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- Question: Is this something worth kicking your child out over?
- Question: Tomorrow my sister is going to get married and I'm not invited. What should I do?
- Question: Grandma called me the rude and violent one? Is she right?
- Question: My Granddad died died two years ago and I still miss him. How do I stop this?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking...she feels plain?
- Question: Should my brother hate me?
- Question: What should I do guys?
- Question: I don't know how to deal with double standards with my mom?
- Question: I am waiting for your opinion?
- Question: PLEASE HELP ADVICE?
- Question: Biological Grandfather, should I tell my son?
- Question: PLEASE Help Me From This Situation. Part 2?
- Question: Dad Issues?
- Question: PLEASE Help Me From This Situation. Part One (READ ALL THE PARTS BEFORE YOU CAN COMMENT?
- Question: I heard someone I my neighborhood screming "please stop" should I call the police?
- Question: So my mom wants to get a divorce and she wants to know how much we'll get out of it?
- Question: So my parents found out I'm a furry...?
- Question: I'm a teen who wants to change my name?
- Question: Is my sister mad at me?
- Question: Please need help..?
- Question: I AM SO ANGRY AT MY PARENTS! I MAY KILL MYSELF! HELP!!!!!?
- Question: How do I get my brother to stop doing this?
- Question: I'm 20. parents still treat me like I'm 16.?
- Question: Don't understand why my parents are together if they don't love each other and if I can accept their separate love lives.?
- Question: Should I tell my parents that I am engaged?
- Question: GIRLS CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME!! GUYS TOO!! NO STUPID ANSWER OR RUDE ANSWERS!!! WHAT DO I DO?? HOW DO I SAY?
- Question: Im a girl and I'm wondering if its OK for me to not be as standoffish with my brother and give him a peek once in awhile.?
- Question: Sister is out of control HELP?
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- Question: Was this counted as sister fighting?
- Question: " i didn't know you were this pretty" said my aunt while she was looking at my Facebook pictures. isn't this rude? i?
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- Question: My parents are not supportive of me moving out.?
- Question: I'M HIV POSITIVE FOR OVER 20 YEARS AND MY PARENTS NEVER TOLD ME?
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- Question: Parent wont believe i'm sick?
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- Question: My mom doesn't love me anymore?
- Question: I bought a flat, but as my mother missed me very much, I cannot go and stay there. I dislike my brothers and father, but because of my mum?
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| Question: Is this something worth kicking your child out over? Posted: 01 May 2015 12:26 PM PDT I'm 18, senior with AD/HD. (Not sure if that has anything to do with my organization issues but I might as well mention it) My mom has to have her house clean 24/7. If there's so much as a small stain that's hardly visible, she'll get upset over it (figuratively speaking of course but just to give you an idea). I always seem to have trouble with keeping my room clean as well as keeping things organized. I just can't seem to do it. My doctor says it's most likely due to my AD/HD but of course my mom refused to accept that as an answer. Right now I'm in my last 2 weeks of school and I'm trying to finish strong, handle scholarships, and prepare for graduation, my room is honestly the last thing I'd like to worry about but with my mom around it's just another thing to add to my list of anxieties as she's always sneaking into my room when I'm not home, rummaging and moving things around and either cleans it or just makes a bigger mess then yells at me later. Recently she told me that if she comes into my room and it's messy she's kicking me out of the house and move me into my grandmothers house who lives a good distance away and wont move me back in until I go to college (so basically never). And wouldn't ya know, today she went into my room and I guess what she saw didn't match up to her standards. She's not home yet but I've already started packing Is this something that a parent should kick their child out of the house over? I tried talking with her a couple of weeks ago and told her that she really did hurt my feelings because that honestly did feel like she was basically saying she doesn't love me anymore even though she said she did, one wouldn't move their child out if they truly loved them, they'd come up with a new solution to try and help them, right? What should I do? |
| Question: Tomorrow my sister is going to get married and I'm not invited. What should I do? Posted: 01 May 2015 12:19 PM PDT My sis is going to get married in the town hall with only my nuclear family attending - except me. I feel very depressed & Idk if I should beg at the last moment or what else can I do? I'm barely 16 & I've made an error of judgement. Last January I read an email on my sis' computer & b/c of its intriguing content I rummaged through my sis' bureau and found out that her fiance was raped around 10 years ago at 16 & he's been seeing a counselor with my sis since last year, unbeknownst to my parents. I was jealous b/c I felt ignored by my sis & Idk why it prompted me to tell my family but I did. Since then everyone's mad at me. My brother told my sis & she cut me off, telling me I should clear off from her wedding. I've tried to apologize but it fell on deaf ears. My dad scolded me so severely, & my brother called me names. My sis' fiance stopped talking to me (he accepted my apology but didn't resume contact with me). I gave my sis space since March, but she never came to me. Tomorrow they're going to the town hall & nothing is said about me. Should I come or not? PS There's no real harm done on my sis' fiance btw, b/c my family still likes him, and as far as I know they never mention it again, so although I know I'm wrong it's not as if I ruin his life or his relationship w/ his in-laws. When I asked my parents they said only my sis can decide (whether I should come or not), but she doesn't take my call. Does it mean that I can come anyway? I just feel bad being left out. |
