent yell at me and would rather help my brother instead of me can't even find a job or reach my dreams or get out of Colorado |
| Question: What should I do to bond with my wife daughter? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:48 PM PDT I recently married my wife and she has a 12 year old daughter. we have met before the wedding but we hardly talk I try talking to her but she doesn't keep the conversation long its usually a yes and no conversation. the longest we have ever talked was when the wifi box wasn't working and she almost had a heart attack since her mom took the gbs off her phone. I think she views me as an older guy in the house and not a father. if I get too close for a hug like a regular dad she backs up and says '' your invading my personal bubble''. my step daughter is mature though. the most mature 12 year old ive ever met when she turns 13+ her mother wont have any trouble dealing with her. she doesn't go to parties because she says no to any activity outside. shes slim and tall about 5'9 and her metabolist is high she eats a lot yet shes under weight. her mom force her to go outside or wash dishes that's all her mother have problems with. how do I bond with her if she wont listen to me or talk with me |
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| Question: Good age to have kids? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:43 PM PDT If you want a big family.. Of like 4 or 5. At what age should you start having kids? I know there can be birth defects if you wait after 30. |
| Question: I hurt so bad please please help!!? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:38 PM PDT Where to begin? I'm 15 years old and male. I have a loving mom and dad but I hate my 11 year old brother. He is ugly, lazy, rude, immature, and selfish. I would kill him if I could. I play with my 9 year old girl neighbor several times, and really like her. She is so cute, and we get along great. I always wanted a sister, but got that beast of a brother to be my only sibling. I cry to myself at night and my heart hurts so bad it feels like it has gangrene. I sometimes cry so hard from the crushing agony I want to die. In the animal and human word, offspring are one male, one female. Everyone else in my family has a sister, I don't. I can't stand wondering what I did to deserve this pain. I am being driven to insanity, and fear I may snap soon. I want to buy a very realistic looking doll of a girl about the age of my neighbor. I want it to to be white skinned, barefoot, and 3 and a half feet tall. I will dress it in pink clothes and play with it and pretend it is my sister. None of this is for sexual reasons, and you might call me weird but this emotional pain is so severe I can't stand it anymore. Where could I buy such a doll and how can I get over this heart ache? |
| Question: I need to be more respectful to my mother? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:36 PM PDT When i was younger i was the most respectful boy to my mother, i didn't get on with my father because he was physically and emotionally abusive to my mother and me but mostly my mother and so i would always stick up for her and this would cause me to get into full fist fights with my father from the age of 11 and hes a lot bigger than me so was always the one with the bloody nose etc anyway she fianally left him last year and now im 17 and i just have an attitude with my mother all the time and i feel so guilty about it, i just get irritated in the littlest things and start arguing with her, i dont call her names or anything but i get really loud and i dont stop until i make myself right in the argument, and its like i cant help it, i always apologize after but i then do it again, and i hate seeing my mother sad over everything ive seen her go through in her life... i used to resent my mother for staying with my father through all the abuse he gave us but im not angry at her anymore, i do still get sad about it but not angry at her just him. i just don;t understand why i get so mad, im also like this with friends/random people/ etc but i want to change, but i dont want to do therapy or any of that... no stupid answers i just want advice |
| Question: My life is falling apart? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:31 PM PDT My parents are in a loveless marriage, my sister is horribly sick with a genetic disease, and we are losing our house and my mom and I live on a different continent than my dad and sis ( not our choice), I don't know how to go on living but my mom said that I'm the only thing that keeps her going. But I feel worthless, and that everything is hopeless. I know I need professional help but we don't have the money. What can I do? How can I get through life without killing myself? Please help me |
| Question: Why am I always so depressed? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:28 PM PDT Everything makes me sad. After a stupid argument with my friends, I won't feel part of the squad. My parents said I was obnoxious and rude, and I literally cried for about an hour after they said that. I can't talk to my crush, hence why he doesn't like me back, which makes me sad. My entire family loves my younger brother and don't seem to care about me, which makes me sad. Why am I always so depressed? I count down for everything, and I feel like I'm wishing my life away but I don't want to do that. |
| Question: I feel like i have no one? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:27 PM PDT Im the one who is the target in my family and always have been and no one apologizes. I was verbally abused as i grew up and it caused me to really keep to myself. Until this very day its like i get looked at weird for not wanting to be involved with my family when my family is juat very shady. Im always left out and been abused since i was younger and still get treated like i really dont matter. My sister told me she was going to give me my aunt who died's car then she switched and wants to give it to my other sister. My mom always praises my other sisters and barely says anything about me. Im honestly at my wit's end i feel like i dont have anyone. Im about done. It feels like no one is in my corner |
