Reposting because someone just had to be racist. My best and I have been close since freshman year of HS, were sophomores in college. Our freshman year I was friends with a guy that people thought was weird because he wasn't like anyone st the school, he was depressed. I always wanted my friend group to let him sit with us at lunch but they never did so I ended up switching tables to sit with him. He got expelled because of something stupid my boyfriend at the time did. We've kept in touch and he recently reached out to me. We've been talking a lot and we wanted to get lunch with our favorite teacher, I invited my best friend cuz we all had the same teacher but she remembers him as the "weird kid." How do I get her to understand he's not the same person? It's been five years for crying out loud.

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Ok so I have a friend who I always smoke out. He s smoked me out in the past, and I dont mind helping the dude since he can t have anything at his place or he ll be in trouble. But he recently asked if he could borrow my glass pipe to go on a date with a girl. I said yes to that, but NOW he s asking if I ll buy a 20 sac and let him and her smoke it. And he literally just got a very large paycheck that he told me about. I don t want to loose a friend but how should I deal with this?

I used to have a really close friend for 5 years, but we stopped talking almost 1 year ago. We had a very big fight which was my fault, and she asked me to never speak to her again. She even deleted my Facebook, but I've noticed that she hasn't changed her Facebook profile picture in almost a year since we had our fight. She used to change her picture all the time, someone told me it probably had to do with the fight we had. What does a fight have to doo with a picture?!?!????

After I've known someone for too long, I start to get bored or find some fault in them, and then I stop being friends with them and find new friends.

Okay so, there's this boy I've liked for 6 months and on instagram he changed his profile picture to text saying "it's all in your head" what does this mean? I have a feeling it's aimed at me because I'm very low on self confidence and how I look and I'm always putting myself down and saying that I look bad and he's always telling me I don't. What do you think? Is it aimed at me? Or is there no meaning behind it? Thanks xxx

Don't get me wrong, I love my friends, but sometimes they can really piss me off; usually when making plans to do something. Here's some reasons why: - I'm always the one that has to ask if they want to hang out, which gets really annoying after a while - They usually say "I don't know" or "maybe", and then eventually cancel - We can never agree on anything to do They also are always contradicting themselves, which is extremely annoying. For example, they always say how they want to meet people from other schools, which I wouldn't mind doing. However, every time I ask them if they want to go to another area and go to a cafe or to a mall in that area to meet people, they always say no. I don't get it; you say you want to meet people, but if you aren't willing to go outside to a different area to a restaurant or a place, then how are you going to?? I just need to know how to make some actual good and fun plans with friends without it being a complete pain in the ***.

Me and my friend were on the varsity football team together, but now that football season is over, my friend is trying to pressure me into playing basketball, which I personally am not interested in playing (l don't hate basketball, its just not my sport). I'm really only a football and weightlifting kind of person.. I feel like he will stop being friends with me if I say no. Advice?

My ex and I had been broke dup for 2 months. We fought and argued and broke up a lot of issues had been going on and I admit I wasn't as understanding as I needed and was fighting a lot with him. After 2 months I went to church he's a deacon, he constantly stared at me for 2 sundays in a row. I texted him. that he was on my mind, he read it and didn't respond right away and i said sorry shouldn't have texted then I said so were the feelings only real for me? cont..on updates He then text "i honestly don't know what to say you really offended me and the things you said about my parents unbelieve able. I then said you're stil on the past and he said of course I can't forgive that or allow that. Since he said that I didn't reply back. But 10 min later he texted again my mom has the purest heart that ever existed and for you to say those nasty things about her. I said i didn't want to discuss the past. He said that's fine but i should know why this won't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't reply anything back. FYI he was just as mean, he said my mom dressed like she came to a club at church and I said back his mom looked like she came from the stable and that he didn't buy her any new clothes. After this I have gone to church and he kept staring and looking and I wouldn't look at him. He was then gone for 2 weeks and came back and now glancesfrom afar but when I approach the altar (where he stands) hedoesntlook

