My boyfriend and I are 27 and been dating for 3 months and thought about getting married this November or December. We are both ready to settle down and start a family and we both feel we are right for each other. We are thinking about getting married at a court house then have a party after. I haven't told my friends and family yet considering we been together only a few months

This is the question, that I think sometimes. I'm a 21 year old female. He is 24 years old Indian. So as I was going to say. I was just thinking something, he always said that he wanted to be with me, because I'm not cheap like other girls. But just then, I looked at one of his phones. And here is all these pictures of half naked girls. By the way he is at work. And he obviously forgot about it. But anyway, I was just curious. So I looked at his pictures. My question basically points out, that he does like those types of girls. And I'm not like that. So why go for me!!!!! I'm just thinking it... I'm not going to say anything, I mean we are married. He must be some what happy with me. Just he use to say that he doesn't like cheap girls. But he they are, pictures of cheap girls. In his phone.... What you think about that????

I had sex a year ago with my ex. After that I ahve been clean. Will my husband get to know that I am not a virgin?

So my bf always accuse me of ******* someone when I go to work he says I must talked to someone there or something . And when he sees guys outside our apartment complex he says I ****** them . Like today we were coming home from grocery shopping and the neighbors were outside so he comes in the house and asks if I **** them . And to not sleep on his bed because I had to **** one of the neighbors the old guy or his son he thinks I ****** . when I walk past these people I don't even look there way I don't even know these guys never said one word to them . But now I have I'm not able to kiss my bf or touch him or have sex tonight all because he thinks I fucjed the old man next door or his son . I can't help but be mad or hurt or have an attitude when he believes i would cheat on him and have my legs open to every guy

We got divorced 2 years ago and have joint custody...he is 8 yrs old and i see him tuesday and thursday for 2 hours and also have him every other weekend. The other day I talked with his principal and she told me he has way too many excessive absenses already 19 absenses for the year and is tardy almost every week. Reason he is tardy is because he told me she wakes him up with like 30 mins before school starts and he has to rush to shower, eat, get ready...she herself most likely does not like to wake up!! the school also gave me a letter showing all his absenses/tardies. We were ordered by court to go to counseling and our first session is in 1 week ...I hope I can mention this to them and they can possibly modify my visitation times so that I can help him with school and make sure he is not absent or late. A friend of mine told me counseling most likely will not be able to help you modify and thus might have to go to court....Maybe if I take this letter from school they can modify it? any inputs?

I have admired him since he talked to me. We exchange Facebook and we started chatting.. I knew he has a son but he told me he had some problems with his wife.. I thought he got DIVORCED because he said his son and wife were in other place(not living with him).. Nevertheless, he told me he was spending all summer with his wife and son.... and I realized he didn't get divorced.. I don't know.. I met him in class, he asked me to out for drinks after final EXAM but i didn't go.. After that, i asked him to go out in summer, yet he said he was so busy in summer.. I don't know what to do.. He said he was going to take the same schedule of classes in next semester(we both have to fulfill some requirements) .... he is double age of me(I'm 18) ... we chat on Facebook sometimes, but he has never asked for my NUMBER.... i sent him some pics (the legs and waist were shown), he seemed like those pics a lot and asked me out for drinks at that night... should I wait and see him again(next semester)... he is incredibly amazing...

(I'm sorry im barrowing a cell phone I'm not very good with them) we've had a lot of problems but most of them started when he cheated and he started changing. during that time he started with just ignoring me or being mean in text it progressed to calling me names. He's called me a b-I-t-c-h probably over 100 times. Bad mother just so much it progressed to physical he started pushing me then smacking me. I reached my limit. He confessed to cheating and said he was under a lot of stress we had three children so I had to make the choice to benefit them so I gave him another chance. I said he could have a year that was it. For the first six months he spent it blaming me. Not willing to put in the effort to earn the trust back such as website restrictions that lead to his cheating. He felt I should just trust him not to use the websites for hook ups but I felt why does it matter if I block them if you won't use them? For a long time just back and forth like that. Bur after six months he decided to do a turn around or at least I thought but maybe it was just a game to get what he wants. he was good for a month or two and back to calling me nakes saying he's leaving me because he is done with not being able to do what he wants online or anywhere else. I'm really hurting I don't know what to do. Would counseling help us or is it just over.. I don't want to paint him terrible because he has his moments where he can be sweet it's why I fell for him in the first place I love him

