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- Question: Would it be rude to bring my friend over at my house when i have roommates?
- Question: How to do something nice for someone who already has everything?
- Question: Was is rude her to go clubbing with her friends just 5 days after the death of one of her loved ones.?
- Question: Why do you think he pick on her so much?
- Question: Why do I have no friends?
- Question: If a 13 year old ran away from home just to go stay with her friends but her parents didn't know, what consequences would she face?
- Question: I didn’t get invited to one of my “close friends” bday party?
- Question: How do you know if a person truly cares about you?
- Question: How to make friends without going to school?
- Question: Hi so I have a dilemma involving my old friend.?
- Question: How do you make friends and socialize online?
- Question: How to get over this guy and still remain friends?
- Question: When Bullying Turns Deadly: Can It Be Stopped?from an article, what do you think about bullying in school?
- Question: Was this really bitchy of her or am I overly sensitive?
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- Question: How can I try to make friends with this guy?
- Question: My best friend s voice really annoys me... I don t know how to tolerate it.?
- Question: Should I respond to this email?
- Question: I'm giving up hope on finding any friendship. Thoughts?
- Question: How do you feel about a person who just doesn't want to live anymore?
- Question: Does this mean hes interested?
- Question: I told my friend to embrace jimmy buffett and she stormed off?
- Question: Friend treating my friends and I cruelly?
- Question: I have some issues with a neighbor. HELP!?
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- Question: Do Narcissists make a lot of friends?
- Question: Helpppp read down below and please give suggestions?
- Question: How to be like my friend? Good grade?
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- Question: Ll:What does it mean if a guy add me on snap chat ? we brokeup two month back !?
- Question: Can't make friends?
- Question: My best friend hates me! help!?
- Question: My friend hurt my feelings by saying we weren’t “best-friends”...?
- Question: How to tell my roommate to quiet down.?
- Question: Poll:What does it mean if a guy add me on snap chat ? we brokeup two month back !?
- Question: I have friend but all the time is doing some thing, when that friend is kind plus this manner, what I am going to do you just tell, with it?
- Question: I think I’m being bullied, what should I do?
- Question: Is it necessary to delete pictures/videos of you and your ex off of your phone?
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Question: Would it be rude to bring my friend over at my house when i have roommates? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 05:49 PM PST i will be living in an apartment, idk who my roomates are.. but my friend needs to buy her plane ticket soon so i dont really have time to ask my future roommates... and she will be staying for about a week? but we will barely be in the house anyway or we will be in the room.. but idk if thats still rude? |
Question: How to do something nice for someone who already has everything? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 05:42 PM PST My roommate has helped me out a lot lately, helped me through a bunch of emotional issues etc. and just basically made me feel a lot better at a low point in my life. I would like to thank him for it somehow by doing/getting something nice for him, but I have no idea how. He is wealthy and already can get himself whatever he wants, whenever he wants it. He doesn't have any problems really either so I can't even try to help with something like that. It's hard thanking someone who already has an awesome life.... I've told him how much I appreciate it already but he just plays it off as no big deal. I feel kind of bad for benefiting from his kindness repeatedly and never having anything to offer him in return. What should I do? |
Posted: 29 Nov 2017 05:38 PM PST My second cousin was throwing a early birthday party for her daughter who was turning 1 years old two days after. Her grandmother died in her sleep 2 hours after the party started. She was crying alot and was surrounding by her family and friend. The birthday party was canceled. I attended her grandmother funeral the next day. She then went on the nightclub with her friends just 4 days after the funeral. Was it rude? |
Question: Why do you think he pick on her so much? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 05:29 PM PST I have this guy friend he is always coming up to me and my other friend to make fun of this other girl. He makes fun of her weight, her face and calls her names like fat pig or stuffed burrito trying to make us laugh. He picks on her constantly to her face and to us and im getting tired of hearing him bring her up, making fun of her |
Question: Why do I have no friends? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 05:28 PM PST Why won't anyone talk to me my dad often yells at me for being rude and mean I used to have friends but now they dont really talk to me anymore |
