Marriage & Divorce: Question: Two Different scenarios each equally different and deadly how would you respond.? |
- Question: Two Different scenarios each equally different and deadly how would you respond.?
- Question: How serious should I take my husband going to the club and dancing with another girl.?
- Question: What am I doing really?
- Question: Should i talk to him..? or not?
- Question: Are you proud of your sexual past?
- Question: Wants to marry but is very secretive of phone?
- Question: I have two girls, 10 and 12, living with me now. was granted custody about a month ago. Any custodial parent groups for males in Houston TX?
- Question: My husband goes days without talking to me?
- Question: Should I let my wife get a full body massage from some male therapist that is new in town? Why would a woman want to do this anyway?
- Question: Could my ex husband take my daughter away from me?
- Question: Please help, is it hard moving away for good?
- Question: I want to ask. If you did not want to settle for one woman, why marry and put your wife thru the agony u have. Abortion, affairs, lying .?
- Question: Question about an affair, MEN especially please answer?
- Question: Should there be clear guidelines for how men discipline their wives?
- Question: My dad is an alcoholic?
- Question: I want a divorce?
- Question: For those who have a Thai wife... : How much money does she try to get out of you every month - for sending back to her parents?
- Question: Am I overly upset (overreacting) over my wife's rape ? Because i've been told i am!?
- Question: Is his possible to be raped by husband?
- Question: Why do people walk away from their marrige?
- Question: If you were sleeping with someones husband, and the wife asked you, would you lie?
- Question: Losing Attraction to Husband?
- Question: When you GOT married...?
- Question: How is a matrimonial home divided after divorce?
- Question: I think my husband is going to ask for a divorce because I got a restraining order on him for domestic violence?
- Question: One year anniversary this week; considering divorce. Abuse?
- Question: What is your one complaint you have about your marriage?
- Question: My wife makes more money than I do... I feel like I don't pull my weight. Is this normal?
- Question: Do u have this problem with your wife? She is always cold And you're always hot. In the winter she turns up the heat while u boil?
- Question: My husband is an alcoholic and I am becoming indifferent to out relationship?
- Question: "Old flame" suddenly ignoring me after a friendly chat?
- Question: What is your idea of a great marriage?
- Question: I am divorcing spouse. Married to him before. How will the previous divorce decree affect this divorce?
- Question: How do you think society contributes to this increasing divorce rate?
- Question: Is it stupid and bad to get engaged at 21?
- Question: How come american people aren't very open to the idea of arranged marriages?
- Question: What does this man want from me?
- Question: Will control get worse after we married?
- Question: I am getting married and my husband and i dont want to use either of oyr last names, can we use another last name?
Question: Two Different scenarios each equally different and deadly how would you respond.? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 09:03 PM PDT You have just married and everything is going good two years into the marriage either via a visit at the door, phone call, or letter you realize your husband has three previous kids 1. He knew he had these kids but failed to mention them to you what do you do do you divorce him stay married or etc? 2. He had no clue he had any kids and these is the first he knew they existed also how do u react divorce stay married etc? Also in both questions say it was just one or 2 kids would that change the way u answered the questions. |
Question: How serious should I take my husband going to the club and dancing with another girl.? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:51 PM PDT I would just like your honest opinions please. I found out that my husband went to a club with friends and flirted with a girl, they danced to two songs. He said he was never alone with her because she was there with another female friend. When they were dancing her friend was dancing with them, he only danced with one of the girls and they grinded some, he said she never touched him and he touched her hips just briefly. They didn't dance facing each other. After they danced to two songs, the three of them went to the bar and talked for a while, he walked the girl and her friend home and didn't go inside, they all exchanged numbers and that was it. They texted each other goodnight and that's it. My husband said they didn't have sex or kiss or anything, they just grinded while dancing. Is this considered cheating? Do you think he's being truthful when he says that's all that happened? I forgot to mention that the next day the girl was texting him like crazy to hangout but he felt bad for dancing and flirting with another girl, he never talked to her again and deleted her. |