If a woman tells you her age without you asking, does she like you ? I met a lady that is interested in English literature like me. When I showed her story I read she said it was great and beautiful etc. Afterwards she wanted to show me something on her phone and shuffled up close next to me and leaned into my personal space. When I leaned into hers she didn't pull away.  As we were chatting about her life, education background, homeless people/dogs - just general stuff, she said I am.. and was about to say her age. She then said "did I tell you my age?... I am 37".  I didn't ask her age, she told me. Plus she's invited me to her gig next week

My best and I have been close since freshman year of HS, were sophomores in college. Our freshman year I was friends with a guy that people thought was weird because he wasn't like anyone st the school, he was depressed. I always wanted my friend group to let him sit with us at lunch but they never did so I ended up switching tables to sit with him. He got expelled because of something stupid my boyfriend at the time did. We've kept in touch and he recently reached out to me. We've been talking a lot and we wanted to get lunch with our favorite teacher, I invited my best friend cuz we all had the same teacher but she remembers him as the "weird kid." How do I get her to understand he's not the same person? It's been five years for crying out loud.

I have a stalker who lives in the UK and she's been at it for two years now. I avoid her but I always check her profile to make sure she's not in my country or state.

I was just sitting in my Room and one of my friends smoked so much that the room got filled with smoke. I told him not to smoke and he started arguing an telling me to leave the room(my room) and started blowing smoke on my face. I gave him a few too harsh come backs and he got angry(While acting cool). I wanted to punch his teeth out while my other friends told me not to argue with this idiot and keep quiet. Then after a while he left my room with other friends and he said he'll do it again. Now, I am sitting in my room feeling like a coward for not hitting him. Is my feeling correct? I am thinking of beating the c**p out him so that he learns some respect, Should I? (Im 22 btw and feeling kinda awkward while posting this online).

Brush and cut them off ,or confront them till they back off

a few months ago im a cancer he's a virgo im 23 and my 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year dumped me while we were out "celebrating" at a bar and as soon as we got there he started talking sh*t he started saying my lips where chapped so i grabbed my lip gloss and i re glossed my lips and he said it wasnt good enough then he saw i was pissed and started talking about how he's glad i finally got a nice weave and why didnt i get an expensive nice weave before now and my hair lately was looking dry & old then i said "if you loved me at all you wouldnt be say this" and he said thats the problem i cant fall in love with you you think time equals love you and your parents both thing i need to be proposing and fallin in love because were at the one year mark and im not even close to that and started saying i let myself go i wasnt on his education level anyways after that a weeks later he hits me up apolozing like crazy saying he was only drunk that night and didnt mean those things and needed me back we get back together and he realized that i made videos about our breakup on my youtube then some how his family finds it too and he starts judging me saying i could never be around his family anymore " i embarrased him" and i was really close to his family anyways then he starts pressuring me for unprotected sex and since i never let him hit raw he started saying our sex life was "boring" then i tell him "if you dont bring me around your family no more no raw sex" then one day after hangin out with his cousins WITHOUT INVITING ME TO Hang out with them as well & ignoring me the whole night he texts me the next morning saying "our relationship ran its course im not compiatble with a relationship right now and im gonna spend my time to recharge and find myself with my family its better for me to be single and it'll be better for you too i'll drop your sh*t off in your mailbox" and this was 2 weeks before thanksgiving WAS IT IS FAMILY OR LACK OF RAW SEX?

I'm a sophomore and most of my friends are seniors. My friend(male) invited me, 2 other senior boys and my sophomore friend(girl) to hang out and my mom won't let me. They are good people and we have hung out before(not at a house) or with more people. Is this fair?

