My dad left when me and my sister were really young hes hardly ever been there for us, hes been with his new girlfriend for 6 years and he never texts, calls or asks how i am? He doesnt oay my mum any money to keep me and doesn't give me any money either! He goes on at least 2 holidays a year and doesnt even tell me about them i find out on fb mostly? I asked him if he would help out eith payingg for my prom dress snd he ignored the text after i texted him saying 'thanks for replying DAD' he replied with 'no problem' he really doesnt care for me and im so upset someone please help

and Im not talking with you person of Nevada, Missouri, Mississipi, Woyming and the like. lized*

I moved to a small town recently with my parents. Since everything is so limited. I'm having a hard time getting someone to hire me. I'm looking as much as I possibly can and even looking at jobs within an hour distance. What can I say to my parents for now so they won't ridicule and yell at me for it until I have a little more time to get someone to hire me?

My dad had an affair with a younger woman when I was 15. I'm not going in to detail because it's personal. My mother found proofs when she found a phone holding all of the evidence voice mails, texts etc. I'm 21 now and this subject still gets me mad! Why? When that was happening my dad would only fight with my mom and even with me! I want to get over it but I just cant sometimes I ask my self "why did my dad do this" ( my parents are still together )

i recently posted a job and contacted a few caregivers that they let me contact free, I have yet to get any response so it makes me want to purchase the membership so I can contact caregivers that look promising but I am unable to reach for free. I have been reading and found negative reviews and complaints that it is a scam. Has anyone found caregivers on the website and had success?

I'm 21 a year old guy in college, still living with my parents until I finish classes within the the next couple of years, and though I appreciate them letting me live here rent free, I can't help but feel it's unfair of them to barge into my room whenever they want and watch TV or use my computer. I could handle this if this was a once in a while thing, but it's every single day, I've told them time and time again, I need my privacy, I don't even need to close the door, I just want to be left alone, but they keep telling me it's their house, and I don't need privacy. I do not know how to get through to them that it is extremely rude and disrespectful to just walk in at any time, and stay in there for hours at a time. They have their own TV, they have their own computer, I am someone that likes being left alone, but they don't care, they just do whatever they want, and I'm the bad guy for complaining about it.

I agreed to buy my mom's car after she decided to get a new. So far it's been six months and she's done very little to get a new one. I paid the car insurance and paid her for the car how much longer should I wait. She still calls it hers and I have to ask when I need to use it.

For instance, I'm one of the slower runners at the track club I run at, so I'm always put into age groups younger than me. I'm 13. One time, I even got put in a group full of annoying little kids. I'm also treated like a child by my parents. I'm not allowed to have a cell phone, I'm always watched when I go on the computer, can't go outside of my own street in my neighbourhood without an adult, and other things. Whenever I try to grow up and be mature, for some reason life won't allow it, and I'm always pushed back down. Yet my parents still wonder why I'm so immature and irresponsible. I also never listen for some reason. I'm always trapped in my mind, thinking about the things I like, daydreaming, and I'm never listening. I don't know why I do this. For some reason I never heed advice from anyone. I once had a counselor to give me advice on life, but I never heeded advice from her for some reason, and my mom was paying her too much, so she pulled me away from her. For some reason I always fight with my little brother. He's 7. Every little thing he does for some reason annoys me. I cannot tolerate his singing, copying, anything from him. He never listens to me. Yet I still don't know why I continue to bully him. I also feel like I have ESP. I'm always reacting to exact times, subconsciously noticing patters, predicting what is going to happen, and other things. Now, it's just getting to much for me to handle. I don't know how it happened. (Extending in updates) I fee like I have ESP that's, preventing me from WANTING to get better, or, WANTING me to get along with my little brother, basically preventing me from doing a lot of things. I also live in a country where the government is corrupt, there's constantly questions on here about cons and libs, the education system sucks, and other thing I fail at life, and now I feel like DYING. If things are constantly going to be this way, then I just don't want to live like this anymore. I also have Asperger's syndrome. What do I do? I'm not threatening anyone.

