He's 13 years old, 6'6 and wears a size 20 shoe? do you think is something good to have big feet?

They tell all their friends personal information about me including sex related ones and the information get passed down to even more people who have absolutely no business being involved in my personal life. I feel so hurt by my girlfriend's actions and the fact that she doesn't respect my wish for privacy. I told her multiple times that I don't want my personal life to be public information but she doesn't listen and tells all her friends personal information about me. Her friends then start spreading vicious and untrue rumors about me. I wish my girlfriend would limit the amount of information she shares with her friends. What do you think about this? I can I make her stop?

I have been thinking about dropping this girl as my ffr for quite a while now. We both just graduated high school a few weeks ago. I am ready to make changes in my life. I know that does not mean I have to change who I am friends with. I feel like this girl is bringing me down, however. I am trying to lose weight. I'll try to talk to her about how I would like to have better confidence. All she will ever say is "I don't have to worry about what I eat. I don't eat vegetables and I am still so skinny." I thought you could go to friends for support. She is constantly talking about herself. I started my first job yesterday. She never even wished me luck. She just continued to talk about herself. She also never tells me anything. I have to figure stuff out from my other friends. That makes me feel like I am meaningless because I tell her everything. I am also starting college in a few months. She is not trying to get a job and she is not going to college. Her future plans are to sit at home. When we are together there is nothing to talk about anymore. It sucks because we were once best friends. I can't handle all this anymore though. I have a future to look forward to. My question is if you think this friendship is worth the effort. Should I just drop everything? My biggest concern is having a good career on the future. She can either be part of my future or not.

It was during a sleepover. When my friends were starting about freaking Justin Bieber, one of them told me what I think about him and I said "He's just some singing douche who thinks he's a good singer but he's not!". My friends then call me a weirdo and ignore me the whole sleepover.

I was friends with this guy for awhile best friends actually. He was the kind of person you could tell all your problems to, talk to about anything, and was always there to listen. Now he changed into the complete opposite out of nowhere and tbh he's just a dick now.. What makes people change out of nowhere?

I go to a workout class 3 times a week. One of the coaches is always by me. He always smirks at me and makes funny/weird faces. Today everyone was sitting in a circle before the workout started and he went around giving everyone a high five, when he got to me he gave me four of them. I said "oh my god" and he just smiled at me. Then after I ran, he was sitting on the ground bc he already finished and he looked up at me and held his hand out to give me a high five. I normally wear workout legging capris but I wore shorts today and when I walked past him after he gave me a high five, he slapped my leg. During squats, he kept looking at me and making a funny face. Last week during 6 inches (which is THE WORST btw) i held 6 inches for the whole minute w/o dropping which is very hard to do and he said "my girl" Why does he always do this????

Tengo una amiga, que la conozco desde hace 4 años, durante el primer año la veia del diario, y estoy casi seguro que le gustaba, pero luego nos dejamos de ver, y apenas, despues de 3 años, nos volvimos a ver, pero nos vemos a lo mucho cada semana, y a mi me sigue gustando, y mucho, pero estoy seguro que yo ya no le gusto, pero somos mejores amigos, ella me ha dicho que soy su mejor amigo, y yo le he dicho que ella es mi mejor amiga, quiero saber como y cuando declararmele, es buena idea, digan me lo que sea, no me vayan a decir que hay otras personas, tengo 17 años, y estoy seguro que la amo, como para haberla esperado 3 años, ella seria la primera, pero no quiero regarla, ayudenme por favor.

My friend she is so talkative like she will blab about what she seen on youtube or what she did on the weekend but when its my turn she will completely ignore me. I even sometimes ask her is she listening she STILL won't respond and than continue talking. I even told her how I felt! Yesterday she had an attitude all because I called her sweety but I was just playin around and she than had a major attitude problem and I just ignored her and I stopped listening to her and not even a minute later she began talking as if nothing happened? She's desperate about being "thick also" She even said she's been working for years to get a thick body. Should I tell her or just ignore her back? What do I do?

