It happened a couple of hours ago when my mum was dying my sister's hair a dark red colour. About 5-10 minutes through it, she kept asking me to get things for her when I was sitting down. When I kept sitting back down, she literally asked me to go get another item or put a used item back. This lasted for about 25 minutes. I had enough of it. When I sat back down after binning the box that had the hair dye in, she asked me to get a brush. I then said, "No... I've had enough! I'm not gonna keep sitting down and standing back up for your stupid favours. If you want them... GO AND GET THEM YOURSELF!!!!!!" Mum then started shouting at me and said I was irresponsible and idiotic. She then started to call me a "selfish brat" who is "incredibly lazy". I then said "I am none of those things!" and stormed off. Was I really being selfish and lazy?

Hello Yahoo Answers, when I was born I was diagnosed with Progeria, a rare disease that shortens my life span by quite a bit and I know it's sad and all but I also know that I don't have much time left in this world. I have spoken with friends and family and they all have some ideas but I was wondering what you internet people would suggest. I've never been out going because of my situation so I haven't done the things most kids want to do so any ideas for living my life to the max in these few years? I'm 14 years old btw and my doctors have estimated that I might have 5-6 more years. I don't want pity or sad comments but maybe list down a couple of things I could do? My father is a lawyer and my mother a prof at a university so our income is decent just if you ask about the cost and such.

hi,i experience unrequited love, i know it sounds crazy but im in love with my cousin (boy) who is 27 and im 16.it has been 5 years.and i told him how i feel about him and on 3rd February its gonna be year i told him, before i told him how i feel i´ve been ignoring him for couple of months and even i have told about my feelings i stil, keep ignoring him , we gather the whole family almost every Sunday ,i see him everytime and im just tired of pretending how i feel, when we celebrate someones birthdays , sometimes he brings his girlfriend and he kisses her like im not there.but he is really great person,i dont know why i feel in love with him, he is my cousin, my family, now after a year i have told about him about my feelings , i found out he´s moving into Prague with his girlfriend, and i really want to commit a siucide because i am really depressed about it.i wish i havent tell him how i feel.he has been 3 months in Prague and now he came back for 3 days and it really hurts me seeing him after so long.i didnt say goodbye to him before he left to Prague and i dont know if i should tell me something i really want to but i dont know what so please help me,it will really hurt that he goes to Prague again and i wont see him again for a long time..and its been a year we havent talk because i have been ignoring him,i dont know why i feel about him the way i do .i really dont want to start some romantic relationship w/ my cousin but i just feel something more to him than i should

So my little brother always bullies me and I would tell my mom and she doesn't do anything about it. Hes 12 years old and when he gets mad he is very dangerous and violent/destructive my mom says everything is fine but really its not fine. I find it extremely unsafe for him to be here in this household. I try to tell my mother this but she never listens to me. And to be honest I am really scared living here because if someone were to do the smallest thing and it pissed him off all hell breaks loose. I seriously don't know what to do in this case...

my dad found out about me when I was 9 when I was 13 he added me on facebook we talked for months then I was blocked by his babymama, about a year later I texted him from my phone we talked then I was blocked again , I got the pinger app and texted him and we talked then I was blocked he says it not him but Im starting not to believe it anymore should I try again?

Okay, so to start things off I have four sisters. The one I'm talking about it 17, and I'm 14. This isn't just one of those "My sister did something and I'm mad so I'm gonna vent on Yahoo Answers!" kind of thing. It's been happening for weeks. I KNOW my dad likes her better, (he hates me, I'm sure of it.) I accused my mom of liking her more and she just said that "Grace is an easier kid!" (Grace is my sister.) Whenever she talks to me (even if it's not rude) I give her a mean look... I KNOW It's ridiculous that I'm like this, but I just am! EVERYTHING she does drives me insane! We go to the same school, and since I have no friends I used to sit with her at lunch, and when I did, she was so MEAN! She'd say stuff like "No one is paying attention to you." So now I sit alone all day. She never gets up out of bed, or off her computer. She keeps her room messy, so do I, but my parents only nag ME about it. My dad says that my mom has 'coddled' me since I was born, but she's always getting mad at me. I admit that I'm high-maintenance. But maybe it's because I don't feel loved? Is this just me being shallow, or is there really something deep happening? I used to go in my sister's room and talk to her all the time, but I can't remember the last time I went in there. I even dislike her so much I dislike her two pets. As I was typing, that my mom walked in my room and nagged me more. I really dont like feeling like this, but I can't help it. I just feel so rejected and unwanted. Help

My dad has shot 3 rabbits before with an airsoft and severely wounded them. Today he found a nest and took the two baby rabbits and scared away the mother. He showed me them and now they are in a box in the garage. The babies still have their eyes closed and are really little. If I put them back in their now destroyed nest, will the mother return?