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Question: I didn’t get invited to one of my “close friends” bday party? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 04:38 PM PST I literally invited this friend to my bday dinner I had with my other two good friends last week. Her birthday is today, and all over Snapchat these friends she did invite are posting on their stories about her mini party thing. Idk I just feel kind of hurt at th fact that I valued her presence for my bday but she didn't even invite me to hers, and she told these other people in advance about her party but not me. I feel like I'm always the friend who cares more than the other and who doesn't have a "mutual" friendship with anyone. I feel like a complete loner and I am staring to hate myself because of the fact that I don't even have a best friend and apparently don't have any close friends. |
Question: How do you know if a person truly cares about you? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 04:36 PM PST I thought certain people I used to work with liked me but when I email them, they usually don't reply. Does that mean I never mattered to them even though it looked like it at the time? I moved to a new place a few years ago and I miss them. We were close. I only email them for the holidays or special occasions. Most of them cut ties with me after I moved away (my move had nothing to do with the job or them). I have a really hard time when it comes to "losing" people. Is this normal for an adult? |
Question: How to make friends without going to school? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 03:58 PM PST I go to online school and all the girls at my job go to the same school so they leave me out of everything but anyway what are some good ways to make friends? |
Question: Hi so I have a dilemma involving my old friend.? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 03:56 PM PST I stopped being friends with one of my closest friends in May of this year because of a dumb fight. I can t stop thinking about her and I want to be friends with her again and I know I can because I still have her contact number. But I m scared to text her an apology! What if she doesn t want to be friends again? What if she hates me? :( I don t know what to do. Please help! |
Question: How do you make friends and socialize online? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 03:31 PM PST I don't have friends locally as I've just moved back here from time away, also money is tight so social options are limited, that aside it's the middle of the night and it's cold out so no going out to try to socialize right now. So...other than talking to people via Facebook, how can you meet new people and socialize online? |
Question: How to get over this guy and still remain friends? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 03:26 PM PST For several months, this guy and I have kind have been in this dance. He asked me out first, I scared him off then said yes, it never happened. I came out to my parents, I asked him out, he said yes, it never happened. Recently he said he thinks of me only as a friend and that we would never work. We have to remain friends and see each other quite regularly after for the rest of the time we are in uni. We're part of a group of 14 people who are part of a club for Classical Majors (which studies the Ancient Greeks and Romans). This major is my secondary major and his primary one. Between the two of us, we have made every other person in the major aware of the drama as well as two teachers in the major. They don't really care, but I thought I ought to mention this. Given the group is so small and given that after next semester there will only be four of us in the group including myself and him, it is imperative that I get over him and that we remain good friends. This is the first time I have ever even thought about being in a relationship. I told myself for years that it was something I'd never even consider. This being the closest I ever got, I got overly invested. I allowed myself to want him more than I ever wanted anything. This group is the first place I've ever had real friends besides a single one I had in High School for a year before I moved (I attended nearly 20 schools including a community college one high school paid for before graduating High School). As a side not, in case anyone suggests it, I will mention I have decided to return to my policy of never entering a relationship. I will not look for someone else so that route is closed. |
Posted: 29 Nov 2017 02:13 PM PST Should bullying be stopped or not and why ? How did the article make you feel and in 4 paragragrphs |
Question: Was this really bitchy of her or am I overly sensitive? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 02:05 PM PST I recently had a break up and have been talking to my best female friend about it. she always says I don't open up to her enough so I was trying. Only as I told one story about how the final break up happened here's what went down. Ok first of all I am a student and really struggling financially but my end goal is to get my Masters . My (now ex ) gf did indeed OFFER to help my with some tuition and my mortgage a few times. Well I went a trip this summer and I was telling my friend my GF could not come with as she had her kids staring school and she didn't have the money ..and my friend kind of laughed. I asked her..what's so funny? she said " Oh I was just gonna make a bad joke..I was gonna say I know WHY she doesn't have any money LOL ..but just kidding!" (as in ..she's broke cuz of ME. ) Honestly I may be over sensitive, but I felt here I was sharing something rather personal with my friend like she always WANTS me to, and she kinda took a jab at me! What would you feel? |