| Question: Help me with my life plz!!!!!? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:24 PM PDT Well hi! Recently bad things are happening in my life and I need help!! A month ago, my mother died after a long time in the hospital. I accepted her death since it was predicted. Now I live with my grandparents that are not very healthy. My grandpa was fighting cancer years ago and my grandma is sad and strict.Anyway!! Also 5 months ago I took a male kitty I was feeding in the neighborhood to keep me company. Today I lost it and I feel super depressed. I looked for him everywhere. Please I need your help for everything. Tell me what to do. I have no one to talk with!!! |
| Question: My parents are divorcing and I don't know how to help my Lil brother? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:22 PM PDT OK, well my mom and dad have had a long marriage about 25 yrs and back in 2005they divorced and stayed separated for about a year then they got back together when my dad came to my mom and begged to be taken back now 10yrs later a woman called my mom claiming to be my dads woman well my mom hung up on her and tried to act around my dad like nothing happened now for the past 4months my dad has been asking my mom for a divorce and she finally said yes and are going through with it and my younger brother (14) and me (16) are the last ones left in my mothers house hold now my whole family knows how my dad is a cheating son of a ***** but steal I don't want my brother noticing that our life will change I have already token a job and my brother already works at a restruant my mother will have to get a job for the summers but now all three are going to have to work while that piece of **** goes around having fun being irresponsible son of a boitch now how can I help my brother not suffer from this or my family not have to go through economic trouble |
| Question: How do I vent out my anger? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:15 PM PDT Ok so my life is basically a rollercoaster. My mom, dad, and sister drive me crazy all day. They're so bipolar and they all basically hate me, and I hate them too. My parents are so embarassing, they scream at me in public and everybody looks at us and judge me. My dad screams at me FOR NOTHING. Every single day when hep picks me up, he instantly starts something just for the drama. But the thing is whenever I try to fight back and talk calmly, my voice gets so high and my throat and chest feel a weird pressure and I just start bawling. I'm so sensitive and cry for everything and I'm never able to fight back with my parents. They scream at the top of their lungs in public and rolls down the windows in the car just so I won't have the courage to yell back. I get so frustrated and angry, and never get to let it out. I basically just take long showers and cry in there. How can I let my anger out, or put it to good use? Sports? I don't really want to join anything, but I just can't deal with my family anymore. All the anger builds up and I just fume all day long. I'm constantly crying and in a bad mood. Any suggestions on how to vent it? Thank you so much for listening. |
| Question: How much should an 11 year old girl wheigh? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:13 PM PDT My 11 year old girl wheighs 105 I was wondering if that's alright ... She does play sports and is very strong so I think some of that is muscle |
| Question: How do I gain my parents trust back!? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:07 PM PDT I stopped taking m pills 2yrs agp cuz they made me throw up and feel even more sick all the time. When i stopped i got much better but yesterday my parents found out. I honestly feel like they hate me! My mom is more mad than my dad and shes normally the calm one, she took away my phone forever, she said I wont be driving for a long time (I have my permit and she's the one teaching me 2 drive b4 i go to drivers ed) and she wants me to clean my room. I really want my phone back cuz Im going to a different school next year and thats the only way to keep in touch with my friends but I hate that they dont trust me anymore! I just want things to go back to normal! I want them to trust me again plz help! Im a good kid, dont get into alot of trouble or lie to them very much. I feel like they think Im a bad kid now! Yes i know what I did was wrong and I know it sounds stupid but i was tired of being sick! I did tell the dr. they mad me sick but they only gave me more pills. They think i stopped taking one in decmber but i stopped them all 2 yrs ago help plz! I have ulcerative colits btw and it doesnt go away. The pill supresses my immune system. I know I sound like a wining teenager but u have to understand being sick sux! I didnt wana be hospitalized again. |
| Question: In OHIO.12 years old, divorced parents, I have a question? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:02 PM PDT I really don't like my dad. I LOOOVVE my mom. I want to live with only my mom. My dad has a crazy girlfriend who I hate! When and if I get my license do I get to decide what parent I want to live with? If I am under 18 (I'm 12) do I ever get to decide who I want to live with. I need to ask another question too. I have to spend 2 of my 3 summer months with my dad and his phyco girlfriend (KMS) I have crazy anxiety issues and depression. Can I possibly ask them to shorten the time over at my dads legally? I'm sure I could ask but is it legal to do that? I like my dad but he doesn't get that I hate his phyco girlfriend:( |
| Question: Can my aunt take custody of me? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:01 PM PDT I don't like my mom. I am a female and I'm 14 years old. My mom does drugs and I don't get along with her boyfriend because he is abusive and sexually touched my little sister that is only 9 years old. He has also tried to look at me naked. My mom calls me names and yells all the time. I live in Kansas and my mom smokes weed right in front of me. Plus her boyfriend yells at me a lot too and her has grabbed me around the neck before and choked me. I am scared to be living in that house. I have cut myself before, for the first time just because I was scared and upset about my life. I want to live with my aunt because I feel more safer there. I absolutely do not want to end up going to a foster care. And that's what I am scared about to. I think living with my aunt will make me happier. I was not happy living with my mom. Everything that was happening at home would lower my grades. I am too stressed and I don't need it. So is there a high chance that I can live with my aunt, instead of going to a foster care? I need a long answer about this . I need help. Thank you. (: |