So for the past couple of years in the summer i go to six flags with my dad and my sister whose about a year younger than me. Now i have a twin sister whose like my bff but she cant go on rides so she never comes. So i just go with my younger sister. Anyways shes ussually somewhat nice to me at home but when we get to the amusmant park shes disrespectful. For example, when we get in lines for rides she cuts me off when im talking to her and she tells me not to tlk to her. And she mostly ignores me. So im left there bored out of my mind until we get on the ride. I would bring a friend with me but my dad is kinda against the idea because my sister has like social issues and shes rlly shy so she has like no close friends. So my dad thinks i'll leave her out. Also the oarks kinda far frm where i live. But borh of us love six flags so i def have to go. So idk what to do?

I read an article about a person who apologized to the one who bullied in high school... I was very thin and scrawny and excelled in studies and was teacher's pet..This made me a constant target to the bullies..The group of guys were bullying me just to make themselves feel better... I lost my self confidence,limited my social experience and cried silently because I hated going to school... Of course,I did have horrible abusive parents who never listened to me and sometimes I never knew whether school was bad or house was bad.... I never had a girlfriend as everyone thought I was a loser and nerd...and sometimes when i think of it,I feel those public humiliation happened just yesterday even though it happened 16 yrs before... Do these bullies think they can just wipe off their sins just by telling a sorry after so many years...Can u give us back our childhood??? Would any tormented soul actually forgive these bullies no matter how christian you are...To me,forgiveness wont give me closure,..its more like someone applying banaid after creating a gangrene

I love my bro. But like i said. One day i will break his nose or really hurt him its that annoying.

My little brother who is 21 is the most irresponsible person I know. He is always late or just never shows up for family functions and does not take any responsibility for his actions. Normally I wouldn t care but I am my mom s confidant, when she is mad at him she will talk to me (sometimes all day) BUT when I try to intervene or offer solutions she will always have an excuse for him. I no longer want to be included in their squabble, would it be wise to keep my distance from both of them or should I not let this affect my relationship with my mother?

I got the wrong woman pregnant, almost no one likes her bc shes not a good woman, shes mean, disrespectful, she has a bad temper, shes crazy to say the least. Today i found out that i am indeed the father of the baby she recently had. Now, i got a conscience, and im not the type that would bail out on my baby, i have the urge to be responsible, but i don't want to be with her and im scared.. Im more scared for my child bc hes going to be raised by her and around her disfunctional family, i feel messed up for saying this but its true, her family is a mess and i always dreamed about making a family with a decent young woman, where we could all get along. This happened bc i made the mistake of sleeping with her one night. I accept responsibilty of my son, but i need advice on what to do to not go crazy bc thats what im feeling like. Edit I got the wrong woman pregnant.. Any advice?

I'm 16, and only child/boy... I've got in a lot of trouble at school and at home and outside before with various mischief, talking back, drugs at home and other things. My mom said from now on as long as I don't destroy the house and invite more then 5 people max to my house I can do whatever I want without sneaking around in or out of the house however I need to be visible if I'm in the house and if I'm around the house need to tell her and if I'm away from the house to text/call where I am. But she seriously doesn't care too much what I do as long as I take caution. But if I'm in the house she just wants to be able to check on me that's all and she doesn't need to say a word. She doesn't trust my Dad as he's done some weird things lately so I guess she wants some trust. So I asked her inside the house whatever? I asked her straight up can I smoke pot and get laid and she had no problem at all with it. I have to have a window open. Then I asked about girls she said it's fine as long as I use condoms and she said she was going to buy some for me and she did. I've never had sex before much less know how to put one on and I'm friends with girls but not asking to do it. I got a bj behind my house once and my mom found out and didn't like that I was sneaking around. But I also don't want her peaking in my room especially if I'm getting it on. What do you think? Should I do this at my parents house? I don't know what my Dad thinks but don't care about him we don't talk much.

I'm 27 years old and I'm the age my mom was when she first had my older brother. And she doesn't seem like she's a better person after having us. She and my dad seems like they use us as guilt machines. When they talk to us, they complain how we're both not living the lives THEY want for us. My dad still treats me like a little girl. My mom complains that my brother is not making enough money in his jobs so he could give some of it to her. My parents present themselves so lowly to us. But they still want us to respect them because they're our parents. But do they have a right to treat us like we're control objects or dogs just because they gave birth to us?