I'll try to make this short but it may be long anyways

So today was sort of a cleaning night. Every two three months my wife and I flip our bed mattress upside down because she says it prevents the mattress from ruining. I recall we have done this two three times before. Tonight I am suffering from bad back pain and almost didn't want to do it but I was helping her and I found a condom. I automatically said wtf whose condom is that and she said she doesn't know. I never seen a condom under bed before. I know I didn't do it. I never once bought a condom while being with her. I can't think of anyone who came over and slept in the bedroom. Am I being irrational? Is it a solid proof to take against her ? We have a kid who comes from school at three pm and mostly at home. I used to be usually at home and got off work before my wife. Unless someone came over while I was out with the guys? I don't know if I am mad or sad or don't care. I feel quite and haven't had eye contact with her. I am trying to study her reaction. I think I'd have felt better if she blamed the condom on me. But she was not being defensive about it. She just said she doesn't know how it got there and she loves me and wouldn't do that to me. And then tried tthe be all sweet talking and offer me a back massage after few minutes. I am a very diplomatic person but I don't want to be dumb and blind. I am not sure if that is a proof.but then only peOle who slept over are her family. Her parents are seniors and her brOther is single. Her cousN is married.

I want to show naked pics of my wife to strangers. I find it sexually arousing. Anyone interested?

There's this really cute guy who is in extremely good shape and goes to my gym who I started seeing there about two months ago. Must be a new member. My friend and I are always working out near him. We are 22 and I guess we are considered "gym bunnies", as guys always try to hit on us. That gets annoying. This guy on the other hand seems bashful and respect ful of others space. He paces himself in between sets and talks to no one. Seems like a friendly guy as he smiles to people he waves to. My friend found out that he is early thirties and hates sports but is more into geek stuff which is fine. Into Star Trek, X-men and I see him in Walking Dead t-shirts. He never had a girlfriend he told my one friend who's a guy I know this might feel stalkerish but I tried to get his attention one day and he wasn't rude or anything but just stretching and kinda shook his head no in response to a question I asked him. The next day we walked past each other and no words were said and I saw he actively looked the opposite direction trying to avoid eye contact with me. Though he is not being all creepy about it, I can see innocently checking me out as the facility has mirrors everywhere. When I walk past him he always is looking at the floor. What could be his deal? My friend knows he's not married nor gay. He said he gave up on trying at 27. Now he pretends I'm not even around and doesn't look my direction anymore. Did I do something wrong?

If you married your husband & he was still $60,000 in debt from his PhD program would you help him with paying it off? Or would you expect it to strictly come out of his paycheck alone & you wouldn't offer any of your income towards it?

I feel like he is miserable here. Every time I talk to him about something he's done that makes me uncomfortable or sad he stops talking to me and isolates me from him. These are things that we need to talk about to have healthy communication but the way he reacts makes me feel like I'm policing him and that I need to stop caring so much about our marriage. I'm not sure what to do at this point. I feel hopeless.

I'm 23, my husband is 26. We have been married almost 3 years. He & I have always had problems with the amount of time that he spends out with his friends . When we dated everything was perfect. There was no one else in the world he would have rather spend time with ,then me. He seemed like the perfect guy .For the past month 1/2 his friend matt has been coming over every single day. Id like to come home & spend time with him , seems like Sunday is the only time I get the most time with him .Maybe like 5 hrs before matt decides to come over & just ruin my day with him . I've talked to him 3x about this & the 4th time had a huge argument with him & the next day matt didn't come but he's been coming again everyday since then . My husband says I'm controlling ... Yday he was going out to a car meet & I had told him that I was staying home & watch a tv show . Matt came over & they went shopping together . My husband then came home & showered . I later thought the car meet might be a way of spending a little more time together & I told him at the last minute that I was going to go with him . He said that he didn't have any room in his car . He was picking up Matt & another friend . I was crushed . He left . He sent me a texted saying why can't you just come in your car .I told him isn't the better question why can't Matt ride in his own car ?I've been telling him 2go 2the gym with me over a year & he never wanted to. He & Matt just got a membership 2day. Idk what to do anymore ...

