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- Question: Should I confront my previous English professor?
- Question: Who is the most important person in your life?
- Question: HELP! Boyfriend calls me Mom??
- Question: How do I find a person only by name?
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- Question: Why Is my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend still chubby with HIS family?
- Question: Is it true that the vast majority of tall non-hispanic white american girls are of eastern european and italian heritage?
- Question: How to tell boyfriend that he gave me chlamydia?
- Question: Should I have said this to my mum husband?
- Question: How do i get rid of someone fast?
- Question: I have a thing for my cousins feet is it wrong?
- Question: My brother in law is an a**hole?
- Question: Is there a child abuse email.?
- Question: In long-distance relationships, I ve noticed that more women than men move to the other state for our boyfriends? I am in an LDR, as well...?
- Question: Why cant i let people get close to me?
- Question: Was it right for me to hit my dad back?
- Question: My siblings received money from my deceased father! I did not get my share?
- Question: I caught my mom's friend texting my sisters husband?
- Question: My boyfriend sleeps on the couch every night?
- Question: Awkward situations,conversation,cant make friends ,scared?
- Question: How to handle this situation with my boyfriend's cousin?
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- Question: Am I attracted to girls?
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- Question: Was I raped?
- Question: Im not gay but i like the looks of men over woman?
- Question: Good Birthday Presents for LDR Relationships !?
- Question: It's easy to blame males for our own pain of dealing with the reality of our lives and relationships?
- Question: Why did he cheat on me?
- Question: How do you get over feeling too judged by others?
- Question: Someone told me to bear **** myself, what's that?
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Question: Dad doesn’t want to help me because he has to go to church, why? Posted: 13 May 2015 02:59 PM PDT Need help in getting drivers license so i'm practicing now on my permit. I'll be able to afford a driver next month but I will also need heavy help from my dad to get me on the road. He goes to church twice a week and refuses to help me today (one of the few days I'm available), I am afraid I won't get the hours I need to pass my drivers exam…. I have nobody else btw. |
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Question: Should I confront my previous English professor? Posted: 13 May 2015 02:42 PM PDT last year my English professor for 101 came up to me and said ," I think you are really smart, you are not trying hard enough." Here is why she said it. I skipped class between the second and third week of the semester which was during the time she went over how to do an academic paper. The day I came back to class, a paper was due, and I actually handed one in. Out of 22 students, I and 11 others had our papers passed. The reason why she said that she thinks I am smart was because I was able to hand in a passable paper despite not going to class the last few days, which really impressed her. Unfortunately, I failed her class Lets call this professor, Professor X. I failed the class two more times. (I KNOW ITS SAD BUT I TRIED REALLY HARD). X lost respect for me after I failed the 2nd time. The fourth attempt I took this class I had it with professor W. Ultimately, I got a B+. I revealed to W, of my many attempts towards this class. He was shocked although he had a huge amount of respect towards me. He told that the reason why I was not able to get above a B+ on my papers, even though I had strong analysis was because my papers lacked confidence, which may have also contributed to my previous failures. For instance, before, coming up with ideas for papers took DAYS, and my lack of confidence may have hindered me in writing papers on time. So anyway, should I confront professor X with this good news? I feel like I owe her this. I am not interested in earning her respect back. i still respect her though |
Question: Who is the most important person in your life? Posted: 13 May 2015 01:34 PM PDT and why? |
Question: HELP! Boyfriend calls me Mom?? Posted: 13 May 2015 01:28 PM PDT My boyfriend calls me mom, what should I do? |
Question: How do I find a person only by name? Posted: 13 May 2015 01:25 PM PDT i really want to find a certain person but all i have is a name and nothing else. i don't really want to go into detail but its a family member. I've asked other family member but they don't know anything or don't remember. im starting to feel like ill never find them, any help or suggestions would be supremely appreciated |
Question: Eatable mushrooms eau claire wisconsin? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:48 PM PDT theres a mushroom growing outside in the woodchuck right by the backdoor at my mother's house, I want to know if me or my cats and dog can eat them with out dieing or being poisonned, it's a tanish brownish grooved (almost like termite holes) button top mushroom that grows on bundles growing in woodmultch that the cats go in every now and again. |
Question: Why Is my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend still chubby with HIS family? Posted: 13 May 2015 12:31 PM PDT i don't get it. They broke up in September 2012 and I've been dating him since June 2013. None of his family are friends with me on social media yet they are chummy with the ex-girlfriend. I almost think she "likes" their photos to be passive aggressive because that's the only thing she can control, because she can't control the relationship between my boyfriend and I. She is a 36 year old woman (never married), it's time to grow up now and move on, lady. What can I do? For the most part, my bf and I don't have to be around his family all that much but the principle of it is obnoxious, that there is a double standard and they treated her better and still do. I'm never included in family photos and yet she was when they were together. It's ridiculous! Please help? What should I do? What can I do? She is also a phony: she plays the part of the republican, catholic goody, goody who behind closed doors is a bisexual who engaged in a threesome with my boyfriend and one of her female friends |