I met him a year ago. I wasn't allowed to date. we kept it a secret and did LDR for 3 months, though we lived fairly closed. I did not see him for 3 months. after, I told my parents. it was ok then. they tried to accept it, they really did. I saw him. we were only allowed to see each other in our house, with my brothers and mom watching us. not very fun. he is 18 and I am two years younger. one time I gave a simple kiss. they get mad, because my brother tells my parents. then, they take everything from me. my phone, then I was grounded. treated like a kid. one day they lost it. they cut all my clothes open, cut everything he gave me, told off my boyfriend, switched my schools the next day (he didn't go to my school) without anybody knowing, chopped off my hair and almost stabbed me with the scissors, tried kicking me out, abused me, hit me, all that. in my new school I talked to my boyfriend using the payphone. I'd skip class. I was never like this. it went on for a month. I tried saying we should take a break. I cried in school many times. the counsellor and teachers would send me for help. they only judged me. I wanted to die many times, and even attempted. we never broke up. we wrote letters. 3 months later, I get my phone back, and realize two of my friends killed themselves. they wanted to talk to me but I was gone.they thought I died. as a child, I was abused a lot because I didn't do good in a sport. I was 6but I was forced to lift 80 pounds on my chest. I'm so tired. he is still my boyfriend. my parents seem to tease me about my sexuality. they say I will fail in the future. e at the same time theyre so loving. I'm so sad. I don't know what to do. they laugh at me and remind me of those times. by the way, the whole isolation thing changing school wasn't the first time it happened. at lunch in school, my brother has to watch me so I don't do things I don't have friends, only online friends I am only 16 but this is how it is for me already. my school grades are ver bad too. I don't know. school is easy but I feel lazy. I have a job right now too and I'm lucky they even allow me, but they make me feel bad saying if not for them I won't have the job. I am who applied for it and got interviewed. he is a good man. he is sensitive and he cries even more than I do when I'm sad. he cares for me a lot. probably he cares for me more than I care for myself. he is the one for me. I still talk to him. it is kept a secret. but it's so hard keeping it a secret for months now. I want a future with him but my parents make it hard, and they make me feel undeserving.

I came up to the states to live with my aunt (my other sis came too) because the school up here is great and I m tired of where I lived before. So I asked and my mom said that I could. I ve been here for 6 months and I hate it. I don t like the family, they are really annoying, I m doing bad in school at the moment, I was doing perfect when I lived with my parents. I just want to go back I relaised I had a pretty awesome life down there but I m scared they won t let me come back because of the program s this school offers. If I do go back I will be accepted into an awesome college and I just really miss my mom dad and sister. Help me convince them to come back home. Btw I m 16. So please help.

My parents are having fights like everyday now, and after their fights they're really moody. I know they're supposed to be moody afterwards...its natural. But then they start yelling at me and my siblings for the tiniest things...and they're just like "I don't care. I'm past caring." They've threatened to divorce before, but my family all have like a massive crying thing and they decide not to... I guess I'm just scared that they will actually divorce, and nothing we do or say will stop them. Help?!!

We were watching Troy. My family is the type to never talk about sex or girls or anything like that. I knew it was rated R, but not because of nudity, but because it was bloody I though. There was a scene that came up when Diane Kruger takes off her top and reveals her boobs (they looked huge!), not to mention she's extremely hot to begin with. It was only four seconds, but I had such an awkward ***** sitting next to my uncle and cousins. My dad tried to fast forward it but of course the remote button was working slowly. A few minutes later, we saw her naked butt. It was really nice but awkward watching it! My dad yelled at me later for picking such a "dirty" movie... This was the scene, NSFW: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xfmtdm_diane-kruger-nude-in-troy-movie-18_redband