| Question: What do you do when you don't like who your parents are as people? Posted: 28 May 2015 01:00 PM PDT ...like if they are shallow or very bigoted/prejudice know-it-alls. I don't want them in my life, but I don't want to regret pushing them away. However, the thought of having to spend my holidays with them or visit, at all, makes me miserable. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Was my cousin teasing me? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:52 PM PDT I am a guy in high school who has a older female cousin who is a joy to be with. She has a great sense of humor and we have a lot of fun together. I arranged for her to take me to the airport for a flight. I was running late and she asked me how much more time I needed to get ready before we left. I told her "It wouldn't be long now". She said "how many inches is it when it is long"? Oh my God, she is talking about my d***. I think I am entitled to brag a little don't you so I said 12 inches. She said "In your dreams "Shorty". Do you think she was just having fun at my expense? |
| Question: What can I do to make my moms life a little better? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I have more kids for the welfare? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:47 PM PDT |
| Question: What should be my baby brothers name? Richard Jerom (r.j) or Jarom Richard(j.r)? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:38 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you deal with materialistic, rude and pushy relatives when they visit your home? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:33 PM PDT My aunt, who is sharp as a tack and in her 90 s has always been a little forceful. We invited her for dinner along with my in-laws. My aunt told me she was going to take a cup from our cup collection. The cup collection has special meaning to of places we have been too. I explained this to her. She still continued to look at the cups and take them down and read what was on them. My mother-in-law ordered me to make a baked potato for her son, my husband when they were sitting at the table. We don t have potatoes, too many carbs. The MIL is grossly overweight btw. I had jumped up from my seat and had gone into the kitchen when I realized that and went back and told her. We were talking about pie crusts and I said I use to make lard pie crusts. The MIL is a very good cook and hence all her weight. She got snippy with me and said I KNOW they are flaky crusts. After all of that, I went into the kitchen and didn t converse much with either of them. I couldn t see any point in it. I had made a potato salad and her son doesn't like cold salads when the MIL ordered me to bake my husband a potato. I had a bean dish going instead that my husband had requested. BTW the in-laws muscled their way over for dinner so it wasn't really an invite, but I thought getting my aunt out would be a good thing for her. I couldn't wait for the meal to be over with and their "visit". Luckily they live 2 hours away. |
| Question: Is it normal to be jealous of your mother in law? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:31 PM PDT I just left work on lunch to deliver my sick partner some soup and medicine and when I got there his mother had already came by and gave him home made soup and supplies. I went back to work feeling sad and jealous. Is this normal? this is obviously just a recent example. |
| Question: Is my boyfriends sister obsessed with him? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:31 PM PDT Ok I really need help what is going on with my boyfriends sister, I seriously think she's obsessed with him because she always talks and has pictures of him on Facebook like everyday and also when we're on a date she has to call and stay on the phone for over 2 hours! He has told her to leave him alone and quit asking him questions like when he's coming home to visit since she lives out of town and demanding he come or else, also when he tells her to leave him alone she whines like a little kid and is like brother please talk to me, which is so immature. Also the crazy thing is that she's married and never acknowledges her husband or anything, I feel so sorry for him cause he's a great guy too. But it's always Aaron this, aaron that. She doesn't care about anyone else either not even her own family, I don't know what her deal is but I think she has serious problems. She only fakes being nice to me too because I try to be nice but she never has anything nice to reply or just ignores me. What do you people think? Am I right or just exaggerating this? Oh and another thing, Aaron has another sister, she's the complete opposite and we get along great but Hilary, the annoying idiot is like Audrey (the other sister) and her boyfriend Tom can't get engaged until I say so, how stupid is that? She's not the boss and can't tell them what to do, Audrey and Tom are pretty serious and it's possible they may get married if they want to, it's their decision not Hilary's. Can somebody help? |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 12:20 PM PDT My mom has been getting tired and has been getting sick more than usual for the past few months and she seems to be getting tired faster and gets mad faster too. She got her blood taken and checked a couple months ago. And my dad asked me and my sisters if we would like to have a baby brother or sister. My mom once just randomly said "what if I was pragnant" and my sister said then your stomach would be hard and she just laughed. My parents also bought a new car with 8 seats instead of 7(I only have 7 people in my family)and when I asked why we got a car they just said we needed a new one. When I told her there is a middle seat in the 2nd row she said yeah you could put a carseat there(and nobody in my family sits in carseats anymore). And I saw pragnace tests in her bathroom a few months ago(the box has two but one of them were gone). And my mom is 42 and my dad is 38. I don't know if she's be pragnant or not. I really hope she is though because I really want a baby brother or sister. |
