I've tried to be subtle and even purchased many panties for my wife but she has a lot of panties that are just stained that she chooses to wear during her period.  Her excuse is "they are already stained so she can ruin them more."   FYI, I'm 40 and she's 34.

I've have a issue where I'm in a relationship with someone who was buying a mobile home but couldn't get a loan.. I gave him $4900 to buy it with all the money I have saved with the agreement he would pay me back... He works and gets disability... But there was a error from last year and a had to pay him back pay of $1530. He told me he had called up the disability office and said that it was a mistake and he had to give it back... I was in his car today and found documentation saying that money was to be given to him and he had lied to me about it.... This made a lot of sense as I have been seeing him spend money quite a bit lately and for the last 2 years he has been leeching off a me... He didn't give me a dime of any of that money to pay me back.. We had recently got married and I have 3 kids and he has none.. And I feel this is a huge dishonesty and betrayal... Can anyone give me advice on what they would do in my situation? We live in separate homes and our finances are separated too.. This was agreed upon when we married until my kids were grown... He keeps boring money from me and telling me you'll pay me back but it never happens

And why do they always come home with lipstick on their collar?

Whenever my wife wants to have sex I have to watch porn or look up shaved ******* to get aroused. 

My husband constant chats and plays games with an old female friend of 29 yrs. He is either using fb messenger,video chat.He likes n views her photos. Ally friends say he's playing with her head and not to get mad. Their conversations are about sex.I think it's to boost his ego.

Hello, My husband and I have been recently married. We have been together for over a year and have known each other a couple of years. We just found out we were pregnant a couple of weeks ago, and I have been more than happy with him since the moment I met him. A couple of days after finding out, I have been getting so irritated with everything he does and says, even though he is being so sweet and patient with me. It gets worse and worse to the point where I don't want to talk to him or be around him. Has anyone experienced this? Is this normal? Is this just hormones? I am so frustrated and confused. Someone please help.

my husband is destroying my credit. I can't even get a decent job because I have to pay for childcare with my whole paycheck. recently he decided he will not help with childcare. we have 2 kids and one on the way. I graduated not long ago and it's not easy to get a good paying job with no experience. when he needed help I helped him financially to get himself together get a good credit to get us a house and everything else. now things are good I don't know where money is going. I had to accept a job that was given at his company which had nothing to do with my field of study. He makes 27$/hour somehow my 3000monthly trust fund is what seems to be helping pay for everything. I have to take credits al the time to pay for things he agreed to and is now refusing to pay for. I cannot get a divorce right now because I got my green card through him. I'm trying to make as much as I can to afford living on my own at the right time and file for divorce. I don't even know if I should call this a question it's more like a rant. I'm tired of this life. what can I do? 

My long time friend I used to sleep with 30 yrs ago and I still maintain a relationship on Facebook.He want me to be in love with him but he is happily married.

I had box seats at a local stadium before I was married to Joan and I kept them after our divorce. Joan is a BIG SPORTS FAN. Joan has since remarried. She called me and wanted to know if she could use one of my box seats when they were not in use. There are 4 seats in the box. I told her I was so busy with my business that I only attended about 1/5 of the games so there was usually empty seats she was welcome to use which she did. I was never there when she used the seats. I got an email from her current husband mad as hell at me for letting her use these empty seats. I am not sure how I should respond. Please give me some help with this. THE LAST THING I WANT TO DO I CAUSE HER A PROBLEM WITH HER MARRIAGE. This is some of the things I thought about doing. Tell her she can not use these seats anymore. OR Tell her husband he is welcome to join her if there is another empty seat in the box. OR Ignore the email. OR Tell him this is a problem between him and his wife and I am not going to get involved in their problems. OR Try to explain to Joan that what she is doing is causing a problem with her marriage that she should address. What is the best thing to do here for all concerned. PLEASE HELP. I don't want to be the cause of a marriage breakup

Dont get me wrong, we love each other. But words do hurt. It's just that he have this thought of "as a wife you need to listen to your husband"

Hey guys so my wife and I are under investigation by Child Protective Services not because we abused our children, but but because of domestic violence between us. My wife was trying to get counseling for our son, and she disclosed informatiom about things that happened between she and I in the past, and the counseling office reported it to CPS. A caseworker came to our home asked us questions, then told one of us to leave the home, we initially agreed to to it, but later couldn't because my wife and I already worked on our relationship ourselves and things have been good for a while now. Plus we don't really have anywhere else to live. They made us sign a child safety plan. Stating one of us has to leave the home for 30 days.  Can we challenge the decision or just let them know. What can we do??? 

