My new boyfriend's ex wife still lives in his family's home after a year of divorce. She has borderline personality disorder and feeds off of manipulation and chaos. The worst part is she is still living with and influencing her children who dislike her. She is always yelling at them and blows everything out of proportion. Long story short, she is toxic and needs to leave, but why would she? She's still got a grip on the people in the home and has power influence with powerfully negative iron grip energy. She keeps saying she'll leave after she gets back on her feet, finds a job, etc. but just will not. I am tired of it because it is useless to argue with her. Her family is just as toxic and evil-hearted. Luckily I have only encountered her once, and it was jot pleasant. I need her to leave so very badly. I'm afraid a simple banishing spell won't be powerful enough for her black soul and the negative curtain of energy present in the home as long she is there. It is not fair for my wonderful boyfriend and his beautiful children that she still infects the home with her chaos. Ever since she knew I existed and have been dating her ex-husband and knows his kids like me, she has become even more sinister and reactive. I feel this may be a catalyst for the energy I need in a way. Something I can do to make her want to leave immediately? Some sort of sigil I can use to make her feel uncomfortable in the home? What can I do to nudge her out?

My wife is 4 1/2 months pregnant she feels depressed and miserable. She feels like she's been pregnant forever. She cries almost everyday. She even cries herself to sleep. At first she was really happy. How can I help her feel better ?

I have literally been crying hysterically for almost 2 weeks now. I cry so much that my eyes feel like they will bulge out of their sockets and I will go blind. My face has been swollen non stop an I look like a total crazy mess. Hell I feel insane. I have never fell for someone so hard and loved someone so much. We have been seeing each other for about 2 months and then he said " I am sorry but there is a huge age difference between us, I cant do this anymore." I tried to explain to him that I didnt care but he cared. I am so hurt more than I have ever been in my life, this pain is unreal. I cant understand and dont understand why he would do this to me and leave me just because I am 21. Someone please please help and give me some advice on what to do. I have waited 21 years to love someone like this and now i am torn to shreds.

My fiancé and I have know one another for 2 years. We got engaged 9 months ago. He moved into my place 7 months ago. Whenever he gets angry or upset with me he ignores me for the day! Sometimes for two or three days. He stays in our room, makes food or goes to the bathroom. Otherwise he stays in our room. I guess I don't help matters by avoiding going into my room because I don't want it to make him more angry! I believe that couples need to be a team and equally work together and talk through things vs giving the other the cold shoulder. What do I do?

Recently, a close family friend's mother has passed. She was the kind of person to always keep her documents filed and organized. When asked about the location of her will, her husband says he was unable to find it. He even went on to say that their lawyer said because the document was "so old" it was okay to just toss out. This makes no sense to any of us and we would like answers. He has since shut everyone out and been on a shopping spree or two. We know the mother would have wanted certain things to go to certain people but without the will, that is obviously not possible. Does anyone know if there's anything we can do about this? Any ideas? We live in Texas if that helps at all.

She came home last Thursday very late and so upset. She broke down weeping and said she had not been to her sisters but had seen a guy from her work. I am devestated because when I became angry she said she was badly bruised all over and he had hurt her. Then fury took over but with such mis placed blame? What do I do she let him have her but he went wild, I won't describe what he did it is too raw. I am so mixed up, sad and mad at my wife furious and dangerously revengeful against him. What do I do and how come this sht comes my way

My sister says I am acting stupid and I am Daddy now. . I know this is a weird concern and question I have. I have been dating my fiance Elizabeth for close to a year. She has Emma who is soon going to be eight. Emma never had a Father in her life and I am adopting her I still have my apartment but I am over with Liz and Emma a great deal of time. Emma has lots of energy and a month back she got a spanking but I was not present. Today while watching football in the living room. Emma misbehaved which resulted in her getting a spanking. Elizabeth sat down in the recliner chair and put Emma across her lap and undressed her by lifting her dress up to her waist...so our daughter's underpants were fully showing. The spanking itself did not upset me cause Elizabeth for a few minutes spanked Emma lightly instead of putting her back into it. What I found awkward is Emma was given a spanking in front of Daddy while undressed. I told my sister about Emma being spanked in the room with me and that she was undressed. She thinks that I am acting stupid and found it cute that Emma white panty was showing in front of her new Daddy. She added that it sounds like Elizabeth knows how to make the spanking better felt by lifting the dress up fully. Am I being stupid and not acting like a Father??