Posted: 13 May 2015 10:47 AM PDT i ask it because i see tall non-hispanic white american girls all the time and they happen always to be of eastern european and/or italian origins , never of dutch, german, irish, scandinavian, british etc.. origins. |
Question: How to tell boyfriend that he gave me chlamydia? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:44 AM PDT Found out i was pregnant so we were excited. He helps me raise my daughter. I noticed different kind of discharge from vagina it feels different. Didn't think nothing of it. Got my exam they do when your pregnant. Got my results today and I'm positive with chlamydia. I was devastated. Qlways been 100% faithful in our relationship. I love our family. I got tested last year because i was due for pap smere all was passed. So within that thine frame he was cheating. My question is how do i tell him about this. Should i be calm? Please i need advice. |
Question: Should I have said this to my mum husband? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:30 AM PDT Okay firstly, my mum goes to bed between 10-midnight but damb near every single night he doesn't go to bed until 3am sometimes later and it annoys her because she feels neglected. He does it every single night and falls asleep downstairs watching TV. I was studying in the same room as him and at 1am mum downstairs and had a go at him because she had enough of it. He tried to argue back to her and I said "I don't know why you do this when you have a wife upstairs, you are a married man not a 13 year old boy". Apparently I hurt his feelings. |
Question: How do i get rid of someone fast? Posted: 13 May 2015 10:08 AM PDT |
Question: I have a thing for my cousins feet is it wrong? Posted: 13 May 2015 09:30 AM PDT Ok so ive always had a thing for girls feet i think its safe to say that i have a foot fetish but i noticed that my cousins feet turn me on. Idk what it is but its just something about her feet that gets me hard and i sometimes masturbate about them. I would never do anything physically sexual with my cousin but ive even looked under the bathroom door when shes in their just to look at her feet lol. I just want to know is it wrong to have a foot fetish for my cousins feet? Im 23 and shes 19 btw. |
Question: My brother in law is an a**hole? Posted: 13 May 2015 08:18 AM PDT He is rude and mean to my sister, niece and me. I want my sister to divorice him. She can't see he is a bully. What can I do to convince her? |
Question: Is there a child abuse email.? Posted: 13 May 2015 08:04 AM PDT Can anyone help me, my mother took my phone at the word abuse and i need a email. its emotional/verbal abuse. |
Posted: 13 May 2015 07:42 AM PDT Why is that? Is it expected for the women (most of the time, in my opinion) to move? It is something I ve observed over the years--that more women than men give up their lives in one state to live with their boyfriends. In fact, I am in an LDR and a close female friend is in an LDR, and both of our boyfriends want us to move to their home states for them. Now, I understand that sometimes money plays a big part in who moves, but all 4 of us make roughly the same amount of money. My friend s boyfriend is quite adamant about her moving to his state (a state she is not too thrilled about (she s moving from a metropolitan area to a quiet state where she doesn t know anyone else) but she loves him and is ready to move for him). I love my boyfriend and he is adamant about me moving to his home state (a state that I m not too thrilled about). I m just wondering if it is expected in an LDR for the woman to make the move most of the time. I see it happen around me quite a bit and I also see it a lot on the Internet--a lot more women moving than men. Also, it seems like a lot of women are apprehensive about moving to a new state in the first place, and some say their boyfriends would rather their girlfriends to move than make the move themselves. Some of them are happy with the end result, some of them are not. Has anyone noticed this? Maybe your observation is different than mine. Any advice? |
Question: Why cant i let people get close to me? Posted: 13 May 2015 07:32 AM PDT So here is my problem i like people when they are not too close to me. Like i hate it when people try to make me feel special even if it is my parents, friends or anyone. I try my best to make people like me but once they start caring about me i start pushing them away. Shortly i like people from a distance. I haven't been hurt before or something. Sentences like i cant live without you and you are the most important person in my life sounds creepy to me. I have lost my close girl friends because when they tried to get close to me i started doubting they were lesbians or something. I don't want to be this way! i don't even know whats my problem. theres a guy i like a lot but will never get into a relationship with. I cant let him leave me or get obsessed with me. Is it only me? why? what can I do about it? |
Question: Was it right for me to hit my dad back? Posted: 13 May 2015 06:54 AM PDT So im a 15 year old girl and i dont have that good of a relationship with my dad, im only about 5'5-5'6 and 110 pounds but me and my dad argue alot, verbally, emotionally, and sometimes physically. When we have big blow-up fights, he has put his hands on me, well one time he was throwing me around, grabbed me, shoved me up against my desk, yelling in my face, he smacked my head a few times and i was thinking 'oh god, should I hit him' i was so god damn scared, so i hit his face pretty gently because i didnt know what to do, like i said it was light, not even near enough to hurt him whatsoever, he freaked out and threw me face down in my bed and i had to scream at the top of my lungs that i couldn't breath just to get him off. Then he threw me in the bathroom and locked the door (We have a really small bathroom) and i had an anxiety attack (He doesnt know I have them frequently) now this happened a few months ago and i started thinking about if it was right of me to hit him or not, was it