My friend that I'm not super close with but sort of was having a birthday party today my dad was flying to New Orleans and I forgot all about it it started hours ago and I just got a text from her asking me where I was I can't tell her the truth were not good friends she be so offended I forgot her birthday I have to come up with an excuse and I don't know what to do

i am a 13 year old girl from Scotland and I have 4 best friends that I have recently joined because my best friend left the city. And let's call them A B C and D. A and B and best friends and C and D are best friends, A fell out with every one the other day because she recently has been feeling left out ( when I'm always the one who's left out ) she said it's not because I joined but I know it is. But anyway, today I was in the town with my mom, we were going shopping for a new phone charger and iPad charger but when I was there I bumped into C and D who were going for tea together, which I had never been told about or included, I played out happy to see them and they were just like "hi" but secretly inside it really crushed my soul and I tried so hard not to cry, And when I got home I saw tons of photos on Instagram of them having fun with lots of love heart comments and I heard them talking about going ice skating together last week and in August, A B C and D are all going to a 1D concert together ( I don't like them ) but I wasn't even invited and they kept talking about it in private, my life is such a mess lately with my best friend leaving. Sorry if it was long but I would really appreciate it if you helped me xx 10 points

He is my friend friend too. I've looked online to see, but every website is talking about a boy who isn't your friend friend and if it does, it sounds like its coming from a movie and its not realistic.

This is probably more of a rant but at te same time I really want to know if I can help her in some way cause it's embarrassing for everyone involved.. Basically she's never kissed anyone when sober yet she uses being drunk as an excuse to throw her open hole across the room of the party basically hahahaha. Okay, she hasn't had sex (well she might've tonight) and she's busy messaging our friend group chat sayin she's made "mistakes" and all this crap like she always does when she's at a party we're not. I just told her to get off the chat cause ugh. She takes pride in saying she's done the most (sexually) with anyone in our group of friends where she has to be drunk to even talk to people.. It really pisses me off that she calls them "mistakes" whenever she does anything sexual. She was fingered the last time and announcing when she's drunk she's keen and it's disgusting to watch your fairly innocent friend throw their body around with no self respect... Is there anything I can do or say? Everyone hates what she's doing

My younger friend is 15, she is so stuck up and posh she has a mac and expensive things. She thinks the world revolves around her and that she is better than everyone else but she's pretty and has money. She always goes on about herself and if I talk about me somehow she always turns it round and goes on about herself she's already a sl*g but she doesn't even care she think's it's funny that she always sucks next mans d*ck and she always b*tches about people too, even my friends.. and i can't say anything because she'll be nasty to me. I love her but she won't change Should I still be her friend?

We are friends so many years. When i was in elementary school he was the only one who supported me and made me company. I was a bullying victim and he really helped me back then. Our friendly relationship lasted until junior high school. We have made something sexual two times then. I was so sad and of course I regretted what i did. I wasnt seekng him anymore like a friend so our relationship ended up like this. Now we are no friends but we meet each other from times to times, because our parents knows each other. I think i am in love with him... He is so kind with me now. I dont know if he did that because he loved me or only because he wanted to please himself. What do you think?

My church is having a graduation celebration for a few high school seniors who are graduating this year and I am related to one of them. I was planning to get my relative a graduation card and I feel it would look rude for me to give one to him and not to the others. My problem is that I'm not sure what to write on the other cards. I'm a younger man and I don't want to write anything that they- or their parents- might find inappropriate, especially since some of them are girls. What are some appropriate messages to write on a graduation card that clearly do not express anything more than thought and friendship?

When I first got with girlfriend 3 years ago she was slim and beautiful. But now she's just got fat and is getting bigger and I love her but don't feel attracted to her and it's sad. I've told her she needs to lose weight and I've even said I'll work with her to lose the weight but she's not botherd

I turn 16 this year. My mom an I have always td about an elaborate black and white themed party for my sweet 16. I would be totally okay with that except I no longer have fronds like I did in the 5th grade. After the 7th grade we ve ben steady moving, and I m even homeschooled now. I have two friends 1 resides at the other side of the country, the other lives in my hometown. My mom wants the party at my hometown and expects me to invite all my old friends from the 7th grade. She won t listen to me when I tell her they ve all changed and that I feel pathetic and desperate randomly asking these old friends to come to my party. I would rather just go sky diving but my mother insists about freak accidents. What should I do?

