My best friend of 3 years and I started falling apart in august of this year, we would always hang out and do fun stuff before he started ghosting me. I considered him a brother and we hung out almost every day. After school started we talked less and less. I tried texting him and he would respond with bored answers or simply leave me on read. I would ask if he wants to hang and he usually never replied. That crushed me, I felt alone. It wasnt until his birthday when he uninvited me and blocked me for no reason. After his party was over he claimed it was an accident. Clearly something isnt right and now today he blocked me again for no reason. Havent even talked to him recently. What is his problem? I know i did nothing wrong and I feel alone, depressed, and sad. I also feel anger so badly I want to punch my wall. I keep saying WHY. WHAT DID I DO. I have other friends but he was my best for a while until all this happened. I am dumbfounded by why he suddenly ghosted me and began changing for the worst. 

I'm a 13 year old boy and I'm on my brother's account! but anyway, me and my best friend that I've been friends with for 6 years! she is 10, she comes to my house on the weekends to spend the night with me! and she told me she wants to have sex, but i don't know were we can do it at, because my parents are so nosey and they don't give me any privacy, do you know any quiet place where we can go and have sex at?

I used to be friends with this lady at the senior center and for months now she wont even talk to me, not sure why, i tried talking to her but she wont respond, i miss talking to her but its awkward when you want to just forget about it and this person is following your friends around so now you cant talk to them either cause shes always there. Like today i was just about to eat lunch and she was standing over me talking to this other lady on the left of me, i felt awkward trying to eat like that with someone that hates me standing over me so i took my stuff and sat elsewhere, my friend knows if i leave she knows why, the problem is i dont want to be around someone that hates me constantly and then clings to my friends so i cant get rid of her. and then cant spend time with my friends either cause shes always around, bad enough she dont want to talk to me but now shes always around when i just want to forget about it, i miss talking to her but i cant force her to talk, any suggestions other than hanging out somewhere else so i can spend time with people instead of her always being in the way.

I made a cool new friend last month. We had everything in common and hung out a few times. I even went out of my and did something nice for him (without really expecting anything in return). And....suddenly....ghosted. After a week, I reach out to make sure he was alive, healthy, and not in jail or something. He was fine. Over a week later...still ghosted. Obviously I'm done as well. I don't need these kinds of friends. Should I block him on Facebook, defriend him, or just do nothing at all?

I am a college senior about to graduate that volunteered to tutor freshmen in math. I got assigned to a sorority which had lots of beautiful girls. I became good friends with many of them and thought I might date them until one of them told me most everyone in that sorority was gay. I was VERY disappointed but we became good friends. One problem they told me they had was they could not go to some school activities they really wanted to go to without a male date. I said problem solved. I will take you. One of the sorority girls must have told her father about our "dates". I got a call from the father one day asking me to join him for lunch at his country club. At the lunch he thanked me for changing his daughter to straight. He introduced me to several company presidents and told them I was an outstanding young man and he would consider it a personal favor if they had any job opening to give me a chance at the jobs. I got 4 job offers at that luncheon and I am going to take one of them. I thought changing someone from gay to straight was not possible. If she changed it is news to me. The dad was very nice to me and I wonder if I deserve his gracious help finding a job. Should I just take the job I was offered with his help and hope for the best for him and his daughter? I don't want to take credit for something I did not do but it is a really great job offer.

I always feel like the nicest people get treated badly. One time one of the nicest teachers asked her co workers if they needed help and I think the response was either rudely "I DONT NEED ANY HELP" or completely ignoring her. I noticed that her co workers sometimes don't even care about her. She is nice to EVERYONE.

But by anything that's still holy I'm O so ******* mad..  Stupid **** with her stupid unoriginal copy paste friends.  It still pisses off me greatly  That she literally mentioned all her dumb *** friends expect me well at least I'm not a dumb *** I guess hahahhababbabab 

Most of their friends already have enough attention and you get a little to no support at all  even though your content is much better than all of their friends combined..  