| Question: Grandma called me the rude and violent one? Is she right? Posted: 01 May 2015 11:51 AM PDT I do my best not to be rude but I am funny and you don't get that way by only letting polite stuff escape your mouth. I'm not actually violent. I hurt my cousin's arm during a playfight (didn't expect that; expected her to beat me up), and my aunt abused me until I snapped and became violent with her. She had to slap me in the face several times to get me to that point, and she likes to trap me in small spaces to do this (meaning it's happened more than once). I do my best not to be violent with her, but I hate getting abused, and she's so mean to me. Not only face-slapping, but also calling me dehumanizing names regularly and telling me she likes being mean to my family. I'm actually upset with my grandmother; I'm thinking about not visiting her anymore. If she thinks it's alright to abuse me, and that I shouldn't do anything in response, then she's got the wrong granddaughter. Grandma thinks my aunt can do no wrong. It kind of hurts seeing her hang out so chummily with a woman who used to abuse me, knowing she likes her better. |
| Question: My Granddad died died two years ago and I still miss him. How do I stop this? Posted: 01 May 2015 11:51 AM PDT My Granddad died of cancer two years ago. I was so close to him and I saw him nearly every day. I used to feel fine but now I feel so sore every day. I don't cry anymore. I just want to see him one last time, because I didn't really get to say goodbye to him. I've been struggling in life, ever since he passed away and now I feel so alone, even though I have my whole family nearby. How can I stop the pain? |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking...she feels plain? Posted: 01 May 2015 11:20 AM PDT http://i.imgur.com/DdSKDY4.png |
| Question: Should my brother hate me? Posted: 01 May 2015 11:13 AM PDT okay so this morning I was wearing my brothers jacket (he's 17, I'm 14) and I found a note in the pocket. It was a note saying that he would be dissmissed at 11:30 for an eye doctors appointment. It was apparently written by my mom, but it was clearly forged and my parents are divorced so we don't see her that often. It was dated a couple days ago. Oh, and my dad was nearby so when I took it out and started reading it, I showed it to him before I had realized what my brother was doing. He was ditching school since he has a car and can leave freely. My dad knew it too, so he looked pretty furious for the rest of the morning but I don't think my dad confronted him. Schools ending for today so I could finally get a chance to hear opinions. Should I tell my brother what happened before my dad does? I know what he did was bad but I feel sympathy for him because we are so close. I too hate school and have skipped it in the past so I can see where he is coming from. Also, do you think he should be mad at me? |
| Question: What should I do guys? Posted: 01 May 2015 11:08 AM PDT I found my daughter sleeping with her father {my husband} they was really very horny...anyway I enjoyed that moments |
| Question: I don't know how to deal with double standards with my mom? Posted: 01 May 2015 11:08 AM PDT I'm not talking about parents making mistakes like drugs in the past and then telling u not to do it. Like whenever i leave a little mess in the kitchen (that I wasn't aware of), I get YELLED at, get put down, mistakes thrown into my face etc. If I politely tell my mom or dad that they left a mess in the kitchen, they think I'm being rude and would either scoff or yell at me. I hate being touched and my mom repeatedly poke me to mock me and it made me really upset. So a day later, I politely tell her to not to it again and explain how upset it makes me feel. She is like "that is ages ago, you shouldn't throw past mistakes in my face" Usually, she would tell people how I self harm(which I haven't done in SIX years) and tell them my other past makes. Later, I would ask her to not tell everyone my past and she is like "but you might do it again" I try to explain that it was the past and when she brings it up, Its hard to move on and grow as a person. Then she gets mad at me saying how I still did it and that's bad enough Ughhhh |
| Question: I am waiting for your opinion? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:55 AM PDT I found my son having sex with his step mother (my wife) and they do not know that I know it. what should I do?? please give your opinion I love both my son and my new wife... I donot wanna divorce my wife I love her |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 10:48 AM PDT If I'm working two part time Jobs and I pay child's support from one job can they make me pay more than what I'm paying now I reported it to the child support company the first week I started |
| Question: Biological Grandfather, should I tell my son? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:48 AM PDT My fiance and I got into a discussion about whether or not my son should know his biological grandfather. He thinks I shouldn't tell him but on the other hand I don't want to lie to my son about his biological family. My biological father and I haven't spoken in 4 years. He is mentally messed up (no joke) he is a manipulator and messes with peoples emotions. He has lied to me constantly when I let him back in my life (I should have listened to my mom when she told me these sort of things about him). When I was a child he molested me and that's why he wasn't in my life until I was 16 when I wanted to meet him. He was and I think still is physically abusive...verbal too. He promised he would come see me when I was 18 and then made up excuses. I would always go to see him he lives in a different state and 4 years ago I found out he was 2 hours away from me visiting his new girlfriend in the same state as me and he didn't tell me. He would tell me he couldn't come where I was because of child support and he would get arrested.He would lie constantly. He can't even keep a stable relationship. He was only married to my mom for 2 years. He met someone else and was married for only 14 years and his girlfriend that he came to visit they were only together for 4 years. So, my question is would my son hate me if I never tell him about his biological grandfather? Has anyone been in the same situation? |