My husband s best friend was our Best Man (BM) in our wedding a year ago & he s had a girlfriend for about that long. My husband is deployed & I went back to see friends including the BM, BM s gf was working all weekend. We all went out at our old bar hangout where BM says, "Well what are we going to do about my gf being over an hour way and your boy being countries away, tonight?" I thought surely he was just joking & not to read much into it, he s always been kinda college guy humor. We were all Ubering home & it seemed as if BM was trying to make it back to the house where the I & another gf & her fiance live instead of his own place. My friends fiance even brought it up once he was dropped off saying that he thought he was sure trying to get back to the house with us. The next day we were all supposed to meet for lunch but my friend and fiance were recovering from hangovers. I call when I m on the road and he says just come over to his place & he d make breakfast. I didn t want to suggest otherwise in fear of making it awkward. So we had breakfast, played with his GF s dog, and just talked. His gf called & he took the call so I think/thought the whole afternoon was harmless. Later I text thanks for breakfast not sure if I said so. He responds, "you re welcome. Love getting to see you." Am I reading too much into little things like his jokes & word usage such as "love"? What are appropriate boundaries? Husband knows of my visit & is completely fine with it.

I don't even know where he found them! I thought I threw them away! What do I do!? My son is 15.

care about me. Feel like I have "hung in there" all of this time for nothing. Time to take care of myself?

I gave birth to my first kid when I was 29. My husband was also 29.

warm smelly ones, then try having sex next morning and it still has a lingering odor. I do know that my buddies wives don't fart as much. this is why women better shape up.

She is very busy ,she qorks 12 hours mon thur sat ,but she seems to make time for everyone else. I have to text her or i wouldnt hear from her . I have to call her or i wouldnt hear from her either . She has my parents over but never me and my husband . We used to be close when we were younger but have seem to drift apart . Ive tried all im going to try. She has asthma and always uses that to get my parents to do stuff for her and if they dont she gets mad and sends them to her therapist snd they dont see it . They yell at me when i complain about her so im kind of done with it ? Should i be ?

Most of you are just cows assuming male models would be with you.

My husband is an only child and his mother drives me insane. He is not a mamas boy by any means. He has always been very independent. Since the beginning of our relationship she has been annoying and over dramatic. Before we got married I had a decent relationship with her while he always had drama with her...but now that we are married she blames me for everything especially the fact that he has a life of his own and his own responsibilities. He barely has time for himself after work and I am so sick of her constantly guilt tripping him. She constantly has "emotional break downs" when he is too busy to be at her beck and call and I think it is completely ridiculous. I haven't said anything to her about because I feel that it should be up to him to handle his Mom but now that she is starting to blame me I am having a hard time keeping quiet. She has 0 respect for her son and does not treat him like an adult and she has 0 respect for me as his wife. If it were up to me I would cut her out of our life completely because she is toxic but obviously that's the wrong approach... What should I do? Literally dreading the holidays this year because of her.

People like to throw around statements like "you should be sure you want to be with that person before you exchange vows" or "if you're not happy with your spouse, then you shouldn't have exchanged your vows with them", ignoring that anyone can change 3, 5, 10 years (or anytime) down the road and become a completely different person than who you married. Life changes, things change, people change. How do you feel about this?

So pretty much we are in our mid 20s and the holidays are coming up. Every year his parents want us to come see them or they come down to visit for the entire week during Christmas and New Years. I get upset because whenever they come, my husband wants to spend every day and the whole day with them (usually 6-7days). This year he wants to spend the new years night with them. I m upset because holidays are special for me too and I want to spend it alone with him especially since we are married and will one day be making our own traditions. I dont know if that is wrong or what to do about this... I already talked with him too. He is set on spending New Years Eve with them and wants me there too. He doesn't listen to me and frankly says he doesn't care. It's extremely frustrating and I'm thinking about getting a divorce. He doesn't seem to ever want to listen to my thoughts and feelings..

My fiancé has a lot of debt and children from their previous marriage whom they are financially responsible for. Their ex is still alive and well and employed and sees the kids too. My fiancé wants to combine finances with me when we get married. I do not want to do this until their debts are paid off front he past and they can prove they are capable of making good choices with money and saving some. I have a lot of money saved and a good jobs nd no debt and no kids. Why do they want me to combine finances so bad?

