My wife and I are Newlyweds we're saving our money to get our own place so for right now I'm staying at a room I am renting in her and the son and daughter are staying at their mother's house because there's not enough room for me there we're only a month away from getting our own aparts but tonight my stepson got his turtle that he wanted she was so tired she wanted to drop me off at the place I'm staying and go home and help Brandon set up his tank with his turtle I should have been the man step up and say I'll help Brandon set it up and you just rest since you're tired but then she would have felt obligated to bring me back to the room I'm staying at because she has a car and I don't should I still have been the man to initiate helping Brandon while she rests I feel like sometimes she's not letting me be the man because before she married me she was divorced for 10 years and a single mother for that time

My sister says I am acting stupid and I am Daddy now. . I know this is a weird concern and question I have. I have been dating my fiance Elizabeth for close to a year. She has Emma who is soon going to be eight. Emma never had a Father in her life and I am adopting her I still have my apartment but I am over with Liz and Emma a great deal of time. Emma has lots of energy and a month back she got a spanking but I was not present. Today while watching football in the living room. Emma misbehaved which resulted in her getting a spanking. Elizabeth sat down in the recliner chair and put Emma across her lap and undressed her by lifting her dress up to her waist...so our daughter's underpants were fully showing. The spanking itself did not upset me cause Elizabeth for a few minutes spanked Emma lightly instead of putting her back into it. What I found awkward is Emma was given a spanking in front of Daddy while undressed. I told my sister about Emma being spanked in the room with me and that she was undressed. She thinks that I am acting stupid and found it cute that Emma white panty was showing in front of her new Daddy. She added that it sounds like Elizabeth knows how to make the spanking better felt by lifting the dress up fully. Am I being stupid and not acting like a Father??

I like her cousin. Sure she was wrong to not just have an affair but leave her husband but I don't see why we should shun her. It has been 2 years since she did it.

I am in my late 20s. My boyfriend is fantastic and the relationship is great. We are very compatible, always respectful towards one another, and completely in love. We have been together for almost a year. There is just one problem - he was married and has a daughter from that marriage. He is recently divorced and has full custody of his nine-year-old daughter. We want to get married and have a family of our own, but it is a constant internal struggle for me knowing that he was previously married and has a child. Mom is not in the picture very much, she sees her daughter just once a month, but I find myself very insecure and jealous of his ex-wife and the attention that he gives his daughter. I so badly want this relationship to be successful, but I find that I am hurting every day. All that I can think about is that he has experienced everything already. He will never see me walk down the aisle, or put his hand on my pregnant belly for the first time like he did with his ex-wife. Everything is perfect besides this, what do I do?

my husband tends to bully me into complience. for example, if I am upset about the way something went and I want him to know so he is aware of what makes me happy and unhappy, he turns the table and makes me look like the bad guy for complaining. I always end up appologizing to him just to make my life a little easier. I am always sorry if I speak up, but sometimes I just have to even though I know in my mind how it will turn out.

He lies telling his ex wife he is at work when he is really spending time with me on his day off when she calls about things regarding their child. She knows about his relationship with me so I dont see the point of lying. He will lie and say he's at work or at the store, etc if she calls to discuss matters involving their child or pic up, drop off times, etc when he's really spending time with me in my bed usually. Why does he lie? I asked him and he got upset and said he thought he was going into work when he arranged things so thats what he told her at the time and he didnt want to change his story.

I ve been married 18 years and feel like I revolve around my husband. I m not clingy and feel I m fairly independent. When he leaves for business trips, I get a sense a dread that I will be alone for that time but once he leaves I feel so good. As if I ve found myself. (I also sleep sooooo much better because I m a light sleeper.) Back to the point, I tell myself to maintain this mindset when he returns and I can t seem to do it. He s returning today and should be home soon and already my mind is being cluttered by thoughts; "He should be arriving soon", "his plane landed, he should be calling soon", "I wonder if he will get here in time for our son s soccer game." It s a constant distraction and I hate it! Any advise?

now a lot of older divorced man marry so younger woman than them,but very few divorced woman go for so younger man than them.Even older divorced man remarry so fast and more in number than older divorced woman.older divorced man also have baby after remarriage,but older divorced woman very few have baby after remarriage.possible reason?

I have a child from my previous marriage that lives with me full time. Id like my gf to move in but she wont do it unless we are married because she says she wants commitment from me. She says she also doesnt want to live with someone who has a kid without being married to them because she says it looks bad.Is she being manipulative or is this fair?

I am a divorced woman and having 3 kids.I want to remarry.my other divorced and remarried friends suggesting me to marry someone who is on my age or older than me and have kids from first marriage.Not to marry someone who has no kids from previous relation and also not to marry so much younger man than me.Any possible reason should i listen to them?

i recently met a lot of divorced woman.but their reviews on divorce quite different by age.Young divorced woman are in maximum so happy on their decision and want to remarry,They appreciate divorce was their right decision.but in case of old divorce woman,they are more likely to stay single than remarry,they also have regret on their decision in many cases,but young ones are not regretful on their decision.Do marriage duration and kids has any effect on feeling after divorce for woman?