I'm 13 and we moved about a year ago. So we will call my old house 1 and my new house 2. So at 1 I had tons of friends I had plenty of room in my yard but also lots of neighbors and I also loved the school so much. 2 though is more rural and so I have no friends we have space but it's all covered in trees and in the summer and spring bugs and snakes can eat you alive. I've tried to be open to new things this past year but I've made one friend the rest are people I don't like they don't like me or they are just too bad an influence on me last year (as a 6th grader) my "friends" were pressuring me to smoke weed they told me they would bring me some. I told them no of course but I didn't want that group of friends. Any way at 2 there are no neighbors within walking distance and I have put on since last year 103 lbs because I'm never active we live on tons of hills so steep that bikes aren't an option. I'm worried for myself as a thirteen year old I should not weigh 247 lbs especially as a girl. I've talked to my parents but they said we aren't moving because I don't have friends I just need to make some so basically need help with 1.what to do to get to a normal weight without the diet and constant excer size. And 2.how to make friends and 3.how to make this place a home for me. I'm lost thanks

Ok this is silly... but before we met when we texted he would call me baby all the time and send kissy faces. We met in person, we talked but didn t really get to talk much cause we were at a party and it was so hard to hear and was very crowded. The next day we were texting and he ll usually text me "good morning baby"and "whats up my love" but instead he texts like "Goodmorning gangsta" or "whats up lightskin" I don t know its weird to me please tell me im over thinking lmao or what do you think the reason is?

My mom is one of the most negative people I have ever met. She is never happy about anything. She's always making fun of me or coworkers, insulting me or coworkers, complaining, or bragging about herself. I cannot take it anymore. I want to get away from her, you see that is very difficult with her job, and I don't live in the same town as the kids who I go to school with. She will complain how I don't have friends in this town and how I have lived here all my life (15 years). Kids don't walk around apartment complexes, I know because I WALK AROUND. I've exhausted all my options for work within a 2 mile radius, nothing is hiring. So next I have tried staying after school on a regular basis, when I ask her about this she responds "Why do I always have to drive you? You should have friends to drive you home". I will tell her how I have asked, but they would be driving 30+ minutes out of their way and they just cannot do that. (It's so far because I am school of choice, I don't go to school where I reside). She will then complain about how I don't have any friends and call me a selfish person who thinks I am better than everyone else. School is extremely boring, my lowest grade is an 87.5 in Honors Geometry. That is because my teacher is one to get mad when I ask questions or if I try to ask her to check my work. I try telling my mom of my problems, and she will tell me that I am not smart enough for this class. I have no family within the immediate area. I'm sick of this. I know there is no changing a person like this and I cannot stand that my counselor is trying to start conversation. I'm also very worried that I won't have a resume for college since all I do is come home eat, do homework, and sleep. I know you need activities, but my mom seems to think you don't. I'm thinking this far ahead because I hate going to school, most the kids there are mean and always tell me to shut up or ignore me. So I rarely ever talk. I thought clubs could be my way of meeting people. I often wonder, what is the point of even getting up the next morning when all I am going to be surrounded by is kid problems and slow classes (my high school doesn't allow 9th graders to take Honors classes. H. Geo is for advanced math kids like myself). This hurtful way used to not bother me, but I am trying to break out of this negative way and have looked to my Spanish teacher as a role model. I guess it's been working if she hurts me now. I've tried going to other teachers. They always push me back to my counselor, who I really don't want to talk to. I haven't talked to my Spanish teacher about this, but I know he knows when I am in a bad mood coming in because he is always very warm and welcoming to me, he also will be sure to make me smile. Driving is out of the question since she refuses to drive with me for practicing.

My name is Brianna and I hate it. I'm 20 and I always tell people to call me Bree. I'm in college and my professors call me Brianna even when most classmates call me Bree.. Should I change it to bree so people stop using my full name...

I m 14 and a few days ago, I met a boy who was my best friend from P1-P3 (5-8yrs old) I was a very anti-social child. He was the only one I ever trusted. I looked for him for 6 years and I finally found him! We met up today and he was so cool! The thing is...I really like him and I don t know what to do....he is geeky about the same things as ne and everything! Any help? x

So well... most of my friends don t want to visit me or they just live 20km away so they can t come over... most of the time I spent home alone is just listening to music and sitting and doing nothing, or eating... Well I m not introvert and I don t want to be just because nobody wants to be my friend. I have a fanbase (something around 600 people) but they are far away too... After school all my friends that I meet there go with someone else... What would you do?