| Question: What to do about a cocky little brother? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:07 PM PDT I have a brother whos eight, but acts like he's ******* top of the food chain. He calls me a whore, even though im a guy, and hits my mother and father. My parents arent raising him right. He goes around, acting so cocky, but if someone says something to him, or talks bad back, he starts to cry, and mom and dad punish me. He sings and makes noise on purpose, as he knows it makes me angry. my big brother is encouraging my lil brother to bullying me, he laughs of my lil bro's terrible burns and jokes about me. My lil bro does all sorts of sexual stuff, like humping me, taking out his dick and says i have to suck it, but when i tell my parents they say i lie. He pisses me off so much i sometimes beat him up, i just cant ******* handle it anymore. He made the whole ******* school sing songs about me, calling me "Da Whore" and laughing of me. My parents wont make him stop, they think its MY fault. my brother cries, and then he gets what he want. He watches shows like south park, family guy, and plays ******* call of duty and assassins creed. When i was 8, my parents were VERY strict, with him... not at ******* all! I wish my brother respected me, but he doesnt. I sometimes cry because of what everyone is calling me at school, but nobody will listen. My brother says he can beat me up, challenging me to fights, and when i win, he cries to mom and dad, and my parents punish me. I need help about this shithead brother, as i do not feel any love for him at ALL. This is all okay answers, but i've tried hitting him and fighting him, but he just laughs and cries to my parents... if i do ANYTHING back, no matter what he has done to me, i get punished, so i cant do anything physical to him, more something he wont notice until its to late... |
| Question: Do my parents like my brother more then me? Posted: 28 May 2015 12:04 PM PDT So recently I've been thinking my parents really do care more about my brother more then me. It makes me really upset cause he is really mean to me and still gets everything he wants. My parents buy him over 1,000 dollars in concert tickets and hotel rooms. I've always wanted to go to Christian\Catholic school but they freak out and tell me no Every time I ask. Whenever I ask it's no when he asks it's yes. What do I do? Do they like him more? I still love them, but I just feel like they care more about me then him. |
| Question: How to toughen up a bitching brother? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:56 AM PDT Look, im 14 and my brother is ten. We used to be close, but now we dont hang out more because he's such a pussy. He cries everyday because he gets bullied at school, which isnt true, and he makes excuses to be home from school and watch TV. By "bullied" he means he cant handle people talking a lil hard to him, but thats how guys ARE, me and my friends talk **** to each other, but we're still close like brothers, but my brother cant understand this. After 2 years of being home nearly EVERY day, my mom has started falling for his lies. He says he's sick, that he has no friends, and my mom lets him be home. If hes at school, he comes home crying, like every ******* day, saying he has no friends, but immediatly after mom has cheered him up , he runs to his friend who lives close by, and plays video games and doesnt come home before 22:30 in the night. He makes bad excuses to be home, and i get detention at school, because mom cant drive me, because we're waiting for my brother who is "throwing up" in the bathroom, making me late. We've checked, and he really isnt bullied. Its just he cant handle what dad calls "Guy's Talk". My father takes my brother to karate classes, to toughen him up a bit, which has made my brother worse, because now he starts having anger issues, and hits me. He once attacked me after school, and since people were watching, i didnt do any resistance, so he managed to almost brake my left arm, making it useless for 4 days. Im scared to be around my brother now, as him being a total ******* lunatic with mood issues and the ability to do karate scares me. I tell my dad to make my brother stop karate, but my dad says im just "jealous." Need help |
| Question: How to leave my family? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:50 AM PDT There's so much going on right now there's not enough characters available to go into too much detail. Basically I'm 13 my parents are divorced and they're both terrible people. My dad used to beat me and my siblings when we were young, that stopped when he moved out a year ago. My mom has recently been dating guys she meets online and I hate it. It's not the fact that I don't want my mom to date it's just the men. The first one was ok I never officially met him but her new one is terrible. The first day we met he came over and had sex with my mom which is traumatic. He's been coming over every day for like 2 weeks, swears way too much (I hate swearing) he's made me cry twice already and have 2 anxiety attacks. Both of my siblings are at college so they don't know anything about what's going on. I keep telling my mom I'm uncomfortable around him but she doesn't care. and every time he's over she forgets to feed me ( I know I'm old enough to take care of myself but still) she's especially rude when he's over, ignores me for him, etc. he's too controlling over my mom and over me. We don't have a lot of money but she spends her paycheck on him- she hasn't even paid the bills. He makes a huge mess every time he's over and I have to clean it up. She tried making me clean his mess and said if I didn't shed take my phone which she already cut off the line so I can't tell my dad to come get me. I dont want to stay with either of my parents I honestly just feel depressed about my life |