| Question: PLEASE Help Me From This Situation. Part 2? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:47 AM PDT I went to my room. I changed my clothes and sniffed a lot, so that I cannot cry again. After that, a few tears leaked my eyes and I kept on sniffing, trying to be quiet. About 10 minutes passed, and my mom came into my room and told that if I don't wanna go to school it's my problem, not her's. But then she handed me a pile of sweaters, and told me to hang them up and left. I began to cry again... My mom talked to my older brother telling him to take care of me as she left to take my baby brother to preschool (for babies). I tried to not cry again and hang the sweaters while my eyes were watery. My mom came and told me she was leaving. Her voice seemed calmer like nothing happened. And I was heating up with anger and told her to go away and that I have to hang the sweaters she told me to. She told me I should respect her in a firm voice. I blurted "But you treat me like a piece f garbage!". Then my mom told me that I'm her daughter and that a mom should never treat a daughter like trash. I began to cry, because she does not realized how I am. But at the same time I feel guilty. Please tell me what to do. Why do I feel guilty? Why my mom acts this way? I want her to give me a hug, and to feel loved. Right now my heart is broken into pieces. Sorry for the typos here's the fixed errors: "But why do treat me like a piece of garbage?" ...because she does not know how hurt I am. |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 10:37 AM PDT Currently me and my partner are living downstairs of my fathers house because we couldn't afford living on our own especially with my partner losing his job and myself now eight months pregnant. We buy our own food, we clean up after ourselves, but now lately we've been cleaning up after him on a daily basis, and only a day later is it a pig stye once again. For the last nearly five months now, he hasn't washed a single dish, or even cleaned up unless it was a project he was doing, but even then has he still not cleaned it all up. He keeps threating us saying if we can't pay rent or clean up we have to get out, but i don't find it fair for him to do that, he knows our situation, we even had a huge conversation before we moved in about how things needed to be. We do our part and even more, and i'm sick and tired of having to clean his **** up, should I just stop cleaning up after him? Even my partner is annoyed with the situation and is causing a huge strain on our relationship and sex life. I don't know what to do, I want peace, but i can't do it all, Like I said, i'm eight months pregnant nearly nine and done, i have a job, i'm a full time student, i'm never here, but when i am here i clean and clean and clean, i can't do it anymore... It's draining, stressful and all over sorry to sound selfish, but not good for me, i've already been told by many nurses, my midwife and even my in house nurse that i shouldn't be on my feet that much, and i need to rest.. :\ idk anymore. |
| Question: PLEASE Help Me From This Situation. Part One (READ ALL THE PARTS BEFORE YOU CAN COMMENT? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:25 AM PDT One morning, I had a terrible sore throat, running nose, and my ears felt clogged up. I wanted to stay home and my mom told me it's fine and she nagged at me. She left to drop my little brother off to school, and I watched something educational so that will make my mother happy for not wasting any learning. She returned and yelled at me. She forced me to eat breakfast and change so that I can go to school later. I told her I was in bad condition, but she didn't listen to me. She kept on saying I'm fine and that I should go to school no matter if I'm dying or constantly throwing up. I try not to cry, because my mom gets even mad if I do, and I don't want her to get mad. I felt like she doesn't care about me anymore. I asked her, if I ever have a deadly disease that cannot be cured, would she still forced me to go to school (Just to make sure she doesn't mean that, like she said earlier). She quickly said yes, and tears were running down my face. Then she told go wash the dishes, but I had to grab a tissue and blow my nose. She took it away from me and yelled at me to go wash the dishes. I needed to use the bathroom, but she forced me to clean the dishes. While I was washing the dishes, she said that no matter what, I have to school. I once again told her I'm not feeling well, and that my voice is killing me. She snapped at me and kept on saying that doesn't matter. I began to sob because I was so hurt when she told me that. |
| Question: I heard someone I my neighborhood screming "please stop" should I call the police? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:13 AM PDT Just a second ago, I heard screaming, then it stopped. Now it started back up again. It's a loud person with a sort of deep voice (can't tell if its male or female) they are just yelling "stop" and "please" & screaming a lot. I don't want to be the cause of someone going to jail if it's nothing but a family dispute, or a couple arguing. But I would also hate to find out that a rape or murder was going on much later, & I didn't even call the police. What should I do? Do you think its just a loud family argument or couples quirrel? Or could it be something more serious? What would you do? Should I just ignore it and mind my own business? |
| Question: So my mom wants to get a divorce and she wants to know how much we'll get out of it? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:10 AM PDT so my dad doesn't like to pay for anything because he "doesn't have money" when he's rich. I'm the only 15 year old they have and obviously if it happens I'm staying with my mom. So how much would we get? (he makes about $75,000/year) also how much would it be in Illinois? |
| Question: So my parents found out I'm a furry...? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:04 AM PDT And all went to hell 2 days ago, my parents went through my browsing history, and found links for tutorials on how to make a fursuit, and after that day, they put Family Safety on my computer to ban every site on the internet, tried to send me to counseling, and said what I was into was wrong... Today, I found out how to bypass their internet blocking feature by using a password bypassing utility. My house has multiple computers, so I used a different one to get the program. But now my parents hate me for being a furry, and I don't know what to do! I've tried explaining to them the truth about furries, but they won't listen...help please? If you think furries are freaks who, "suit up and have sex with each other," that is NOT the truth and this question is NOT FOR YOU. Watch this video instead. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vt6bN5yv8yg |
| Question: I'm a teen who wants to change my name? Posted: 01 May 2015 10:00 AM PDT I live with my mom. And I want to have her last name instead of my dad's. My parents are divorced and I have lived with my mom for the past 9 years. I've really wanted to change my last name for as long as I can remember. How do I do this? Does it require a lawyer? |