Posted: 29 Nov 2017 01:38 PM PST Salve a tutti, sono una ragazza e ho 14 anni. Non sono mai stata una ragazza estroversa anzi molto timida soprattutto nei confronti dei ragazzi per paura di essere giudicata o presa in giro. Però per fortuna ho tante amiche e sono felice. Premetto che non sono depressa o cose così. Il mio problema è che sono SEMPRE invisibile, in tutti i contesti. Nessuno mi prende in giro ma neanche mi calcola. È come se non esistessi. Alle mie amiche scrivono i ragazzi, gli fanno un sacco di complimenti, escono insieme con dei ragazzi e a me no, non mi considera nessuno. Non credo di essere tanto brutta cioè non sono una modella ma neanche una schifezza, sono bassa ma sono proporzionata. Non capisco il perché, vorrei solo che qualcuno mi considerasse di più e mi facesse sentire importante così magari anche i mi aprirei di più verso gli altri. A scuola meglio, mi considerano di più mentre nello sport (nuoto agonistico) nulla, e nemmeno in altri contesti [parlo sempre dei ragazzi]. Sinceramente non so cosa fare perché ci sto male perché vedo sempre le mie amiche che mi fanno vedere le chat dove le riempiono di complimenti, e a me nessuno. In più e come se io dessi un sacco di attenzioni e facessi sentire importanti le persone ma poi a me chi mi fa sentire importante? Nessuno. Ormai ci sono abituata ma vorrei che le cose cambiassero almeno un pochino. Vorrei che qualcuno capisse che ci sono anche io e che non faccio proprio schifo e non sono da buttare. Consigli? Grazie in anticipo |
Question: How can I try to make friends with this guy? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 01:33 PM PST Yes, this is pathetic but keep in mind I'm Autistic and recently moved so have no friends here. There's a guy who works at a local store I go into often and he seems very friendly - he seems friendly to everyone in fairness so maybe he's just being friendly to customers, but he does seem genuine in wanting to know more about people - I'd like to see if I could encourage this to turn into a friendship, as he's one of the few people around right now who seems like a possible opportunity for friendship. I don't know much about him other than that he's friendly, he works/manages this store, and we're into similar music. FYI I'm a woman so I want to be friendly without him assuming I'm interested. |
Question: My best friend s voice really annoys me... I don t know how to tolerate it.? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 01:18 PM PST So the past 3 summers, my friend and I would meet up (we live in different countries) and we would travel together for about a month. In the beginning, I am really happy to see her, but I noticed that I start getting irritated by her quickly. I didn t understand what it was, but I think it is because of her voice. I often get irritated by an annoying voice, especially when someone drones on and on. I know that I can t do anything to change her voice, but what can I do to not be as irritated when we talk? She recently called after 3 months of not speaking on the phone (we talked over Facebook messenger only) and her voice instantly irritated me despite me being happy to talk to her. I am actually a fairly calm person, but something about annoying voices/sounds really gets to me. What can I do so that I don t end up ruining my friendship over something so silly? |
Question: Should I respond to this email? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 01:12 PM PST Its not an old friend and its marked as spam. I so far gotten 3 of these emails. Btw im 13 soo yeah... should I respond orrrr |
Question: I'm giving up hope on finding any friendship. Thoughts? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 12:44 PM PST I'm 21 for starters. I dont mean to sound full of it, but i know im a good person, i care deeply for anyone in my life and would do anything for the people i love. I only really have one childhood friend who we speak on occasion as life is busy. She is great. Any other friend of mine has treated me like dirt. Talk garbage behind my back, exclude me, became friends with someone who accused me of lying about being raped (it did happen and my friends knew this), became friends with my abusive ex boyfriend and even told me everything was my fault. Just the most hurtful things you could think of, my old friends have done it all. on top of that my ex made up lies about me to create awful opinions of me, to make my situation feel even better *sarcasm*. Im very alone, but its better than what i had before. I want to have friendship and share fun times with other people, but it just never seems to happen and when it does im used to being treated so bad. as a child i was always the kid who was left out and didnt fit in with anyone, it brings up hard memories and makes me wonder if something is wrong with me? Is there any hope? do i just have terrible luck? lol thanks for reading anyway, this was a bit longer than i meant it to be I have been treated by friends in these ways since i was as young as 14 years old. Its deep routed into my head now that this is just how its always going to be but that cant be true |
