I have a friend Jo that is gorgeous and I would like to call her my girlfriend but I can't. She is gay. Few people know she is gay. Because she is so beautiful, she gets asked all the time for dates. She hates to keep saying no because people might suspect she is gay and she does not want anyone to know. She asked me if she could tell guys that she is my steady girlfriend and wanting to help a friend, I said yes. A problem I did not think about was all of the girls at school heard about this and they will not go on dates with me because they think I am cheating on Jo. Some girls told Jo that I had asked them for a date and they turned me down. She felt really bad about the problem she had caused me. Even though she is gay, she wants to go on dates with me so we both can have some fun. I am very torn over what I should do. Would I be a nuts to even consider this arrangement. She said she might even start to like guys if things go good for us. Do you think that is possible?

I am 23 now when I was 15 I had a friend that I truly loved, she didn't love me as i did and she didn't respect me much maybe considered me less than her , at age 17 or 18 I realised that and messaged her about it but she never reply and so this friendship ended . My problem is ..l  dream of her like twice a year , it's really annoying me because l go to check her profile and see if she is alive or so . many years passed i have friends and people who care for me but i still dream of her ... Do you have any idea why does it happen ?

Context: I moved in with my cousin, aunt and uncle last year. I got much closer to my cousin and consider her one of my best friends even though she is three years younger than me. I am currently studying abroad on the other side of the world. It is the first major thing I have done in my life and I did it by myself. Unfortunately, my cousin isn't as excited by it as me and thinks I've left her behind, even though she is only 18 and chose not to go to college straightaway while I've been working three years for this opportunity. She's jealous of the friends I've made here and won't even let me talk about the fun stuff with her anymore. She's expecting me to come back and never do anything without her again. Is it bad that I want to separate myself from her a little bit so I can figure out what I want to do on my own?

In 2004 my neighbor lost his son in Iraq. He and my daughter had graduated the year before from high school. I knew him fairly well,good kid,very polite. It's weird but before he died my neighbor and I didn't talk much. After his son's death,the whole neighborhood tried to help him. We became friends. So thing is this: his mother passed away 2 weeks ago of leukemia. I'm a pretty good painter and I was thinking of painting. Since his son was a Marine and it's pretty known the whole thing that Marine guards the gates of heaven I was thinking about painting a picture similar to the one below. Inserting the old woman greeting his grandson and the kid saying something like " Grandma! I was wating for you". This idea came to my mind after I saw something similar has been made after Bush 41 passed away. What do you think?

Now, granted, I don't know her boyfriend, but I know I've dealt with his excuse that he gave her tons of times from other people that said they were too busy to talk to me. She essentially said "My boyfriend, well ex now, said he just wanted to be friends. I know he still loves me, but he just said he is too busy to talk to me." When I told her that he is most likely just making excuses since if he really liked her, he would have time to talk to her, since nobody is ever too busy to talk to literally not a single person at any given time, she just yelled at me saying how she regretted telling me since "I'm not understanding" and that "I know he loves me, some people are just too busy" Am I wrong for telling her that, or are some people just genuinely too busy to even date someone they love? and to not even try to make time? I just don't see how if anyone is genuinely attracted to someone, that they would not only break up a relationship, but also go "im just too busy! Sorry, let's just be friends". Wouldn't you pursue what you were attracted to?

Hi, I'm 19 years old and I don't have many friends. I'm really self conscious and shy. I feel like My friends get bored of me and I don't have any personality. I just want a really good best friend. I just want someone to talk to. 

people think im super annoying and call me a slut or whore.. how do i get people to see the real me?

I'm a 21 year old guy. Back in June, I started following this 18 year old girl on instagram. She followed me back. She was in my suggested. I started liking and commenting on her posts. After a few weeks, I asked her out. She lives in my city. We had never met in person. So she told me no. And so I just kept commenting, liking, etc. like it was no big deal. Just recently, I was at work and she bought something at my register so I said "hey, I'm Harold from Instagram" and she was kind of... weirded out. She didn't think it was as cool as I did. I want her to like me!! We have so much in common. Any ideas?? We both love surfing and food. I just wish she could see me how I see her. Do I write her a love letter? What can I do to get her out?

A friend of mine agreed to lend me some books this week but I have yet to get them. How do I ask for some sweet sweet literature without coming off as annoying or pushy? 

An old friend of mine threatened her ex boyfriend, she kicked me in the butt and chest really hard where it hurts, she threatened other people who I care about and the other people wasn't doing anything wrong, she talked sh*t about me behind my back mostly how she picked on me.  

