so today i kinda got in trouble at school and i think the school call my dad. Im a sophomore in highschool and my parents is asian... ( i probably got hit lol) What can i do? Plz help

I was sitting on the computer with my phone in my lap charging i wasnt touching it. And she told me to do my school work and get off my phone and took it. Is it just me or is this bullshit.

Well we were playing Minecraft together as he asked me many times to do so. He then started to get annoying as he kept threatening to ruin my things in the game, as I raised my voice I asked him to "please stop". He then started to point at me with his finger as though he was threatening me and before even thinking I wanted to push his hand away but also applied a squeeze in front my parents which got him to cry. My dad called me a "whackjob" and "dangerous "and told me to get out of his sight. So now I have embarrassed myself, this didn't have to happen if only my little brother had to go to bed earlier. I have no idea how to fix up for this one mistake. I took hours of my time with him only to end up making a mistake. I could have spent the rest of my time doing my work. But now I have to sort this problem out, I lost tolerance too quick and considering that I'm 18 and my little brother is 6 this is going to be difficult fixing up now.

We are in Manchester for the Bank holiday weekend and I had a lovely Chicken curry for lunch but for the last 2 hours i have been sitting on the loo in our lovely hotel doing poos nearly nonstop.my bum is raw from wiping it and ive already had an accident in my Pjs Help its ruining my sexy weekend with himself

I'm 17 and my 16 year old sister says she is tired of me. I cheated on her best friend and got caught high by her twice. She gave me an ultimatum today that I either immediately stop doing drugs and treat girls right or she will tell mom about everything. I can't just stop and I've tried telling her this but everytime I do she yells for my mom. It's stressing me out so bad my mom would be beyond upset with me if she found out I do drugs and treat women like ****. My sister says I have till the end of the day to change and that if I don't prove it to her my life will be a living hell. You can't just treat women right and quit drugs in a day. My sister has put up with my **** for awhile and I guess she can't take it anymore. I haven't been a good brother at all. Please any help is appreciated immensely. How do I do this before the end of the day????

EVERY SINGLE DAY when I'm getting my ID checked to leave school the guy makes some comment about how I look dead or asleep or bored or whatever. I know hes just get bored out there but really it's not necessary I hear that a million times a day already. I make it very obvious that I don't think it's funny and it makes me dread having to get my ID checked every day. So today he made his usual comment and my dad said I'm not driving away until you smile for him! and they both laughed at me. My dad always plays along with him and I told him how much I hate it. So today I said if he does that again I'm going to find someone else to give me a ride home. And he got mad at me!! saying my life is going to be difficult if I always get offended so easily. I'm not getting offended I'm just standing up for myself after I've asked you multiple times to stop doing that!! I don't think I'm overreacting

My bosses mother in law passed away. Should I go to the wake? I have worked with him a little over a year. Not sure what I should do.

Okay so my cousin always gets mad when I get something new rather it be clothes, makeup, or other stuff and I don't know why. I pay everything with my own money and I don't rub anything in her face everrrr because it's rude. So recently we were shopping and I needed to get clothes for my trip and and I was on a hunt for a romper, she told me she didn't like romper a before because she thinks she looks bad in them. I told her that I wanted 2 specific romper a from H&M and I even showed her pictures. We didn't end up going to H&M because of the time, but I wasn't upset because I still had time to shop. But about 4 days later her mom(my aunt) was off work and they went to the mall. She went into h&m and took pictures of her in the two rompers in the dressing room, she was like does this look good? I was like wtf, I didn't answer back she then sensed me another picture of her with the bag with the two items in their. And if just pisses me off if you look at her closet compared to mine it's literally the same ! When I get something new my mom even says " don't show Jessica because she's gonna get mad " but she ends up seeing it anyways because she's nosy. This has been going on for so long and I don't say anything about it. Should I?

I have two daughters (8 and 12). My 12 year old has a phone and is very resposible. She cleans her room, does chores around the house with out me even asking, she is very good with her sister. Say if i got to the store or have an doctors appointment, and im gone for about two hours. Would it be safe to leave her alone with my 8 year old? Thank you.