She was my friend since first grade. We started having friendship problems because our friends didn't like each other. 3 of her friends hate me and 2 of mine hate her. And we always got through it but yesterday night we were fighting in text and she said she wanted alone time but I didn't give it to her and then I went into a group I was in with her and a mutual friend and I told the mutual friend that my best friend does not want to be my friend anymore and then my friend freaked out and asked why I was doing This spreading our business and said they had a panic attack about how I won't give her alone time and spreading her business and then they stopped answering for like 10 mins and then I get a text from her number saying "This is (my friend"'s sister. If she does not wish to be friends with you any longer, you need to respect that and leave her alone." And then I said ok bye and my number was blocked so a few mins later I told her on Snapchat I'm sorry for everything and then she removed me on it and we haven't talked since 8 last night and I'm so sad pls help

I was telling my crush that its my birthday next week and she told me happy birthday; I hope you enjoy this day Does that mean she likes me or is she just polite?

Hi everyone. I need your advice and oppinions about my best friend. She is a negative person in general but sometimes its too much for me. She says rude things sometimes, but I try to take it as a joke and laugh with her. I rarely say anything about it like its enough or something because I dont want to over-react. But its getting annoyinger. She has a job and I dont have a job. I want one but its hard to find where I live. Especially for studentd. So when I'm sending some random things on snapchat se says things like 'wtf you have too much time'. I ignored it but she says it also in school sometimes. Things like go find work you dont do anything in your life and all those things. It hurts me because its not my fault I never got a invate for a job interview. Funny thing is when I don't snap for a day she says the next day at school if I'm mad at her, what I'm not. Its not only about me having 'too much time' but also things like she is complaining too much about other people and she's very negative and close minded to other people or spaces. Because I only hang hang with her (since I dont have many friends) im starting to complain too about many bullcrap things like she does. Even with the smallest things like when I say to her 'I have printed nice selfies with you and me for your b'day' she says: well I hope they're not ugly and don't look only to yourself on the pictures if youre pretty on them and I'm not. Like wow..? What can I do? I dont want an argue

- [ ] To start, I'm 17 years old and in my last year of high school. I wanna make a group if friends or merge into one before my senior year is over. I have like 3 friends I'm kind of close with, they have a group of friends I want to join but they're also very different than me in a lot of ways. They tell me they always consider inviting me to things but they never do. Part of me wants to take charge and just ask them all to go out with me and I can plan it but I'm super shy and I don't know if there's a point since they aren't that interested in me. I'm trying to find clubs outside of school but it seems kind of silly and dangerous to me. And at my job most of the women I work with are older lol. I'm really struggling here if anyone has tips or advice I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much!!

The other day my friend asked me to see a movie with him I told him to bring this one other friend whos become increasingly rude to me over the past few months but hes really funny to be with so when we went there he was really mean to me and kept on going y on earth would we bring him to my other friend even though I was the one who wanted to bring him ffs I asked him y he was being so annoying and rude and he said I was being a dick to him and he was just trying to be a good friend and get along he then said y do i have more friends than u if im a dick he constantly bitches about me despite me doing nothing wrong I also play piano and every time I learn a new song he saids he heard me play it 100 times and that I have no talent I acc used to rlly like him and am on the verge of not talking to him at all anymore wat should I do

I really don't know should I ignore her and not consider her a friend? Because I did ask her her bbm in snapchat 2days ago and she saw the msg but didn't reply and today in the morning I asked her her bbm but in another app she didn't open my msg but she texted my classmates in the class chatroom should I just ignore her is she a friend?

She was my friend since first grade. We started having friendship problems because our friends didn't like each other. 3 of her friends hate me and 2 of mine hate her. And we always got through it but yesterday night we were fighting in text and she said she wanted alone time but I didn't give it to her and then I went into a group I was in with her and a mutual friend and I told the mutual friend that my best friend does not want to be my friend anymore and then my friend freaked out and asked why I was doing This spreading our business and said they had a panic attack about how I won't give her alone time and spreading her business and then they stopped answering for like 10 mins and then I get a text from her number saying "This is (my friend"'s sister. If she does not wish to be friends with you any longer, you need to respect that and leave her alone." And then I said ok bye and my number was blocked so a few mins later I told her on Snapchat I'm sorry for everything and then she removed me on it and we haven't talked since 8 last night and I'm so sad pls help

