I texted him after 2 months of being broken up that he was on my mind then he said I honestly dont know what else to tell you, you really offended me and the things you said about my family unbelivable. I said are you still on the past he said of course, the things you said about mom are you kidding me? no sorry I can't forgive that or allow that.I didn't respond to him then 10 min later he texted back My mom has the purest heart and for you to say those nasty things about her are you kidding me My mom has the purest heart and for you to say those nasty things about her are you kidding me I just said i'm not in the state to discuss the past nor do i want to. He said and thats fine but you should know why this will not work and why I won't allow myself to have feellings for you again. I didn't respond. I go to church where he's a d he's a deacon, and he constantly stares at me from the altar to where my friends and family notice and tell me. I don't look at him The only times i have i've given him a dirty look. It's been more than a month since that convo. He said something first about my mom fyi. Does he still have feelings or being dramatic? FYI in the past he's also said a lot of things and gone back on his word so idk if he's trying to be dramatic cause he keeps staring. I chased after he stopped chasing me so Idk if thinks he can get away with saying stuff like this. I said his mom had no voice in their family and he said at least she doesn't ocme to church dressed like she goes to the club and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable and that he doesn't buy her any new clothes. But he said it first. he shouldn't even look at me after all this...

My husband and I are going on vacation for a month. My almost 15 year olds are not old enough to be alone for a month. They can't drive and fight constantly. Do my older ones have the right to discipline them. They're both staying and our house for the month. Opinions?

I've been getting bullied pretty badly and it's not stopping. It's getting to the point where I can't even get out of bed. Any suggestions?

I'm from California but have been living in NYC for awhile now for school. I'm graduating soon & already have a job offer back home, but I'm not so sure if moving back is the right decision for me. I have a massive loan debt so living at home will be less stressful, as I can even save money every month. I'll also be with my family, but it just won't be as great as living in NYC. I'm going to miss the fun, excitement, independence that comes with living in NY. Ofc, I'll also miss my friends. So overall, I'm not really sure what's the best decision for me. I know my family would do anything to have me back, and it'll be great financially, but I just feel like I'll be missing out on something if I don't take the financial sacrifice and stay here. What would you guys do in my situation?

She told me she would keep me updated as time gets closer but she never did. She took back her house key also a few months ago after forgetting her key to get in the house. So i have no way of getting into the house. All she told me was "great we will keep in touch" and she never did. She wanted me to walk her dog/feed her from the 17th to the 25th. Should i wait to see if they text me again? I don't want to be a bother if shes busy and if they were going away don't you think they would remember?

Alle medie fui presa di mira da un gruppetto di ragazzi della mia classe, principalmente ero oggetto di insulti e scherzi di pessimo gusto e, ricordo, non so per qual motivo però, che uno di loro mi contattò su Messenger un giorno ed io risposi ma la conversazione rimase tranquilla, mi chiese dei compiti e qualcosa sul genere musicale che preferivo, niente di più. Il giorno dopo questo tizio iniziò a pavoneggiarsi con tutta la classe che aveva messaggiato in privato con me, come se fosse qualcosa di cui andare fiero. Fatto sta che, giorni dopo si sentì autorizzato a toccarmi là sotto, fra l'altro mentre gli stavo dietro durante l'ora di ginnastica e neanche lo stavo degnando di attenzioni. Per non parlare di quello che fecero durante tutto il resto dell'anno ovvero schiaffi sul sedere anche molto forti, strusciate contro di me e, tentativi di farmi toccare cose. Purtroppo allora non riuscii a dire nulla a nessuno (cosa di cui me ne pento ancora oggi) , neanche in famiglia, perché me ne vergognavo e avevo tremendamente paura di essere giudicata come quella "facile", "lurida", che si fa toccare da tutti. Fra l'altro, come si dicono queste cose?In qual contesto? Penso di essermela trascinata dietro questa zavorra: ancora oggi con il mio fidanzato, con il quale penso dovrebbe essere normale avere una certa intimità, avverto forte disagio, in particolar modo quando cerca di approcciarsi un po' più intimamente, mi viene da scansarlo. Non so come spiegarmi bene, ma vi prego di non scrivere cattiverie gratuite. Vorrei soltanto qualche consiglio.