right? Should I have done something more? This has happened multiple times but I've never put my hands on him, we have kind of a love hate realtionship, sometimes everythings all good and sometimes its horrible. In the past he has smacked me upside the head( more times then i can count), grabbed my hair (alot) shoved/pushed me down, grabbed my arm and threw me in my room, and one time just threw me down and started hitting and smacking me everywhere. What do you think? I'll admit I do get attitude/talk back but I just don't feel as though he should put his hands on me, I'd rather him handle it like an adult, he has alot of anger issues, plus bi-polar, add, ocd, and a little ptsd. I know he has problems but should he be doing this? My mom lives in texas with my grandma and I live with him and my sister in illinois. He would not seek help, he doesn't think he should change. When we argue he's told me that he hates me, regrets having me, doesn't care about my happiness, compares me to my sister and calls me names (mainly a b**** but also stupid, idiot, horrible child, ect.) He hates my moms side of the family. The councler thinks hes a normal father under stress -_- idk what I can do anymore, im always unhappy, even teachers have wondered why im sad and quiet. I dont socialize. I dont know what to do anymore He would not seek help, he doesn't think he should change. When we argue he's told me that he hates me, regrets having me, doesn't care about my happiness, compares me to my sister and calls me names (mainly a b**** but also stupid, idiot, horrible child, ect.) He hates my moms side of the family. The councler thinks hes a normal father under stress -_- idk what I can do anymore, im always unhappy, even teachers have wondered why im sad and quiet. I dont socialize. I dont know what to do anymore |
Question: My siblings received money from my deceased father! I did not get my share? Posted: 13 May 2015 05:24 AM PDT |
Question: I caught my mom's friend texting my sisters husband? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:59 AM PDT I was at my mom's friends house to order some party lite stuff. We were sitting on the floor about two feet apart when her phone beside her lit up and I happened to glance in that direction and saw my sisters husbands name pop up in a text. I don't know she knew I saw it but she flipped her phone over after reading it. He went over to her place once to repair something or other in her home about a month prior. And has become fb friendS. who do I confront about this situition? I think I might just tell my sister and let her know that they are texting. I don't know if it's anything more then idle chit Chat because I haven't read anything Or know anything. It could be nothing. Or it could be something as he has done something bad in the past. But that was many years ago and she forgave him. They have a kid together and have been together for like 8 years. And if she found my husband doing the same thing, even if it's just friendly texting and I didn't know about it, I think I'd want to know. I have a bad feeling in my gut Cause I don't want to ruin my mom's relationship with her frienD. And if I'm wrong and there is nothing I'd feel bad for saying something and ruinig our friendship as well. They would all be mad at me for causing unnecessary drama. I'm so conflicted. But I'm probably going to tell my sister tonight. |
Question: My boyfriend sleeps on the couch every night? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:27 AM PDT It started while I was pregnant and has continued now. My baby is 2 months old. We've gotten into many arguments about it even before the baby was here and he just simply said that he's uncomfortable. I just don't see how a couch (that's old) can be more comfortable then a bed with a memory foam topper on it. It's really starting to affect me. I've tried multiple things. I don't know what to do. He claims that he loves me and it has nothing to do with me but part of a relationship especially with a baby is sleeping together. Please please help. He will fall asleep on the couch and even wake up in the middle of the night and go to the restroom but go back to the couch and not to bed with me. |
Question: Awkward situations,conversation,cant make friends ,scared? Posted: 13 May 2015 04:15 AM PDT i am so scared of awkward moments.i become scared that i might say something stupid and nonsense,make bore,have awkward situation. its serious issue,its been long time and i cant solve thing thing. i have anxiety. plz dont tell me to do to thearapist orrr... |
Question: How to handle this situation with my boyfriend's cousin? Posted: 13 May 2015 03:48 AM PDT First I live with my boyfriend and his mom. His mom recently took in his cousin and she babies her 24/7. This girl is 18 and she is a sophomore in high school! She has been held back and even now she is barely passing. She has ADHD and OCD. We told her not to use my stuff and guess what she used my razor. How did I find out? Well I was shaving down there and a few days later guess what I developed some weird rash. I have never gotten a rash like that before and my mind goes to worse case scenario OMG I HAVE AN STD! Well i went to the gyno and she took a quick glance and she's like it's from shaving. I have been shaving down there for 8 plus years now I have NEVER in my life gotten a weird rash or bump like this. Occasionally I get a pimple there but very rarely. I asked my gyno could I have gotten this if someone used my razor and she said yes and prescribed me some ointment for it. We asked my boyfriends cousin if she used my razor and she said yes just once (she is known to lie a lot). THIS B*TCH gave me folliculitis I have a lot of finals I am taking 3 science classes and a gen ed I am majoring in physioloy and it is finals week. I have so much to deal with that this is just the topping of the cake. She has only been living with us for a little over a month and she has caused issues with my boyfriend, his mom, and I. I am so furious at her I have a stupid itchy rash because she used my razor and it is on my vagina! How stupid is this girl?! She is 18 and she has 2 more years of high school if she doesn't fail anymore. Who uses someone else's razor?! I swear to god this