Hi, i have a friend who is one year younger than me (hes 13 almost 14) and i think he has a disability im not really sure. Here are some reasons that are making me question his sanity. 1. He burnt down my neighbors hunting tent. my friend and i were just walking outside when we noticed a hunting tent a little bit further down in the woods. he thinks it was strange and spooky so he precedes to tell me hes going to burn it down. turns out it was my neighbors tent. our neighbor wanted us BOTH to pay for the burnt tent! i had nothing to do with this! yet i still had to pay 75$. our neighbor wanted us to pay him $150 (75 each) and my friend didnt pay for like 3 months even though i knew he had the money. WTF then he tells everyone i burnt the tent. this made me not want to be his friend but then I **** YOU NOT, he came to my house opligized then took a big crap off my balcony! IM NOT EVEN JOKING. he pulled his pants down and crapped off my balcony. at this point i think that hes just retarded. HE ALSO HAS A GUN ! ILLEGALLY AND SHOOTS IT IN OUR DEVELOPMENT! HES HE REALLY STUPID OR DOES HE HAVE A DISABILITY??? https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20171125213204AAhSjYS PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT IF HE HAS A DISABILITY !

I told my bestfriend I was going to come pick her up at 10 to go get a passport I guesss she over slept I called her 10 times and she didn't answer I told her she needs to find someone else to take her to go get the passport because I refuse to try to do it again not even at another time am I being petty?

Mi ha invitata un amico che conosco del festeggiato. Non conosco nessuno e sono un po in ansia su come comportarmi, cosa fare, come vestirmi, come ballare. Vi prego rispondetemi sono una bella ragazza ma un po in sovrappeso e sono abbastanza timida.

So I started uni this yeah and I became really good pals with this girl called Alex! We immediately clicked and became best friends but as I got to know her I realised that all she does is gossip about people and she finds a reason to dislike everyone. When we go to parties and go out she always gets so drunk she doesn't know what she's going and she is really embarrassing to be around. Every night she goes home with a different guy and I just think it's degrading. She gets really loud and messy when she's drinking and I hate to be with her. I've tried asking her to maybe drink a bit less and not be so drunk but she's like we're on uni that's what everyone does. The problem is she's always a good friend to me and she considers me her best friend! She always comes to my appartment and stays for hours chatting and gossiping but I don't know what to do? People have told me she's the biggest gossiper and she talks about everyone. I don't know should I be friends with someone who acts like that? I'm a nice person and I hate talking about people. She's slowing turning everyone against her and people now associate me with her I don't know what to do cause I'm her only real friend? Please help what should I do ?

Okay so, there's this boy let's call him tom and I don't have feelings for tom but he says he likes me and wants to start talking and anyway he was texting me on snapchat and I wasn't showing my face I was just sending a blank screen and he was like "why don't you show you're face" and I was like "because I look bad" and he was like "no you don't, you're beautiful" so I was telling my crush/best friend let's call him louie that the other day and Louie knows I like him and anyway, yesterday me and Louie was sat on a bench yesterday just the two of us at school, and I said to him "I look so bad" because I actually did my hair was all frizzy and my makeup didn't go well. and he says "you don't but ok" and then he says "why don't you listen to what tom said" What is Louie trying to say? Thanks xxx

What are some possible reasons? He is definitely not gay!

y ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a while, I woke up and began to reject her sexual advances. Things started whe she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups. At the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me', she couldn't seem to let me go and was devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she going to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