I am moving out on my 18th birthday, and my mom will allow that. My mom has gained me stress and anxiety, and I turn 18 in October. What do I expect? I know I'll be living in an apartment *rent*

23 (female) no friends, no love life or anything. I am dealing with a strong degree of emotional abuse from family this has been day 1.... I've been trying to leave but I end up back here because I have no where to go... No way to get a job, no way to do anything. I haven't had any human touch in years.... my family want me to stay like this so they can keep doing it. There's no physical abuse... but it is extreme emotional abuse and control. What can i do? I have a work from home job that I am waiting to hear back from... I'm praying i get the job... but that doesn't start until Mid July. What can I do??? I will need a home or a space by Mid July to start my work from home so I can save up and move out of state. This is torture. I'm stuck inside a room all day... they don't lock me up, but if I go in the living room they will insult me. I'm pretty, and have a good personality... but according to my family I can't be love and I'm not loveable. What do I do?

My life is really awful. My parents are divorced and I'll always get into constant fights with both my mum and dad and I'm so sick of being the one who gets hurt. I once was beating myself because I knew something was my fault and it got out of hand and my mum just stood there and heard the phone so my dad could hear. I'm so sick of being stuck I. The middle of fights. Right now I've locked myself away in my bathroom and thinking about all the bad memories and constant fighting has made me so stressed and I have no one to talk to and I'm so alone. Pls Someone give me some advice cause I'm sick of being a worthless 13 year old girl

My mom passed away 3 1/2 years ago from getting hit by a car. I was 22 and she was 44. I know people need to move on but I need her! I don't have a father either. I have one sister but she works too much to see me, I have one brother but he lives out of state with no phone. I have aunts, uncles, cousins and a grandma but it's not the same as having a mom. I have in laws but that makes it worse for me because they're mean to me. I only have 2 friends and they're a lot older than me. No one ever comes to see me. My husband works so much and never wants to do anything. I'm so lonely and sad. I wish I had my mom. I'm sorry I just felt like venting to strangers who probably don't care.

Okay I'll try to make this as short as possible, so here goes... I'm a 22-y/o girl and I'm honestly so baffled right now. I felt like life was perfect last year; everything was going my way... heck, I was even enjoying life. Like, truly enjoying it. I was living in the moment at the time and it felt good. Now, ever since 2015 came along, it's like whoever runs this world decided that I've had it nice for far too long now and that I need to be reminded that life sucks sometimes as well. In short, my rabbit (whom I love dearly) went missing and I'm starting to suspect my stepsister has something to do with it, but there's no way I can confront her now because my stepmom just up and abandoned me and my dad and took my stepsiblings with her. I feel betrayed by all of them and it makes me so, so mad. After all this, my dad also had a stroke (which doesn't help matters at all) which mean he's not allowed to drive for another few months, my teacher whom I have a crush on turned me down, and I just graduated from the art school I've been going to every day for 2 years now, and it feels horrible to be separated from that environment and all the people I've gotten to know. Everything's just so unfair and while I try to think that things'll be alright one day, I can't see how? My life as I knew it a few months ago is destroyed. All I want is to go back in time and fix everything that went wrong and I just feel so hopeless about everything... I can't deal with this. It's so unfair.

I got my permit on December 26,2014, and to this day I havent even touched the steering wheel. I dont wanna drive because all my friends are doing it or whatever, but because i want to get it over with. I'm going to be a senior in high school in the fall, and im gonna be concerned with college and the AP classes i'm taking. I just want to get it over with now you know? My mom died last year, and when my older brother was learning to drive all she did was yell and say "YOU NEED TO DRIVE" you know

They say once you've made your decision to look forward, do not look back. But when I do look back I had almost everything. (This is not a relationship) Should I go back or look for something new - when things are not going anywhere.