My friends keep on flaking on me. Whenever they make plans with me they always say right before oh something came up- I get that this can be true, but everytime? My other set of friends is never up for anything and won't just do things on the spot. Any recommendations? I hate always being alone. There is a group of people I am some what close to but they have there own group which I know I am not a part of. Is it worth asking one of them to do something and break there group up or would I just be the annoying desperate outsider. What do I ask to do?

There is a group of three girls I hang with, and two guys that I'd like to be friends with. Honestly, I wouldn't really care if the girls stopped being my friends. It is the end of the year and one of the girls is going to a different high school. I never have, and will not, text her over summer break. One of the girls is texting me right now and I'm annoyed because I want to be left alone. On the last day of school, I don't want to hug them and promise to meet up over summer and exchange meaningless "I'll miss you"'s and write stupid, empty things in each other's yearbooks. I didn't even buy a year book this year, because I figure I'm going to see half of you hoes in high school anyways. However, with the two boys, it was different. I don't like them romantically, but I actually wanted to be their friend. One of them, funny and interesting, was just a plain asshole to me. The other, I tried to talk to him, but he makes me feel as if he doesn't want to talk to me and as if I'm annoying. He makes me feel like that, and he's done nothing to make me think otherwise. I've ended my friendship with both of those guys. I don't give a **** about my girl-friends, and I have to watch as the guys I wanted to be friends with laugh and have fun with their own friends. I've been hurt by people before, maybe that's why I think like this. But I want to have meaningful friendships later on. With this current way of thinking, will that ever happen? What needs to change?

I've always been like this, but I've been told I'm mature or intelligent because of things, such as from my counselor at school and everybody around me as well. I feel like I can't fit in because I'm not that social, and I feel like to most people I'd bore them. For one I don't even watch TV, nor do I have any social media except for facebook, but I seldom go on it (Like, on average 2-3 times a year, and I never post anything on it). People actually think I'm lying when I say I don't watch TV, but I also enjoy learning about science and the universe, and teaching myself piano. I also get enjoyment from playing Chess. But my friends, I just don't seem like they can hold a conversation with me because I'm so radically different. It's gotten so bad that I've tried to kill myself out of loneliness, and everything was close, but the belt buckle itself broke.. I was lucky I suffered no brain damage or anything, but that's besides the point. I've gone on omegle and talked to people, but other than that I feel really lonely because I feel like I can't relate to anybody my age as they're all into teenager stuff and I'm into weird stuff.. What do I do??

Lately I have been bother by something's going on and kinda snappy with my favorite teacher she's kinda like a second mom to me. I feel bad because she is very nice and does not deserve the disrespect. What's the best way to apologize to her?

I'm 17 years old, guy. Is it normal to want to have friends with people only online? How can I find people to befriend?

My mom is one of the most negative people I have ever met. She is never happy about anything. She's always making fun of me or coworkers, insulting me or coworkers, complaining, or bragging about herself. I cannot take it anymore. I want to get away from her, you see that is very difficult with her job, and I don't live in the same town as the kids who I go to school with. She will complain how I don't have friends in this town and how I have lived here all my life (15 years). Kids don't walk around apartment complexes, I know because I WALK AROUND. I've exhausted all my options for work within a 2 mile radius, nothing is hiring. So next I have tried staying after school on a regular basis, when I ask her about this she responds "Why do I always have to drive you? You should have friends to drive you home". I will tell her how I have asked, but they would be driving 30+ minutes out of their way and they just cannot do that. (It's so far because I am school of choice, I don't go to school where I reside). She will then complain about how I don't have any friends and call me a selfish person who thinks I am better than everyone else. School is extremely boring, my lowest grade is an 87.5 in Honors Geometry. That is because my teacher is one to get mad when I ask questions or if I try to ask her to check my work. I try telling my mom of my problems, and she will tell me that I am not smart enough for this class. I have no family within the immediate area. I am sick of this. I know there is no changing a person like this and I cannot stand that my counselor is trying to start conversation. I'm also very worried that I won't have a resume for college since all I do is come home eat, do homework, and sleep. I know you need activities, but my mom seems to think you don't. I'm thinking this far ahead because I hate going to school, most the kids there are mean and always tell me to shut up or ignore me. So I rarely ever talk. I thought clubs could be my way of meeting people. I often wonder, what is the point of even getting up the next morning when all I am going to be surrounded by is kid problems and slow classes (my high school doesn't allow 9th graders to take Honors classes. H. Geo is for advanced math kids like myself). This hurtful way used to not bother me, but I am trying to break out of this negative way and have looked to my Spanish teacher as a role model. I guess it's been working if she hurts me now. I've tried going to other teachers. They always push me back to my counselor, who I really don't want to talk to. I haven't talked to my Spanish teacher about this, but I know he knows when I am in a bad mood coming in because he is always very warm and welcoming to me, he also will be sure to make me smile. Driving is out of the question since she refuses to drive with me for practicing.