| Question: Should my daughter visit her mom in jail? is there any benefit to visiting? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:48 AM PDT my wife will soon be entering county jail for seven months for a money crime. . I am willing to stick by her and not leave her because I feel She made some stupid mistakes but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions. And I am not defending her or saying she should not serve her punishment. I told my kids she is rightfully serving her punishment which is the right thing for her mistakes. I am wondering what is the best way to prepare for this situation and how to handle it. I have a daughter who is 15 and she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. She later joked about how her mother is "getting ordered around now". I think it is just a joke and I think it is better to be that way instead of being hysterical about it . I was originally not going to let her visit her mom in jail because I would think exposing her to that environment is not a good idea but I am actually hearing that it is a good idea to let her visit but why? isn't it a bad idea to let a 15 year old be exposed to a jail. She could easily be intimidated by the guards and inmates and just the area. My wife says bring her if she wants to visit but don't if she doesn't. She says she doesn't have a problem visiting but I am not sure. Also I want to make sure it doesn't feel like the whole family is in jail . I am not sure what the benefit in visiting is over phone calls |
| Question: What age is too old to be living with your parents? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:47 AM PDT |
| Question: Is this still done at my age? Is it legal? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:38 AM PDT I am 15. Growing up I was spanked a couple of times as a last resort, but very rarely. It hasn't happened in years (since I was like 11 or so?). The last few days my sister and I have been bickering BIG time which is not normal, but it was getting really out of hand. Mom talked to us, took away TV & the pool, finally she grounded us from each other's rooms and said if we kept it up she'd give us a spanking. I was shocked to hear her say that, and, to be honest, didn't take her all that seriously. This morning I went in my sister's room to look for some clothes of mine. My sister came back, we started bickering, she started saying I wasn't allowed in her room, I lost my cool and shoved her. Just about then my mom appeared, livid at both of us for bickering, and me for being in my sister's room. At that point she took me to my room to "talk" to me. Little did I know she also expected to make good on her threat. She told me I'd be getting the spanking, I argued but didn't resist, she had me bend over my desk, and spanked me over my underwear with a ping pong paddle hard enough to REALLY hurt, but not hard enough to bruise or anything. It was about ten pops. Afterwards she gave me a hug, but reminded me I had a clear warning. I know I was in the wrong with my actions, so I'm not looking to feel vindicated. This just came from so far out of the blue and I just don't know anyone who gets spanked at my age that it leaves me curious: 1) Is this legal at my age? 2) Is this common? |
| Question: How much say should a step mom have in what changes are made? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:22 AM PDT I have two step kids and they love me as I do them. They are 8 and 12 and they're mom is not very involved. They see her about 3 times a week and don't really like going over there so they stay with us most of the time. Their dad is a good dad but I have been noticing some things that I think should change (such as them not doing chores and spending too much time on video games etc...) and have mentioned it. My husband thinks I have good ideas but is not that great as enforcing it, am I overstepping boundaries by reminding them to clean up, keep their hygeine up, get off the computer and things like that? Am I the evil stepmother making them do things I think they need to grow up to be good men? |
| Question: My mom tells lies about me? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:21 AM PDT She tells everyone that I don't have friends, that I'm shy and afraid to speak to girls, yet she KNOWS I did go out with girls and that I DO go out with friends even though not so often....well maybe she would like me to be outside 24/7??? |
| Question: Can someone put things on my grandpas grave I don't want? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:08 AM PDT My dads ex wife who we do not like keeps putting things on my grandfathers grave that are unwanted, despite trying to tell her not to she keeps doing this, and it is distressing my father. Is there anything we can do about this?? |
| Question: Why would my Dad think he can control me at 20 ? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:03 AM PDT I met my dad for the first time when I was 15, that's when I first moved to america in 09. during my time living with him and his son and his wife I've got treated really bad, I would have to walk to and from school everyday no matter the weather, my school is a 35 min walk and I live onto a hill. I never got money to buy lunch in school and when he did grocery shopping he would hide some of the food in his room. I've never asked him for nothing. so fast forward 4 yrs later and my HS graduation is here and neither him or his wife came to my graduation. my mom who lives in PA came to it. I live in NJ so yeah he never came or I didn't even got a congrats for finishing HS or nothing. we don't speak at all anything he has to tell me he calls his sister and let her tell me, so I took a yr off from school and worked an stuff and now I'm starting CC in September and he bought me a 1999 Toyota to get to an from school, I said thank you a&what knot, when I had a job I use to walk an Hour and 30 to my work everyday and now I got a closer job and it's literally 5 mins from my house. I had to close my bank account cause during the winter I couldn't walk to work due to snow and I had to leave. and now that I got a next job and what knot I have to open another account and he's telling me to open one with chase and he'll carry me and stuff but he has to be my primary and so on, I said no and I'll open one with a credit union cause they are better, so I went onto doing it and now he's angry I really don't care much for him because while I was growing up my uncle was my dad, my dad side of the family is really F^ .after I'm done with my 2 yrs at the CC im moving to FL and finish my other 2 yrs and i'm going to live out there cause that's where I would like to live and work Im going to be doing computer IT.I can't go live with my mom because she is already been through enough, she helps me out and sends me money now and then. she told me everything my dad did, can't wait to leave |