Question: What am I doing really? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:47 PM PDT So I have been part of an online community relating to a game for a couple of years. Talked to Many members but the friendship with one of the members recently amped up. We have spoke about too many things and he was up front at the beginning that he was flirting. I flirted back, had seen pictures and he is very attractive. He does have a wife and I am in a long term relationship but neither of us really bring our partners up much. I am actually quite over mine but he constantly manipulates me into staying. The conversation has reached fantasy levels and while no actual cyber sex has actually happened, the kind of conversations that lead us both to being very turned on. We talk of meeting but honestly I know I am enjoying the fantasy too much and don't know if any human can live up to the expected fantasy. We talk about a lot of different things and I enjoy it but the sexual energy is driving me crazy, we have made fantasies together and he has given me new fantasies. We make each other feel good an happy. I am just not sure if it should continue at this pace when I don't know if reality will work. I am really enjoying his company, don't want it to end but cannot help the confusion. Also at what point is it cheating on someone, I actually don't feel like either of us really are. Especially because I doubt it has a chance of getting offline. |
Question: Should i talk to him..? or not? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:45 PM PDT I ve been talking to a guy online we usually speak once every week cause we re both busy but today we were having a convo but it got tensed because we dont talk to eachother everday it was awkward for me to talk to him.. and i told him that and he said "i think we should be happy when we talk to eachother even in that small amount of time that we do but instead all u do is nag and complain" so i said okay i won t. he replied with " you killed my mood for talking im going out.." so i said i dont know how to reply to you cause he said it so abruptly..he said "ok im going out. bye" so i said.. " im sorry i didn t mean to act like that. take care" its been a week since we've spoke or him saying anything.. should i initiate a convo or just let it be? |
Question: Are you proud of your sexual past? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:43 PM PDT If you did have a promiscuous past, are you proud of it, ashamed of it or feel indifferent? |
Question: Wants to marry but is very secretive of phone? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:42 PM PDT my boyfriend of a little over a year is great and says he wants to marry me and have kids etc..but he wont show me his facebook or phone. takes it with him everywhere, bathroom, etc. has it pin locked. he says bc i might see something and take it the wrong way. if he's not doing anything wrong then why is he so secretive about it? not like i wanna read through every little message, his actions make me suspicious and i just wanna make sure he's being truthful. |
Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:33 PM PDT |
Question: My husband goes days without talking to me? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:31 PM PDT My husband goes days without contacting me or talking to me. Does he not love me? We are on a break. Are we over? |
Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:30 PM PDT |
Question: Could my ex husband take my daughter away from me? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:24 PM PDT I am here for advice not to be judged. My daughter is 9 and I have had shared legal custody with Her father and myself having physically custody of her with liberal visitation with Her father since she was a year old. We are both active duty military. He was in the military before me. When we divorced I was a civilian. I deployed july 2013 for 9 months, during this time he has my daughter. When I returned he seemed anger and reluctant to give her back to me and his demeaner towards me has changed drastically. Some background info, I did remarry and have a son. I would not have remarried but I had to in order to join the military with dependants. I have been lethally separated for 3 years and actually waiting for my divorce decree in the mail as I write this. I have since met a man whom I am very happy with. We have been dating for 2.5 years and are planning to marry. We are very happy with one another he is a great person. He is also active duty military. My daughters father thinks this is a reason to get my daughter from me as he has been upset about her leaving him since my return. I now have orders to Texas and he has decided tha after a year of her being back with me after deployment he wants to file in the courts to try to get physical custody of her. I am not an unfit mother. My daughter is very well taken care of and happy. She wants to live with me. I am educated, hard worker, sanitary, and have good morals. Do you believe he has a chance to win the judge over? |
Question: Please help, is it hard moving away for good? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 08:10 PM PDT I am getting married and moving three hours away for good. I love my soon to be wife with all my heart. I am just nervous about moving away for good. |
Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:57 PM PDT |