I don't know what to do, when I'm around my mom, I always want to kill myself and makes me want to self harm. since I was born till when I was 7, my dad used to beat her and make her drink and do drugs, and my half sister (( same mom not same dad )) would have to hold me back as we sat there and had to watch it. At 7, we moved away to Texas and lived with my stepdad, who is just like my dad except the drugs and drinking and abuse. At 10, I developed acne. And around 12, it got worse than normal and I was diagnosed with cystic acne, look it up on google pictures. My face and back and chest are covered in it, they look like blisters. My dad and his acne has caused me hurt mentally. I am over sensitive and over emotional, I self harm when times get too bad. My mom knows, well knew, she thinks I stopped but actually I just cut on my thigh now and she doesn't know. Now onto my mom, she blames everything on me. When I'm talking she interrupts me, she nags about everything I do and if I'm talking to her she accuses me of yelling and nags about that, she says I'm just like my dad and that pisses me off more. I tell her it does but she still does it. My mom is overprotective and tells me that she's going to check my iPad hard drive and that gets my anxiety high. You would have to know her about all the **** she does to me. Oh and I was sexually assaulted at 5 or 6 and she knows.

Today's my 15th birthday & I was so excited for this day because 15 has always been my favorite number but I'm sad because I'm sick, on my period, & nobody cares! I was cleaning the house for my mom but when I saw how unappreciative she was, I went to my room to lay down & rest since I'm sick & she came in asking if id hang up my clothes. This was supposed to be my special day & it's ruined for multiple reasons. I don't mean to sound selfish but I get one day out of the whole entire year to feel special & worth something but I don't at all. What should I do?

So in September 2014 me & cousin went to my friends house and it was just her dad her mom was at work and me and friend and cousin where outside play and I asked my friend a question "do your parents love each other"? Because my friends parents argue all the time and they don't say I love you or anything I know it's not my business thou but anyways I asked her and she said yeah I was like prove it and she said she walk down the hallway and she said she walked in her mom's bedroom and found her mom on top of her dad with no pants or underwear on and her dad had a hole in his pajama pants and they yelled at her & told her to get out anyways back to the main why my cousin got kicked out my cousin was trying to help my friend and tell her that she needed to tell a teacher that she was being bullied and we go back to my friends after going for a walk and then my friends mom yells at my cousin saying that she doesn't want her hearing that crap and she kicks me and my cousin out & her dad was giggling at us saying: "Girls might want to get your **** because you probably won't be coming back" and her mom comes out of nowhere and says "MICHAEL SHUT IT"!!!!! And then her dad was shouting at me and my cousin saying get your **** and get your asses in the car and so me and my cousin just walked home now my cousin is no longer able to go back over & it's actually not fair how they did her like that has something ever happened to you similar to this incident?

Is it? My dad is a surgeon and he gets paid 13$ a month and i mean by now i havent seen anything over the top even though whenever i tell someone that my dad is a doctor they go all crazy and stuff but by far I haven't seen anything that "amazing" i mean it's either not a lot or my dad is just a cheap bastard lol

This aint my case lol. But i heard about a mother who had a baby and then asked the dad for money so she could leave without the baby. Is there any law on this? Which is it?

Btw, I'm 18 So my mom just got back from the dentist the today after getting her wisdom teeth out, and as per usual, she wasnt her normal self. In fact she didnt even know she was my mother. I drove her home to our apartment, and she was talking about how hot I was... In the car, she even attempted to give me a HJ... I told her no, but then when w got home, she stripped down nude, and I couldn't help myself, she was stunning, and she seemed completely out of her mind. I got turned on very quickly and assumed that since she was under a pill, she wouldn't even remember anything, so I went for it, and we had sex. Anyway, she's asleep now, and I'm sure that when she wakes up, she'll be back to her normal self, do you guys think she'll remember? What if she does?

I got bullied at my school about 5 months ago and he told my step dad just now. I'm scared they will tell my school and start it all over again. What can I do?