| Question: I am treated like a child EVERYWHERE I GO!? Posted: 28 May 2015 11:00 AM PDT I'm always treated like a child everywhere. I'm also 13 years old. For example, at school, I go to a K-8 school, and we still have assemblies, recess, and have learning programs that that are mostly child-themed (like Dreambox, Typing Agent) I'm also treated like a child by my parents. My parents won't let me have a cell phone or social media, go out outside my own street in the neighbourhood, use the computer unsupervised, check up on me when I'm in a PUBLIC BATHROOM (It's really embarrassing), and are basically overprotective. Also, at the track club I run at, I'm more of a slower runner, so I'm always put with annoying little kids that are the same speed as me. And I'm like, WTAF. I'm ALWAYS treated like a child no matter what. Like, I WANT to grow up and be mature, and I am always TRYING, but for some reason, life won't allow it, and I'm always pushed back down. No wonder why everyone wonders why I'm so immature and irresponsible. And I'm always judged for it, and that's why I want to grow up. I cannot take it anymore!!! WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?!? If life won't allow me to grow up and be mature then I feel like ending mine. I don't know why it won't let me grow up when I want it to. |
| Question: How can i get attention from my mom? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:35 AM PDT Im a 17 years old female .. I live with my mom and two elder brothers (20 - 19) .. The eldest one always say bad things baout me .. He says that im a pig , lesbian , boy , witch and he even called me a ***** .. I cant do anything except to cry because hes just stong to hit and he hits me if i said anything to him .. And when i cry and tell mom all she says is " why ur crying now he alteady left " or " you know he is like that then why you feel bad and just stay in your room " .. Thats it .. Ive been living like this since i was young i had no one to talk with .. No one to share my feelings with , i just need my mom attention .. I need her to hug me .. But i tried everything and nothing worked .. Please help me . Because i feel lost and im really tired .. Please give me advice Sorry if wrote any wrong spelling because i just couldn't concentrate |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 10:28 AM PDT So I just found out that my cousin( in law) has another cousin. But they're not blood related and my cousins mom is not related to the other ones mom. So would this make me and the other cousin cousins or no. |
| Question: Long as the boys take my side from a four to a high five? Posted: 28 May 2015 10:16 AM PDT |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 10:06 AM PDT So I just found out that one of my cousins( cousins in law) has another cousin.( not blood related) but my cousins mom is sisters with the other cousins mom. So would this make me in any way cousins with my cousin's cousin?? |
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| Question: My host mother from Scotland is acting like a witch from a fairy tale. What should I do? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:39 AM PDT I am going to school in Scotland and I am 15 years old girl. My parents sent me to live with a host family in Edinburgh. The father is nice but the mother is not. She is 29 and she dresses like she is from the 1800's. Her clothes are quite pretty. My host mother is named Regina. She is also quite pretty. She has green eyes and nut brown hair, and thin features. What really bothered me when I came was she had long red fingernails. and blood red lips. She always wears lipstick. She has strict punishments for me. She sometimes grabs me and takes me to a room called the naughty room. I don't do anything wrong except cry and say I don't like your punishments. I sometimes get angry and talk back because she ticks me off so much. She also says, "Come here and put out your hand." I put my hand out and she cracks me with a wooden school ruler. She also never hugs or shows me any love. Her husband does not stand up for me. He thinks her behavior is justified. Does she dress like this to scare me? (long red fingernails) and can you help me? I am miserable. How can I cope after she gives me these awe full punishments? Just give me reasonable comments NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE!!!!! THIS IS ALL TRUE. IT IS NOT MADE UP!!! |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 09:31 AM PDT Hi brother man I was wundering iff maybe you is my bro or my cousin...witch one |
| Question: When did you move out of your parents house? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:31 AM PDT |
| Question: I feel like I'm in a life crisis and don't know where to move ..... HELP PLEASE 😿😪😭? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:29 AM PDT I'm going to try to make this short. I'm going to be 20 next month. 2 months ago I moved to Florida from Long Island to live with my dad and thought it would be better for me In Long Island cu I was sinking ... I haven't had the best life there. Now ,that I'm in Florida .... I pretty much stay home all day. I DO plan on getting a job and going to school for something. Right now it's kinda hard I don't have my license yet,my dad works a lot hates his job but does plan on selling the house and going SOmehwere else where he would make more money so I'm just kinda sitting still...... Now ,my mom wants me to come back. I'm hesitant .... A part of me is missing Long Island and some parts I appreciate it in some werid ways? I miss my aunts and going to places with my mom and stuff like that. Even though I complained about it and hated it..... And plussssss when I work ,I have no money cuz I'm like paying for Everything and some of my moms bills and such.... I don't know what to do ?!?! Here if I work my money is my money ..... :/ ugh BUT now I'm seeing how in some ways Long Island is good and I knew people and had family ..... I feel more alone then ever. Now the only thing is I adopted 2 cats here in Florida and I can't leave them here |