My husband is a fuctioning alcoholic. When we met we drank together a lot but i quit when i became pregnant. Our daughter is 3 now and i rarely drink. I feel a lot of times that my husband thinks im boring because i dont drink hardly anymore. I mean staying sober for our daughter is my main concern. He drinks a case of beer a day. He works third shift and drinks everyday. It is hard to be around him sometimes with him drinking cause i feel like i want to drink too. Do you think my husband finds me boring now that i dont drink hardly.

I have been married for almost 5 years been with my husband for 10 total...about 3 years ago I started resenting my husband see when we met he had a stable job and was independent when got serious he moved in quit working for 7 years...just recently he started working again but hates it wants to job jump at 35 no stability it's frustrating me..nor to mention my husband refuses to grow up he wants to have raging party's constantly. ..I grew up became responsible he constantly tells me he wants his old wife back I'm tired of hearing it..a few things he has said to me that raises flags one night he was doing something to annoy me because in hs words i l8ke annoying you I like getting a rise out of u....I asked him to o stop that it was annoying me he said I annoyed him when I told him that I loved him all the time.... Once a came out and asked if he wanted to leave he stated no I have no where to go...sex is about once a month because I feel bad I do not like sex with my husband he has no passion I feel no connection his former of seduction is grabbing my boob...recently I spoke to my husband and explained that my feelings for him changed he stated it was on me that he was happy and what was I going to do to fix it... my husband is a control freak with money he used to be adventurous now he never does anything...I feel so lost he says he's happy how can this be I feel as if it's a a mind game ..I want to leave most days and then I feel guilty idk what to do but I am sure I can't live like this forever

I'm 21 years old, he is 24 years old. And i feel like sometimes, I can't do anything right. Here i will be cleaning or doing something. He will come along, and say nah that's not right, like this. He treats me like a child sometimes. Like I have my way, he has his way. I don't have a job right now, but I finally have work coming up very soon. We will go shopping, and he will say too me. Where are your cards. You're money, your paying for this. So I feel down. And then I tell him, how I feel. And he's like, Omg. Why are you so serious, I was just joking around. I'm not a serious guy, I can't be serious!!!! Like really! I don't think that he was joking around. Living with him, can be a nightmare. Is this normal behaviour? And do I really need to chill out, and relax.....

Is there something wrong in it? I dont want to show it to people i know or my wife knows. But complete strangers. So they can jerk off looking at her. Please contact me if anyone interested. Omani.date@gmail.com

We've had a lot of problems but most of them started when he cheated and he started changing. during that time he started with just ignoring me or being mean in text it progressed to calling me names. He's called me a b-I-t-c-h probably over 100 times. Bad mother just so much it progressed to physical he started pushing me then smacking me. I reached my limit. He confessed to cheating and said he was under a lot of stress we had three children so I had to make the choice to benefit them so I gave him another chance. I said he could have a year that was it. For the first six months he spent it blaming me. Not willing to put in the effort to earn the trust back such as website restrictions that lead to his cheating. He felt I should just trust him not to use the websites for hook ups but I felt why does it matter if I block them if you won't use them? For a long time just back and forth like that. Bur after six months he decided to do a turn around or at least I thought but maybe it was just a game to get what he wants. he was good for a month or two and back to calling me nakes saying he's leaving me because he is done with not being able to do what he wants online or anywhere else. I'm really hurting I don't know what to do. Would counseling help us or is it just over..

Hi everyone today my husband and I went to the lundromate with two bags and I asked him if he can help with the bags, he got annoyed like he didn't want to help me. Then when I was time to fold I ask him if he can help fold he got annoyed again but this time kept complaining about being hungry and tired, and so was I but we have to have clean and neatly folded clothes. So any I just told him never mind and to just go sit down, after 5 hours of folding and washing without his help, I finally got him to help me bring the bags back to the house. And once we got back he started complaining about being tired. I should b the one complaining, but I not that type of person. All he did was seat down in the hair at our local lundromate. Then he called his mother and made it seem like I was sleeping down and he did all the work. I know this isn't really a question, I just want to read people reviews of what is going on and why my husband is acting like a child.

It seems like every day my husband has a lunch date or dinner date with a woman. And not the same woman, several but they are all Asian. He eats out with these ppl more often than he eats or with me. None of them are even work colleagues. Is he turning into some weird ladies man or is he cheating on me?

My ex just got remarried. She cheated on me with this guy and they just got married I feel like I've lost everything anf I'm watching another man raise my children every night I sit on the roof drink and smoke and I just don't know what to do.