About every 3 months my family takes a weekend to either vegas, Indio, oceanside, etc. To these fancy resorts I really did enjoy going to. I am young, 15 and always enjoyed going. Ever since getting my service dog from an organization for my ptsd and seizure disorder, they really leave me out of a lot of things now. Parties, vacations, because they don't want my service dog, Riker, going. I was really looking foward to see if they would let me go to Vegas this one time for my cousins birthday. They said no because Riker would be in the way. Riker is a goldendoodle we got from Canine Support Teams that has been trained for 2 years to help me with my PTSD and seizure disorder. He is able to get help if I have a seizure, and able to alert to PTSD episodes and wake me from nightmares and a lot more. He has given me my independence back and it is hard when your family won't even let you do anything with them anymore. They always leave me home. Any help?

So one of my friend posted this pic of me and this guy. I was asking my friend if i look better than him... But she screenshot it and post it on twitter . Now i get in trouble 4 harassment , do u think it fair?

I'm 24 year old 6th grade teacher. In the summer, my parents have me nanny my 8 yr-old twin & 12 yr old twin brothers full time in the summer. I adore those boys, but my teenage brother drives my insane! He tries to tell me HOW to drive, and that just makes me a nervous wreck all the time. He's constantly telling me I'm not strict enough or how I should respond to my brothers. things... and I DO! That's most commonly seen our 12 year old brothers have major focus issues, and is very easily distracted. I have found things that work, but apparently in the eyes of my sixteen year old brother that's not correct! The most frustrating? I also watch 12 month old cousin at our house, twice a week. My brother will wake up in the middle of the afternoon and instantly start complaining that the kitchen is cluttered and that I need to put my things away! SERIOUSLY? I had them do their chores, & cleaned the kitchen with their help. But I've been doing activities with twins too. They JUST finished a craft. They tidied the materials up but I just haven't got the chance to put it in my room year because I've been taking care of a high-maintenance baby! He hates any messy crafts or experiments even though he doesn't have to clean them up. Our mom works from and and sometimes our dad comes home for a bit. They know how I handle these things and they never say anything so it drives me insane that I have a teenager trying to do so! For people who are pointing out my spelling and grammar, this is yahoo answers. I type fast on here and don't pay attention to spelling and grammar. I'm not teaching people on here. I'm asking for advice pertaining to my question. So please don't point that out because it has NOTHING to do with the question. Second - I do stay calm on the outside when my brother acts this way. Sometimes I flat out have to tell him I'm the adult and I'm in charge. Nonetheless it's still a daily issue with him.

so I have the baby daddy that is not a good father at all but he wont sign the the baby away cause he wants me stuck.He signed the parent of parnity but the birth certificate is wrong is there anyway i can put someone else as i correct it.

The one person who I can actually say I give a **** about is working all the time because he wants to make a better life for us. I sit in a trashed trailer that no matter how many times or how well I clean it my mom comes in & messes it up then blames me for it. My mom is an addict and habitual liar with extreme anxiety & self abuse issues & when I say self abuse I don't mean cutting I mean she does **** like break her own bones & stab her eye & claw at her face & continually hit herself I've been around it to the point it only annoys me more that she does it & when she realizes that it now annoys me she does it twice as much then goes between pity party and guilt trip & this for the 3-6hrs that she's not out on a drug benge I can't sleep because she never shuts up & never quits crying & she doesn't seem to ever sleep & is constantly bitching & complaining about everything but if I complain about one thing or bring up that she lied about something she flips the **** out & the sad part is I have such bad abandonment issues that I'd almost be able to handle all that **** just to have someone to talk to but she won't ever let me get in a word because she's too afraid of what I might have to say which she always assumes is worse than what it really is anyway I'm 18 I have no job no way to get a job since mom & my aunt stole about $11,000 from me which was really my one shot at having a life. It's summer I just wanna go out & do something fun. I hate my fu cking life.

So this year was officially the worst birthday of my life. I was in school and hung out with friends but I skipped a class just because it was my birthday! I don't do that very often anymore although I was ditching school last year because I was a depressed suicidal wreck and I just couldn't bear walking out of the house. I'm okay now, depression free and I know my priorities in life. But my parents found out about missing that one class and went furious! They called me things and yelled at me for so god damn long and I felt worthless at the end and spent the rest of my day in my room crying. How can you be such an asshole to ruin someone's birthday, something that happens only once a year? This makes me really sad.