Question: Question about an affair, MEN especially please answer? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:54 PM PDT Why would a man tell his wife about the woman he's having an affair with BUT act like he hates her? For instance, this guy in my class (all of us are 30+) is having an affair with one of the instructors there but he tells his wife that SHE comes onto HIM but he rejects her, etc. Which isn't true. He came onto her first anyway. He makes fun of her (the other woman) to his wife, but every night after class they sneak off together to have sex before his wife comes by. I'm tempted to tell his wife the truth. My question is: Why would a man who's having an affair even mention the other woman to his wife like that? Even though he tells his wife he hates the woman, he ALWAYS talks to his wife about her. But he makes it like he's having to fight her off and he doesn't like her. Does he do this to cover his own tracks in case his wife finds out or what? I don't understand. |
Question: Should there be clear guidelines for how men discipline their wives? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:53 PM PDT If you want your camel or donkey to start walking, you can not just slap it in the face and risk making it ugly. So how should married men discipline their wives when she is disobedient and refuses to follow orders? |
Question: My dad is an alcoholic? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:49 PM PDT i just don't know what to do we have all been going through a divorce and he has become very depressed and turned towards drinking |
Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:43 PM PDT We have been together over 10 years, married for 4, have 2 kids. One is 7, one is 2. Our sex life stinks, maybe once every 2 or 3 months, she has a different parenting style which really gets on my nerves because she will straight up tell me I'm mean and start tearing me down in front of my son when I'm trying to disapline him, which I've told her over and over is wrong to do in front of him. I'm not mean at all, the kid just needs some disapline, he is a spoiled brat with 0 respect for his parents. He is only grateful after he gets it his way. She stinks at the bills, and I try to plan bills, and ask her to make payments but she spends it on other things that are more important in her mind and she rarely plans or asks me about said purchases. She does a little work from home, but for the one that has a degree, her income is non existent really, and she starts spending what I bring in with no hope of staying caught up on bills. I have explained to her the need for better planning, but she never does it. I'll ask her to pay a bill, and it should be paid the day I ask her, but a week goes by after asking if she did. I feel the need to take over everything, because I'm starting to be concerned for our kids and my future!! We disagree on everything and I work my *** off but it gets us nowhere. I'm getting to the point where I want a divorce..any advice? |
Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:42 PM PDT |
Question: Am I overly upset (overreacting) over my wife's rape ? Because i've been told i am!? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:32 PM PDT okay so first off it was by one of her old ex boyfriends, and he began to harass her constantly, calling non stop, (blocked his number later btw) and began to "run into her" at places during the day(of course, trying to get a restraint was useless, because there was'' no reason for one, he isn't harassing her'' as we were told). and a while ago we found out she was pregnant, (now 3 months along) to which we both were excited for, but a weeks ago, as you could guess, she was raped, and she was hesitant but, she reported it, and, they once again told her, there was no real evidence that he did anything! but she had gotten tested for std's and she doesn't have any ( thankfully!). so by now she doesn't want to leave our room, nor want to go to work, she's so terrified by this point, she's just drowning herself in her anxiety, she thinks its her fault, AND ITS NOT! she doesn't want me out of her sight because she's scared he'll be back, but then feels horrible for trying to keep me around, (when she thinks its all her fault) i'm glad that she still trusts me enough to want me to keep her safe, but she's under so much fear, and stress, i know this has to be affecting the baby, and she's not sure she wants to keep the baby anymore, because she doesn't want to bring a child into so much danger. i really hate this guys by all means, and has brought so much trouble, and now its literally destroying the life i'm trying to create with my wife. i've been told that i'm overly upset over this, by many of my friends, and they say its just something that happens all the time, and its nothing special, it happens everyday to all kinds of girls, so i need to calm down over this, but honestly i cant, am i really overreacting, because if i am then so be it, but i want to know! |