Question: How do you feel about a person who just doesn't want to live anymore? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 12:32 PM PST I'm not talking about someone who was just hurt and wants to off themselves for spite/because of that one situation, but the people who really just don't want to live. How do you feel about those people? I'm struggling with one, and idk how to feel about him. |
Question: Does this mean hes interested? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 12:09 PM PST My crush thought I was smiling at him at his direction (i wasn t, i was just really happy with my friends). Then he smiled back at me. Does this mean i have a chance |
Question: I told my friend to embrace jimmy buffett and she stormed off? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 11:46 AM PST ever since i figured out that jimmy buffett did covers of christmas songs ive been tormenting my friend daily by playing jimmy buffett and telling her to embrace it. at the time of asking, its the third day and she stormed off when i tried to tell her to embrace him. |
Question: Friend treating my friends and I cruelly? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 11:13 AM PST This boy, let's call him bob, used to be my boyfriend. Since then, we've been friends like we were before, but upon entering junior year, he changed. He's egotistical, mean and demands respect and such though he really doesn't deserve any. He never strives to improve his work or himself, and he's been picking fights/verbally bullying my friend. I always try to defend him a little because I've protected him from bullies for years and we were besties. So, knowing he got depressed around xmas, I sent him an invite to a friend party for xmas, but said that I didnt want either of them there if they were going to fight. My friend said she wouldnt, but bob rejected. Then later told my good friend that I was being a ***** and snooty for saying that. This whole time I've been defending him and trying to be nice, but I don't think I should consider him a friend. I normally wouldn't forgive someone being mean to my friends, but at this point he's only causing pain. What do I do? Also, I handmade him a scarf that I put a lot of work in, should I be the bigger person and give it to him though he doesn't know about it or should I just keep it? |
Question: I have some issues with a neighbor. HELP!? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 11:10 AM PST Okay, so first off, my neighbor was a dic. Now she is trying to be nice and asking me if she needs to call health and welfare for me. So I said no, and she keeps bothering me! On Facebook she posted that my mom was leaving her 8 year old sun home alone all night! I am not freaking 8! I am freaking 15! What an @$$ hole! What do I do? SOS |
Posted: 29 Nov 2017 10:35 AM PST (im 15) I just moved to a new school this year and I feel like I'll never have any friends. I sit with two girls that are nice and all, but not really my type. I talk with the rest and there are those two other girls that I really love but I feel like they're so close and I'm gonna be a third wheel like I always was in my old school. I feel like whenever I get close to someone they'll get bored of me, or more certainly feel like I'm so clingy. I didn't even have friends in my old school, they were all fake. Help? |
Question: Do Narcissists make a lot of friends? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 10:08 AM PST How well are friendships with Narcissists with people that are not Narcissists and how well do they with other Narcissists?. |
Question: Helpppp read down below and please give suggestions? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 10:04 AM PST Ok so I m 13 years old and me and my friend (14 yrs old) have been having a sleepover streak for about 2 weeks now at hrr house snd whenever we aren t aloud a sleepover I panic and cry I dont know what to do this hasn t happened to me before it s like I have an issue with being separated from her but it needs to end soon bcoz i can t stay with her forever!! Its not like I have a problem eith my family likr i love them all I just always get bored at home |
Question: How to be like my friend? Good grade? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 09:08 AM PST Im failing all of my classes and my friend has ALL As and only one B and she keeps calling it bad. She tries her best to help me but I dont unserstand anything! Im a failure but she said she believes in me. Help! What do I do? |
Posted: 29 Nov 2017 07:12 AM PST My best friend and I have been friends for over 12 years and I ve always had her back through everything she s been through, but recently something happened in my bf relationship and I was with him more than I was with her for a couple months and it put a strain on our friendship and I ve said my apologies and everything and tried to see her as much as I could and she said I wasn t spending much time with her, so she ended up leaving as a friend and a week later she said she was sorry. Things seemed fine but last week I was suppose to help tutor her in math for an hour and I was with my bf that morning because he had to handle things at our college and he doesn t have a car so I was his ride and my best friend knew I was taking him. Things got a little caught up and i was suppose to meet her at 4 at my house and I was 20 minutes late and she flipped out and isn t my friend again. What can I do to fix this, should I say sorry or should I just see if she comes back. It sucks cause I miss her and I don t want 12 years to go down the drain but I feel like she s being overdramatic |