My mom is trying to get me a job at my former high school as a teacher's assistant helping the computer teacher with her class's. I mean liked my old computer teacher but I really hated that school and I did everything to get out of that school and I really wanted to become a lawyer but got no idea how is there anything I can do to get out of working at my former high school I don't wanna go back there. Also I am 19 year's old

My teacher miss buckingham is like my favorite.. But I honestly thought I was going to hate her lol but lately I've been calling her my best friend and when ever I leave ill say ill miss her.. But one day she will be my best friend and the next she will be all distant and stuff.. But yesterday I was sitting at a desk with my friend and I pulled up a chair and said miss Buckingham come sit next to me. And she said why do you want me to hold ur hand or something and went into her office.. I said noo but idk if she heard me.. But today I asked her who her best friend is and she said me and I was like ik I'm not really ur best friend I mean like who is it outside of school and she thought and said her boyfriend and I was like that does not count and she was like yes it does. And I was like okay when I turn 18 and get outta highschool we are gonna be real best friends and she just smiled.. But I do catch myself wondering what she's doing when I'm at home and i think about her.. And think I like her idk wht do you guys think?

please help me my mom hates my sister guts she is an child abuse she hits my sister and I cant do nothing I tried to help her by saying stop to her but then she hits me. she hit my sister with an belt because she didn't get in the shower she calls her an ***** and really other mean things I feel so sorry for my sister she's 11 she crying help and stop and I cant do noting she tells me not to tell my dad or I will get in very huge trouble and she acts like am her slave and I do everything she hits me every time I don't do noting she says, and a long time ago when I was 9 she grab my neck and threw me across the hall what should I do if I call 911 I feel like she would kill me and lie. I really want to live at my uncles house but she always say no and smacks me and says you are stupid to think about that. what should I do

Im getting treated badly and my parents dont care

Hi! So, a little background. I'm 25, single, and childless. I haven't always lived with my parents, but in the wake of student loans and a few bad financial decisions, living on my own is just out of reach at this point. I work full time, buy my own groceries, and pay their largest utility bill (they only have 3). I also pay 100% of transportation costs to bring my mother into the city for work everyday. My question is, at what point am I owed respect from them, despite my living under their roof? I know people have different opinions on this. For example: If I go out (which is extremely rare. Perhaps once every six months) my mother calls me relentlessly to see when I'm going to be back home. Another example, is the use of my vehicle. As I said before, I do not expect my mother to chip in for gas, insurance, etc just for a ride to work...but as my parents own two running vehicles, I do have a problem with them wanting to take my car instead of theirs, simply because they dont want to put gas in theirs. I've been told by several relatives that I'm being selfish. That being said, I dont know if they're aware of the whole situation. I feel at this point, I'm basically a tenet. I do pay to live there, so I feel I do deserve a certain level of respect. So what do you think? Am I just being a brat, or do I genuinely have a leg to stand on?

He seems to like it a lot but should I wait until he's 16 just to be safe? Thanks.

I'm 17 and part of my family doesn't keep any connections with me. They don't care for a second. I still have some feelings and I really wish for things to be better, but nothing has changed for the past 2 and a half years. My brother is 14 and I don't want to loose connections with him, but seeing my situation should I try talking with him, or should I just let it go ?

I first want to say I'm a female, I'm straight, cause the title might make you think I'm a teen boy who is into milfs. The thing is, I'm a 19 year old female who grew up without parents. My mother died when I was 1 year old and my father has been away ever since cause of therapy and stuff. I started seeing him regularly when I was 11 years old again, but I have never lived with him nor has he raised me. I have never really been sad about not having a mom. Growing up I didn't have a big social life; not many friends, not a very great band with my family, nothing. I didn't have much love or energy in my life. I got used to feeling like I'm alone. Since I am 14, I have this weird feeling as feeling like I know older women in public I don't even know. Not on a sexual way ofcourse. On a mother-daughter way. It's such a crazy feeling I have at that moment, that sometimes I keep staring at them. These are just regular women. I wonder what her life story is, what she's going to do later today, if she ever feels lonely, and much more. I even wonder how much fun we'd have as mother and daughter. Just us, no one else, no dad, no siblings, no family. I fantasy about having a spontaneous mom a lot, but then having a life that's not mine. Just our inner jokes, watching tv together, going to Jamaica together, grocery shopping, clothing shopping and much more dreams I have. I somewhere know I'll never have that woman in my life. But I'm wondering is this weird, what has this to do with?