Question: Is his possible to be raped by husband? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:27 PM PDT Last night, my husband and I went out for dinner and drinks. We had quite a lot to drink, and when we got home, he wanted to fool around. I told him NO, that I was not in the mood and I was too tired. The next morning, I look up and I noticed some goo in between my legs: I was full of sperms. I feel so violated that he would take advantage of me while I was sleeping, especially where I should be able to trust him. I confronted him about it, and he said he was just in the mood and didn't think I would mind. I told him it was rape, and he just brushed it off, saying I am his wife. What should I do? Is it still potentially rape even if we're married? |
Question: Why do people walk away from their marrige? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:26 PM PDT |
Question: If you were sleeping with someones husband, and the wife asked you, would you lie? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 07:17 PM PDT If you were sleeping with someones husband, and the wife asked you, would you lie? assuming you had never met |
Question: Losing Attraction to Husband? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 06:02 PM PDT What happens if you start losing physical attraction to your husband? If you dont think they are handsome anymore...what does this mean ? is this normal |
Question: When you GOT married...? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 05:42 PM PDT Please keep this in M+D not the wedding section, I'm asking people who already got married. If you had a traditional style wedding with a reception and dancing, did you have a routine with either your spouse or the parent you danced with? My fiancee is trying to bribe me into taking dance classes with her but I'd really rather not ahaha. |
Question: How is a matrimonial home divided after divorce? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 05:17 PM PDT |
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Question: One year anniversary this week; considering divorce. Abuse? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 04:34 PM PDT So I'm 21 and my husband is 30..my family always been against our relationship since we started dating when I was 18. He makes rude remarks but my acne and it's really gets me even if he's joking. I never do it him, and his acne is so much worse...like really bad. He's very condescending, it's like he's makes me feel dumb sometimes. Always unnecessarily correcting me. He doesn't cook, and hates the idea of even learning. makes misogynistic jokes. Once I forgot to cook his eggs a certain way and he was acting like a spoiled brat telling me "I'll remind you next time" like... wtf. it really pissed me off. We're not really on the same wavelength mentally or sexually and I'm really starting to feel like I'm losing my love for him like I've grown out of the relationship |
Question: What is your one complaint you have about your marriage? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 04:34 PM PDT Time management? Finances? A spouse who changed? There must be something! |
Question: My wife makes more money than I do... I feel like I don't pull my weight. Is this normal? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 04:22 PM PDT |
Posted: 07 Apr 2015 04:12 PM PDT In the summer she doesn't let u turn on the air conditioning. So you sweat while she is comfortable with the warm summer weather. BQ: How do u handle this problem |
Question: My husband is an alcoholic and I am becoming indifferent to out relationship? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 03:49 PM PDT My husband and I have been together for 4 years. We have 2 babies together (I have 3 teenagers from a prior marriage as well) and he is an alcoholic. He is uncaring, unaffectionate and unattentive to me. He isn't reliable or dependable because he rarely does what he says he will or rarely comes home when he says he will. We both work full-time but he hardly contributes to our family finances. Luckily, I make enough (about twice as much as he does) to support our family of 7. He spends his paychecks on booze, gambling, his friends, and gas for his car; all the while, though, he comes home daily complaining about how tired he is because he works so hard. Because of this, he hardly helps out with the kids or anything else at home. I have talked to him so many times about these things it has just gotten to the point where it is exhausting. It feels like me and our family are an inconvenience to him. He tells me he loves me, doesn't want to leave me, can't imagine life without me and that I am everything to him. Ironically though, he only says these things when I suggest that it seems to me that he wants out of our relationship or he might be happier with someone else. However, even though he says he things he says he is not in love with me and I need to give him time, possibly years for that to happen. I am so tired of feeling like he doesn't care but him claiming he does, that I am becoming indifferent to him and our relationship. Any ideas? |