I never lost touch with my 2 real friends from high school. A couple of months ago, I started getting many friend requests on Facebook from high school people I hadn't seen in 20 years. Some people are organizing a reunion. After stalking at my old classmates Facebooks, I realized 2 things: 1. I'm doing better than most 2. I really don't have any desire to reconnect with any of them. The ones who are organizing and trying to convince everyone to go to this reunion are the girls who are still single. My  real friends from high school, and I, are not suprised that they remain single. They were the girls with unrealistically high standards who were not particularly attractive. The only ones who became successful and rich, are my 2 friend who became programmers at Silicon Valley. They have no desire to go the reunion. Should I go to the reunion?

My classmates are bullying me and not doing the project. They make me want to cry and I hate them. I wish I was in a different school. They are all little bitches who really hurt my feelings. I'm going to go home and cry myself to sleep. I never did anything to hurt them or earn this malice. They can't even remember ****. Should I transfer despite it being my senior year? Or jump off a bridge? Or push them off a bridge? Thank you for any responses I get. Thank you.

My friend did me a favor by setting up an interview next week for a school assignment.  However, I did not realize that same day I am supposed to celebrate my sister's birthday (not on her birthday, but the weekend after).  I cannot cancel on my sister, but I feel absolutely terrible canceling on my friend after she went out of her way to do me this favor.  What can I do in this situation? For my assignment, the interview is 3 hours long.  For my sister's birthday, we have tickets to go to an amusement park.

At the place I work they have a day care facility. One of my fellow employees and a good friend ask me if she could use my conference room to nurse her son as she did not feel comfortable nursing him in the day care facility. I told her sure, as long as it was not being used. One day after nursing her son, she ask me what I thought of her boobs. I told her I could not discuss her boobs at work. I was afraid I would get in trouble for sexual harassment. She said her husband told her they were too small and she wanted a mans opinion about her boobs. She said if you can not talk about them at work, lets have lunch and then we can talk about their size. I declined her invitation to have lunch and talk about her boobs. I suggested she and her husband might benefit from counseling on that subject. I am NEVER going to talk to any of my fellow employees about their boobs either at work or not at work. Should I have told her that and is that a good policy even if she is my friend?

Shouldn't "mature" apply to the bullies, provided the grew up to be nice human beings?  Bullies are typically immature, as picking on someone is not only mean, but childish.  But how exactly does being the victim of bullying qualify as immature?  If a boy is now a man who knows how to fight, doesn't that simply mean he's no longer scared?  What does maturity have anything to do with it?  When a grown man is bullied at work, is he still immature until he defends himself??

Aren't you getting sick and tired of all these public apologies??? It seems like every week some company offends some miserable losers and they end up having to apologize to them! Irish people and Portuguese (?) people were offended because it reminded them of "The troubles" in Northern Ireland! What??? "I'm offended! I'm offended! Apologize to me!" Nowadays everybody is a victim!

What happened was yesterday was Halloween I was highly excited to go with my friends! Let's call them Rebecca and lily. Rebecca told me that they might not go because lily was going with Angela and if she had enough time she would go with lily. I asked lily if this was true because I have trust issues and she said yes so I trusted them. I was waiting and I was so excited I put my clown makeup and my costume on and I was excited. Than I was texting my friend about it and she was like "did u not see Lily's story? Her and somebody else is at Rebecca house. I looked at their story and I felt aweful. They literally lied straight up to my face like what the heck!?!?!? I texted them Rebecca saying "uhm why is lily and this other girl in ur house??" And she said "oh I thought Rebecca told you" so I texted Rebecca and said " Lily and one other girl is at your house why didn't u tell me and I thought u said u were going with somebody else" and she said "hahahahaha lily told me to lie to you" I felt so depressed later on snapchat I saw there stories and they were hanging out with 5 Other people while going trick or treating with them . I was so sad I was always with them during there hard times to cheer them up and I always made them feel better I felt so betrayed so betrayed that I cried for so long untiI had a headache. I was extremely depressed and I suffer from extreme anxiety. This was heart breaking how can I get over this? Are they fake. Please help By the way I am not a troll I have severe trust issues from this and I don't think I can get back from it 