My Friends parents are overprotective about anything me and my friend do my friend is 14 years old and I'm 15 and her parents really don't let her do anything so she watch R Rated movies or play M for Mature games or anything she still has a bedtime & she doesn't know anything about sex or anything of that I respect her parents wishes and everything I want her parents to losing up one day 😩

My parents are really affectionate and they always kiss and hold hands and stuff. I guess it's okay but it kind of annoys me when I go into the kitchen and my mum is just touching my dad's butt or whatever, and when we were camping with our family friends, it was dark and they went to the toilets and my dad's friend shone a torch at them and they were kissing in the dark on their way to the toilet block . . . It wouldn't be so embarrassing if our family friends didn't go to the school where my dad teaches . . . They had me and my sister young and they've been through a lots so that's their excuse but can I tell them I find it embarrassing? Sigh . . .

I'm the only adult she trust to tell, I'm hurting and in shock. I notice that she's very standoff from the family at events and she says she thinks everyone is going to be mad at her which is why she stays away from.everyone. I told her I'll be there for support when she decides to open up for discussion . Her mom.has no idea either. She says she had 1 encounter but it was just that. I will never betray her trust that she knows which is why she told, my heart is heavy. Advise or suggestions.

what are the rules in taking a small child on a kayak? My son is almost 3 and I have a single person kayak would it be safe to put him in between my legs or does the law state that I need a tandem kayak? Thank you (I live in Michigan, US if that makes a difference).

Okay so I called my school pretending to be my mom this morning and said I was sick (I lost a relative and I'm honestly a mess)..I couldn't just tell my mom to let me stay home cuz she already said no..btw my aunt is here and she is covering for me (ex. My mom asked if I went on the bus and she said yeah) Anyways I kinda texted my mom and stuff saying "a girl in my school was being annoying" just so she can think I'm there plus I usually tell her stuff like this. And she didn't even act suspicious or annoyed, even to my aunt. Will the school call my mom or dad later just to make sure? Cuz I called on the house phone but I just hope I won't get in trouble cuz I needed a day off to just cry and think about life without ppl seeing me and talking about how I cried. Plz just say if u think ill get in trouble..ik if I get caught then okay I'll face everything and do my punishment..but plz just tell me if the school will call her later and if she will know

I am in usa now in visiter visa me and my wife and my sister emigrant file for me and my wife and my son my son in India now

My sister is 12 im 15 I have no idea why but I like her toenails and her fingernails so I ask her for 4 pics a week but sometimes being brother and sister we argue and boom I don't get anymore and I even was able like when I will be sitting down watching tv or something I could stop her when she was walking by and look at her feet and she wouldn't care at all or her hands it didn't really matter but I sometimes get to paint her nails but no im not gay and I try to make it better and so that it can go back to the way it was but what is a solution to this I really want more pics and to be able to see her hands and feet which actually I have so many opportunities just we haven't talked in a few days idk y she just decides not to say anything but I know deep down inside I want to sincerely apologize and get back to her hands and feet and she knows that so please help with a solution but one thing to its like she teases me when she walks through the house so am I letting her have to much power over me and how to lessen that and to get back to the way it was

I have very neglectful parents who don't care about me. Who I can't tell them nothing. And have keep everything inside. Who don't teach me anything nor help me out with anything. I want to know is it possible for someone else to be my parents and treat me right. Or you only have one parents and if it doesn't work out you will never have loving parents. I want to find parents.

Ok so she was in my life since I was almost 7 and she was nice at first but after we moved she started being abusive for example making fun of the way I was acting,threatening to physically hurt me, saying hurtful stuff to me (like telling me she doesn't wanna look at me for example). This got so bad to the point where I started taking my anger out on my belongings and sometimes my own body even though I normally looked for exuses to do it. But the main reason I'm asking is because I started self harming again because my dad ended their relationship and she's started looking for excuses to take it out on me which is why I'm staying at my grandma's because I really don't wanna be at that house with her acting like that because my dad told me that this will probably go to court, but to be honest I hope that It does because even though this happened a long time ago I feel that she needs to be reported for the abuse. Well I'm not dwelling on the past or anything I'm asking because my dad ended the marriage and she's not leaving without a fight because the ***** had a cop come to the house and tried to make my dad sound like the bad guy but what can I do to express my anger in a positive way like should I sing,listen to music,draw or what should I do to get rid of negative feelings because it's not just all the court **** thats been going on, I have an ex from this year who I found out had used me which is also making me upset. Any advice