Question: "Old flame" suddenly ignoring me after a friendly chat? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 02:59 PM PDT Former high-school teacher and I had a close relationship in 2009, and developed strong romantic feelings for one another. We kept in touch during my college years and he would constantly read my blog and ask about me thru other people. 2 years after college, I decided to visit him (after 4 yrs) because I'm planning to become a teacher, quite possibly in the same school (this was actually his idea; in a recent email he said that he had "hoped" so). Last week I finally visited him, we had an excellent chat afterschool, and neither of us mentioned anything about our "past". I left the conversation thinking we were finally on fresh new terms as platonic friends (esp. because he is married!). He also gazed at me smiling (3-4 seconds) several times during moments of silence. He knew he would be seeing me around school more often, because I am currently volunteering there part-time + even teaching his kids. I even gave him the days I would be working. HOWEVER... today (1 week after our chat) I was sitting alone in the fairly-empty cafeteria when he came in, I waited for him to get closer so eye contact wouldn't be awkward -- but when I looked up to smile he looked straight ahead, basically ignoring me. When he left, he didn't stop and say bye or acknowledge me either. I don't understand this sudden change in behavior: our chat last week was so casual and fun, not flirty at all. If it had been any other teacher, his actions would have been rude. Why did he totally ignore me? Asking in M&D because he was married before *and* I believe we can remain casual friends. He doesn't need to ignore me rudely, especially when he has no problem with the idea of me working there. I'm guessing he doesn't think we can remain friends? I've given him NO romantic hints or flirting! But he had no problem with the idea of me working there last week *or* last year. I've given him no signs or flirting. We chatted like friends just last week! And now he thinks we can't be friends, suddenly?? |
Question: What is your idea of a great marriage? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 02:58 PM PDT I'm doing a marriage project for senior year and I'm really not sure how to answer these types of questions. What is your idea of a great marriage? What characteristics would this marriage have? Why do some marriages fail? |
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Question: How do you think society contributes to this increasing divorce rate? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 02:26 PM PDT |
Question: Is it stupid and bad to get engaged at 21? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 12:56 PM PDT I'm turning 21 next month. My boyfriend is 39 (he's been married once before lasted 2.5 years and got divorce 5 years ago, married her after 2 months of dating her) . We've been together almost 2 years. I'm really want to be engaged. I get insomnia a few times each month because of my anger and resentment that he married her quickly and makes me wait in limbo. I can't keep going on like this. It'll be the hardest thing I've ever done but I'm seriously considering if I don't get a ring by our 2 year anniversary this June. What should I do? Please help me. I am in college folks. Jeez P.S. My mother mocks me that he committed to his ex-wife after 2 months and she says to me "Why'd he marry her after 2 months? Where's the ring? I don't see a ring... He's never going to marry you." |
Question: How come american people aren't very open to the idea of arranged marriages? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 01:18 AM PDT I am getting an arranged marriage and my friends aren't supportive of me at all. I am engaged to a girl in my native country vietnam and people aren't happy for me at all. My friends told me that they don't support the idea of arranged marriages and told me to break off my engagement. I told them that I won't break off the engagement and they all of a sudden stopped talking to me and they told others to stop talking to me as well. I lost all of my friends and everyone calls me immature. I don't get how getting an arranged marriage makes me immature. Why are my friends treating me like this ? |
Question: What does this man want from me? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:17 PM PDT I've been divorced for over a year and my ex still tries to dictate what I should and shouldn't do. He tries to have sex with me everytime I see him and he gets moody when I reject him. The thing is, I don't actually think he wants to be with me anymore. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but he hasn't exactly made a huge effort trying to come back. I told him to leave but still If he really wanted us to be together he would try. Anyways, my friend told me she saw him with another girl and was flirting, so why would he come to me next day flirting? I don't get that. The other day he pushed me against the wall and pulled my hair and starting kissing me. It really upset me but he said he didn't mean to upset me and I'm sensitive. He's always pulled my hair during sex. Is that normal? Sometimes it hurts and I find it disrespectful as I'm not a piece of dirt |
Question: Will control get worse after we married? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 04:16 PM PDT I have a pretty controlling boyfriend,we are planning to get married soon , i am wondering if the control can get worse after our wedding and turn into abuse? He is already having control over me and picking my friends , also im not allowed to see any males.. Or to drink or smoke , i am just wondering if this can get worse? |
Posted: 06 Apr 2015 02:53 PM PDT |
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