My sister is 16 (about to turn 17) and I just turned 19. She has an issue with taking things from EVERYBODY. I got my navel pierced over the summer and got a really nice ring to switch mine to once the piercing heals. She was there when I was showing the ring to my mom and 3 days later, it was gone. She doesn't even have her navel pierced and denies taking it, but I know it wasn't my mom or step-dad. She constantly steals my clothes and underwear (I bought her some new underwear hoping it would stop, but no). I've had money go missing as well as other jewelry. She steals clothes, underwear, jewelry (including heirloom pieces), and money from my mom. From my step-dad it's clothes, money, and tools. We have locks on our bedroom doors, but stuff keeps going missing from the locked rooms. We change the locks, but it still happens and we don't know how she keeps getting in. Any time we confront her, she completely denies it. If we find something in her room, she freaks out saying we had no right to go in her room. When asked why she took whatever object we found, she says she doesn't know, gets an attitude, and storms into her room. What can we do? It gets really old after a while.

Hi I really want to see my sisters pussy any help would be good I'm 13 and I have never seen it before and I want to know what it looks like

My sister just had a baby. Ever since she has had this baby, everytime another little baby or kid comes around she will say "Oh my goodness! Can't stand the cuteness! Oh my god I just love it." She never talked this way when she was in her teenage or college years. It only happened once she had a child. Thoughts?

My husband's son just informed us that he is getting married. He is marrying his 1st cousin. It is legal in this state and he's having a wedding, reception and all the trimmings. I know weddings are supposed to be celebrations but not many of us are feeling it. Have any of you dealt with this issue before?

, I'm not gonna lie to you guys. I'm not the best child. I always get in trouble for doing stupid things and don't get good grades and things I prefer not to talk about. You see, Due to the fact , I keep failing Math with 60s , I can't go to my Semiformal Dance which is today so I got mad and I got into a arguement with my mother leading to me yelling and stuff. This caused my mom to snap and she sent me to my room. Later , she told me to "go and you can go to new york with your father." That's when I started crying because I didn't mean to go that far. I love my mom and I'm truly sorry for what I've done now and the past but she doesn't believe. You probably over this one thing that sending me away is stupid but if you saw what I've done in the past , you would understand why she is doing this. I refused to pack my bags and she called my father and told him what happened. She then said he wanted to talk to me. I was barely able to talk.. I didn't want to go. I didn't want to leave my mom. II pleaded for him not to make me go so he gave me one more chance Next day , she didn't sent me to school because I literally was crying the whole night and my eyes were puffy and I barely got sleep. As Hours passed, IShe gave me my stuff back. My Phone and etc. She said she was done with me , she didn't care. She and my stepdad didn't care whether I wanted to pass or behave anymore. .I'm only 13 and I think my parents are done with me. They probably hate me now. Even my brother. Look , This has nothing to do with my parents being Divorce. I'm perfectly fine. I have a stepdad. Also , I see my biological dad often so please don't think this bothers me. Another thing. My mother is a good parent

I'm pretty sure he's a narcissist... Some days he just gets in these moods and I try to leave him alone but he looks for a fight. I don't know what to do... I'm always nice to him like all the time, and when he gets like this I try to leave him alone but he still takes all of his **** out on me. He makes really cheap personal shots at me and I'm literally nothing but nice to him because I don't think he likes me and he's always been really preoccupied with my sister. What do I do? I can't ignore him... I don't want to be nice to him and submissive when he is yelling at me and making me feel guilty/bad about myself but if I argue with him it only fuels his fire.. So what do I do?

every one in my family has blueish colored eyes except me i'm the only one who has brown eyes i feel so different. i don't understand my mom has blue eyes,my big sister has blue eyes and my little brother has blueish gray eyes and my dad's eyes look like ones blue/green and ones brown. when ever i ask my mom why i don't have blue eyes like her she says that i'm blessed to have one amber eye and on slightly darker amber eye but when ever i look in the mirror my eyes look very bland and ugly. i love my family but it makes me feel weird that i'm not the same as them I am a 17.5 year old boy and i know my mom is trying to make me feel better but i feel like i don't fit in with my full family. ps i am very close with my big sis,my mom and my little brother because i love them with all my heart and they love me the same even tho i have brown eyes.

