Hi, I'm 22 and new here. I post because I'm getting married next month to my wonderful finance (23 years old). We are both virgins and we agreed to have our First Time sex on our wedding night. I'm excited, yet nervous whenever I think about it :-) Since adolescence, I've never been naked in front of anyone including my finance. So I can imagine the awkwardness I'll feel when the time comes. Is there any recommendations from experienced ones? Also, I believe I read enough about pain and blood; and how he has to go slow with lots of lubricant. But I believe there are more things we could do to prepare ourselves for the Deed. Please give examples of what we could talk about in our next discussion. We are virgins but we are not totally clueless (theoretically speaking). Is there something more we need to prepare apart from lubricants and positions? No rude answers please. And thanks in advance.