| Question: Is my sister mad at me? Posted: 01 May 2015 09:55 AM PDT Ok my sis said one day to my dad that she gets upset when people ask about me and not her I get that the reason being im sick a lot and I have been in the hospital twice within three months and I have 52 allergies to food and they think I might have chrones to I have pain and get sick a lot so people r gonna ask how I am she said that no one cares about her I said I did but she says I get all the attention I mean I can't help I keep getting sick what can I do I try not to make an big deal out of it but idk wat to do is she mad? |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 09:54 AM PDT I really tired of this kind of life.. i dont know how to help myself.. i doesnt have any friend.. i want to be alone but i afraid to be alone.. my crush hate me, "my friend" hate.. i dont know what to do anymore.. even my family too.. should i run away from this life.. should i start a new life? |
| Question: I AM SO ANGRY AT MY PARENTS! I MAY KILL MYSELF! HELP!!!!!? Posted: 01 May 2015 09:46 AM PDT Ok so don't think I'm trolling. This may appear that way to so,e people, but listen, this is so serious to me. My birthday was on Wednesday, and I got...... listen to this...... ONLY 10 presents!!! WTF, my mom and dad were mad at me for breaking a china dish the other day. SO what?! That doesnt mean you NEGLECT your child! I swear to god this is abuse, and Im not even joking. And those of you who think im trolling, then you need to get a view! I dont think you understand how serious his is. I am being neglected. Who the heck only gets 10 presents?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Urggg Im so ticked. And they werent even gud presents. Im 11 now! Why did they forget me? Lol I was trolling |
| Question: How do I get my brother to stop doing this? Posted: 01 May 2015 09:38 AM PDT I am my brother's younger sister. Most school nights I need his help with my home work. However most nights he locks his bedroom door and makes me wait until he is through spanking the monkey to help me with my homework. How can I convince him that helping me with my homework is more important than him spanking the monkey? |
| Question: I'm 20. parents still treat me like I'm 16.? Posted: 01 May 2015 09:36 AM PDT Here's the deal I help them I pay some bills the Internet water and tv for each room. But still get treated like a 16 year old. I helped pay for a new car my dad and I went half and half but he claims it's his. I buy gas for it when I use it I clean and everything else. When I go out with friends which is not a lot, my phone gets so blowed up by them on where I am what I'm doing when am I coming home and I don't get it and I don't really use my phone expect at home a lot since I'm already with the people I text. Someone please help me understand why in the world they get mad if I come home at 8 or 9pm or why they think I always have my phone on me. Why they don't like me going out when really my friends and I are just netflix binge watching or eating. |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 09:09 AM PDT My mom told me that she doesn't love my dad and he never did love her also, I understand theirs was an arranged marriage but surely after the me and my two other siblings they could have find it in them to love each other. My dad and mom have lovers on the side and only I know, my younger brother and sister is in the dark about this. It feels unnatural, they are not faithful to one another. My dad it seems resented being forced to marry my mom cos he was in love with his girlfriend and now mistress. My mom preferred to have numerous lovers after their marriage since she felt its only fair. This relationships they are having is making me question about my relationship with my current girlfriend, what if I end up like them, what if I fall out of love with her and decide to cheat and stray. I am a firm believer in monogamy and fidelity and ever since my parents told me about their relationship, I feel like everything was fake, like the loving family I grew up to believe in was all an act. I have asked my mom why they never divorced and her answer makes me feel like marriage is just some power play. She said a divorce between my dad and her will bring the status of the family down and they don't need to divorce because each party knows what the other is doing. This means my mom knows my dad's affair and my dad the same. I also found out I have a half brother that my dad fathered with his mistress and its making me question what is family anymore with all this lies and secrets |
| Question: Should I tell my parents that I am engaged? Posted: 01 May 2015 08:56 AM PDT I am from a very traditional culture and while my parents claim to be liberal they do still hold on to traditions quite strongly. I am Nigerian my fiance is Nigerian but we both live in the UK. My parents live back home. My BF is still in uni and I am about to finish my Masters. He is a couple years younger than me but he is so mature and he makes me so happy. I think that if I tell my parents now they will ask so many questions that I don't have the answer to and we are not planning to get married anytime soon but I feel bad that a few of my friends know and my parents still don't know. the only person in my family who knows is my older cousin who coincidentally also got engaged recently. HELP!!!!! |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 08:40 AM PDT So I have this girl in my college class that I have found very attractive these last few days. But I have also had the desire to have sex with her. I want to like do it after class or something. How do I deal with this very strong desire and what do I do about it?? I have had her in my class since January but lately ive been turned on by her. Idk why. Im not a teen. Idk if she has a boyfriend. Im a student in the class too. I have only had very small conversation with her a couple of times. |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 08:38 AM PDT My brother is my best friend.All the time he is in tension because he is too young to have any kind of a date with a girl. First year of high school and he's very much into females. He hasn't seen me naked for years. I always keep dressed when he is around_ I don't know why. I guess it just started as a habit of keeping covered up so he never has a chance to see anything. I have talked to my friends and some of their brothers have seen them and some of their brothers have. I'm thinking of opening up a little and not block him completely. Could some girls that have had this experience please give me their experience. Secretyl I want to open up to him. Thanks. |