i want to ask somone that i just made friens with qestions to know more about her but i am afride that i might annoy her what do i do

Hey I'm 14, I'm a girl and I really need someone there for me right now who I can chat to, boy or girl I don't care. Is there anyone out there who wants to chat ? Xxxx

So here's the thing. I have this group of three friends. Recently one of the friends got mad at me and it wasn't ever really resolved. Just lack of communication and generally not wanting to talk about feelings. The only reason we had for even BEING around each other was the other friend. I would try and talk to her and she would ignore me and being frankly just rude. It went on for 8 mos. Until finally the other friend (Let's call her May) decided to make us talk it out. I was willing to talk about it, the other friend (Let's call her Courtney) was not as willing. I poured out my heart to her. I told her I loved her and cared very, very, deeply for her (which is true) and I wish we could regain the friendship. I told her that her feelings matter to me. Her response "WELL I GOTTA GO TAKE A WHIZ". Right in the middle of me talking. Courtney kept looking at her phone and then saying she felt "attacked" because I had been the only one talking. The day before she had been really upset about something she wouldn't confide in us, and I told her I cared for her and considered it important to me that she feels comfortable around me to tell me her sadness. Her response was "Well I don't care that you care about me". At that point I became done. My body feels drained. I don't know how I feel because I don't FEEL anything. I think I might be dealing with a narcissist? But I can't be sure. What's up? She often does things like this, she'll WANT you to ask about her so she can ignore you or tell you "it's fine". The fact that she just doesn't care is just. Is just really upsetting. My friend May (who is a bleeding heart big time) left the room crying and Courtney showed no emotion. She just doesn't give a flip I guess. My question is what is wrong with me? Why do I feel nothing? Should I cut this friend out? I don't want to, (for May's sake) but I do for my own sanity.

I'm a guy, I'm s sophomore in a high school in Connecticut. I'm a Clippers fan and a bunch of Knicks fans at school keep saying "the Clippers are garbage", "the Clippers suck", "Blake Griffin sucks", "welcome to choke city" to me ever since they lost to the Rockets. And whenever they say stuff like that to me the whole class says "ohhhhhh" or at least all the guys who are either a Knicks fan or don't watch basketball. They have absolutely no first clue what they are talking about, the Clippers were ranked #1 in the regular season and post season and have the best offense in regular & post season, the only reason they lost is because the curse is still alive with them not getting to the second round. Anyways, how mean they are to me about the Clippers is making me not want to come to school. But why are they making up all this BS about the Clippers?

All i am is nice and what i get back is negativity. People treat me like **** and all i ever do is be nice. Should i just return the favor people have done to me? Im so sick of it. throughout middle school and now highschool i have to deal with this.

a friends house im 13 and my friend is also 13

My best friend in a sense gets everything she wants. I've wanted a mustang for years and years and I love those cars so much. My beatfriend's parens just bought her one and she doesn't even have a learner's permit yet. I went and got mine and I get my license right after I turn 16 in a few months. My parents probably aren't gonna get me a car, even though my brother has one. Defiantly not a mustang, so I was thinking "okay fine. I'll buy it myself" yet I can't get a job because I babysit all the time for my parents and I make straight A's and take extra classes and I buy everything myself by saving up. Yet here my best friend is my doing a thing and being lazy and gets a new car..why do things work out this way?