I know that it's not right to be with other men and I have not yet cheated. However, I long to be with other men romantically at times. I even think of leaving. I believe I think like this because he is 9 years older than me and I've always been a free spirit but ended up pregnant (I was told I couldn't have kids). So I stayed with him for the baby. But 5 years later I want to be with other men. Is my husband not fulfilling me or am I just messed up? We have kids. Yeah he is also gone most of the day. I barely see him :(

i will ask him to turn down the tv and he will say " i didnt know we had a tv?" or i will say how was your day and he will say"im not gay" , its driving me nuts what should i do and what is this called what he is doing ?sarcatic ?

I lost my husband Ben on May 9. He is my soul mate. We had our lives planned. We were supposed to have children and grow old together. I want to die as soon as possible. I've lost all faith and hope. The pain is unbearable. Please help.

I got married about a month ago and don't want change my last name yet until me and my husband live together. I still live at home and saving up to move out and my husband's job is currently under maintainence so its not certain when he'll go back to work.

Of course I love my husband and we have sex 3-4 times a week but I feel like theres a time for sex and you cant have it all the time. To give some examples, anytime Im home hes basically sexually touching me. When were sitting and watching television hes usually rubbing my vagina through my pants or underwear, when im cooking he will grope me and rub himself on me, when were lying in bedtogether anywhere he will caress my breasts all night. Anywhere im sitting he will try to get his hand on my vagina or on my breasts. If im at my desk at home doing work he will come up to me and start kissing my neck and grabbing my breasts. I never feel like im the one initiated sex anymore. Is this normal? Im okay with it if im in the mood and we aren't busy but all the time when we do normal things seems unnecessary. Even when we have guests over he tries to secretly do it as if its an achievement if he can caress me without our friends knowing. Recently hes been insisting we shower together and when we do he pulls me clpse to him and washes me himself, it just feels awkward since im not a young child. Basically, what is your opinion on this, any advice? Any time I tell him how I feel about this he says that were married so I should be fine with it, how do you guys feels?

Semi quick question. My dad never been married worked his entire life retired about 4 years ago. Got married to a woman she has a little part time job and she has no retirement. they have been married for 7 years now. If they divorced tomorrow here California. Is she entitled to everything my dad has worked hard for. They are both over the age of 60...

Hey Everyone. I'm 25 years old, married for almost 4 months, and we have a baby on the way (due in August ). My Mom hates my husband and I believe nothing will change that. My husband and I have been having some issues mainly with him working all the time, which I'm thankful, and we don't spend a lot of time together because he's tired. So This weekend, out of the blue, he planned a weekend trip to the beach so we can get away since we haven't really done anything or spent alot of Time together. My Mom is mad because I was suppose to help her this that same weekend with a church function. My Mom and her boyfriend have been out of town 3 times this year, ive been nowhere. I feel stuck in the Middle, as always when it comes to them, because I don't want to upset anyone. My Husband said that if I decide not to go, he's going alone and I don't want that. Mom's giving me all kinds of attitude and I don't want that either What should I do?

My husband wants me to lock him up in a chastity device, punish him, tie him up, tease him, sexually frustrate him and deny him orgasms for weeks at a time. I kept refusing for months, but now I want to try it. If anything, I want to do it so well that he regrets the day he ever asked me for this, but I don't have any experience with being dominant, all these concepts I mentioned are new to me. Any tips on how I can make him regret he ever asked and punish/dominate him to the fullest extent?

My husband and I are getting divorced but will remain friends. He is currently dating a sociopath but doesn't see it. This person lies about everything and is very controlling, is hiding her true identity, and won't introduce him to any friends/family. I am scared for my husband. We have 2 very young kids and joint assets. It's not that I don't want my husband to date, I just don't want him abused or conned. I also need him to be a good father to our kids, so I need this sociopath out of the picture. What should I do? He currently still lives at home with us but spends 2 nights a week at the sociopath's apartment. He suffers from depression so I really don't want to pick up his broken pieces after she destroys him, while caring for our kids alone. Should I just tell him to move in with her now so that he can discover her lies on his own sooner? Should I write him a letter with all of my fears and concerns?