| Question: Sister is out of control HELP? Posted: 01 May 2015 08:35 AM PDT My room is a loft and her room is below mine. I'm turning 17 in a month and she just turned 14. I gave her the bigger room when we moved in 6 months ago. She is out of control! She listens to horrible screamo music and swearing rap, her room is a complete disaster. She sleeps without sheets just her mattress (That I gave her, $1,000) and she sleeps with food on plates in her bed. She's so lazy and her room smells so bad because of her moldy food. She blames it on ME (I'm OCD about being clean in my room). She says it's my cat that is making everything smell when her cat litter box is downstairs. I can't hardly get to my room without wanting to vomit from the smell and I can't have friends over because of her room. She throws tantrums and when I don't do what she wants she takes my things, throws my cats pee around, throws shoes at me, threatens me, screams, poured candle wax on my brand new leather jacket, locks my cat in the sun on our porch, etc., My dad won't help at all. I'm so sick of this! She calls me a slut because I was raped 4 months ago and tells me to go cut myself because I suffered from self harm in the past. I can't do this anymore! I have school, work, my cat, my heart condition, and recent traumas to deal with! What do I do? PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!!!!! I can't live like this anymore it's just making me suicidal and miserable! |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 08:28 AM PDT FRIENDS: My friends ditch me we where friends like 6 years they had my money and the left me cause they were in huge trouble cause they made my boyfriend really mad and the blame him for no reason and the they its my fault 2) BOYFRIEND: we are in relation like for 2 year and i want to have a baby really badly he promised me that he'll give me the baby the first time i have a baby he made do abortion cause he had no money to keep the baby and he promise that he'll give me the baby again i was happy again i was pregnant he made me do abortion he said it is not his baby which was a lie again last month i got pregnant he made me abortion forcefully and he said will do the baby he sees me in pain but he do nothing m bleeding which i know its not periods he said its good that m in pain. I want to leave him but he doesn't let me he keep on black mailing me 3) Family) I try to keep my family happy but my brother don't let me. My mom hates me she says on my face Like yesterday we went out which i don't want to she offered me to go out and i did me mom and my 1 brother went my dad went to work my another brother was at home .When we came home we were lock out side the house my brother was not opening the door cause he was sleeping my mom tried to open the door but was not able she started to hit me started to scream at me that she hates me i was shocked she did not said any think to my brothers but me am upset what shall i do i want to share with my dad but he is kind of angry man |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 08:28 AM PDT I look at women like Oprah who has all the world can afford a person as still lacking because she could never do the basic function of marrying and having children. When you leave this earth what legacy do you have if you do not have offspring? Money is useless.. Only we as humans value it. The essence of life is so much more. Im a woman..... |
| Question: Rude brother in law? Posted: 01 May 2015 08:16 AM PDT He is so mean. He only belittles my sister and his kids. I told my sister why are you staying married to him? She says he's a good provider. I say he is very insulting. Does anyone have rude brother in law? |
| Question: I insulted my mother ,feeling guilty? Posted: 01 May 2015 08:13 AM PDT Anyway,at my house everyone is fighting all the time,and i try to stay away from them.Everyone thinks im a bad person aƱbecause when i argue with my mom.my mom even though she does really nice things for me is not the kind of person you want near you,and im pretty sure she has mental issues.anyway,i have called her crazzy and stupid in front of my family and i know it is not right but i couldnt hold it since shes always trying to make me look bad,and is making everyone belive that i have tried to hit her(i have never hurt anyone in my life)but cjooses to scream"are yoi going to hit me,hit me!!!"and my family believes her,she just does it to make me look bad and i hate looking like that when im the nost nirmal at my house. |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 08:13 AM PDT |
| Question: My mom told me I wont get married? Posted: 01 May 2015 08:06 AM PDT kinda stupid but a couple pf days ago my mom found out that i shaved my sideburns and she was saying only men shave their face you're a lady blah blah and no man would marry a girl who shaves her face and that pissed me tf off that she said that to me because im 17 and bout to be 18 soon and she said i could start shaving till i turn 15 and what made me more mad is that she told my dad about it yesterday and he told me to stop and i am still irritated that my mom did that and they told me to start shaving again in the next four or 5 years and i was going to tell them why i shaved my sideburns because i was picked on a lot by them since elementary and its my moms fault for raising me to care what people think about me she called me beautiful but its hard to believe she really means that because she called me ugly a couple of times when i was younger because of my weight |
| Question: My sister isn't waking up!!!? Posted: 01 May 2015 08:02 AM PDT I shook her multiple times but she didn't wake up. I started slapping her and and screaming and crying then she woke up and hit me, and got ready for school and told my dad. She woke up so I just made you read this for no reason.... Gotcha |
| Question: Is it okay for my dad to have a thing for children's feet? Please Answer? Posted: 01 May 2015 07:58 AM PDT My friend Jake, and I were hanging at my house on Wednesday, and what we do sometimes is to snoop around the neighborhood in general and blackmail people with their secrets. Nothing major, it's over stupid things like "I'm going to tell your dad that you kissed this person" and that kind of stuff. So as I was snooping, I looked through my dad's search history, and I found all this really really strange searches. I honestly thought he would be smart enough to clear it, but I guess not. It was google searches for children s feet, like little girls feet. I understand if someone has a fetish, but like the child aspect is weird. I didn't find and child porn what so ever because after I saw the thing about the feet, I look through his history even further to see, but there was nothing else. It was searches about car parts, Walmart deals, and little girls feet. At first I thought like, "oh maybe he's looking for some shoes to get for someone" but I don't know anyone close to our family that he would buy shoes for. Ever since, I just feel like he's a creep, and I think of him slightly differently and I don't know how to deal with it. Basically I'm asking "Is it okay and normal for him to search this?" |