My (ex)best friend of 4 years backstabbed me and left my life completely for unknown reasons. One of my "friend" didnt invite me to her birthday party for unknown reasons. (she invited everyone i know, even my ex best friend but me. wtf. i dont do anything to hurt anyone.) People give me dirty looks in the hallway and i dont even know them. Overall people push me around and treat me like **** and all i do is be nice. Many people have blocked me on instagram and im not mean to anyone on there either. I post good things. Why is it that people treat me like ****, like i dont matter when all i do is be nice? Should i start being mean to people/bully people to return the favor? i mean wtf im such i nice person it just makes me want to cry It makes me want to punch a wall over and over until my hand breaks, or just punch a person over and over. Im such i nice person...(btw im a female fresh if that helps)

My friend has recently started to taking ecstacy when going out clubbing. I don't do drugs and never want to. I cant help thinking she is trying it bcz of her friends, I mean Its been on going for a long time now and I have started to see a difference in her. I am not saying she is an addict or she does very often but almost every other week. I am just trying to be a good friend but then again its her right to take it. I know its safe when your controlled but then again I have heard people died from this. Should I just ignore it? her face does look quite puffy (water retention). The worst part is that none of her close friends care about this nor do they have mentioned to her

Thy are rude to me, leave me out of things, and they just seem like they don't care if they hurt my feelings. Should I go to the concert with them or go by myself?

She drinks, smokes cigs and pot and has had sex with a guy and fooled around with an older guy (she's 16) and her grades are really low but she has some of the "cool" friends and goes to parties a lot. I'm kind of the opposite and a bit of a wallflower sometimes. I'm a straight A student in AP classes and studying for sats next year and all that fun stuff to get into an Ivy league school and I have my share of friends but they're not like the "cool" kids. i mean my friends grades arent the best but maybe grades and ivy league isnt everything and i should be "enjoying" my teenage years smoking and drinking and partying too? My cousin drinks too (15) and she has a boyfriend and I'm single. I feel so left out and it seems like my friend has more fun because she drinks and smokes and all that stuff. Should I be less of a prude and less uptight and loosen up and drink and smoke and have sex with some guy? Will I get invited to more parties then?

One of my friends didnt invite me to her birthday party but invited everyone else i know. She even invited on of my ex friends. Why didnt she invite me? I literally did nothing to her. This is why i ******* hate people. No matter how nice i am im still treated like ****. People are worthless. I meant people who treat others like **** are worhtless

My friend last week told me that my humor is dry. I don't fully understand this because I'm a jokester and am constantly making my friends and others laugh. Yesterday a girl I know in school walked by me with a friend of hers( which I don't really know), so I was a little more reserved. She told me I was dry like I was boring. Again I don't understand. I have times where Im fun and outgoing and then I have times where I'm laid back and just going with the flow. I could be quiet and not super talkative at times but I don't consider myself boring. Has anyone ever told you this? Do you think its true about yourself?

I just want opinions on this situation, like if you think it's weird we all hang out or if your friend groups pretty much do the same thing with all dating each other: Okay, so my close friend group is three guys and three girls. We're all juniors in high school. One of the girls happens to be my best friend of five years, and one of the guys is my current boyfriend, and the other two are both exes of mine. My best friend is currently dating one of my exes, and I'm dating one of her exes, both broke up about 8-11 months ago. So basically I've dated all three of the guys, my best friend has dated two, the third girl hasn't dated any And two of the guys (who are also best friends since middle school) have dated the two of us, and the third guy has dated one (me) and his current girlfriend is another really good friend of mine who I introduced him to (although she's not a part of the 6 of us) We became friends sort of because of the original couples, but now we're all just really close and hang out, and there's a lot less awkwardness or tension then you would expect (not to say there isn't any, but I think the good times that we have together usually outweighs that)

Hey, I'm 14 year old girl I suffer with an eating disorder. I'm not skinny, I'm 8st and hate my body and I'm very self conscious. I was wondering if there was anyone out there girl or boy who wanted to chat about it and stuff. I just need someone to talk to that's not the people already in my life right now xxx

me and my bestie usually already have a lot of fun and all, but we are out of games. Also we will play anything, literally anything!!! Plz help think of some for me. kk thnx also i need really embarrassing pranks like nudity and all so plz help me with that too, and nothing too loud. The reason I wanted pranks with nudity was because my bff played the worst prank ever on me and I wanna get her back for it

1. I am twenty two ears old and work in the fast food feild as a fry cook and will never accomplish anything greater than that. 2. My fellow co-workers make fun of me and assume that I am gay as my best friend and I joke around alot and we are very huggy. 3. Even though I have worked at this establishment for several years I have never earned a raised and if I worry if I confront my boss about the workers than I will be penalized. 4. The friend I mentioned earlier is the only friend I have and the only things we do is stupid stuff (he is also mentally retarded, but he has always been by my side through thick and thin.) 5. I can never leave my house or the town I live in as I never earned my drivers license and each time I try; I always fail horribly and I just feel like a failure. 6. My parents are never around.