So most kids are always like "OMG I hate school so much" but like I actually do and my school sucks so much. First of all, I'm new. I already hate my school. I had a friend but she turned out to be an asshole. I'm in 8th grade and I have another friend that seems nice but I don't hang out with her at lunch or break. I think I'm going to start to, and we already know each other pretty well. She and I talk about how much we hate all the fake people at school and how they suck. We have common interests. HOWEVER! My dad doesn't like his job at all and he wants to move this summer already. So I'm not looking for some lifelong best friend and I HATE SAYING GOODBYE TO PEOPLE!! I don't like having to keep on talking to them afterwards either and I like to have a clean slate at all costs. Also.. I honestly could give zero f*cks about school itself. As long as I have a B- and up my parents are fine. But honestly I don't care about people judging me and it's just my life. Speaking of life I'm also depressed and sad all the time. Bottom line is that as first world as I sound, my life (to my narrow vision self) is **** at the moment. I know kids are starving in Asia and woman in Saudi Arabia can't even drive but I am not the happiest with my life currently. Any advice?

The first thing she told me was, "Don't mention my boyfriend to my parents." She kept telling me that almost everyday, however, I don't know her parents. She also kept telling me (in front of our friends too) that if I ever bring a guy back to the room (guy friends included) and have sex in her bed, she'll request a new roommate. I have my own bed, so I don't know why she kept telling me that. She asked me if her boyfriend could stay in our dorm for 4 days and I agreed, but then I thought, "if I can't have guys over, neither can she." So I told her that, and she got mad at me because her boyfriend already bought a plane ticket (she never told me that).We had a rule that if either one of us wants something from the other person, and "that something" is on their side of the room, we would ask for it. I had my food in a bin under my bed and she would eat my snacks while I was gone, and wouldn't tell me anything. When I talked her about it, she said that it was a misunderstanding and she wouldn't speak to me afterwards. Whenever she came back from taking a shower, she'd ask me to step out so that she can change. However, when I asked her the same thing, she would get an attitude and walk in the room, even when I wasn't done changing. We lived in an all girls hall, and she felt uncomfortable because some girls wore shorts that showed their buttcheeks, or didn't wear a bra under their shirt. Anyway, she moved out and made me look bad, but I think she was the bad roommate.

I barely go to concerts and I am going to one and I just want to have a good time and avoid issues what is the best course of action? *Serious answers*

He and his girlfriend got into a bad argument and he tells me he wants to kill himself. He doesn't say it in a serious way but he acts incredibly disrespectful to me when he says it. I told him I was gonna walk away after he said some really disrespectful things to me, especially about the work I do with handicapped children. He told me, "so you want me to kill myself then? ******* *****." I told him, "No, but if you do im not gonna blame myself. It's gonna be your choice and your own damn fault, not mine." He does this all the time. He used to take his anger out on me but one time he took it too far by pushing me, so I punched him and he no longer even cones close to putting his hands on me. But I feel bad. I think he's mentally ill.

(KIND OF LONG BUT IF YOU READ BELOW IT'LL MAKE MUCH MORE SENSE) How we started talking is kind of complicated to explain, but i'll try to explain as best as I can. Just before fall began, my best friend (let's call her "Ally") went on a cruise and made a group of friends, and continued talking to some of them via text and face time after she came back. She introduced me to a few, but this one boy she was talking to, let's call him "Jared", was close to her and Ally wanted me to start texting him. After telling Jared about me, he wanted to text me too, so Ally gave him my number and we started talking. We haven't talked that much, but I already have a little bit of a crush on him, and after he has slightly been flirting with me and telling Ally that he thinks i'm cute and pretty, I think he has one on me too. And guess what: WE ARE MEETING IN A WEEK. Ally's older sister is having a sweet 16 and me, Ally (of course), and Jared were all invited and all can go, which I'm happy yet nervous about. You may be wondering why, and that is because of how I'm gonna introduce myself to Jared. I've seen many people online meet their internet boyfriends, girlfriends, and best friends, but I have no idea how i'm going to introduce myself without it being awkward. Our friendship is already awkward enough; So what do I do? Do i shake his hand? Do I wave? Do I hug him? Do I say hi and that's it? HELP PLEASE!