| Question: I'VE HAD HIV FROM BIRTH AND I'M JUST FINDING OUT, DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO? Posted: 01 May 2015 07:50 AM PDT I'm 20 years old i was born with HIV my parents never told me about my condition it was months after my mum died i tested positive HIV1&2 and the doctor who ran the test on me was the same doctor who treated my mum and he told me my mum had the disease, i left the hospital confused and i went to see my grand mum and explained everything to her, before she narrated the truth to me how My dad contacted it from an extra-marital affair after marrying my mum, then she gave birth to 2 girls (me and my sister), it was after giving birth to us she knew of her condition so my dad made her keep it a secret.this made me realize why my mum always pressured me to be taking some drugs she always gives me, i wasn't even serious with the medications cos i didn't know what they were for. Unfortunately my mum and my sister are now dead, and now i know the true reason behind their death was they were AIDS victims. My dad and I are still alive, and weirdly i don't experience much of the symptoms i feel fine but its so unbelievable that such thing was kept from me and i had to find out by myself, i hate my parents for keeping me in the darkness for so long and i feel so guilty for the people i might have infected over the years, this part pains me the most. I'm not scared of having HIV cos i know i will survive it but right now what i feel is guilt and anger. my grandma told me not to confront my dad, and i don't know whether to agree with her am so confused and doubt the whole issue. |
| Question: I've been feeling really suicidal? Posted: 01 May 2015 07:45 AM PDT My life isn't that bad, and everyone tells me I shouldn't be complaining. I've got so many emotions bottled up inside I just can't let them out. My mom threatens to put me in a group home and public school everyday even if I do nothing wrong. All she wants to do is have sex with my dad, drink wine, and go out and party. My friends never make me feel better. And my friends boyfriend made me feel ugly and worthless. And my self esteem is really low. And when I try to build it up again, my parents push it down. It's like people want me to be upset. And my sister always tries to get me in trouble. And overall, things won't go my way at all. I wake up feeling happy because it's a new day, but then it gets ruined by my mom. Ever single day. I want to runaway. I'm not sure if I want to die. I've had thoughts about it. And I'm pretty sure my mother would say she's upset, but in reality she really wouldn't be. She'd probably be happy if I died or runaway. I don't feel like calling a hotline, and I don't want to tell anyone. I just need someone to make me feel better and tell me what I can do for the next couple of years until I can move out. Thanks for all answers they're truly appreciated. |
| Question: Was this counted as sister fighting? Posted: 01 May 2015 07:38 AM PDT I remember this one time, where my brother and sister were in my sisters and my room (we both share a room), we were just talking about random stuff and then my older sister Jasmine, kept saying to me how this guy that I like is a failure. So I got up and on her bed, I started beating her up and she was yelling and screaming. When I was done, she said that I ripped up a sleeve off her nightshirt. So was this counted as sister fighting?? |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 07:31 AM PDT is she telling me I'm ugly? |
| Question: Is my father mentally ill? Posted: 01 May 2015 07:13 AM PDT My dad is very verbally abusive toward me and my mother. He claims that he is the best person in the world and God loves him even though he had slept with women before he married and he claimed he is wise and me and my mom are stupid, even though he doesnt help me in anyway and he works at a retail store for 25 years. He is a pathological liar, had suffered child abuse (not sexually), and he always changes his mind. He made my mom life a living hell. Im in 10th grade, and I wish I could go online school and graduate early and work as a pharmacist and make money so I can rent another house so my mom can live away from my father. Every time he does something wrong, he excuses himself and blames it on someone else. |
| Question: 15 and hate my life? Posted: 01 May 2015 07:06 AM PDT My parents got divorced when I was 5 years old and me and my brother started living with our mother. She constantly brought men home and she never cared for us. My brother has down syndrome. And my dad is living with a woman and had a kid. He doesn't care for us, either. I don't have any friends and my grades are good but not as good as I wish. I can't focus on my studies when I have such problems going on. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: My parents are not supportive of me moving out.? Posted: 01 May 2015 06:58 AM PDT In a month I will be moving an hour away from my parents to live with my boyfriend. We recently got engaged. I am 18 years old and my college will be 15 minutes away from the plave Im moving into. Will my parents ever get over their disapproval? |
| Question: I'M HIV POSITIVE FOR OVER 20 YEARS AND MY PARENTS NEVER TOLD ME? Posted: 01 May 2015 06:19 AM PDT I'm 20 years old i was born with HIV my parents never told me about my condition it was months after my mum died i tested positive HIV1&2 and the doctor who ran the test on me was the same doctor who treated my mum and he told me my mum had the disease, i left the hospital confused and i went to see my grand mum and explained everything to her, before she narrated the truth to me how My dad contacted it from an extra-marital affair after marrying my mum, then she gave birth to 2 girls (me and my sister), it was after giving birth to us she knew of her condition so my dad made her keep it a secret.this made me realize why my mum always pressured me to be taking some drugs she always gives me, i wasn't even serious with the medications cos i didn't know what they were for. Unfortunately my mum and my sister are now dead, and now i know the true reason behind their death was they were AIDS victims. My dad and I are still alive, and weirdly i don't experience much of the symptoms i feel fine but I feel so angry that such thing was kept from me and i had to find out by myself, i hate my parents for keeping me in the darkness for so long and i feel so guilty for the people i might have infected over the years, this part pains me the most. I'm not scared of having HIV cos i know i will survive it but right now what i feel is guilt and anger. my grandma told me not to tell my dad, and i don't know whether to agree with her am so confused about the whole issue |