girl is so retarded. I have been so nice to her and she can't do one simple thing I've asked her to not use my stuff. I HAVE EXTRA PACKS OF RAZORS IN THE BATHROOM AND SHE STILL USES MINE?! I am stressed with finals and dealing with her. I never yell at her, I cook her food, and I clean the house the most. She doesn't cook, doesn't clean, makes a mess, is barely passing high school, and all she does is watch tv! I cant focus with the tv on and her laughing. I need to study for finals and I am doing so much cooking and cleaning. I try to calm my bf down because he does not like his cousin, and his mom babies her 24/7 and she is never home because she is working. I hate dealing with her and now she gave me some stupid rash on my vagina! At her age I graduated hs with a 4.0, varsity track, xc, national honor society, & volunteered I did all of that every single year and she can't even pass high school in 4 years. On top of that I went to a competitive private school where almost all the kids cared about their grade in Illinois. She is going to Arizona which has one of the worse education systems and she can't even pass high school. She wants to be a marine biologist or paramedic but with her grades and mentality there's no way she can. |
Question: I can't eat, sleep or cry after a breakup. Am I in shock? Posted: 13 May 2015 03:30 AM PDT Okay so I'm going to try to shorten this a bit, but it's still going to be pretty long so I apologize in advance. I met my now ex-boyfriend in our senior year of high school and we had sparks the second we looked at each other but he had girlfriend then. When I found out try had brokers it was summer vacation and we ended up handing out. We smoked some green, played video games, and went swimming. At the time I didn't think much of the weed being an issue because we were both planning on going to college. However, when I passed my classes in our first semester and he didn't even bother to try to finish his because it was "to hard" I became concerned. I am now in my third semester and he still hasn't gone back. He is now living with his friend, (they're both unemployed btw. His friends "mommy" is now paying the rent lol) who buys him alcohol so they can get wasted when he is only 19 and he does weed, dabs, DMT and acid. I don't know if he has gone back to the harder stuff. He has lied to me about everything in our relationship. I have gotten the truth his own father who has givin up on him. I just need to know if I did the right thing by breaking up with him because I haven't been able to eat or sleep or cry since we broke up but I think I may be in shock.. I just miss him so much. But he's changed. I just want him to get get on the right track. I haven't smoked that crap for months.I'm 100% clean and I love it. I'm focused on becoming a vet tech. Thanks guys! |
Question: Am I attracted to girls? Posted: 13 May 2015 01:09 AM PDT I am a female yet I have a friend... She and I have been friends for some time now and more recently when I get around her my palms get sweaty and she makes me smile.. I had a dream we kissed BUT the thing is I'm not gay and I've dated nothing but guys... But this girl makes me so happy.... I don't know. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 11:29 PM PDT Hi. So ive been having a hard time lately. My dance teacher has gotten meaner. My Youth group teachers are meaner and my shcool is getting tougher. Im happy though. Im usually a pessimist so i dont understand this. Plus i dont really have alot of friends. One girl and one guy. And ive been around alot of gossip with this guy. I dont know why im happy... And it usually happens around when im about to sleep or when i talk to my guy friend. I dont know if i even like feeling happy. Its really weird... Please help |
Posted: 12 May 2015 10:34 PM PDT About a year ago when I was 15, I made a friend who had just moved from Mexico. Being the person I am, I befriended him to make him feel welcome to our school and have a friend. He came over to my house one day and started kissing me. I was okay with that but things started getting too intimate for my liking. He took off my clothes and started grinding on me even though I told him to stop. He kept telling me to touch him to which I kept denying. A little while into me trying to push him off me and telling him to stop, he pulled himself out of his pants and put on a condom. I was terrified now, I kept trying to tell him stuff like "hey let's go do something else" or "can we go downstairs?" To which he denied and carried on. He never actually penetrated me because i ended up pushing him off the bed and crying. Is this considered rape? |
Question: Im not gay but i like the looks of men over woman? Posted: 12 May 2015 10:23 PM PDT Please note this will contain sexual content Hi, im fourteen years old. I do whatch porn. Im not 100 percent sure if im gay but im pretty sure im not. I know this because i dont het erect around naked men at the gym or anything. I dont get a ***** when i wrestle. I dont know nesacaraly if i do get erect to fiddling around with girls because i dont have any game. But when i watch porn, i like the look over the man more than the woman. I would rather there be a attractive man than woman. (When i say attractive i mean the way i like the looks). Does this mean im gay? |
Question: Good Birthday Presents for LDR Relationships !? Posted: 12 May 2015 10:20 PM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months going on to 7. His birthday is in September !!! Giving him an early birthday present due to family not knowing about us 😆 . We're 2 and a half years apart he's a freshman I'm a junior. Any birthday present ideas would help. |