Situation is my wife left me to be on her own. She says I have faults, I think she has some to but it's never her fault (in her mind). So she moved to an apartment where her job was and is somewhat far away but is quitting it as she has a second side business job and is going to work it full time. The job is her aunt's site and is near my place. I offered her to just move back in when talking to her on the phone but muttered something "I don't think that's a good idea". So she wants to move to a new place. The area around me is way more expensive. She has a car that is close to breaking down. Also due to an agreement she needed money and was going to take my nice couch and coffee table so she bought her own stuff and in return I paid for her full coverage insurance for a year. Well I'm not paying for her insurance again and if anything I'm shopping for cheaper insurance for my home and car this year. Also she tried to get me to move as we live in a community property state and thinks she's entitled half on the sale (even though she's not on the loan or title) and is probably right but I won't do her the favor as I'm not going anywhere. This is how this started as we fought over selling our house and couldn't find a new one in time and then she left me. I had to back out of a seller's agreement and almost got in trouble. I don't see the point of filing for a legal separation I'm still having faith we can get back together. But her signing a new lease gives me some pause. I tried to refinance but my mistake was telling them I was married. They will not refinance my house without my wife's signature. Now I can only try a different finance company and just say I'm single. Far as I'm concerned the house is mine and always was. I hate the unfair laws in this state.

i am very clueless ans totally stressed and distraught.can you help me to know how to start?what do i need?etc thanks.

My wife wants me waxed free of hair and smooth from my neck down to my toes, even in the most private of areas. She wants one of her girlfriends that does it professionally to do it, but I am embarrassed to have a woman that I know remove hair from the crevices of my buttocks. Not to mention that I find this woman unbelievably sexy and flirtatious and I'm afraid of getting a noticeable erection as my wife watches on. My wife does not want anyone else besides her doing it and is abstaining from having intercourse until I agree to get it done. She said hair is a major turn off for her and that I should be willing to do this for her if I really care about her feelings. Shaving is not an option because my skin doesn't react well to it. Is this request reasonable? Should I just man up and do it? Any tips on how to not get a major ***** to my wife's super sexy friend as she handles my genitals?

Last night, I sent the boys into the kitchen to help my wife with dinner. She thinks that I am going to confuse them. She wants them to only do boy chores. I have told her there's no such thing as "boy work/girl work"...it's all "people work". But she is adamant...I do not know what to do and she is pregnant and I don't want to upset her unnecessarily.

Ok so my wife and I are in the process of buying a house and need some info to help us budget. My ex is trying to get custody of my daughter who lives with my sister where she has lived for the past 13 years. My daughter is now 16 and if her mom is successful does anyone know how much I may have to pay in child support? I make 39,000 a year her mom maybe makes half that. We live in Arizona

My husband and I have lived in small home for four years is an urban area. I have loved that home and had so many hard and great memories there. I became very attached to the home. Unfortunetly, we had some bad next door neighbors that are drug dealers and some very dangerous activity has gone on there for the past two years so my husband and I decided to move to the 'burbs'. We found an incredibly home that still has a lot of character and beautiful trees and big windows- it's beautiful. It's a total upgrade with double sinks, more than one bathroom, a garage, safe area, etc- you get it. I was really excited but we just moved in and I seem to be pretty depressed. I miss my old, tiny, unsafe home. I feel very strange in this new house. I am upset with myself because by all accounts, I should be overjoyed to even be able to do this- I feel offensive in my depressive feelings because some people have no choice and we did and I don't seem to appreciate it- I just miss my old home. I grew up in a nice house so it's not out of my wheelhouse, I'm just a simple person and having this nice home is making me feel guilty. I wish I could just get it together! Has anyone else experienced this or have any advice? Why am I having such a hard time in my new house?

Even in the smallest things. I think it all started when we first got married, and I would always beat him in Jeopardy or Wheel of Fortune. Even when exercising together he has to win. I recently started making more money than he does. He is smart enough to make a better salary, but seems to be satisfied with what he is doing. But I was not satisfied with what I earned, so I worked hard, and now my salary surprises his. I am not a college graduate and he has a degree, yet he will not use it adequately. I am tired of him always competing with me, I am his wife, and I do love him. What can I do?