Example: I know someone who has a 1 year old girl with someone that he had unprotected sex with twice, they were never actually in a relationship. They are in their 20s and 30s, so this isn't a teen mother situation. He wasn't there much for the mother during her pregnancy because she refused a pregnancy test during and he didn't know for sure if he was the father. Once the baby was born, however, he took a DNA test with the child and found out he was for sure the father. After that, for the next 10 months of the child's life, they had a joint parental AGREEMENT, as in he would pick the child up from the mother's house on Thursday and drop her off on Sunday. There was never anything official in writing, it was just something they agreed upon, and he did not have to pay child support for these first 10 months, but if there was anything the child needed or the mother needed for her child, he would not hesitate to get it. So for the first 10 months of this child's life, he was part of it, and helping raise her. All of a sudden, the mother does not want him in her life. There was no reason, just that she feels that he is not a good father because he doesn't have the time to take care of the child because he has a job, and is always working. Note that HE has a normal 9-5 job, weekdays only, and SHE does not have a job or a working car. They BOTH still live at home with their parents. Cont'd... The first time she blocked his texts when he asked about picking the child up, so he drove over there to see what was going on, and she refused to let him see the child, and even brought up the fact that he is not currently on the birth certificate as a way of not letting him see the child, even though he is the father and has been a father figure for a majority of a girl's life. He was told there was nothing he could do except take it to the courts and make joint custody legal, cont'd... so that if she tried to stop him from seeing his child again, he could take it up with authorities. He understands that if he does take it to the court, he will have to owe child support, but he knows that its for the daughter, since the mother has no way of providing the daughter anything since she does not have a job, and he does not want the daughter to have nothing in her life because she could not afford it. Cont'd... The child recently had to go to the emergency room and because the mother does not have a car, she had to call the father to take the child to the emergency room, this happened twice, and he was fine with it because he wants to care for the child and make sure she is healthy. She recently texted him asking if he could work on her car and get rims for her cousin, but he weighed the options there, and decided that did not have anything to do with the well being of the child, and denied cont'd... her. After she had blocked him from seeing his child, she also had the audacity to ask him to pick up some things for the child that she supposedly was never going to let him see again, like swimming diapers and baby sunscreen and regular diapers and Pedialax, etc. And since it was for the child, he did. He HAS put in the papers through the court and gave the mother a Summons, which she has not answered yet, and has till June 15th to answer. I just want to know for my peace of mind, cont'd... if he does not have a lawyer, because he talked to a few and the prices are too high, if after all of this, when neither parent has a history of abuse or violence or bad parenting, and the father WANTS to be a part of his child's life, and WAS for the first 10 months out of her first year, if even with no lawyer, would any court or judge deny his request for JOINT custody? He just wants to be a part of his kids life, doesn't want to be a dead beat Dad, and you'd think mother's would cont'd... WANT that. They live in Los Angeles, CA. Just please answer the question of if there is any way a judge would refuse JOINT custody, because that's all he wants. I know this was a lot to read but nothing online matched this situation, and I need peace of mind.

I have this family friend, we've been friends for about a year, she lost her daughter (who was my age) a couple years ago. We are very close, we hangout almost everyday along with my family, they all workout together. Sometimes I feel like I bother her because I'm her daughters same age, & her daughters not around anymore.. She's really supportive, she was at homecoming watching me get crowned, my sweet 16, she's very loving & caring to me. Always gives me hugs & compliments, helps me, she's very sweet. Although the I feel like she doesn't like me because I'm alive & her daughter isn't.. What do you think?