I have had a lot of betrayal in my life, I'm struggling. I can't find the line, what should I forgive people for? Because I'm losing everyone and there's gotta be a line. So do I forgive my mom for staying with her husband who molested me as a child? My dad for constantly telling me I was a disgrace and that my anxiety was silly and inconvenient for him? My fiancé for lying about porn a few times? I need to know the line. Because to me, everyone sucks and everyone hurts me. I always tell people at the beginning of relationships; I can handle anything but lies. Please, help me find the line. I'm alone, and I don't think I want to be alone, even though it'd probably be easier. Also I'm already in counseling, but sometimes weekly sessions isn't enough. I just need some thoughts. Thanks!

My husband and I have been married for 5 together for 15 years. He has lied to me for the last 6 years. He first had a prescription pill addiction which hes been clean for 4 years now then he gained a meth addiction. He was recently in a bad car accident and now wants his life to change. He actually died in careflight and had multiple major surgeries in less than a week. Says hes done with meth and wants to prove to me that he can change. We have been seperated for 8 months now and I was the only one paying the bills and taking care of things while we lived together. I miss the old him and I can see him coming back but idk if I can move past the years of lies and disrespect. Advise is greatly appreciated. 

He can sext and talk dirty (by texting) for hours but as soo as the conversation gets serious he makes excuses as he has to do something or he's sleepy or tired and really needs to go.. And when confronted gets angry or upset. We're separated because one minute he wants his independence  (even got his own place) but when horny he wants us to live together and I'm just not having it because it's all words. Also when in person (like face to face) he has nothing to say to me or if he do say anything its usually about himself. And his work. The moment he sees I'm happy he wants us to work on our marriage be a family. Its been like this on and off for the past year. And  am really thinking of surprising him with divorce papers now.. I feel like im losing my self by playing his game.. Because he can never see what he's doing as wrong and thinks I'm delusional with everything going on and that it's our communication. But he's not communicating. What is his intention? Should I move on? Is he even aware of what he's doing? I need another opinion.  @Juana omg yes he's totally similar to your ex.plus he never truly apologized for anything just halfa$$it then try to tell me all the reasons why he do or say what he did. It's was really getting to me mentally. It's like talking to a 2yrs old child.    @Jerry watches nude women or porn and play video games. He don't hide it he said I need to accept him for how he is & went as far to tell me the things he would like to do to some nude females in a text message.. and I let him know right then it was disrespectful to me he thought I was overeacting got angry and ignored me for days. (we were already sperated ) so that was the final and big part for separation mentally and emotionally so yes I'm like 99% out.  Also when he's upset with me for any reason hell always say he wants a divorce or we shouldn't get married.. But when he clams down its like I don't want to let you go we need to stay together for our little one but yet we don't even live in the same house and I don't depend on him financially.   I suggested counseling many times before and he saw no use and said we're a lost cause. But when I finally picked him up on his outburst and wanting to divorce he suddenly wants to do marriage counseling but now I am the one who really don't think it's worth it. 

1 year ago, I had a fall out in my marriage and was so stressed (not justifying it but expressing how i felt then) so i cheated on my wife for 3 month then felt bad due to the religious and moral impact so ended it. The other woman knew i was married half way through and wanted me to leave my wife for her, i apologised as was emotionally torn and ended the relationship so she told my wife that i m a cheater and to check my phone and friends. I never done that before or after. I admitted to it and asked my wife to try and help me working on our relationship. She said she would but since then she has been horrible to me and could not get over it instead of working on the marriage. I decided to divorce as do not want to fall again into infidelity and feels the marriage has broken down. Tried marriage counselling but didnt help as she was centred on her emotions and can not relate to me at all as much as I failed to satisfy her. Now my wife is saying I m a bad person becz i cheated on her and now divorcing her. Can someone advise me if i m really a bad person and is it a wrong decision that i wanted to end the relationship? I feel emotionally and mentally wrecked.

Short story: how do I file for divorce with not much money? We have a 9 month old. We live together but def no longer together! ___ Longer story: due to long distance we wanted to be close, we married but it wasnt the norm, which is something ive always wanted. I knew wed have issues bc we dk each other well enough. Its been 3 yrs.. of learning each other but "married" turns out I dnt love what I'm learning but I really wanted a kid so I got pregnant. No cheating, we're just not compatible at alll!! I dont want to be unhappy forever, we're only 26. We moved in with my parents to help with the baby. How do I get a divorce? Explain to my parents we're over? Co-parent a toddler? & is it possible to live together? Bc we both dont have enough to move out. Plz advise me with kindness! Thanks.

i mean what's the point . do you have such low self confidence that you rather make a god out of him , just because i banged some of your women 13 years ago ?