I'm a guy who has had toxic girlfriends and has been led on/rejected. I've also had to deal with getting attitude and made fun of by teenage girls and women in public. This year, I've had to deal with getting led on by a woman I liked so much and she never ended up liking/even caring or respecting me. I gave up on her and ignored her for good. About 4 weeks ago, I got falsely accused of threatening and harassing a woman at my now current job. I ended up getting suspended/terminated. There was no investigation despite the head of HR telling me there would be one. I wasn't allowed to give a verbal statement or written statement. There are video cameras at this job and there weren't witnesses. HR just took her side and I got let go. I've been angry, bored and depressed and even have thought of ending my life. Maybe oddly though, I don't hate women. I can't say that I'd want to fall for another woman again or trust a woman again even on a friend level.

I'm going out with some friends tonight, but one of the people going is very bitter, judgmental (towards me) and hates my guts. What's worse is she has much better social skills than I do (I'm very shy and awkward) ans she's closer with all the other people going so I can't just stick with others and avoid her.  She will not attack me or cause a scene (at least I'm pretty sure she won't - that would make her look bad), but she will do her best to indirectly make me feel unwelcome/like the outsider so I'll leave. How do I cope with this and still have a good time?

First, let me say it is NOT all in my head. My friend group has noticed the same thing. I'm in a higher education program. Someone in my (small) cohort seems to dislike me, or even hate me. We interacted once, and she's always giving me dirty looks. Her friend group also gives me dirty looks. Some people used to be friendly towards me, then started hanging out with her, and now they're cold and giving me dirty looks. Once again, my friend group has also noticed this. We interacted once. I don't know what I did. She also initiated it and we only stopped because we had to leave. My brutally honest friends can't figure out what it is. I leave her and her friend group alone, I never talk to them, but they still give me dirty looks. We also didn't know each other prior to this. Usually I wouldn't care too much, but it's a niche career and we're going to see each other 20 hours a week for the next 18 months (including over the summer). So if she and her friends have a bad impression of me, it could hurt my job prospects.  So, how can I turn it around? Or at the very least handle it well? I don't want to hurt my job prospects because of one interaction that turned someone against me without me even knowing what I did. I've never had something like this happen before. Thanks again.

I want to beat it.  I want everyone to be my friend

I just.. feel like I don't? "fit in"? Not exactly "fit in" but, as a girl, more like I don't have a connection with anyone in my school. Everyone's with their own group. Girls with girls and boys with boys. Annoying how the "you can't be friends with the opposite sex" mindset is so common here. The girls are just, boring. I've got nothing in common with them. They laugh at old 2016 twitter memes and constantly gossip unnecessarily about other people. Nobody gets my jokes, so apparently I don't appeal much to them, but they appreciate how I don't cause drama and tell me secrets about someone I could give a rat's *** about. Overall, I've gotten booted from a table simply because they didn't like me. 0/10. The boys, they get it. They get the jokes I tell and honestly laugh at them, and I actually have common interests with some of them and get some good discussions about anime and such. The problem is, I can't get through without them making some inappropriate joke about me. I'll be talking about something anime related and one kid'll say how I'd "probably squirt" or "jerk off" to one character in particular, even putting some homophobic joke of some sort. The whole group'll laugh and I'll laugh it off, but it's just really off-putting to the mood. It'd be nice if I could have fun doing actual fun **** with them without getting weird. Sorry for rant, but How can I find friends? I was thinking of looking for online groups, but I'm not sure how safe that is. Any tips?

I reached out to my old best friend and we started to become friends again and I found out she's homeschooled bc of her IBS, depression, and anxiety, and it was going well and suddenly she disappeared and stopped responding and after 8 days I messaged and asked if she was to busy to text or something and did I do something wrong and she replied saying no she's just been busy and she seemed to want to talk because I didn't reply so she messaged like 5 times that night and the next day we talked again well and it was wonderful then she disappeared AGAIN and its been a week and I messaged her again asking how she's been doing and she never replied so now I'm hurt