Okay I'm going to make this short. I moved from Long Island to Florida 2 months ago.. At the time I just broke up wth this guy who fcked my life up for 7 months and I thought going to Florida would help my mind mentally... My dad lives in an 55+ Community,barely any young people in this town no jobs nothing. He wants to move to tampa where there is life but has to sell the house first .... So I'm sitting at home 95 percent of the time... I can work and go to school but that gonna take time till I have a license and everything. NOWWWW I'm missing Long Island,my mom wants me to come back .......... I had family and people there. The only thing is my mom is dirt poor we don't always have money all the time :/ I'm going to be 20. I used to complain and hate Long Island and now I'm seek get the good and remembering the good memories ..... Even though I had ally of bad. I feel out of place here and not myself. I don't know what to do ...... Plus I adopted 2 cats down here . In Long Island I had my cousins and aunts down here there is no one.... Then a part of me think I should be here but I'm complealty alone

What can be done? I'm 17 and I saw them last night and we planne to go somewhere today. I woke up and they were gone. Moms car is gone but her phone and purse are at the house. My dads phone isn't here but he won't answer. I drove a couple places and checked and they werent there.

I cubt my knuckles punching a wall and need an excuse to my mum

Reasons to or not to get a parakeet??? I think I know most, I just want to make sure i have a firm arguement when assessing the situation with my parents.

I am 19yrs old and live with my father he doesn't let me move out and he fights and yells and finds Sth wrong with everything I do. Nothing is ever peaceful. I am a 19yr old who gets punished and isn't allowed to go out. He doesn't let me go out after midnight I can't go out with certain friends. He has to know everything I do. He controls my bank account and it's just too much I feel like a kid and I just can't take it anymore

My host mother from Edinburgh Scotland has long red fingernails and red lips. She is 29 years old. Her skin is also very pale and she kind of looks like a ghost, and a witch. She is also cruel and does not show compassion. When she punishes me she grabs me and when she grabs me I feel her long red fingernails digging in my arm. It hurts and I cry. She does not care and grabs me harder. What is the deal with the fingernails? Does she have them to hurt me? I am a 15 year old girl getting attacked by a horrible witch host mother. ;-(!!!!!. No rude comments. PLEASE!!!

My little brother is 1 year younger than me. He keeps running his hand over my breasts and pokes me there. He hits me there as well. This is not like him and very inappropriate.

I'm normally a really good kid! I made a stupid mistake, and I've never made my parents so disappointed before. I hate myself for what I did, and I don't know what to do. I'm not sure how to make my parents happy with me, and I don't know how to get myself happy with me. How can I try to forgive myself, or how can I get my parents to forgive me? Please help!

First and foremost, I am NOT looking for "Do you really want to go to law school? It's blah blah blah" answers. Thanks. Anyway, here's my short explanation: I graduated high school on the near bottom of my class, I had to go to community college for two semesters, the school I'm in now isn't really anything special, etc. I have made MANY mistakes and changes and indecisive conclusions in my schooling history. Although I turned everything around almost a year ago, I've found what I truly want to do with my life. However, I'm absolutely terrified to tell anyone I'm close to because I feel as though they'll try and be sympathetic toward me and say something like "You know I love you, but..." or they'll roll their eyes at me. How do I tell them (my mom, dad, brother, grandma, sorority sisters, etc.) what I truly want to do? Thanks.

My dad is always mean nasty and rude and I'm tired of it I'm a sweet girl buy I'm to the point where I'm tired of it. I'm very sweet and civil. He's a big bully and just nasty and immature. I'm almost honestly at a point where I want to kill him. I'm very serious. You know how people reach a breaking point and snap? I have really reached it. I really really am starting to see red. Do you think its just time for me to leave if I am getting to this point. He has pushed me to a limit where I really see why people snap. And its not even like me to snap.

When it comes to family feuding, I am like Switzerland. I am neutral and don't take sides. Since I turned 50 I won't listen to it anymore. One of my cousins and her husband are having a major blowup. Last night she called me up to start thrashing her husband. Before she could really get going I told her, "I am not going to listen to this." My cousin told me to stop being so selfish. So it is selfish to mind your own business? Really?

Whenever i clean my room and she gets angry she ruins it and when i cry she smiles and she never said sory for beating me up like a slave!!!Now im stuck at home listenig how my frends are playing in front ofy house...i didnt stop crying for 5 h!my eyes hurt...can i send her to the police?

c.. u ..n ..t She did not give me life.