| Question: How can i get rid of her? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:19 AM PDT So, there is a little slut who sucked 7miles of *****, she is my age, little witch i hate her badly. But unfortunately she is working with my own father now. In our firm , i want to short everything so my father is old and he needs her because am an ignorant douchebag sometimes am to lazy to work just until now. And that litle witch is provoking me non stop, she is interfering in my life , telling lies about me everywhere, she she is horny , and i dont want to **** her because she is ugly and a ******* slut i hate her.Trust me ! I need to get rid of her one way or another, i dont take kredit from a slut. On the other side i feel so sorry for my father he needs her, but still i can easy raplace her. If it trow her out now , she is going to spread lies in town about me.. And i dont know what else she would do , so i trough about threatening she, or her parents. I dont care |
| Question: What if my mom leaves my sister to do 'motherly' things around the house? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:16 AM PDT My mom works and so does my step dad, my mom works with a retirement home and my step dad is a mechanic. I know they both have hard working jobs and everything but when my older sister wasn't living with us at the time. My mom would always leave me and my brother home and tell us they are "going to get groceries" or "going to the store" but when they come back they literally have no groceries they just go in there room and lay down. Me and my brother don't eat for the night. She always yells at us that there is supposivilely food in the house but there isn't she thinks tomato sauce and a whole bunch of cans of stuff is food.. my sister moved in and I get a long way better with her and I than me and my mother. Well my sister cooks for the whole house now and my mom gets mad when she sees I'm spending to much time with my sister because my sister leads me in the direction to go. I was wondering if my mom can sign me over in my sisters custody (my father passed in 2013 so he isn't in the picture anymore:/) is that possible for me to live with my sister? I'm 15 and I don't like living in a house of yelling and neglect. My brother is 17 and may be moving out soon. My sister is leaving with her husband and kid to so it just leaves me.But if I call child support services my mom goes crazy on cooking and cleaning so they will think I'm a liar she did it to my sister when she was about my age.. I honestly have no other way to turn so if anyone can help me it would be glad appreciated |
| Question: What is wrong with my father? Posted: 28 May 2015 09:06 AM PDT So this morning I was driving to school with my dad and brother and me and my dad were kinda debating about something about feminism and then my brother jumped in saying "feminism is stupid" and i told him to shut up and he like lunged at my and tried to choke me so In the heat of the moment i told him to **** off and my dad pulled him off me and started yelling at both of us and said to him "you dont put your hands on your sister" or whatever he said then we dropped my brother off at school and it was just us and he started yelling at me for using a swear word and said "i dont care what situation your in, you don't use cuss words" and started ranting row cursing is trashy and for idiots and makes women look trashy and ugly no matter how pretty they are. and then i said to him that my brother probably curses and he was like "i should throw you out the window for an answer like that" and started screaming some more about how "they didnt raise me like that" and I dunno I'm 16...I just thought he was overreacting |
| Question: My mom left the U.S. for an affair? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:32 AM PDT My mom is still married to my dad. Growing up, my dad has been a functioning, but SCARY alcoholic. Raging anger, throwing things, very mentally abusive to my mom. Been so drunk he has peed on things. Even peed on suitcases while on vacation. My mom tried so hard to get him to treatment. My mom has always kept these things secret between us. My mom and I are incredibly close. We live in a nice home and you'd never guess anything was seriously wrong. Last January, my dad did something terrible to my mom. So terrible, she began talking to a man from the U.K. whom she met through the internet. Overtime, they grew close. They've talked for hours on Facetime and he makes her so happy. I've never seen my mom so happy. My dad caught my mom Facetiming this man. My mom told my dad she doesn't love him anymore/wants divorce and he is crushed and furious. Has all his sisters mad at my mom. Dad says he can spy on my mom and read all her messages if she is on our Wi-Fi. Threatened to show messages to all our family. He doesn't realize my mom began the affair because of the way he has treated her in the past... My mom just packed her bags and left to meet this man. I'm the only one in my family who knows. I feel so sad, guilty, stressed, and burdened. One side of me wanted my mom to go & have relief because she felt she was in danger because of my dad. But the other side of me feels terrible for not telling my dad because that is his wife. :( I don't know what to do. I need an answer. |
| Question: As an adult does my father have the right to lock me out of my room? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:28 AM PDT My dad has always been verbally abusive to me. Lately because of my unwillingness to exercise the way he wants me to he has decided to put a lock on my room and keep my personal possessions away from me. I am 20 years old and I feel like I'm being treated like a child. Any advice would be helpful. |
| Question: Whats your idea of a dark secret? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:12 AM PDT My brothers brother asked me what my dark secrets were. Me and my brother have the same dad, different moms. |