I'm 11 and my dad abuses me. He says I make ALL the messes out in the house, and I don't, in fact most of the mess WASN'T me. Most of it was him and mom! And today he said to clean it up and I said "okay" and he lost it! He charged at me full speed and hit my head so hard I fell down! And then I couldn't see strait for a minute or two and was just sitting there trying to fight back tears because my earring stabbed my neck, while he was standing there SCREAMING at me! He said something and then said "DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!?!" so I shook my head yes and he said "ANSWER ME WITH A WOORRRRDD!!!" And I said yes quietly but loud enough he could hear. Then he went to his room for about 30 seconds and he came back while I was cleaning and he started screaming at me some more and then he kicked the laundry basket and said "ALL OF THIS IS YOUR MESS CLEAN IT THE **** UP!!!" And now I'm scared of my dad. I can't barely look at him without wanting to cry. And what's worrying me is I have been having really bad headaches and some seizures and my dad hit my head really hard... And he doesn't know about the headaches and the seizures and I'm scared it might get worse now... I have all the stuff I would need to run away, money, survival kit, first aid kit, a small tent, and a sleeping bag. And food and water. I would pack it in one of those camping bags where you put all your stuff into a bag! There super cool! Also, does my dad hate me? I wanna run away tonight because I'm sick of this sh*t

My Dad became a coach for my little brother's (who's 11 years old now) little league baseball team. And this year, they lost some of their best players and they haven't won a single game yet this season. For about a week now my dad has been in a really crappy mood and overreacting to the stupidest things. I know he's pissed off about losing the games because this only started just after the season began. He starts yelling at me and my little brother over dumb, pointless things. Like, I was watching TV in the living room the other day, minding my own business, and my dad starts yelling at me because I'm slouching! I got up and just walked away baffled because he never shouted at me before over something so stupid and pointless, I didn't even say or do anything at all to agitate him. And when I attended one of my brother's baseball practices all my dad did was yell at the kids, especially my brother because they weren't playing as hard as he liked. Whenever I try to ask my dad if he had a good day at work, he'll take a defensive attitude. And my little brother has told me in private he doesn't even want to pay the baseball games anymore (basically because he feels it's waaay too competitive and all any of the coaches and my dad do is yell at him and he isn't having any fun in the games anymore because all anyone there cares about is winning. its too late to quit now). Can anyone tell me what I should do about my dad? This is just way too much of a strain on everyone.

So in 10 days we have this Motto Day. We all have to dress like our favorite childhood hero. The problem is, i don't own any costumes. My mom won't spend money on a character's costume so i can just wear it once. Does anyone have any idea, what should i go as? Like which character? And how should i dress. Please help me...

i m 17 and my dads 74 i know a big gap, ever since i was a little girl ive always been really scared of losing my dad so as long as i can remember i would pray each night to make sure when i wake up my dad would be alive. My dad is the youngest of 4 but recently we lost my dads elder brother and i m so terrified that its going to be a dominos effect and there all going to pass away quite soon one by one. would really appreciate if someone could give me advice on what to do.

I drive my sister to school & back, I also go shopping for my mom, she has given me gas money for about half a tank, I'm 17, I usually have gas money but this month it's Mother's Day and I've been saving up to by her something, plus I've been driving back and forth to where ever my sister needs to go.... Is it wrong to ask for like $20

I gave attitude to my mum and my dad started to shout at me. I start shouting at my dad and then he hit me. afterwards i threatend to call the cops and me and my dad and my mum started crying. I tried making my dad happy but my mum wouldn't let me call a psychologist or ask my friend for help. Seriously I can't do anything to cheer my dad up.