Posted: 12 May 2015 10:20 PM PDT Often it's not even a guys fault..And it's nobody's fault...it's the way things are But a female family member isn't wanting to take the blame if she believes it is males ("men's") fault. So this goes rather undetected and still the male can "take the blame" which he Also doesn't want to do. I don't wish to place blame just that reality is accepted and respected and I often do never see this. In relationships.. Maybe it's just My experience, but I'm sure this is more typical.than it is communicated. I have just heard female family members saying the guys are bad whilst I've seen them being really bad too and the male suffers..I can't for some reason believe he experiences all this ridiculous **** for "sex".. I've tried to be supportive to guys..they often treat me like I'm a victim and a toy and worthless.. I know my value. I don't believe he does.. Dunno if most people do. I would say females tend to do this too. And that doesn't seem to matter to most guys given that I can't depend on anyone emotionally, physically.. Anyway...Do you Get what I'm saying..does he really just not want to commit or does he have other issues or is he ACTUALLY only interested in sex, and doesn't find my mind interesting..? Females too, because not just one gender can be "blamed". |
Question: Why did he cheat on me? Posted: 12 May 2015 10:08 PM PDT I thought it was meant to be. I met my ex in college. However, I was in a relationship with someone else. I was intrigued, fascinated, and felt a thrill when I was with this guy. Long store short I cheated on my boyfriend at the time and started a new relationship with this new guy. We did not have the best relationship Karma did play a part. I was pregnant twice by this man but the pregnancies ended with miscarriages. I ended the relationship and we moved on fast forward...three years later I got pregnant with another mans child which ended in a healthy birth. 2 years after that my ex the one that I ended with re-enters my life I just knew this was Gods way of showing me that he is the one for me. I was in another 3yrs with him. It had its ups and downs but I really saw and felt the love and dedication we had. We moved in together and I really felt the love growing. One day we went out to eat and he mentioned having that he wants plural baby moms and for them to live harmonious together. I knew he was joking cuz he always does so we both laughed at it and mentioned how that would be a big headache and how I will not be apart of that. The night went so well he hugged me and kissed me and told me how special I am to him and how he will never hurt me and the past is the past and let move on to the future cuz that's wat he wants with me. Months past and he would mention hear and there about having multiple baby moms when I didn't feel like doing something around the house. Then kiss me and say baby u kno I'm joking all I need is you. Months past by and one day we're laying in the bed and he turns to me and said are you ready to be my baby momma and I laughed and said no I will be a wife first. His face turned into now I'm being serious. So he said I was serious about the multiple baby momma. And he told me how he has another girl and they are every active. I felt my soul leaving and shocked cuz I just don't kno how when we are together all the time. He is a homebody never want to leave the house. When, where, and how could this have happened? I couldn't even really talk I just had to leave. So when I got to my sisters I texted him a long message about how foul he was and I don't ever want to see him again. I don't kno what to do I'm so hurt, fooled a dummy but over all in love with this man and today I found out that I'm pregnant. What to do???? |
Question: How do you get over feeling too judged by others? Posted: 12 May 2015 09:58 PM PDT And upset because it really feels unpleasant and unfair, but look yourself in a standing mirror and Love it..just not loving dealing with other people unless they are respectful and many seem to not be. I'm old enough I can expect a guys never gonna be attracted enough to have a serious relationship, but I keep up a good enough attitude, to let him "try" I just don't play or desire or deal with egos well. So I guess I know I should not expect others to love me the way I feel they should. But I still get to deal with insecurity...And not feeling emotionally connected to most others. I usually assume they aren't going to give me what I want..as I'm not a "player". But I'd naturally attract them..It's just what I see. It's like I feel that guys and most people don't want to offer honesty or give up.much for me. I don't totally understand. I'm almost a complete loner, but I enjoy that way more than feeling pain with dealing with others. Advice..Thank you |
Question: Someone told me to bear **** myself, what's that? Posted: 12 May 2015 09:39 PM PDT So I was at 7eleven buying a smoothie and some doritos. I took the last one and this guy comes over pist off because I took the last doritos. He tells me to go bear **** myself & walks away. I was going to say something, but I kept thinking of what he meant or what that would even look like and lost my chance to say anything. |
Question: Do you think she is holding a ridiculous grudge? Posted: 12 May 2015 09:31 PM PDT I'm 21 now, but between the ages of 8 and 9, I had a Brazilian nanny who I used to torture. I used to make fun of her for being poor, ugly, and barely literate; I used to hit her with a belt, cane and a frying pan; and made death threats to her. One time, she needed my computer for an urgent assignment, and I charged her fifty dollars; and when she refused to pay, my parents docked it from her salary. Even though I wasnt a racist, I would make racial slurs to her in order to inflict emotional abuse, which I stopped doing after my parents took video games away. I also had some clever remarks, like holding a penny up to her face and claiming it was worth more than her value as a person; and after asking me to say "excuse me" after she coughed, I sent her into shock by saying, "I know I'm supposed to say 'excuse me'; I'm just not saying it to you because I don't respect you as a human-being," in which I would often refer to her as "it." I was only a kid when I did all of this, and since it was years ago, I would expect her to get over it. However, she has recently been calling me up, asking me if I would go to the park with her, go meet her pastors, have her cook for me, and do other random activities. My parents told me she is just lonely, but it seems that loneliness wouldn't be enough to make her want to hang out with me. I just want to know if anyone else thinks that I have the right to be creeped out, and if they have any suggestions as to what I should do. If so, she |