Question: Ll:What does it mean if a guy add me on snap chat ? we brokeup two month back !? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 06:44 AM PST |
Posted: 29 Nov 2017 06:41 AM PST In my last school i was failry social. meaning if theres a discussion nearby i wont hesitate to join or just start talking to someone i dont really hang out with. But I can't do the same in my new school. I barely talk to anyone (sometimes i really want to join in or whatever but cant seem to do it) I only talk to people who talk to me first which did happen a lot in the beginning but not so much now. I mean i kinda get why, me having social anxiety or being shy just looks like im not interested to them. Im so damn pethetic that i began to study hard (im getting straight A's) just so people woukd have a reason to talk to me (im rumoured to be the "smart" one) idk if it might be because i have low confidence cause apparently i can never be the one who start a convo (because ill look needy?) it always has to be the other one. And now because i've had this quiet/loner vibe i feel like it would be really embarrassing if i just suddenly try to be social. I just want to be like i was before, social but at the same time a loner, nor im just a loner. (keep in mind im not being bullied and in my class it is very easy to befriend anyone its just that i cant seem to take that step) |
Question: My best friend hates me! help!? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 06:00 AM PST about me: F, 14, 9th g about "hannah": same sex, age, and grade, easily manipulated, doesn't know how to stand up for herself so this girl and i (let call her hannah) have been best friends for as long as i can remember. she would come over to my house every single day after school and sleepover every friday night. we were inseparable. we had the tightest friendship humanly possible and no one could break us a part... at least i thought no one could. The weekend before halloween our friend from a friend group were in was throwing a sleepover and i had dance that night and said i would go after. the night rolled around and there was a big miscommunication of when i was coming (hannah was already there) and hannah textedbme that it's getting really late and girls are starting to fall asleep so i told her i won't go because i'm still going to be at dance for another hour at least. big deal. i didn't go to a sleepover. i was spammed with text messages from the girls at the party asking where i am and i said i couldn't go because it was still at dance. the host started talking bad about me with a few other girls and hannah didn't say anything. the host asked hannah if i've ever said anything about her and hannah told her i've called her bitchy once. the next day this huge fight broke out with my friend group. they haven't talked to me in one month and hannah and i have tried fixing things but don't know how to. i miss her so much an at the moment i have no friends. what do i do? |
Question: My friend hurt my feelings by saying we weren’t “best-friends”...? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 05:55 AM PST I have a friend that I do everything with. We've traveled all over the U.S. together, we always hang out and talk and laugh, and I consider him to be my best-friend... Well we are at a function, and some girl asked us if we were best friends: we both responded with yes and no at the same time. I didn't think it would bother me so much that my best-friend said I wasn't their best-friend, but it does. I'm really hurt and I can't stop thinking about him saying, "no". How am I supposed to feel about this? How do I just get over it... |
Question: How to tell my roommate to quiet down.? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 04:18 AM PST Okay, so I am in an awkward situation. I live with my aunt that sometimes lives her and sometimes doesn't. She is renting out two rooms to me and another lady. When my aunt isn't at her daughters house taking care of her (daughter is very ill) she lives with us. My roommate will keep her door close and use the common areas very seldomly. When my aunt is at her daughters house my roommate is a completely different person. She lives her door constantly open and talks very loud on the phone. She is always in the common areas and it makes it hard and difficult for me to even use the kitchen or any other common area for that matter. I usually go straight to my room. This lady is not at all related to my family but she acts as if she owns the house. I spoke to her about quiting down but it went left. My aunt said she wants to kick her out but hasn't. When I first moved up here my aunt had no electricity on or gas for the stove and the lady was still living here. Shes rude and makes up lies to my aunt about what I do in my room and sometimes repeats my private conversations. This lady is 55 years old by the way, I am 27 and I feel older. Can someone help me! |