I get the omg how could you not talk to your parents??? I am in my mid 30's. My father molested me when I was 6 and both parent were physically or mentally abusive to me. How do I tell my girlfriend, co workers, friends that my parents are not a part of my life without having to go into the graphic details, because I always get the why don't you talk to them. I basically want to know what can I saw that will get them to you know drop the issue. Thanks

When she announced she was pregnant, my 17 year old daughter felt she wasn't getting enough attention. To smooth things over, I asked her and my son to include his sister as much as possible, but neither of them seemed very happy with that. My DIL won't let anybody other than my son feel her belly and feel the baby move. I want to be able to enjoy my grandchild too! She said it feels weird to have people touch her other than my son. She was admitted for early contractions, which stopped eventually. When they checked dilation, I was asked to leave. Why should I be kicked out? I told my daughter she could be in the delivery room to watch the baby be born, but when my DIL found out, she said no. Why can't her SIL watch the baby be born?! She plans to breastfeed and it upsets me because I won't be able to feed the baby. I asked if she could use formula when they visit, but she said no, they want the baby strictly breastfed. They've also said nobody can post pictures online once the baby is born. I don't think that's very fair, because I want t show my grandbaby off. How do I get her to stop acting like a brat?

I need help, and I know what your thinking, Oh this again. Im not looking for a handout. Im hoping someone, anyone can help me and my family. Im just asking for you if anything pass this around for me. My family means the world to me. I hope someone can relate to my situation. And please realize how hard this is to have to do. http://www.gofundme.com/ouellettes Thank you for taking the time to read this, lots of love to you all.

Let me start off by saying that my mom and my father was never together since I remembered (My mother said he broke up with him when I was one because he was immature and left marijuna out on the table that I ended up eating). My father was in jail when I was 2 and in marines when I was 1. I seen him every other weekend but my mom basically raised by herself until I was 11, My grandma spoiled me because she wanted me to have what other kids had. My mother was never poor, but she was single and we did live in a rough neigborhood in the city until I was 9. I was getting in a lot of trouble until she married my step dad at 12 who taught me a lot about life and sports, I played basketball and was really good at it. However, I used to get in a lot of fights with my step dad one time he choked me and he recently apologized for this. When he choked me i Think it had an impact on my life and I notice I became more aggressive in fights with other people, more comfortable and less scared to lose a fight or have convertation because it was what I had every other week at my house with him. Long story short I moved to suburbs when I was 12 to a nice area with good schooling I WISH I would've took advantage of but I barely passed, I think this has to do when I was younger I didn't have a father figure. Me and my mom got into it when I was 18 and she told me to leave the house, I did and I was homeless for 2 weeks and I started stealing from people until I took this scholarship. I've bee angry and bitter since I've been homeless even more. More aggressive it seems and when I think about something that makes me angry I seem to get bi-polar this never happen before. I really want to hurt this guy that I got into it recently with. Also when I Was homeless I was sleeping in the car and working still, and someone tried to slip pills in my drink and I overdosed and almost died. Now I have trouble trusting co-workers and people in general, I lost a lot of respect for people. I've bee angry and bitter since I've been homeless even more. More aggressive it seems and when I think about something that makes me angry I seem to get bi-polar this never happen before. I really want to hurt this guy that I got into it recently with. Also when I Was homeless I was sleeping in the car and working still, and someone tried to slip pills in my drink and I overdosed and almost died. Now I have trouble trusting co-workers and people in general, I lost a lot of respect for people. The only Posotivie thing I can say this had on my life is that I became more ambitious to work 80 hours a week and succeed than I ever been, more independent, and more protective and ready for evil, I am more aware of my surroundings and I live every day thankful to be a live but I have anxiety. I feel like I'm gonna die every time I get sick or something happens, and I just don't feel safe for some reason. I am always watching my back.

So, my "dad" back in '98 i think, he cheated on my mother, while she was pregnant with me. He admitted, and my mother forgive him. Well, he was basically always telling he "loves" me, but he was always loving my sister more, she is a first child, in 1997. I have no problems with him loving her more, but back in 2008, he had a big fight with my mother again, and from stress and a lot of crying, i've gotten diabetes. After that, he started saying really bad things about me, in my face. Saying i am useless, i am gay, i am retard etc... Well, 3 years ago he was bullying me in every single possible way. He was verbal abusing me too. Every day for 3 years i couldn't have any support from "dad", and every problem i had to face myself. He was yelling all the time, and it really scared me... Then,after he went to jail, he came back saying he "loves me". But even now, he is full of hatred towards me. I am not doing anything. He just loves commenting about my life, saying why i drink water, why am a so quiet , why i have no friends, then he is saying again i am gay, i am useless , i am freaking son of a bit*h.. It hurts my feelings, because i no longer feel love for him. He is not my dad. He is a monster. He only knows about bullying, because he had like a bad past or something, like, his mother was bullying him like few times and he didn't want to go to school, so he quited. He always tells me i will not finish high school, he doesn't believe in my talent, he was never my support... He also has sick thoughts i would say, because every girl (around 16-20) he sees, he always turn back to look in their asss.