There is a Taylor Swift concert that I want to go to so badly. I have loved Taylor since I was nine (I am fourteen now) and my mom kind of enjoys her. (She doesn't hate her, and she will listen to her, but I don't think she would download her songs). The concert is September 17 and the problem is that 1) it is on a Wednesday and I have school, and 2) it is in Indiana, and we live in Illinois. It is about a three hour drive to get there. How do I convince them to let me go? I could pay for the tickets. School would have just started so we would just be reviewing everything from the year before. Please help me, I really really want to go. I would be willing to go to school the day of the concert and the day after. How do I convince them to let me go even though I have school and its in another state.

She does everithing on purpouse to make ME feel bad i just want her dead

I signed my kid up for Hogwarts.

My family argues too much and complaints a lot because it's so annoying . I wish I was a only kid in my family to avoid conflicts

So there is a wedding, taking place about an hour and a half or two hours away from my location. Im almost an adult and my mom will need to be really convinced to let me stay home. I just had a fight with my sister and now i just dont even want to be around my family. My dad yelled at me because i was late for school. And he yelled at my mom saying why she is not raising me well to sending me to school on time (she doesnt know when i start even though she trusts me to be on time) which got my sister angry so she comes up and starts throwing things at me, hitting my with thing and pushing me around. I tried stopping her but she wasnt stopping. I got pissed started yelling at her and taking my anger out by throwing things around pushing things out of my way. I just dont want to go to this wedding. I dont know how to convince her. Its a famiy frienda wedding and i need advice on how to avoid attending the wedding. Any advice

I'm a 21 year old female, and I'm living with my parents while commuting to college. I suppose I should give you some background, because this has been going on for my entire life. All my life, my mom has treated me like I'm a bad person. It started when I was very young because I would accidentally wet myself sometimes, and because I was embarrassed and didn't want to get in trouble for doing so, I would hide my underwear. I got hit for that a lot, and shamed. She said I wasn't normal, even when I told her that sometimes it just came out of me (I had incontinence due to spinal stenosis) She would always ask me why I couldn't be more like my older sister. My older sister was popular, played sports, and had a lot of friends. I wasn't popular in school, I was more interested in art and I only had one or two very close friends. She was always comparing me to other people. She told me I was just like my abusive father (not my sisters father, just mine) and she would destroy my things and hit me, grab me by the hair, and once she threw a dresser drawer at me. I just never understood why this happened. I always felt like I was doing something wrong, because that's what she constantly told me. I didn't do well in school because I often had problems with motivation and was diagnosed with depression while in middle school. My grades dropped drastically in high school, and now I'm trying to make up for it. I'm going to college, and trying to better myself. She doesn't even see that.

I ran out of money. Rent is due. I am back in school fulltime. I can't call my mom or dad for help, my dad left me when I was 3, and my mom is intolerable to living with others and is selfish. My sister has her extra room rented to my brother.

My fiance and I are visiting my family in orlando. we are from NJ and came down for my sister graduation. We decided to stay for a week and a half. I don't see my family often, like only once a year. But my fiance always acts miserable when we go. This is out third time. He doesn't interact with my family and literally stays in the bedroom all day. my mom constantly asks me is he ok because he is always in the room. I try to plan activities for us to do but he doesn't want to do anything, everything i pick he says that it is not fun for him. We are in orlando there is plently of thing to do. I even told him we can rent a car and we can go to miami or another city for 2 or 3 day alone. but he doesn't want to. he just complain that he wasted his vacation days.When we planned the trip i know how he is so i told him he can come down for a few days and then go back to nj and ill stay for a week and a half. but he assured me he would act normal but it day number three and he is already acting childish. He is ruining our trip. How should i deal with him. anytime i bring it up he just says leave him alone in a loud voice so i just drop the issue because i dont want to get in a shouting match with him at my parents.