Question: Poll:What does it mean if a guy add me on snap chat ? we brokeup two month back !? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 03:55 AM PST |
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Question: I think I’m being bullied, what should I do? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 01:26 AM PST These two girls keep saying things about me behind my back and making up rumours. I don't know whether it's bullying or not, but every single day I hear a new rumour about myself and everyone seems to believe them no matter how ridiculous they are. I have people coming up to me in lesson and at break time and lunchtime asking if these rumours are true, and it's making me not want to go into school. It's also putting a massive strain on my family. The school has an anti bullying policy but I've told the school and they don't do anything about it, they just tell me to 'ignore them'. What do I do, because I've been trying to ignore them for the past few months now and I'm not strong enough to do it anymore. Any help please? |
Question: Is it necessary to delete pictures/videos of you and your ex off of your phone? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 12:36 AM PST |
Question: Have you ever been rejected by a childhood friend? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 11:25 PM PST I was watching a movie about friendships (Koe no katachi) and it reminded me about this one time in middle school when I was in the 8th grade, and it was the first year of my last year in middle school, and I happened to spot my "best friend" from the crowd of new students, a friend who I've known ever since we were in diapers, (we hadn't seen each other for 2 years, and since he is 2 years younger than me, it was his first day of middle school). After finally pushing through the crowds and tapping his shoulder, I greeted him with the biggest smile I ever made and I asked him if he remembered me. Well, he basically stared at me for what felt like 2 silent minutes and then he goes: "Hello...and Good bye," before turning his back on me and disappearing into the crowds (it was after school so there were kids everywhere). I was pretty stunned, heck, my mouth was still half-open because I was about to tell him how much I missed him and how it's been so long (2 years!) and how I've matured since then and how I wanted to catch up on old times and how it was so cool that he was finally at my school etc etc. But I could never tell him any of those things. He simply walked away and never spoke at me again. and to this day, I often find myself pondering and asking myself questions that I'll never know the answer to. To give you a run-down, my parents and his parents were like family, so naturally, 4 year old me and 2 year old him were also the best of friends. (TBC) From there, he and I did everything together. We played video games, shared our favorite TV shows, traveled together, played together, slept together, took bubble baths together, ate together, went to school together, heck we were like conjoined twins or something! (until I was 10 and he was 8) For me, my image of him never changed. He was my best friend in the whole world until that moment when he walked away from me. Even if we hadn't seen each other in 2 years, he was still my best friend. But apparently he didn't feel the same way. I noticed (when I was 9 1/2 and he was already 8) that his attitude towards me changed a bit. He played with me less and talked to me less. Every time I came to visit, he would play with his other friends more and I was "just there". During that time, I tended to overreact when someone teased me, and one of his friends loved to tease me for no reason (I guess to get reactions out of me) so I felt like maybe that created a rift between my "best friend" and me? Even though he never was the one to do the teasing. He just laughed in the background and maybe tagged along, but I would never target him for it. To me, he was still my best friend. After that, I would try to talk to him during elementary school (i was in 5th grade, he was in 3rd), but he would give me small talk and then avoid me. Even then, I still thought things were ok. His number changed when I was 11 (just turned) so I asked his mom for his number. He started to ignore my calls (I was too oblivious and innocent to notice). Then on several occasions, his mom would come over to my house without him because he apparently "didn't want to come". Then when he did come over, he'd slouch on his new cell phone (he was 9 then) and never even speak to me. That's when I began to notice that something was off. Was I annoying him? Did he not like me? I was never mean to him or pushy. I would always say "hey, red head!" affectionately because that was his nickname as a kid (his hair is red). I never teased or forced anything on him. He simply stopped talking to me and saw me as like a nuisance to him or something. In my genuine honesty, I really can't explain why I put him off as a friend. I just can't. I still ponder it to this day. Anyway, 2 years later, I approach him for the first time and treat him like the best old friend he ever was to me, and he simply stares, says "Hello.. and good bye." and walks away. After that, we never spoke again. The year went by and he'd hang out with his new friends while I'd spot him in the hallways or somewhere and maybe our eyes meet for a couple of seconds but then that's it. After that year, I graduated into high school and to this day (9 years later) I've never seen him again. Yet that one heartbreaking memory always haunts me. Has this ever happened (or something similar) to anyone? |