My husband and I have been together for 4 years and we have 2 babies, a newborn and a 2 year old. Since I got pregnant with my newborn we've had arguments and theyve slowly escalated. Now we argue about everything! The discipline, potty training, snacks, tv time, and our relationship is non existent or so it feels... I've tired to get him to let somebody babysit so we can have some us time but he always says no... yesterday we exploded again and I'm getting to the point where I'm bored and over it... any suggestions? I thought things had gotten worse because of my pregnancy but they're not getting any better...

And I am to blame I am just not in the mood but learned early on to keep his tanks always empty, but it's a daily mechanical repetition We used to do all sorts of fun stuff, not any more. He's 58 I am 51

I'm a mom who works full time and makes good money. My husband stays home and looks after the house and kids, at least he's supposed to. He hardly ever cooks or cleans and plays video games and watches porn/masturbates all day. I'm getting really fed up. A friend at work told me she had the same problem with her husband until she got him a PA piercing and locked him in a steel male chastity device that used the piercing to prevent pulling out. She has him on a weekly release schedule that's contingent on how well he's taken care of things around the house. She says he now does an excellent job and has zero complaints whatsoever with the added bonus of a romantic husband and oral every night. I'm seriously considering this, what do you think?

like going after bad guys who use use them and abuse them. like teens getting pregnant when they go for as s hole guys, when the nice guys would never do that to them, even at the prom. like sleeping around with all manner of guys, causing the spread of everything from syphilis to herpes. and then when they have sex for the first time, suddenly they go nympho and slutty. why are women like that? like they wont sleep with the first guy they so call love, but then the second guy comes around and the next thing u know, the panties are flying out the window before the first guy's heart is even completely broken. why are women so cruel?

I've had several married women through liaisons off the Internet. I've noticed that they nearly all go into some form of denial afterwards. One even moaned 'I'm not here I'm not here doing this' as we made love. I think it's their secret mechanism to not getting caught. Certainly the ones I had never did their husbands had no clue

I love my bf dearly. My problem is his sister, they dont have a relationship with me and don t try to make one, but yet they are close with his Ex and seem the need to tell her everything that go on within the family, even to the point to invite or tell her about family functions!! I never had a problem with his sisters but yet they wanna speak to me when they want and don t even try to make conversation to where you can feel the awarkness in the room. What would you do or how would you feel?????

My fiancé works as a chef and he's been hanging out with all his co workers. They all have a little group in the city everyone who Is in culinary, cooking, pastry etc.. I feel So left out. I'm a finance major and I feel he's changing and most ppl who are into Chef stuff dates ppl In that area of interest.

I(stay at home mom) and my ex-husband divorced last year.I initiated because I think we dont have nothing in common now.we have 3 daughters,all are older than 12,thats why court did not go for sole custody,provided joint custody,i am ok with this.My ex-husband is a good father,specially girls prefer their father more now,because i went for divorce first,they are somewhere still angry,but also loves me.From last six months i am seeing someone as my soulmate,we love each other a lot.But i get to know he want to move out with me,not with my kids,because honestly speaking my kids are older and my soulmate has nothing to do with kids because he does not have any,he frankly told me.My kids also hate him for no reason.I really wish to move out with him,A lot of woman now leave their kids to their ex-husband.and more over my ex-husband is really a very good father.And for joint custody it is not possible for me to keep them just by myself.so will it so be selfish if i move out with him and leave my kids to my ex-husband?I will keep in touch with them

Okay, a little background information is that I dated my husband 5 months before we got married. In his family and my family it's kind of a tradition to get married early and have a lot of kids. (He's 23 and I'm 21) Our family said they would support us financially if we chose to get married soon like they did because we actually wanted to wait. I love my husband a lot but he doesn't satisfy me when it comes to certain things. I've been seeing this guy lately and my husband is starting to become extremely suspicious. The guy left his boxers in the bathroom and my husband found them and confronted me about it saying they're not his because he'd never wear anything like that and he insists that I did cheat on him with one of his friends (which I did) but eventually he let it go. Ever since that he has been super nosy and protective. He asks me what I'm doing every time I'm checking my phone or on the phone with someone, he eyeballs every man that looks at me and he demands I tell him everywhere I go. It's ridiculous and I need him to stop acting like this.