It's not an arranged marriage, it's a free love, so it's unbelievably weird.  

So my wife has really wanted to have a child for years ever since she met me. We've been together for 8 years. However, I told her that I wasn't comfortable having a kid yet and wanted some time to think about it before making that commitment. Well, just recently I finally realized that I feel comfortable having a kid with her. The problem is, we just went to the doctor and the doctor told her that because she is 40 that it would be extremely dangerous to have a child and that there's a really good chance that the child will have health complications. She is extremely upset about it and even told me that she wasted her years with me. Did I rob her of motherhood? I feel horrible. She says that adoption is out of the question. Update: she said she wants her own biological children.

I opened a brokerage account prior to getting married, invested a lot of money and now is worth over one million dollars. During the divorce, is he entitled to that money?

A good friend of mine is married. I am also good friends with her husband. Her husband works the night shift at his job. When he was at work my friend would have sex with guys and not use condoms. She is now pregnant and making her husband is the father when there is a chance he is not since she has been cheating on him. My friends husband came over. He found out. He went home on break to surprise his wife and found her in bed with another man. He is heartbroken and he is going to get a lawyer and find and test done to find out if he is the father. He told me he is going to file for divorce. I told him she has been cheating on him for a while. He just left to go back to work. 

I've never been married but I'm thinking if someone cheated on me, I would sue the boyfriend for money.

I'm in a Toxic relationship, Scared to make a move? What should I do?

She's airing our dirty laundry for all to see. I don't have privacy in my own home since her parents know everything I say or do. It's like having a spy in my house.

"cold violence" between couple means  wordless or totally ignore each other's existence, take him or her as the air , but there is no physical and verbal abuses.

My husband and I have been together some 16 years, married almost 10. There was a girl he always had a crush on since they were kids sitting next to each other in church. They never dated because she didn't want to ruin their friendship but I found out a few years back that he tried to hook up with her shortly after we started dating. Well, he's had no other contact with her in years, from what I gather but he just informed me that he saw on Facebook that this girl's twin brother passed suddenly and he was contemplating going to the funeral when it's planned. I still harbor some ill feelings toward this girl so I don't think he should go. He's had no contact with her in years but now all of a sudden he wants to go pay his respects to her at the funeral. He hasn't asked me to go bu I'm still torn on why he would want to go and possibly upset this apple cart at home. He's got some nerve. Should he go or should I tell him I don't think that's a good idea out of respect for my feelings. If he goes should I go with him? Maybe to trow it up in the girl's face that we're married now and she lost out on him years ago by not wanting to date him. Again, they almost hooked up once but I found out about it. Any thoughts? Am I wrong in my feelings?

 The meaning of marriage should be to support and warm each other in difficult times , right? The meaning of marriage should  support and warm each other in difficult times , right?  

I'm picky and the few girls i liked in my life never really liked me.

i am currently going through a divorce. my wife refuses to let me see my son or have any contact with him at all. she has blocked my phone and when i go to see him she refuses to answer the door. she has even called the police on me for trying to see him, there are no court orders for anything at the moment. my attorney filed a motion for emergency temporary custody but the judge set the hearing two months away. i cannot wait two more months to see my son, what can i do to see my son sooner than the hearing?