The other night, my husband lied to me about where he was. He got home late but I didn't even notice because he usually gets out of work around 1am and I am already asleep. Our mutual friend asked if my husband had gotten home late the night before because her husband had been out at a friend's house drinking after they got off of work. Long story short it came out that my husband was there too. He never told me anything so I didn't really believe that he would be somewhere that late without telling me. My friend suggested that I look on his location history to make sure he was really there which I didn't even know was possible. Well he was there from about 12:30 until 4am. When I asked him if he went to this friends house, he denied it up and down. Swore on our marriage and son that he didn't go even though I told him I had proof and only wanted the truth. He continued to deny it until I finally showed him the location on his email account. He then accused me of being a psycho ***** and started texting his friend about how psycho I am. He never apologized for lying and completely blew up on me to the point where he told me I needed to leave the room because he felt like "punching me in the face and not holding back." I really would not have minded if he went to this friends house. I wouldn't have even cared if he told me the truth the first time. It's the fact that he lied over and over until the evidence was undeniable that really gets me.

My husband is abusive but I keep it for myself, as my mom and step dad wouldn't care either. Some time ago my husband's brother was in town so we took him around a bit, and while we were in the car, he witnessed my husband's verbal abuse on me. I felt very bad and ashamed having him witnessing all that from the back seat while I was being humiliated. He said nothing, though. When he had to go it was me who accompanied him to the airport and he told me that if I ever need anything I can always call him and he'd come even in short-time notice, if necessary. Maybe he saw that I didn't take it seriously because he then said that he really meant it. I said thanks but didn't give it much thought. Yesterday my husband hit me very hard and I'm afraid one day I'd suffer miscarriage (I'm 3-months pregnant). I have no one to go to and I'm contemplating of contacting my husband's brother and ask if he could give me a shelter until I figure something out. I'm hesitating though because I'm afraid my husband will blow a gasket and have a great row with his brother. Secondly, my husband's brother has a fiancee and I'm afraid she'd think I'm trying to hit on him or anything. I feel so helpless. Would it be a big mess if I ask my brother-in-law's help?

My husband moved my children and I up to Alaska, he will not let me get a job, and notes anytime I take more than $20 out of our bank account. I have no money to get my kids and I back to our home where I will have a job. Does anyone know how to get money for a divorce to help with moving expenses and lawyer etc.?

Hello everyone, I have a problem in our relationship. I turned to yahoo community for advice. Little description: In our early 30s, have a son and a house, 14 months married, 2 years dating. She is never interested in intimacy, sex or anything. Nor does she spend any time with me anymore. I've done everything to imporve our relationship, buy her presents, most of the house cooking, give her massages, take her date night, do all chores, take care of son and help him with his homework. I am even physically fit (not muscly but lost a lot of weight; I am a runner), even that doesn't work. I work 40 hrs a week and she is now a stay at home mom. I am working hard to pay off the house, secure our retirement and son's college education. All she does is talking to her mother and sisters and surfing on internet. I checked computer history and she's going on dating websites. I confronted about this and this entire weekend she gave me a silent treatment (she's still upset and arguing). I am sleeping in our guest room while she has the master room. What am I suppose to do? How do I improve our relationship? Why is she doing this? She argues and gets defensive when I confront? Nor does she help out much and spend time with me? During our weekend conversation, I asked if she wanted to see a marriage counselor and she was very angry. I don't know what to do. It hurts that me and her are fighting and my son wondering what is going on. During our dating years she was a differnt woman. After marriage she changed.

I've called the courthouses and all of the numbers are automated. Can I find out online?

My wife has a girlfriend in her life I feel uncomfortable around. I have asked her to make a choice between me and her. I never want to be in the same room with her again. For example, she will joke about just having had sex with her husband. She jokes about things that people don't usually talk about. Plus she is loud. I think her behavior is inappropriate especially around me, a grown man. I was raised a certain way and I don't like it when ladies say bad words even joking around. The reason I am giving her an ultimatum is because I don't enjoy myself at get togethers when she is there. I am uncomfortable and feel like I don't want even be heard or seen with her. It's embarrassing.