Question: I'm made fun of by the boys in my class? Posted: 12 May 2015 09:18 PM PDT At school, all the kids in my class love teasing me about liking One Direction. I've tried ignoring them! It's gotten to the poing where everything I do is rumor material and I can't take it anymore! My teachers obviously don't care, and one actually laughs at the stuff and eggs them on. What should I do? |
Question: Does this mexican girl like me or is she just being nice? Posted: 12 May 2015 09:11 PM PDT Theres this mexican chick i work with at my job and i find her attractive alot. She has a nice big booty that ive been wanting to just grab for a while. Shes always touchy with me and smiling which made me think shes into me but im still not sure. Im black by the way not mexican. But are those generally the signs that a girl is into you ? |
Question: Is this wrong.. im so confused and really need advice. plz someone.? Posted: 12 May 2015 08:39 PM PDT Im seeing my x and weve hung out a couple of times.he said too me lets be exclusive but not call it a relationship.i agreed but under the condiition too no sex. All.of last week he texted me hun and.sweethearth .he started by doing so and then i follow through.but when we hung out saturday he seemed distance.like if i was forcing.him too.hung out with me.then monday morning he texted me good morning mildred.whuich really confused me. So i told him if there was reason why his calling me.mildred and all of last week hun sweetgearth.i told him too not call.me names until we are in an actual relationship.Because he is confusing me alot.he replied back "wth whats wrong with u. I havent done anything wrong". N then said u called me hun first.which is ot true he started with sweethearth and played along but then i screenshot our conversation when he starts with the name calling and blowing.kiss.emojis.well its been two days and i havent heard from him |
Question: How to get a guy to be kinky? Posted: 12 May 2015 08:30 PM PDT I feel as though I know my body and I like to explore... I've been seeing this guy and I really want him to let me tie him up and do freaky stuff. How would I get him to get over his "fear" and do it! The normal sex is BORING.. I want whips, anal beads (for him and I) , hand cuffs EVERYTHING!! hmm... But howwww 😏 |
Posted: 12 May 2015 08:20 PM PDT I'm a guy, and i will tell you, as I have grown up, it kills me the fact that I have no brothers!! I only have two older sister and i just cannot stand being the only guy. I am 17, and my sisters are in their mid twenties. I want to separate myself from my family and hang out with boys my age, but I am trying to make an effort to have some friends hang out while they are not making the effort. I get so freaking frustrated that all I can do is be around my sisters!!! I am looking for a job right now to get out there and make some friends, and get an apt of my own eventually. But how can I cope with this? I want to separate myself from my family for a little while. I don't mean not seeing them at all, but seeing them in the morning and night but being busy outside with work and friends. How can I cope? I don't know why I am so frustrated about this, but it kills me! Not wanting to be around girls older than me is what I'm guessing is frustrating to me even though they're my sisters. I just want to have a busy life with friends, but how can I make friends outside? Its not like I can just go up to someone and say hi whats ur number, lets chill and so on. |
Question: Is this a Creepy Happy Birthday Message to send too My EX!!? Posted: 12 May 2015 08:08 PM PDT "Happy birthday sexy u were my first so you'll always have a special place in my heart & my p*ssy have a good birthday Daddy ;)" We still sleep together sometimes btw its not like were not in contact |
Question: Please help with " A streetcar named desire" questions? Posted: 12 May 2015 08:04 PM PDT Scene 5 1. What does Stanley's comment, "you won't pick up nothing here you ain't heard before", tell the reader about his view of Blanche? 2. What month is it now? How long has Blanche been there? 3. Blanche discusses astrological signs. What sign does she think Stanley was born under and why? S 4. What sign does she say she was born under? How is this fitting to her image? 5. How does Blanche's body language show that she is hiding something at the mention of Shaw's name from Laurel? 6. Why does Blanche want to win Mitch over? 7. What does the scene with the young man say about Blanche's true self? 8. Why doesnt Blanche tell the truth of her situation to Shep Huntleight in her correspondence? Scene 61. What does Blanche mean by "a girl alone in the world, has got to keep a firm hold on her emotion or she'll be lost"? 2. Why does Blanche ask Mitch to sleep with her in French? 3. What does Blanche do when she tells Mitch that she has "old-fashioned ideals," that lets the reader know she is lying? 4. Blanche says, "He hates me. Or why else would he insult me? The first time I laid eyes on him I thought to myself, that man is my executioner! That man will destroy me, unless—". What does this mean? 5. Why did Blanche's marriage fail? 6. What happened to her husband? 7. What does Blanche mean when she says, "and the search light which had been turned on the world was turned off again and never for one moment since has there been any light that's stronger than this kitchen candle |
Posted: 12 May 2015 07:30 PM PDT Now that I know he is married. How do I get over this feeling and him? We never had sex, just talking but I developed feelings |
Question: Is it normal to have this relationship with my brother? Posted: 12 May 2015 07:16 PM PDT Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a very tight relationship with my little brother. My brother is 14 and is my only sibling. He means so much to me and I love him more than anything. He's always there for me 24/7 and is always really sweet and caring towards me. People always comment on how well we get along. Unlike most brother/sister of similar age, we get along crazily well. We've seriously only had a couple fights. Every Friday night we go out to dinner and have a "bro-sis" night and just hang out. He's always there for me and when I have a bad day he's always right by my side. For example: I had a really bad day and I told him about it and he gave me a little hug, kiss, and gave me my favorite candy to cheer me up. I'm always helping him with getting girlfriends too, which he apretiates very much lol. My little bro is just so amazing and I would do anything for him. I love him beyond description and he loves me too. The question is: is this a normal relationship? I just feel like people are always shocked by how well we get along. Is it really that odd to have this relationship. He's my little bro, of course I'm going to have a close relationship with him. He's really my inspiration in life and I he means the world to me. Thanks!!!! |
