why should they be forced to marry people they don't like?

My wife was watching Helter Skelter she can't sleep now. She said she's not watching anymore scary movies before bed especially if they're real. We heard the deadbolt on the door move but the door didn't open the only ones that are in the house are us her parents our friend and our cat. She's freaking out she's shaking she's trying to be quite as she can. I'm a little scared myself. I think her parents or our friend probably locked the door we always lock our doors at night. She's still a little scared. I would go out and look but like I said I'm kind of scared to. I don't hear anything. How can I calm her down ?

Today at work one of my co-workers had a fight with her boyfriend that also works there which happens to be 2 people that I'm close with. Tonight he confessed his love to me outside and told me that he likes me and hates his girlfriend ..I always thought that they had a perfect relationship up until now.. I had no idea that he liked me when all we used to talk about was his relationship.. Please help? Its a big secret and of course I refused not to date him even after he asked me out.

When a husband listens to his wife once she gives him a stern look? And he just goes "okay" and stops doing or saying whatever he was. I see couples all of the time where this is the case. They also tell their husbands how much junk/fast food they can eat or drink and the husband listens to them.

My granpa was addicted to chocolates. I found him eating several bars each day. My grandma also found a stash where he keeps all his choclates at, we found 15 bars! One night when I went over I found my grandpa eating 5 bars of white chocolate, so I went up to him to ask him if hes okay. He told me to not tell anyone but he dislikes my grandma and wants a divorce. What should I do? He told me to keep it a secret but I can't keep it in or look at him the same. He also got a girl pregnant. Hes 65 years old. I dunno what to do. Also is 9+10=21 ???

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times. He literally doesn't take his eyes off me my family says...confused. My friends say it's a longing stare

I caught him from a video on his phone he lied to me about it. He keeps going back he will quit then go back. Im pissed. Hes been in drug treatment seven times and we have a little boy. Please help?

I married the man i fell in love with, it was arranged. The next day of our wedding he says he loved a girl and he was about to propose but her marriage got fixed to someone else and he hasnt forgotten ger ever since. I feel one sided, stressed, hopeless and feel like he doesnt love me back. His smile gets bright everytime he thinks of her and had sweetest memories when he was friends with her. I feel so depressed n cry all the time. Opinions? Help me feel better

My husband has a history of lying to me. I waz recently snooping. Found some stuff in his twitter search bar under recent searches. He says he hasn't used it or done anything. So I'm wondering. Could this be old? How long do recent searches stay on Twitter before disappearing? Or at least the recent searches that pop up when you click the search bar. I'm ready to leave. I have been for a while. We have a 1 1/2 year old. And I have medical problems that make it impossible to work. So I'm stuck. We have been trying to get better. And have been better recently. It's still hard for me to trust him. Especially when he lied for so long. Is it recent? Like days, weeks, months? Or is it just there from whenever? I'm against porn. PTSD issues make it a HUGE issue for me. He knows this. Sexual assault as a kid... And things... Can really trigger an attack. So that's one of things that's a rule. No porn. I bought him toys too specifically to try and help this so I wasn't being affected. Just need to know. Is this actually recent? Before I snap on his alcoholic *** again.

If you common law married already, can you get legally marry to someone else ? Edit

I look at other men in front of my husband who is obsessed with me and my family thinks women who do that are bad wives (or wife material) if they do. I know someone who ogled other men in front of her boyfriend and her boyfriend punched her around for it which my family and husband think is disrespectful as if women are supposed to self-sacrificing for men, which they are not willing to do because men are bossy sons-of-b***hes who are entitled and won't tolerate women gawking at other men, even actors and male models on TV, movie screens, and ads since they not only want the women to themselves but rather, their feelings are fragile due to competition and cattiness with other men, whether it be family, colleagues, peers, etc. @Thales-Feminists objectify men and get abused

Me and my husband just got married yesterday. We don't have time for a honeymoon right now. We're both really busy. I do theater I'm in a play right now I got rehearsal every week he's in a band he and his band practice everyday almost 6 to 7 hours a day. We were thinking maybe waiting to Christmas to go on our honeymoon. Do you have to have one right away ?

Ever since my husband and I got married we've had problems with my family, mostly my mom. She didn't like that when we got married, I went to live in a mobile home in my in-laws property. When our first child was born, she got upset because my husband told her to leave the room. It's been 4 years and my mom is still not over that. It's been years since she has been to my house. She has missed my daughters birthdays. My husband doesn't think he did anything wrong, We agreed to not have both our family's in the room together so when his family was coming in. He asked my mom to leave. He refuses to apologize. Now, I became a US Citizen and want to petition for my parents, but my husband is very upset because he says that I shouldn't be doing this for them if they do nothing for me. My parents need for me to to this really bad but my husband wants them to come over so we can try to fix things. I know my mom as stubborn as she is she won't want to come over. I completely understand my husband and I believe he is right, but they are my parents and regardless what they do or don't do I feel like I need to help them.