I was looking through the files on my account and I came across one with pictures of my mum and step dad having sex. I'm only a 13 year old girl. There were pictures of whips and stuff and some pretty disgusting stuff. I am absolutely disgusted. There was also a picture of them holding up a sign saying fabswinger.com. Does this mean they posted these images online? I'm scarred by this. What can I do? I am never bringing this up to her by the way. Or my step dad. It was the account on my computer by the way so it's private. But they obviously didn't mean to put the file on my account. I hate the idea of having sex as I have now had 2 encounters of finding pictures and videos like that of people I know

He doesn't like it when I "kick" the table. I said Ok and moves my leg over. It accidentally touched the table and he went nuts. I said "I MOVED MY GODDAMN LEG" and he screamed "**** **** WHY DID YOU ******* KICKING THE GODDAMN TABLE" HELP?!?!

Am I being unfair to my ex since I took away week on/week off visitation over the summer? I want my kids to attend summer school & play sports...but we moved 35 miles away from their dad & their dad can't afford (or won't) bring them to their activities. Right now he can't afford (or won't) attend their concerts, games, track meets, PT conferences, etc. I think he went to 2 of my son's basketball games over the winter & only because they were within 10 miles of his apartment. He's using us moving as an excuse to why he can't attend, but even when we lived nearby he didn't. I told him I am changing the summer visitation schedule to just biweekends like they are during the school year & he flipped out at me. Does he expect me to keep them from summer activities since he can't (won't) bring them?

They recently asked to see my bank statements but there are some deposits on there that my mother made to help me out financially. Will Social Security punish me by withholding a portion of my check because I got help from my family?

I'm 13 and my brother is 19. We have no problems in the past and still don't, but I feel like my brother doesn't care much about me. He never spends time with me. He just spends all day, everyday with his friends or his phone. He still eats with us, but his attention is either, on his phone or doesn't speak at all. When his with us, or he's with me, alone. I would feel his vibe like, "stop talking, you're so annoying" or "Don't disturb me. I'm busy." or "can I leave and go to my friends". That kind of vibe, I was feeling when I'm around him. Plus, he always have this look, like, annoyed/ irritated-poker face-ish when his at home. When I visited his school, I would always see him with his friends having a blast. He looks...happy, even. When I was around him, he doesn't even smile, for goodness' sake! I felt like I didn't give him happiness as his younger sibling. I guess thats what happens when you grow up? What should I do about it? Btw, I always try to communicate with him. Like, "Do you wanna watch this movie with me?" but he just ignored me...and that's the time when I usually sigh.

How to overcome the sadness and refrain from repeating them how badly you miss them ? What to talk about ? Thanks in advance.

I grew up with a very controlling and overprotective father who loved to make my decisions for me and be protective. I'm 27 now and he's still like that. I'm trying to become independent and make decisions on my own but I just don't have the confidence to do it. And my dad never offers me any positive encouragement to make choices either. He'll just say "Do what you want, no one's stopping you". He's never encouraging when I speak confidently. It's like he doesn't know how to respond to a confident woman. Should I just ignore him? He never seems at peace unless he's controlling me like a puppy or pupPET.

How can i take the steps to legally come live with my mom instead of my dad who has full custody.? ppls help! i am a 15 year old in Indiana.

My dad is always checking my phone and getting in my business. I'm 19 years old (female). And my dad will not let me get a part time job or let me get a car. He scares all my friends away.