Question: I don't know what to do? Posted: 12 May 2015 06:38 PM PDT My brother is 11 and he's dying and I lost my boyfriend and I had a misscarge in failing my classes because I'm so stressed out my mom is in debt because of all the hospital bill and nothing is getting better everything is getting worse! I just want it all to go away! I just want to curl up in a ball and die...the sibling that has looked up to me is dying and I can't do anything about it but just wait! And I can't do this i really can I can't sleep I can't do anything and when u try it all fails I really need help I think I'm going crazy |
Question: Why does my father love my sibling more than me? Posted: 12 May 2015 06:21 PM PDT I'm the eldest son in my family. Its just downright crap. My youngest brother is loved by my father way better than me. Serously he can get away with anything. If he broke my arm my dad wouldn't care, but if I made my brother cry for telling to leave my room he screams at me and hits me. Another thing is the grades system in my house. If get anything under C- I'm considered stupid or doing a shitty job in school. But if my brother gets low grades my dad will say try harder. You see its been like this since the day my brother was born. Im not talking to my dad. Hes too sutburn to realise that he hates me. My mom wont help cause she says my dad loves me and brother equaly. Help me! |
Question: I fought for a relationship that I don't know if I truly want now.? Posted: 12 May 2015 06:13 PM PDT Been with my girlfriend for 2 years and within those two years I felt like I been fighting alone for this relationship to work up until now after our last serious breakup I see all the changes I always wanted in her but now that I'm seeing this and we are back together I feel confused and not even sure if I want it anymore .. any suggestions to help me thru this .. I know I love her but I'm just not sure anymore.. |
Question: What does it mean if a married man pokes you on facebook? Posted: 12 May 2015 06:12 PM PDT He's a friend and we havent talk for a long time, by the time we used to do it there was a kind of flirting between us, but now he started to like some of my pictures on facebook and now he sent this poke. Does it mean anything? I dont want to get in troubles with their marriage. |
Question: I was raped and am sexually assaulted frequently? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:59 PM PDT I'm only 15 and not too long ago I was date raped by my own friend, or so I thought. A few days ago at a party I was sexually assaulted by 2 guys, they kept grabbing me, and touching me, they brought me into the bathroom and pushed me against a wall. One was my friend, he told me he's sorry but I'm just really hurt me emotionally, I feel dumb and used and weak. IM sick of people trying to take advantage of me. I don't know what to do, Im really sad. |
Question: Can you get withdrawal systems from being away from someone? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:48 PM PDT My bestfriend who I've seen everyday for the past month or more went away to bootcamp yesterday and I've been having trouble sleeping for the past few days, but now my stomach is cramping so bad I'm in tears, I either can't sit still or I'm exhausted, my pulse is racing, I've been throwing up, I have no appetite for food or my favorite drink, my head hurts and my chest hurts. It just now sunk into my head that that might be the cause. any ideas? |
Posted: 12 May 2015 05:47 PM PDT I don't understand why. He gets upset whenever I don't do what he wants. He calls me names, and threatened to kill me. I get the chills at night when I'm cold which allows me to make a noise and he said if I do it around him that he will shoot me. He gets really upset even when he is wrong and always thinks he's right. He stopped speaking to me and blocked me because my mom called him my imaginary boyfriend. I was hurt and he is punishing me. I'm 20 and he's 52 and d he hasn't given me money but why does he treat me this way? I've never had a boyfriend before. It's too stressful. Did I do anything from what my mom said to be treated this way? I didn't make the comment she did. |
Question: Should I tell my fiancé about things I did when he and I were broken up for a while? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:45 PM PDT My fiancé and I have been together for four years and are getting married this week. We've broke up a few times and when we did I would go out to get my mind off him to move on. A few months after being broken up I went to a baseball game with a friend and our picture ended up on the website and I don't know if I should tell him about it because I said I didn't hang out with anyone else being single. I also fooled around with a guy I knew to help get over my ex months before we got back together. I'm tired of keeping things from him, but he gets so mad when he finds out, he goes crazy and it ruins things with us. What should I do? |