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a while, I woke up and began to reject her sexual advances. Things started whe she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups. At the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me', she couldn't seem to let me go and was devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she going to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

Dad, I hate it, I'm visually impaired , People hate me I want to kill myself I hate me life i hate school you try it and you'll see how it sucks i just feel like a freaking wast of space, I only have like 4 friends and Brady has like 70 or so, people say yes i can hang out ill come over, then they go somewhere eles and say my dad said i could not hang out, People talk de hind my back, People are not really my friend. I hate my life I am 14, visually impaired and i just want to go away for a while, No one understands how hard my life is, it is so hard to just do simple tesks. You try it

Hello, I am a sophomore in highschool with literally three friends, one is my girlfriend, the other 2 are my only friends. All my closest friends moved away, one moved to Papua New Guinea (I'm not joking/exaggerating) I live in USA. one moved to another city + school, the other just goes to another school. I'm not allowed to have any social media, and have no contact w/my friends. I only have 8 kids in my class, and three are my only friends, the other kids are snobby rude, and prideful. I get very sad sometimes, and I use a school email to email my three friends in my class, but the ones who moved away, are forever out of contact, I try emailing them, but the one from papua new guinea literally loses signal like crazy, the other who moved to another city doesn't even see the emails (i get a notification when someone views them), and the other one, I can't talk to no communication is even possible. I am so sad. anything I can do?

so in my video editing class and other classes there is a ton of people who i want to be friends with but theres a catch im too shy to walk up to them so then would it be safe to say i should just forget about becoming friends with the people i want to should i also blame myself for being the reason i cant make or become friends with the people i want since im preventing myself from walking up to them and introducing myself to them

I don't get it. I can't think of a good gift to save my life! For anybody! Unless they tell me what to buy them, I'm crap with coming up with good gift ideas. Maybe because I'm not a people person? I don't know how to fix this. Can you?

Hello my name is Steve, and i had a bestfriend for 5 years and She meant the world to me and she was a true friend. But we had a falling out in April of this year, We had a fight that was unfortunately my fault, and she told me she never wanted to talk to me ever again. But I spent 4 days straight trying to contact her because I felt really bad. I tried texting her everyday and I even sent her 2 long letters to her house to apologiz, I admit I was suffocating her. Eventually a cop came to my house telling me to leave her alone because she's had enough. We haven't talked in 8 months and I still miss her alot, would there ever be any chance of getting her back??????? Any advice please!! I wanted to send her a message for her birthday tomorrow :(

So i went to school with this guy for 2 years and in the middle of last year, he left to go to another school for a sports scholarship (an all boys city school.) We weren't friends what so ever. We never interacted or talked or anything like that, just glances here and there. At the beginning of this year he messaged me on instagram saying hey and all that and we flirted, not heaps but very subtly. This would happen a few times but it wouldn't be an actual conversation. This was around february to april. Fast forward to november, he adds me on snapchat after constantly adding me and removing me which i didn't understand. Maybe 2 weeks ago, on a sunday he said messaged me as you do and one thing led to another and we started sexting which then lead him to asking me to have sex with him after asking me if i was serious (because of the sexting) and if i would seriously let him do things to me.. sexually. I said yes because i've always found him really attractive and i'm not really a relationship type of girl. I was planning on hooking up with him on saturday.. next saturday but just a minute ago, i found out he has a girlfriend. (we just finished high school) soo... if he has a girlfriend, why would he want to have sex with me? and why would he want to even though we have never interacted in person? i'm so confused and baffled as to why he would want to do that to his "girlfriend" .... help?

I recently left my job but I had a great friend there. While I worked there we hung out all the time we even went on vacation together once. But after I left we haven't really talked as much anymore we text maybe twice a month now and he asked me why we don't hang out any more and I don't know why. I would consider him to be my best friend it's just different now. So should I continue to try hold on to this friendship or should I just let it go?