I know she's family, but I never liked my sister. We always have extreme arguments and she likes to control me. I have this policeman boyfriend and she has a banker boyfriend, she always talk **** about my boyfriend because she thinks he's stupid and not qualified.. She says things like her boyfriend is already part of the family but mine never will be, and when I try to ignore her and say I don't care, she says it must be the policeman who taught me to say that, and she hates him even more.i am already 24. And she still controls what time I should come home etc. she often brings her bf to our home to sleep, but whenever I go to my bf's place she calls me a slut and a whore. Like wtf?!!!! I know it sounds like it's all about the boy now, but trust me it's not like that, even without the boy before, we were already not on good terms. I really wanna move out, but she said that if there is someone moving out, it should be her( apparently she should move out first because she's older).. What should I do? I'm really sad in this house, and my mom just tells me to shut up and ignore her, but it's so hard when she says all these nasty things. My mom would even sometimes scold me instead and say I'm stupid to argue back etc. what should I do....

im 18, had a job since i was 15. Brothers gonna be 18 in a few months, never had a job. I pay for my car insurance and fulfill my responsibilities while he plays video games. Yet somehow he is seen as the golden child and my dad LOVESSS picking fights with me? I live a busy life between school and work. Recently i got hurt and had to take some time off work. My dad was furious about this. I needed time to recover and he pressured me to go back too soon and now I'm doing even worse than before, so now i need to take even more time off. Why is he so demanding and hostile to me when my brother can literally chill all day with no responsibilities?

I have a friend who's 15 and has been having problems with her dad at home for 5 years and she's tired of it, she can't move with her mom because her moms apartment is way to small and there isn't enough room and she's always in the hospital. She can't move with another family member because there was a incident back when she was a kid and a brother in law touched her and nobody believe her when she told and now they just all hate her for "lying" her mom tried reporting it once but the police said it was to late or that didn't report it right but it was only like a year or two later it happened. So I was wondering if they made her move out with her dad cause of all the fighting and arguing every day could she move in with me legally, my parents said she could because they love helping. She tried taking pills to OD yesterday and I tried talking to her to stop but she did it anyways and her just went to sleep even though he knew she was trying but she says she feels okay now idk what she took though I just don't want her trying like that ever again . I always tell her to report the incident with her brother in law but she says it's too late (it happened 3 times, in 6 and 7th grade, she's in 10th now) and she says they can't do anything about it but I think she's wrong. someone help.

I'm 27 and I've accepted that I will always be "Daddy's Little Girl" but he asks me about 1000 questions a day of what I'm doing and WHY I'm doing it. Is it normal for fathers to be like this towards their daughters? I love my dad dearly but it is annoying! :-)

So my sister got a kid, and I HATE babies (he's like 1 now) but she keeps shoving him in my face! She lives on her own with her husband but she always comes to my moms house (I'm 14 btw, live with my mom) like every WEEK and stays for a WEEK! Betch you're almost 30, why can't you live on you own god dammit?! Anyways, she even changes his diaper on my bed! He is super annoying, always runs around destroying the house and he ***** up my room and then my sister comes and yells at me and tells me to clean everything HE ****** up! She doesn't seem to understand that I completely HATE him (and babies in general, like I'm literally DISGUSTED! I have to wash my hands whenever I touch one and I can't stand their smell) and don't want to be around the thing whatsoever what should I do????

My dad was very sick from cirrhosis and he died on April 8, 2015. His last days were horrible, I still hear him scream and I constantly remember the last moments. Every day keeps getting worse, I m 19 and I was wondering if someone who has being through the same could give me some words of advice on how to get better.

So I got suspended for possession of a taser for five days and my mom knows because I live with her and my dad doesn't and my mom wants me to tell him how should I tell him

Hi, I'm 19 and I have a daughter. She's 16 months old. Her father is in the picture but we are not together. I have a boyfriend who I've been with for almost a year. My family tries to shame for having sex with him. I don't understand why though. My mother is basically a whore, she's had multiple stds and ***** about four guys a week. My bother has caught hepatitis from having sex with a heroin junky yet they both try to tell me I can't have sex simply because I've had a child. I try to keep my daughter and myself away from them but they are my family so I like to see them. Every time I see them they say negative things to me. How do I make this stop? I use 2 types of protect because I don't want stds or another baby. I don't see why having a child should stop me from having sex.