What do I do? I asked him for some space because he asked me to reconsider breaking up. Every time I see him, he starts to cry so I can't do it. I'm so mad at him and I feel so numb inside and really just want to be in my bed. I don't know how to face him anytime soon. He's brought me to be depressed. He made me insecure and pointed out all my flaws. Threatened to leave me back when I loved him and created such anxiety for me. I'm at my lowest.

After 3 years, we are 25, I sometimes wonder why I'm with him. He has good qualities, he drives an hour to see me, he likes to help me around the house build stuff etc .he always make sure I'm fed but aren't these typical? The bad qualities about him is he's kind of not proud to be seen with me. I'm very ttractive but when there are other women around, he checks them out infront of me. He has tried to stop and I respect that but can you really change a person. Our first year together he uninvited me with his friends on a weekend trip because there was no space for me in the car and said he didn't want to stay behind with me because he didn't want to tell his friends, he wasn't going because I wasn't. He did eventually apologize. But I'm I just being bitter? Fridays he ignores my text (I don't constantly text. Just one text to see if he's okay) he texts me back the next afternoon. He knows I worry about him. He says he will tell me from now on that he is okay but he lies and says he forget to text back. Last year, took me out with his friends, they all speak a different language but a re fluent in English. I tried to talk with them but they ignored me. It was awkward time of my life, as my boyfriend did not awknowlege me either. He also apologized for this. Then, he invited me to his grad ceremony where he left me hanging with his mother the entire time as he spent time with his friends. I get it, his day but I didnt get to spend with him at all! I didn't see him.

What exactly does this mean? For one, he's really shy and quiet, he only really hangs out with his friends.. soooo, about two years ago me and him dated for about 1-2 months before I moved schools. Our relationship wasn't really that intimate, we didn't have sexual relations or anything related, we mostly just talked and we were really awkward with each other: (Kinda boring, I know) this year I moved back, I automatically regained those feelings back for him, we started to talk again and he always smiled, giggled, stared and blushed at me. But just this week, his friends started yelling at me to leave him alone and that "he already has a girlfriend" but someone else that knows him told me he didn't have a girlfriend. Everytime I try to sit next to him or talk with him he moves seats or walks away. He does continue to smile at me though and quickly looks away, he tells his friends he doesn't like me. He's stopped responding to my messages, I asked him if he liked me or not and he hasn't respond ever since. Can someone help? It's stressing me out considering I really like him. He's also knows I like him as I stated it many times to him, I once told him and he just sat there, smiling to himself without saying a word to me..

About a week ago, my boyfriend's best friend overdosed and, unfortunately, he could not be saved. I didn't know him very well, as he's on a different campus then us, but I know how much he meant to my boyfriend. I've never had a loved one die yet, so I don't know how he feels, which makes it very hard for me to know how to help him. He's obviously heartbroken and he doesn't seem to want to talk about it, but it's awkward to talk about other things...it's like the elephant in the room. So...how are you supposed to comfort someone who's grieving? It's such an awful situation and I just want to make my boyfriend feel better. Even if I can't do that, I'm honestly terrified of saying the wrong thing and making it worse.

His name is Blake. He and his lads were stereotypical jocks and bullied me a lot. He slammed the side of my body into a pencil holder twice and everyone in the hall laughed, sat on my face and farted, made me smell his armpits after P.E. class, hit me several times in class and in PE when the teachers werent paying attention, dunked my head in the boys toilet, spread rumors that I had "girl parts" and threatened to pants me in school to "expose me" in front of everyone causing me to skip like four days a week out of fear, and a bunch of other cruel things to me that I cannot list. Some of his cronies (I don't know if he did this but if he didn't he absolutely knew about it) started messaging me to kill myself since nobody likes me and how ugly and stupid I was. I actually ended up getting diagnosed before I was even a junior by my doctor. Anyway - we graduated way back and now he is basically a brand new person, we randomly ran into each other at the store and I didn't recognize him at all, he was so different and he even has a wife and young daughter now. He asked me when we were alone if we could talk about "some of the things he did" back in high school and I agreed. I know I shouldn't have, because I have a feeling that he will apologize (he looked extremely regretful and sounded guilty when he talked to me) and I don't know if I forgive him or not, should I?

Hi im new here My ex girlfriend broke up with me because i raise my voice to her twice , She was my best friend for 10 years but less communication . After she broke up with me later on I realized she was suffering anxiety disorder because of her past relationships what can i do to make her back again should i wait for her a week no contact?

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