My husband is in the service and he makes good money I don't depend on him completely but if I want something that would but a financial strain on me is it wrong to ask him? and is it wrong to except that he sends me a certain amount of money per month to make sure I'm good our whole marriage is long distance we don't live together and we can only email

Is my husband right? Okay so I have 7 and 8 year old boys, the latter is from a previous relationship. He goes to his dads house 3 weekends a month and my youngest son stays here with his father and I. My youngest and his dad usually go to town when I'm working to run errands or whatever. The problem is whenever he takes my youngest to town he always seems to buy him a little toy or something to that effect, so when my 8 year old comes back home from his dads my youngest is always eager to to show him whatever toy he got while my oldest was away. This really hurts my sons feelings and is causing him to feel resentful toward his little brother! I've tried speaking to my husband about this and telling him if he gets one child something he should get the other one too but he doesn't agree with me. He says that my oldest is with his dad when this happens and that he has toys there. In my opinion my husband shouldn't be buying toys all the time unless it's a special occasion, and if he feels the need to buy something he should get something for both boys..whether ones with him or not. It's truly causing problems!

the posters are actually in our den, what do you think?

I've been in dv relationship for a year and a half. The man I got back with decided to put a ring on my finger so I won't leave him. I've called domestic violence hotlines more than three times this year. This has caused our daughter to get taken away because they saw my partner is more focused on me than the baby. There will be a time and place where I need to get to a safe place so my mental health can be helped. I haven't seen my family since I gave birth and they are out of reach. Everyone sees my partner as a great person but doesn't see my emotional and mental scars. I want to save as much money. Now I have received my bank card I can manage my money safely without forcible confiscation by my partner. We have been in counselling for six months and everything is getting worse. Services don't want me coming over often but they don't understand what's going on. I have no family to go to or even friends because my partner drove them away. Where can I go to get away from him? I need to leave soon

why? Because he will throw it in your face each time you have a little tiff , and then this little tiff turns into an all out war. So, a little reminder to the husbands out there--YOUR WIFES PAST is none of your business. agree or not? yes or no?

My husband majored in History because he had no guidance and didn t think whatever he chose would matter much. Now, he s been stuck working in different fields, mostly sales or marketing related and he s very unhappy. He wants to try and see if he can break into the coding/computer industry, but how would he begin to do that? Would he have to go back to get a 2nd bachelors? A masters?

I am a virgin and in my heart like tall men. My husband has been selected for me but he is short. Will he still be a 'real' man if you know what I ask?

My wife was being recorded by her friends. They said "ok introduce yourself", then I snuck up behind her, jiggled her belly and said "hi my name is chunky". To make things worse her friend uploaded the video on Facebook. My wife seems down about it

Well we are both Christian i'm 24 he's 27 we have been dating for a year now and i brought up the question about his plans regarding marriage and children starting a family ? I want to marry him i want to start a family with him i love him i really do he said He loves me to and is willing to marry me on a condition that is We date for 3 years and if i can be good loyal faithful girlfriend to him for 3 years what he would consider wife material then he will propose and i can accept or reject based on his own performance too as my boyfriend depending on whether i still think hes husband material 3 years from now so when i'm 27 and he is 30 he actually wanted to do a 5 year delay but i managed to haggle him down to 3 because my time to get married have children is limited by my biological clock and i would like to get married and start having our first kid by before i am 30 if i can help it we are going by good old fashion standard christian bible rules going Mary Joseph here no living together and no sex until we are married I'm a virgin he is too i really don't blame him for wanting to test our relationship like this i think its reasonable considering how high the divorce rates are and infidelity rates are these days my friends think i should move on to another guy and say it sound like he doesn't trust me and that i could potentially waste 3 years with him but i'm willing to take the bet ? what do you think is that reasonable would you take this bet ?

My wife and I were walking home when we seen a bunch of kids jumping on the roof we told them to get off but they were rude and then their mother yells at us when my wife tells her that we were trying to keep them from breaking their necks she got in her face and it ended up to a fight then her poor excuse of a man comes along and punches my wife in the face and I told him to back off then he punched on me and ran off the sheriff came along we told them what happened but they left they didn't really help us any at all so the law is out of the question so what would you do if your wife was hit by a man?

You might say i'm probably not ready to get married and you are probably right I'm only 24 but hear me out ? I don't see the point in having to be the one to take the financial and emotional psychological risk and responsibility to get the exact same thing or less than what all the previous partners of my current partner got for free ? It sound like a rip off or scam to me ? people are so promiscuous these days and sleep around a lot before marriage or have many previous relationships and moved in with many exes sexual partners prior to getting married and settling down ? Why do i have to take the risk and responsibility from marrying someone when their previous sexual partners didn't just to get the exact same thing or less than what their previous partners got from them without marriage without having to take the same risk or responsibilities likewise why the hell would a person want to do the exact same thing for me take on risk and responsibilities that my previous partners didn't have to just to get the same thing or less from me ? why should i give the best of years of my life to someone and devote myself to them when they didn't give the best years of their life to me and vice versa its so easy to get divorce nowadays and it's so easy for your spouse to cheat on you behind your back and have extra marital affair you might say for love but the divorce statistics clearly says that love doesn't last so what is the point ? back then people needed to get married and have sex to move in live together but nowadays they don't

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