I have a friend, who will also be my roommate next year, who I have not seen in almost six weeks. She and I made plans to hang out four weeks ago, however, the day we were supposed to hang out got away from her, her phone died, and she was unable to get together. The second time we had plans to hang out, she said she had too much homework and it just didn't work. The third time we made plans to get together, she realized she had an important meeting she had to go to. Today, we were supposed to eat a late lunch around 2:30pm, but she's hungover from last night and isn't feeling too well. Thus, she wants to hang out later this evening/get dinner. However, I had already made plans with my current roommate to go for a walk later tonight and watch a movie. And I really really want to hang out with her. My roommate is so sweet and is so understanding that she's fine with me doing whatever, but I feel really bad canceling on her. And she always says we can hang out later tonight or another time. However, I'm kind of frustrated at my friend right now and part of me wants to cancel (because I did have plans and she's cancelled with me so many times in the last few weeks), but, yet, part of me wants be the bigger person. Do you think that I should meet my friend later this evening or just hang out with my roommate? Thank you so much!

We were best friend 5 years now and we were really close.She was my protector at our old school never let anyone hurt me, because she was strong and i was weak, she was always there.We were so close that sometimes we even were jelous cause one of us had other friends too.Because i was more social she was even more jelous than i was.When we changed schools last year things really changed between us.At the beggining everything was fine but after she started to avoid me and i started be really really jelous couse i wasnt so much in her life like the past.Then i met a boy and we started dating.She was sometimes happy for me and other times really mad.When l broke up with him she didnt want to talk about that, she was really mad when i said his name.After that she was all the time angry with me for no reason, started fights with me even in front of others or just ignored me.A month ago in her birthdays i went in her party and had a lot of fun, but when everyone else left and we stayed alone we were really cold, but this time the strange thing was that i was cold and she tried to talk, to me make fun, but nothing we were like two strangers.And the wierd thing was that i had put a wall between us.After that she didn't took me in phone for a month i did exactly the same thing because i was bored of always doing the first move.But i think about her every day and want to talk to her, make things like the way they were in the past but i dont know what to do!-Sorry for my bad English!!!

There s this girl who keeps staring at me. She is generally a confident person, isn t afraid to speak her mind in class. She s cute, cool, pretty popular. She flirts with guys at ease, and usually SHE intimidates THEM. Hell, whenever she stares at me when she thinks I don t notice I get really nervous and uneasy but I don t let it show. Whenever I would catch her staring though, she would look away really quickly. She would always appear near me, sometimes even sit next to me, smile at me then when I try to smile back she looks away. I noticed that when she sees me walking down the hallway, she goes out of her way to take a freaking detour. At first I was thinking, holy crap I think she s avoiding me because she finds me creepy, yet even though there are other empty seats in the room, she would always choose to sit NEXT TO ME, then get all weird nervous, which makes me even more nervous! None of this makes sense! It doesn t add up because WHY WOULD SHE ACT NERVOUS AROUND ME?!? ME?!? A socially awkward guy! I m not even half as charismatic as her! I m not even attractive! I m not smart! I m not wealthy! What the hell! I am NOT intimidating!

Im going to Miami this summer with my mom and my 10 year old brother. Im a 15 year old girl so i dont want to be hanging out with him during the whole vacation. The last time i made a friend on holiday was when i was 6, since then ive been too shy to talk to people. Im staying at an appartment. Im shy but i can talk to someone and keep a conversation going. Please dont say stuff like: just be yourself. Because that doesnt help me at all... Just advice on how to approach someone without being a creep lol or if u have stories on how you met someone while on vacation would help too. Btw i cant bring a friend Thanks :)xx