My fiance and I are visiting my family in orlando. we are from NJ and came down for my sister graduation. We decided to stay for a week and a half. I don't see my family often, like only once a year. But my fiance always acts miserable when we go. This is out third time. He doesn't interact with my family and literally stays in the bedroom all day. my mom constantly asks me is he ok because he is always in the room. I try to plan activities for us to do but he doesn't want to do anything, everything i pick he says that it is not fun for him. We are in orlando there is plently of thing to do. I even told him we can rent a car and we can go to miami or another city for 2 or 3 day alone. but he doesn't want to. he just complain that he wasted his vacation days.When we planned the trip i know how he is so i told him he can come down for a few days and then go back to nj and ill stay for a week and a half. but he assured me he would act normal but it day number three and he is already acting childish. He is ruining our trip. How should i deal with him. anytime i bring it up he just says leave him alone in a loud voice so i just drop the issue because i dont want to get in a shouting match with him at my parents.

So, I am 17, almost 18 in about a month and a few weeks. So, my question is to why social services called me. I live in Wyoming, but social services from Knoxville, Tennessee called. Maybe a wrong number, but I didn't answer because at first I thought it was a scam, and I didn't know the numner. So, I looked up the number and social services came up. I know my dad has some problem with a past child support issue, not that anything is wrong. He thought he paid it off by giving my mom (what he thought) was the rest of it in one shot a while back. So, I guess he has to pay 1,900 until July (even though I'd be 18 in the first week). He said he'll pay it, no problem. I just got kind of scared because I do love my dad and I'm moving in with him and moving out of my moms. My mom's had some issues with drinking lately, such as public intoxication and being arrested for a night. So, I don't know if it's my dad's child support issue which he already talked to the courts about all week. Or, someone called social services on my mom. I don't know, but I wouldn't see the point because for the most part there isnt a problem, and I'm nearly 18.

A month ago I ran into my friends garage with my car and it got a huge dent in it and my parent were very angry about that and I told them that her parents were going to be there but they weren t there and my parents found out about that. They grounded me from leaving the house for the whole summer but I was aloud to have my boyfriend over. Me and my boyfriend are in a really serious relationship and I wanted him to come over the other day when I knew no one would be home. So I picked him up from his house and we went to my house and hung out they whole day and then I took him home. My parents came home from work that day and I guess my neighbor saw us and he told my dad that I had him over. My dada freaked out and took my phone and smashed it on the ground until it broke into like 10 pieces. My dad said that he doesn t even see me as his daughter anymore and he can t even look at me. He s done supporting me and I have to rely on my money that I get from working at Burger King to get me through. I m grounded until I move out which will be when I m 18. I can t stand it here and I wish I could leave today. I don t know what I, going to do about my boyfriend because I love him so much and I can t break up with him. I d rather die than do that. I just don t know what to do anymore

My step daughter is an adult currently living at home because she is taking care of my wife and her sister's child. Because her sister doesn't like to do it.. My pastor said I give my daughter too much freedom and I should act like a man of the house. here are some of the suggestions he gave. I open the door with a screwdriver if she doesn't answer right away. Make he jump through hoops to use the car. Accuse her of stealing. Shine flashlights in her face.I listen to all of her phone calls on the other line . I come out 10 15 times when she is watching a late night movie and ask several pointless questions over and over. Refuse to let her into the bathroom or the fridge to help her lose weight. Talk and walk really really close to her face.. I stand outside her door and pace back and forth and ask her what is she doing over and over. I am just trying to be a good dad and see what she is doing all the time. I also let my grandson break and destroy all of her stuff when she's at work . To punish her for being annoying.She is such a slob.it's not going well . She shrieks her head off for me to leave the f- alone and cries her head of. My wife is sick of hearing it.and all my neighbours think I am a giant ****** now. But I hav to be man of the house. I meant to say daughter

I am 19yrs old and live with my father he doesn't let me move out and he fights and yells and finds Sth wrong with everything I do. Nothing is ever peaceful. I am a 19yr old who gets punished and isn't allowed to go out. He doesn't let me go out after midnight I can't go out with certain friends. He has to know everything I do. He controls my bank account and it's just too much I feel like a kid and I just can't take it anymore