My friend claims she always has a diarrhea poop on Monday, a no-wiper on Tuesday, a Ghost **** on Wednesday, pebbles on Thursday, a Floater on Friday, a Healthy Sausage on Saturday, and Sunday is dealer choice. That isn't possible is it? Like how could she even control her poops that well?

suppose you know a person during your younger years in college. Then after you are a working adult suppose in the 30s, this guy becomes a guy with a bad attitude and toxic friend. Do you have any friend like that? what do you do with him?

Now, granted, I don't know her boyfriend, but I know I've dealt with his excuse that he gave her tons of times. She essentially said "My boyfriend, well ex now, said he just wanted to be friends. I know he still loves me, but he just said he is too busy to talk to me." When I told her that he is most likely just making excuses since if he really liked her, he would have time to talk to her, since nobody is ever too busy to talk to literally not a single person at any given time, she just yelled at me saying how she regretted telling me since "I'm not understanding" and that "I know he loves me, some people are just too busy" Am I wrong for telling her that, or are some people just genuinely too busy to even date someone they love? and to not even try to make time? when i mean "his excuse that he gave her tons of times", i just mean from other people that gave me the "im too busy excuse"

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On Thursday night, halloween, my friends and I went out to a party. I usually measure my drinks and am very responsible with how much I consume, but on that night, I made the mistake of just going crazy. I got way too drunk. I remember the party, but I do not remember getting back to my friends dorm room. I remember bits and pieces, then the rest is puzzled together from what my friends told me about the night. I was in my friends room with her and I think a few other friends. I had the spins, was delirious. I threw up multiple times. I wasn't laying on my friends bed when there was a bang on the door was the boy she had been seeing, and the roommate of a boy who wanted to hookup with me. I vaguely remember the boy she was seeing saying something about taking me up to the friends room to hookup. I rambled no I'm sick, something like that. My friend told me that she then asked me if I was ok for her to leave with the guy- and apparently I said yes. I was then left alone with this boy that I did not know (roommate of the boy who wanted me) I continued to throw up in a garbage can, stumbling all over the place, disoriented. The next thing I remember is I'm on my friends bed and the boy is kissing me and has his hand in my pants. I remember it as an out of body experience, like I was standing across the room watching. I dont know if I reciprocated what he was doing. All I know is that I didn't say no, but I certainly did NOT verbally say yes. (Story continued in attached picture)

Can u share ? My best time was when i was 20 n i moved from California to Washington. It was just good times, i met some good friends, good job, all we did was party n have fun. It was the most free time of my life. I miss that time in my life. I made so many mistakes, i wish i could start over.

I stupidly fell for this guy who I got to know and was friendly with. I knew him for a couple of years and would always have a bit of banter with him but started really liking him. I never seen or heard of him being with a woman and was wondering why since hes so smart, good looking fit and plays music. Then I was shocked to hear he was in a relationship with a girl more than a decade younger than him and almost half my age. My self esteem is really low now and I feel so old and ugly. Help.

Hi, Ok so my friends have known eachother for a WHILE. like years years. Since she was young. So yeah I can't compete. But they lost touch and reconnected last year. I started talking since last year. I know they will always be closer but how do I get over this?

Earlier I accidentally read a text string between my roommate and her friend (I live in a college dorm). She left her laptop open and left the room, and I saw my name on screen in a string on a messaging app. She was saying some pretty mean things about me along with her friend from back home (who doesn't even know me) and it really hurt. I mean we were strangers going in since we got randomly selected to be roommates, and I wasn't expecting us to be best friends or anything, but now I'm not sure if she likes me or hates me, or even respects me at all. I'm not sure how to bring this up (or if I even should bring it up) because I really want to at least coexist peacefully and not cause a major conflict. And I don't want to get involved in the drama around this issue. It sucks too because it feels like she's getting really close to everyone on the floor except for me, and I don't know why she doesn't want to be friends or at least coexist with me. We hardly talk at all, unless there's someone else in the room. What do I do to bridge the gap??

Okay so recently I moved schools and it's completely messed me up. I haven't been able to make friends because I'm shy and anxious. Ever since I left I feel broken. I'm all alone and there's no one I can talk to to help me feel bettr. I just want someone to understand. This new school sucks *** and the choir here (my favorite class) has been ruined for me. There's nothing that I enjoy doing except spend hours on youtube . Nothing is motivating anymore. Instead I just cry for no reason. Lol.I know it's teenage hormones so don't give me that as a n anwser