Question: What would you do if they accepted your request? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 11:24 PM PST What would you do if a famous person you like accepted your friend request on facebook? |
Question: My friend seems to be acting distant towards me, should I leave her be or ask her why? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 10:57 PM PST Like she hasn't ditche'd me, she just seems a lot less interested in talking to me. I know that something in her life is making her sad, but I'm just really confused. |
Question: Is moving in with a Friend for your first apartment normal? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 10:35 PM PST I love my bestfriend, we've known each other since grade school and we barely ever fight. My cousin who recently got her own apartment with her boyfriend said that moving in with other girl was " Gay". I don't want to send the wrong message to the rest of my family by moving in with another girl. Is living with friends before romantic partners normal? |
Posted: 28 Nov 2017 10:01 PM PST I do not know what to do. If I literally tell her what to study she'd get a perfect grade. And I studied so hard and I feel it's a bit unfair to tell her what to study for. |
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Question: How to get my mom to shut the hell up? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 09:41 PM PST She's Asian (as expected) and she is an overall nice mom, but it's like whenever I'm being a good person (I'm 17 now btw) and acting the way I should (because I'm a young adult), she throws an excuse and says (in Vietnamese), "Do good in school" or "Don't do drugs" or "Don't get C or you will be homeless" or "Sleep at 10:30 every school night". She lectures me on the same **** and I do every one of those things and obey her. She does not know how to keep her mouth shut. It's getting to the point where I talk back and I actually told her to "stop" once and she started crying. She said "okay, I know. I want the best for you". I said, "I know all the stuff you're telling me. You're just telling me the same dumb **** over and over again because you want an excuse to throw something negative at me because you're bored and have nothing better to do". She said it again today. She went in my room to give me weekly allowance and I was filling out my graduation stuff for high school and said, "Try your best in school to get into a good college". After that, I just told her to get out. Why does she do this? Why is my mom the only one who does this? It's so goddamn annoying. If I had a dollar for every time she says the same **** over and over and over again, I'd be mofo rich. Any advice? |
Question: I am lonely but I'm pushing people away.? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 09:22 PM PST I am feeling extremely lonely but 3 times in the past 2 months an individually has contacted me to see how I am and talk but i have just flat out ignored them. The first being my old college adviser, the second being my brother and the third a friend's mom who has always liked me. The funny thing is I know I shouldn't ignore them and when I do it I instantly feel a rush of anger, sadness and regret. Why am I doing this? I am a 23 year old male. |
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Question: What’s so bad about simply rejecting a girl because of superficial reasons? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 09:01 PM PST I've only done it once and my friends especially my female ones think it's kind of f*cked up, why? I've honestly been rejected a couple of times by girls and it's typical. I just say "oh well, that's okay" and because I know girls have their preference. This female friend of mine sometimes rejects guys in the most straightforward way, and it's all good. I'm a guy who simply rejected a girl because I don't find her at all appealing she is quite fat and clingy, she's nice but I would never see her that way. So now she's now kind of upset, since a mutual friend told me. Do I honestly HAVE to feel bad because there some BS stigma is behind this. Sorry, I'm really wondering. |
Question: Important please help? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 08:21 PM PST What's the best way to give out a hard copy note but they can't read it until a certain time but I don't know if I can trust them not To open it until then Ok fine it's for a suicide note k just help me out I could die way better if u helped me and no I can't give it to them wen I die |