Hey, in June 2013 I fell over and broke my neck. I spent 6 months in hospital to recover. I'm still in a wheelchair so cannot walk butI can use my arms well although my grip is very limited. Before all of this I lived at home with parents living a very active lifestyle. Luckily we lived in a bungalow before I had my accident so we only had to ad a few ramps and a wet room to adapt our house. I live with mom, dad and 16 year old brother. It's been a very tough couple of years but we have held up well considering! I get on very well with my mom and my brother but, my dad I just cannot put my finger on. All he wants to do is create conflict in our family and speak to everyone like they're nothing. I was depressed but admitted I had trouble coping and worked on it. Me and other members of my family have told him about his horrible attitude but he cannot see what it's doing so won't admit it. By some of the remarks he makes I feel like I'm a burden on this family! I don't know what to do anymore. He would never accept any help! But it cannot carry on like this!

I'm a teen & I do have a mom, we are best friends & I love her soooo much! I already have her gift and card ready.. anyway I have this other special lady friend in my life & she's a mom too, I really wanted to send her a Mother's Day card but I'm scared she will think it's weird.. I really want to she's always been there supporting me & cheering me on, from my birthday, to homecoming, and so on.. she's special to me & i feel this vibe that I should do it but I'm scared.. in ways I don't even know exactly what to put, I just wanna give her sweet words.. help?

My mom went to meet her friends at around 5 pm. She sent some pics of her and her friends at 8, and thats the last time i got in contact. Its 1 am right now I called her 12 times and texted her but she doesnt seem to look at it Plz help me...

I just celebrated my birthday recently and when the day came up, I was waiting for my mom to come off work to get together. I finally get a call from her and she asks me to wait till she's done running with my dad till we get together. I thought it was a little rude...they have any day to go running but I let it go. When I got there - she complained about the price of the cake she bought me. The dinner was a frozen pizza they had in their freezer for a while. It didnt bother me but when the rest of the day went by - it was watching a 2 hour documentary because thats what my dad wanted. I was kinda horrified by the day. Then to end it all - my sister didnt even call me or wish me a happy birthday. I always wish her a happy birthday. I kinda felt like it was a day for my parents and they didnt want to change it to celebrate my day. What do you think?

I am a 21 year old male and I use dildos every few days. I forgot to clean them off and my mom found them. She is making me go to counseling and then to the doctor for an exam. How can I convince her that I am okay?

I try and I bloody try to be an adult, when I make adult decisions I get shut down, and a laugh in the face... My family is waaaay to overprotective, meaning I cannot go anywhere, I cannot walk out the house, and I have to ask to go somewhere... I mean I'm still young but seriously I'm not that dam young where I cannot protect myself or know what I'm doing…And with College my family thinks certain places are too far, I want to get the experience of being away from home, and I want to get the experience of having a life. Plus- They believe I'm just this train wreck waiting to happen and I'm not... How can I tell them to back off without being a *****?

Hello and thank you for answering my question. I have a small story to tell. My mom used to throw things like books, CD's, lamps, brooms, and rakes at me. Due to this she would also hit me and push me and verbally thrash at me and sometimes still does. She moved out for almost a year and took my sisters with her and my sisters where devistated. Now she moved back in. She's nice to me now and buys me things and is all happy go lucky. She is still not nice to my sisters and has spurts at every moment. She also verbally, mentally, and emotionally abused me for 10 years and took advantage of me. Now she is nice. I am not sure if I am ready to forgive because she is so nice. My sisters and I still plan to move away and only visit on holidays. I also would like to mention that I have Aspergers Syndrome and Bi-Polor Disorder and this affects me greatly. Should I forgive she has only lived in our house for three weeks and my sisters and I feel that this loving couapertive attitude wont last long. My mom goes in spurts of flipping out and getting violent. So we are waiting. Should I forgive?