Posted: 12 May 2015 05:41 PM PDT My neice came to me in tears, told me her boyfriend of 6 months had forced her to do sexual things. They had fooled around in the past no intercourse, during oral sex she said no, begged him to stop, he said he was almost done, she wasn't being fair because he had bought her a gift, he forceably held her head down on him while he finished, and on another occasion he inserted his fingers into her, she told him, she didn't like it, it hurt and to stop, he told her just relax you will like it just gotta get use to it, she kept telling him to stop but he refused until he was ready to stop, by then she was bleeding. I told her if you said no, stop and he forced you to continue with sexual act then it's rape, rape isn't just Intercourse. And that it doesn't matter if you were a willing participant before, if you said no or to stop it was rape. Of course boyfriend said he didn't rape her because there was no Intercourse, he was the best boyfriend he could possibly be because he bought her gifts, he would never rape a girl because that's worse than murder. At time of these events my niece was 16 and he was 18, thankfully she is no longer with him, unfortunately she has been called a liar for telling and calling it rape since there was no Intercourse. She is in therapy, we are glad she finally told but being called a liar hurts her so much. Were we wrong telling her it was rape? She is now questioning was it rape since he was her boyfriend. |
Question: I was raped and don't know what to do? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:24 PM PDT I was in a car with (I'll call him J). He was taking me home after our youth group had gone to Water World. As crazy as it might sound, I didn't swim while there, so I decided to keep my swimsuit on.While riding home, I did notice that we were taking longer than I had expected. I knew for sure that the amusement park was close to my apartment building. I didn't say anything about it since I guessed he knew what he was doing. It had been a long day and the ride seemed to never end, so I dozed off. When I woke up, I was in the backseat of the car. I was laying down and could see out the window. It was nighttime. I looked around and saw J rummaging through his stuff. He finally stopped throwing papers around, signaling that he'd found what he was looking for. He climbed into the back seat and crouched down next to me. I could see that he was opening up a condom. I don't know why it took me so long, but I finally noticed that he had his boxers off and that I was naked. For some reason, my body felt numb and I couldn't even open my mouth to ask him what he was doing as he got on top of me. He grabbed my limp legs and placed them on his shoulders. I did and said absolutely nothing as I watched him take my virginity. I don't know who to talk to and if I did, I don't know what I'd say. I'm 14 years old if that helps. J, I think is 25 or so. This happened exactly a week ago. Any evidence will be gone. He'll just deny it. I really need advice. Someone help me please. |
Question: Is this a toxic relationship? SCARED? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:22 PM PDT Im 16 and when my 18 year old boyfriend we met in a Alternitive Detention School for troubled kids, i was sent for Trauncy and getting arrestes at school for drugs, fresh out of JDC Academy, my BF was in for trying to process Counter Fit Money and had just gotten out of prison and gotten over the death of his unborn child (8 months into the pregnacy) n his girlfriend at the time broke up with him, at the same time his mother had just died from a heroin over dose. We ran away together, fought every day, living on the streets together and stealing, stolen vehicles, wallets and calles ourselves bonnie and clyde. We were found so I let him stay for a week at my house, at that we had frequent sex, unprotected, and purposly tried to have a baby. Im always being yelled at, and i fight back. He tries to compare me to other girls he has dated, insults my clothes, insults my personality, my vocabulary, and tries to create me like him. Ive finally realized this, but, i may be pregnant (no period and a positive test and a negative) and i worry for him, we have been thru the same things, i was in jail and recently was rapes, two friends died in a gun fight due to drugs we were selling, i waa depressed and we clung to each other. I want to move on, but he is living on the streets. I care so much about him, i dont want to abonded him. But, i dont want to tell him i may be pregnant because he cant even take care of himself. Im confused, what should i do? I dont want to be bonnie anymore. |
Question: Songs for getting over abuse? Posted: 12 May 2015 05:04 PM PDT I have recently gotten out of an abusive relationship, and I know that music is something that always keeps me going. I found no love by simple plan, and I was wondering if anyone knew of any other songs that are similar or could just help me get through this |
Question: A father is in prison and his child was adopted without his knowledge.? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:43 PM PDT A friend of mine went to prison over something stupid. His Xbox wife gave up their child for adoption without his knowledge. Can he get the adoption revok and let a relative care for for child until he gets out? |
Question: Age difference relationship? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:31 PM PDT there is a 21male having sexual relationship with a 14 female what should i do? i beleive she is pregnant as well |
Question: Should i slap my gf's @$$? Posted: 12 May 2015 04:08 PM PDT Ik she is playful and loves it when I do things like pull her on my lap and hold her. And today she was bidding stuff in her bra so I would check her pockets and slap her a**......does she want it / like it I'm 13 |
Question: How to deal with people who think they're better than you? Posted: 12 May 2015 03:51 PM PDT There is one kid in my class who consistently acts "holier than thou" and basically is an arrogant prick, the biggest issue being he's basically just like that to me. Specific examples, he makes a big deal about being asked for help or a simple thing like paper. One time I asked generally my table "What chapter are we on in math?" And he acted almost offended and as if I hadn't been paying attention, with a response like "I'm not going to validate that question with an answer.". Ironically he didn't even know as I heard him asking the same thing the next day. He also shares food with literally everyone around me and never gives me any. I don't really mind not getting food but what I do mind is that he does it specifically to annoy me. Sorry if the answer is obvious or anything, I'm extremely socially awkward and lack a lot of insights and have a low social reaction time. Thanks for the advice. |
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