Me and my husband have been married six years so far well back in 2010 he didnt have papers so he was illegal and he got into problems with the law and he was sent to jail for six months i was there for him i would go visit him and sent him letters even my parents paid him a good lawyer so anyway he got sent to mexico and i left right away to be with him , i only lasted a month because i had to start on his immigration case and i had to see the lawyers and plus i found out i was pregnant as well and i needed to go the doctor in the u.s. Because i was high risk from previous miscarriages and mexico they dont pay attention to you unless you go to a expensive doctor. Well i had to stay in the u.s. And him in mexico and he found a job over there while he waited over there while his case sorted out so i had to be alone all pregnant and i couldnt travel and my parents would be there to support because he also left me mortgages, credit cards, all kinds of bills and they had to get paid , so i had my baby he couldnt be there because the case was going slow and we would just talk on the phone and see each other on skype after i had my baby i found a job because i didnt want to rely on my parents and my daughter needed stuff so i went to visit him with my daughter when she was one and we were so happy but we had to leave again because i had to be seeing the lawyers and we were just waiting for immigration to say yes or no . I left and then my husband started to fight with me because i was working my *** off working laye trying to pay the bills and support my daughter and he would say i was cheating on him and thats when he started to act different and started to talk less and we would fight all the time so his case gets approved and he comes home , he was a different person i dont even know who he was so he comes home he hardly pays any attention to me and i noticed that he was always on his phone and i get up one night and i see message from a girl and i just started crying and confronted him and he said he did cheat on me and i was so stupid i forgave him and we have another child and i NEVER in my life cheated on him i didnt have time for that i was thinking about and my child and i did another terrible thing i told him i cheated on him to make him angry but i didnt do it , i know i shouldnt of have but his his reason that he cheated was because he thought i was cheating , all this makes me angry i thought when he got back everything was going to be perfect and its not i dont know what to do

we were married for 24 yrs....he cheated ...i wanted to see if we could work thru it he didnt....he went on to marry the girl he cheated with...i remarried 3 yrs later to a wonderful man i met online.....but since my Ex and i parted ways...he has been verbally abusive to me callin me names and etc....he has told our children how i was never a good mom and etc....i dont get why he is so nasty and angry....he wanted to split up i didnt....this was all 9 yrs ago....and still to this day he is nasty and just snide.....anyone have any insight. i would think after this much time has passed its all water under the bridge

What do I do? I'm 31 , I never wanted to be pregnant past 30. It isn't causing a fight, but I don't want him to be upset.

Every time we start a talk or a constructive argument it ends with her getting angry and starts talking in a high voice as if we are 10 meters apart. Once I told her that I don't see any wrong if I have lunch with both male and female coworkers at lunch break. In this case she starts her screaming and that I should only eat with males etc. Once we were talking if is right or wrong if I play sports with females, I told her in my point of view, it is wrong to play football or basketball with females since there is a lot of touching, however if it is tennis then I don't see any problem with that, we would be 20 meters away. After hearing my point of view she explodes again. I don't care who is wrong or right, I just need her to respect my point of view and not shout each time we talk about everyday issues and finish an argument without getting angry.

I recenly caught my wife cheating on me, she had like oral sex with another man and i found out. Naturally i was shocked and hurt but at the same time i was sexually aroused thinking she was with another man. What is wrong with me? Sometimes i think about sharing my wifes sexy pictures with others but then i control myself.

My wife living in Canada with my baby and I lived in pakistn she don't like pakistn she cancelled my sponcer and asking for divorced but I m not ending up coz of my child .also she is hiding my child ?what canadian law say about child father ?do I ve right to meet my son ,?will they give me visa behalf of my son ?plz also how to find my wife adress as I k ow only her date of birth and son date of birth ?

My husband is in the army and therefore receives BAH which is designed to pay for living expenses, primarily rent. When we got married and started living together we agreed that I would pay all the other bills- cable, Internet, electricity and I also buy all the household items such as cleaning supplies, soap, detergent, paper towels, toilet paper etc. I work a part time job on post working 2-3 days a week and my checks range from $300-$400 every two weeks. I'm going to college to pursue a nursing degree which is mainly the reason we agreed for me to pay the smaller bills. My husband suddenly has a problem and wants me to do "more" I barely make any money and on top of our household bills I have bills of my own. Truth be told I'm barely making it and my husband does not financially help me which is fine but I don't know what else he expects me to pay for. He drives a Mercedes and I honestly think the car note is more than he can actually afford because he keeps hinting at wanting me to help him pay his car note when I can barely pay my own bills. I just want to finish nursing school and get a real job but he's not supportive at all he told me to "bow down b-/;h" bc he's the "breadwinner" and I can get the f out or respect him and do whatever he wants me to do bc I'm broke and I need him. Do you see any other ways that you think I should try to contribute to our household? I'm doing the best I can. What would you do?