I need help on a friendship situation... I guess ill start from the beginning. a few years ago me and a friend horseback rode together (she got me into it). But for the past couple years i feel there has been a strain in our friendship. she got a computer and she turned into what id call a gamer, but its got to the point where its upsetting because for years i have gone over there just to stare at her wall while she played and skyped her friends instead of talking to me, and she is totally oblivious to this. i have told her how i feel as well. she recently got a boyfriend and she only gets off her computer for him and invites him over while i am there without asking me if i mind. I'm at a place now where i don't think our friendship is going to last and i haven't been to see her that much in months. the biggest problem is that i found a place to horseback ride again because my mom got a new job and said she would let me ride again for my birthday. i have been asking my friend to find a place to ride with me for months but she would just say yes and then not do anything about it. when i found a place i told her and her grandma and they said they would look into it like a month ago, so i did and am able to do it, but now I'm thinking that i don't want to tell her. i feel like i should because she would like it too, but i don't want to ruin something i enjoy and play fake nice with her. however i feel if i don't tell her and she finds out she would be very mad. what should i do?

He is very pushy sometimes, will always try and prove me wrong, is obsessed with trying to get me one night stands (which is legit as I am a virgin at 31) makes horribly dark jokes about children (but studied social care) when I can't afford something he says he will pay for whatever "guilt free" but kind of throws it back in my face a few weeks later even when I told him I did not want anything in the first place, he is always farting and while that might seem funny, sometimes it pisses me off as it's quite immature. He can be quite rude if I am standing nearby and tells me to walk on or leaves me hanging if he is talking to others. Now and then he may try and attempt to inflict pain on me to his own amusement. But I stand my ground a lot. But at the same time he can be quite the good friend and never leaves me out of group activities. But I take the good with the bad.

My friends and I took a photo together and made it our FB cover photos. A few months later, we decided to take a photo together again, and decided to dress the same as in the previous photo. They said that because my friend and I had been barefoot (no socks) in the original photo, we should take off our socks and be barefoot in that photo too to dress the same as we had in the previous photo (tho they were wearing socks as they had in the previous photo). We thought it was odd, but we took them off. Does anyone else find that odd?

Today I made plans with my best friend to hang out later. Well stupid me forgot I already had plans with others so I texted her saying I forgot I had other plans and that I was sorry. Well she read the text and never responded. I texted her again saying how sorry I was again and that I shouldn't have forgotten about the other plans because now I feel bad. What do I do? She's seriously my best friend, she's like a sister and I don't know what to do

What does the ignore button on snapchat do? When you click a users name it gives you the option to block and ignore...

My friend's 17 and she's chatting with 20 year old guys on dating sites like Plenty of Fish. She made a fake profile, but one guy managed to find out her name and number by paying for her personal information online. Guys ask her for nudes on Snapchat. She even sends guys dirty texts. She met another guy online and gave him a hand job in a park. She later found out this guy's been talking with other girls and that upset her. I'm worried that she isn't making good decisions and will end up with a lot of regret. She doesn't understand that she's putting herself in dangerous situations by meeting up with random guys and performing sex acts. I don't think her mom cares either. One of our friends is 14 and is telling her that she's making poor choices. If a 14 year old can see it why can't she?

How can I ask a friend to leave my house after he planned on sleeping over? It doesn't matter why I don't want him to anymore it's just a how problem. Thank you

So, yesterday, my friends and I went to an amusement park for a school trip. We kept seeing some kid that looked to be a couple years older than us, and we would make little comments to eachother about how cute he was. At one point, he was in line for a ride that we were on. As we get off the ride and start walking away, they start talking about one of us going up to him and telling him he's attractive. One of my friends wanted to but eventually didn't go through with it, so instead my friend (let's call her M), walked up to him and straight-up told him he was good-looking. She sounded so confident, and it was interesting watching it unfold. We started to leave the area again when one of his friends yells for her number. We go BACK over, and M gives him her number. After that, our group finally headed over to another ride, and we congratulated her. Some more of our friends came over and we told them the story. Then, the guy calls her and wants to meet with her so she tells him where we are. He makes it over pretty quick with a different friend and says he has to leave really soon. He goes in for what we think was gonna be a kiss but M didn't realize it and hugged him. For the rest of the time we were there we kept talking about it, and I really wish I had the courage to do what she did. It also helped that she's very pretty and looks older than the rest of us. It kinda made me insecure, and I know that if I was the one to do it, it would have been awkward. Help?