Question: What should I do in this situation? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:57 PM PST So back in April my grandpa who I am very close to was diagnosed with cancer. He passed away 5 weeks later. It was very hard on me due to it's suddenness and the fact that I was in school at the time. One of my friends wasn't very nice about it at all, she pretty much told me to suck it up and quit making him my whole world. I am still grieving his loss. Well, her grandma is now in the hospital and I kind of want to rub it in her face and say see how it feels? But I know that isn't nice. I also don't totally want to tell her sorry because that isn't how I'm feeling. I don't know what to do. |
Question: How should I compliment this girl? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:44 PM PST I'm interested in this girl. I want to give her a compliment that tells her I'm interested. Maybe tell her she's "very cute" of "adorable" or something. Any ideas? I don't think she's the type of girl to like to be called "hot". She's cute. How do I say it? We're 20 years old to give you a background. I have lots of competition. Lots of guys ant her and I want to stand out big time. |
Question: Cheated on a test:(( I regret it! HELP!!? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:43 PM PST So i usually cheat on some test when i know im going to fail. I do this by using a test from a person who was in that same class last year since the test is the same. It was so last minute and i didnt even read the questions my friend showed me, just the answers. I wrote them all down and when it came to MY test i just wrote the answers because i didnt understand anything, Today my friend had that teachr, i have her tomorrow. He told me she said " Im mad someone copied from last years test, they drew a circle instead of a parabola for the answer, this is dissapointing." I know its m, i dont know what to do, I can deny it and say it was a coincidence that everthying m\acthed with the old test or how do i lie. Help me i am in so many clubs. This will ruin everything im so done :( 3 I REGRET IT |
Question: Why did she seem uncomfortable? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:41 PM PST I haven't seen a friend of mine ( girl, we are not particularly close for a while)... and when I saw her I noticed that she had a ring, and I ask her when her bf proposed...how did he do it? did he surprise you? ... and she seemed uncomfortable about the questions.... were my questions personal? |
Question: What's this chick's deal? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:39 PM PST I'll keep it short and sweet. Girl at my high school, natural loner, does drugs, valedictorian, ivy league-er but doesn't hang out with the wannabe ivy league squad, default facial expression is angry, default greeting is 'what do you want' or some sarcastic/smart comment, drives a bmw suv to school but wears walmart outfits with torn sneakers and a backpack one pull away from becoming a rug, never attends birthdays/parties/teenage hangouts, plays a lot of mind games with people, never dates although several guys have asked, sleeps in class a lot but she gets striaght A's. Slept through finals last school year, nearly everyone failed, she passed and when asked, just said oh and shrugged her shoulders.....and that's all I know about her. What's her deal? Can someone help me figure it out? Just curious |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:14 PM PST I mean, she is not my best friend, but she just doesn't seem to like me, she doesn't seem to really care about me much. I can literally get pretty much anyone else (that I can talk to) to like me, except this person. Why the **** is she just so difficult to be close to? (she has other close friends so its not like shes antisocial) I TRY MY BEST BUT SHE JUST KEEPS PUTTING ME DOWN |
Question: Am I letting life pass me by ? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:11 PM PST My co workers and friends call me grandma because every time they want to go out and want me to come with them, I tell them no. I am not a social person and I can care less for going out to eat, to movies, to the club, etc. I rather stay at home and watch tv and spend time with my niece and nephews. My friend says I'm not living my life and will regret it when I'm older (I'm 25). Do you think she is right ? |
Question: What is this "friend" thing people keep talking about? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 07:08 PM PST |
Question: How can i convince a middle school to accept me? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 06:59 PM PST i want to change schools as i have not that many friends at my current one. i've tried before but got rejected to this particular school due to behavioral issues. that was last year. how can i convince them to let me in? my behavior isn't that bad, i have a 3.1 gpa. the bad things i did included throwing poppers i got from my friend on the floor, chewing gum, disrespecting staff, and not snitching out a kid who had a vape. thanks! |
Question: What can I do about a negative friend? Posted: 28 Nov 2017 06:04 PM PST My friend is so mean he used to love bringing me down and laughing about it. He would compare me to other girls telling me I'm not beautiful as them. For some reason he liked hanging with me more than his girl and guy friends. Well I haven't seen him in a long time till today he tried to speak to me and I ignored him but he followed me around until I said something to him. I don't wanna be his friends because he hurt my feelings in the past and I can't get over it. |
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