| Question: Me my parents and anime, i need help...i keep geting put down? Posted: 01 May 2015 06:11 AM PDT Well i have been grounded from anime for like 2 months now (no drawing, watching, writeing no merchandise), im homeschooled,i have no friends and i cant leave so my only thrill was taken. So my parents say one moment that ill get my stuff back if i keep doing good, then turn around and say that they arent ever going to let me watch anime again and that ill have to wait untill im out of their house to watch it. They say its nothing but homosexual, that its against god, that the japanese are all gay satanists, that all anime fans are gay or bi sexual. They constantly call me a dike, lesbian and i tell the truth and say im STRAIGHT and thay just keep going. If some one came to me and said they were gay i wouldent be mean and i wouldent praise them, id see them as another human, its not like they are haveing sex infront of me or anyrhing. But my parents tell me that im going to burn in hell, and it hurts me.i see anime as ENTERTAINMENT that makes me happy, i dont watch the type like porn, i do watch some with sexual themes but not anywhere close to porn, kill la kill wad the most perv on i ever watched so they cant say im watching porn. But i have found happiness in fiction since i was 5 now that im older and i have found something i really like they want to stop it. Im starting to hate this god ****, they use it against me all the time, i think god knows its ENTERTAINMENT for me since my life is boreing as hell anyway, all i do is school work clean, tend to siblings.Any advice? |
| Question: Parent wont believe i'm sick? Posted: 01 May 2015 06:06 AM PDT I woke up this morning feeling terrible and last night I had a really bad headache. I just puked my guts out and still feel really crappy. I told my dad and he just got really mad at me and said I was just trying to get out of school. My brother got mad to and said I was just trying to get out of a performance on the piano I have to do today at school. It isn't stress to the piano since I had to do it last night and was ok Thank you for the answers but I am not nervous at all I have done this twice in the past 3 days so it is nothing new anymore. I usually have a very strong stomach and almost never puke unless I am sick. The question is what to do since I have to go to school. |
| Question: What should I do?:(? Posted: 01 May 2015 06:03 AM PDT So I was looking for something and I couldn't find it. My parents typically throw everything they see so I yelled at my dad asking where the thing I was looking for was. Asking why he always threw things out and he said look in the garbage so I did and threw everything out but still couldn't find it so I went to my room and closed my door. My dad came in yelling at me saying I should pick the garbage up and I said okey when I was about do that he started to cry, I've never seen him cry and I don't know what to do or say :/ |
| Question: My mom doesn't love me anymore? Posted: 01 May 2015 05:58 AM PDT I just made a huge mistake that might get me expelled. My mom is furious, but instead of yelling, she won't talk to me or look at me. Its like she hates me, and i dont know what to do? |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 05:24 AM PDT ...I cannot leave home. What should I do? I don not want to break my mother's heart as I love her very much. |
| Question: Any moms have a teenage daughter that is much bigger than them? Posted: 01 May 2015 05:04 AM PDT I'm not even five feet or 100lbs. My daughter lives alone with me. Shes 15 and is starting her teen years. She's much bigger and stronger than me at 15. I don't think she respects my authority. She knows I can never do anything to her and she knows I'm the one intinidated not her. Any moms out there dealing with this? |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to stop being mean with me? Posted: 01 May 2015 04:58 AM PDT I live with my parents, younger sister and dog now. My parents were not strict with me in the first 19 years of my life. After I graduated from high school, my parents became jealous of me because I was honored to be Salutatorian. Both were also controlling with me for 2 years. After my sister graduated from high school, my parents started becoming mean with me because both were still jealous of me and both liked my sister better. Last year, my sister started becoming mean with me like my parents because she wanted to be like them. My parents and sister are still being mean with me for 3 years because my parents are jealous of me and both like my sister better and my sister wants to be mean with me like them. My parents yell at me and punish me every time when I am doing something wrong. But both never yell at my sister and punish her every time when she is doing something wrong because they love her more than me. I hate my life and want to change my life now! Please help me how do I convince my parents to stop being mean with me so I will have good parents and enjoy my life again? |
| Question: What are the noises I hear in my parents room at night? Posted: 01 May 2015 04:49 AM PDT They start screaming sometimes |
| Question: How can I get my family to knock on my door before entering?!? Posted: 01 May 2015 04:43 AM PDT How can I get my family to knock on my door before entering?! They also baruge in without even knocking and when I lock the door they always shout to open it and it gets so annoying like can t they respect my privacy for once? And the worst is my grandparents whenever I m at school they always go to my room and just mess everything up! I hate them! This is why I want to turn 18 and move out. And also whenever I lock the door to go to school my grandma also gets mad at me for locking it. All they do is mess my room up. |
| Question: What to do if a person continues to ask money and harasses you mentally? Posted: 01 May 2015 04:36 AM PDT My dad retired from his job 4-5 years ago, had almost no money by the time he retired. Whatever little money he got upon his retirement, he spent in my younger sister's wedding and his failed businesses that he has been trying since 4-5 years. He is not a businessman and his money always goes down the drain. He is not able to make profits and when business is going in loss, he starts asking for money from me. I am the one running my dad's home, paying for EVERYTHING. I am in a live in relationship with someone and not married. Since my other sister is socially married, she has no financial responsibilities for mom, dad and our younger sister, according to my mom dad. Since this is India, If a girl is married, she doesn't have to care about her mom dad, no matter in which condition they are, and it is very much okay if she ONLY helps her husband financially. Younger sister won't even try looking for a job. I cannot NOT pay for my parents because I'll die of guilt that I am not doing anything for them. But when I do not pay for dad's business losses (not huge), he starts torturing me emotionally. Says stuff like, why living away from home with your partner (who is an awesome person)... he stresses mom out, fights in the home, threatens to leave home (has done so many times and then came back on his own). I am tired :( I got so stressed today because of all the fights at home that for a few moments I was thinking nothing but jumping off the building to die |