My employer who I do nanny work for has a 10 year-old daughter with her belly button pierced. She's 10 now but she got the piercing for her 9th birthday so she's had it for over a year now. Her mom is licensed professional and actually did it herself because her daughter wanted one. The girl's mother has a belly ring too so she just wanted one like her mom and she's loved having it since. Like I said, it's been over a year since she's had it and there hasn't been any complications with it. Her belly button gets cleaned every morning and night by her mother so it doesn't get infected, even now that's fully healed. A couple of my friends once saw the girl's piercing and they flipped out. They asked how she got it and I told them the truth: that her mom did it herself and is a professional piercer. They called it child abuse and even said the mother should be arrested! Even though there as far as our state law is concerned, it isn't illegal at all. It is bit young for her to have that piercing but I don't see what's so bad about it given the circumstances. You cannot tell me it's child abuse, it's just a piercing! It's not something permanent like a tattoo and it's in the proper hands of the girl's mother. What do you think? Do you agree with the mother's decision or no? I'm just looking to see what people's opinions are... And no, she doesn't ever wear clothing that shows her belly in public. My friends only saw it that time because she had her arms raised up to where you could see her piercing.

My 15 yr old daughter peed her panty for two weeks so I took her to a doctor he said there is nothing I told her I will punish you but still don't know how any help it doesn't matter if it is harsh or whatever she will agree just suggest.

He will do anything for his daughter, who only gets in touch when she wants something like being driven to her friends or money...he never gets a birthday,christmas or fathers day card or present and never disciplines her basically he thinks the sun shines out of her ****...but on the other hand our son will buy him presents out of his pocket money and he pushes it to one side..he is always shouting at him for various things...i tend to side with our son and that causes rows between me and my partner...he never spends time with him...i just feel so sorry for my son

My son and daughter tease each other all the time and I am not sure I am OK with it. For example. Last night they had this conversation. Daughter: Did you have sex on your date last night? Son: Why would I do that to a girl. Daughter: You wanted to do that with me this morning. Son: That was because all the guys at school said you were easy. They BOTH had a big laugh at that. On another occasion. Son: All the girls at school know I am hung. Daughter: Since when is 3 inches hung? Another big laugh. Is it OK for them to be teasing each other like this? Should I tell them to knock it off?

A few days before Christmas 2014, my younger brother, my older sister and I were bored in the living room just listening to anime and show/movie songs-like Dragon Ball Z and Fairy Tail and Avatar:The Last Airbender and The Hunger Games and How To Train Your Dragon and Big Hero 6. So my older sister, Jasmine, was saying some **** to me while she was on her headphones listening to music on her phone. So I got up from my seat and went to attack her from her chair. I got up, went to her and used to hand to slowly and hardly claw her belly (basically tickling....) and she was laughing and kicking me and I started punching her. But my brother said "no roughing". So was this counted as play-battling each other between me and Jasmine?? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE JUST ANSWER WITH A YES OR A NO!! THATS IT!!! THANK YOU.

Ever sinnce my dad left witch was almost a year ago i've been having problems with my asshole mom. She always yells at me, tells my friends crap i don't want her to tell them, embarasses me and etc. It's pissing me off to the point where i would literally just snap and run away and never come back. Next year i might move with my dad to Norway, i'm still not sure, but till then i have to just suffer trough my idiotic mothers constant yelling, good god and i have this one friend my mom hates and that friend always helps me. I literally have mind problems, and she's making it worse. What's even worse is i can't express some bullsh!t to her cause she's your typical pro lifer, how wonderful. She knows very well i have problems with kids, but she still manages to defend them. Also couple months ago i kicked my mom cause she was about to slap me. I tried commiting suicide so many times, no shits given, and she always MUST TELL ME WHAT DO DO, HOW TO DRESS UP AND ETC. i hate when someone tells me what to do. I have a really sh!tty temper and she's making it worse to the point where i might snap.

student, but my dad says that it is against federal law for the school, to say that, by the way I am Home Schooled, but My Mom Thinks that just because the school said no that, there is nothing we can do, so ME and my mom argued and she said to find the federally law that says that are something close to that can you help me. The Only Problem is that My Dad Has read every law in the book, so I problem worded the quistion wrong or they got rid of it.

I sty with my two college classmates...its now like two semesters staying well together...bt earlier weeks b4 they started develop moods against me....no tokin ..no discussions, they take their own trips outsite without even consulting me...jst each man for himself...all we share together very well-only yesterday one of them humiliated me after using his laptop, but we don tok at all ....what might be the problem and how best can i resolve....it's nw almst the end of the semester so i cant leave the room.

