I know the question sounds dumb, but it s serious. I have kind of fuxked her over for this shitty relationship I m in. She s mad at me because I put myself through it. She s mad because I let this girl destroy my self confidence and the destroy the person I am. She hates seeing me go through what I m going through. So she left me . she left my life and told me I m stupid. That it was tough love. Should I leave this girl and go for her? I think about her all day. But I m terrified if I try she is going to completely deny me. She has admitted she is in love with me. And she knows I m in love with her. I ve known her for 10 years. I miss her. I kind of creep on her profiles. I want her so badly but I m scared. And I feel so bad because I m with this girl I hate and I don t know how to leave. She s so mean yo me and I psychologically feel a need for her. She makes me feel hopeless like I m no good. What do I do, or better yet, what would you do?

So my mother in law is CRAZY and constantly attacks my husband (her son) and calls crying saying he's abandoning the family. (mind you, he comes ATLEAST once a week) So she called yesterday, yet again, saying these things on the phone, and so my husband later texted her that her accusations are hurtful and hes basically being punished by her for trying to be a good husband spending time with me, his wife. She now is texting me saying, "Im sorry that your husband having parents is inconvenient for you. Dont worry. We are gone. I will not be around people who do not want me. good luck have a nice life with my son...one final word of advice, dont have kids, theyll only break your heart." She thinks that because her husband is finally sticking up to her, that it is MY FAULT, as his wife. As if im stealing him from her. not only that, his younger sister, who lives with his mom and believes everything she says, messaged him saying, I wish you married your ex, atleast then you actually spent time with ME.....people I literally through a birthday party for this girl with my husband about a week ago....THESE PEOPLE ARE FREAKING RIDICULOUS, am I allowed to just move across the country with my husband and avoid them until the holidays come around every year, cause this is tearing me apart and driving me insane. its been going on like this since we got engaged last December. Not only that but its making my husband get frustrated a lot more, and even turning that frustration towards me more often. There is absolutely no reason these people should be allowed to tear my husband and my own wonderful marriage apart, as we both agree we have never been happier in our lives then since we have been together, but his own mother cant even be happy for him, and instead attacks him and puts him down on a weekly basis. Do you think it is a good idea for my husband and I to just ignore them and avoid seeing them for some time? His mother did say she doesn't want to see us again, so should we just give her what she wants (and what i want) for a while? I think time may heal things. thanks for reading my rant. I feel like I have no one right now, as this woman is attacking me texting these horrible things to me while my husband is currently at work.

Hey y'all. I'm trying to figure out if my kids father is still attracted to me and no I do not want him back but I've noticed some things and I wasn't sure if it was just me or no. He will literally just stare at me and no our child won't be near me when he does it, if he does talk to me he stares into my eyes hard I literally have to break contact because it freaks me out usually pretty friendly but if his wife comes around he immediately acts mad or annoyed and starts arguments when I've done nothing I'm just not confrontational and anytime I try to talk to him she jumps in to remind me that she's his wife, his better half, his other half the one he CHOSE and I've never cared about any of that. I'm just trying to establish communication and a friendship with him for the sake of our son but he makes it impossible. We've been done for years and I just want to be able to get along for the sake of baby boy. I started thinking he wants me to be jealous because whenever he says "my wife" he starts laughing. I don't want things to be awkward but I just don't understand having to go through her. But she told me I was being petty and childish because I should discuss with her if I can't with him. I wouldn't even ask but the gazing when she's not there, his tone, demeanor everything is just different

After 30 years of being a faithful stay at home wife and mother to our kids and dealing with being put out onto the street because of his drug addiction...I overhear him trlling his grown married cousin ...if you need money ...I got ur ba c k. And he wont give me a dime. I feel like I serioisly eant to hurt him? Never thought I coild ever feel this way. Somebody plrase. I need some help?

He doesn't seem to realize how difficult my parents are. My father is and was abusive my whole life to my mother, and verbally to me. My mother is sadly an addict but has her good days and I believe she's a wonderful person that didn't have the courage or means of getting out of her abusive marriage... I hate my father, but love my mom but sometimes i'd rather not visit because 1) my father constantly tells me insults about my husband whenever he gets mad and frankly, I want nothing to do with him. 2) it's just really unsettling trying to enjoy time with my mom only to realize 5 mins in that she's high off of something and can't act normal. I don't have a good relationship with my parents. My mom is difficult because I love her but I can't deal with her acting like that. Majority of my childhood, all throughout adolescence... I want to get away from all that. My husband doesn't seem to REALLY get it because when I call or text everything sounds and is nice. Is it weird of me to tell him I don't want us ever visiting my parents? Or if I want to visit then it's JUST me, not him. Would that make you feel bad if you were in his place? They've alllll met before, and yes he knows everything about them and my past with them. I just don't want him to ever see my parents because in the end that goes allllll on me.

If your father was married to another woman before he married another woman (your mother) and had you, what relation is the ex-wife to you?

Suppose a couple who dated for 3+ years and they get married and 5 years down the line, they get divorced. Why does that happen usually? Even if the couple lived together prior to marriage?

He has a small penis and it was ok before the birth but now I just can't feel him in me I darent tell him because he's hung up about his small penis as it is. Will my vagina tighten up again ?

My family and in-laws say the reason why my husband is aggressive and violent is because I'm a selfish a$$hole who doesn't care about him and uses profanity. He and all of them think that it's wrong for a female to be driven and ambitious. It makes her rude and impolite and good guys like him abuse mean/bad girls like me. Is it wrong for a man to abuse a woman just because she's a mean/bad person? @YPBMFM-It's conservative victim-blaming by my family, husband, and in-laws.

I pursue them fall deeply in love with them, care and trust them but after several sex sessions it fades and I have to move on. Single, married old young pretty plain all the same! Is this a condition?

I mention going to hawaii, he responds with "Why, there are plenty enough things to see here in the USA"....he like driving, I have driven every road with him for miles ad miles around where we live...Redwood, drove to see the Grand Canyon, but all of these road trips were done WELL over 12 years ago...He is a very boring person anymore....selfish also. If I do plan a vacation in Hawaii or ?...all the while getting there, being there, he will complain...yes, he drives me nuts...he just wants to hang around the guys...we have a tree business....that is ALL I hear about alllllll day long, all year long, I need a break...what would YOU do...I take him I absolutely know he would ruin my vacation, yet if I vacation without him, he will be pissed right before I leave, will state I will be sorry...what now? Yes, don't tell me he is an azzhole, (hate calling him that) he does work hard, but...there are more things in life to do....I need a break, he knows it, but yet does nothing, shows NO interest in taking a vacation, IT HAS BEEN YEARS....please no smart *** answers, don't need that, need a solution....leave him how do you do that after being married for over 25 years. His daughter got married in Hawaii, he of course went and paid for that, unfortunately, my husband was on crutches, all we did was SIT in the ROOM for a week....

When I asked him about the first pair I found, he claimed it was one time he stole them from the Laundry room and it was just to jack off onto. But now a month later I found he had a whole bag full of women's underwear. For those who have a fetish with panties, do you like having selection to choose from? That's his reason for having a whole bag full of them. He said he's been collecting them for months, yet the first time I caught him he said it was one time thing. So obviously he's a liar and I don't know what to believe. Is he gay? Cross dresser? Has a panty fetish? Or cheating and keeping his girls panties..idk?