| Question: How to convince my parents To move To U.S? Posted: 01 May 2015 04:29 AM PDT I am currently living in Pakistan....I just don't fit in the Pakistani culture...I am different from all the people here I never wear dresses they wear I don't like the food they eat...I don't even like the stupid language..I want to move to U.S .... how do I convince my folks? |
| Question: Emotional abuse from stepdad? Posted: 01 May 2015 04:21 AM PDT I'm 21 but Jeff has been living with us since I was 17. He has witnessed my abusive relationships, my struggle with PTSD and anorexia, and the loss of most of my family. My father passed away when I was 14 and both of my grandfathers passed in the same year Jeff moved in. I believe he saw an opportunity to control my mother (who has a history with abuse) and I. I left home at 18 because he was unbearable. He perved out all the time and it made me sick so I met someone across the country and moved with them. Mistake! More abuse from that man and I ended up at home again and even more broken. I got psychological help but it isn't enough for Jeff. "His girls" are out of the house albeit one a welfare queen with 2 kids and one a university dropout. He booted them out at 18 and made them pay their own way but my mom had a more nurturing approach with me. He doesn't like that. He controls my mom in various ways but the biggest problem for me is that she must ask him each time she buys me anything. She must call him before she buys and if she doesn't answer his constant calls, he will say she didn't because she was with me. Once he got mad because she didn't call to wake him up when her and I were out together. I'm working on getting another job (cant hold one so far) but the refractory period is torture because if I need something I must answer to him. He told my mom he is kicking me off the phone plan (shared four ways) and I need my own. That would increase the cost for everyone |
| Question: My little brother came out of bed crying? Posted: 01 May 2015 03:57 AM PDT My 11 year old brother came down about 30 minutes after I sent him up for bed and then he came down bawling he wouldn't tell me why. When I saw him cry and had him sit on my lap and he fell asleep crying on my chest I carried him back to his room and when I woke up he was in my bed,..... What should I do? |
| Question: Why does my dad's side of the family like my stepsister more than me? Posted: 01 May 2015 03:41 AM PDT my dad got remarried some time ago and his wife has a daughter who is now 19. I love my step mum and stepsister loads but the thing is it seems like my dads side of the family like hers more. I mean I'm not the closest with my dads mother because I've never been keen of her but I was meaning my aunt and cousins on my dad's side. They never say happy birthday and never send over gifts to me and my brother but to my stepsister. I know its not her fault and I don't want to come across as jealous. Anyway so one year me and my brother went to stay at my dads for the summer and my cousins were there (2 of them) and they seemed to pay attention more to my stepsister and I felt really hurt because I was excited to see them and they left me out. So anyway on my birthday I was scrolling through my birthday messages on facebook and I noticed neither my aunt or cousins said happy birthday but then when it came to my stepsisters birthday They were like "Happy birthday Cuz!!♡" and honestly it hurts because it seems like I don't exist. I'm two years younger than my stepsister and it isn't about age so I don't know. |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 03:11 AM PDT I moved overseas 2 years ago into a family house of mine. Living in the house is my biological father and his mother, sister, and a few relatives. My parents divorced a long time ago probably soon after I was born. The family I've been living with (my real family) don't get along badly with this family here, in Australia. The reason I moved is because the condition of my country is getting worse and I would have much brighter future here in Australia. The family living here has quite a different cultural background and even though they can speak my language their main language is different so they usually speak that language when there's a family meeting, etc. After a few months moving in I feel really stressed out and depressed, and it's getting really worse lately. I don't feel like I even belong here and I don't even want to get along with them, never will. Their attitude is really pissing me off. They act like they're the king of the world and most righteous person in the world. They keep criticising everything I do and keep blaming me for things I didn't do. They keep insulting me and they always talk sarcastically. They insult my mother, saying they felt sorry for her for raising me the wrong way, or calling my Grandpa a con artist and said that only junkies would believe someone like him. They said my family is messed up in Indonesia and to be glad because they'll raise me right here. They always say we are family, and I just can't see how you can call this a family. Is it worth all the money wasted for the expense and utility? I once asked my aunt (yeah a mistake) that I would like to move out. And she gave me a very long lecture on how I wouldn't make it. But I guess it's still better than to stay in this crappy house. |
| Posted: 01 May 2015 02:57 AM PDT Hello I'm 13, a female and I want to go back. Yesterday I came back from Vietnam and I wanted to go back now I am in America. Vietnam is a place where I am always happy and the next day I was asleep in the morning but woke up because every time I closed my eyes I kept thinking of them, my family in Vietnam. I became so sad that I started crying and I tried to hide the noise from my voice so I don't wake the others up. later that morning after I stopped crying, I started crying again but this time I went to my parents room where my brothers were playing games they couldn't sleep that night either. I want and wish to go back but I can't since I am too young to travel myself I just want to go back also being in my home in America is quite lonely I'm the only young female besides the adults that are girls. No one to play with at vietnam I always had somebody, someone. |
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