We have known of each other from the past, we grew up in the same neighborhood. Once we reconnected, we started dating as we were both single. We have been dating now for 9 months and are now living together. We are together every day, If I need him for something he's there and if he needs me, I'm there. When we have sex it's good but not Great! I think both of us are shy and he has yet to make me nut, when we have sex, he nuts fairly quick (Could this be why?) the fact that he knows he hasn't made me nut?) We are very passionate about each other it just seems like sex isn't a priority in our relationship (well to him at least). How can I make him feel more comfortable with me and sex? It feels like we are both awkwardly waiting on each other to make a move. I love him I just want/need more sex. I am a Taurus woman in my early forties and he is 39 by the way! Do u think he enjoys being with me sexually? He says he loves me and shows it so why this AWKWARD feeling? FYI - We are very loyal to each other in every way and would love to keep it that way! Only serious responses no stupid comments please!!!

So mine and my boyfriend's anniversary is coming up and he's a huge computer nerd so I wanted to get him something for his computer but I want to say something cheesy about our relationship in "computer terms". hELP? And also, we alwayssss see movies together so I wanted one relating to this poster I'm getting him where we scratch off each movie we've seen together to reveal a little icon for each. So maybe any movie related sayings? Thanks

I don't know what is this **** to married persons always want to communicate with me secretly... give me advice plz

I am a 27 year old woman whose a med student from India, who is studying in the US. I am 6'5 250 pounds, There is this handsome guy blonde personal trainer at the university gym. He is 22 blond 6'1 200 pounds all muscle. I know that he's into casual sex and has hooked up with many women at the university. I signed up for personal training sessions with him so I could spend time with him and get physical. I came to the first personal training session in long dress and make up, to impress him. During the personal training session i felt his body, and make physical contact with him. He wasn't receptive so I decided to be more direct. After the session I went to the cafe, and sat right next to him. I started chatting with him and put my arm around his shoulder and my hand near his crotch and said. "You are a very handsome man I would love to have sex with you." He told me "it's not going to happen." I called him out for sleeping with other women at the gym, who were petite and white. He said that I am not his type. I said he was racist for not having sex with brown women. I also told him that hes a misogynist for not wanting to have sex with a taller woman. He refuses to admit that he is a bigot and says that im not his type. What I see as a preference is fragile masculinity for not having sex with a woman taller than him, and blatant racism.

After first date, guy invited me for second and third. Second date hasn't arrived and he is already texting heart emojis. I told him I don't want to do crazy sexual stuff for those dates, and he said "Ok don't worry about it. I know we need time for that."

There is only one answer to this question - that I know of. :D Only thoughtful answers please. Thank you. In today's world where it can dance circles around us if, we are not aware of this kind of negative Energy;  24/7. Wow!  Has it gotten that slow around here?  I'm an oldie but Goodie here although,  I have not been here very often in the last few years.  This saddens me,  as this was the very first place I came to, when I first sat down to use a computer.  I had no idea what I was even doing! We gotta do something about this!  In my day, this was 'The Place' to be!  :D

Recently my father in law passed away and My husbands ex-girlfriends daughter is included in the obituary as my husbands daughter and the deceased's granddaughter. My husband was never married to his ex, he never adopted the child, and the relationship isn't even that close. I am taking offense to this. I feel guilty about it because I know my husband is going through a difficult time, however I find this to be very weird. My husband as well as his aunts and uncles took part in writing this obituary and my husband says he doesn't see it as a big deal. I do because she is not his child and I feel like he takes other people's feelings into consideration before he thinks about how any of this will make me feel. My question is, is this harmless? Am I blowing things out of proportion?