So I should start with my dad, My dad is a nice guy i should say and his relationship story when he was with my mom I should PROBALY say it was so sweet! And than like when my mom pregnant for the fourth sibling of me he was acting kind of stressful, only stressful. And than when my little brother were like 1.5 year and my aunt who take care of him were leave and married, now my dad always angry at us for not take care of him like we do and me and my brothers always see him as a not nice person.. When me and my brother make pasta by ourselves my dad says "OH U MADE URSELF A FOOD AND WE SERVE U A FOOD AND U NOT EATING IT??! (The food actually not rlly give to us it's just put like that not serve plate by plate and it's actually for my parents) OH U ARE SO RUDE (to my mom) DONT GIVE (me and my brother) FOOD JUST LET THEM MAKE FOOD BY THEMSELVES BUY THEM VEGETABLES" like if my dad not were like this he probaly says "Wow U made food by yourselves! How creative, are they good?" And something nice like that I don't know why he's acting like this, also when I made my own hot chocolate he says "(to my oldes brother) OH LOOK WHAT HES MAKE SO WEIRD" and yeah why is he like that? and when he's get home me and my brother SHOULD take care of my brother non stop and no time playing phone, I usually play my phone at 12 am like this happened every night and I saw twice or more my mom sobbing or crying I know its probaly bc of my dad... She never cry before:-(.. I had anxiety too I feel sick

I recently finished my freshman year of college and lets just say that the price was nothing short of a pretty penny. Despite all my scholarships and grants, it is still an expensive fee every year for my parents. I recently enrolled in an online Summer class that's an additional big fee. I told my parents that I want to start commuting because it will be easier, but I didn't tell them that worrying about money is the reason why. I'm still a young person and I'm still a teenager, I know it's not normal to worry about money so much the way I do. How do I stop worrying about it and stop feeling like I'm such a burden?

Ok guys it's going to be long.. but I appreciate if u guys could read it.. ok 1st:My mom My family is so fake.. !! My mom is the mastermind of fake.. she has this one friend from singapore that used to visit us every weekend.. when my mom's friend form singapore came to our house she act so kind with me and the cats.. usually she won't let the cats in.. she doesn't even give food to the cats.. all she knows is complaining..and my mom also cursed alot at me.. she smoke around the house.. showing me a bad example.. like come one what mom would smoke and cursed at her son ?!! My dad:He always troll me , make fun of me.. talk behind my back.. and would always find a reason to embarrased me My bro:He's my mom's favourite Usually my mom would lock up my cat into a cage... and she won't let anybody to release the cat.. I always release the cats so that they can enjoy playing in the house.. my mom knows that i always release them. and one day my bro release the cat.. and my mom cursed at me without knowing the reason.. but when she misunderstood she doesn't even say sorry to me.. when my bro came home she asked him nicely... and my bro admit he release the cats.. she wasn't even mad at him My sister:She's the angle of the family. she's smart get good grades very popular at school well im not good at school i don't even like school.. i dropped out of school because to me.. school isn't teaching me anything.. my family hates me because i can't be like her Im the last one out of 4

They are my only friends in school and in real life. I have lots of online friends because I spend a lot of time playing online games but I like hanging out with those guys as well because they are nice to me and I don't smoke with them. They tell me not to get addicted to this **** they are very nice guys but my mom caught me with them on bus stand we were waiting for the bus she got out of the car pushed me in and then twisted my ear and slapped me several times telling me to stay away from those people. She hasn't done that before it scared me. I'm 15 those guys are 16 but they have been smoking since 13 or 12 its not like I'm going to get hooked up.

im really scared of my dad. Every day, he grabs my butt and whipes it very slowly because there is something "on it". Every morning he waits at my door when im getting dressed to tell me good morning. He is always staring at my butt and breasts and i know that because i was walking by my mirror and he was staring. Im really scared, please help.

My mom seems to not respect me at all, for example when i ask her a question she ignores me as if whatever she's thinking about is way more important than i am. This seems like a minor incident but stuff like that has happened so much, stuff like not trusting me because i don't prove myself to be trustworthy but the thing is i do things to prove to her that i am and she just seems to forget. She also just happens to just be the most unpleasant person to be around, e.g. one time she just stepped over someone's wheelchair and she blamed that person for getting her hurt. And i'm just starting to believe that it's my fault because i could just be a rebellious teenager going through a phase which is why i feel like she's so unpleasant. When i was younger i had the best relationship with my mom but now it just makes me so mad whenever i think about it. And the worst part is that when i get angry at her she either just brushes it off like my feelings aren't important or i will just get over it in less than 10 minutes and both of those things doesn't help me in this situation at all. Should i just bear with it until she possibly stops or should i do something about it?