I work in retail, and it's been very hard for the past few months as we've had many people leave work, so it's flight finding Poole cover shifts and things. Anyway, my mum said she wanted to go on holiday next week for a few weeks and obviously I work weekends and so told her I would need to book a holiday and put it though which could take several weeks, my mum doesn't understand this and she wants me to just demand holidays from my manager and make up an excuse like I have a family emergency. I told her I would have need to given my work two weeks notice but she won't hear it and calls me a softie for not demanding days off. It's already tight at work with people leaving and i don't want to anger my managers and gain a bad reputation at work for being demanding but I don't know also I don't even want to go on holiday that much but my mum won't listen to me

If a disabled person goes to a prostitute who is a 40 year old virgin with NO chance of getting a relationship and catches an STD should his caregiver or case worker tell his parents about it and get them to instittutionalize them as punishment?? is this reasonable?? Havent they already suffered enough if it was a BAD experience they never want to do again?

All my like over had this issue where whoever my parents tell at me or we get into a heated argument, I always burst into tears. At first I thought it was because I was young but today I had an argument with my mum who won't understand my job and I started crying and she said 'God your the only 20 year old who would cry at this' and it made me cry even more! i have no idea why I do this and it's ONLY around my parents. I never cry infront of my friends or colleges just my parents I don't know, I feel very stupid, please help.

I graduate college in 2 weeks and while I should be excited I'm left with a lot of confusion... my boyfriend and sister are pressuring me to invite my mother to my graduation. I love my mom as every person does but our relationship has been rocky sense I was in 9th grade she likes to always be right and she wants people to kiss up to her .. and I'm the only one out of all her kids who doesn't. Over the years she has really hurt me said hurtful things to me like "you were a mistake I don't no why I kepted you" she has always made things a contest between the 2 of us for as long as I can remember and treated my sister better and said a few times she loved her more :/ I haven't spoken to my mother in 2 months because of a recent argument I suffered from a stillborn pregnancy and she told me the reason my baby died was because "white guys can't get mixed race girls pregnant and because the baby would of been ugly" (i know very ignorant) i don't no what to do I've heard from people that she wants to make things right and wants to be at my graduation? But she has offended my boyfriend numerous of times and has hurt me Physically,mentally so my question is ? What do you think I should do , what would you do? Do you think it's important to have an relationship with your mother regardless of what happened in the pass? Would u forgive her? I'm only 22 so it's not to late to makeup for the times she's missed . Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

ok my mum love me because she ignore me for over a month now no word and today is mothers day guess what she did she wiped all my table on the ground calling me names and insulting me over and over again i spit some words back too. i have never said i wish you were dead but i always hate her for what she did. she accused me of violence and i had to spend some days into jail. i dont know what officers thought mabe she brided them but she always say to me she hate me once she said she is sorry coz she didnt do an abortion. i dont do anything bad towards her she just hate me so today is gonna be big revenge because im sick of 11 years trying to ruin me with yelling, punching, insulting me, starving me, and so on. im done thats it today is gonna be a big revenge day! what is the best revenge i can do. one way or an other im gonna do it i wanna your help to come up with something hard on her. and dont talk back to not do this im gonna do this. my glass is filled 11 years of this **** i was really patient but thats it! and realise im almost 18 now i want a revenge! later im gonna do something about that but i want a revenge i dont wanna be shallow thats why im here i dont have where to go i want to finnish grade 12 but im gonna be 19at that moment first thing will be invisible packaging film prank

I will try to keep this short and concise, but if it does turn out rather long, please read anyways because I can almost guarantee that you'll be entertained by how ridiculous my misfortunate night has been. After coming home to my apartment after an already unfortunate night including a bike accident and several other incidents, I laid in bed to go to sleep. About a minute later my roommate (we share a bedroom) came home very drunk. He plopped down in bed and I figured he would be fine, as he does this fairly often. Then, I wake up about 2 hours later with my roommate laying in my bed cuddling me. My head and torso are soaked with something (either water or vomit as far as I can tell). So I wake him up, ask how he's feeling, move him to his bed, fetch him a pot to vomit in and a tall glass of water, and then took everything off my bed and moved it to the washing machine. Already I'm pretty upset, firstly because I was cuddled by my roommate in a pool of his own vomit, and secondly because I was now spending the night on the couch. Then I tried to turn on my phone, but it was damaged by the vomit/water and is now inoperable. Fantastic. But the night is not over. I was sitting on the couch reading a book and I saw my roommate get up from his bed, walk over to my bed, pull down his pants, and piss all over it! I ran in to stop him but its was too late. I've never wanted to hit someone so badly before but I was able to restrain myself. Back to the top question