| Question: How do you let your parent back into your life when they haven't been there? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:07 AM PDT I'm a 16 year old boy my parents had me when they where 17 years old. My mom was addicted to drugs at a very young age and never really wanted me and my father was young he was a good basketball player ,was supposed to go off to college to play but was injured he thought a baby would ruin his future .he also didn't have a good home enviroment either. So neither of parents where in the position to be parents so after I was born my parents gave me grandmother ( my moms mother) custody of me. My dad was in my life off and on mostly giving my grandmom money ( we lived in what was basically the projects ) and sending letters. My mom was never there she was always drugged out when she came to visit. Anways my dad and mom got married had another kid my dad walked out on them but was still in my brothers life more than mine. A few months ago my grandmother passed away and since my mom lost custody of my brother ( who also lives with my dad now ) I am still to young to live on my own so I moved in with my dad and his wife and there kids. My dad travels for work and he has made a great life for his family. I have been trying to better our relationship and so has he but it just hasn't been working. We always end up arguing. I just can't seem to let go of that abondment feeling I don't know how to let it go ? Some advice please ?? |
| Question: Pissed off, need some help.? Posted: 28 May 2015 08:06 AM PDT Right, long story short, I have 2 exams left. Yes, this is one of those questions or whatever. I have been glued to my books and screen of my computer revising since Christmas for these exams, but ohhh no. My mum still has something to be mad about. She walks dogs in the morning, and gets back around 12:30 midday expecting to find me revising which I am, but that doesnt stop her foul, awful mood. She complains I spend too much time laying back and slacking, when clearly having ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE what the reality of the situation is. When Im home alone, getting along at my own pace, Im happy, content and have manageable stress levels. As soon as I hear the door and the dog run in, say goodbye to all of that. Today was all I can take, I was on a 20 minute lunch break, a break that used to be an hour but has morphed into 15-20 minutes by her to maximize study when she walked in to find me talking to all my friends on skype that finished their exams weeks and weeks ago. Im not kidding, I am one of the last of my friends to finish, each of them have had at least 2 weeks since the last one of theirs... Anyways, she flipped, telling me Im not taking it seriously and when my dad gets home -he works overseas- hes going to blow his lid in rage. She then rips the headphones off my head, now fully breaking a cracked ear piece as they hit the ground, demanding for my car keys. She finds and says thats it, shes taking my car off me. Seriously? Im just in awe of how ignorant she can - Ran out of room, added this. - be. Before anyone says "Talk to her, see how she feels" I have tried. Many many many times. As soon as I say something that really backs me up or has sense, she dismisses it, insisting "We're not arguing!" I dont even know why Im taking the exams, I dont need or want them. Im at the end of my rope and CANNOT WAIT FOR THESE SHITTING EXAMS TO BE OVER AND DONE WITH. |
| Question: My dad tries to control my every move? Posted: 28 May 2015 07:59 AM PDT last night he made desert. My friend was over and asked if We wanted any and we said yes. He grabbed a bowl to eat out of and I can be very ocd when it comes to eating out of things so I chose to get a plate. He said you will do better eating out of a bowl , I said ok. Then he said it again. And he refused to give me anything until I got a bowl to eat out of. So I out the plate up and didn't get anything at all. He flipped out and he said come in here and get desert and I said I didn't want any and he was yelling trying to force me to eat it after I refused to have anymore. Is this normal behavior for a parent or is he just trying to control my every move. |
| Question: What did i do that was so wrong? Posted: 28 May 2015 07:51 AM PDT This morning my "step-dad" came in my room asking me to take him a picture while i was sleeping and he did this MORE THAN ONCE BEFORE. So i told him let me sleep in the nicest way. And he got SUPER MAD and my grandma start telling how I'm trash and how i will never be anything in life and that;s why my life is heading in the wrong path because i wouldn't take his picture. He stormed out the room and told my grandma **** you because she was calling him back in the room to take his picture on MY PHONE. And every time his he takes it out on my grandma so she take it out on MOSTLY me and sometimes my sister. She keeps saying that it's because I'm not her real parent that's why i treat them that way. Over a ******* picture , wow |
| Posted: 28 May 2015 07:33 AM PDT What is the hardest thing, you've had to face in your life? Before you read any further I'd like to say, I'm not looking for sympathy nor am I trying to say I've had a harder life than anyone else. I only want to share my story. I grew up in a trailer. It had two bedrooms where I shared a bedroom with my older brother. Which wasn't to bad, I had a roof over my head. We later moved out of the trailer, and lived with my grandparents. For they needed assistance living around the house. (My grandmother had a stroke and cannot move her arms or legs, and my grandfather is a double amputee doubled with partial blindness in both eyes.) Their house was flooded during Hurricane Isaac. Then caught on fire due to my grandfathers electric wheelchair being left on during the flood. We lost everything we owned, including a little blue bag. (The blue bag, held a photo of my dead brother Christopher. I never got to see it or any of his information. He had died before I was born and there was only one photo of him.) My grandparents were then forced to go to a nursing home, as we found a new home. I now live in a rented house, my mother is disabled after a car crash years ago. My father, is a middle school dropout which means he's unable to get a well paying job. He instead works in a field planting crops. He's also an alcoholic. And myself? I'm currently studying Psychology, which I hope to use to help people. My other brother, has yet to decide his career path. |
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